Second Date Update: She Didn't Pass His "Tests"

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

Wow this is crazy! What’s even more crazy is that guys like this are the norm and they are everywhere. Being ghosted should not even be a thing. A good communicator will follow up with you either way and to me that’s the least you can do when a person gives you their time. Dating is so hard and having to deal with guys like this makes me question if love is even worth all the bs you have to go through to find it

[@micklaube3750]

The girl isn’t going to pick where to eat cuz she doesn’t know how much he wants to spend

[@debbiegum2226]

Usually a guy will make reservations (or plan out) 2 different restaurants and then ask the girl which restaurant she’d like to go to

[@stephanieme228]

​@@debbiegum2226 I've never had anyone do that but it's a good idea

[@sammydog500]

😊​@@debbiegum2226

[@laurancurtis7853]

WOW! This guy sure thinks a lot of himself, Meredith definitely dodged a bullet. If he's like this on the first date I can't even imagine how judgmental he would be in the future!

[@tmltuckerfan]

My thoughts exactly

[@DianeWilliamsCurvyGoddess]

His test is helping him choose the wrong woman. 😂🤣🤣

[@priscillamerrow996]

I do not envy anyone in the dating world. This guys sounds like most stuck up person. Maybe we'll see him on 'Married at First Sight' someday because it's the only way he'll ever get a woman past the first date.

[@sarahpeyton1640]

BARF!!! This dude would 💯 FAIL MY test. When a guy asks YOU out and he expects YOU to come up with the place and expects YOU to pay when HE invited YOU. I could puke in my mouth. Dude will be single forever. Also it sounds like he’s a total narcissist!

[@emgunz88]

This ain’t Build-a-Bitch 😂

[@sunshinerose9747]

😅🤣😆🤣🤣

[@MrThenonchosenone]

Lol! Women have some crazy "standards" too. I'm glad that I'm no longer single, because the dating world sounds like hell.

[@MrsDaedalus_]

That dude is going to be forever single. My ex was also every particular. When I asked him at the end of our relationship what he wants in a woman, I literally told him that that girl needs to be born first. A grown-ass woman who has her life together doesn´t need your help. Well, he didn´t see that coming.

[@Sketch89]

I don’t get the point of “tests”. That’s what dates are for. You TALK to get to KNOW whether or not they’re compatible for you. It’s so weird. This guy has a distain for (at best) dating … he needs to figure out why he feel this way before dating anyone else. Why would I pay if YOU asked me out? She dodged a bullet tbh

[@laurao8099]

number 2 on the test is really annoying because I can find something I like to eat at almost any establishment. But I quite literally do the heavy lifting most of the time aka one anybody I know once helped moving I am the 1 they call. I've been sad I choose my battles I don't care about where we eat but when there is something that is important to me I will definitely bring it up.

[@theschipronouncedassky9142]

I miss Davi 😢❤

[@Pris0317]

I love these segments because we do need closure!!

[@dochamp2]

Not all of his list were bs, most were. I do agree with one, did you offer to pay. I was raised properly, I ask you out, I pay. However, if you were raised properly, you offer to help. Then it's my job to decline that offer. By you offering, you are telling me that my time is as important as yours and you are not out to use me. It's not that the money matters, it's the jester that counts. It signifies that we are equals from the start, that I don't have to "pay" for your time. If things work out, we should be each other's "prize".

[@timneaves3741]

Ok, I can understand a couple of these. I've had a lot of friends, and many girls, even when in a relationship, will still date to get free food. He must have had that happen, and it can get expensive. I understand the makeup thing to an extent. My ex was all bout makeup, but she did it right, she used it to make her natural feature be more noticable, but some girls create a new face which usually means insecurity issues. You will never know if a girl is submissive or controlling in a relationship on the first date. The same goes for a man you went on a first date with. True intensions come out later, but that's also my problem, I'm going to be me right out the gate. Don't like me, then it saves my time. The compliment thing is stupid, sorry, but for me it's the man's responsibility to compliment her. I haven't been on a date in over 7 years, and I'm single because I seriously hate dating. Tried the online dating apps, but it just seems like a hookup place. Personally, I always ask for both of us to be STD tested, and usually it ends up with "What, you don't trust me?" Then that's it. Sorry, but trust is earned not given over knowing you for a month. Everyone has certain criteria, and if it's not for you then move along. He seems well past far left, but I respect him for his standards and when a guy wants to settle, he makes standards, but his "tests" are way too flawed.

[@jillw2607]

You dodged a freight train

[@teresaneumann8505]

Omg what is this an episode of jeopardy? Dude is gonna be single for a very very long time. What a psycho!!!😂😂😂

[@Amarieethepriest]

I would pay for the first date because I NEVER want someone to expect more sexually just because they paid. Just because someone asks you out that doesnt mean you automatically dont have to pay. Ive seen tiktoks where people get irate about being invited out but having to pay. Thats bullshit. If you are invited out and cant afford it, then decline or ask for a different idea for the date. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE INVITED OUT DOES NOT MEAN YOU DONT HAVE TO PAY.

[@ohcaptainmycaptain4829]

I would pass all of his tests, but i wouldn't want the guy!

[@stephanieme228]

I would pass all his tests because I understand social etiquette but I'm still a control freak in relationships and emotionally unavailable. His tests are so flawed lol

[@dogsandcars202]

I’m the same way Bert. I keep getting playing along even though I’m not interested

[@Sincity725]

Shes lying i know her type won't compliment, won't offer to pay won't pick what they want to eat,expects you to do everything SMH

[@sunshinerose9747]

That guy seems a little fruity in my opinion. Compliment me but don't call me handsome. He asked her out then he is expected to pay. That is being a gentleman. However, I don't think that on all first dates the man should have to pay. I'm just stating what I was taught growing up. He should not have gotten a red flag over that. To me he comes across as someone who no matter what one does he will pick it apart n find something wrong or nothing meets his expectations. I could be wrong though.

[@LauraLParr]

1st, this guy is just projecting his past relationship traumas on you. 2nd, he said " I like my women" like if you are property. Girl you are better off.

[@thelos3999]

I love a woman’s natural beauty, not a naturally beautiful woman. Make up or not, to me beauty is much more than the way a woman looks.

[@katharineharrison9091]

I have not listened to the entire episode but I’m questioning why are so many women freaked out that they don’t get a second date?!!! Move on and work on your self confidence. These episodes make me so sad for young women. Something is wrong with her not him.

[@frenchbluehen]

And this comment proves you didn't listen to the whole thing. It has nothing to do with confidence when dealing with trash.

[@katharineharrison9091]

@@frenchbluehenI refused to listen to it all and stated that. Pay attention.

[@_whatnext_9319]

First you have to be naturally pretty to the person judging the makeup vs. without for the without picture to be picked (in regards to the men these women asked)

[@bubblespritefairy]

Wow I can't imagine why this guy is single.

[@mainegardenguy703]

Makeup is a lie. Women need to learn that men don't like extreme makeup in a relationship. Men will f anything, but we don't want to deal with a bathroom full of products and makeup stained furniture.

[@dogsandcars202]

All I know is people suck at communicating

[@jennyb3933]

Lordt when you accidentally end up on a date with a incel or a male that listen to idiot podcasters (who are usually single) teaching about dating.

[@frenchbluehen]

huh?

[@danielgaddis7496]

Sorry but...its always up to the girl.

[@leahleahleah7351]

….😂😂 men who think the woman should offer to pay for the date are 🐈 … come tf on