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[@mhaiyaaj]

People who talk bad about others - It is because their own lives are not good. They need to put others down in order to raise their level of happiness and bring down their level of sadness. Look at the lives of these people and you will know

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Question2only Hmong have that mindset of viewing pojnrauj very low. Mekas people don’t look down to pojnrauj…

[@NpisVwjNeejYias]

Q2. Let her live her life and you go with your life. You deserve someone better that'll understand you.

[@nalaher3022]

Q1, my pet peeve too. Loyalty to the absent is so important in a group of friends or any group gathering. Someone should speak up to protect the absent individual. People don't speak up because their need to be accepted by that group is bigger than doing the right thing. There is no right approach in this situation but leaving a group like that is probably best if you're a good person and hate gossips and dramas.

[@xongkhang8856]

People who speak ill and gossip about others are insecure about themselves and doing so makes them feel good about themselves. If those are the people you’re associated with it’s best to leave and be with others who are nonjudgmental and empowers one another other.

[@PM-oe5mk]

Q1: There are many reasons why a person would gossip or participate in gossip: their life sucks and gossiping makes them feel better about themselves by putting others down through gossip; they are bullies and feel the need to say bad things about others because they are too cowardly to bully someone directly; they are bad mannered and bored with their life so their excitement is through gossiping. I can go on and on, but I think you get the point: it's very telling about what a person's true self is like by the amount of gossip they participate in and the viciousness of their gossip. Avoid these gossiping horrors if you are a decent human being. It's one thing to talk about facts, it's another to make assumptions and judge someone based on those assumptions! Q2: You need to understand that your old girlfriends who are still married are afraid of you possibly making a move on their husbands (even if you know you would NEVER do that to them) OR that their husbands make a move on you now that you are available. Don't blame them for their insecurities because plenty of married women have been burned by divorcées as well as their unfaithful husbands. If you miss them, then talk with them and figure things out (Surely you can still have girls only hangout times where there are no husbands around?). Hmong people are funny about these things, but it's understandable since there are plenty of rotten men and women out there who don't respect the sanctity of marriage. Q3: DON'T go get your wife...you were NOT at fault! She used her own two feet to run off to her parents so SHE can use those same two feet to come home. The only thing you are responsible for is to tell her that you love her, miss her, and want her back home when she's ready to come home. She and her family need to understand that what you said was absolutely NOT wrong because you were merely worried about what can happen when two young, horny teenagers are left alone together! You need to make it clear that you were not accusing your younger sil of any such act, but you ARE concerned about such a thing happening since there are no adults around when her boyfriend visits her while babysitting your young children. If your in-laws don't understand your concerns, then they don't care whether or not their young daughter gets pregnant out of wedlock!

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Story1 don’t bow your head to an unstable woman who can be easily manipulated by her parents, otherwise this issue will continue throughout your life. Be strong and stand your ground!

[@you_r_my-world2288]

Q2. That just how it is. Ppl respect you as a couple.

[@myprecious6751]

2nd question, sister those people are not your real friends. They're only friends when you benefit them. Now especially you're divorced they do not want you around them, 1- they cannot use you anymore, 2- They're afraid their husband might be interestedin you, 3- their husband doesn't want them to hang around you because they feel that they'll end up being influenced by you. Do not worry about those busy bodies abd shallowness gossipers....love yourself and respect yourself and find new friends. You can do better.

[@nujnqis1133]

Q1. Tsis yuav los tau lawm os . Nws xav2 mus cia nws mus kiag xwb ma.

[@zoualee4807]

😂😂😂😂😂 I knew they were gonna do that for the parking spot. That was so halirious!! OMG!!

[@phem55]

Q 1: those women whose likes to gossip and backstab others are called toxic and backstabbing women, they are not happy with themes that’s why they have to talk about others so that they can feel better about themselves.

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Question1 can not do much or control what people say people gossip talking about others to feel better about themselves.

[@chatvang5648]

Tus poj niam khiav lawm. Brother, nrauj xwb zoo tshaj. Yog koj tseem mus thov thiab pe nws los ces kawg ua qhev thiab yeej tsis tsav koj kub neej mus txog qhov twg lawm. Best to let her go. There are lots of better women out there. Start fresh is your best future. Good luck!

[@meeher-b2b]

txiv neej más yeej tsi nyam naim tai yawm txiv saib mes2 heev mas yeej tsi nyam naim tai yawm txiv li os

[@hlubyang4072]

#3....nrhiav dua tu tshiab...fine someone else doesn't care about her.

[@arinalis3130]

3rd question: Nope. Don't go get her. She didn't respect your point if view. Now she wants to come back but is embrassed. Let her come back herself.

[@cookingcutiepieAI]

Lol 😂 the fake pregnancy! So funny 🤣

[@muajtseebhlub2657]

Nrauj xwb ma poj Niam muaj ntau os

[@FongHer-d8l]

Lawv ntshai nyob tsam koj tham lawv tus txiv

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Question #3 yog koj pom niam yog koj lub neej yog koj xav hais tias yuav tsum muaj koj tus poj niam es koj lub neej thiaj li zoo kaj siab nyob ua neej puv npos no ces koj mus tos koj koj mus txhos caug thov kom koj poj niam Cia rov los nrog koj ua neej xwb mas.

[@sacleo786]

To the brother with the wife Go-fa, if your wife loves you, she'll come back on her own. Her reason for leaving was immature. Her family will continue to talk badly about you and convince her to leave even after she comes back.

[@Mindyourownbusiness-q6l]

Q2: let her stay at the in-laws. She will come home when she wants to. If not, move on

[@SuaVwj-n8f]

?3- the wife khiav ua nkauj fab u can let her go, let her go.

[@lunayang7612]

Kuv teb los ntawm peb sab poj niam xwb nawb, peb cov niam tsev uas kuv pom xws li tej niam ntxawm los sis nyab na. Yus tus tub tuag kiag lawm Mas yus muaj noj yus hu mu kom tuaj koom ma nw hai li nov ov, e nej tub tuag tas lawm e kuv nyuab siab tsi qab siab tawm rooj! Tab si thaum nw tawm rooj ma nw ho mu hai li no ov. Yus tus txiv tuag tag e lawv twb tsiv nav kuv lawm os ua noj ua haus yeej tsi hu yus, Mas Las qas pis os cav nej yuav muaj cai luaj tiag os yom!

[@imayyang]

To the man whose wife refuses to come back: dear brother, ask yourself what you want? You matter too. You’ve already tried the traditional way and it didn’t work. Your relatives won’t lower their pride. Your wife won’t lower her pride. Both teams cannot win. One needs to give in and it has to be your wife. She’s choosing to fight a war against your relatives. She’s married to you, not them. If your wife really wanted you, she come home. You need to ask yourself if you want her or not. Find a new hobby. Do things that makes you happy. Go out to dinner and treat yourself good. Dress and look better. She’ll either return or you’ll be hot and ready to mingle. If you’re a good man, she will hurry home. Good luck my friend

[@chiliayang5832]

Viv ncaus koj tus txiv twb tsis yuav koj lawm ces kwv tij tsis nav koj lawm os 😅

[@countrylivingpets4135]

Brother, lawb nws mus es mam li yuav ib tug tshiab xwb os.

[@hlubyang4072]

#1...koj ua kiag phooj ywg nrog lawv ces koj paub qhov tseeb xwb lo mas thiab koj nug kiag seb lawv lub hom phiaj yog dab tsi es lawv pheej tham txog lwm tu

[@hmongremark2686]

Story 2 - Koj ua tau ntxhib dhau rau koj tus niam hluas lawm. Yuav kom tau koj tus poj niam rov los nrog koj ua neej, koj yuav tsum mus lees qhov koj ua tau ntxhib ntawv rau koj niam tais yawm txiv mas lawv thiaj kam ntuas lawv tus ntxhais rau koj. Hnub twg koj nyob koj niam tais yawm txiv qhov position, koj mam paub zoo tias koj ua tau ntxhib heev rau nkawv.

[@kuvxwb9466]

Story1: Give your wife one or two weeks to come home or you’re moving on. Koj tsis move on los maybe nws twb move on nws lawm os.

[@msyvj]

Q1- I’m sure the person that ask that question is just the same way. Just saying

[@TouYang-kl3es]

Teb rau tus xav paub txog cov nyiam taug xaiv thiab pheej xav hais phem txog lwm tus. 1. Vim lawv tsis txo hwjchim thiab lawv pom tias lawv zoo tshaj lwm tus. 2. Lawv khib thiab twb tsis zoo npaum lwm tus, lawv thiaj xav hais lus txob tuag lwm tus mas lawv siab thiaj nqig. 3. Lawv nyiam txiav txim rau lwm tus tias luag mas nim phem npaum ub npaum no. "Be humble and don't think that you are better than someone else because when we die, we take nothing with us" "Do to others what you want them would do to you," this is the golden rule. Hope to answer your question. Do

[@myprecious6751]

3rd question, brother, you should've been frank and truthful to you ex in laws about their daughter. You are within your rights to not want her in your home. You set boundaries and rules in your own for which she violated it by having her boyfriend in your home. Truth be told there is no telling what she does in your home when you're not home. As per your wife, since she rather listened to her parents and want to be a divorcee then so be it and just divorce her. If she's like this its better to let her go. In the long run you'll have only misery. Her parents are gonna continue to be an influence in your wife and your marriage. They're already influenced her to leave you. Next its gonna be her giving them your hard earned money. Everytime something doesn't go her ways she'll run off to them over and over. She wants you to go back to ask her parents again and you'll just keep losing money on her. CUT HER OFF. DIVORCE HER. YOU CAN DO BETTER AND YOU DESERVED A WOMAN THAT REALLY WANTS TO BUILD A SOILD LIFE WITH YOU.

[@colleenchan9872]

Last Question: peb nyob tiam 21 lawm peb tsis need pheej yuav hais lus zais zais na yog yus tsis nyiam ces hais kiag lub ntsiab xwb! Peb cov tseem coj kev caiv qub no tej niag coj nkauj nraug los pw hauv tsev yeej tsis phiv dab qhuas li os peb yeej tso menyuam ywj siab os yeej tsis phiv abtsi li os.! Nej muab tej niag kev cai no thwj loj dhau!

[@PKXionG92]

Q3: if your wife love you it shouldn’t be so hard. She should understand from your point of view why you said what you said about the younger sister. She doesn’t respect you enough to even ask if she didn’t understand.

[@SuabNkaujStudio24]

Ib yam nkaus os kuv Tus mi Viv ncaus aw kuv Tus txiv nyiag mus yuav niam yau wb lub neej yawg kiag xwb ces yus tej phooj ywg Viv ncaus muab yus block tag tsis lees paub yus Li lawm os tu siab tshaj li os yus txoj kev hlub kev pab lawv ces ploj tag lawv tsis Kam paub yus Li lawm os

[@vajtsabxeemlis5778]

ntawm no kuv yog vajtsabxeemlis, teb tus niamtsev uas tus txiv tuag lawm: kuv hais qhia koj tias, koj puas paub sob lus tias, txiv ua nom tub tuav phom, txiv ua hau tub tuav qau no? koj tus xiv nyob ces koj yog tus niamtsev, koj tus txiv tuag lawm ces koj yog tus niam dev no?: teb tus tub uas nkawm muaj tus niamhluas: koj yog tus xav tham koj tus niamhluas, yog koj ua zoo li koj ko. koj yuav hais koj kuj nrog koj tus pojniam neb hais zoo2 rau neb tus niamhluas tias sijhawm neb g nyob lawm neb g nyiam muaj neeg tuaj tiamsis yog neb nyob ces tuaj los g uacas no..yog g mloog mam tham mus rau niamtais yawmtxiv kom zoo2?

[@yenghlub1sim]

koj twb tsis tau cem tsis tau ntaus nws ces koj tsis tas mus tos lawn

[@MSMAIYANG]

Q3: you guys have bad communication. Some people need to hear it straight loud and clear instead of hinting. Why didn’t you just tell your in-laws you didn’t have a problem with the sil until her bf kept coming over secretly. You were just worried she’d end up pregnant and then the in-laws will blame you for not taking care or looking out for your sil. You stressed this to your wife but she ignored you. That way they will shift the problem to the sister and not you. Nej ces, tus tsis k ces sawv daws tsis k li thiab. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@KouLor-g4i]

Than why you here to gossip haha sometimes lady gossip for fun for laughs

[@paulaclee]

Young people are rude and disrespectful. If you're going to babysit, know what you can and can't do. Your wife doesn't love you. So move on.

[@michaelf2700]

Q1: Agreed with u that a lot of Hmong women r very judgemental & gossipy. Just stay away from people like that. Q2: Dont be too heartbroken if people dont invite u to gatherings anymore. Only care & love those who care & love u. Focus ur life some where else instead of waiting by the phone for people to invite u. Live ur life. Q3: She does not truly love u, best to just let her go U will dodge a bullet.

[@myprecious6751]

LMFAO, gossip is a favorite pass time. Doesn't matter it runs in all age groups both men and women. They have nothing better to do and they're miserable with their own life. You can not stop people from gossiping but you can choose your friends.

[@yeryang-thao3078]

Q#2 you need to be honest and explain to your sister in law with your wife in present why you don’t want her boyfriend to come to your house. Don’t know why when you date your wife, you go to their house too, but she can’t. I’m sure your wife understand, but you the one don’t understand, wife tell you to think positive, but you keep thinking negative. You probably like her in secret, I guess.