My children..my life their life.. Rescue me or not? Strong feelings and belief statements to share

[@micki777]

“I have my own wings and they are not broken”. love that quote 💜💜💜💪🏻

[@aileenbeyer5559]

Haters gotta hate. Lovers gotta love and you can't fix stupid. I've lived my whole life trying to please other people. Not anymore. I'm too old for games and caring what others think. I'm moving to Arizona and going to live in a popup camper. I couldn't live in a car but I understand. It is your life and your choices. Be you and live your way.

[@sharonrice8255]

Aileen Beyer please be ready for lots of HOT in summer

[@aileenbeyer5559]

@@sharonrice8255 we plan on moving down next October so we slowly get acclimated to the heat. If it gets too bad we can always move.

[@bettywith2girls]

God bless...couldn't say it better myself. I still do care what people think, but I don't put up with their cr@p as much, let's just say. Yea, once you reach a certain age, you just say "the heck with it" or something like that. LOL

[@brownsugar555hayes6]

I dig what you are saying I just left Arizona last Wednesday and felt right at home. I went by myself and looking forward to moving there permanently blessings and peace to you!!

[@carmenwheatley7316]

Northern Arizona is much cooler in the summer time.

[@charlesh8523]

GREAT VIDEO ! LINDA YOU ARE ONE HELL OF A WOMAN LIVING YOUR LIFE ON YOUR TERMS I WISH YOU MANY YEARS OF HAPPINESS !!!

[@maryjones9063]

Charles H And most of all God’s guidance and inspirational empowerment to help us your followers to see the Bible in action and living color with all your adventures in God’s creations. I am inspired and encouraged in my life by all you share. Your joy is contagious as you share with us things we may not otherwise experience either by health, age, responsibilities we created for ourselves or circumstances God is using to show the world how HE IS CONCERNED ABOUT EVERYTHING IN OUR LIVES. HE HAS A PLAN WITH ALL THE ANSWERS IF WE SEEK HIM FOR DIRECTION IN THE ABUNDANT LIFE HE HAS ORCHESTRATED FOR OUR BENEFIT AND HIS GLORY. LINDA YOU ARE SUCH A BLESSING. I thank God for you sharing your authentic life and feeling. Loving you in God’s family. BLESSING FOR THE DAY AND JOY IN THE JOURNEY.. 🙏💖🤗🦋🇺🇸🌟🎚👀👀👀👀👀👀

[@softlanding138]

Anytime you put yourself "out there" you will have critisizm. Expect it and ignore it. Keep on going girl!

[@annanorth7997]

Every family is unique. Well said. You are living your best life. Best wishes to you for happy and safe travels.

[@Simbecile]

My husband and I are moving in with my parents next month to help my dad take care of my mom who has dementia. It's the right thing to do, she will not go into a facility while I can prevent it but I don't expect it to be serene or simple.

[@lw5417]

I gave up my wings to help family with illness too. You will need to take breaks. What works for me is to get in my car and yell *Freedom*. Then I take a break to just be me for a little while. (This is a different topic than the video, but my heart goes out to you.) God bless you and your family.

[@joyceforney8109]

Hi...I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision on your part...it's a well-intentioned sacrifice, putting your lives on hold. But, you've made this decision, bless you & your husband. Remember, there are services in your community to assist you & your dad...use them!!! Beware of the poorly managed ones. Take their advice on how to not only aid your parents during this season of their life but to help you over the bumps. Blessings

[@scruffy281]

Simbecile...No one ever said that this life was ever going to be "serene or simple". I think that the journey you are about to make with your husband is the RIGHT thing to do and I have nothing but the upmost respect for your decision. I wish you all the best of luck and all the strength that you will need in the time ahead of you . You are a very special person to do that for your Dad as well as your mother and so is your husband. What a kind and loving daughter you are. God Bless You and your family.❤️

[@dennisbosworth3665]

Just take one day at a time, Simbecile ... one foot ahead of the other.

[@lifeisshort-makeitsweet869]

We each make our choices in situations and live with the consequences of our decisions. I too am doing caretaking and it's hard, but it is the right thing for me to do at this time. I would not expect others to agree or disagree. Nor would I want to make anyone feel guilty for their choices. Everyday is new and exciting, whether it's a good day or bad. I enjoy learning about how other people live. I may not think I can do it, but I find it fascinating and wish everyone the best.

[@ritag4432]

Knowing my Mom was out there alone, living in her car, would stress me out. Honestly, I wouldn't be able to sleep at night. But I commend you for making this decision, I'm sure it wasn't an easy one to make. As the saying goes, 'Not all who wonder are lost'. God bless you and keep you safe

[@rbr2023]

Linda I LOVED this video! My mother lives alone and i am her only child. I have a husband and child of my own but she fully expects me to be here entire support system emotionally and physically taking the place of my father. She is healthy and capable but will not go out and make friends or get involved with local groups etc. I have had to be strong and try to continue with my own life, job, home, marriage, parenting. Its been very hard to pull away to an extent. I need my own life, she needs hers. I am 43 by the way and she is 71 (a very young fit healthy 71)! I wish she could watch and understand your video. Your attitude is fantastic! Thank you for being real! sending love and safe travels x

[@sharonrice8255]

You’re a very dynamic person my dear, a success no matter your abode. You certainly aren’t down & out. You’re an adventurer, entrepreneur and educator. Gumption my dear, you’ve got gumption.

[@lesliewheeler4785]

Exactly She embodies heavenly, grounded GUMPTION WITH Grace...

[@pianogalRN]

Excellent point -- you are not a burden to your children and vice versa. Single mom must have done something right! You go, girl. And thank you for letting us in on your life's journey, both literally and figuratively. You're a brave strong woman....in the Lord's hands.

[@sniperwiper100]

Still surprises me to hear how people want to live your live for you! You’re a lovely person, Linda. Let that light shine! ❤️

[@GabrielleFreedom]

Katy Bobick here here.

[@pamross4994]

My mother would never have wanted to be a burden.

[@popup4393]

It was very difficult for me to come to the realization that my daughter was an adult capable of making her own choices and mistakes, but when I did I I found my own freedom.

[@sandrab2589]

Looking back over my life, I finally realized that whenever I listened to other peoples' advice and opinions about what I should do, I ended up making (huge) mistakes and being miserable. I now listen to my heart and make my own decisions. I wish I had summoned up the courage to do this decades ago!! If people don't like what they see, they can just move on. (And no, I do not want to live with my children!)

[@mstutoring]

Hi Linda! I think that internet trolls are incredibly sad and lonely people who wish to spread their anger to other, to strangers really. They feel empowered because they are behind a screen and would never say what they say online to you directly. Ignore them. Block them. Keep "doing you". I watch you because you are articulate, intelligent and have chosen an interesting path. I find it fun to watch you, so keep it up girl and remain simple and serene! Best wishes🧡💜

[@BonnieLeah]

I don't think ANYONE was TROLLING Her.. I do think people are CONCERNED for her SAFETY and perhaps her health. I HAVENT seen ANYONE on here being UGLY to Linda. So why would you be on here INSULTING and CRITISIZING people who clearly HAVE NOT done anything wrong? I don't think any of this has anything to do with empowering others or making them feel superior because they sit behind a computer screen typing out their CONCERN for someone.. And just remember, YOU TOO ARE SITTING BEHIND A COMPUTER SCREEN CRITISIZING OTHERS AND INSULTING PEOPLE WHO ARE REALLY JUST CONCERNED... So do you think that makes you an INTERNET TROLL? or have I JUMPED TO A CONCLUSION just because you are trying to lift Linda up while PUTTING OTHERS DOWN?? God bless you..

[@alwebber5383]

Mary, the reason you don’t see the nasty comments are because they’re being blocked. K press wasn’t being nasty to anyone who was concerned. And she’s right about the Trolls because I see it on lots of the channels.

[@jonnies8478]

Great review Mary Cody. 🙂

[@willothewispl]

Linda, I just moved back from into a little apt. I lived in my car for a year. Was not my choice. But best thing for me to do at the time. Everyone I knew and some I did not know all said I was hard headed and stupid. Not my son, he supported me and helped me when I needed it. People yelled and got angry because I was not living with my son. I did not want to live there, and I do not think he would have chose it either. If I needed to I could have lived with him and his fiancee, but It was something I had to do myself. Only reason I am not still out there is because I am not well. Needed to come back to an apt. Best thing I ever did, spending that year in my car. Really did me a world of good. You do your thing Linda. God Bless.

[@lindatijsma9581]

Your living my dream my name is Linda and I have a sedan the same color ..but I cannot go venture out I take care of my grown disabled son...so keep it up love I'm living vicariously threw you..may our sweet savior bless your goings in and out and prosper you in all you do

[@liviarivera292]

I extremely liked this video and the fact that you do not put your burdens on your kids. Thankfully you are in good health mentally and independent financially and spiritually . God bless you and continue to guide you. Is good you take responsibility for your life and make and exercise your choices!

[@boblock7588]

Linda ..your so right..when our kids are making it on there own..it’s wonderful…I have 3 boys and 1 girl ..in there 30s now …miss when they were kids..it was so much fun …🙏 ❤️..take care Linda

[@bboice08]

You struggled but have been washed clean and this is the root for your children. Perfect. Life is tough. We need to make it assessable to the young so we can develop a culture of heart for our country. Barb/Sacramento

[@o.c.bobbie5538]

I NEVER want to have to rely on my Children, and NEVER would I want my Children to feel they NEED to take care of me. You are a strong woman doing what makes you happy. GOOD FOR YOU! GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE! Much Love 💕

[@annemoefaauo7055]

Bravo! Well said! You are absolutely right. Your wings are not broken. The greatest gift to give to your children is your commitment to be true to yourself. Do not take negative comments to heart. It just reflects a lack up understanding that no explanation could address You are a totally heroic and courageous woman...rock on!!!👍😊🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@NASkeywest]

You gave them life and raised them. They are old enough now and you have the right to be free and do what you want. You earned it.

[@forest1butterfly]

You dont owe an explanation to anyone. I sensed a heavy heart with your children. God knows everything and I will lift you up and your kids in prayer. God Bless You all.🙏

[@MaraBradley]

I worry forever about my kids being able to be self sufficient. You are right that is a true blessing.

[@Mary-momof8]

Linda, you're one strong, independent lady!! I admire your guts to live as you're doing. Nobody has any right to criticize you and how you're living, just as we shouldn't criticize how others choose to live. We're all on a journey in this world which is fleeting. Enjoy the life you've made!!💗

[@davidmurling4252]

You are a strong independent woman and you've raised strong independent kids. That's something to be proud of.

[@shadowmoon8619]

Thank you so much for this video! ❤️ I don’t have children, but I have an older brother who, when our parents died, made sure that I always knew he would always be there for me. In 2014, he and his wife told me I could live on their land with a trailer after I retire and I’ve been working toward that for the past 6 years. I am now 60 and have decided that I’m going to retire at 62. I love my brother, but I have found after taking many cross country trips by myself, that the thing I really want to do when I retire is travel by car and enjoy life. I can financially do this by living in a car; I can’t by living in sticks & bricks. My brother will be helping me after I retire to find a vehicle (he’s also a mechanic) and he will be my home base as far as mail, etc. As much as he loves me, he has given his blessing. So, it’s not just parents, but family. As a 14 y/o I burdened myself trying to take care of my mother before she died. It took me years to get over the guilt of not doing it good enough because she died anyway. I would never want anyone to feel burdened about me, especially when I am living my life to it’s fullest and I’m happy!

[@Lylac91]

The whole point really is that you are choosing to live the life that you want. I tear up sometimes watching your videos because you really are a strong woman and I commend you for taking life and really striving to live it. You are not just talking about it as many do, you are doing it. It is no one's business as to your choices and the hows or the whys. You have a strong head upon your shoulders and clearly you think about all aspects of your choices, and you are just trying to do the best that you can and make most of the life God has given you. God bless.

[@sandracraine2983]

I admire your lifestyle and independence. I’m sure you raised beautiful and loving children. May God bless you.

[@cherbear1996]

This is really not the day for me to comment on my children..i just posted those very thoughts in my journal...i will say..they have no problem with me living this lifestyle, prob so they don't have to ....add your own thoughts here...✌❤😊 To add..when I was young, we grew up 3-4 generations in one house...i would give just about anything to have that again..the family units like that have all but disappeared except in certain cultures..😥

[@Teri728]

CherBear I miss those days as well. It did seem more healthy to me.

[@Teri728]

CherBear I miss those days as well. It did seem more healthy to me.

[@BonnieLeah]

well I think families should still have 3-4 generations in the same house.. NOTHING wrong with that.. I know children DID NOT ask to be born, but they were and the parents DIDN'T throw them into foster homes. They RAISED them.. I believe when a person gets older (60's) that the children (if they care for their parents) will do something to help them out a little bit.. But now a days it seems like helping mom or dad when they are old is a BURDEN... HOW SAD!! And what happens when mom or dad get sick and cant care for themselves? Are the children just gonna let them lay some where ( whether it be in a bed or a car or a camper or what ever) sick?? It's ok NOT to hold your children back and it's ok for mom/dad to spread their wings and fly after the children are raised .. But lets all face REALITY here, sooner or later, mom/dad are gonna be TOO OLD to fly very far if at all.. Then What? I am not trying to be mean here, just pointing to some FACTS about old age.. I am 57 and I do ok right now. And I DON'T want to live in the house with my daughter when and if that day comes, but I would LIKE to have a little house or camper close to her so that if I need help, I can get it... And I hope that when my daughter and son in law get old and then need help, that their kids will STEP UP and help them .. After all isn't that part of what a FAMILY does??? Is that not what LOVE is?? God says to HONOR your father and mother so that your days on earth will be long.. This is what God expects us to do. God loves us all . God bless..

[@jonnies8478]

That is how the Amish live today and it is a very sustainable and respectful choice.

[@lindawilson8434]

@@BonnieLeah I agree With you It is biblical One day they too will get old

[@carolemaw4025]

I am so glad I found this sweet person who explains so good how some of us feel. We learned to train up a child in a way they should go not the way you would want them to, be themselves. God will give them the wisdom to do both. God Bless.

[@dragonflykelly11]

Linda, in my opinion you’re the best kind of mom. You obviously love your children and I completely believe you’d be there for them if they really needed you. And they’d be there for you likewise. But while everyone is healthy and able you are living your own lives on your own terms 💕

[@donnettasue9720]

I get this! I was a single mother as well.I was injured in an accident my kids were already on their own. They both moved home to help me recover .the whole time I felt so guilty that they put their lives on hold to help me. They are finally back on their own after 3 years..now I’m happy they are on with their lives.✌️

[@mysteryreader1]

Do your thing, girl. You are strong and smart. You are perfectly capable of being the captain of your ship. For me, there is nothing more important than autonomy

[@sincerelysandi]

You are a woman of great wisdom, and the one's who spreads negative energy can learn a lot. I know I am.☀️

[@marlenemcmillan8891]

As a single mother of 2 daughters I can relate totally....mine are all grown up now....I understand you ..well said...you live your life

[@cathyrice6022]

I commend you, I agree with you on all your points. Nothing better than giving our children their wings, I wish I’d been aware of this lifestyle sooner, I’m envious of your freedom and living vicariously through you 👍👍❤️

[@brownsugar555hayes6]

I admire you for living your life on your on terms. You raised your children and you do not have to explain yourself to anyone, because of you I went to Arizona by myself and had a wonderful time. I am looking forward to moving there permanently. I admire inner strength and courage blessings and love to you!!!

[@joanipicard408]

I respect your perspective! I feel the same way about my children growing their wings. Despite my having MS, I will not be a burden to my beautiful adult children. You are awesome!! I have always wanted to be a nomad and travel but have hurdles to overcome due to MS.

[@lindareinen4361]

You are living my dream! I have one son who is okay with my dream and one son who is not okay with it. They have done so great with their lives, they are very successful with their careers and I’m so proud of them! I love them so much! But I don’t want them to take care of me. I want to be able to visit them and enjoy them. They live in 2 different states, there are certain times of the year I really like being in each of them states, but there are also times I don’t like to be in either state. I also enjoy my time to do whatever I please and with who I want to be around, and at times, be by myself to enjoy my own serenity alone. They both know I will be there for them in a minute, we are all very close and honest when we talk and I know they love me too. My oldest is a caretaker, so this will be a bigger deal for him, but he knows, “mom” has a lot of inner strength and God willing I will be traveling, just like you! BIG 👍 TO YOU!

[@kidsmom928]

My favorite video so far! I am so happy for you. I agree so much with what you said. Family is important and those relationships are eternal but we cannot make them happy and their happiness doesn't dictate mine and vice versa. I love your attitude of independence and honesty. You are making a choice, you are not a victim of your circumstances.

[@jeanne_margaret]

It’s ok Linda if people express their concerns, it’s an opportunity for them to learn. You’ve handled this subject very well. I think your fantastic! I think your children must love and respect you so much to let you live your life they way you want. ❌❌❌❌❌

[@angiegracie6954]

And maybe it’s an opportunity for Linda to learn and really read the posts she neglected to put a heart on. The tide flows both ways.

[@lesliewheeler4785]

Until Such Thyme ;)

[@cherylmccall9391]

I have raised my children to be independent, strong adults too. Love that I found you. My desire is to "take off" and enjoy my later years. I'm healthy and happy with the simple life! 🤗 Lord bless you, sister!

[@lleemcdermitt1892]

I needed this great video. My only child just graduated high school this yr.. She moved away after graduation. I was always a helicopter mom too. I just have done well to raise her. She's doing great and supporting herself thru college. Doesn't want our help. She's moving her independent life. I've been fearful but u just gave the best advice that I could hear v Thank u. 💞

[@evelynwilliams4042]

I needed to hear this..How awesome is GOD that he put this video in my path...I am working on myself..I also am living in my car..it is frustrating at times and a adjustment but this is what is BEST for me NOW..ONE DAY AT A TIME...

[@standup4332]

Raw, honest and strong. Great boundary setting, great beliefs, great respect for you Linda. I learn a lot from you. Sending you love

[@karenmattson6750]

I just ran across your video and totally agree with you! Thank you for sharing I really could relate to you! I really enjoyed watching your video after watching it I realized that you are a lot like me! I was a single Mom of two boys and happy and proud to say they both are very independent, happy and successful! I do feel blessed and have thanked God and them both for that gift! I am very independent and at peace with myself even though I haven’t always made the right decisions in life my sons are doing good what more can a Mom ask for! ❤️

[@happyandjoyful7916]

Wonderful video!!! I’m 73 and want to do what you are doing but people are lovingly concerned about my safety because of people being murdered on the road. I feel I can learn from you and when the time comes, I feel your videos will help alleviate their concerns. I love them so much and don’t want to place worry on them. I feel the same way that they are providing for me by being self sufficient and I them by being independent. I’m so proud of them and thankful they are so kind and thoughtful and with that being said, grateful we all have our wings. I can tell you also have a great deal of love in your family too! Thank you for sharing your journey!👏😊

[@chazluckey]

Wow! Thx you...this was so refreshing and healing for me. I know it’s a complicated issue dealing with family when you choose to be a nomad...my husband and I are very much nomads at heart. We love adventure, traveling and are ever changing in our lifestyle. We have not always gotten support or been excepted for our choices...it has made us stronger to stand up and say it doesn’t matter how any one feels...I agree it’s our choice, our life! I just want you to know I am grateful you are sharing ur journey with all of us...I thank God you are who you are and are daring to be different! Praying more people will dare to step up to the plate and get off the treadmill of life and begin to live life following the Lords lead instead of living the way “man” says we should live. There is so much freedom in the nomad lifestyle. Thx again for you being you!👍👏🤗🙏💙

[@virginiabarnum4243]

I admire you so much! I salute you. You are a very strong woman. You don’t need to explain to them. You really don’t.

[@cindieorangecook]

That was GREAT! I have a feeling we’re a lot alike in this, including having to continually work on doing the right thing for our kids AND for us,which everything you said is. Amen to ya, sister! It’s nobody’s business. ♥️

[@gavinsnana]

Linda, I respect and agree with every point you made. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and creating boundaries. We each have a life to manage; that’s a full time job to get it partially right. That leaves no time for any of us to attempt to control someone else’s. Because everyone’s circumstances are different, we’re all best served to deal with our own and allow others to deal with theirs. Stay safe, all the best.

[@ritadavison4857]

Lol!! Girl....I’m living with my daughter and her hubby right now. I was living on the island of Dominica (not the Dominican Republic) back in September of 2017 when I was evacuated out a week after Hurricane Maria hit. She picked me up at the Miami airport when I arrived back in the U.S. After two years of cohabitating together, it’s time for a change. The lease is up in March, and I will be moving into my suv, and I feel absolutely Thrilled about it!!!! I love how you think!!!!

[@kaydeberg4536]

Gosh that was great. Iv already mentioned. That your life is similar to mine. I had a time where things did not go well. So I rushed to my son's for a bit to gather my thoughts. My son's wife did not care for me n wanted me out. Which just made the decision easier. He worried and wanted me to go to a elderly place. I was shocked. N said no honey. This is my time to travel n live how I want. I went to an attorney n. Had a power of attorney typed up so no one could decide anything for me. Then I told my son not to worry. GOD would always watch over me. I love him dearly n we call all the time. But what I do in life is my decision. I dont want anyone deciding anything for me. It's my life. Yes. I will make mistakes and have ups n downs. But mostly I'm thankful to see each day as a new day. It's an adventure to me. Where if someone wants to put me where old folks go?. That would not be living. GOD will take me when I'm. Ready n not sooner. I'm lucky.... I have a small social security n Medicare. So im fine. I could be better. But gosh I'm happy. I'm hoping to acquire a van to get comfortable. Then travel with the ladies in sister's on the fly. I'll make it. It's never going to be easy.. but I'm free. FREE. that's important... I seen a sign. "We each have the right to govern ourselves. My life is mine to live. GOD will enrich each day. I enjoy n learn each day. Best to you. -K-

[@susannordstrom5065]

I'm 60 and i brought my kids up as a solo parent too , and I agree with everything your talking about, my kids owe me nothing, I love them and they love me, I dont expect them to take care of me. I'd rather be in a home than living with my kids.

[@Tiffanka]

Good for you! You’re awesome, passionate and intelligent. Wishing you the best always. Stay safe and free! 🥰 I just adore you and your spirit!

[@discod]

I totally get it. My mom is 78, fiercely independent, and still living on her own. She would never want to live with me, and I would never want to live with my grown son, even though we all love each other dearly. I like that your kids respect your lifestyle, it’s your choice!

[@kellymitchell3138]

People can't understand this desire to live simply and independently or how liberating that must be! Over many years, I've downsized my ideas of what I absolutely need to live comfortably. Initially, living out of my car was not even on my radar. But thanks to videos like yours, I think my little Versa hatchback may be the ideal vehicle for me to live in! I can fit a 4" folding twin mattress in it comfortably with lots of room to spare. I'm going to spend the next many months getting it retrofitted, so when it's time to pull the plug, I'll be ready! God speed and hope to see you on the journey :)

[@aliciabratton3832]

Thanks for this. When I see people who never want their kids to grow up and leave and live THEIR own life I just want to scream. I am an only child and my parents are 81. They are needing me to stop my life to care for them, and I will. I also have a 29 year old daughter who has severe disabilities and I would give anything if she could live on her own and have a life. Thanks for being authentic and putting out some truth bombs!!

[@SereneandSimpleLife]

Thank you for your transparency and honesty from the other side.. ☀️💛😊

[@young1471]

All kids feel responsible for their parents happiness. It’s about pleasing our parents when we are children. If mom/dad are happy, kids are happy. The tendency continue thru life. Amen to self sufficient kids!

[@luzsombra6712]

I've seen this video more than once, not because I don't get you,but because, how right I feel you are, giving them wings, giving them a gift, they knowing that you're happy, you're making it happening for yourself,that have to be a peace of mind for them. Good for you! I do appreciate every video of yours. Keep it up. Looking forward for more. Not a new subscriber!!! 🙂

[@charlesmartin800]

You look and remind me of my mom soo much! I love watching you I must say. Your truly inspire me nightly when I get in bed and turn your Chanel on... Your such a gracious woman to come on here and justify how your living, also talking about a private subject like your children.. This is your life, your journey and I’m so proud of you for being a strong woman by going on this beautiful journey of life. My husband and I are financially stable, yet I would LOVE one day get in a car and travel the country like you. I’m truly excited to one day retire and do this I can’t wait !! I hope nobody will ever judge me when I do this.. Have a wonderful night just know you have huge supporters here on KZbin. Best of luck to you.

[@ggstorm9777]

Showed you to my hubs. He bout fell in the floor.....linda is my moms dopleganger!

[@KetoStyle]

Linda, you are such an inspiration. I agree with you! I don't want my kids to worry about me either and I want to live my life, not theirs. I hope to meet you one day.

[@petedavis1331]

Linda, you are an Incredible Woman with a Beautiful Soul and Wisdom beyond your years, Happy times, Pete

[@janiceoldham1794]

When I first saw you on cheap rv living I was worried about you. I have since realized it was freedom for you to do this. AND, my youngest offered me a home if I ever need it, but I would choose living in a car over ever feeling like a burden. Good for you standing up for yourself. Love you sister in Christ!!

[@danmcroberts8713]

Im thinking of living in my old station wagon and doing some traveling. Don't want to keep asking kids for help Wife passed and time for a new start

[@cherriemckinstry131]

I hear you and sometimes feel the same way.

[@Trish....]

My mother did something similar once my 2 older sisters & I were out of the house. As a Proj. Mgr w/IBM, she taught a course on Proj. Mgt, & traveled ALL over the world - China, Israel, England, Japan, Canada, France, etc, & across the US. We only gave her grief bc she was in Israel when they broke out in war, then in CA for the riots, then Atlanta during the Olympic bombing, & finally, on 9/11, I wasn't sure where she was, so I went online in a chat to talk to my sis (bc she never uses her phone), & one of her friends said, "Your Mom is in NYC," which dropped me like a rock! I finally reached her, & her bldg was just a few bkocks away, & she went to the door & described massive smoke coming near! I told her to keep that door shut, then thanked God she was alive! She was literally wherever historical calamities were occurring, & I got scared, as did my sisters. You'd have to know this woman - she enjoyed traveling all on her own as a single lady, being independent, & IBM loved her bc very few ppl had 0 commitments who could travel! We think it sort of left her system, though, after 9/11, bc she was planning to go to twin towers that day, but worked instead - whew! We were also very worried bc she's very friendly, but naive. She talks to everyone, trusts that ppl are gen. good, & that she was always safe, which, I guess, she was, but I worried just as much as she would've had it been me traveling! She's retired now, & living on Soc. Security, is in her 70s, & allows her brother & my older sister to live w/her, which is just how things worked out for them. Therefore, I'm GLAD she had those yrs of traveling & experiencing life on her terms, bc she never really got to enjoy an empty house! Just like you, she wanted to see beautiful things of spiritual & historical value, & now I am so happy that she did! I turn 50 this yr, & have a 22-yr old daughter. I, too, tookl a chance, for once my daughter was 18, I moved back to my home state of NC to receive care at Duke, as I'm disabled due to severe neyropathy in all my extremities. My daughter eventually followed bc she didn't like the year-round heat of FL where her Dad lives, & I was the only one she'd ever lived w/anyway. Once in NC, I took a chance, looked up my high school sweetheart of 7 yrs/love of my life, & we've been living together now for 4 yrs this fall! We're renovating a fixer upper in a town of 300 in the VA mtns, & there's a stream in the back of the house, & a mtn facing the front, & another in back! My daughter is upset that I'm moving there bc it's so far away, & she thinks I'll be bored & lonely, but I've told her that I need peace, & I want at least 20 yrs w/my soulmate, & just enjoy a less stressful life. If, however, life changes & my Mom or daughter needs me, or vice versa, we'll deal w/that then. So, long story short, I get what you're doing! I know I want to hopefully travel, or maybe have an RV, except now, I want to see cool stuff w/the man I love, & make up for lost time! Right now, I'm living vicariously through you until we reach a few goals & can afford to travel. And, let me just say that you, & my Mama, are 2 of the bravest, neatest ladies I know of! Your journey, in particular, is just so free to me - you're seeing things, meeting new ppl, & you plan it, then do it! You're a very capable, strong, intelligent, considerate, funny, very kind person, & I want only happiness for you - serene, simple, beautiful happiness in whatever you do along your journey!

[@Kimberly63]

You are so awesome. I saved this video for a ‘go to’, when I find my heart in need of a pep talk. So much better than crying!🥰

[@CB-ei6ez]

Hey Linda...awesome insights ...like urself I was a single parent with similar circumstances.. but what u said in this video has really helped me put things into perspective regarding my children and my lifestyle as I take steps to becoming and joining the nomadic community

[@BlondeGranny70]

How nice to see someone able to talk about issues and still be happy and kind. So many times all I see is anger and cussing. You are awesome !

[@sandikucia1398]

I know this is a older video but I think what your doing is so neat. What a great adventure your taking. Your a strong person. If I was able to do what your doing I would take to the road too. Bless you and may you be protected from any evil doers.

[@deuberry9784]

I think it’s wonderful that you gave us a glimpse into your history because, it helps sooth our curious wonders to better understand you. I’ve always felt that children will someday have their own lives to live, and I that it takes a selfish parent to think otherwise. I can’t stand hearing people talk as if they did children a favor by bringing them into the world. I’m also glad to hear you say “I gave my children wings”; Imho -that’s a sign of a good parent well as a decent human being-.

[@lynettering8252]

Thanks so much for putting this video out, Linda!!! My sentiments exactly! You get to live your life on your terms. And you are not being a burden on them.

[@jessicalt4121]

“Everyone’s family dynamic is unique and different.” Amen.

[@bboice08]

I think it is important to remember that we are working as a team. Whether we know our team members or not. If something happens in life people and professionals come around and help get you the help you need. This is what I learned big time. Making good decisions I learned is KEY as you get older and even more KEY later than that. Make new friends but keep the old...community we build every day. Thanks! As Rusty says: I do ME and you do YOU. Barb/Sacramento

[@mysticalmisfit1332]

Hi Linda. Lookin pretty today! Awww! How brave of you to share this portion of your personal life! I know that was not easy....It still boggles my mind: the things some people actually feel entitled to say, though they do not know you personally. Just because a person has a KZbin channel, doesn’t give us the right to your ENTIRE life. I’m 44 and my son grew up in a coparenting situation. His dad and I broke up when he was about 2 yrs old & I harbored a ton of resentment toward his father. My son wrote an essay for college entry & his topic was “the pressure of growing up in two separate households.” I read it and cried my eyes out. I didn’t see what my behavior did to him until I read the essay (we never talked about it). Saying all that to say this: none of us are perfect. It takes a big person to recognize it, admit it & try to learn & grow from when you are now. Sending love & light from Baltimore 😊

[@pamelamoore1954]

I live and travel in a M/H. Your story reads exactly like mine. I get the same questions from others. ( why dont your children take you in) my children are in constant contact but they know and understand that I have done my work, and this is my life now. Thank you for sharing it was like looking in a mirror at my own life God Bless you. X

[@kgw273]

From one single Mom to another you made me tear up. Heartfelt & honest. ty. I can feel the love you have for your kids & not one doubt that it is fully reciprocated. Stay safe out there.

[@MsQtrrider21]

I raised my kids on my own when they were 7, 3 and 2. They’re 23, 19 & 18 now. I patiently waiting for the day they grew their wings and flew the nest so I could pursue my second chapter! Good for you!! ❤️

[@primordialmeow7249]

Intetesting life....you are still young and strong. We all need help at some time though. I worked as a nurse in an ED in an area with lots of nomads. Be prepared to have us call your next-of-kin and have your paperwork easily available or things could get messy for all involved.

[@TheGirlnurse]

Man I agree with you so much! I love my kids so much. The last thing I want to do is be a burden to them. We all need to be self sufficient as much as possible as adults. I agree with everything you said.

[@almagarcia5426]

You are so so right. Not your children’s responsibility I so agree with and I tell my daughter that all the time. Live your life. I made my choices and lots not good but my choices. And I am responsible for my happiness. Thank you mam your awesome please stay safe and many Blessings

[@awesomejujitsu7684]

You are an amazing, incredible soul. Thank you for sharing your courageous spirit with the rest of us.

[@donwagner6343]

I agree with you. I've been divorced for a long time. My kids are grown and doing well. We are close but in a couple of years I'm gonna be where you are and I am so looking forward to it! I will visit my kids on holidays and communicate with them but as long as I can travel that is what I want to do. I'm going to use a tent though but can sleep in my car if need be.

[@sylviahall1717]

I am watching this video now. I have to say that everything you said is my life. I feel just like you do. I do not like to see adult parents live with their children or expect others to take care of them. I am 66 and still working a full time job to take care of myself. I also raised my children to be independent and they have their own lives. Love your videos.

[@alisharocklin2741]

I absolutely agree with you! I raised four children alone, and I used to joke that I could live with one every three months. But that was only in jest. The gift of seeing them as adults, independent and doing life on their terms is priceless. It's also something I could never imagine encroaching upon. I raised them, they don't need to raise me! Linda I find you immeasurably uplifting to watch. If only I had your courage! I don't know how I stumbled on your channel, but I'm hooked! I'm definitely I fan!😊

[@SereneandSimpleLife]

Thank you!☀️💛😊

[@annelorentsen7463]

I think you are doing what is good for you! There is nothing wrong in your decision. I say enjoy your life. Your children are grown and they make the choices they want , the same goes for you. You go girl!!!

[@GabrielleFreedom]

Wow. You could publish a book on this, Linda. Easily. This message is so incredibly important.

[@lesliewheeler4785]

Excellently explained thoughts & emotions that include others, in healthy union w/ her. We all need more passionate sharing ... its the way for Linda~Linda ... group HUGS.

[@donnasaid8282]

Very well handled. I think maybe some people view car life/ van life as homeless rather than a choice. High rent. Low wages. Etc. but wow traveling and saving money!! Much better than being stuck in a brick and mortar paying rent without the funds to travel. Live while you’re young!

[@amymiller6854]

Linda I think you are fantastic and I’m inspired by your choices! I have no doubt you’ve raised strong and independent children. Keep on living your life your way and not by ideas others have of how you should. You are giving your children as well as yourself a gift by living your life your way. Anyone who judges your children or you for your choices hasn’t got a clue.

[@SereneandSimpleLife]

Thank you!💛☀️😊

[@sammonicuslux]

Brilliant...when you take care of yourself, you also take care of your family. No one can pour from an empty cup. Self Care is important.

[@ya472]

LOL We just had a similar chat with one of our children(youngest @ 23 years old) last night. He wanted to rescue us from the accumulation of 'stuff', the burdensome possessions that 'weigh us down'. He is in the process of building out his new van to live in. He has to think about minimalism. Of course both of us have lived through 'minimalism', partially because we used our income to support our children to the best of our ability. At his age he is discovering 'new things', but has not had enough experience to understand we have been through all the 'stuff' he is discovering. I think this is normal for our children. We were not very successful in convincing him that we 'do not need to be rescued'.

[@moonmother.]

Linda, I have watched this video numerous times. Thank you. I too raised my girls as a single mom, and it was tough (still is). My daughters are both adults now, and they both know that my plan is to live my life travelling in my vehicle, whilst allowing them to live their own life. When this time comes, it will be MY time to enjoy life and feel free. I too do not ever want to be a burden on my daughters. My health has been challenging over the last 12 months, and I can see this impacts them both. Hopefully I will be healthy enough to be a gypsy nomad in the next couple of years, so I can enjoy the time I have left in this realm. Blessings 🙏 💕

[@judithloar3918]

I’ll be 73 next month and I live the same way .. I’m widowed and alone and self sufficient for now ..

[@jennag1048]

All the best to you Judith, may God Bless you and keep you.

[@christineboydstrongtower]

Hi Judith..are you healthy? As possible? I’m not a needy senior I’m 71 already!;) pretty good health, widows for almost 3years now. Are you living in a car?? I wonder about tomorrow more than I should. But have always been, am an optimist ‼️🙏🙏🙏👍 good cheer to you‼️♥️

[@cherriemckinstry131]

@@christineboydstrongtower glad your doing ok.

[@Cometoterm]

Does it ever get lonely??

[@debmendoza8009]

“This moving away from comfort and security, this stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted and shaky - that’s called liberation.” ~Pema Chodron You are an inspiration.

[@barbarapelton2772]

OMG Linda! You are a rockstar. I love your story and we all have one. I can relate to you in what you say about your children as I know I was a helicopter parent. Now., they are self sufficient and living the best version of THEIR lives. Both have partners that they love and support. I love your life you are living for today and making plans for tomorrow. Thanks for sharing your life with us. Barbara

[@_Shonda_]

I know this is an old video, but I hope you see this. (I’m new to your channel and watching old ones as well as new). My dad is a gypsy too. He uses my home as his “permanent residence” but he is here sometimes as little as 2 months a year. I am a bit of a “mother hen” but I know the best gift I can give him is “his wings” to travel as he likes. He will be 85 next month and always has travels planned 2 years in advance. He cracks me up - he is the most organized gypsy I have ever met. The only thing I ask of him is to ask us for help if he gets in trouble. He respects that and I am glad.

[@markownbey5084]

Linda some people just don't use the brains God gave them and instead jump into other people's business. This is an excellent message in your video and you did a great job of conveying it.

[@juliestates5677]

Linda, I respect you, and admire your spirit, insight and enlightenment. You are living your truth with integrity and humbleness. It is no ones business to judge you and if they do, ignore and move on. Keep living the dream, feeling the world around you in real time and sharing your adventures, and feelings with us all. We love you!