How To Make People Feel Incredible Around You

[@Charismaoncommand]

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[@kacperilnicki35]

Charisma on Command hey just Intrigued what was that quiz at the beginning

[@beccag1107]

Charisma on command, PLEASE do a breakdown on Taika Waititi’s humour and charisma. I love your videos, they’re super helpful. It would be awesome if you could do this. Thnx

[@mewsao]

Please do Chadwick Boseman one!

[@AssortedBits]

Just wanting to point out that the subtitles are off starting at 11:02.

[@ishpeeedy]

Subtitles get a bit different after some time

[@Mysteri0usChannel]

Chris Hemsworth is basically a human Golden Retriever. Friendly and polite, builds you up, sometimes misbehaves but never in a bad, always in a funny way.

[@fayHoran]

exactly. i also saw a fanart of golden retriever thor and a cat loki fighting xD

[@RenzXVI]

That's funny. I've been watching funny pet videos all day and then somehow ended up randomly clicking on this video. So which pet store sells a Golden Chris Hemsworth?

[@nbucwa6621]

Accurate

[@thedoneeye]

I just hope that also means he's completely housebroken and microchipped 😉

[@ultrahocherhitzte]

I feel like that's Chris Pratt though. Chris Hemsworth is more of a St.Bernard..

[@Kloutrous808]

"TOUCH EVERYONE" yes, I've been doing this for years. Everyone in my cell loves me

[@syra1541]

HAHAHHAHA NOOO

[@aspenINTEL]

hysterical

[@mattglasgow4383]

They didn’t react well to me saying I’m a universal toucher...

[@hernatundag601]

🤣😄😃

[@jam_music2448]

HA.HA.

[@finnchiss1948]

1. humor- short jokes that elevate his friends. 2. touching people 3. not hiding things, confidence 4. compliments (that are true)

[@nikitasidoryuk852]

You can't touch people if ur ugly then r a creep

[@dorian_tihi5869]

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[@g0o0ey]

@@nikitasidoryuk852 with that additude, just be friendly and not creepy its not hard.

[@HeritageDrPepper]

The 6 points made in the video are time stamped in the description for anyone who likes time stamps or want more information.

[@starsungglitters6121]

@@nikitasidoryuk852 Sounds like an excuse , maybe try learning how to touch people non creepily

[@TheBubbeloo]

It helps being ridiculously good-looking. Granted it's not everything and his personality is what matters, but good looks always give a head start when meeting new people.

[@jakeb934]

It can actually have the opposite effect and be intimidating.

[@Jakeylicious7891]

It's true especially with the touchy feely stuff. If a nonconventional looking man does what Chris does, he'd be deemed creepy, especially with the over touching.

[@angelkaye6196]

@@Jakeylicious7891 Was going to say that. Its natural to want to be touched by beautiful people but more disgusted by odd looking or strange looking people.

[@neslisultan]

You’re 100% correct! And a lot of people will lose respect for you if you’re a really nice person unless you’re really good looking and/or successful!

[@PeterParker-jl9ll]

u know some ppl cant rlly change their looks, unless ur a girl or whatever and make-up can help but for guys were dealt w the cards that we have and cant change our appearance

[@Kareszkoma]

Chris Hemsworth has that "bro" touch. He is confident and friendly, but.. not pushy. It's just like "hey buddy".

[@davidperrier6149]

I understand what you're saying but can we not use the term "bro touch" anymore?

[@Kareszkoma]

Oki. That's fine.

[@ItsBetterEveryDay]

Wholesome

[@goodtimes8229]

@@ItsBetterEveryDay INdeed.

[@_Chad_ThunderCock]

@@davidperrier6149 why? I don't get it?

[@lolawho8676]

he is a healthy, confident person without any complexes...and this is always attractive and make ppl comfortable...

[@gasgaslex_photos]

Lola Who He's Australian, we're all like that 😎

[@Rmmmm7000]

gasgasLex oh shit.... I’m Australian and I’m full of complexes and self esteem issues.... I think I australianed wrong. :/

[@gandalainsley6467]

healthy, good looking , confident , tall and has good personality so yeah all of those things and what there is that he cant do , can he sing wait, yes he can , and he had both parents wow dude is lucky

[@odinsmith6249]

Serial killee

[@TaymaShine]

exactly. it’s harder for people who didn’t grow up in a healthy environment with healthy parents and a healthy sense of self worth, but it is still possible to reach that level regardless, it just takes more time.

[@damonovna]

Oh yes, 14 minutes of detailed explanation why Chris Hemsworth is great. Now I have a scientific base for my crush on him.

[@marjamka8183]

Yep

[@braindead5283]

Yep, me too.

[@nimisha6584]

Hel...yeah!

[@samarium1934]

@@nimisha6584 leave

[@nimisha6584]

@@samarium1934 c'mon Let us play fortnite. Korg was too easy

[@atable2505]

“If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well” very true and something to think about

[@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64]

The Halo Effect.

[@mallorycarpinski1160]

And of course the inverse is true...

[@bahaatamer1245]

1. Hilarious 2. Incredible at touch! (Make it feel good!). 3. Shares things about him that can be embarrassing, with no fear of judgement! 4. Shares praise with those who helped him through!

[@Sam.Wendorf]

I really hope Chris watches these videos when he has bad days. He deserves to know just how lovely of a person he really is.

[@Billie4Mozzarella]

Fun fact: Chris Hemsworth is described as the "most sensitive Hemsworth brother". He didn't like conflict, he liked to sew, he was never a bully, he was very much the stereotypical middle child--creative, peacekeeping and sensitive. The reason he's considered the most attractive of all the brothers even if Liam could challenge him looks-wise is because he's a warm, kind, sensitive person, and is unafraid to show it. Given that he gets a lot of big bruiser badass roles, the revelation that he's not only a great dad but that he's always been "the sensitive one" who clearly shares affection and is completely and totally secure in his masculinity is extremely attractive to both women and men.

[@mridulnair4754]

Chris is the best looking off all the 3 brothers. Luke is 2nd and Liam is 3rd for me honestly

[@seanlynch788]

Ya I'm the middle child and I'm definitely not the most peaceful one

[@potato-whiz]

Based on looks alone... 1. Chris 2. Liam 3. Luke.

[@mikahong]

Theres a third one?

[@sathyanarayanay.h.9630]

Perfectly described 👍

[@gulabo2139]

Humor -Jokes that elevate others around me -Move on soon after the joke is done -Do the OPPOSITE if you are comfortable enough with that person -Don't be like this all the time Touch people -be a universal toucher -Adjust touch depending on the factors -Don't scary touch -Make it feel good Not hiding things, confidence -don't be afraid of other's judgement Share praise -Compliment in public and only when you mean it

[@ShotheadWins]

"Don't scary touch" A beautiful phrase.

[@koolyokam007]

This channel has a crush on Chris Hemsworth. Just admit it.

[@otso23]

I sure as hell do

[@kylewhite9383]

Who doesn’t have a crush on chris, we’re only human ❤️

[@Photosounder]

Chris is love, Chris is life.

[@GloriaCeleste]

Who doesn’t?

[@kevo6463]

Don’t we all lmaoo

[@nooralukkarinen7507]

I'm not even here for the tips I just want people to acknowledge how amazing Chris is

[@LapineTingTing]

Same same! 😂

[@dyver123]

Same dude, same

[@marshallvalentino2572]

Honestly I love him so much

[@karinshadi227]

"Watch Chris Evans lose his mind in his next clip" Evans cry from laughter everytime Hemmy breathes lmao 😂

[@Evabernard868]

PLEASE HELP I see this clip everywhere as a good example and I can't find a single version with subtitles; what on earth does he say??

[@cobyvinkovic6594]

Yeah I can't speak Australian, I have no idea what Chris said.

[@Einalem_1]

Jamie Bernard He says: “he doesn’t bring nuances”

[@Evabernard868]

@@Einalem_1 THANK U!!

[@hausofdelena]

Same

[@omgbygollywow]

I think a lot of people are watching all these videos, because I meet people who try to do all these things that these videos recommend, but everything goes out the window when something goes wrong and then their true character comes out and you see their true colors. To me, being genuine and being a nice person is the best way to be popular. Most people can see through other people when they are trying to employ a technique and trying to "be popular". Maybe it's best not to try to "be popular" but to be a good person who cares about others, and then you will be popular.

[@damienwayne2347]

charisma on command be out here putting all his friends on blast

[@ironmanmason4247]

Damien Wayne LMAO 🤣🤣 underrated comment

[@granter0493]

"Touch everyone" Kevin spacey joined the game*

[@tanjasteinrotter8084]

Granter04 Say what?

[@dipanjanghosal1662]

Looool

[@drprofessor2k05]

Granter04 "Touch everyone" Bill Cosby joined the game*

[@heinzelias]

That's to much man 😂 I can.t ...

[@rahmathunnisa3448]

Maybe a bit too much. Looonl

[@curlyswirly]

Can you imagine Emilia Clark and Chris Hemsworth doing an interview or working together?

[@ricochico1144]

They'd just be constantly smiling and touching each other and it'd be like "You're the best !" "No you're awesome !" "No you are !"

[@WinterCharmVT]

They would take the box office by a storm.

[@fredlebhart1393]

We’d all wind up pregnant

[@candieland4276]

Whooooooaaaaaaaa...I just don't know if we could take that much 'cute' haha

[@zetjet9901]

*t h i s n e e d s t o e x i s t*

[@Clambaked070]

Every person has at least 5 enduring beautiful things about them. Some are obvious and some are precious diamonds you have to dig to find.

[@user-zq8sr8rq4r]

That is such a great outlook, I’m gonna ponder that more.

[@JulianKeniryGreen]

Nicely said!

[@chronolys]

lowkey watching this before school starts to help my anti social ass LMAO

[@ohhellyeah2878]

Hope it helped.

[@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho5540]

how’d you do?

[@chronolys]

@@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho5540 UHHH I DONT REMEMBER BUT I GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL JUST FINE BDJSKWJDD

[@matthewschank8173]

Hope it helps! 🙏

[@monkey-ke4yt]

@@chronolys dam u replied

[@lindsaymansur6462]

Basically, be humble, grateful, not self-depricating, funny without being mean (which is how so many are), and be authentic.

[@FallingStary]

Thank you because I swear everyone else grabbed "be attractive" and ran with it

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

Self-deprication is okay but in moderate amounts and as self-irony and sarcasm. It might even add to charisma if done properly.

[@gandalainsley6467]

@@FallingStary well its most of it really

[@FallingStary]

@@gandalainsley6467 not really maybe short term in the beginning but it can only take you so far

[@gandalainsley6467]

@@FallingStary well but if you dont have it you wont even get to beginning

[@Goneforgoodflsh]

Btw, the "he's a friend from work" was actually an idea from a teen extra on set, and actually Chris talks about it in an interview.

[@piqueny8872]

Be a real life Hercules! Have eyes like diamonds, a smile that will melt titanium, and a sexy accent that’s will do the trick! Good luck all men out there

[@AllTheBrightPlaces1231]

1. Be a really nice person 2. Be super talented 3. Be hella funny That's basically all you need to do How do I know this? One of my friends has all of these and he's literally friends with everyone....the entire school knows this guy Confidence 👍

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

You can be all three but not be charismatic. Its more rare but it's completely possible and happens quite a bit.

[@bg357wg]

Sofia Rodriguez I think a lot of the charisma goes into that third one with humor...?

[@ballexbanan]

I am nice I think . . . I have a talent singing and drawing but no one hear me when I sing and no one looks at my drawings I am not funny That is me

[@spiderman9972]

@@ballexbanan Are you a guy or a girl. Girls like drawing. More usually (not all the time). But are charismatic? You dont need to be funny. Just be confident. Which is hard do instead if just say in your head. But I dont doubt that you seem like a nice person

[@edofluit6568]

@@ballexbanan well not everyone can be the popular one

[@RaffyAyala]

"Own what you do or don't do it" Preach

[@KelleyBroussardMackaig]

That was the best take away I got from this!! So may times, I've half committed and it made things awkward AF!

[@SeenSven]

Very helpful thank you ^^

[@cornoffthecobs7299]

Helped me too

[@anatolelaudet2183]

Well, the touching isn't all that relevant these days, unfortunately...

[@Wheebzee]

No way it's the minecraft prison guy

[@adityajha7841]

wtf are you doing here? This was the most unexpected thing i saw today... Also i really love your content

[@jkl799]

I've never heard a bad thing about Chris Hemsworth. He is such a charming and good human.

[@hipnhappenin]

Breaks my heart when I realize I naturally do all these things but still have no friends

[@ayslanferrari8028]

Are you sure you're trying it to the right people? hahaha

[@lilyroza]

Well, take all this advice with a grain of salt. For starters: Don't touch everyone. Distrust anyone who touches everyone. In many circles, touching people innappropriately or indiscriminately will get you shunned or worse.

[@gareeba4492]

Lol

[@discountfantasy5719]

These are just a few puzzle pieces from the bigger picture, it doesn’t mean that if you do these 3-4 things you will have everything. Your problem is somewhere else

[@NightOfCrystals]

Take heart! You will have friends. There are times in life when you feel like you have no one, those moments deepen the joy when you do feel a connection.

[@MehdiNPartDeux]

Damn, you're friend had to find out this way....

[@robertogracia6071]

Hahaha (your*)

[@MehdiNPartDeux]

+Robert Garcia Thanks, your the best lol

[@erikm9768]

was thinking the same :D

[@moreomar2026]

MehdiNPartDeux you're**

[@davidgodfrey9780]

MehdiNPartDeux Savage

[@imomifysupport4543]

he is absolute gorgeous, I’m sure it plays a role in the welcomed touching. he definitely knows he’s hot although he doesn’t act cocky at all his confidence shines through and is seen as comfort, approachability and kindness. He seems like an open minded awakened man. Much respect to him, I feel like I know the guy. 🧐

[@ishbanyadav]

We always tend to notice a thing or two but to compile so many qualities and make it in a form of an amazing presentation is so motivation and learnable (if that's a word)🙌

[@jypandeyji1064]

Mr IY oh god u i see u 😝

[@erikm9768]

I agree. And, "motivational and making it easier to learn" :)

[@pantino21]

You know what the answer to this question is. Just be yourself and stop trying too hard what if youre not funny and it goes awkward. Being yourself is the best way to be popular haha

[@ismailsafi3350]

Mr IY 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻

[@ishbanyadav]

Ismail safi kya hua ismail bhai? Itne khafa kis baat ke liye?

[@minusonegamer2884]

Having a sexy accent helps. Like a lot. A LOT!

[@mrs.schmenkman]

Uh...Russell Crowe?

[@emjanevlogs4752]

So if I move to USA I’ll pull the guys?🤪🤪 (Aussie here)

[@danielhenderson4816]

Em Jane Vlogs you will

[@esperanzabaca663]

I can watch these videos all day, it’s not only about being liked or being popular it’s about building better relationships with others :)

[@naomiariel01]

he’s not scared to be himself because he KNOWS he’s hot and charming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ighorkingeski8944]

Yeah, that's easy-peasy for him

[@anominousanonymous9344]

Well, he knows he's hot... being charming, though, is part of 'not being scared to be himself'.

[@cinlocybin]

It's kinda funny how Americans find Chris Hemsworth's personality so charming, but in Australia, that's just the typical bloke.

[@ambre4144]

cinlocybin the people in Australia must be so nice and so much fun then.. I wish I could have a frien like Chris Hemsworth

[@Cubannerd]

American men are naturally awkward.

[@kofola9145]

@@ambre4144 It is vegemite.

[@ambre4144]

kof ola sorry to sound stupid but what is that ? ( I’m French soo don’t come at me)

[@sarawawa8984]

I guess I need to move to Australia (haha jk I’ve heard the stories about spiders there and idk if the stories are true but I’m not risking it)

[@ChrisHemsworthIndia]

He is good looking? Yep. But what more than that? He is good person, good friend, good colleague, good husband, great father, great son, not a good brother when he was child but now freaking yes. He bring his elder bro Luke in mcu. In a word he is the guy people always wanted to be surrounded by.

[@linahorn5877]

when he said his daughter painted his nails uwu thats a real man

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I like he's down-to-earth he's real, he has class and he's like the Kid Next Door that you grew up with. I've had some very supportive parents and or family members who believes in sharing the credit where credit is due.

[@Ostravska_Klobasa]

"Just be funny." OMG thank you, how did I not think of that?

[@alexturner7564]

@@condimentking0073 wat

[@Rone-ki1hm]

Step 1: Win the Genetic Lottery

[@LAkadian]

Self fulfilling prophecy, mate.

[@Kintaro0e]

Yeah that pretty much is it lol

[@Madtv50]

it's not a lottery blame your parent for not being attractive enough

[@cocacolla95]

they not guilty for not being attractive enough, they lost that lottery as well @@Madtv50

[@joshuaizly5502]

Ikr I wish I had Jack Black's body

[@aruzhan9040]

Am i the only one here after brie larson interview?

[@lupic2786]

normal girl thought I was the only one

[@athenanagano2807]

Lol same 😂

[@laurel1865]

Poor brie

[@NewkirkChris]

I’m absolutely here because of that haha

[@emberrey1814]

Literally just came from that video, and after cringing so hard I needed something to lift my spirits again :/

[@Elibel77]

The narrative about touch, the whole 4-5 min, HUGE. Great job! This is so crucial to making people ,and yourself, comfortable.

[@colinmadison6005]

I just wanted to say, at first I felt weird watching KZbin videos on how to be popular and stuff, but you are actually very smart and I love your approach on things. This channel can be very good for people like me who might even like to talk to people but just have trouble in social situations. So thanks man, keep doing what you do.

[@richaprasad6737]

I wonder how many of these tips are applicable to women. Women touching everyone and/or giving away credit tends to carry a very different type of interpretation than when men do it.

[@s.o.2628]

Richa Prasad Yes, that's what I thought! I tried being a "universal toucher" when I was younger, but hot dog, did that mislead guys. Now I'm only comfortable touching girls since guys act like an arm touch is a love confession :(

[@KelleyBroussardMackaig]

Serena Journalist - LOLOLOL "but hot dog did that mislead guys" - Haaaahaaa!! 😆

[@RubyJamez]

Yea true, the same goes in opposite direction, I don't like at all when men of my "dating" age touch me. If you are over 40 or under 15, it is fine, otherwise just creepy no matter how friendly the touch is.

[@scp--297]

I think it depends on who the other person it is and also how you personally act while you do that. I am a "Universal toucher" and it does mislead certain people but once me and that person is in the group. They usually start to realize that I'm just a "touchy" person and that I'm not interested in that way. If they drop hits that they like me, I try to basically tell them I see them only as friends with verbal language and body language. If it start getting too weird though then I don't touch that person at all while still showing in good with everyone else.

[@AlliBearASMRVA]

I was just about to comment on that when I ran across your comment Richa Prasad. I feel women are more scrutinized for being touchy or showing interest in conversation because sometimes it is interpreted incorrectly. I would like a guide (for women) on how to act without leading people on, or without it being misinterpreted as sexual.

[@lovetrustandpixiedust]

Chris just is secure in his masculinity and who he is without feeling the need to overcompensate or bring others down. That's incredibly attractive in a guy and likeable in anyone.

[@theredguy8746]

The thing that I struggle most with in social situations is consistency. A lot of us have only good intentions, but we go about it the wrong way and it has cost me plenty of potentially awesome relationships with awesome people, and now I'm here thinking that I will never make it up.

[@Rmmmm7000]

I feel like the more I watch these videos the more I over analyse my behaviour and the more socially awkward I become 😂😂

[@robertyeakel4186]

this is exactly why i dont watch that many of these lol

[@RenzXVI]

Whatever you do, don't resort to watching funny/cute pet videos or you'll end up with 11 cats...

[@gandalainsley6467]

it just makes me realize that most of it is just looks and money , because i have similar traits , and i was still treated like a shit as kid , teen , then i had 2 years of me going mental and beating anyone who said something that i didnt like , weirdly people tried then to be my "friends" well they tried to be around me more

[@LaviniaDeMortalium]

In the same vein I'd like to see you explore Tom Hiddleston's quieter style of charisma

[@Charismaoncommand]

I'm game! Please tweet me some videos that you like and I'll watch them :-)

[@elliel.5915]

I think that the point about his jokes elevating the people around him is spot on. I've actually noticed how much of a difference this makes in real life. When I was in middle school/early high school, my friends and I would constantly make jokes at one another's expense. The "haha you have no friends" or the "what the hell are you wearing?" type. We would pass it off as silly and not serious, but it made me feel like crap in the long run, and actually hurt my self-esteem a lot. Now, we all make jokes that elevate others, and everything is so much better. We don't do it insincerely either. Not saying this is the only reason my friendships are in a better place nowadays, but it played its part. tl;dr: Make jokes that build your friends up, not tear them down. It really does make a difference.

[@potato-whiz]

Ellie Em my husband has a humor like that. I’ve said to be his friend you have to have thick skin and “get” him or else you won’t hold up and take it personally. In his defense, he can take as well as give too. But it can be too much sometimes, especially when it’s just a constant barrage of playful insults, it just creates a negative vibe. He’s very charismatic otherwise though. People love him generally.

[@cheanarchist2381]

my sis baby daddy was builder on his house , he’s so sweet he shouted everyone & there familys drinks lunch at music & DJ at the beach hotel .. so sweet to get everyone together for a party day just to say thanks ☺️

[@anunnakimenagerie]

How to touch everyone: ✅ Chris Hemsworth ❌ Joe Biden

[@j.3mmiller575]

Haha! I respect your authenticity :)

[@anunnakimenagerie]

@@j.3mmiller575 thx ;)

[@justinshalu8034]

lol

[@kshitizyadav3174]

Creepy joe 😂

[@wifilost]

Trump did the same thing

[@guiller2371]

Awesome video. Actually, his body language is like a happy brotherhood type of hug. The message is very positive, especially nowadays where everyone is afraid of being tagged by getting too close. It also seems to me that this behavior empowers him in the group. It makes him the dominant figure.

[@delloda]

Universal touching requires you to be at least 2 levels above average in looks.

[@orti1283]

nah, just come to any latin american country and you'll see

[@delloda]

@@orti1283 Latin American guys are sometimes seen as creepy in Europe for this reason.

[@alis7135]

Yup

[@paulinezugzwang1773]

Naaah it has to do with vibe and not being a creep. If it's none sexual touching, why should your appearance matter? I would refrain from touching people you barely know though, you never know how they would react. The McCartney clip in the video is obviously a joke.

[@__ForTheSakeOfMen]

It's simply confidence and comfortability, but good looks don't hurt

[@davedave8263]

The reason he is able to compliment people without sounding like he is sucking up is because he genuinely believes that everyone should have credit. But like with everything else that he does, he says what he needs to say, he is direct, then he moves on.

[@dawncruz4389]

"no matter what you look like" potato faced me: great thank you

[@BrettMaverick]

I have a great idea. Do a character dissection on Jason Momoa!

[@moritzw.8991]

Brett Maverick hi Brett nice meeting you here!

[@Johnnythefirst]

I think it would basically be the same. They are very alike in personality if you ask me... :)

[@ablebodied175]

Hi Brett.

[@ozancanca9740]

Yo how did you came here? Love ur vids by the way😍

[@mewsao]

he's the poor man hemsworth

[@annipsy2185]

His so chill and confident and COMFORTABLE, thats what i get from him😄 when i watch him in an interview ,it looks like his just sitting at home hangin out with buddies. i feel like its probably a bit of an Australian thing! Since Hugh Jackman kinda gives me the same vibe....

[@coldenvfx]

Anni Psy lol

[@PumperPanda95]

I am 6'3 as well and I am not very charismatic. Don't look for easy excuses.

[@annipsy2185]

Nick O idk why i didnt tell u this story a month ago but now i will. When i was younger i met a boy, he realy liked me, we were talking on the phone and i called him some cutesy name. He suddenly got offended!!! He said: u call me that because im short ?! Thats probably why u dont like me like i do.... I said: whatt are u talking about????? He said: that im shorter than u!!! Ive never even noticed his height!!!! Not in the slightest! He was the one who had issues with it, not me!!! I dont think i need to explain this any further but i hope i made my point clear.

[@Kasuyaki007]

that's interesting, sometimes being too easily offended or insecure can lead to making some imaginary problems become real.

[@smurfvolvo]

Anni Psy it's easy to be confident when you know most women want you and most men want to be you 😂

[@realyzer]

"Touch the person" after coronavirus. lol. This virus was created to destroy Chris Hemsworth's charisma

[@gersonencarnacion3744]

Underrated comment.

[@zariacaprio1491]

Lol'ed

[@badmoxstudios]

@Henry Rennard I hate being touched, especially if it's constant. But I will happily take it if it's from Chris Hemsworth 😂

[@krisss79]

@@badmoxstudios well you don't hate being touched. You hate being touched by some people.

[@juliemarie8963]

lol

[@laurenjcoates]

I think the touching one is VERY dependent on how good looking he is. If you’re a pale, overweight, scruffying looking guy it might not go over so well

[@ChanelROETV]

Lauren exactly

[@jonathann4280]

That’s just a fact :/. Unfortunately in western society if you happen to be fat it is much much harder than being skinny. If you’re fat you’re already perceived a certain way right off the bat by society

[@gamble777888]

That's true but only incidentally. Pale, overweight, and scruffy are traits that usually are either the cause of or a result of insecurity. I've met overweight people who are charismatic and touch and joke around with people very effectively, and the key is that they are confident in their own skin.

[@brandiphillips5775]

I love being pale.

[@Commander_Shepard.]

What about Hagrid then?

[@PowahSlapEntertainmint]

Because he's Thor.

[@annipsy2185]

PowahSlap Entertainmint yah im tellin you, its a bit of a superhero thing. OR they get those kind of people for the roles😄

[@guytube1227]

Wait, what are you doing here?

[@batman2385]

Life isn't fair.

[@apollonian_lux2473]

He's thor? I can barely walk!

[@bruh-ur5vw]

Stop following me 😂😂

[@volbla]

"[...] without trying" "Be very touchy" This is going to be a problem.

[@benjaminaltman4895]

Hahaha that's fair. I was aiming to express that it's lower effort habits than having to be charismatic by telling amazing 5 minute stories. Chris conveys a lot of confidence and charm without needing to be center of attention for a super long period of time :-)

[@caraliu3660]

Great video! I'd love to hear about how to do this as a female. I don't see a lot of women touching a lot of people so I feel like the universal touching part probably only works for men. Also, I wish more women would elevate other men and women around them as much as men tend to do (always envious of the closeness of male friendships, where they constantly build each other up, support them, and also checks them by being honest with them). I need to step up, but ladies, we need to step up!

[@violetviolet888]

The principles are not gender specific. Think about the women you respect and then look for the principles they use.

[@destinyhntr]

@@violetviolet888 Yes. All of these thigns he's mentioning apply to women too. Just because the example person is male doesn't mean it's gender specific.

[@violetviolet888]

@@destinyhntr I was responding to the original poster's comment. And I disagree. If the creator of the video wanted to, they could depict the concepts with equal representation females and males. After all: males, particularly white males, have had more than their fair share of airtime.

[@sesonam4176]

I don’t know what type of women you are around but all the women I know have this bond and sisterhood, it’s not a gender thing

[@inuhundchien6041]

Ermmmm it's a you problem because women touch each other so easily and naturally unlike men. Of course it's rare for people of opposite gender to do this with each other.

[@DBZMacky]

Everyone loves him!

[@tsfbaf303]

DBZ Macky Doubt it

[@helloMRdj1]

Hope youre sarcastic because if youre, thats the first thing i thought in this video. I dont know if being popular is even good, and ill tell you that other actors telling you they love someone is faker tan Pamela Andersons tits. Hollywood has always been fake.

[@cre8gnr8nrg]

Most movie stars are entertainers, not actors. Hence Gary Oldman was my favorite actor before I even knew his name. Didn't know it was him from one film to the next. Suspension of disbelief...

[@aries6663]

Lol I dont

[@enteringzeropoint7856]

Loki has some issues with him and Hela definitely feels disrespected by her younger brother. Having said that I'm sure they both still love him.

[@MyWifesSon69]

When you're good looking it's easy to have confidence

[@kyle-kz6iy]

Exactly. He knows he is good looking, so he isn't scared of embarrassing his self. He doesn't care about people judging him because why should he.

[@senyummewek]

actually, confidence is one of handsome traits.. it's true that handsome person get confidence easily.. but also, confidence could make u looks more handsome.. think about that

[@discountfantasy5719]

senyummewek the burn =))

[@cinnamonstix8196]

Idk... Most models actually have the lowest self confidence but I'm not sure about good looking people in general

[@wadelockwood9224]

6:42 Nobody: This guy: touch EVERYONE

[@supportteam6808]

Chris Hemsworth has that loving big brother/cool dad vibe with EVERYONE...that is why he is so likable...it is his nature!

[@derrickcullors0929]

Elevating Compliments is an art. Its intended to make a person feel good but also designed to make others like you.

[@Kinsey6King]

I am incredibly late on the Chris Hemsworth train. He’s amazing...

[@keepXonXrockin]

I think a video on Emma stone would be great. I find her very likable in interviews. I feel like she's actually really nice. Jennifer Lawrence is always heralded as this super laid-back funny girl but I personally find her really annoying.

[@McDoodle44]

Agree. Lawrence is nice and smart but acting it out over the top. As if that's another role to play

[@joquendof]

The hate is real

[@loladolly5277]

100% agree!

[@karolasek7154]

This "universal toucher" reminds me of Park Jimin who I really really like and lots of people thinks he's just a guy who you cannot dislike, he likes to give hugs to everyone too so that's probably one of his secrets hahaha

[@mediumx3241]

The touchy thing works good for him beause he's a very attractive and tall guy with a protective aura. When he's getting in physical contact with other men it just looks like a father with his son or a big brother. If he wasn't such a big guy it could certainly be a different story and his "touchy" behaviour would be seen more negatively like he's trying to assert himself.

[@fembot521]

You basically need to be this way naturally otherwise it is awkward AF

[@theemperor1015]

We keep changing throughout our lives. Try to remember how you were 5 years ago.

[@gandalainsley6467]

@@theemperor1015 yeah i was smiling , wait no that was kid me , i was getting more angry at the time by being treated like shit yeah that was good time

[@travis_redfern6771]

It can be a gradual change tho. I know I went from being crazy and lighthearted around a lot of people back in middle school to being very shy within a few years. (And it being what people know me as now) So I think it can go both ways too.

[@Ajesen]

@@theemperor1015 yes

[@misaelarvizu7023]

I agree

[@becksdresure]

This is kind of revealing inner character traits that stem from within such as unselfish love for others and humbleness ... consideration for others... Neat thanks

[@leesawyer4340]

"If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well" Thx for that one

[@OfficiallyNazo]

I wish there was an exact channel like this more towards females

[@mxrder8]

Y’all can get damn near anybody y’all want tho 😭 we the ones who gotta apply pressure

[@OfficiallyNazo]

@@mxrder8 I mean u got a point but some of us ain’t built like that 😭

[@mxrder8]

OfficiallyNazo exactly 🤣🤣

[@narutospersona426]

Charisma is unisex, tho most of these tips only work for males there are many helpful tips for women

[@joysuryadutta2306]

Be Physically fit, look at people like u are confident of ur being and owe no one ur existence. Read more to increase ur intellectual capabilities. Trust me this works like magic, show people u really care about them by listening to them, and just listen and reply Only when u gotta compliment them or say something which makes them realize that u are really wanting to listen to them, Be good to people, shower love. Experiment with ur look, try to dress in a way which makes u look ur best. Trust me this is all.

[@Lexo593]

This video and watching Chris makes me feel more confident right away. I had a very interesting phase where I suddenly because very popular within my social circle and is thanks to this video. As a slight introvert, I have rewatch this video and remind myself in order to make this behavior a habit. Thank you, keep up the good work! You’re changing lifes.

[@bananafanafoferry6970]

Part of it is being healthy and taking care of your body. When you look good it helps you to feel good inside.

[@maboo736]

He is comfortable, friendly, not too much into himself and ridiculously good-looking. All that helps. 😂

[@emilgrges735]

Ragnarak

[@Charismaoncommand]

Haha I blame my Philadelphia accent ;-)

[@farazbhat9832]

"Touch Everyone" Hey kid, *psst*, come over here.

[@haizi7179]

Pause

[@joaocampanha3516]

@Federal Bureau of Investigations Ohh my god its FBI.. RUNNN!

[@shrisub881]

Me too . Hope u get what I mean

[@benrey5144]

FBI OPEN UP

[@felixmoller321]

lmao

[@yeleminpino]

Study this as much as you want, it can help - but realistically, these attributes have to come naturally to you. People can always tell when you're not acting naturally.

[@jonhjohnson156]

Exactly, when I do this stuff it just doesn't suit who I am, it always comes off as awkward

[@MsBabbss]

jonh johnson you might have to keep working on it though. Sometimes with confidence and stuff it’s about faking it till you make it.

[@jonhjohnson156]

Yeah, its just with the people I know (at school) know me as an awkward person and so it might seem weird to them

[@honeybadzer6891]

But after sometime it will become a habit.

[@gallardo20000]

ur genetically not inclined to behave in that way so just give it up and be urself even if others dont wanna kiss your ass for it like the chad in the video.

[@Headspace101]

Chris couldn't look anything but masculine if he tried. He is so down to earth, gorgeous abd funny.

[@chiefbells512]

I've watched a countless number of your videos, and *always* learn something...or have something I intuitively realize confirmed in a huge way. I deeply appreciate the time and effort you sacrifice. If the majority of your video efforts were universally watched and put into practice, the quality of every relationship we all have would be raised to an unspeakably positive degree - human relationships, generally speaking, are every man's universe. What you routinely offer is easily implemented solutions to a better world.

[@jayiu9170]

Being a "touchy" person doesn't have to be creepy if you know how to play it. For example, in the case of men, we know touching women can lead to awkward situations. It won't happen if you know how to ask for consent without literally asking out loud. You can offer a hand to a girl for her to hand five you or a fist to fist bump. You can touch her arm with your elbow to make her complice of a joke. And the back rubbing, done well, is another great way of touching without looking like a creep. Also, showing confidence, especially in the case of straight men, but not being cocky is a plus. Don't let external judgement affect you: yes, Chris had his nails painted and was comfortable saying it out loud. And a final tip: be cool. People tend to walk away from over sensitive/passionate people. They will take you much more seriously if you know how to control your temper. Being in that situation anyone could have been "offended" by Jimmy Fallon's "haha oh, really? You actually had your nails painted? " That sounded like he was making fun of Chris. And yet Chris took it smoothly.

[@IsabellaParker]

it's just his Australian charm ;) ;)

[@PraiseTheFSMonster]

That accent definitely doesn't hurt

[@tootsie40]

Meh

[@rhysstanley7387]

meh

[@dionp38]

In Aus, touch is a big thing. Many people will use it to a higher degree here than in a lot of other western countries.

[@enteringzeropoint7856]

You spelt Asgardian wrong. ;)

[@scrillthebeast2066]

To be famous you have to unlock something within you, basically what people call charisma, for some it’s being funny for others it’s being intimidating, for most it’s a mix.

[@trepimero5530]

1. Don't look the way you probably look and you'll be fine

[@prettyfunny7616]

Light touches on the shoulders are a good starting point. Big beaming (not creepy) smile can get you a long way

[@Martin-jk2ng]

When you are attractive you dont have the baggage other people have because people are naturally open to you. You dont have to try hard or risk failure because people are more forgiving and engaged with you to begin with. It's self fulfilling.

[@MimiTheHamster]

That only applies for men maybe. For good looking women, people are still pretty mean, especially other women, and people think you’re bitchy just based on your looks. This has happened to me when in reality I’m a very sweet person who just is smart and has a quiet confidence.

[@Erowens98]

You aren't as ugly as you think you are. No ten was born a ten. And no three was born a three. Your looks are mostly down to exercise, nutrition, grooming, choosing the right clothes, and bodylanguage. All of those things can be improved with a little effort. There is no excuse not to be at least Semi attractive, with the exception of old age, an 80 year old will always be wrinkly.

[@Martin-jk2ng]

@@MimiTheHamster women are definitely harder on attractive women. That's true. But that's because guys like attractive women. It's competitive nature. Women don't wear makeup for guys, they do it to compete with other women. Take heart if that has happened to you. You must have it going on.

[@theresarezac7502]

Martin Hyatt Excellent point.

[@Auzzie015]

Birki gts Also if people are born with physical defects or suffer injuries which deform them. They have pretty iron clad reasons for being unattractive.

[@mamobee]

The physical touch thing was really helpful, I feel like there's a bit of a wall in terms of platonic intimacy with my friends as I am very wary of being touch and touching other people due to past traumas. I used to be a very touchy person and would always cuddle up with my friends and I would like to get back to being that person, so that section of the video was extremely helpful! Thank you :)

[@user-zq8sr8rq4r]

I’m a touched, I tend to touch when people are smiling or I am smiling, just start smacking backs with love, and go from there. lol im partially joking.

[@SGashesNetwork]

A lot of people heard “it also helps that he’s good looking” and just took that as the reason they’re not more popular. So self defeating

[@jimmysmith736]

Well that’s bollocks because if you go back to school the good looking ones are always the most popular, when you grow up, it’s just a playground full of adults, trust me. If he was 5 ft 4 balding bloke with the same traits he wouldnt nearly be as popular. Use some common sense

[@Bri-ss9rm]

@@jimmysmith736 as sad as it is.. Its true. Good looks do help

[@julieerin115]

@@jimmysmith736 I was very good looking in high school, but wasn't popular due to extreme shyness. :( I'll admit that I wasn't the scapegoat or anything like that due to my looks, but people regarded me as a snob and were often afraid to approach me. My point being is that looks do matter, but only to a certain extent because character including confidence also helps.

[@davianoconnel3097]

jimmy smith jack black is very popular and isn’t what most would consider good looking. Checkmate. lol but you could actually find a lot of very popular people who aren’t insanely good looking.

[@jimmysmith736]

Julie Erin who in the world says they are good looking lol

[@essentia6784]

Video says touch everyone: Walks up to my crush and starts rubbing him... “Do you feel the love?”

[@sticklait]

*"ARE YOU FEELING IT NOW MR. KRABS?!?!"*

[@essentia6784]

@STICKLAIT Lmao I remember that episode!! 😂😂

[@sticklait]

@@essentia6784 lol

[@amararizabdulmuhaimin951]

Discernments you two make good friend i see

[@hallagn7376]

dont do that unless you are attractive because if you are not you will get sued or sexual harassment

[@yelu6]

guys!!! please make one about Tom Hiddleston. he's extremely charming!!!

[@lokimuffin2888]

Yes! Tom Hiddleston for the win!

[@BuriedAliveInterlude]

I think for him he's just very nice/courteous apologizing for very miner things and making everyone in the room laugh just to lighten the mood. and he's overly receptive.

[@reaper7684]

nah not feminity at all ,wtf are you talking about , its pure masculinity , there are multiple shades of masculinity , he's just in the "gentle " part of it .

[@sweatysack4761]

Yelu C. i dont know who youre talking about girl but I just fell in love

[@beccag1107]

YES

[@nikoperez7208]

I’ve done these things all my life and my friends aire like family to me. There’s nothing like making your friend feels amazing

[@davidalessandrini6597]

I feel like this is the type of video Mark Zuckerberg would watch

[@personwiththethingsandthes6283]

I agree, but it's also the type of video that people like me who have no self-confidence watch to make sure they aren't complete idiots in public.

[@gandalainsley6467]

well he is basic dude who is really smart so yeah , he is like most of people here, only rich and smart

[@satinekryze2893]

The lizard man ?

[@waterbender19]

this is an awesome breakdown. I didn't realize how awesome Chris Hemsworth is until this video... and I'm glad you spend so much time on the touching aspect, I wasn't aware that that is so effective and appreciated!

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Glad you're digging it!

[@jessejive117]

I’ve been tempted to be nice and complement people about something that isn’t necessarily accurate, but hesitant to complement people about things I actually think are true.

[@queserasera87]

"...but I think that a lot of it comes from being terrified that any sort of nice, physical contact with a man will suddenly have them labeled something pejorative." Spot on and well-worded.