She's Afraid Her Husband's Feelings Are Starting To Change

[@pooh4025]

He needed someone to help with the kids that's why he asked her so fast.

[@AJ80]

He was smart

[@angeladerienzo328]

Well played by him especially when he threw in the line you are just so motherly and my ex wife was not. Hook Line And Sinker

[@selahrising]

It’s common for a narcissist to love bomb at the beginning and get married quickly before their new partner finds out who they really are. The fact that he’s already going out and becoming defensive about where he is is a huge 🚩 red flag! Please get out but be careful when you do it.

[@DS-ug5yu]

Completely agree, total Narc mode of operation. This is worse because she doesn't have her own money and children are involved.

[@katharineharrison9091]

Bingo . Narcissist and liar. Used you. Don’t believe anything he said about his xwife. He will always be the victim

[@margaretbeier8519]

Excellent response and description of classic narcissist.

[@justinecarandang4021]

An update would be fantastic! This poor woman

[@Milaandmooshka]

😅

[@lilydurango3960]

An update will be needed. I'm sorry to this woman 😭

[@meganmoon6197]

I don’t even let my boyfriends meet my son after 6 months. It takes so long and so far only one has ever met him.

[@thomassullivan5837]

He was looking for a live in Nanny for the kids

[@AJ80]

Smart man.

[@slosauss]

Absolutely! This has happened to me. Never again!

[@jenniferreed9992]

friend up with the ex wife she wasn't lying...she was a good mother he just played ya'll. The kids will thank you for it, truly.

[@SympNurseLife]

Looks like she needs to give him his responsibility back and move on. But this is why that stay at home mom mess dont work too well. Leaves you too dependent 💯

[@itsamonkieplanet9367]

She deserves to take this man for all he is worth she isn’t a nanny He lied to her to get a live in Nanny He is an adult . He knew his feelings come on .

[@laurancurtis5669]

After knowing my husband for a couple of months, we got engaged and then married 6 months later. Here we still are, 35 1/2 years later and still married. Not saying this is the norm, but "when you know you know" hahaha Bert.

[@nikkihayes9236]

Ok Mr. Bert, I'm with you on wanting a 100-Couple-Lineup of those who got married within 6 months or less of knowing eachother and the divorce rate! 🤔

[@yeahokaycoolcool]

It's gonna be high. Lol. I got married like 6 months in too. Divorced by a year and a half-ish of marriage.

[@CosmetiChiQ]

This lady is getting played! I’m sure she did what any new girl would do. Show him how much she loves his kids going above and beyond. Then he’s telling you that supposedly their mother is not as love as you…He love bombed and you fell for it, he saw you as a perfect “sitter” for his kids. You love them and your family is now there’s. You decided to be a stay at home mom of course he didn’t decline. While he knows his kids are safe with you, he can go and live his life entertaining other women. Yikes I hope you stop wasting your time girl

[@BookReviewsWithBecky]

It is true that when you know, you know! I met my husband and fell in love and married him in 3 months and we’ve been married 20 years!!

[@SCordova19]

So sorry for this one! I’d love an update!

[@AJ80]

Don't be sorry who gets married after 6 months of dating. That's on her

[@valuba]

Sounds like she's being used... I'm wondering if he's had a vasectomy...mind you a man that selfish who has his baby sitter and is probably screwing around probably hasn't taken the responsible step of a vasectomy ...But he would not tell her if he had I bet... Ok said all that before hearing the actual war of the roses out come. So sad to know he's using you. Leaving him hopefully doesn't mean leaving the kids but he sounds pretty mean and manipulative. Good luck. 🌻🌹🍀

[@CosmetiChiQ]

I thought the exact same thing! “They’ve tried but it just hasn’t happened” He seemingly didn’t have any issue making the first two. He definitely doesn’t want anything from her outside of babysitting his kids.

[@thomassullivan5837]

You need to call her back in 2 weeks

[@porscheh7120]

He married her for a live in babysitter while he hits the town! 😮‍💨😩 He isn’t 💩…

[@AvalynnsAntics]

Has there been any UPDATE for this story?

[@wufflerdance9481]

its not about how long you court...its how ans what questions and activities you do while doing it...depending on schedules and how close ya live you might be going out multiple times a week or once a month hubby and i met in person through a friend but lived 7 hours from eachother so in person only happened once a month cause it was expenwive and we both workes but we talked daily and asked tons of hard questions...from family to chastity to finances...to values on entertainment and more

[@devonmackify]

This falls under....a person can ask, but that person cannot expect nor insist...

[@dougmurray3692]

Yep, when you know, you know..but we didn't come here to have it easy. If we wanted that, we shoulda stayed Home. Just b/c you know and they aren't "the one", which is a dumb concept.msde up by dumb humans thinking there is such a thing for everybody, doesn't mean you're not supposed to have somebody you're supposed to think is "the one" and ends up not being the one. The measure for confirmation if Truth is to use those you know who it didn't work out for, but they thought they met "the one". Didn't they think they knew to know as well, even though they are wrong??

[@MonicaRicciCoach]

A million bucks the ex-wife is a good mom who got sick of his cheating ass. What woman who "doesn't have motherly instincts " has THREE kids with a dude? Another million bucks he had a vasectomy after his third kid was born. Ugh. This situation sucks for her.

[@ThesteelLion]

Everybody's apologizing to the woman in that's fine but this is exactly why you don't marry someone 6 months into the relationship you don't even know enough about someone within 6 months most of the time

[@40aterules]

You gotta date long enough to where you know how they manage their money" How much character they have and seen them at their worst behavior" thst takes at least a year.

[@ohcaptainmycaptain4829]

People are so quick to get married, divorced, married, divorced, married, divorced, etc etc. Why not take the time to date and be in a relationship first.

[@Starchild42]

My ex-bff's in-laws met and then married two weeks later as they were married until the hubby died like 50 yrs later

[@AnnaMacLeod-g1d]

Hope Erin enjoys kids! 😂

[@teresaneumann8505]

Got married to fast.

[@frenchbluehen]

She was just desperate, so this is what she got.

[@XyloXavierto]

Update !!

[@Whatever8197V]

So sorry darling 😓hope it works out for you hmmmm SMH...

[@nybsbfan18]

He's on the 💩 list...

[@thomassullivan5837]

Is his 1st complete out of the kids life

[@beebeelicious]

😞

[@slosauss]

I’m sorry but does a woman really spell her name Arron? 🤔

[@davidnatiel6886]

It's annoying when she reads what the roses represent

[@davidnatiel6886]

I'm down to marry my babysitter to save alot $$$