SELENA GOMEZ ON: How To Accept Your FLAWS & IMPERFECTIONS To Love Yourself | Jay Shetty

Today, I am talking to a good friend and celebrity, Selena Gomez.
Selena bravely tells her story about her long battle with mental health and how this led to her life mission to help spread mental health awareness around the world and provide mental health services for the less privileged. I get to deeply understand her inner thoughts on topics such as dealing with pressure of being a celebrity and the gossip that comes with it, finding self healing, embracing change, being one with your inner self, and living day by day being content, kind, and full of love to share.
Life isn’t a simple journey, but despite the complications, challenges, and struggles, we can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves.

[@simranology2001]

Selena so rightly said - "There is a blessing in the breaking" which sums up everything 🥰🥰

[@gemgen1016]

Reminds me in her documentary, and in this speech, when she’s talking about Africa or visiting her school: it was sad to visit a school that eventually got shut down, but knowing that you connected with people, people who rose up from a metaphorical broken lake for two weeks, and still rise to teach your community that even through your pain, that connection alone she highlighted when we watching the documentary and that part, The beauty in that breaking of the school led to multiple connections worldwide of mental health, and a more fierce push towards mental health to the education level and presidential level…, even if the African branch got shut down. I think she was right, even in her own events and life; blessing in the breaking, and sometimes you don’t realize the blessing until we step back and realize what’s been broken. Thanks for capturing this beautiful quote of hers.

[@vanessacarr6687]

I LOVE HER AND I LOVE RASPAS

[@allenwong5914]

At the end of the day “Rejection is Prefection”

[@SOMAA_11]

Absolutely

[@roxanalatif949]

It's a big loss for Justin that he lost Selena. I don't think he'll ever find a woman who loves him as much as she loved him. She loved him, respected him, and still respects him because after all she's done to him, she still doesn't speak ill of him or hate him. For her it is truly a victory. Justin didn't deserve Selena. Surely, Justin knows that there is no chance of him ever getting back together with her. He thought he could come back to her when he felt like it and she would forgive him as she had done so many times. Surely Selena will find her happiness and find someone who deserves it. She is wonderful and has a big soul❤❤❤

[@Minmiumew]

I wasn’t ever a big fan of Selena but I’ve come to realize how down to earth and real she is. She got a new fan ❤

[@radientproductions9799]

watch Only Murders In The Building , most underrated show on tv , she's so good in it :)

[@chongkhemn]

Add me too❤

[@selenasuau2613]

Listen to her albums Revivile and Tara......u get some Experiance if u r in a relationship

[@guillerminasolorio1619]

Same here I never was a fan of her ❤ now I can see who she is❤❤❤

[@carmelaes]

Same here, I only discovered her last week and now I am obsessed with her.

[@perfectlessness]

Selena is a real hero in my book, she went through a LOT and how she talks about all this is huge. Thank you Jay for bringing such amazing people for us to listen to!!

[@emib343]

Many people went through even worse and never had a chance to become as rich as she did.

[@stavrostzagarakis5139]

@@emib343 she is lucky for being rich(in my opinion well deserved) but that doesn’t make her less of a human being with her flaws. Mental illness makes us believe that our problems are bigger than other peoples problems. She is allowed to express her feelings as much as u do. Clad she did she is amazing.

[@eirlur6748]

@@emib343that's fair, she's too young when she's investing time put hard work to be one richer person today...

[@laurieherman1215]

Selena took a vital organ from her best friend and then ditched her right after the transplant. That's grimey on grimey on grimy shit. How would you feel if you gave a vital organ to your best friend only for them to turned around and treat it like some type of prize they won at a goddamn Fair for $10 bucks that ends up at the goodwill or in a rubbish bin. Such bs.

[@annakatrinamagbanua4580]

​@@laurieherman1215 UPDATE: They still are friends and are posting recent videos. Friends fall off sometimes and fight, like sibkings do but they reconcile and are now besties as ever. Keep posted. 😂😂

[@cherylautry478]

Selena Gomez you are so down to earth. You can tell you will never ever forget where you come from. When your in pain and hurting get excited because something really amazing fixing to happen in your life. Selena is my favorite Artist in the world 😊I admire this woman

[@jval75816]

I grew to become a fan of Selena I’m 47 my kids grew up watching her they are fans of her she is a role model that I can say to the younger generation they can look up to her she is kind and a caring woman. I pray for her health to get better and amazing things come her because she deserves it.

[@ysmnyz]

I genuinely adore and love this woman since I was a kid. Now I'm 25 and I look up to her even more. Who she was, who she became, who she is. She deserves the world.

[@shireenramnarain4005]

My kids grew up watching her on tv n learning sooo many educational lessons on her tv children series with the purple dinosaur ... 🦕 😀 ⭐📺🏆

[@user-pd9zb2tt3j]

She’s so elegant and so charming. The way she talks calms me in a way I can’t explain ❤

[@petra4950]

I always ask myself "who has decided what's perfect and what's imperfect? To me, everything is perfect in its imperfection. ❤️

[@_.ewoma._]

This is beautiful ❤

[@petra4950]

@@_.ewoma._ 🙏🏻😇

[@indirafisher2752]

Selena is so pure humble loving talented intelligent classy

[@DiegoOrtiz-jx3ze]

I can relate to her so much. Everyday is a struggle but I’m trying

[@vibhutisahu5376]

my god her patience enhances her voice and maturity with deep meaning😍

[@ritahnaggs355]

You are so incredible woman, love you

[@dariannyv765]

It is good to know that everybody can go through all of this even when they have a lot of money. Thank you for teaching the importance of mental health ❤

[@ellenjones6080]

I was never a fan of Selena but seeing how she handles adversity and doing it on her own is so inspiring for women and she’s a role model for young girls! I hope parents are guiding their little girls that beauty is only skin deep but courage and character is even more beautiful!

[@jaqiofalltrades]

I've been indifferent and really didn't follow her, just knew some hit songs. But seeing her be so vulnerable, raw, and honest is such a nice pace! Celebrities, artists, etc. are always putting on a facade for the camera and she isn't. Love the calm soul, the honesty about her mental and physical health. Really becoming a supporter of her. (Her music is still just 'ok' to me, but as a person and what she's standing for is amazing.)

[@Swearitsdajiavu]

8:12 I’m embracing the uncomfortableness of change. I was and still am a little terrified of going out and being seeen but it’s getting better for me 😅 so proud of Selena 💛

[@meggiestephenson]

Selena Gomez makes me feel so safe. I can’t describe it. ❤

[@thinklikequeenie]

"We can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves" . This is so beautifully said! Selena is an inspiration 🤩. I love that she's talking so openly about the things she has been through.

[@thelmaagondez6860]

I really love all Selena's interview..I learn a lot about myself ,how to accept all my imperfections...So great to know that she's not different from all of us..

[@emms1184]

Selena is a truly role model to look up to! She is so young but so wise at the same time that makes her so normal but so extra. She is just perfect! I love this queen 👸🏻

[@TheCasfilms]

What a great interview. Jay and Selena are magic….such positivity.

[@lalalalululu521]

She is amazing , thank you for this interview, I was really enjoying. She is so good and talented. Thank you for this opportunity to listen to this conversation.

[@olgasuner999]

I felt her pain she has been hurt deeply that her emotions are desensitized. When a person gets hurt over and over again they became numb and that’s what I see and feel in her. She got all the fame and glamour , monetary but God is taking her through battle or as one calls it testing in life by giving illness, broken heart etc.. hope she finds Jesus in her heart and he will heal all your wounds and get you to a smooth sailing.

[@missbrowniejay]

She's not numb. Maybe you're projecting?

[@rebeccadaleartthecreativewande]

I’m 72 yr. Love your podcast. Keeps me learning.

[@jnrtepania4153]

She's so empowering talented beautiful

[@betania8489]

I love how he re-uploaded this Selena Gomez podcast while the drama is happening. Jay is Team Selena!!!

[@KhalifaKhush]

One thing about Selena.. That is one humble woman. ❤️🙌 Life is precious, remember to take some time, and smell the flowers.

[@deepalisinha9813]

Hope Selena knows she has millions of fans in India ..loads of love to the strong ,sexy,amazing Selena ❤ you are truly an original STAR ⭐

[@foxirin]

She is lovely girl . I like her and her songs as well. That was nice conversation and cool experience to listen to both of you. Thank you for this opportunity ❤

[@jeanshelbybooks4154]

I loved her cute examples of imperfection. It really shows how much we need to let go instead of being so critical of every little thing about ourselves. 😊

[@milanols]

Selena is the best. She's so down-to-earth and relatable. Thank you Sel, you make me feel hopeful and safe ❤

[@vjairo1221]

I can listen to Selena talk for hours upon hours ❤

[@buffygrinXV]

Selena touches our hearts in different way. I know she knows how wonderful she is and she deserves all the things that she prayed for. ❤

[@relisaabenir8545]

I love the way she handled the situation,, humble down to earth amazing lady

[@tracy7436]

It’s the imperfections that make people perfect for who they are.

[@bobbib3836]

Selena you’re perfectly unperfect which makes you so relatable & loved ♥️🙏🏼

[@mommaboombam3764]

Thank you. I know I'm not perfect and I Love that I'm not perfect. Only trying to make myself better and never reaching perfection is just perfect for me. Love to everyone trying to be authentic 💗 mbba.

[@claudiabraga9291]

Selena Gomez é única. Que sorriso lindo!!. Olha que mulher maravilhosa ❤️🇧🇷

[@ekasaria.9127]

You are so perfect Selena. You are beautiful, kind, and have warm heart. Thankyou

[@chongkhemn]

"I don't have to be perfect all the time....".....the thing that I often forget!I feel like all the process for my goals should be perfect,but there is no perfection, all the small mistakes that I am making in the process is something that shows that I am trying though I am not doing perfect like I picture,but somehow a little better than doing nothing

[@AnnTsungMD]

It's important to remember that progress is not always linear, and there will be ups and downs along the way. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that we need to be perfect all the time, but this kind of thinking can actually hold us back from achieving our goals. By embracing the idea that it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them, we can actually become more resilient and better equipped to handle the challenges that come our way. Your willingness to try and make progress, even if it's not always perfect, is commendable. Remember to be kind to yourself and celebrate the small victories along the way. You're on the right path, and with persistence and determination, you will reach your goals. Peace!

[@tammysims8716]

Dearest beautiful Selena, you, my dear, are delightful and a triple threat! I pray that you know what a precious gift you are! God gave you your gifts, and you are sharing them with the world. Your singing voice is like that of an Angel. Jesus loves you, Selena.

[@mariavacacela8314]

God bless you Selena. You are a beautiful human being. Keeps spreading love everywhere you go 🙌🏽♥️

[@wendylbranchfield7959]

Brava Selena Gomez. You are a very wise, young woman!♥️🙌🏽🙌🏽👏👏👏👏👏

[@fergusclarken8437]

Selena is amazing human ❤

[@senseiplazo9544]

I love Selena's words of wisdom

[@northerngirl468]

#selenagomez you have turned into a lovely young woman and great role model. Thank you for being real. People can’t relate to perfect. And most celebrities come across as though they have the perfect life. You being real is such a wonderful testimony to girls who look up to you.

[@anaclaudiacarvalho1678]

She is precious!❤

[@ainoh6403]

I love you and I love her OMG, I am so excited to listen to this episode!😍🙏

[@jennifernargiso5625]

You not being or acting perfect is what makes you perfect. You are truly a beautiful person ❤ #TeamSelenaforever❤

[@joandmike]

I have been waiting for this!

[@thatomofolo452]

Selena Gomez so elegant and beautiful 👑👸❤️❣️❤️💫😊

[@sigmarule_s]

Thank you 🙏 Jay for everything

[@roya250]

She is a very strong woman... I am proud of her

[@theresawest1696]

This is such an AMAZING message(s) what a real person!!!! I just subscribed!!!

[@BloodhoundRanch88]

stoked for this!

[@zuardfejer]

I liked her before,now I love her ❣️very inspiring

[@nfbconnect]

She's inspiring.

[@pearlch74211]

I feel emotional and calming at the same time

[@jennypsarra]

We always grow, we always evolve! Growth is the goal!!! We will never be perfect and we should learn from mistakes! ❤❤❤

[@fergusclarken8437]

Selena is the only person in life I can respect that has wealth success and fame because she is ground with who she is normal but perfect but her

[@danabrown7163]

Selena is wonderful and so thoughtful, thanks for always providing such awesome work

[@leahannwhite1111]

Flaws and imperfections are imagined.

[@Naonicat]

I just love her so much ❤ love her character in only murders in the building. It’s a fun show too

[@Andre778.9]

She’s a beautiful Angel who inspires the world 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️💐😍

[@BrendanWoolwine]

I love how this is edited! Not a lot of podcasts cut to reactions this often. I get to see the entire conversation and facial expressions of both people. We’ll done!

[@arianaaguilar3548]

She is so beautiful inside and out 😍❤️

[@jacey_melody]

Our differences MAKE US who we are 💙 we should celebrate ourselves for who we are 💜

[@clairevillanueva2393]

Love you, Selena! 😘

[@VeeAmericanEagle]

At work and listening to Selena ❤

[@roseanneelliott3817]

Love you Selena. You are truly an inspiration ❤

[@HuongNguyen-ck5cc]

This girl is beautiful, talented and brave

[@user-oi2gy8cs9c]

selena is such a beautiful and strong person. she doesn't claim to be perfect or that she has everything figured out. I really wish her family nothing but the very best for the rest of their lives.

[@Rider-hw2ts]

I love you soooo much Selena…my favourite celebrity of all time ❤

[@aline21o85]

I love selena so much

[@ashwingonsalves474]

Love Selena ♥️

[@divya._]

Tq for bringing her up😭❤️

[@chasingthedreams7244]

Selena ❤❤

[@miximumpop2278]

I would definitely marry Selena in the next life 🧬 So matured thinking and concious human beyond status ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@Peep_peep3]

She inspired aboundently 🤍🤍🤍

[@ro-fz1jt]

I've been doing that for years I e always LOVED MYSELF

[@ISAE81657]

I love this girl.

[@Jen-M.]

she is beautiful!

[@ElisaReclaLisa-wl8zy]

In ever pain that we HAVE, WE, should think that there is a purpose on it.just remember that there is God who sees everything. Our enemy would really try hard for us to be discouraged and depressed and think of negative but our God is great and can do anything for us. have always faith in our GREAT GOD.

[@Israelmama404]

I love you Selena Gomez you matter 😍

[@tostinette2645]

So Huge ! TY Selena, TY Jay ! :)

[@aryanalfa2444]

She's not just a great songer but she haa a lovly "talking" voice!

[@celestesantiago280]

Selena, I love you as a sister and that’s the true keep being wonderful on in the inside and outside, I have lupus too how do I handle it, Love, your spiritual sister Maria. God bless you ❤

[@ryandjelloul6744]

You are a beautiful lady Selena by the way God loves you cause he is helping you working on your inner part while others are focused only on the outside ... your on top in and out ❤❤❤❤❤ our realy tour on earth is your inner part and you already know that...true it's a very hard work to clean you SOUL

[@ship4787]

I loveeeeee her and so proud of her ✨🫶🏻

[@odomholden1647]

She's a strong woman she's been to a whole lot

[@mayacha9248]

I love this girl

[@kennyaguerrero8636]

I save to gonto New York for 4 days and I didn't want to leave. It is so Beautiful!! And Selena spend months there without enjoying. Life is not fair.

[@marianameri8322]

We love Selena very much from Ethiopia💚💛❤

[@guillerminasolorio1619]

Awesome ❤ Selena you're my favorite person ❤💙 best wishes ❤ to.you😊😊❤

[@adrianachavez8911]

We love you Selena!!!!❤🥲🙏🏻 Eres una admiradora para muchas mujeres en verdad gracias por tu ejemplo de mujer Gracias mi niña Dios te bendiga siempre y sabes. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Eres bella por dentro y por fuera. Lloraste sufriste reíste caíste pero dijiste si a Dios y vas por el buen camino si una buena mujer amiga hermana eres increíble Selena. En verdad te admiro mucho adelante mi niña y ser fuerte valiente y Dios está siempre contigo. Que nuestra madre la virgen María te cuide y te protege con su bendito manto. ❤❤❤

[@eriva6]

Fame didn’t ruin her just helped the rest of us see that fame fortune and influence can still equal humble, humanitarian and a genuine gentle presence.

[@masamusa36]

Just as beautiful as I remember back in 2006 on myspace when you reacted to my comment

[@daiana827]

Love the fact to watch without ads😊

[@vickieaustin3128]

Such a sweet 💗

[@gerrimiller3491]

Jay Shetty is Anointed with The Holy Ghost 🕊⚘🕊i can relate to this video. Much luv to Selena for understanding who she really is❤❤❤❤

[@plugged4937]

Here before this blows up

[@vickieaustin3128]

You are a great person, stay with Zayn