Se: Track the NF!

Skylar Grey here has cut off all her hair and she's gone off to her cabin in the woods as all ExxJs eventually do. The takeaway from this video is: Where in life are you only tracking the ST sensor report but not the actual NF of what the other person is really feeling.
You get the ST for free but you have to be looking for and tracking the NF if you really want to be there for the people in your life. They probably aren't going to tell you in ST, dummy.
Just don't start expecting anyone to track your NF. You're going to have to spell it out.
Get the full video at www.ObjectiveP...

[@caiden3396]

There's something called the spotlight effect which is the psychological phenomenon by which people tend to believe they are being noticed more than they really are. It's surprising what a person can get away with without people noticing or caring.🙂

[@jaywalks9918]

At some point Dave has to get Fe. He can't keep missing it.

[@SS-bu8ez]

That's his trickster function. The trickster is everyone's blind spot.

[@fazerhaze2705]

Skylar just tries to share her reasons why she cuts her hair and Dave sabotages her...? I know NF is important but I don't get what Dave is trying to prove here. Is it because Skylar shares ST stuff and Dave become apeshit about it? Funnily enough, I understand every single word Skylar says here. Maybe this video is meant for him more than Skylar. Check your ST.

[@mjfanta1915]

​@@fazerhaze2705 I think you're missing the point. He's trying to warn people who would hear the ST and mistype her. "But I tracked the ST!" they would cry. The ST is free. Everybody at some point has to give some ST to get through the world we live in, and an NF is going to try to do it just justify their behavior to others. He's saying track the NF instead. That's where you'll catch the type.

[@SS-bu8ez]

@fazerhaze2705 No, what Dave is saying is important, although I agree it doesn't apply in this particular scenario. However, what he's saying I've that happen as well. NTs and STs aren't the best, so it makes sense if they misconstrue the intentions. For example, when Elon Musks' first wife was grieving the death of her child, he told her to stop crying and emotionally manipulating him. Sometimes, thinkers can really seem Autistic especially if they grew up in an environment where they did not learn to emote.

[@Jenfinity]

You can tell that she's less than okay and they seem aware that they are less than equipped to help her in any meaningful way. But the "New York" comment seems like a weak attempt to show care anyways.

[@juanluissanjose7535]

The Thumbnail 😂

[@zenex133]

I laughed out loud when I finally got it 😂

[@flux1940]

great video !!

[@PrachiNamdev-yo8mr]

I have an intj classmate and dude her nose is same as yours , lol. She is super cute.

[@actazrath5878]

Yeah, I did wonder what the use of you.

[@PrachiNamdev-yo8mr]

They are aristocrats in socionics and these people think that way .

[@RealnessEternal]

Her shaving her hair is a way of reducing conflict with WOMEN (not men!). She sounds like she has a spiritual existential thing going on and she is aware that becoming a deeper person will put her in conflict with the tribe which she fears. She needs to understand herself, get a better tribe and then make herself pretty again.

[@wisamrohilina3006]

I can see that, esp with her more masculine feature & demeanor.. she is not yet in peace with her feminine side of

[@woodnymph3063]

she's already pretty

[@RealnessEternal]

@@woodnymph3063 I agree that she is pretty. I think that is the reason why she has shaved her hair. Often attractive women have to worry about the envy of other women inspiring hatred. and this is a not very conscious way of minimising that.

[@Joe-sg9ll]

I'm doing the opposite right now. scraggly beard and hair to my shoulders. what does that mean?

[@Joe-sg9ll]

same or no

[@Jenfinity]

:D