Secret 585 ~Txiv Neej Rov Nyiam Txiv Neej~04/01/2024~

[@km1811]

Story 1 - from my view, he is just seeing you as a friend. Some people tend to be over friendly that it seems like they like you but that’s just how they are. Or because he knows that you like him and so he’s trying to use you to filled that emptiness til he find one he love.

[@NancyYang-g8s]

Pog laus aws.....nws hlub koj li phoojywg xwb na.

[@PKXionG92]

I think all guys are like that, jealous but won’t admit it! Because they don’t want people to see the weak side of them! But it’s okay to be jealous

[@hlubyang4072]

Q#1...koj txhob tos nws os....txiv neej hmoob yog nws nyiam koj xav tau koj ua nws tu niam tsev mas nws zov koj tshaj dev zov quav nawb....nws twb ua yawg ntsuag lo tav no nws siv koj ua kev lom zem xwb os....

[@maiyang3659]

Tus txiv tsev uas nyiam txiv neej naj. Yog hais tias Koj pheej nrog ib tus tibneeg nyob noj uake thiab muaj txoj kev sib tham ntau2 ces neb yuav sib to tsaub thiab sib ncawg. Peb kev niam txiv los kuj ib yam thaib. Yog Koj thiab Koj pojniam neb tsi to taub hais lus tsis sib nkag siab nej yuav tau siv sijhawm los sib tham seb qhov twg Koj tsis nyiam thiab nws tsis nyiam. Yuav tau los sib kho kom muaj txojekev sib nkag siab ib yam li Koj pheej niaj hnub tham nrog Koj tus co-worker ko xwb mas

[@JtwoV]

I wouldnt say that, gay couples are better because a relationship is what you make of it. I know many couples that are married 40-50 years and they stayed together because of love, commitment, acceptance. communication and respect. I also know some gay/lesbian couples that fight, argued and eventually divorced too. Marriage is a life-long journey that thrives on love, commitment, trust, respect communications, patience & compromise. The grass is greenest where you water it. Are you watering your grass? Loving it? Nurturing it? Fertilising it? Planting flowers in it? Water your grass and watch those flowers grow. 😜

[@mayly2691]

Q1. He likes you as a friend only. No more than that. Don’t fall for him cause he does not love you. Even if you guys end up dating then he will only use you.

[@TouYang-kl3es]

Tsim kiag nawb qhov uas koj yuav mus nyiam ib tug txiv neej li koj. Sawvdaws tej menyuam ua xwb twb txaus lawm. Nrhiav keb pab nrig koj poj niam koj txawj hloov lis sib hlub sib raug zoo xwb zoo dua.

[@musibsim2151]

#1 nws nyiam koj li phooj ywg xwb nws tsis nyiam koj li hluas nkauj os txhob tos nws

[@zoolikuv]

Q1. You are just a friend

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

#2 kuv Tus txiv yeej tsis muaj yam kuv ua es kuv yuav txib NWS ntau tsawg los kuv yog Tus ua xwb yeej tsis faib rau NWS nrog kuv ua li os tej Niag hauj lwm hauv vaj hauv tsev CES yog yus ib txhais tes ua Xwb NWS never pab kuv los kuv tsis Care tsis khib li

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Q1: Life is too short...if you like someone, let them know! Don't be shy 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@phakubxiong7143]

Q1: friend noj fawm thiab friend sib Paub xwb os. Koj nyiam nws dhau lawm xwb os!

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

#1 54, thiab 56 CES tsis txog twg lawm, CES Twb tsis npaj lub neej tom ntej lawm os, tam Sim no kuv Twb muaj 54 li koj thiab kuv thiab tsis muaj feeling yuav nyiam txiv neej, tsaus TU Siab nrhuj nro rau lub neej yav laus no lawm xwb Kev hlub Kev NCO tsis NCO qab ntshaw lawm os, txawm yuav nyiam yuav sib sau los ua neej tsis muaj lawm os

[@ourherfamily7582]

Txiv neej nyiam txiv neej mas xu siab tuag os But it not my soul, so I careless

[@missduab7287]

Q1: just ask him 😅 Cia li noog nws tias nws xav li cas rau koj xwb. Yog nws tias phooj ywg xwb ces, txhob tos nws. There is some guys who are super shy, and they don’t want to make someone uncomfortable so they act too much like a friend.

[@hlubyang4072]

Q#2....tsis hais poj niam lo yog txiv neej yog xam khib li ko ces yeej ua neej nyuaj nyuaj nawb....txawm li cas lo ua siab ntev sib hais xwb....yog 2 leeg kom txo hwj chim lub neej yeej kaj saib tsis muaj teeb meem....

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Question #1 tus yawg ntsuag ko twb tsis muaj poj niam koj los tsis muaj txiv ces thov hais tias koj hlub nws koj nyiam nws no las mas.

[@sunnygirl973]

To the nephew. You must said your uncle secret. Because your uncle is in the wrong. Your aunty loves you. You don't hide her the truth even your uncle is angry after you. If not, you are the same heart like your uncle. She deserve better than him.

[@KudaBear]

First story: Your widow friend is taking it slow. He's probably been thru a lot and wanting to see how things are between you both. If I was you don't wait for the relationship to bloom. You might set yourself up for disappointment. If he wants a relationship with you he would have jumped right in. I would say keep him as a friend and move on to other guys you see fit.

[@MissPeachie]

Q1: he is just not that into you. You are probably very friendly to him so he likes approaching you. Sounds like he is confident so if he likes you, he isn’t afraid to pursue you.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Los lus nug 2 ce poj niam xam khib li no ...ce kawg rauj xwb mas nyo b ntxiv los tsis zoo o

[@Love98fire]

1st question How you describe He probably like you as a friend only. Guys are not shy in telling you they like you. 2nd question I agree with your wife both of you work if you both do the chores around the house things will get done faster. I don’t think she’s jealous she needs you to do your part because she done her part. Lol

[@maiyouavue5928]

Q1: you are friend zoned. He just like you as a friend, nothing more.

[@ammysoyoung1503]

Hey if you like the guy - Go for it. It’s your happiness. Whoever cant accept it - let it be. Its not us and our business. But you make sure this guy think the same as you. 😂

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

The question #2 if she wants to share responsibility for house chores then like that so not problem in your relationship

[@SuaVwj-n8f]

S#1 - he like it then u be the better person n ask him.

[@nengyang008]

#1 nws paub tia koj nyiam nws dhau lawm ces nws siv koj xwb os nws tsis nyiam koj os

[@sandyvangyang110]

Last secret: Grass is never greener on the other side

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

Q#1. Maybe he's afraid that you are not into him. Be straight forward, if he says no, then you can move on. Q#2. It's not normal, it's ok to help each other, but to count your sick day is beyond normal. That's not love. She thinks you are her partner only.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

Q1: I think he’s just being nice. He’s maybe not rushing into another relationship but yet still need that engagement with another person. (As friends) It’s not a bad idea to ask if he’ll like to date. We live in a different generation. I recalled my middle school crush. I really liked this guy but never ask him out because I thought he was too good for me. Soo the secretly crushing on someone can be painful 😖 I don’t have my confidence at 8 grade. If now, I’ll definitely ask to go date.

[@symouacheupao6228]

Teb rau tus txiv ua tus poj niam ua ib yam hauj lwm dab tsi es pheej kom nws ua ib qhov kuv yog ib tug niam pog pom koj hlob nplog teb tuaj ua peb tus peb tus txiv li tus nom.xwb Tus tub no yog ib tug lawm ua Dr. Kho mob tab si tus poj niam mam ua ib yam dab tsi mam ib yam li nws ntxuav tais diav mas tus txiv yuav tsum xyaug nws hloov daiv pawm ntawm menyuam mas tus txiv yuav tsum hloov thiab kuv yog niam pog mas nyuab rau kuv tiag li os Kuv mas tswj kuv tus kheej tiag thiab tsi muaj teeb meem nrog tus. Nyab os

[@kuvxwb9466]

Q1: He isn’t using you bc he hasn’t dated you to used you in any way. I don’t think he wanted to be in a serious relationship. He is just being friendly don’t take it personally. Ua nkauj nrab nraug nrab ces tsis need to sib tham to go out and eat and have a few dances. As long as you don’t cross the line to sleep together.

[@khouyang1580]

Q1: ignore the comments. shoot your chance. Better to know now than regret forever. What can you loose if he reject you? Nothing. So I say tell him how you feel. Good luck!

[@MSMAIYANG]

To the 26 yr old, you should tell your parents so they can talk to uncle.

[@chouaher6886]

Hais txog kev xam khib yog ib tug ua ib tug nyob ces xam khib tab sis ib tus ua es ib tug ho mob los sis tsis khoom lawm ces yuav tau xam txim thiab ua siab ntev yig koj ua es koj suav nqi rau koj tus hlub ces txhais tias tsis yog koj tus hlub nawb phooj ywg xwb

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

The first question if you like the man just ask him out.

[@MrChang03]

Hais rau tus txiv neej uas tus poj niam coj 50/50. Koj tus poj niam coj li ko los kuj zoo thiab mas. Tabsis, yog hnub no koj txiav nyom lawm ces, tag kis nws thib txiav. Hnub no koj thob snow lawm, next time ces yog nws thib. Hnub no toilet daig es koj tshau qhov toilet, next time daig ces nws thib xwb mas. Koj ua li no ib ntus xwb ces kuv xav tias nws tsi kam ua 50/50 lawm os.

[@SierraANDcelica]

?#2. The big picture is you are the one xam khib, she is absolutely right in all she said. I help my wife everything she does in life the only time I don’t help her is when I do something else like fix the house or the car.

[@phouathao9741]

Story#1 ..forget about the guy that only put you as a option..

[@visibopath1412]

Thaub aw koj txhob nkes nkes os laus lawm tsum ov. Los kho yus lub neej nawb, tsis li ntawv kuv muab qws txhob lij koj qhov quav ntag hos hahahha..

[@hmongremark2686]

Story 1 - Koj ntsia nws tus xeeb ceem yug los saib nws puas yog ib tug neeg cus ciav los yog ntsoos ntsoos. Nws yog neeg cus (active) no ces nws yeej tsis nyiam koj li koj nyiam nws. Tab sis nws yog neeg ntsoos no ces nws txawm nyiam koj li koj nyiam nws los nws tsis paub pib tog twg thab koj tham kom koj ho paub tias nws nyiam koj. Story 2 - Niam txiv lawm ces yuav tau sib pab leg dej num hauv vaj tsev, tab sis yog nws leg kiag ib yam twg lawm, nws ho txib koj ua lwm yam thiab no ces nws muab khib dhau lawm thiab tsis yog cai rau tus twg siv li no.

[@KouLor-g4i]

Q 1 please ask him now a day guys want love but afraid to show because they think women have to much power

[@zoolikuv]

Gay story: it's okay. Do whatever you are happy

[@sandyyang1244]

Es twb yog adult lawm thiab sib nyiag ua luaj ces noog kiag nws xwb los mas.

[@nancyvang2126]

Lus teb rau tus txivtsev ua yuav mus ua gay, yog koj xav mag lawv txiag koj lub qhov quav es tsis ntev ces koj quav tshau lug xwb mas. Thov txhob mus ua qay.

[@chorlee6835]

The last story: Ntuj os teb aw.. zoo li koj twb yog 50 tawm xyoo li es koj tsis ntshai tsam koj tus nai meska muaj koj ua qhuav quav ua zoo tsam lub neej yav laus koj diapers nawb!😂

[@END0RA]

Q1: He only likes you like a friend, but because you like him a lot, you tend to take any kind gesture he does as “liking you.” Please don’t mix that up with him just being nice or else you’ll really be hurting yourself only. Q2: That kind of relationship is toxic! I hope you can sit down with your wife and sort it out. Yes, men and women should be equal such as in equal value! Dont be getting that mixed up with you both have to be doing as much as the other etc. ask her if she’s ok if she got into an accident and becomes handicap, should she still be doing her part too? It’s really these things that you have to take into consideration as to why you should not be keeping tabs on who does what more. Yes, meet in the middle but as a couple, it’s ok to do a little more than your partner here and there cause you simply love them! For the young man who is feeling guilt for helping his uncle cheat. You should tell your aunt and tell her to keep it anonymous or tell someone you trust to tell her and keep you anonymous. No good woman deserves that type of pain.

[@chongxiong340]

Q1. Your crush is NOT interesting. He just wanna use you because you allow him to use it. Because you like him so much, and did what he asked or allowed him to get accessed to you. So he knew you would always be there for him.

[@luvinniceboxers]

Q1. Your crush isn't into you or he's just not interested in a relationship. Q2. Equality is only important to her when SHE benefits. So when you change the car oil, do you both take turns too? 😂 What about expenses? Do you both split the expenses in half (mortgage, utilities, food...etc)? You'll need to sit down and have a chat with her about how you feel and what could change going forward.

[@TouYang-kl3es]

Koj tsis tau yog tus uas nws nyiam kiag losyog xav hlub xav yuav koj li nawb. Tus zoo li ntawd ces tsum kiag tsam koj yuav tu siab ib hnub ov. Yog koj xav paub tias nws puas xav hlub nrog koj ces qhia kiag nws paub xwb los mas.

[@levieyang]

Q1: I think he does like you but probably doesn't have the gut to ask you out. Q2: If you have no children together yet, probably best to find another one. Man likes man...I don't think you actually like men if you been married for 34 years. You probably crave for love and attention so when you don't receive that from your wife, the other person who seem to fulfill your cravings, whether they are a man or woman, you tend to lean on that side only. That boss of yours is a gay for sure, he seems to be manipulating your heart and mind to lean to him since you told him all your marriage issues. I'm pretty sure you won't be able to do night duties when it actually comes to it.

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Question #2 wow,,,,,,Koj poj niam coj haib kawg yom. Tabsis koj twb uv taus yuav taus txog tav li no uas neb muaj xeeb ntxwv tag lawm ces kav tsij uv kom txog hnub uas neb ob leeg rov mus paj tawg lag xwb nawb. Vim koj uv ntev dhau lawm as.

[@MissPeachie]

Last secret: you were always bisexual but didn’t know that until now. If that is how you truly feel, then tell your wife. It’s selfish of you to hang onto her.

[@myprecious6751]

1st question, if you like him just tell him so. He obviously seems to like you too. I'm not sure about marriage that might not be in his plans especially if his children is against him getting remarry. You're not getting any younger and your too old to be shy or play teenager crush

[@SuaVwj-n8f]

Lol the story of turning the gpa gay. Lol. Yog kawg, 3 muaj tus gay coworker, nws thai guy hais tias tsis tsim yog koj tsis tau saj both ways. Lol

[@chaivxiong103]

Q2: wife is right. We all work the same so we have to help each other. If you tsis khib then just do it, why you complaining?

[@sandyvangyang110]

Q1: sis, He's not that into you.

[@marielor2255]

Kuv li mam tsis yog xam khib, kuv xa koj kuv tus txiv thiab kuv wb yog ib team sib pab ua es thiaj li tag sai xwb.

[@cianavang233]

1 nws tsis nyiam koj li nawb txiv neej mas yog lawv nyiam yus ces Yeej nug koj os

[@electricgenie966]

Q1: Seems like he likess you but if you like him that much, you can always ask him to dance. If it doesn't work out and you're between 40-50, reply to this comment. We can be friends.

[@lygeorgesva9764]

😁😁😁qhia 6 kj paub tias yg ib tug txiv neej coj li kj hais ko 6 kj ces yeej txhais tau hais tias nws yeej g nyiam kj tag2 los mas??txawm kj ho mus thab kiag nws los nws yeej g K kj li nawv??😁😁😁😁

[@xiavang9082]

Q-1 sister you now have license to play; there nothing’s wrong with go after what you want..so you won’t end up waiting/hopefully for faulty feeling.. Q-2 Marriage couple should not xam kib.. whoever available just get it done.. that why we get married so that we can count on the other. You mentioned that you guys is already yog pog thiab Yawg that xim kib need to stop and set good example for your tub nyab thiab ntxhais Vauv please.

[@nicklee646]

1 Question: he got scare of y’all girls. He probably just wanna settle down low for a minute. 2 Question : you let her treated like that from the beginning. You should’ve put your words on her from the beginning

[@nalaher3022]

Q1, he is not attracted to you. When a man is attracted to you, he will claim you. Move on .

[@PinkMang0]

Last story: From my stand point, it sounds like you and your spouse are having a lot of miscommunication and disagreements. Never in your story have you ever mentioned that you have affection toward your colleague. Of course, your colleague knows his way around talking to others since he used to be a counselor who deals with other people’s problems. He helped people ease their stress and misery. He knows how to use words to comfort, relax and connect with you. Those words ease your stress, and it makes you feel like someone actually understands and knows how you feel and think. And for once, someone is listening to you without talking back and making marks of criticism. Who says being in a relationship is easy? Ask yourself if you find other men attractive, emotionally and physically? I suggest you and your spouse need marriage counseling.

[@cwaneng]

Tsis yog koj xav nrauj koj tus poj niam es tias le xav thiab you yog gay no xwb los phoojywg? 😅😅😅

[@lindayaj1333]

Q1: he’s gay and likes you as a good friend

[@michaelf2700]

Q1: He is NOT into u, he only likes u as a friend. Why r u asking ppl here for their opinion instead of asking him directly if u like him that much? Q2: Ur wife is too petty. Sure, u both need to do household chores & help eachother out, but being petty like het is too much.

[@yolimoua72]

Tus brother uas xa nyiaj rau koj tus uncle na.. if u don’t to send money for him anymore just tell him that they mark your name as a fraud can’t send it anymore.. problem solve cause he doesn’t know English right 😅try

[@ljvue]

Are you hot? If yes, then let him know. If you’re not then he’s just not that into you. Sorry.

[@myprecious6751]

2nd question, brother. It sounds like your wife is really petty. It is pettiness. It's teamwork, but to that extreme is just a ridiculous and straight-up petty attitude. She sounds borderline toxic, narcissists, manipulative, and not a lifetime partne. You might want to rethink about your marriage for the long run.

[@nengxiong6991]

Teb tus poj niam faib hauj lwm ua sib npaug #1 thaub tsuas hnov koj tham koj tus xwb os !!! Yus tsis yog tsis pab yeej pab thiab tab sis nws tsis muaj cai faib li no yus mob los yus tseem tiv cia au!!!! Ua li no yog kuv ces nrhiav tshiab xwb vim nws tub nkeeg zog lawm . Teb tus 2. Xav mus ua gay 😆😆😆thaub aw!!! Muaj poj niam li koj lawm tseem xav mus ua gay 😆😆😆 es koj puas kam cuab koj lub qhov qua rau nws ua naw ? Thiab koj kam ua nws lub thiab los ? Kuv xav mas lub ntawd ntuj tsim los tso quav xwb tib lub tuaj plaub tsw quav ntxiag tsis muaj feeling rau li os !!! Thiab yog siv li ces coj diaper sai nawb !!! 😆😆😆.

[@sunnygirl973]

Poj niam xam khib ? Tiam si koj puas tau coj mus rau neej tsa hais os ?

[@xuexiong5036]

He gay big time. You can tell.