Sex Appeal is a Mindset

[@desstopp91]

I had a great experience the other night at a bar. I’ve been working on my mindset, company, health and fitness. And this lady I met, was checking for all cylinders. She said I’m older than you. I looked at her and said, but who’s older in the mind. And that turned her on. I kept eye contact when I said it. As the night moved on, she kept touching my chest. I’m slim and 6 foot but my chest was enough for her because the gym paid off. Fellas, it was my mindset and mouth that made everything work. She was all over me. I didn’t sleep with her that night. Instead, I took that energy she gave me on the dance floor and been working on my craft for the last few Days. #sextransmutation

[@Justamanliving]

I’m 24. What I’ve noticed about myself is that rejection in my school years made me very shy with women. I got “attractive” after HS and have had to build my confidence up piece by piece. It’s taken me years of work but honestly I’m doing the best with women than I ever have. You’re right though. If a person wants to change they have to look back at their younger self who failed and forgive/accept the pain. Then they can move forward in peace.

[@jayjalloh3631]

Story of my life.

[@ARdave311]

this was a legit reply. but the part of looking back and accepting youtself is sooo hard. i was obese all my life even as a child 3/4 years old, in high school i was my heaviest at 5'10 i was about 370lbs, could barley fit in the desks. i lost all the weight in my mid 20's and in my late 20s got in pretty good shape and still am at 32yo now, but if im honest, all the teasing and wounds i experianced for my first 20 years (and zero attraction from women) seems imposible to heal from. even know being 5'10 210lbs and muscular, i still feel like the fat kid who wasnt shit but a joke. it sucks man

[@Justamanliving]

@@ARdave311 The book you should read is think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill. There are many things in that book that will help you but the self confidence formula is a wonderful tool. Get the book, it’s cheap and don’t be so hard on yourself. The world is a tough place. It’s even tougher when you’re also tough on you. Good luck brother 🙏🏾 Also Jesus loves you. He made you exactly how you are. He knew you would overcome those obstacles and there was a brighter day ahead. Pain gives one perspective. If you were conventionally attractive all your life you might be a dickhead, have baby mama’s before you knew how to be a man, or any other bad thing. Be the best you can be and appreciate your journey.

[@DanTrustsTheFathersPlan]

The subconscious mind can be your best friend or your worst enemy, sometimes I tell myself "don't let the enemy stress you out, steal your confidence or joy"

[@yousefayoub5163]

that spiritual warfare is realer than ever.

[@isaacmaison3397]

Mine is the fear of catching a disease. I work in the medical field and have treated many patients with STDs. I even have some HIV patients too. I can count by hand how many unprotected sexual relations I have had in my life. That fear definitely suppresses my sexual energy especially knowing these women out here are sleeping with everybody and also not using protection. Be safe out here gentlemen

[@cortezchevelle1272]

The body acts what the mind sets.

[@jayjalloh3912]

I use silence + prolonged eye contact + actions as my type of seduction, since i'm not a talkative guy.

[@Sam-jp2lu]

Silence is the best while observing.

[@marlinshanklin1855]

Control your mind your body will follow. Control her mind with your body her body will follow.

[@GuddaIsDaName18]

Wrong idiot

[@marlinshanklin1855]

@@GuddaIsDaName18 Try it intelligent people don't call other people names. They make their point with logic, observation and reasoning.

[@noorametal]

Slow things down. If u notice ppl that are considered sexy seems to be present, flirty, and slower, like theyre enjoying every word and every moment. Also focus on the vibe not the words

[@arathperalta3818]

WHY TF ROM ONLY GOT 35k subs, monk gang .

[@RomWills]

This channel is only for the Wolves.

[@Berg803]

That fear aspect is something else.. Especially with all these diseases out here. I never heard someone bring up fear and how it keeps one from going all the way a 💯 with a person...

[@RomWills]

It's a big factor in sexual relationships.

[@mccanncornel2551]

OG onpoint wit this def MINDSET over everything connected wit your aura ya energy..every man should be constantly connected to ya self master ya sex appeal💯

[@calvinknowsbest2880]

Commenting First! Is a mindset as well. Keep it up Rom

[@ajtembo08]

Good video, that's a deep subject. Made me think when it comes to sex most women have high self control with the nice guys and loss of control with the players. That fear or logic is overcome by emotion, when they are mentally aroused.

[@paigeward27]

Pretty good Rom. Never ever heard it broke down 'deep' like that. So that's helpful. What I got out of this one was lay the foundation with the Body Game, then focus on the fear or control aspect to become balanced.We all need the third one.

[@YoungScato]

Unc you legit have the deepest info on women from a psychological standpoint. You brought the imprint to KZbin and that’s very important as well as sex appeal, types of sex etc

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@creamisgroovy]

Da drought is over🌧🌧 True! Some got beauty and dont know how to connect with it. Some people Dont realize how powerful love can be. Putting a smile on someone's face. Fills ya right up. Peace and prosperity.

[@ellisjackson3355]

"as a man thinketh"

[@ericj4752]

Dropping gold nuggets like always

[@busyrand]

Fantastic point about people's association of fear with sexuality. I recently experienced this with a young lady I respect. It'd been a while since it's come up in an interaction, but it's a really big deal for some people.

[@donavin51]

Uncle Rom, I go excited as soon as I saw the title. This video was on point and very timely for me. Many thanks!

[@jbweld6193]

3 am wisdom drop!

[@vincentredd3896]

Mindset and mouth game failed me numerous times. Looking forward to you exploring this more Rom.

[@jadariusmcnally4842]

Reminds me of a topic Bobby Hemmitt was explaining

[@RomWills]

I can go that deep but many aren't ready.

[@jadariusmcnally4842]

I'm still learning though. Shit beyond my understanding at times

[@joshuamcintosh7706]

Rom Wills deep thought channel deep?

[@Hx4DNegus]

Health Wealth and Prosperity.

[@SPKLifestyle]

I appreciate the knowledge 💯

[@Flyzel....]

I haven't hollered at you in a while, Rom! What up, playa?

[@RomWills]

Just doing my thing fam.

[@JayGrinding]

I’m very balanced

[@JonDeauxTM]

Now this is the realist Shit you ever said

[@Kevinwatts0316]

How do you express your sexual side as a man with out being a creep?

[@RomWills]

Just be masculine.

[@brothaantone8286]

Wow, thank you brother Rom, how I overcome my fear aspects? 🙏🏽

[@RomWills]

Get to the root of why the fear is there to begin with and heal that aspect.

[@brothaantone8286]

Rom Wills ok, thank you!

[@jayjalloh3912]

I have a fear of catching hiv even when strapped and its preventing me from getting play; I also heard catching that could lower your smv. How do you conquer this fear, Rom?

[@RomWills]

You have deal with the roots of why you have that fear. It's not easy but must be done. Talk to a counselor or even a therapist.

[@jayjalloh3912]

@@RomWills ever since they brought up hiv and it's hidden symptoms from my high school. I think a therapist would just tell me to strap up but that wouldn't really help.

[@TellyTingz2000]

Why do Christians as I am oppress sex appeal so much. Is sex appeal a bad thing. Please teach me.?

[@RomWills]

That's a deeper conversation. In short if you control the sexual expression of a people you can control their lives.

[@TellyTingz2000]

@@RomWills thankyou!