Seeing Past the Mask

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[@TheAnomaly330]

That was a good analogy on batman. I liked that scene on spiderman home coming when he said "I'm nothing without the suit!" and iron man told him "If you're nothing without the suit maybe you don't need it!" a lot of people are nothing without their spider suit, money, education, social media likes etc

[@RomWills]

It was a great analogy in the Spiderman movie.

[@charlesmerchant4762]

Discernment.....the ability to perceive the motives of another by their fruit. Excellent self examination, Rom... Character tells our story. Fall for a person's mask and you will brought to bread.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@MrOrlandodh12]

character is something I learned along time ago as a child that why I stayed away from a lot of people who put on a front to decieve people. that's literally playing with peoples emotions.

[@RomWills]

Smart move.

[@jdbailey442]

Thanks Uncle Rom. I have never called it a mask but I have observed this for decades with men and women. Integrity and character is important. I have looked past a many of good looking men with nice bodies and "stuff" because they were lacking in certain character traits.

[@RomWills]

That's what you're supposed to do. Looks fade but character can always get better.

[@darthabrams85theghost39]

I think that the Red pill gave me XRay vision lol

[@RomWills]

That's what it's supposed to do.

[@mrjonathanjackson89]

That's why I never tell people i go to the university of houston when I first meet them. It's always that awkward silence followed by whatever reason they didn't go to school or went to a school not on the same level. Rom wills knows his stuff

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@thehawk6109]

Had this problem with a female I dated for 3 years. I thought she was just an overall nice person. I had a nice job and I was making good money. I was young and I made the mistake of telling her how much I made. Everything was cool until the company I worked for found a slick way to cut everyone's pay. We were living together and I let her know that we would have to cut back on some our expenses. About a month later is when the mask came off. This bitch faked her whole personality for 3 years, cut off her family and friends and all of a sudden I was looking at a complete stranger. She had found another job with decent pay and jumped ship. It took every ounce of mental strength I had to refrain from stomping the shit out of her.

[@RomWills]

Many men have been there. It's times like that you really see who a person is.

[@jcw034]

Easy way to get past someone mask? Throw them off their comfort zone. When someone is out of there safety net you will truly see what they are. People can maintain a mask as long as they are comfortable. Once they lose that comfort you can see what they are.

[@brianwill2488]

J-Strokes let the church say Amen I called interview stage!! Eventually that mask will get hot is there free a plus if a woman don't feel you got it and she leave for somebody else but year later or so months down the line you become successful she would definitely feel like a fool cuz she couldn't be patient with you

[@RomWills]

J-Stokes, Very good method.

[@jcw034]

Brian Williams day one I start asking questions that provoke a response. Works every time. Like the old saying goes "crisis reveals everything about eveeyone"

[@FGAlele]

J-Strokes:#Truth

[@thehawk6109]

J-Strokes. That's very good advice. I never really thought of it that way. Especially with these women.

[@darrickbrisco5016]

I'm glad I've realized material stuff don't mean shit I like nice stuff too rom too many ppl think u got something if u flashy most of the flashy ppl ain't got a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@firstclassroadman4433]

truth. you are right seeing past the mask is an invaluable social skill to have if one wants to save them-self lot of disappointment as unaware people walk in with expectations based on the mask only to get shocked by whats behind the mask but it has to be learnt and developed as we are living in a brand driven world hence the cumbersome amount of adverts...looking straight to character that's my biggest take away. as a young man this is gold thank you for the insight and the shout out

[@RomWills]

Thanks for the suggestion.

[@youngboi24]

PERCEPTION IS REALITY TO ALOT OF PEOPLE

[@RomWills]

Probably is that people can't perceive corectly.

[@redaquarian8665]

You wanna see beyond a person's mask? Easy, ask if you can borrow a few dollars, say that you are struggling a bit financially and you will see who they really are immediately!

[@RomWills]

Good advice.

[@SikkDiggy]

Another prime example of the mask can be a passport/citizenship. Those who come from immigrant families know what I'm talking about. Especially, those from African families. When you go visit relatives in your family's homeland you can get treated a little different. Not necessarily by your direct family members, but most likely by distant relatives. Family is still important as they were raised in the traditional culture. So, it's important for folks to protect their visiting relatives as having family members abroad is viewed as sign of prestige. Since they know the type of games people will run and nobody wants their family's good name associated with the wrong things and whatnot. Case and point, their neighbors and other families in the neighborhood will eventually notice you. They'll be like, "That's so-and-so's grandchild from the States." "So, you're so-and-so's cousin from the Belgium." "Aren't you what's-their-name's niece/nephew from Australia?" Showing that they will view you based on the status of your citizenship. Because they're associating the place you're from with a better life. Regardless of what your family's situation is like there. All they see is the mask of your citizenship. So, women or their families through these women will try to use you as a way out.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that.

[@darknova7863]

You know Rom l gotta say out of the all the people who l watch you gotta be the one l respect the most. A good trait you have is even at 12k sub and this video currently having 121 comments you always reply to everyone. Even if its simply thank you some yt don't reply to anything and have way less than half and that alone alot bout ur character. Finally if you ever stop commenting to everyone l wouldn't blame you because you on the rise and there will be too many to reply to lol. Respect

[@RomWills]

Thank you fam. No matter how many comments I get I'm going to read each one and respond to most people. All of you are making it possible for me to live my life purpose.

[@k-ri2023]

I've never really had an issue with seeing passed people masks, and I figured that everybody was like me and just chose to look over things (foolishly) that were clearly in front of them. Truth is if you want to unmask someone it's not you who will unmask them first but the people they've dealt with longer and have dropped their "mask" for because of the comfort of having them. I can tell a lot about how a woman is going to treat me by how she treats the "other men" in her life specifically the men she doesn't want anymore A.K.A. men she doesn't have to wear the mask for anymore. How she "frames" her experiences with men, her "role" in the family, her role with her friends. If you got a woman who was spoiled by other men, spoiled by her family, and friends she's going to expect to be giving things. Her mask may say don't help me, I'm not a beggar, but it's not hard to deduce that her nature is to be spoiled but she KNOWS for some reason she can't give off the vibe of spoil her. Also, I can tell a lot about a person through misunderstandings. If you go from greatest man in the world to a piece shit over a disagreement trust, the ugly is real, and the good is fake. For men worried about a manipulative woman don't tell her what your ideal woman is, be vague, don't say you want a good, bad, etc. because then she'll wear that mask of a good woman, wife, thot, hoe, etc until she captures you. I've disarmed and confused a lot of women who assume I want a good woman by saying I find good women boring, bad women troublesome and they'll be frozen like what should I be and I be like IDK. And lastly, knock them off their emotional center. Few people walking the earth are cool, calm, collected, and sweet all the time. We know this, so if someone is that find a button to push that takes that cool cat, cool chick to the edge of their emotions and watch how their reactions. Few are the same once emotions take over. Long story short there are ways to de-mask people, but you have to want to do it. It can feel manipulative at times for doing it, but I only do it for self-preservation, not selfish gain.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing those observations.

[@sophiasmith5949]

Gino Peterson what r u talking about?

[@GloriousHustle]

To really know how a person Thinks or Feels about you, get them mad at you. Most times that exposes how they feel about you. People suddenly get Brutally Honest when they're Angry with you. For those who are more clever with theirs, all you have to do is sit back and observe folks like Tupac said. Fake people expose themselves eventually one way or another. The thing with wearing a Mask is one day you'll have to take it off. You may have the World fooled but you and those around you know what it is.

[@therenaissance7158]

Personality analysis can be so good that I've encountered women online that have thought that I drove a late model Benz or lex cause I was able too know who she was and she didnt....based up off a few days of dming...

[@RomWills]

It can be that way.

[@dwohntanywilder6889]

Thank you bruh, I've been saying this for yrs, but I never called it a mask.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@uptowngirl1587]

Here's a link to a poem entitled"The Mask I Wear". It's too long to post as comment but definitely worth checking out. Been reading it since high school. Serves as a good inner reflection and viewing the character of others. www.community4me.com/TheMaskIWear.html

[@RomWills]

Thanks for the drop sis.

[@The_Equalizer23]

"Good morning Vietnam" (How many people will get that reference?)! My father expressed a similar statement in regards to his engineering certificates. It's about character even though it's obvious society could care less! 12:33, major turnoff! When I had my BMW certain guys would tell females what I was driving. I always shrugged it off. In fact, excluding family, I can count the females I allowed in my car. Also, when you go out in the evenings. The masks sure are out lol. And it's cool because that tells me their scared.

[@therenaissance7158]

Studying a persons personality like I've had most woman settle for a man because most people don't know themselves on a deeper lrvel so they just go with the programming makes for a unfulfilled life due too not soul searching....

[@RomWills]

True.

[@cloudair4154]

the mask i get caught up on with women is their looks.. i dont care about education or anything.. if u look good its like my defenses r immediately down.. its something i gotta get better about

[@RomWills]

Looks can get us but as men we have to look at their character.

[@swdelamentay4802]

We all have to work on that.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Yeah people are very focused on money. Of course with status comes money. It's not rocket science. For some reason other black people always thinks that i'm loaded. Nah i'm just really good with money.

[@RomWills]

Money management is key.

[@jayanouni]

Beautifully spoken truth !

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jbfilmz747]

@ Rom Wills You hit this out of the park. I find that people who are quick to invoke their degrees [without being asked] are typically mediocre at what they do for a living.

[@RomWills]

Real talk. I've known three people who made money and owned property who had 8th grade educations.

[@brianwill2488]

Yes sir a lot of people can handle pressure you're definitely right they will show who they are!!

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@killaken2850]

If you really want to kno what a person perception on life is ask this ? Can you tell me what's really goin on around u? This question will give u a big idea to how a person thinks! Then u can determine or avoid goin any further with a person!

[@RomWills]

Good advice.

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, when ever first meeting someone they will have their mask on until you get comfortable and then you'll notice some different behaviors thinking to yourself damn that's odd I was told by my ex after almost 20 years you don't know me and my reply to her was and you don't know me neither I divorced her shortly after the conversation.

[@RomWills]

Dang.

[@killaken2850]

I kno this guy who always be talking bout people be hating on him! I been knowing him for years and been tryna figure out where he get his info from! I guess cuz he purchased a car! Let me remind u I actually kno him and kno dat he always need help wit hiss bills cuz he go overboard! So I guess he feels like cuz he got sum new he on top! But people don't really see that he actually be struggling! But to him he think he doin sum by making a new purchase!

[@RomWills]

Many people don't think others see through them.

[@killaken2850]

I use to think I was da only one dat actually seen stuff for what it really was! It scared me! Cuz no one there to confirm or teach you anything! I am glad I have ran into people that think on my level! Thanks rom!

[@jeremywhitfield4556]

100% agree

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@keythjones9588]

You slam dunked this Rom...... shouts out to you from Columbus Ohio bruh💯💯💯👊

[@kjonezey43]

Great message !!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@shereejackson4825]

Loved that

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@r.williams8725]

Good Game...Mentor Rom.

[@marlobx7442]

No lies told brother 💯

[@tajhlee6134]

Valuable lesson , work on character

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@taycal7076]

this vid is wonderful. i be thinking sometimes how we humans would be if we could just be truly social. truly social in terms of everybody speaking to everybody they walk across when they out and about. it's one of my fantasy's lol. nothing more. reality is tough though.

[@RomWills]

Keep the idea alive.

[@taycal7076]

thanks. i will.

[@triniqueentx]

Truer words were never spoken..😘✈🌹

[@RomWills]

Thanks luv.

[@jehoramisrael7374]

Great Lesson!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@skinfanjay]

Ron likes. Armani. Go on playa

[@RomWills]

Never had an Armani. Ralph Lauren but never Armani. I need to treat myself.

[@dawntecollins]

I caught some Armani jeans on sale at the Armani store in phipps plaza back in the day....they were my favorite jeans....lol

[@Q5ify]

This a good content.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ennobleone]

Peace. Click.

[@RomWills]

Peace.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

I have a question Unc' Rom. I am a laid back guy and bit of a homebody. Is it possible I can get with a chick who is out going and has a busy social life by being myself or do I have to "mask" and pretend I am a bit like her. It is not for a serious relationship. More like a "Netflicks and Chill" thing.

[@RomWills]

Always stay true to yourself. The right woman will find that attractive.

[@C.Douglas777]

Rom Wills ...💯T R U T H💯

[@D.Anderson]

GM brethren ☕

[@RomWills]

Good morning fam.

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

YEAAAHHHH man...."YET ANOTHER CRUCIAL...CRUCIAL VIDEO"...Ive always been turned on by the character..the confidence in the walk makes it sexy not just the ass or curves but how they walk..how they carry themselves..Is she walking with confidence not just showing out..character leads to great convo and in convo you find out how freaky you can get with that woman..which really leads to NOOOOO convo gettin them drawls off...Hey my man keep hittin on those CRUCIAL POINTS...

[@RomWills]

Yeah I like a woman's non-verbal walk too.

[@esotericsunshine6602]

💗Facts

[@detorreonpla3424]

If you really want to be something, Self-Actualise. ~Game Has Spoken~

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@mrj9224]

🙁🙁🙁🙁😒😒😒