Security Stories - The Truth About Female Door staff

[@jameslaw2821]

Can't get enough of these security stories! It's good to hear them from someone who's so down to earth.

[@darrenpamplin23]

We have a female door supervisor who organises and runs door teams in my local town.She is amazing, Her ability to de-escalate conflict is unbelievable to watch..She also is more than capable of sensible restraint.I male a point of saying hello to her when I see her.. she has no "Attitude"... Like all walks of life ..right person in the right job.

[@cagneybillingsley2165]

this works in high trust societies comprised of majority asian or caucasian population. but de escalation does not work on most non hwites from the totality of evidence from my experiences, news reports, pattern recognition, secondary and primary sources, etc.

[@Researchthejoos]

Doesn't work in non white neighbourhoods buddy

[@noblestsavage1742]

i spent many years working with learning disabled people with challenging behaviour. im amazed by the similarities.

[@Rick-gb5jj]

Same here mate, 25 years worth. 😊

[@noblestsavage1742]

@@Rick-gb5jj wow another veteran! i did 30 before retraining as a nurse.

[@Rick-gb5jj]

@@noblestsavage1742 I've still got another ten at least... No early retirement for my generation. Missed it by 12 months... Could be worse I guess.

[@vlnow]

In the 90"s i worked a a local pub, but it was a big one and had door staff on weekends. One of the most efective ones was female. She was built like Brienne of Tarth, but her personality was closer to Matron from the carry on films. Older lady. Would walk around having banter and jokes with the punters a lot. It would kick off without fail every saturday and sunday, but she was great at breaking it up. As almost all the punters were regulars, they knew her due to her being social with everyone, and she had this motherly energy that made these guys scrapping kind of revert back to childhood or something around her. She would weigh in to break up scraps and the guys would never touch her, and then she would sort of tell them off like a mother. I think this maybe only worked as it was a local pub and because she had a unique personality. She was kinda physicaly intimidating though. Like she could have wiped the floor with me i have no doubt.

[@toresaetre7793]

It is something like "natural authority". My experience here is not exactly door staff related, but from teachers. My oldest son was authistic and a bit unruly. His teacher was this great guy, really, but he was a really softie. You know the "genderless type". But he had big problems keeping dicipline of my kid. I saw why though, but couldn't really get me to say out loud that he "ought to get some hair on the chest", so we never managed to solve that probleme. But then we moved. New school, new teacher. No dicipline problems at all. Cause the new teacher was like 60 years old, glasses and this aura of authority. I remember meeting her for the first time, even I felt like standing up straight in front of her. When she spoke, you just felt like listening.

[@JohnDoe-i1h]

cap

[@benwinter2420]

@@toresaetre7793 Did your autistic son receive any early vaccines ?

[@disrealnow9664]

Just started watching and already loving it. Btw you could easily do commentary videos on curent events etc - its just refreshing to hear an articulate gent with common sense and real world experience.

[@thatgearguy]

Thanks for the idea!

[@fjalling]

Who is respectful of everyone.😎👍

[@MrBirdistheword444]

I've worked with three female ds, and it's been a mixed bag of the archetype you described. First female ds was how you describe as the bossy girl power type. Her only resolution to anything was to shout at everyone no matter the situation, and when surprise surprise she didn't get her own way and was in physical danger she'd call me and the other ds over for help. She had never learned from any experience she had. The venue where me and the female ds worked was, for the most time, only a three man team. One time, we had a big group of rugby players who were obnoxious and rowdy. To use the term you coined, I and the lad ds used verbal judeo to resolve the situation. Only then after did she berate me and the other lad for being too soft on them and how we should have told them to just piss off. I just said to her, "Were you going to jump in and help us from getting our heads kicked in from 10 or so big rugby lads?"" The other two female ds i worked with were how you described as the pretty but a bit messed up types. To give them credit, they were really good on the doors and had the gift of the gab and sorted out a lot of situations. But they would bring their problems to work. Such as ex boyfriends or, like you said, male ds they'd slept with or even doing drugs while working.

[@Paleman8667]

Love your unique perspectives on topics that aren’t covered anywhere else.

[@mariemccann5895]

Wow, you are whipped!

[@Paleman8667]

That concept is foreign to me. Please explain.

[@johnmclean4911]

What love about your stories, there all down to earth and an honest reflection on when you have seen and done. 😊

[@JeffC-fq1be]

I don't know how I found this channel, but Paul is terrific. He should have a lot more subscribers. His gritty, no-nonsense videos are addictive. I have been studying self-defense law and methods for years. I have studied Ninjutsu and Krav Maga. His videos are a study in how violence works, the myths of martial arts, and a lot more. It's sad that in England (I love it there) you can't even carry pepper spray. On the criminals are "allowed" to be armed. Here in the U.S. crime is soaring, with defunded police and a court system that isn't holding criminals accountable.

[@thatgearguy]

Thanks Jeff!

[@Flyingjaffacake]

I'm very appreciative of the time you take to share your stories and wisdom. You're a good speaker and should probably write a book at some point

[@thatgearguy]

@@Flyingjaffacake Thanks! I appreciate you taking time to watch and comment!!

[@leagreenall5972]

Excellent video mate. The majority of people who watch these are the romantic types that watch 'Roadhouse' and think its all a movie... boy they get a shock when they first start. So true about the desensitization to violence. Not only was I bullied as a kid, but it motivated me to become a pro-fighter. I was far from the biggest, but as I used to say when drunk patrons sized me up compared to my reputation - 'I'm not employed for my size'. You are right, virtually all can not fight their way out of a paper bag. The most successful 'hard' blokes were the ones who didnt give a damn, they were more than happy to be violent, and when they went for it, they didn't hold anything back... and that aggression with impunity is what wins against most people.... you have to have a right mind set to deal with that, take a few beatings if necessary, and importantly have the temperament to learn and get back on the saddle... if not - quit. With my decades of experience in the industry, I can honestly say I have never worked with, or even hired a female SO that was worth her weight. You are 100% right - either a good time girl, but mostly power trippers who thought being female precluded them from being hit. I never did come across a female who could hold her own in the industry... and I trained a few female (Muay Thai) fighters. I mentioned before in another video, the only real use they had was taking care of the female toilets, and if they were ok at verbal skills, then handling the more sensitive areas you eluded to... The best female workers in the industry I came across were the 'landlady's' or female Bar Managers of the pubs or clubs. They were usually in their 30s-40s and were confident and verbally capable that had skin in the game as they were the owners. These were usually a blessing because they KNEW what the female SOs were like and they were the ones that usually volunteered for the female toilet duties and then happily employed more male SOs. They (usually) didn't shag the male SO's and there was less confrontation due to butt hurt sexual hassles. I don't care about the modern socio-climate that women are equal to men in all areas - they are simply not. When I was running clubs and was in charge of hiring the personnel, I didn't care about politics, just how I could make the shifts easy, safe, and free from as much hassle as possible and ensuring the patrons had a good time. And not hiring female SO's ensured that 75% of that hassle didn't happen... again people don't understand or are truly aware of violence. The amount of times I saw someone glassed, smashed by a pool cue, billiard ball, stool, or wall trashed was so much that no wonder we get desensitized.... we had to, because we were the ones that had to stoically sort it out and clean up the mess. Sorry for rambling.... just nostalgic :)

[@James-ly3wf]

Happy days mate, you loved it 👍

[@soulskater9821]

There's a book from all of these stories if you ever have the time. Brilliant.

[@ABCIDAQ]

Thanks mate im a 19 year old girl just got my SIA ds, cctv and first job. Thanks for keeping it real. I will keep things you said in mind. I dont want to be the sterotype i just fancy making myself useful :)

[@thatgearguy]

The best of luck!

[@brandonnotsowise2640]

It was interesting to hear your firsthand experiences with them, and the gradual change you've observed over time to have them fill what was once a previously male-dominated role. Appreciate your no bull takes.

[@butchdetrey5911]

Another fascinating articulate video presentation thanks for sharing - chilling.

[@thepragmatist]

Thank you for this video. People need to hear the reality of these situations. I really appreciate that you tell it like it is. Your honest stories are refreshing.

[@thatgearguy]

I appreciate that!

[@billverdon2085]

Great video as always. Just a point about the police. When I was young in the late 50's police officers were all male and physically intimidating and mostly ex military. a lot of course served in WWII. Nowadays I am amazed at how small and fragile looking police officers are. Not fit either. local copper here where I live is clinically obese and a heart attack waiting to happen, even I at nearly 80 could easily run away from him!

[@thatgearguy]

Agreed. The Police have become a shadow of their former selves.

[@A.Mardle]

The police in the late 50's were smart, disciplined and polite to respectable people, but they were capable of being extremely rough. If someone annoyed them, they'd severely batter them. Some of the war veterans were quite literally killers.

[@forwardprogressonly]

Love your vids and your previous advice, got new door firm sorted.

[@happyuk06]

Excellent presentation. Really hammers home the way people can receive a dose of reality.

[@OllieAD1]

This is a great video. You're absolutely right about the SIA Qual, it's not worth the paper it's written on.

[@spcm390]

So well explained. Thank you

[@Dudley-x2c]

Not my idea of a good night out ! Enjoying the tales though, cheers.

[@Ter1000zx10r]

Really enjoyed this whole series. Keep em coming.

[@thatgearguy]

Thanks, will do!

[@srmj71]

Dude, been waiting for the next drop.

[@itzajdmting]

Love the security stories series 👍🏽 My favourite feature.

[@jaynesierakowska3120]

Love your stories. Great sound quality on your vids too.

[@thatgearguy]

Glad you like them!

[@fairmont___d]

No experience at all in that world but still enjoy your stories. Cheers.

[@fondelmaddick5085]

I did the doors for neay 30 years, and 99% of the time, I'd avoid having ANY female doorstaff! The liability thing, from my point of view, only extended to searching the women. I told the guys that they could search a woman's bag, or jacket if she's not wearing it, but that's it! In a one to one face of, an average guy would batter a female. That's not being exist, but purely realistic. I love women, but BS from the SIA /police / council etc, means you're endangering others. That includes the male jacket fillers too. Great presentation mate. 👌

[@neilo2323]

Video suggestion: can you do something about when a business has to deal with “gangsters” and protection money? I had to deal with this in my bars but luckily I was well connected and it was quickly stopped. Most people don’t have such connections.

[@thatgearguy]

Good idea.

[@ASDan-123]

Did security for a concert before, nothing like your level at all mate but we had a few incidents for sure😂. Was stationed with a 5ft 5 girl. Absolute legend and made a shit job fly by😂😂. We had such a laugh working together. Great content again mate! Keep it coming!🙌🙌

[@pauliesk.7102]

That's made me think of a female security staff member at a football pub I used to frequent. Really friendly and jovial, always smiling, has a chat and a joke with all the punters, even if she's turning you away. But, if she's door supervisor at this place on match-day, you just kinda' know she can handle herself!!

[@anonymissed3611]

Same issues in military, Add in danger of feeling need to protect the women over other men.

[@JoeVellaMalta]

Amazing.Thank you Sir. Great stories 💙💪 Regards and blessings from Malta 🇲🇹 Europe

[@thatgearguy]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@danielmarshall4587]

As always great insight many thanks. Here in Halifax back in the early to mid nineties there was a girl working at one of the clubs in the town. I believe she "ran the door"... I could be wrong. ANYHOW she was ship-shape, as a punter all my dealing with her were good.

[@frankythehousecat2681]

Door Girl sounded like Scrappy Do ! Love the stories !

[@PSUK]

I visited a club in Ibiza back in the day and there was a gorgeous female working the door along with the guys. All were very well spoken and erudite. Later, I was outside chatting to one of the guys when some pissed up girls tried to get in. What I witnessed was jaw dropping: the two girls decided they were going to take on the female door staff member but were both swiftly ironed out by her. Turns out she was a Krav Maga instructor on a three month sabbatical.

[@flyer617]

Another awesome story from the master!

[@thatgearguy]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@babatundeswana9361]

I'm not surprised. That female brought on herself. She was running her mouth. She could of avoided that situation

[@paulmitchell5324]

Can you do some more Gun reviews? The last one about the DT 11 and the 694 was brilliant keep up the good work.

[@thatgearguy]

Sure thing. I have a couple coming up!

[@RiffsandGin]

Have you already made a video or talked about this verbal judo, i.e. getting people out of the bar in different ways using varying levels of force?

[@thatgearguy]

Yes I have made a few!

[@neilobusk]

so did you have like 4 spare wheels in the back of your ford capri... like in roadhouse.... ? damaged people are dangerous... more so to themselves... sharing your insights and memorys is super great.. stay safe N x

[@tuco86x]

More interesting stories as usual

[@thatgearguy]

Glad you like them!

[@stephenmurray8559]

I'm considering doing my sia licence next week. I have a disciplinary at work today and if I lose my job I'm going to do my sia. Hoping for something easy to begin with like gate security or night guarding. Just relax and wait the night out.

[@thatgearguy]

@@stephenmurray8559 My advice would be don't. It is a poorly paid job with zero career prospects. You are better off at a supermarket stacking shelves.

[@geraldbeard856]

i remember being out with a bunch of lads on a stag night once and on the way home we called into a service station and there was a couple of shaven headed big built security / door staff there and a couple of the lads started shouting to these doorstaff calling them bold headed cxxxs and i thought oh no were going to get chucked out in a minute but no these two doormen just casually walked over and just quietly talked to the two lads and they were chatting for probably ten minutes by the end the two gobby lads and the two doormen were laughing and joking with each other........so in other words going in heavy handed isn't always the answer

[@thatgearguy]

But sometimes it is the only answer and your life depends on it.

[@Plumduff3303]

As i have got older I've gone off hanging around with women id rather have a motorbike 🏍 and the loyalty of my dog. Women just create grief and want stuff. Monotonous. Peace ❤to all.

[@alansmith4655]

Great video man. Did/does the effect of alcohol and drugs on the rowdy punters give you any advantage at all? Are drunks worse to deal with when it got physical than more sober people?

[@thatgearguy]

Definite advantage to us. Drunks are poor fighters!

[@rodgerhempfing2921]

​@@thatgearguywhat about those on speed or meth?

[@gailhoffmann9498]

Very interesting--I didn't know there were female door staff. I don't feel there should be females at the door because, as you said, 99.9% don't realize that they could end up on the wrong end of violence. The one lady you spoke of that could handle herself sounded like a shero, but of course, she's a rarity. This may be an unpopular opinion, being a woman, but I don't feel female cops should be on teams that handle violent criminals either. Even though they may have the training, there will still be a lot of male and female offenders that will overpower a smaller female officer. Same goes for females in military combat situations.

[@jaybeebee9288]

Vast majority of women don't want to be protected by another woman either, given how many more stronger and capable men of course exist, but it's yet another of those quiet taboo truths. Those same women will talk loudly about gender "equality" because it's the opposite of taboo.

[@fjalling]

100%

[@johng1634]

"We didn't have much knife or gun crime back then" Hmm, I wonder what changed?

[@thatgearguy]

The thing we are not supposed to talk about....

[@rodgerhempfing2921]

The law got weaker.

[@johng1634]

@@rodgerhempfing2921 anything else?

[@davidcohen7881]

When I was going to University, I attended a Reggae Concert and the had a female Security person who was bodybuilder and maybe about 5'7"m 160 lbs and very muscular, Some guy jumped onstage and started dancing with the band. She jumped up onto the stage and through him off, then jumped down and started raining punches on him. I could hear the punches kand from about 40 feet away in a loud concert, so she must have been hitting him very heard. This was back in the mid 1990's.

[@S.Widynski]

My favourite gear channel 😅

[@dtcy1229]

Gearguy!! Always click as soon as i see and watch the whole thing start to finish… BASEDD channel

[@thatgearguy]

Thanks!!

[@brokens1097]

You can only hope they can do better there than whats been demonstrated by female police.

[@dannfish]

I never understood why people think Karate is going to help them in a real life street fight. Thanks for posting.

[@rodgerhempfing2921]

If the dojo does full contact sparring it really helps with the realism aspect. Trouble is, you get injured a bit.

[@Girrrrrrrr]

Can you do a bit about your de-escalation techniques used on the various levels of assholes? This channel deserves a million subs. Love folks who tell it like it is! 👍

[@Tyler-b5z]

My experience, they are just eyes with walkie talkies. But i met one lady who always smiled and gave good spirit, exception

[@THENEONARCADE21]

Quite an interesting video.

[@martinnevey7258]

Doorman in Edinburgh at the moment...i work with my 24yr old daughter..she knows that for the heavy stuff she is physicality outclassed...but does a superb job in many other areas..ive taught her on the job and her communication is excellent....tbf in a rough gig i would prefer a male colleague and she accepts this....although i have to say that these days more women are acting up so she is invaluable in these situations.....then again as her father woe betide anyone who puts a hand on her....what you are saying is bang on in general terms..

[@stephenmurray8559]

I'm in Glasgow and thinking of doing my sia door supervisor course next week. Is it worth it do you think? I'm hoping for site security. You know guard an empty office during the night kind of thing. But was thinking doors are the best way to get experience of dealing with people.

[@martinnevey7258]

@stephenmurray8559 Hi mate...yeah go for it...tbh the sia course is a joke....if you follow their instructions it will get you killed....get your badge as employment wise you should never be out of work with a badge and its about the only growing industry.....doors are not for everyone and can be very confrontational at times....you could do retail or gatehouses there is a fair amount of variety......as for doors in Glasgow even I wouldn't want to do them....hope this helps buddy

[@tuco86x]

Great as usual

[@martinrichard542]

Just out of interest what does the SIA course consist of. Is it physical skills and verbal de escalation skills . Just wondering.

[@thatgearguy]

Just an idiot talking and a test everyone passes.

[@SunsetNova]

Can you give us an update on how your TRT is going, thanks 😊

[@thatgearguy]

Will do!

[@SunsetNova]

@@thatgearguy thanks much appreciated.

[@donaldcarr8766]

A prime example regarding the police and the issues mentioned in this video is the Manchester airport incident.

[@chox2001]

Your not a Bobby dazzler in looks so I’m suprised you haven’t upset people in the past. The TikTok world seems to be very into the perfect world now.

[@thatgearguy]

Agree and I probably have upset people!

[@leagreenall5972]

@@thatgearguy If you haven't upset a few people, you haven't done your job right ;) :P

[@skafabafa]

U look tired, take care of yourself! Choice is yours ❤️

[@thatgearguy]

Thanks!

[@Domain_Man1]

I did both Corporate and Magistrates security and was always amazed by idiots going out to cause trouble - I just don't get the fascination of being awarded a Criminal Record for life.

[@rodgerhempfing2921]

Because they do not care. That is their advantage when it comes to violence. They are usually bitter people with a violent childhood, so very volatile and then add alcohol!

[@gfuentes8449]

awesome video. Same goes with a lot of women who do combat sports.

[@thatgearguy]

I would say in sport it makes no difference. They win or they lose. It doesnt risk the lives or others. My real issue in combat sports is men pretending to be women in order to win. That does put others at risk.

[@justtango4741]

I'll always remember a security guard in her early to mid 50's who was TINY. She had what I'll call a female version of small man syndrome. She was one of those women who liked to surround herself with big burly men and talk like she was hard as fuck telling ridiculous story's. I saw her come back to the control room on two occasions crying like a little girl because someone who spoke back to her and wouldn't take her bs authority. With a bunch of guys she would gloat around pretending to be tough.

[@EvanDavies-p5b]

In the early 00s I was a glass collector in a bar that needed a strong door team. We had this one female doorman who was six foot tall in her socks, and not particularly heavily built. I stupidly agreed to spar with her a couple of times. I am 5' 5'', but I was benching 209lbs at the time, and I was up for a fight, but she woudl just chuck me round like a babe in its mothers arms. She was just a really natural fighter, who could pick up any plane of imbalance in an opponent. On the doors she was very business first, and resolved things with the minimum of fuss. We had this other lass who was something like 5' 2'', who had been an amateur boxer, and had put on a few pounds. Wrapped up in her trench coat she looked like a cream bun on legs. One night this bloke who was a head taller than her called her a fat slag, and she dropped him with a single combination, and his feet flew up in the air.

[@justtango4741]

No offence but you're gonna be lit up under boxing rules vs someone who's 6' when you're 5'5. All they have to do is move around jabbing at range.

[@EvanDavies-p5b]

@@justtango4741 It wasn't boxing rules, we agreed that throws and takedowns could be used.

[@sheadoherty7434]

For myself it is a mix bag. You are losing force when you swap a male door supervisor for a female. That loss of force is dangerous for all involved but you do gain advantages. The ability to have every woman searched at the door did wonders for our chemical problems and they can be very helpful with deesculation. I'm a big man and I can be quite intimidating which sets some people off, so having a woman who can switch with me can lower the chances of violence occurring. Unfortunately though not all door supervisors are good. This goes double for women. A lot of them are just not used to confrontation and they can often freeze when it kicks off.

[@philparkinson462]

Sounds like an absolute nightmare tbh. I'd imagine poor staff is a double whammy of not being able to do the job plus a liability for protection themselves.

[@robertscheinost179]

Always interesting, always informative and always entertaining. This channel is on its way to 100K subscribers. Hit the like and subscribe!

[@brucegibbins3792]

Female security seem less confrontational and de-esculate situations somewhat more so that guys. That's not a fact, it's an observation.

[@marcomarcon5802]

"All warfare is based on deception" Sun Tzu

[@HawaiiJapan808]

Love your no bs stories. Keep quota and diversity hires out of that line of work. Keep up videos.

[@craiglaing2417]

The old Clifo?

[@Leec_1972]

Won't be the first time a woman has inserted herself into a tense situation and caused chaos. Been in some of those situations, once a bunch of coked up guys and girls in a bar, with one of the females causing mayhem with another particular female at the bar where we were standing having a chat and a pint or two, until one of my mates just got in the way of her access to the other woman in question. Coked up pint sized female gets beligerent and starts trying to slap my mate who fends her off gently with a hand. Her drugged up male friends get in our faces with her hiding behind them emerging to slap at us and of course theys escalate all hell breaks loose. We were not in a position to simply leave as we were way outnumberedat this point . We did manage at some point to exit the bar whereupon the mob in question attacked us again outside. Had an epic fight. I of course as always was armed because where I live you can carry a firearm, even ino a bar and won't get into the specifics of legal carry in a bar vs handling in a bar which has been tested in court, but luckily no weapons came into play and other than some stitches and bruising no permanantt damage was done. Seen far more of these types of episodes than have been involved but nothing like a belligerent female to get all the simpy men riled up.

[@PentaRaus]

Weakness invites attack.

[@bendoe5863]

Would you praise a male door staff like the female one that was just as violent as her or try to replace him. Or were you praising as she could fulfil the female role in the Door Staff team while not being as weak of a link as other female door staff?

[@thatgearguy]

I would praise anyone who came through the abuse she did and managed to find strength and courage from within. As stated it caused significant issues work wise. I liked her personally but she was not the best professionally.

[@cjackfly]

Isn't it interesting as you describe, the more searches that were being done as well as the less drugs were being done, the more problems were created... 🤔 Perhaps more drugs, at a higher quality as well as less searches and less problems need to be rethought in the bar industry? I know for sure that as our bat and pub industry collapsed in my city the use of the worst types of harmful drugs has skyrocketed as well as the types of problems associated. There is a difference between party drugs like coke and perc and problem drugs like meth, heroin and fent.

[@thatgearguy]

I will make a video on the subject!

[@cjackfly]

@@thatgearguy looking forward

[@maxtroy]

I see gear guy, thumbs go up.

[@brokens1097]

When someone can strike enough poses to earn a black belt, must be intimating right? I'd imagine that crane stance is in there.. Yikes

[@thatgearguy]

😅🤣😂

[@paleasaghost-5799]

Any MA or Combat Sport without substancial Sparring is in a spot of questionable usefulness in a street fight.

[@inregionecaecorum]

Being a hard guy is not about how many fights you get into, it is about how many fights you avoid. I am guessing that is your message. You project the image of being hard, you are confident and can play a game of call my bluff well and you tell it like it is without embellishment. I much prefer the situation where your would be assailant, after making the usual show of threats, backs down and says to himself, no not worth it. Such situations are often laughable in retrospect because they have involved a lot of alcohol and any fight you would have got into would not be like anything you would pay to go and see.

[@thatgearguy]

@@inregionecaecorum That is always the preference but bluffs don't always work. I am definitely not a "hardman" but I was a reasonable doorman.

[@babatundeswana9361]

Alot women you give them power . They try to overcompsate by being loud

[@thatgearguy]

Sometimes true but same with many guys.

[@petersoakell6950]

'Out guy the guys')😂

[@billysmart24830732]

You seem to have expressed a preference of strength over fighting skills?

[@thatgearguy]

In a small confined area where weapons are used I would prefer a combination of strength, intelligence, experience and fighting skill. The first three are more important that the latter. I saw a lot of people with Dojo skill get totally ironed out. Dojo skill is the icing on the cake not the foundation for street fighting.

[@celiacresswell6909]

So based! When shtf throw your gear in the car and get to Northumberland: I have employment for you

[@thatgearguy]

@@celiacresswell6909 Nice part of the country!

[@orig66Super]

I got my ass kicked by an 80 year old DS this past Sunday.🤕

[@waynerhodes360]

Everyone thinks they can fight 🙄 until they get 👊 punched in the face , the great mike Tyson ❤

[@James-ly3wf]

Really like the security stories. “Girl power” and “ladette” culture was the worst thing that ever happened for women - they just wanted all the best bits of being a man without the real shit stuff. Anyway, like your channel and just commenting for your algorithm 🍷cheers

[@SonofChurchill]

Nice discretion "Big fat alcoholic waste of space" 😂

[@justinengland9814]

25:00 you are describing most women there dude, lol!

[@divafever9754]

80085

[@zeenuf00]

😅😅 why would anyone even consider that?

[@neilgill2269]

P.S.remember what Mike Tyson said,"every body's got a plan,till they,get smacked in the mouth!

[@snakeman9902]

The biggest lie ever in regards to this type of bs, by the woke and far left is, we're all the same.. News flash, we're not, and we're not all equal in build or attitude. We're all different I won't class myself as an ex doorman. However, I have done the odd doorwork, seen and experienced, what you've said.

[@45swanky]

Keep the women hire more doorman I think you can get away with that in the federal government because you have an endless supply of money but it's a regular business that wouldn't work

[@razadaza9651]

I’m not buying this story of that super girl beating everyone up that was hardened by a horrible man.. this ain’t a Hollywood movie as you say

[@thatgearguy]

I dont care if you "buy it" or not. Nobody forced you to be here. Feel free not to be.

[@razadaza9651]

@@thatgearguy you don’t need to care, and you shouldn’t be triggered by this.. too many movies these last few years showing a 5 foot woman beating up gigantic men, I’ve never seen that in my entirety life and I know I never will

[@paulbates1167]

👌

[@ThisBritishLifePodcast]

Hello Mate, great show as always. We literally just spoke about this topic on our own podcast last week for the first 10 mins of the show. I’ll paste the link below. If you choose to remove it no problem. Keep up the great work… kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4HKq5-ce6-lebMsi=NLkwScynVFr6dXHU

[@TinaJesse859]

Already watched it!😊

[@ThisBritishLifePodcast]

Ha ha, thanks.

[@MooseBme]

🤔👍

[@tcup3946]

I think women guarding the door is a liability. I am not a small man but even I would feel sub par at a door. I have had formal defense training. I still wouldn't feel comfortable at a door. I just think for a woman , it's dangerous