seeing our wedding venue for the first time!

[@jaggedlilthrills]

the transition from ted laughing at your silly little jokes to you discovering your potential sunburn is impeccable

[@katieboyd150]

“I’m such a chill girl” lololol same

[@katieboyd150]

Thanks for the much needed laughs on this otherwise monotonous Thursday

[@porcelainegg]

haven’t watched the video yet but joana i’ve seriously been thinking about you, i truly wish you’d post every week, you’re so infectious and i watch your videos literalllllllly everyday, i just rewatch ones from months ago, you helped me get out of this weird depression mood and you just seriously make me so happy wish you’d understand, hope to see more vids from you 🤍

[@DanielaDiaz-ic2rn]

oh i like this comment 😍

[@oh_hey_sarah]

the green screen work for the San Francisco portion of the vlog is outstanding, which studio did you actually film in because we all know you weren't ACTUALLY in San Francisco

[@havenwindsor7524]

I love watching you and Ted’s relationship. What a special love shared between you two. ❤ celebrating your marriage from afar!! ✨🥂💕

[@Charlee245]

“Are you serving soup?” No! Get’m (spoons) outta there 😂

[@IsaBella12519]

omg Joanna I laughed so much during the last segment during your diatribe on suburbia! 😂

[@kristinkiely]

out of respect i'm absolutely not (!) going to comment it to spoil for y'all but I'm 99.99% sure ik where you might be getting married bc I've seen the venue before, and when it clicked I realized I literally couldn't have drummed up a place for you. It's going to be so beautiful and I'm so happy for you both! 🕯

[@zoekayxoxo]

Looks like Humboldt County when you guys were in the trees. Whoch is where I live. Your guys reactions to the trees makes me realize how cool it I get to live amongst the Redwood trees everyday. ✨💕

[@sydneyhuff7593]

Ahhh! My parents got married in Mendocino on a cliff and it was amazing! I’m not sure how close you are to there but I’m from Sacramento and am so excited to see your journey!!

[@joannaspicer]

I love Mendocino!

[@josefin7991]

this was wonderful, thanks for bringing us with

[@ivys4529]

you're such a comfort

[@tayter_chip]

I can’t believe you were in my hometown of Mendocino!! So bummed I didn’t get to meet you in person

[@oliviaann1399]

It all adds up so quickly and there’s so much pressure from people in the industry! I always kinda wanted to elope and my fiancé now does too after talking to numerous married couples who wish they would’ve eloped. We almost booked one incredible venue that fell through, now we’re gonna hopefully just do a ceremony in St. Louis so the parents/siblings invited don’t have to travel. I just want a short ceremony in a super pretty place for pics then a restaurant reception afterward. We’ve been through many iterations of plans so far and that’s the current one 😂 We’ll all get it figured out eventually lol I swear this process is marriage training. Sending good vibes your way!

[@joannaspicer]

Best of luck on your planning!

[@oliviaann1399]

@@joannaspicer thank you!!

[@MyMomentswithMom]

Beautiful coastline near your wedding spot! We love Lazy Dog! YES......the menu is huge! You described it well....lol. We love California. My parents grew up near Los Angeles but moved a little further south after they got married. We love Los Angeles and the OC. We couldn't imagine living anywhere else. Weddings prices are insane. My brother is getting married in fall of this year near Temecula (lots of wedding venues there) and holy moly it's so expensive.......and the kicker is they are getting married on a Thursday because "it is cheaper!!" But it's still so pricey. I guess it's a thing now that people get married M-F not just Saturday or Sunday anymore. Then you have to add in the cake.....photographer......DJ. My mom said when she and my dad got married they paid 12.00 a person for a steak lunch in 1988!! Times have really changed for weddings 😅

[@bigboyamy]

you're literally the most entertaining person ever. that mustache guy is lucky

[@Crystal-Marie]

even just being a passenger in sf is stressful! I don't backseat drive but I do watch every move my bf makes without commentary. he just sees my eyes like 👀in his mirrors haha

[@Archmaya]

I lived in Northern California until I was 19 and my dad used to take us to Point Reyes often. I can’t forget the cold beach 😂😂 and we loved eating oysters there too. I got dizzy all the time too from the roads.

[@pEAcEgrL8]

I love that town/area! I was literally visiting there today! haha

[@claireozmun3778]

"i'm not manic this is just Me On Suburbia" iconic

[@brittany72]

These vlogs are my fave. Highlight of my night ❤

[@sabrinasjourney]

This was so entertaining 😊

[@laurenjhjh]

I eloped but you definitely shouldn’t imo - you’re going to have the most incredible wedding. I really believe you’ll think it was all worth it once you see all of your friends and family together enjoying your hard work.

[@joannaspicer]

I think so too ❤️ but I def understand the appeal!

[@Christy121000]

This was a great vlog!

[@meepmoopmeep1]

Your vlogs make my day. You and Ted are so funny

[@AJ-ls4jh]

I 100 noticed the lack of ticking when you’re chatting in the airbnb. I wasn’t going to comment, but since you mentioned in the second aside…. Very interesting!! One of those times where you learn something concrete about oneself. ❤

[@joannaspicer]

A good sleep and meal can do wonders

[@andreap6708]

irrelevant lol but what lip balm/lip gloss are you wearing in the beginning of the video?🥰

[@Younme21x]

I hated wedding planning. My mother-in-law did most of it.. and to be honest, I was OK with that because my husband and I had no interest in being involved. Obviously I had a theme I wanted and she would check with me before making decisions. But, if it wasn't for her, we would have been screwed. My wedding ended up being perfect and beautiful and the fairy core dream aesthetic I always wanted. It was just a VERY stressful process to get there.

[@amyp8162]

Lol the alcatraz moment. Relatable

[@Crystal-Marie]

hahaha and Ted saying "where's Japan?"

[@ExoticPhx76]

Home sweet home 😊

[@lovelala6861]

I love fog. Makes the whole world a magical mystery.

[@miaoh6907]

Dying at the beginning! I oddly had a dream that me and my mother were fighting over Pedro Pascal this morning.

[@LuciaBellanger95]

LITERALLY how me and my boyfriend and I are when driving everywhere lolol

[@lilliputianhitcher3808]

i definitely got carsick on the way to my best friends wedding but it was still nice haha

[@lavoixdevelours]

Ted looked so tiny next to the stump. lol

[@joannaspicer]

Stump for ted scale

[@graceweber4158]

sounds like you just read It Happened One Summer bc same

[@sabrinasilk4283]

I wanted to get married at oz farm in Mendocino but ended up getting married at SF city hall partly because of the pandemic and partly because I didn’t want to spend the $$ or deal with the stress of planning a wedding. The pics were great and it was cheap, but I can see why people want to have a wedding.

[@caylahbooth199]

Ahhh no way Ted is from granite bay! I live like 15 minutes from there!

[@Roachbug62]

You are adorable

[@di522]

manic: no suburbia: yes

[@di522]

update- manic: maybe

[@joannaspicer]

LOL

[@joannaspicer]

Take me back!

[@chrismorris4985]

yes get the spoons outta there!!!! 😭

[@joannaspicer]

Who needs em

[@Allison14markmakeup]

“In 3 months time who’s gonna be thinking about the napkins” - proceeds to hand embroider her wedding naps and then says guests will want to take them home. Lol. Love you

[@georgiakirley442]

Holy fuck you were in Sacramento I so wish I knew that’s so cool

[@raeganhall8777]

D.S. & Durga car freshener????? Bougie couple

[@joannaspicer]

I bring the bouge to the relationship

[@VSandTaylorSwiftLove]

Wait I am getting married at the same venue hahah we also booked sight unseen!

[@elizabethrenteria4274]

When i saw the trees i thought i probably knew the location, but once i saw the clover patches i knew for sure! Haha so beautiful there i hope to visit again soon!

[@jessicataxara5007]

oz farm!?

[@Charlee245]

Also please tell me what suburb you’re from because I’m from Ridley and I NEED TO KNOW. Please say Delco!

[@joannaspicer]

Montco! From hatboro

[@Charlee245]

@@joannaspicer woohoo! I knew I connected with you and your vlogs 👍

[@caliplaysgamez]

OMG

[@lhemerlein]

Living for ~suburbia Joanna~

[@laurenzapata2556]

when you said hawaii i said twilight new moon

[@KLLGGG]

wow, Ted for scale was so absolutely necessary. impressive ass stump!

[@purpleonmymind]

I ofter wish i could text my cat also ,😊

[@queens6583]

I'm going to guess The Heritage House in Mendocino. I live in NYC so don't count on me. Wherever it is will be perfect because your both good people.

[@joannaspicer]

No but that place looks super cool.

[@queens6583]

@@joannaspicer This is why I don't gamble. LOL!

[@serenasunflower]

Teaven and Jeaven lmaooo

[@collagecult]

I don’t mean to be a killjoy but if you want the wedding location to be top secret, I wouldn’t show business names. The bookshop you showed is easily searchable and the coastal cali town comes right up… 😅 Yes, I looked lol.

[@joannaspicer]

It’s not the town we are getting married in

[@amiesparkle00]

As someone who used to live in Northern California, just know that you cannot bank on those views. It’s highly dependent on the time of year. So it’s up to you to decide if putting down a tremendous amount of cash will be worth it if it ends up being total pea soup fog on your wedding day. That said, it is absolutely gorgeous there. When it’s not foggy. When I got married I had a huge vision with lots of decisions to be made and a big guest list. Over the course of a year I burned out and completely changed all the plans. I ended finding an amazing cozy French restaurant with the decor I wanted. Velvet curtains, candlelight, crisp white tablecloths. We had filet mignon and salmon. The food was amazing. The only decisions I made were deciding on the menu, centerpieces, invites and favors. And we stripped the guest list down to under 40 people. Only family & close, close friends. And it was amazing. And relaxed. So relaxed! We were able to enjoy everyone there. And then we actually honeymooned up in Mendocino at a place called Brewery Gulch (don’t let the name fool you, it’s amazing!) If you have your heart set on NorCal, (just an idea) I suggest getting married at the San Francisco City Hall which is free and absolutely gorgeous. And then having a small restaurant reception in the City. Or somewhere in Marin. People sleep on restaurant receptions! They have it together! And much less risk of things going wrong.

[@sm-do8nm]

Elope!!! Save the money

[@maggiewithum2959]

requem for a dream looking for that deodorant

[@Leese3]

Are you in ‘Cabot Cove’? Murder she wrote!

[@elizabethj3343]

me thinking that he would be taller than the stump

[@littlemoonbeam7]

Club Fan Club

[@illestj3990]

Yeah, some people have llamas here 😂🦙😮