She's Afraid Her Husband's Feelings Are Starting To Change

She thought six months of knowing him was enough to marry him! But now she's not so sure…was he cheating? We've got her results!
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[@lilydurango3960]

An update will be needed. I'm sorry to this woman 😭

[@selahrising]

It’s common for a narcissist to love bomb at the beginning and get married quickly before their new partner finds out who they really are. The fact that he’s already going out and becoming defensive about where he is is a huge 🚩 red flag! Please get out but be careful when you do it.

[@DS-ug5yu]

Completely agree, total Narc mode of operation. This is worse because she doesn't have her own money and children are involved.

[@katharineharrison9091]

Bingo . Narcissist and liar. Used you. Don’t believe anything he said about his xwife. He will always be the victim

[@margaretbeier8519]

Excellent response and description of classic narcissist.

[@pooh4025]

He needed someone to help with the kids that's why he asked her so fast.

[@AJ80]

He was smart

[@thomassullivan5837]

He was looking for a live in Nanny for the kids

[@AJ80]

Smart man.

[@meganmoon6197]

I don’t even let my boyfriends meet my son after 6 months. It takes so long and so far only one has ever met him.

[@jenniferreed9992]

friend up with the ex wife she wasn't lying...she was a good mother he just played ya'll. The kids will thank you for it, truly.

[@itsamonkieplanet9367]

She deserves to take this man for all he is worth she isn’t a nanny He lied to her to get a live in Nanny He is an adult . He knew his feelings come on .

[@nikkihayes9236]

Ok Mr. Bert, I'm with you on wanting a 100-Couple-Lineup of those who got married within 6 months or less of knowing eachother and the divorce rate! 🤔

[@yeahokaycoolcool]

It's gonna be high. Lol. I got married like 6 months in too. Divorced by a year and a half-ish of marriage.

[@justinecarandang4021]

An update would be fantastic! This poor woman

[@laurancurtis5669]

After knowing my husband for a couple of months, we got engaged and then married 6 months later. Here we still are, 35 1/2 years later and still married. Not saying this is the norm, but "when you know you know" hahaha Bert.

[@valuba]

Sounds like she's being used... I'm wondering if he's had a vasectomy...mind you a man that selfish who has his baby sitter and is probably screwing around probably hasn't taken the responsible step of a vasectomy ...But he would not tell her if he had I bet... Ok said all that before hearing the actual war of the roses out come. So sad to know he's using you. Leaving him hopefully doesn't mean leaving the kids but he sounds pretty mean and manipulative. Good luck. 🌻🌹🍀

[@CosmetiChiQ]

I thought the exact same thing! “They’ve tried but it just hasn’t happened” He seemingly didn’t have any issue making the first two. He definitely doesn’t want anything from her outside of babysitting his kids.

[@CosmetiChiQ]

This lady is getting played! I’m sure she did what any new girl would do. Show him how much she loves his kids going above and beyond. Then he’s telling you that supposedly their mother is not as love as you…He love bombed and you fell for it, he saw you as a perfect “sitter” for his kids. You love them and your family is now there’s. You decided to be a stay at home mom of course he didn’t decline. While he knows his kids are safe with you, he can go and live his life entertaining other women. Yikes I hope you stop wasting your time girl

[@SympNurseLife]

Looks like she needs to give him his responsibility back and move on. But this is why that stay at home mom mess dont work too well. Leaves you too dependent 💯

[@heathermillard6841]

It is true that when you know, you know! I met my husband and fell in love and married him in 3 months and we’ve been married 20 years!!

[@thomassullivan5837]

You need to call her back in 2 weeks

[@porscheh7120]

He married her for a live in babysitter while he hits the town! 😮‍💨😩 He isn’t 💩…

[@SCordova19]

So sorry for this one! I’d love an update!

[@AJ80]

Don't be sorry who gets married after 6 months of dating. That's on her

[@AvalynnsAntics]

Has there been any UPDATE for this story?

[@ThesteelLion]

Everybody's apologizing to the woman in that's fine but this is exactly why you don't marry someone 6 months into the relationship you don't even know enough about someone within 6 months most of the time

[@devonmackify]

This falls under....a person can ask, but that person cannot expect nor insist...

[@wufflerdance9481]

its not about how long you court...its how ans what questions and activities you do while doing it...depending on schedules and how close ya live you might be going out multiple times a week or once a month hubby and i met in person through a friend but lived 7 hours from eachother so in person only happened once a month cause it was expenwive and we both workes but we talked daily and asked tons of hard questions...from family to chastity to finances...to values on entertainment and more

[@40aterules]

You gotta date long enough to where you know how they manage their money" How much character they have and seen them at their worst behavior" thst takes at least a year.

[@Starchild42]

My ex-bff's in-laws met and then married two weeks later as they were married until the hubby died like 50 yrs later

[@dougmurray3692]

Yep, when you know, you know..but we didn't come here to have it easy. If we wanted that, we shoulda stayed Home. Just b/c you know and they aren't "the one", which is a dumb concept.msde up by dumb humans thinking there is such a thing for everybody, doesn't mean you're not supposed to have somebody you're supposed to think is "the one" and ends up not being the one. The measure for confirmation if Truth is to use those you know who it didn't work out for, but they thought they met "the one". Didn't they think they knew to know as well, even though they are wrong??

[@XyloXavierto]

Update !!

[@Whatever8197V]

So sorry darling 😓hope it works out for you hmmmm SMH...

[@nybsbfan18]

He's on the 💩 list...

[@beebeelicious]

😞

[@thomassullivan5837]

Is his 1st complete out of the kids life

[@frenchbluehen]

She was just desperate, so this is what she got.

[@davidnatiel6886]

It's annoying when she reads what the roses represent

[@davidnatiel6886]

I'm down to marry my babysitter to save alot $$$