Secret# 590~ Ntshai Hluas Nkuaj Lo Hniav~05/06/2024~

[@miabhlub63]

Q1. Some men just love cooking and cleaning.

[@imayyang]

To the First Lady in the story with the husband that cooks: Sister, you don’t have to fight every battle that comes your way. This world is full of gossip and drama. Don’t engage in non sense. Let people talk. Smile. And walk away. You and your husband know the truth and that is what matters. Don’t take others criticism personal. Know that their men and our parents come from a culture that expects women to do the cooking. You don’t need to prove your point. You just have to know, they don’t know better. Stay quiet and humble my friend. ❤ good luck.

[@MsPangY]

Q1: It’s better to have someone like that than someone with so many friends who almost can either attack you or bother you!! Better to be with your husband & not let him be around his friends & relatives! If they around a lot of friends, it’s not good!! Also, having someone who cooks is even better!! ❤😮

[@pajdawblis4291]

The last one is too funny 😂😂

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

1.. yog lawm zoo koj kawg li ov, uas phem rau peb tsis zoo rau lawv ov mog, es nyias yuav tau ua nyias qhov hauj lwm nco nroov tseg cim nroov cia ov mog,

[@nkaujhlixyooj2940]

I love strong women! You did great!

[@chiliayang5832]

Nraug hmoob nplog txawj dag kawg thiab os yom

[@changvue3337]

Good job

[@kaxiong95]

Lol so funny!

[@nuly1262]

#1 you are very lucky person. Kuv twb yog ib tus niam tsev zoo li koj thiab kuv tus txiv nyiam nyiam cook thiab os. Txhob hais tsuav Yog koj tus txiv neb si hais si haum thiab neb happy xwb yuav li ntawv

[@PH-ThailanD]

😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@user-vb9xw7rt3k]

😂😂😂😂

[@Lindachang19]

You got a great husband ❤

[@vavang9626]

Hais tau kawg tsis ua cas

[@saolo1358]

Mloog koj tus txiv hais nyob tsam koj raug dag. Txhob ntshaw meejmom txojkev hlub thiaj yog qhov tseeb os tus Vivncaus.

[@TouYang-kl3es]

Koj niam pog hais yog lawm. Koj los yuav tsum txawj ua noj thiab nquag mas thiaj yog. Koj tus txiv txawj ua noj thiab nquag los nws yeej yuav tau qhia koj thiab.

[@TouYang-kl3es]

Tsis yog tim tias os. Qhov koj tsis muaj nyiaj los muaj kev siv rau qhov muaj kev yuav siv nyiaj tom thawj ces thiaj zoo li ntawd xwb.

[@ka_sailor672]

Qs#2 brother I believe is your house 🏠 bad luck .if you change house you will be different. I been though I believe.

[@hmonglis4051]

To be called lazy

[@kiannalyyong9507]

Cov pog laus txawv txawv thiaj li kam tham nej xwb los mas..

[@yourrrkool8825]

Mus hais rau lawv, you have to protect him and your family. Lawv saib tsis tau koj tus txiv. This is not 1950 anymore. Man can cook if they want to cook. Stand up for yourself and your husband.

[@chiliayang5832]

Txhob ntseeg ntseeg cov saub tiam tshiab no os brother yog xav kom txhob tau kho tsheb ces yuav lub tsheb tshiab tshiab xwb mas tsis yog tim koj cov tias li os

[@arinalis3130]

Question #1. Don't let what other people say weight down your marriage. Who cares what other people say. As long as there's no physical trouble in your marriage between you two, just be happy. Just tell people, oh I'm so lucky to get one of the one in a million good guys. Women just jealous they don't have a man like him or men just jealous they can't be like him so they start yapping their mouth.

[@life4dummies2023]

Story #1 -- this is how misogynist folks think because they feel that men don't have to cook and clean because that ia not the social norm.

[@eiathorthor9867]

Viv ncau aw tau txiv txawj ua noj ce thib 1 lawm hmoob cov tsheej txiv neej yawg ce tib co txiv tub nkeeg siab phem xwb

[@hmongremark2686]

Story 1 - Koj tus txiv yog ib tug coj noj coj ua rau ib tsoom kwv tij neej tsa txheeb ze xwb, tsis yog coj plaub tsaws tug rau leej twg. Nws tes dej num no yeej tshwm sim nruab thiab li ntawv rau nws nyiam. Yog li koj tsis muaj cai mus tawm tsam lwm tus tau thuam neb. Story 2 - Koj tsis txhob siv Hmoob tej txuj coj koj ua neej. Koj txawj khwv tau nyiaj, tab sis nyiaj pheej tsis nyob nrog koj vim muaj lwm yam los cuam tshuam rau koj siv nyiaj rau yam ntawv no ces koj lub meej mom los yog hwj chim tsis duav tau koj cov nyiaj.

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Question1: just do what your husband said let those critics go. You can not do much about what people say. lucky you to have a husband that cooks. Just ignore bad talks

[@yjky75246]

Question 1: sister, who cares what people say. They don’t live with you, they don’t know. I’m in the same boat with you. My family thinks I’m lazy because my husband take care of the house me and the kids very well. They think my husband wear the skirt and I wear the pants, but then don’t even know. As long as you and your husband understand each other, then you’re good. Every woman wants a husband like ours. you and I are the lucky one. Be happy of what you got. Q#2: that’s simple. stop complaining to people about how broke you are. Remember that some people have no filter. Especially Hmong people.

[@Peter123969]

Tsis yog lo hniav. I'm 95% sure it's a mouth guard. She probably grinds her teeth a lot. The mouth guard is used to counter teeth grinding. But funny story nonetheless.

[@paxiong5725]

Cas me tub mos ab awd yuav kawm tsis tiav li os cov teen meem muaj li no twb ntau heev li lawm laiv cas nej pheej kawm tsis tiav li na. Yuav tsum hais tias ab muab nyiaj ko ntau zog kuv tub mos ab thiaj pom kev tseeb ma.

[@kuvxwb11]

Poj niam taim tshiab no ma lawv nyiam tus txiv txawj ua noj ua hau txawj tu vaj tu tsev pab lawv. Lawv tsis nyiam tus txiv uas tub tub kheeg los yog tsis txawj dabtsi kiag li tsuas txawj noj mov xwb cov ntawm lawv tsis ntshaw. Niam pog ma lawv khib khib thiab mob mob siab yog tias lawv pom lawv tus tub ua noj ua haus tu vaj tu tsev. Niam pog ma xav cia lawv tus tub ua nom nyob dawb xwb ma niam pog thiaj zoo siab pom ua hauj lwm los yog pab tu me nyuam xwb ma txhuam kiag niam pog.

[@hlubyang4072]

#2....yog lawv pheej hais li ntawv rau koj....koj hais rau lawv tias koj khwv tsis tau nyiaj....yog lawv paub npaum li ntawv no kom lawv qhia lej Powerball numbers rau koj yuav kom rau es koj txhob txom nyem...koj nug li no xwb tiag

[@lillyofthevalley72]

Q:1 I understand your husband is a better cook, but when you have guests over, can you help him by doing the dishes or something else? Otherwise, as long as you guys are both happy with your arrangement, don't worry about what others think and don't make it a bigger problem. People talk because misery loves company.

[@leek-te5dx]

Q1, Tell anyone you come across the truth about your husband and be proud. Honestly, your husband finds it therapeutic to cook and clean so tell those people how lucky you are Q2- Bro it is your health that is your wealth not pieces of gold and silver. Those telling you to do plastic surgery to remove your molds is indirectly telling you to killz yourself. Be smart okay. Find ways to earn if not cherish your health more.

[@michaelf2700]

Q1: Ur husband need to defend u & tell the truth, especially from his family. No matter what u say, no one is going to believe u.

[@maiyang3659]

Txawm Koj tus txiv yog ib tus neeg nyiam ua pluas noj pluas haus los yog thaum muaj qhua tuaj Koj tsis txhob los zaum tham pem nrog qhua, txawm Koj tus txiv mus ua mov noj los Koj yuav tau mus nrog nws ua thiab hos, ob leeg ua ces luag yeej hais tsis tau Koj qhov phem ho li

[@hlubyang4072]

#1...neeg txawm hais li cas lo koj txhob KKKK...yuav tu txiv zoo li ko thiaj li tsis mob hlwb....txhob ntshaw tu txiv es mus noj haus tuav rawv poom beer 🍺 xwb....tu txiv no mas dhua siab tshaj plaws...tu txiv tuav beer nws tsuas tau qhov haus Beer xwb

[@NpisVwjNeejYias]

Yog koj yog ib tug niam tsev es thaum muaj qhua tuaj, koj tsis mus ua noj es koj tus txiv ho yog tus mus ua noj no tshe koj tsis tshua tseem ceeb heev. Txhaum koj tus txiv yuav paub ua noj npaum cas los yog koj lub luag hawj lwm.

[@leejmuam1]

😂😂 nej cov pojniam es siv AI picture xwb na 😂

[@krisloveseat]

To the lady that said her man does all the house chores- your mil is right, when you have guests you should do some cooking and cleaning even tho your man say no. You don’t even help out that’s why ppls talk shait about you, I don’t feel sorry for u bc sounds like u don’t even try your best, haha

[@msxyong03]

Where can I get the hmong hat on picture?😅

[@wisteria4550]

1st Q: regardless what others think of you and your husband. The reason they said that because they’re jealous that your husband loves you. Just listen to your husband. Q2: Tus mus, thaum i kuv lub neej zoo li koj hais thiab os. Tab sis txij thaum kuv mus church es kuv pib tso nyiaj ib feem kaum ces kuv pib tseg tau nyiaj. Tsis yog kuv yuav kom koj mus church os. Maybe once a while you donate little bit money to children hospital to help them do research or to buy meds for children with cancers. I don’t know. Just a suggestion. Good luck. Also, you’re still young. Not time to have $$$ yet.

[@miabhlub63]

Secret 1: no teeth 😅

[@MengYang-j7g]

To question 1: because he knows you are too lazy!

[@shouathao6281]

Tus txiv tsev muaj tias ntaus ntaus koj txhob tus siab rau qhov tib neeg hais koj cov tia mas txhob tseeg nawb koj rau rau siab khwv txog caij muaj ces koj mam muaj xwb mog tsis txog caij ces yeej ua lis koj hais mog mus yuav ib qho khoom los txhawb koj lis hmoov xwb ces nyiaj nrog koj nyob lawm MAs koj mus saib Feng shui hau KZbin mas yog koj kho koj lub Vaj lub tsev raws lis Lawv qhia ntawd no khwv tau nyiaj ces nyiaj nrog yus nyob nyiaj tsis tawm lawm mas

[@onlygod5667]

Q1. What is wrong with the guy cooking? Damn hmoob 1975 smh.

[@nengxiong6991]

Koj tub nkeeg xwb os niam tsev !!!

[@NancyYang-g8s]

Thaub Hmong nplog aws....koj ces qias neeg ua neeg tag nqi xwb os. Nej cov hmong nplog ko ces qias neeg txhua tus tsi hais tus laus tus hluas yeej qias neeg.

[@myprecious6751]

1st question, sister, why are you letting other people's opinions affect your marriage? You have a GREAT husband! Who gives a Fuk about those people. Your husband is domesticated and a good partner. THOSE PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS AND ENVIOUS. Let them talk. Nothing wrong with a man wearing a apron.

[@MengYang-j7g]

Again to question 1: step up your game if you don't want to hear anything

[@MSMAIYANG]

Q1: I’m offended for you because the kitchen is not just women’s job. Cleaning the house is also not women’s job. They are life skills for everyone. It does not belong to one specific gender whether you are Hmong or not. You don’t need to pretend to wear an apron just to show off to the stupid relatives. The people that judge you are just jealous and are stuck in their patriarchal cycle. They don’t know that all the well-known chefs at restaurants are males. Those people need to get out more. Q2: you don’t have to attend every gathering. That’s how you will save.

[@SuaVwj-n8f]

?1: stay silent. Not worth it. ?2: it fake. I don't belive it.

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

1. No need 2 sue those gossipers for your husband's reputation cus he likes to take on the role of a house wife by cooking n cleaning. C'mon, It's 2024 not 1975, ok. Men n women have equal rights which means husbands n wives' roles r reversed. A husband can stay home, take care of the kids, n cook n clean while wife goes to work. If they talk about ur husband n u anymore, then tell them the truth. Tell them that it's his choice to cook n clean. U didn't make him do it. 2. Yog koj xav hais tias tim koj txoj Hmoov phem es thiaj tseg tsis tau nyiaj no ces kuj ua ib thaj neeb kho koj thiab tsev neeg los pob. Tsis yog tim koj cov tias li os. Tsis tas li ntawd, koj yuav tsum muaj ib qhov emergency saving account rau koj siv thaum tsheb piam thiab muaj mob tej yam sai sai li ntawd na. Tsheb puas vim yus tsis txuag xwb. Nyob twj ywm hauv tsev tsis txhob mus mus ces tsheb kuj tsis puas xwb los moj.

[@meemeezong1827]

Hmm that was pretty useless story.