SECOND CHANCES & BOUNCING BACK FROM A FAILED MARRIAGE FT SANDRA IHEUWA |S4EPS015

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There are 4 main personalities on the show - Nedu, Husband Material, Deity Cole, and Naomi. The cast members bring their unique individual personalities and wit to the show. Occasionally, a guest is brought on to share opinions on topics tailored to their experiences, interests, or personalities.
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[@joeldaniel7041]

Any marriage without God is zero,God first in everything before you put head

[@soccerbants4876]

BB was class today, Nedu’s boldness in asking the tough questions makes this podcast thick

[@sir_pee_91]

The striking resemblance between Toun and that other lady is 💯 Similar voices too.

[@nma-hajia6652]

Husband material is a very intelligent man. God bless him

[@joshuaojo7120]

His ability to stay on track with his questions even when they try to digress is mind-blowing .

[@chinenye.u]

He is super intelligent. Top guy.

[@The-Jay02]

Thank you to the hosts for talking about her achievements and accomplishments as well. So the world won't define her only by her bad marriages. None of us is perfect...it's just easier to point fingers.

[@MonicaEzue]

As someone who has experienced divorce, I think more of us need to own how soul shattering it can be. Many people make the mistake of channeling all their energy into business and blaming the other person, that there is no room for self reflection and true inner healing. What ends up happening is that you will pick the next person from the same broken place and also carry the same unhealed hurt and behavior into the next situation. We also need to recognize that God won’t breathe life into every situation, are we truly seeking Him before entering?

[@OlayinkaAkinyemi-ty8cy]

Well spoken

[@quirkccentric]

👏🏿

[@InspirationsPlusPlus]

As much as I agree with you ma'am, the are also cases of people who sought God and knew they were being led into this relationship/marriage who equally wished they had a chance at divorce. So, something could be a fundamental problem then.

[@MonicaEzue]

@@InspirationsPlusPlus My reflections were based on what was shared by the guest in this video and the experience I have of counseling people who have divorced. These things are never black and white. BUT there is a reason why the divorce rate for people in their second marriage is even higher than the divorce rate for 1st marriages. It takes two to tango, the hardest thing is despite what has been done to you, being able to be accountable for your own mistakes. Even if the other person did so many things wrong, if you examine what led you to pick that person in the first place, you will find things to work on. Healing takes time and commitment. Finding a destiny partner takes discernment and spiritual wisdom. I agree with your point though and I believe that God can take what the enemy meant for evil and our destruction, and turn it around for our good. I’ve seen that in my own life.

[@InspirationsPlusPlus]

@MonEforever Most definitely, ma'am! Well said. I personally believe marriage is sacred. Whether you're a Christian or not. It therefore behoves on the individual to look beyond euphoria and be intentional about that process. It is very important also for an individual to be and also feel enough in and within themselves.

[@orerowaye8643]

I don't know if it's just me but I only watch this podcast because of Toun. Her voice, energy and how she engages the guest screams perfection. Keep soaring baby girl ❤❤❤❤❤ you are making us proud

[@shallybenson9050]

Some people sound intelligent till they start talking… The new lady is a great host.

[@benjaminschiv]

Financial freedom is what I desire to help my woman to acquire before I marry her. I don't want her to be dependent

[@chiamakaslifestyle3868]

I always look out for husband material introduction 😅😅😂😂 it's so hilarious 😂

[@El-PetersAuthor]

When Nedu said one should be able to “stay/leave alone” before venturing into any serious relationship! I felt that✊🏾✊🏾

[@DamiJoyce]

Iswear learn to be/stay/lonely in peace😂nothing beat that

[@ayeniolamide6109]

This new girl knows how to ask the right questions. I love herrrr. Sandra is saying a lot of nothing. She's holding back a lot and I'm not sure she's also taking accountability for her rash decisions especially with her 2nd marriage

[@Blessing.E.godwin]

I'm telling u, she's literally just beating around the bush! I can see the guilt and denial in her eyes

[@thiscorneroflifewithefefrances]

Nedu hitting the nail on the head like he just don't care. Brilliantly anchored. Sandra's reasons for marrying Royal hair was shallow lets be honest. She was more after societal placement, appearances, than what really truly matters.

[@okechukwuerinne2039]

And she's in denial of that fact

[@thiscorneroflifewithefefrances]

@@okechukwuerinne2039 Absolutely

[@mykee4real]

God bless you for the statements

[@mykee4real]

Fact @@okechukwuerinne2039

[@Shalewaa_]

Thank you.

[@Sylvia_blissful-balance]

Who is that new gorgeous lady? She is beauty and brain. Love how she articulates and how smart her questions are 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@suleimanevuti]

Husband material is a star. An absolute Brilliant & mature chap

[@olivejobs331]

Nedu, you were 100% correct in this podcast.

[@anipaul9166]

Lol you notice how when Nedu brought Reality to her she became Quiet cos it was obvious she married for very shallow reasons 😭😭

[@fnm2156]

I miss zinny posh, Ezinne mumny

[@oaraharry7289]

I love the partnership of Nedu and Husband material

[@EghosaStanley-hx9ix]

This woman nor dey talk truth oo. Thank you nedu for the questions.

[@abdullahimustapha2559]

😂😂😂 sure... nah lie full her mouth

[@konboyeevelyn73]

I love this lady in black.....she's so calm and intelligent ❤❤❤

[@Fada_Ebubedike]

In so far as marriage is concerned, both genders are going through a lot. It's not one sided thing.

[@dumadan7561]

This lady can't decide what she wants. One minute she says cheating is her deal breaker, next she says as long as she's in the know. Which is it?

[@DeenChild]

It depends on what your definition of cheating... Hers is as long as she's on the know, she's cool.

[@hannahackerman5017]

Yes right? She is kind of weak emmotionaly

[@rootsrags9404]

I feel like people don't often check who their partners are in real life due to the pressure of marriage 💍 and marrying early it tends to affect down the line In marriage

[@blessingikwunze1025]

Marriage majorly entails COMMITMENT, LOYALTY AND SACRIFICE. That said, stop saying men can, or are permitted to have other women. if you want so many women, don't commit to one. It's that simple, you must not be married. Some men baffle me tbh, you can't eat your cake and have it, marriage is commitment! GO IN AND STAY TO YOUR VOWS, OR STAY OUT!!! This life is not hard! ❤&💡

[@joykelechinjoku]

is it just me or does anyone seem to notice how articulate and well spoken this Nedu is? men i'm kinda crushing hard ooo... i used to see him in this comedy light and not really being a fan of comedy, i hardly noticed him but ever since i started watching his podcast on Facebook the guy they get me seriously, i had to even trace the real page on here. hes good i swear...

[@kyrianuwandu1162]

Chinedu is actually a gifted person. He is one of those unappreciated genius. He is very intelligent and very versatile in his creative elements.

[@DamiJoyce]

📌I’m a fan crushing on his intelligence 😂

[@joykelechinjoku]

@@kyrianuwandu1162 yes and the way that guy speaks! Lord! Sends me to oblivion 🤣🤣🤣🤣 how he switch between accent and language reminds me of me but mehn the man is good. Wish I can meet him some day .

[@joykelechinjoku]

@@DamiJoyce lol....I have recently developed a huge crush on him ooooo. And I don't crush on people easily oooo I'm sapiosexual so once I find that intelligence damn I just fall 😭

[@biggerb01]

Anything that involves two people. Be it relationships, partnerships, cohabitation or wedding. All takes a CONSCIOUS EFFORT for it to blossom. Takes two willing parties to make it flourish. Love is a starting weapon but Understanding, communication and Friendship are the lifetime ammunition required to stay put and develop together. Lastly HUMILITY!! For God is FOREVER and Humans role is to stay TOGETHER. You guys always coming hard everytime. Much ❤️

[@chidionuchukwu265]

That's a fact on point❤❤❤❤

[@chidionuchukwu265]

You're wise

[@biggerb01]

​@@chidionuchukwu265🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@biggerb01]

​@@chidionuchukwu265​@chidionuchukwu265 Thank you, broda. Wisdom though, "should" stem from experiences over time. We all are🙏🏾

[@austella007]

The lady on black close to Nedu is very intelligent .....

[@emekaraphael4292]

Hi Nedu, I love that you later put the thing you said about women being higher than a man in proper context. Women are emotionally higher than men, but holistically God made men higher than women. When women see themselves “higher” than a man, then it becomes difficult to submit.

[@EmyIbifik]

No one is ever equal. Believe me there are women higher than you in most aspect (IQ, emotionally ,IPS) you might be physically stronger but in sane clime physical strength may count less or even primitive

[@bodeprime]

I love BB.... She ticks all the boxes for me. A beautiful wise woman who knows how to disagree with you and you will be cool with it. Full of wisdom and intellect. I am now a fan. Please what's her handles?

[@ifeanyinonyelu904]

Honestbunch podcasts is always a good experience to behold. Teaching more than our famous universities with practical and real life experiences. Bibiana has a lovely smile with Eloquence too. I see her skills with constructive questions to our quest today. ZINNPOSH seem to be in Umuahia she was absent on this episode?

[@nathanielvictoria3214]

Honestly, Sandra is looking below herself, and that is what attracts her to the kind of men that come around her. To be an understanding woman does not mean you should be loose. Sandra, you need to rediscover and place value on yourself.

[@quirkccentric]

This Sandra lady needs to see a "Therapist".

[@OluwabukolaTY]

She has gotten used to accepting disrespect.

[@hannahackerman5017]

​@@OluwabukolaTY yeeees right? She is exepting all for the sake of picture perfect life

[@olubukolahajek1763]

OMG!! I am elated, energised and encouraged by this podcast.. Thank you guys .. Wow !!! Sandra thanks for being so open about your experience . Nedu,please consider a career in counselling . Your words are powerful and they hit where necessary.My wings kept rising each time you spoke , I am beginning to soar..😂😂😂

[@GistandRiposte-xh1vy]

I learnt alot from this episode.. Nedu dropped gems Bb herself has been through the furnace looking to see what this births. Keep ur head up...what doesn't kpai u makes you stronger! It is well!😊

[@adeola9857]

Loved seeing Toun on here, missed her face and how easily guests are at ease with her :) my baby forever

[@user-zu3wk5ng6p]

Nedu kudos jare and the lady sitting next to nedu is super intelligent... You put her in a spot.. you can tell she knows what she was getting into in her previous marriages... Now she's just trying to paint all her ex black

[@shinorambo1194]

y'all should bring verydarkman up next he is intelligent and he speaks well. I'm sure if you bring any topic up he will counter it pls don't sleep on him.

[@DavidEzekielTitus]

Seconded

[@isaacchinedu6577]

He will bring him soon...na y he go meet am to do video

[@kennethideh1093]

He is not in good terms with Nedu, so it's practically impossible

[@adeleyemathew2112]

@@kennethideh1093 you are very wrong. I doubt you're on Instagram

[@UrbanBoy1]

I don’t think he’s in good terms with them

[@ST4RYT342]

The lady in the black gown speaks like Kami Nnamani. I love her Poise

[@chinezemadu3843]

Also looks like her too

[@christianairoha2455]

You guys sure know how to keep me glued to your podcast. Always giving premium content. Thanks for making every conversation worth the while. Weldon guys. You're all doing well😂😂👍👍😍😍

[@chukwudianusionwu3314]

BB did it for me in this episode, beautiful and articulate. thoughtful as well

[@user-ch2db7te6j]

who is BB?

[@ujuesther2113]

Thanks so much for opening up, I learnt Alots from this and it will help me. I enjoyed this so much. Not sure is Sandra fault her marriages didn’t work, she Sounds so sweet.

[@user-ny2tz4jz7p]

Toun killed it in this episode, you can feel her confidence and it's obvious she is very emotional intelligent. She always knows how to ask the right questions. She is the best host oh this show. Hands down 👏🏾✨✨❤❤❤❤

[@abayomiajibike6874]

She’s holding the truth back.

[@dammyshield993]

Yeah shes holding somethings back 😅

[@nnaemekanwosu4229]

She is holding accountability back

[@joshuamoneroagbo8060]

She is so holding it like its her life... She is not willing to let the truth out at all

[@chidiasiegbu41]

I concur...Half truth being fronted.

[@user-nf9bb1fs4j]

Ayyy how can God give Toun beauty, brains, talent, class 😍😍😍✨ Just listen to how she converses with the guests and her co-host. Babe you are too much 👏🏾✨✨✨

[@mikekini8673]

I have learned a lot this episode, especially, especially on the aspect of Emotions thanks to Sandra for sharing her story and thanks to this podcast ❤❤

[@arsydigital]

I really enjoyed the episode majorly because of Toun. She has the class and vibe. ❤❤❤ I hope she sees this, keep it up babe. Let your voice be always heard 👏🏾👏🏾✨

[@freakyevolutions]

Thank you very much to the entire team, so much education from this program. ❤

[@olaajala8962]

Thanks for this real talk. I'm hooked on its authenticity 100%

[@menjalialino6379]

Our society has put material before practically everything.

[@mathematicsphysicsandengin5910]

This podcast sha always bring me every monday, I am sure my 2hours today here should worth it

[@enemifechukwu3315]

nedu and BB make a very good combo in asking questions

[@adorableotedola2777]

BB IS THE PROMAX OF TOUN….BB IS A 🧠 WITH BEAUTY…nor be by frog voice wen toun get….

[@user-jg2qe8ce3m]

Next week, Husband material must come without a cap !!

[@chikaiwuoha503]

This BB girl is solid , articulate and asks the right questions, i love her .

[@ST4RYT342]

Yall saw how Macaulin Culkin thanked his fiance Brenda Song during his Hollywood walk of Fame. And we all know dt guy has been through alot from an abusive dad, to a stunged drug addict he looked like vegetable but see how good he looks now coz he found the right partner and we can see the healthy friendship he has with his spouse. He told her u r the best person i know thanks for giving me purpose n a family to come bk to. Tk time n Courtship is very important. If they d gi u red light takam n walk away no say sometime e go change to green light n u go marry😅

[@user-mn8ur2rw4n]

I do really enjoyed the show ... another eye opener... also kudos to our eldest brother ... sir Nedu teaching on conceive, believe and achieve was super amazing thank you guys

[@user-cx2is6se5j]

This topic truly captivated my wife and me throughout the entire two-hour conversation. To be honest, in this episode, it appears that Nedu might be carrying some emotional baggage from his past relationships. I couldn't help but notice how he often flatters women, praising them as the best thing to ever happen to the world, only to pivot and ask the guest unexpected questions, such as what she did that may have led to her marriage's failure. On a different note, it's clear that Nedu and Bibi have a strong connection; he couldn't seem to keep his hands off her. And let's not forget how stunning Bibi is and how brilliantly she assists Nedu in rephrasing some of his questions. I hope she continues to be a part of the show. In my assessment of Sandra, it appears she may prioritize material wealth and is open to being with the highest bidder, which might explain the failure of most of her relationships. It seems the rest of the cast shares this observation, judging by their reactions. As she gets older, it's unlikely she'll change for the better. Further more, as a current staff of Bank of America, i can say that working here is not that impressive, na only for 9ja she fit use that one as flex. I must say, the day Deity Cole says something positive about men on this podcast, I'll be hosting a giveaway. Nevertheless, overall, this remains an incredible podcast to watch. Great job, guys!

[@omotolaajayitv]

🤣🤣🤣🤣deity Cole. Sandra was too laid back,,, she behaved as if she wasn’t aware that her previous marriages will be talked about. She also so blind to see her mistakes. Also, there has to be something in her that attracts her to narcissists. For example, You can’t date 3 yahoo boys and tell me nothing is wrong with you yourself.

[@YvonneApril-hy6ny]

Then you must be selective with the episodes you watch. Better start doing giveaway

[@user-cx2is6se5j]

@@YvonneApril-hy6ny well i have been following them for the better part of this year, every Monday they are the first on my TL when i open youtube, but i stand corrected, if you can reference me to the episodes she said positive things about men, i will fulfill my obligation

[@user-cx2is6se5j]

@@omotolaajayitv Honestly, i assumed Sandra should have gotten a bit of heads up about the questions she would be asked, because she seemed thrown off, and sometimes she was avoiding the questions. i went on her instagram and i understand why she is getting those narcissist men, the ukwu is ukwu-ing, and i think she has always been selfish about what she wants in a relationship, and low key to the level of narcissism, na why she dey steady chop breakfast

[@omotolaajayitv]

@@user-cx2is6se5j you are smart. You get it right.

[@marianogbodo9811]

The way my bf spend time watching this every Monday you’ll think there is an award attached to it. This podcast has become our Monday night ritual when he gets back from the gym😂😂

[@chrisnwosu833]

Are u speaking about me cos I do same after gym on a Monday

[@chisomojukwu2728]

Yay to the SA trip for the team - y'all have worked hard for it and even more. God bless Africa! 😜🤣

[@rexeddizy]

This was definitely a good-watch. I learnt something significant after seeing this. Big Ups HB Team!

[@edimepeace5583]

Honest bunch podcast 👍 Always worth my time ❤❤❤

[@carewqudus-yj6cw]

This Sandra of a girl is not brilliant as much as they presented her…..and she’s holding back alot of truth……and obviously she’s marrying aloe dating these men for some personal reasons known by her…..Kudos to nedu you really did well in this episode…..the other girls are holding up their questions guess they don’t want to spill it

[@ikechukwuenekwe330]

You are so observant 😅

[@abdullahimustapha2559]

Yes, from sure....

[@masculinityorientation790]

Na person when even marry the single mother i blame

[@augustineanastasia6516]

Don't spill rubish about people you don't no, madam Sandra is the best i no her in person and have lived with her

[@ifeanyimatthew6855]

Even before I start watching I know it would be an amazing Episode

[@patrickokpokem2032]

Now a big fan 💯💯💯

[@euniceagboifoh6979]

It’s an interesting episode but can she hold herself accountable for her actions

[@thiscorneroflifewithefefrances]

Nedu you are a FORCE!!! BRILLIANT QUESTIONS 👏 👏

[@karoakortha4243]

I dont normally comment but this conversation is deep on so many levels

[@RalphLion]

Thumbs up to Nedu. There’re some questions only him can ask a guest. Well done…

[@abrahamjoy523]

I really enjoyed this,very educative,well-done guys

[@chiamakaslifestyle3868]

Beautiful episode as usual. And yes oo thank you to those bloggers. Because most times when I see those short clips I always run to KZbin to watch the full episode. Weldone Guys

[@damioke6212]

Where’s Ezinne o? I love her takes on topics

[@AfriMartUK]

Nedu is a man of wisdom . On this topic nedu was so on point and real . Well done bro Nedu. We love u @afrimartuk

[@user-ty7nj7do5c]

This was a good-watch. I definitely learnt something here. Big Ups great HB Team

[@anitabisong2383]

I learnt a lot. Nice job people!

[@amadujunior1412]

From personal experience, when a woman says a man has a problem with her being outspoken.. she actually means “why does he have a problem with me being disrespectful”. This sandra girl is most probably a very disrespectful person and that’s what all these men hate about her for them to leave. It’s never simply about not liking an outspoken woman…. All these other things she is saying are just the trivial things. The real thing is she is a disrespectful person!

[@peterumelaiye5277]

First tine here, i love this already from d 1st 5 minutes. U guys rock

[@smarthustlersclub6375]

The thing is, finding that humble rich guy is harder compare to making heaven cos most guys aitn't humble and women aitn't looking at an average guy. This should be an eye opener for many out there, ladies i am saying

[@patrickagori3537]

Hope they've not replaced Ezinne oo. Please bring back my Ezi mummy.

[@fabiannwaeke]

Flat tummy loading... I dare not skip introduction

[@iammruncle]

Very interesting and educating. Honest bunch podcast honestly doesn't disappoints.

[@pha2tshedzomudau106]

Honest Bunch! S/O from SA 🇿🇦. 🔌Podcast and Chill is another great podcast for those who love great conversations like this.

[@blissd3774]

The truth is that most women don't know what they want and they are afraid to tell themselves the truth. Just like this woman that has failed 3 marriages. She is after money and names . She wasn't actually looking for true love ❤️.

[@freedomokhiku1302]

This bibi girl is more than smart

[@adebayomoyosoreadeniyi2711]

How will relationships/marriages work with constant mindsets of "on to the next"? A selfish generation with constant EMOTIONAL AMNESIA

[@nwobodosweezy9345]

This episode was insightful and very educative as always especially when nedu said if you can't be alone , don't go into relationship E get why💯

[@judithejims5666]

This is the second podcast I've seen. The first was that of Helen Paul. I must say, you guys are so cool.

[@QuotationCandles]

Nedu Nedu i am liking you o. you are entering my eye

[@festusekeanyanwu7812]

Nedu pls it will be good when you give others chance to opt out their own opinion, u are blessed ijn Amen.

[@only1jaycee]

But but why is n’éduqua not bringing his own marriage issue as life experience. Cuz if I was in this girls shoes I probably would have thrown some of those questions back at him

[@miriamisa7646]

I love the new lady, wanna make her my mentor, guardian cos I love everything about her, she is so pretty, smart, outspoken and she articulate every words In simplicity and lexical😮😮😮😮😮😮😮wanna have her charisma someday 😢😢😢😢😮😮

[@MetrogypsieS]

It takes a strong woman to leave than to stay. Nedu stop asking her what is it about her?

[@barbarahonnah9313]

Desperation is highly responsible most times for the exact situation. Sandra doesn’t seem to learn from her previous mistakes. She is still refusing to take accountability for her mistakes and keeps apportioning blames.

[@user-jw1ci6ql7n]

Nedu I no understand you today oo , we go invite nedu make him explain wetin happen between him and his ex

[@realtorUcheHQ]

The questions here were unbelievably raw and direct and I loved this episode but hey never thought I would spend this long time to watch - must have been so powerful to get me glued. 90% of women from failed marriages get insecure because society is harsh on them….most likely get into another abusive one if they don’t seek healing first. It’s tough!

[@eguono9057]

Same storyline always

[@precioustayo5312]

💯 💯

[@TrailerShowcase]

Pastor Nedu 😊

[@mikekini8673]

It takes two to tangle and for two to tangle you both have to accept your weaknesses and work towards them.

[@dorabroderick8031]

Okay guys imagine the honest brunch with out Toun’s honesty 🥲🤦🏽‍♀️ babe be slaying the facts brutally😂!!! I literally look forward to a new episode just to hear her opinions 😂❤❤🎉 PS : The honest brunch Rocks ‼️‼️🔥🥰

[@AllenTamara]

Today's episode is one of my best episode,thank you guys.

[@lindaigboeli2931]

HonestBunch. Take your flowers.🎉 Una too much 🔥

[@AfriMartUK]

I love this new girl, she is blessed with common sense , wow she is blessed and reasonable. I miss ezi nne oo but this girl is on another level. Lets have her always pls

[@hopee.968]

Please, where did Ezinne go?