I went to school with the girl. And every time she would have her period she tells people she's miss carrying.She told me once that she had a miscarriage during our passing period?! I asked her what it looked like and she said “just like a teeny tiny baby”, at that point I was convinced she was lying every time And we told her no , you're just having your period she had something wrong with her mentally.
@carcher32798 ай бұрын
Girls like that love to be the centre of attention.
@brookemcgilvray37818 ай бұрын
Yeah. If she said it looked like a weird little alien thing. I would believe her. They do not look like babies early on. Such a strange, wants be a victim girl. 😳🙄
@sludge85068 ай бұрын
I worked with a woman who used to tell people she was pregnant. Then she would go to the washroom, and when she came out, would say she had a miscarriage. 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
@Brainjoy018 ай бұрын
@@brookemcgilvray3781 I had a 10 week miscarriage and it was obvious what it was, by 12 weeks they have fingers, but not monthly?
@BLUYES4228 ай бұрын
Strange I know that's only 2 cases of this but I wonder if this behavior is worth classifying or maybe it already in the dsm or something, seems like bpd and Munchausen.
@zol24158 ай бұрын
I'm a doula and this scam is very common in many doula communities however I dont know anyone who has actually gone to a client's home and supported them without payment or proof of pregnancy. Doulas are more inclined to validate our clients' feelings and experiences so this woman chose the perfect targets. If you're a doula or want to be one you have to meet the client in person before they are due and have boundaries in place to protect yourself (payment, in-person meetings, contracts, not taking anyone who is 37weeks+ etc), nothing would make me go to a stranger's house who claims to be in labor, but I do empathize with the victims. This woman manipulated them and tugged on their heart strings, anyone called to do this work can relate to that, I hope they get justice.
@sludge85068 ай бұрын
Well put!! As the doctor said, some skepticism is healthy.
@Fiona22548 ай бұрын
I was wondering about this. They were too nice to someone who cold called them .
@stst778 ай бұрын
Wow, this is my first time to hear of this. I after hearing the video, i thought it was a very unusual mental illness not a common thing. Women can be weird.
@zol24158 ай бұрын
@@stst77 I think it's partially a link as well.
@montsesalazar64578 ай бұрын
Sadly, they didn’t get the justice they deserved 😔
@danisouris34298 ай бұрын
I’m glad they arrested her before she took it a step further and kidnapped an infant.
@5dorkycastillos8 ай бұрын
No freaking kidding!
@maryd2538 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Jujubean97958 ай бұрын
She didn’t want a kid or baby. She wanted the trauma bond. She wanted them to feel sorry for her.
@stancexpunks8 ай бұрын
Or worse.. stole a fetus out of a pregnant woman’s body
@stancexpunks8 ай бұрын
@@Jujubean9795 well she said the baby would be stillborn so if she actually got a “stillborn” baby that would get her even more attention and sympathy
@TikiChaparita8 ай бұрын
I had a roommate who had a tenuous relationship with reality. She was a low-level administrator at a hospital and accused several doctors of making inappropriate advances at her (turns out, they didn’t). She would also follow me on dates and say several men were stalking her. I had to move out. The next time I saw her she was in a mental health facility, which was probably the best place for her. She was very childlike, but her accusations almost cost a couple of doctors their careers, so she wasn’t harmless.
@AmonAnon-vw3hr8 ай бұрын
Extremely common behavior.
@edvh888 ай бұрын
People really suck sometimes. The good doctors get accused, and the bad ones get away with their crimes? It’s a mess. One jerk like this woman and people are so much less likely to believe a legit report of assault.
@lachlanwilson63898 ай бұрын
Typical BPD behaviour. It's like they're sympathy junkies, they crave sympathy & victimhood like a junky craves the next hit.
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
They never are
@JessicaO490Z8 ай бұрын
@@AmonAnon-vw3hr luckily it is not extremely common. But when you have hundreds of patients you're eventually going to run into someone like that. In the hospital we put it on the chart in a place that will be noticeable when they go to the next hospital. And that way people, including women, only go into their room with at least two staff. Also it's never a sane person, typically they're either the Karen type, Munchausen's, or borderline. Also also they usually do other false claims first before jump into that one.
@artiefufkin888 ай бұрын
"She was never going to be arrested again. On April 30, 2024..." LMFAO Doc, never change XD
@AmandaLeigh10048 ай бұрын
As soon as I heard "she was never going to be arrested again" I thought to myself "Oh boy here comes the next arrest!"
@austinpittman15992 ай бұрын
Got the ad break right as soon as he finished the first sentence. I swear to God, anything that advertises in moments like those I will make a point to boycott for the remainder of my life.
@rayross9978 ай бұрын
"The trauma of being exposed to her naked body was severe", one of your best Dr. Grande.
@rhondajohnson83108 ай бұрын
Listen!! I feel bad but I just cracked up laughing at that comment!!
@kitty_7658 ай бұрын
If I ever get famous, I want Dr. Grande to host my roast.
@sludge85068 ай бұрын
@@rhondajohnson8310 You know, medical people have to see and treat people with all kinds of bodies. Maybe they get desensitized to what they see.
@tomheineman43698 ай бұрын
At our 20th class reunion a man and a woman followed each other around lifting their shirts and showing their bellies to each other and screaming at the top of their lungs.
@BlackSheep_2168 ай бұрын
I lost it!
@milissaellan68058 ай бұрын
I'm really kind of sad for the world that there is endless material for our good Dr Grande. 😔
@alandareed36728 ай бұрын
2 Infinity and beyond ‼️💯ENDLESS 😢
@It-is-me...Melsie8 ай бұрын
So many defective humans which gives him material.
@lachlanwilson63897 ай бұрын
You wouldn't appreciate the good people as much if bad people didn't exist :)
@It-is-me...Melsie7 ай бұрын
@@lachlanwilson6389 That's a weird take. I only surround myself with good people who I appreciate for various reasons. I don't need to know any bad people, nor want to, to appreciate those in my life.
@lachlanwilson63897 ай бұрын
@@It-is-me...Melsie Your take is bizarre. You don't always have control over the people in your life, in work and in your family. My point was that tolerating bad people makes you appreciate good people more.
@lilbitsleepy25748 ай бұрын
She sounds like one of those people where everyone who interacts with her in real life finds her to be an attention seeking liar, annoying, and overall a bit weird. I bet she struggles making friends but lacks the insight to understand that her pattern of lies may gather some initial curiosity and sympathy but only ends up isolating her further.
@alandareed36728 ай бұрын
Spot On‼️💯
@gingerlee7264 ай бұрын
That feeling when you realize someone is lying about everything is such a distinct feeling.
@xreediculousx8 ай бұрын
"The doula went over to Kaitlyn's apartment. Based on Kaitlyn's size the doula thought that she could be pregnant."
@edvh888 ай бұрын
This is accurate. I knew a very overweight woman who was a mom, and during her second pregnancy, when I knew her, you really couldn’t tell. I’m sure different body types all carry pregnancy differently; some people hide it better than others based on build as well as weight.
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
I mean most of these women who lie about these pregnancies tend to be heavy set . Only one girl I've seen who lied about being pregnant was pretty skinny and wore a fake belly
@Libbathegreat8 ай бұрын
@@edvh88 It's also true that heavy girls often have irregular periods. I've known of a couple cases of young girls who when this happened, they jumped to the conclusion that they were pregnant. Even after it was proven they weren't, they became fixated on it.
@pameladee8 ай бұрын
My thoughts are poor Dr. Grande! He falls on the sword for us all the time, analyzing and trying to make a sense of peculiar people doing bizarre things…and I’m grateful for his thoughts on these things 🌵
@Socal4208 ай бұрын
Exactly! My daughter in law had twins and you could not even tell if she was pregnant or not. My daughter on the other hand looked VERY pregnant each time. Both girls are size 24 or so. It’s interesting to me. But, I’m only about 150 and one out of my 4 I didn’t show much until 6 months. The rest I looked giant by 4 months! Bodies are weird. Have a great day everyone!
@nanettevantriesteharder24698 ай бұрын
To be clear, Dr. Grande's video paraphrased quotes from the victimized doulas who were duped into performing perineal groin massages with two fingers upon a physically grotesque and morally repulsive sexual predator who was born a biological woman, but who was not actually pregnant. (There are some biological women who are predators, too.) "The trauma caused by being exposed to her naked body was severe. Some victims were not certain that recovery would ever be possible." My goodness . . . . My heart breaks for the victims of this crime. After reading the following comments, in no way do I believe that Dr. Grande was fat shaming overweight members of human society en masse. That would be falsely conflating (i.e., merging of two or more sets of information, texts, ideas, etc. into one) the evidence. Whether they use politics, intellect, or religion, a sense of moral superiority often drives people to virtue signal through the justification of their own core values, belief systems, attitudes, and behaviors. Thus, everybody is entitled to his or her opinions, but not every opinion is equally valid. It is the outcome of one's temporal personal decisions that matter in the long run.
@CinemascapeReview8 ай бұрын
Cold blooooded Grande roasts😂
@mtss95668 ай бұрын
Horrible😁
@Katiekay.8 ай бұрын
@OZZIE303 I don't think you understood the comment.... He's embellishing for comedic value. He's so dry it's hard to pick up on
@anitakaul83238 ай бұрын
Yeah, this "joke" was disgusting, Dr. Grande. I hope he isn't a practicing psychotherapist.
@tonyking31258 ай бұрын
@@anitakaul8323 Aw you mad? Go eat a dozen doughnuts, make it allll better.
@DavidDeeble8 ай бұрын
This just in: Kaitlyn has accused a prison guard of an assault of a sexual nature.
@Ann-sj4pt8 ай бұрын
Not a surprise 😩
@dextermorgan18 ай бұрын
@@Ann-sj4ptI think OP was joking, but it wouldn't surprise me either if it were true.
@tonyking31258 ай бұрын
Ewwwwww
@684048 ай бұрын
It actually makes her very vulnerable to a real sexual assault, as her history makes anything she claims unbelievable.
@frankpaya6908 ай бұрын
Can you imagine the cavity search as she was booked into custody?
@edvh888 ай бұрын
This makes me so mad. All the people who HAVE suffered assaults, all the people who HAVE lost a pregnancy or had a stillbirth, this makes a mockery of them and makes authorities less likely to believe folks when they report assault.
@breathnstop8 ай бұрын
Just a point of clarification here. In NJ Doulas are certified and covered by insurance. They are a legitimate support provider and not just new age.
@frankpaya6908 ай бұрын
Hey, if biological men can play against biological women then any delusion is possible for legitimation.
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
Wouldn't it be insurance fraud for using these services and not needing them
@thelogicaldanger8 ай бұрын
@@mariec3527 Yes, if someone billed their insurance for them. The psycho in this video got gullible doulas to treat her for free, so no insurance was billed.
@AmySilva-g1r8 ай бұрын
Doulas are also certified in Ontario if they choose to do so, and also are covered my insurance companies 🤦🏻♀️ doulas are not regulated in Canada or the US. Certified and regulated are two very different things.
@leelaural8 ай бұрын
my dtr had a doula along with her midwife...doula was like a helpful friend and stayed the whole day during my dtrs at home delivery.....
@darlenepreston37398 ай бұрын
Instead of house arrest and probation why wasn't she given mandatory psychiatric hospitalization?
@celestesenters10528 ай бұрын
they closed them all
@ferninthehouse7 ай бұрын
because our justice system makes no sense
@Andrew-nu4hi6 ай бұрын
Bc Canada is a joke of a country
@ditzygypsy6 ай бұрын
I think because the Crown Counsel didn’t have that as their sentencing option. The judge was not happy with their choice of sentencing, and he wanted her to have stiffer punishments and for the sentencing to recognize and help mitigate recidivism or future repeat offences. Maybe it was part of the plea agreement or something. The SA charges should never have been dropped for the plea agreement either, but they were. I think a jury would’ve thrown the whole book at her and found her guilty of pretty much every charge, though. And now that she HAS reoffended, perhaps she can be properly sentenced once she is found guilty of these new charges. Because she definitely IS.
@NNavyBBlue8 ай бұрын
This woman was a social worker, people! 👀
@Cashhhhew8 ай бұрын
Something was Wrong podcast has a season on this case. One very important piece that’s missing here is that she also accused a CHILD that was assigned to her of SA years prior to the doula stuff😡 her mom knew she suffered from this and never spoke up once. Just allowed her to keep the accusations going of countless people (and a kid) and then essentially torture unsuspecting doulas under her own roof. Even being in the next room over at times
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
@@Cashhhhewwhy is this so common with these psychos .? I heard another story about a woman who lied about cancer, other traumas Etc Like this woman but her name was Sarah and she went YEARS lying and frauding people and her family knew she had a history of this behavior and seriously never took a moment to stop her behavior!
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
What episode was she talked about on ?@@Cashhhhew
@Cashhhhew8 ай бұрын
@@mariec3527 it’s all of season 18. It’s long but covers everything
@Cashhhhew8 ай бұрын
@@mariec3527 all of season 18! It’s long and hard to listen to but worth it to get the full scope.
@ETHANWHATSUP8 ай бұрын
This is hilarious how she smiles in all the pictures. She's crazy.
@longwhitecloud80598 ай бұрын
the eyebrows are just as consistent, and every bit as bonkers!
@DomoArigatoRobot08 ай бұрын
Smiling a bit too wide, too energetically. Joker smile.
@MateDrinker338 ай бұрын
Yeah, she kind of reminds me of Buzz's girlfriend from "Home Alone"! :D
@verbosibee8 ай бұрын
I was recently in Brantford; they have some really good thrifting and antique shops, and also maniacs apparently.
@cookie_dough_hangover8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@soulfoodsmama29808 ай бұрын
This is so disrespectful to so many vulnerable people who are actually in labor or having pregnancy complications and can’t get get proper care.
@stst778 ай бұрын
I think she’s probably crazy rather than disrespectful. She probably should be locked up in an asylum rather than given house arrest. With house arrest she will just be sitting around dreaming of her drama scenarios.
@LRodriguez-c9s8 ай бұрын
Annnd? Why is that Dr G’s fault?
@edvh888 ай бұрын
Agree, it makes me so sad for the doulas. And enraged. Still birth and rape are not things to joke about.
@erikamccarthy14578 ай бұрын
5/7/24 Imo, not knowing person prior with various medical issues. I’d refer her to hospital for care. Too many other complications may arise.
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
Yess ! She basically wasted these people's time and resources they could of given to REAL pregnant women
@MegaBored28 ай бұрын
What a whacko. Perhaps she should have been forced by the judge to contact that psychotherapist. Sitting at home alone for 2 years isn't going to help her mentally.
@rickyspeople8 ай бұрын
I totally agree
@scoobydewbie8 ай бұрын
i agree!
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
I swear especially if shes allowed on the internet
@jeannineterese10378 ай бұрын
That first dula was literally an angel. I hope she goes on to have a positive career.
@dachsrottweiler8 ай бұрын
Remember guys, this channel is not only for weirdos anymore.
@stantheman49648 ай бұрын
But we're still welcome.
@sarastewart17968 ай бұрын
Yet here we are.
@holidayarmadillo86538 ай бұрын
I don’t get it?
@bold8108 ай бұрын
Damn, it took forever, too. 🤠😐🤙🎉🥶
@rayross9978 ай бұрын
We weirdos helped build this channel.
@wiseauserious87508 ай бұрын
Her crimes need to be made public so any unsuspecting male avoids dating her at all costs. She's a walking false rape accusation
@caissafrass66318 ай бұрын
Or, far more importantly, so Doulas and other care and medical professionals can avoid her. Given that that’s what aligns with her actual criminal history.
@roywilliams63558 ай бұрын
She'd probably do a "Species" move and call the guy a day or two later and say she's pregnant.
@Cashhhhew8 ай бұрын
She’s a lesbian but yes. She also claimed a CHILD SA’d her and said child was under her care as a social worker. She’s extremely dangerous. The podcast Something was Wrong season 18 does a deep dive of her history and it goes wayyyy further back. The doulas were just the first victims to come forward. She did severe damage to the child and nobody believed him until these further crimes came to light.
@erikamccarthy14578 ай бұрын
5/7/24 She may traumatize them if exposed to her nudity 😂
@btimbyindy8 ай бұрын
@@erikamccarthy1457who assaulted whom?
@autisticlybrē8 ай бұрын
Ah you changed up your wording here doc!!! I'm autistic and a ruptured brain aneurysm surviver and I always say the entire intro out loud with you LOL. You caught me off with ths one. You didn't say "move to the timeline of the crime" you switched it up a little 😂
@collect_call8 ай бұрын
It’s either crime, controversy, or incident every time
@trevors63798 ай бұрын
Man, I take note of the slight differences in the volume of his voice in the intro and wonder things like "is he slighty further from the mic in this video? Or is he just talking a little quieter.."
@doritos808 ай бұрын
It happens. Life
@texasrefugee78888 ай бұрын
I think she's what they call an Energy Vampire. 😮According to the book, The Sociopath Next Door, a hallmark of sociopaths is that they try to make you feel sorry for them. I'm doing so much better since I learned that.
@MariAsherahRose8 ай бұрын
The Sociopath Next Door is a great book. Highly recommended!
@kennethscott49978 ай бұрын
You should probably watch Dr Grande's videos on Psychopathy, Sociopathy is not in the DSM and Factor II Psychopathy is not at all like the popular understanding of the construct.
@MariAsherahRose8 ай бұрын
@@kennethscott4997 - Dude, I don't think we are talking about the same things. Just keep the DSM out of it as no one is diagnosing anyone here, just helping average people deal with stuff.
@kennethscott49978 ай бұрын
@@MariAsherahRose Recommending books that spread mis-information is not responsible. A true sociopath is a criminal who has no impulse control and no respect for the laws, rights, and safety of themselves and others. They are so antisocial that they do not make it through childhood without breaking the law, and spend most of their adult lives in prison. Unless you are in education or law enforcement you will probably never meet one in your daily life. It's not a personality style that can fly under the radar.
@thelogicaldanger8 ай бұрын
@@kennethscott4997 I think we are all just talking about "sociopaths" as used in layman's terms, not actual diagnosed medical terms.
@kateashby30668 ай бұрын
I have borderline and so I’ve studied cluster B disorders and as soon as I heard that she was faking multiple pregnancies I was like- yup, she’s a histrionic and it’s manifesting as factitious disorder. Glad dr grande called that at the end because there are no borderline traits discussed here so that part confused me.
@twocents74958 ай бұрын
This is a form of SA that occurs every day against healthcare workers. Unfortunately no charges are ever brought.
@It-is-me...Melsie8 ай бұрын
Well that's just weird!
@twocents74958 ай бұрын
@@It-is-me...Melsie tell me about it
@bunberrier8 ай бұрын
Sounds like a pretend doula service might find a market here. Doula Role Playing.
@scarletamazon34558 ай бұрын
Wouldn't help. It's the act of deceiving others into falling for their lies that seems to be what appeals to munchies like this one. Acting it out isn't what she's after, it's tricking others into believing her, same with other munchies that fake chronic conditions/cancers etc. Unless they're doing it only for financial gain, most of the time it's the attention, sympathy, and knowing they've successfully convinced people into believing their lies that they get off to. Like some other perverse conditions, if the other person is aware and consenting, it's not going to give them the thrill they're seeking.
@lindas59648 ай бұрын
Lol there’s always something for everyone
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
😂😂
@nixm90938 ай бұрын
That's a fantastic business idea. I'd never heard of anyone doing this but reading the comments, it seems like it's quite common so there would be a market for it 😊
@Xr2-8fan_8108 ай бұрын
it would be a profitable grift.
@grumpyoldlady_rants8 ай бұрын
I wonder how many women like this are out there? It’s mind boggling how these women create these wild stories and pull them off. Kaitlyn seems like the type who would befriend a pregnant woman then steal her baby.
@AmonAnon-vw3hr8 ай бұрын
Way, way, way more then you'd think.
@Sturner-x5q8 ай бұрын
There is a story about the woman who befriended a pregnant woman, killed the expectant woman cut the baby from the womb and brought the child home as her child .
@stst778 ай бұрын
It sounds to me like she isn’t doing this because she wants a baby but because she wants the indulging attention that a doula gives.
@davidcox30768 ай бұрын
@@stst77 Really good supposition. You can get that kind of attention for far cheaper in Bangkok. Or so I've heard.....
@cassie12648 ай бұрын
@@stst77That's exactly what she was doing. She just wanted sympathy and attention.
@_Kittensworth8 ай бұрын
"She was never going to be arrested again. On April 30th 2024, Kaitlyn was arrested again." 💀The comedic timing on that one really took me out.
@AVSgirl19858 ай бұрын
I listened to that part several times, cackling each time 😂
@sp00kyg1rl8 ай бұрын
Lmao April 30 was my 30th birthday, not that it matters just thought it was funny 😂
@TheRealBamboonga8 ай бұрын
You look so serious in your pfp...
@AbbeyAnn8 ай бұрын
I love that this moment is the “Most Replayed” section lmaooooo
@DeathsWarmEmbrace8 ай бұрын
My outlook on life is, Don't be weird and usually things workout. Everyone on Dr. Grande's Chanel has a problem with this lol
@Nylak-Otter8 ай бұрын
I mean, I'm pretty weird but I have empathy and I want the best for everyone, so things still work out really well for me. These folks have something more up with them than just being weird. This is extra special weird.
@londonspade58968 ай бұрын
@@Nylak-Otter They're sociopaths, they don't care about other people, bad combination
@codexmachina13588 ай бұрын
It's fine to be weird on the internet (generally speaking) just keep it there and be a normal person IRL
@Nylak-Otter8 ай бұрын
@@codexmachina1358 That sounds like it would make for a very dull existence. I come off far more normal online than I am in practice.
@codexmachina13588 ай бұрын
@@Nylak-Otter yeah, that sounds like a dull existence to me.
@kitty_7658 ай бұрын
This happened a hop, skip and a jump from where I live. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us Dr. Grande!
@teakatproductions63428 ай бұрын
Sadly she is facing two new charges stemming from the same conduct in April, she is currently in jail. Reoffending within months. House arrest was not the deterrent. 🇨🇦
@inheritmyshoes95598 ай бұрын
That's in the video. We know.
@Snazzyzazzy998 ай бұрын
I also knew a girl in high-school who lied about having either a miscarriage or cancer every other week for 4 whole years.
@happy_bubble78 ай бұрын
I had a good friend who behaved similarly. I was there for 25 years of apparent nonstop lying. He eventually confessed but never apologized and just assumed Id forgive him and we would finally have a genuine relationship. People like this baffle me because life isnt boring at all.
@chopsjazz18 ай бұрын
"The trauma from seeing her naked body was severe and many thought that recovery would never be possible." Pure internet gold.
@DokisKalin17 ай бұрын
🤣😂😂
@SoCalJellybean7 ай бұрын
“House arrest.” WHY?!?! That’s precisely where she commits her crimes!! 🙄
@barbaragremaud34998 ай бұрын
I've been a midwife for 13 years and know many doulas. In addition to what you first mentioned, they offer important advocacy and help women decide when to go to the hospital or when to call the midwife. I don't know any doulas who facilitate religious transformation. Doulas' value lie in their continuous presence, help with comfort measures during labor, knowledge of position changes that may facilitate labor progress, and advocacy in the hospital. Some specific skills such as hypnobirthing or hypno babies techniques help by facilitating a trance-like calm through guided meditation and positive affirmations... I may not be describing that exactly correctly but it's close. Other doulas incorporate yoga and breathing prenatally to help during birth, and some specify that they are Christian.
@amberwild-ms4co8 ай бұрын
^this^! It's all about protecting the space. Mine sat quietly in the room and didn't touch me at all but the calming presence and knowing I had someone who would skilfully advocate for me as needed made all the difference
@stst778 ай бұрын
Yoga, guided meditation and hypnosis are all forms of new age religious practices.
@h.a.l.39808 ай бұрын
Doulas are for hippy yoga moms with more money than brains. And anti-vaxxers.
@barbaragremaud34998 ай бұрын
@@stst77 guided meditation and hypnosis could be religious but are not by nature religious. Similarly, yoga is not by nature religious but I think it originated in Hinduism and Buddhism.
@edvh888 ай бұрын
@@barbaragremaud3499I’m pretty sure yoga is a spiritual practice but either way, however they help, doulas are great and have so many different methods.
@mmarex16228 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande as a clinician with 25 years of experience I learn so much from you. When you make assertions (one cannot have mdd and BPD at the same time), it allows me to do my research and learn new things. Thank you for educating the masses!!!!
@SgtPepper138-n2l8 ай бұрын
What a sad way to live.
@legitbeans90787 ай бұрын
Right? I almost feel bad for her, almost.
@SgtPepper138-n2l7 ай бұрын
@@legitbeans9078 Same!
@loudtim2658 ай бұрын
Flashbacks to my time dating a girl with schizoaffective disorder who was often off her meds. If you love someone with mental illness, bless you. ❤ support groups are fab.
@kitty_7658 ай бұрын
Can I ask what your experience was like? Someone close to me is suffering from the same and I’m not sure how to support my family member who is dealing with it.
@ilovemycat___8 ай бұрын
@@kitty_765hey i have some insight if it helps. People off their meds and refuse to stay on them without insight are incredibly draining. If your family member is not too attached I would personally advise they back away for their own sanity. I have bipolar
@WilliamReinhard-d9x8 ай бұрын
"it was like a two for one fraud deal" 😂 you have the funniest, unexpected jokes ever.
@mj41938 ай бұрын
Dr. G, uploading one video everyday...undefeated, undisputed
@buttercatpaws96748 ай бұрын
Love the textbook clinical personality. So raw and uncut. Thanks Doc for your knowledge and compassion. It is all a journey. Love and blessings from Memphis Tennessee 🐈🐾
@annettedoyon35998 ай бұрын
I heard this case from one of these Doula’s point of view on a podcast. This poor woman was so traumatized. 😢
@AbsurdExistentialist8 ай бұрын
Was it Something Was Wrong? Or Pretend?
@easternkiwiz8 ай бұрын
Dr Grande "we are all trauma bound, and I don't ever want to get rid of you"
@shirleysue2288 ай бұрын
LMAO!! After the remarks about the "dulas" or what ever they're called, with having to contend with her nakedness, I missed the rest of the vid. because I was laughing so hard for so long lol. Love you Dr. Grande.
@bretfisher72868 ай бұрын
Fascinating, Dr. Grande. I would suppose sadly that loneliness is behind this crime spree.
@edvh888 ай бұрын
Wish she would have volunteered with some worthwhile local org then. To me it smacks of someone who is an egomaniac and wants all the attention on them.
@bretfisher72868 ай бұрын
@@edvh88 Yes, I agree, but some kinds of loneliness are deeply pathological and become malicious. It's good she was contained before getting any deeper.
@SoundsBogus8 ай бұрын
@@edvh88 I immediately thought of narcissism.
@katrinashostakovich36078 ай бұрын
Thank you for your content Dr. Grande. I still can't believe we get this for free on KZbin. You're awesome and very appreciated ❤
@zenawarrior74428 ай бұрын
There is also death dulas, didn't realize there were others. What a bizarre case again. Great points & title again. Thanks Dr G😊💖💖
@Curlyblonde4 ай бұрын
We have a patient like this in our long-term care facility. Has been there for close to 40 years. Moderately mentally disabled with agitation, anxiety, Borderline Personality Disorder with attention-seeking behaviors. Would accuse other patients or staff of various assaults, despite patients being physically incapable (paralyzed, bed bound) or not present. Accused staff coming to assault her on their day off and not present. Yet she would often randomly assault others when she thought staff were not looking. Made frequent false claims of miscarriages and pregnancies. She would also purposely throw herself on the floor in a public area with many people around. These behaviors continued and increased in severity as she got older. Even being assigned a mental health worker for 1:1 attention did not help improve her behaviors. Eventually she was prescribed a small once daily dose of an anti-psychotic and an anti-depressant which was successful in calming these behaviors.
@laurenperlmutter98408 ай бұрын
Always appreciate your videos
@lianadotjpeg8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for being so consistent, Dr. Grande! I always know that I can come to your channel on a daily basis to watch a new, interesting video.
@jimcronin20438 ай бұрын
Advice to doulas: only take on clients who have referrals by an MD or Nurse Practitioner.
@jenniferbalesteri28108 ай бұрын
I learned all about this chick while listening to Wondery’s “Something Was Wrong” podcast…amazing podcast and amazingly good show, Dr. Grande!❤️🐈🐆🐈⬛💕🙏
@alainpreveaux24288 ай бұрын
Kaitlin looked like she was in the sixth trimester.
@michellesartori66958 ай бұрын
Ouch!
@awkwardautistic8 ай бұрын
@@tantelila746439 weeks pregnant with twins, I weighed 160 and felt like a whale.
@happycamper44838 ай бұрын
One of my Psychology Major classmates would say " She will finally tell a story that she was hit by the plane in the runway at the Airport after making up too many tragic stories " 😂
@mariec35278 ай бұрын
Thats a good one 😂
@zachariahmiddleton52568 ай бұрын
"Kaitlyn committed crimes against doulas" is such a magical sentence. It's going to bounce around my brain all day. It's like poetry.
@ditzygypsy6 ай бұрын
I’m in Canada, and I have followed this vile, stomach-churning, twisted tale for awhile. And when she was convicted and then reoffended, it wasn’t as surprising as it was frustrating and sickening. One thing: I don’t think that Doulas should be allowed to touch the client. They aren’t doctors with a patient; they are merely clients. Psychiatrists can’t touch their patients here, why should some lower-level, quasi-medical practitioner who has no government or public health oversight be able to?! And especially as far as perineal massage?! Come on! Maybe this case will force the issue and they will either not be allowed to touch the client or they will have to become regulated. That could’ve at least limited some of the horrible trauma she inflicted on those poor women. I think she got off far too easy as far as punishment. Prevention is also necessary in her case and that means being found guilty and paying for every single charge.
@JohnSmith-ef2rn5 ай бұрын
Why do these pathological liars always end up saying they have a cancer diagnosis? Some people want attention so badly that they resort to these antics. It's sad.
@autisticlybrē8 ай бұрын
You analyze the best cases Dr. Grande!!! I always look forward to your videos!!! Thank you!!! 🙌
@Tilly-bd4hc8 ай бұрын
I remember feeling violated one time when caring for a borderline woman. I had to catheterize her and after I was finished she said, "Oh honey that felt sooooo good! Yes, it was traumatizing. I still cringe when I think of it.
@cassiemontgomery458 ай бұрын
Perhaps she felt better after being cath'd because she couldn't void on her own. It just came out wrong. I had this happen after an operation and after the catheter was inserted and draining....I felt much better.
@Tilly-bd4hc8 ай бұрын
@@cassiemontgomery45 Yes, I was a nurse for 35 years and know when someone's sincere. She was flirting cuz she winked and grabbed my hand.
@cassiemontgomery458 ай бұрын
@@Tilly-bd4hc Oh, dear...yes, that's completely unacceptable and inappropriate.
@rickyspeople8 ай бұрын
Disturbing. Reading that sent a shiver down my spine. So many different flavours of sickos out there
@RT-pi4pv8 ай бұрын
That’s wild. WHO tf enjoys a catheter 🤢
@tylerchapman92348 ай бұрын
Very bizarre crime spree. This lady gets no play to such an extent that she tries to make friends by pretending to be r worded
@louise46938 ай бұрын
Due to her nakedness some victims did not feel that recovery from the trauma would ever be possible!! This & the previous episode featuring a sex doll have me laughing my head off-l never thought it likely that l would laugh listening to true crime stories, but your dry humour just cracks me up! Keep 'em coming Dr G!!!
@rayross9978 ай бұрын
I am wondering if Dr.Grande's wife is aware of the sex doll research? It could be hard to explain.
@louise46938 ай бұрын
@@rayross997 Very true, it might be best if he doesn't go there, he would end up.just digging a bigger hole!! 😁
@david-dj8or8 ай бұрын
@@rayross997 He may have got caught trying to buy one, then quickly looked to find a case to speculate on as a cover up.
@LúciaKitten8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Dr. Grande!
@jbug19798 ай бұрын
Ol' Toddy looked super discombobulated while trying to explain the duties of a doula.
@Bri-nc8yp8 ай бұрын
The Doula coming to her house was very dangerous. That Doula doesn’t know who she’s meeting up with. She should have had a person she knows come with her to Kaitlyn house only after she spent time with Kaitlyn in a public place a few times. Also, staying with her for two days put her at risk if anything happen to the “baby” she could have been held liable. The doula should know when to call it quits and insist on the patient going to the hospital. EDIT: To the people commenting that you had doulas coming to your house on the first meeting and everything worked out fine I’m glad it worked out for you but that’s still a gamble you took without vetting them first before allowing them to know where you & your partner live. There a lot of crazy people in the world. I work in healthcare and it only takes 1 wrong decision and the rest of your life is changed forever and you can’t take it back. In this case the Doula meet Kaitlyn on Craigslist!!! Craigslist !!!! The doula is lucky that all she got was her time wasted and it wasn’t a man pretending to be a pregnant woman to lure her to the house.
@carcher32798 ай бұрын
I didn't even consider that part... it's so true.
@amberwild-ms4co8 ай бұрын
I met my doula for the first time at my house, I'm assuming she will have told someone where she was going and what time to expect her back but it would have seemed weird if she had brought someone else with her. I wasn't in labour at the time though, that would be an odd first meeting! This story is wild and beyond most people's comprehension in the league of bizarre things
@amberwild-ms4co8 ай бұрын
I first heard about this a couple of months ago and there was a really good interview with one of the doulas who explained so well how this woman pushed boundaries and manipulated them into doing things against their better judgement
@Rebecca-hc5ju8 ай бұрын
@@amberwild-ms4coI also met my doula at my house with one of my pregnancies. Another, at the birth center where I was planning on having my son. However, I don't know any doula who would drive to a new client's house after they said they're in labor?!
@amberwild-ms4co8 ай бұрын
@@Rebecca-hc5ju I wish I could find the interview because it was so expertly explained. It all sounds so crazy to us who were not there but she totally manipulated these women and a lot of the questionable choices came after days of sleep deprivation from supporting someone they believed was vulnerable and going through horrendous trauma
@felonious_c8 ай бұрын
My apartment neighbor dated a girl for 3 months before she claimed she was pregnant. He found out she was lying and left her (obviously), and she proceeded to stalk him for the next couple of years. It finally stopped when she met someone else and he we never heard from her again. 🤷
@pembrokelove8 ай бұрын
Anytime Dr. Grande says “she surely would not be arrested again”, you know he’s about to disappoint you.
@GrumpyMeow-Meow8 ай бұрын
She kinda reminds me of that woman who keeps creating problems and situations so she can get a specific police officers’ attention. I think her name is Hannah and the officer is part of the Crystal Lake PD (Illinois). The way she acts is loco.
@willnill79468 ай бұрын
Basically she was crazy
@Farcehole8 ай бұрын
sigh…why is it always the pretty ones?
@AllergicToFantasy8 ай бұрын
@@Farcehole 🤣
@TheRealBamboonga8 ай бұрын
@@Farcehole 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're wrong for that one lmao
@Cat_inatophat8 ай бұрын
This sounds like a good plot for season 2 of Baby Reindeer
@rosec66808 ай бұрын
"Crimes against doula's"😊😊😊 Good one Doc!
@heloramos828 ай бұрын
Man, I thought I was in a bad shape but when I heard that the doulas where traumatized by seeing her naked I felt a tiny bit better
@AmySilva-g1r8 ай бұрын
Seriously…you clearly are in bad shape. Since when did victim shaming become cool. 🤦🏻♀️
@heloramos828 ай бұрын
@@AmySilva-g1r she was never a victim.
@MateDrinker338 ай бұрын
It gets worse; supposedly, she duped at least two of them into performing a pelvic massage.
@heloramos828 ай бұрын
@@MateDrinker33 OMG!!
@TheRealBamboonga8 ай бұрын
@@AmySilva-g1r I'm sorry...how exactly is that victim shaming? My better judgment told me to just ignore your comment as obvious trolling but I couldn't help asking on the .001% chance you were actually trying to be serious.
@HandFromCoffin8 ай бұрын
I mean.. wow.. I'm impressed. In 100 years I don't think I'd ever think up something this crazy. Like if you said this lady is crazy, what do you think it is? I'd die on an island before I said "Messing with people who are trying to make labor and birth easier.. " Insanity really is fluid and fills every crack.
@2101case8 ай бұрын
False pretenses? Are there any true pretenses?
@clareshaughnessy27458 ай бұрын
‘They are not sure they will ever get over it’ lol, lol, lol, dr Grande, you are very naughty
@jasmincampbell81058 ай бұрын
This is the wildest story I've ever heard
@jhoughjr18 ай бұрын
The pics just get more and more crazy.
@rupertperiwinkle44778 ай бұрын
"It was a 2 for 1 fraud deal" HAHAHAHAHAA!!! Dr. Grande your dry humour is epic!
@trick_bag8 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, your sense of humor is unmatchable.
@Flamsterette8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humour and sarcasm. May 7 is National Cosmopolitan Day, National Roast Leg of Lamb Day, National Beaufort Scale Day, National Barrier Awareness Day, Children's Mental Health Awareness Day, Fair Trade Day, National Tourism Day, and Edgy Killer Bunny Day.
@jaytee26428 ай бұрын
Barrier Awareness?🤔🤔 Acknowledge those guardrails!👍🏻❤
@Flamsterette8 ай бұрын
@@jaytee2642 "On May 7th each year, we teachers are charged with breaking down obstacles on National Barrier Awareness Day. We are responsible for dissolving stigmas keeping people with disabilities from advancing in education. "
@elisaramirez71328 ай бұрын
Thank you for your content Dr. Grande! I can listen to your videos for hours. Could you analyse the case of Asunta Fong Yang?
@drmaxwellspring99278 ай бұрын
Wow! We should be very careful out there
@brendaredmond46788 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande having a sense of humor! I love it!
@Jasonmakesvideo8 ай бұрын
"there is no such thing as a licensed doula" - 😂😂😂 says it all
@jeannezan85758 ай бұрын
Ur punchlines r the best u keep em coming doc ur my favorite doctor keep up the great work
@drakedrones8 ай бұрын
She is just a pathological liar who wants attention. Nothing more nothing less.
@mackenzielackner81258 ай бұрын
Aww the lil cactus candles are lit 🥰
@SamBroadway8 ай бұрын
The word WEIRDO comes to mind
@jeanholmes79768 ай бұрын
Hi Dr. Grande….always interesting material.🌵Thank you and I like your shirt!!😇❤️from Jean
@StephanieProbably8 ай бұрын
Interesting, 🧐 thank you.
@TrinitynLove8 ай бұрын
How unfortunate! Doula's have to screen their patients too, not just the other way around! But wow such a social engineer, a hacker, using someone's kindness as their vulnerability. Sick.
@elizabethhamm53208 ай бұрын
Kaitlyn doesn’t need to make up stuff that’s wrong with her. There’s already a lot wrong with her.
@IronWangCreates8 ай бұрын
I was wondering if the fact that all of the fake pregnancies were a result of sexual assault, could mean she’s reliving some sort of trauma. Maybe not even hers directly, I had a friend whose exgirlfriend’s mother was spiked (nothing happened thankfully) and she would pretty frequently act as if she’d been spiked when we were out, or would leave last and later tell us her drink was spiked. Her mother had never made a big deal of getting spiked, but it had apparently really really upset the ex-girlfriend at the time
@wendiwonderly14198 ай бұрын
I wonder if Kaitlyn wanted the recognition that pregnancy often brings while lacking the social skills for a relationship that results in pregnancy
@yourfuturewaifu90618 ай бұрын
I think it's sweet that you think in this day and age you think a pregnancy needs a relationship. Don't change.
@wendiwonderly14198 ай бұрын
@@yourfuturewaifu9061 I’m not always sweet but I have more insight than Kaitlyn did. And things do change. I had a hysterectomy 20 years ago
@evil1by17 ай бұрын
@@yourfuturewaifu9061or perhaps the person is being delicate instead of coming out and saying shes too ugly and crazy to even get 1 night stand. Does that clarify?
@cathycabricesm8 ай бұрын
A bizarre case to say the least. Thank you Dr. Grande for your analysis.
@hillaryfuller52048 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, can you look into the on going case of Laura Owens vs Clayton Echard?
@Abörshun8 ай бұрын
I remember hearing about this on TikTok last year. Several of her victims came out about what she was doing to warn other doulas.
@CJB7878 ай бұрын
This kind of reminds me of people with munchausen syndrome.