Sex Is Overrated

[@lamavole6056]

You are not weird. Society is hypersexual. Thank you for saying this, it makes all demisexual and asexual people feel better and safer.♥

[@Alright281]

It honestly makes me cry just how sexual it is because people don't seem to understand the exact level of it

[@checkernegroMdkr]

Mf said demisexual and asexual

[@beegreen249]

​@@checkernegroMdkr lol 😂😂😂

[@TERRELL_GASKINS]

Absolutely bro it is Overrated I'm a virgin but I know if I was to let loose with a woman right now my energy levels would be trash now don't get me wrong lust is the best feeling in the world next to bliss but sacrificing your self respect as a man for self pleasures is hell

[@jayg7091]

yo, you put it so well. keep pushing brother

[@daze77gaming]

your comment will be pinned shortly...brilliant

[@zabeezi3497]

That's like saying "pizzas overrated but I haven't tried any"

[@Liqo315]

I'm a virgin myself and I agree💪🏿💫👁

[@themysticvoice9923]

Right with you dude!

[@bryanhernandez7746]

True laughter gives me a better feeling than sex… 😂

[@Alright281]

Especially when it's with the people you love

[@haventhebeast6050]

Also listening to music

[@Allytheshorttt]

That's probably cus yall don't know how to have sex. Your stroke game is weak 😂😂.

[@davolthe1261]

It's all about mood, if horny warm pussy is best thing in the world, but i get what you mean 😂

[@thebookof5rings]

in society we are made to feel like everyone should have casual sex, drink, smoke, vape as a teenager. yes i think about sex and sex is desirable but id rather sacrifice that casual shit for the real thing with the loml and i’d rather work on being fulfilled at this age and build my legacy, my success, to be number 1. don’t let society pressure us into things about what we should or should not be doing. The honesty in these vids is what sets Jt, Jordan, Hamza apart from the rest

[@BasedKashmiri06]

This is why I believe you should hold it off until marriage. I’ll only end up enjoying it if I’m actually in love with them.

[@JordanGreenYT]

don't let anyone change that bro!

[@erinmeggik391]

IMO issues are people and not Gender specific. These prospects are akin to high mileage, flood damaged 🚗 cars with rolled back odometers and Fire extinguishers under front seats. Buy a 🐕 and die 😊

[@ekko3750]

If you find the right partner you’ll view Sex in another way. It‘s the deepest and most intensive experience you can have with the person you love

[@JordanGreenYT]

i feel you bro, but i'll always value that foundational emotional intimacy first

[@ekko3750]

@@JordanGreenYT i understand but Sex is Not just a physical experience in my opinion (maybe one night stands but that‘s nothing for me), especially with your loved one it is much more emotional than you think

[@louisdemm1758]

I really started to realize this once I actually found hobbies I enjoy, like hiking for example. Nothing slows you down quicker and ruins an experience quicker than taking a woman along with you.

[@dionysisioannou3555]

After finding my person, we both quickly realized how significantly less meaningful sex is than what we deemed it to be prior to our meeting. Don't get me wrong, it can still be entertaining, fun, beautiful and romantic, but it simply doesn't hold the inherent focus it used to have when it was syringed into our brains from our society on a daily basis. Right now, we think of it as kind of like wanting to get tipsy or a bit high from time to time, in other words, as an enjoyable little act between us. Now, unquestionably, this is all of course dependent on the bond between two people. The trust they bear for each other. If physical touch is the anchor of a relationship though, it is sure to lose its balance very soon and deteriorate drastically. Neither of them should be surprised if cheating occurs, for there is nothing substantial that holds these individuals together.

[@apersonwholeftacomment3699]

I think the reason its so valued is not the action and pleasure itself but with the validation you receive that you’re wanted sexually

[@JordanGreenYT]

that makes sense, but i feel like there are other ways to gauge whether or not you're wanted sexually. it's just that those other ways are more nuanced/open for interpretation

[@thomas.thomas]

idk man, no amount of alcohol and weed feels nearly as good

[@jasonvideos5]

Sex (like sugar, social media, and other instant gratification) exploits our instincts as humans to make us more miserable and knock us off our ascent to godly hood. I’m not saying people should become celibate. I would just say approach sex with extreme caution. Engage in it with moderation and with someone you genuinely love.

[@samwinchester8680]

After being on monk mode and sr for about 2 years, i feel like I'll never need sx again. Avoiding the triggers is the key. Take your eyes away. It will make you so powerful, you cannot believe

[@daniellevit2312]

A couple weeks back I met this girl at one of my friends kickbacks, I went up to her cuz I thought she was attractive and we had a good connection/vibe instantly with another. One thing led to the next and we ended up hooking up that same first night. Im 19 going on 20 and it was my first time casually getting intimate with someone I wasnt really serious with. I continue to see this girl and have a friends with benefits situation atm. I always wondered how I would feel about casual hookups so I decided to try it out and see how I felt because to me it did seem silly and unfulfilling to me. Well I now have my answer. As much fun as it can be in the moment, it truly doesnt add anything beneficial to my life. Sure the pleasure attention and instant gratification feels nice but it truly doesnt help me in moving forward with my goals and purpose as well as it feels empty because we arent building anything long term together. Even though I know I could hookup with her as I wish I just dont really care for it after a couple times. Too me it seems pointless if we arent trying to build and have a future together. Just my story I wanted to share ,Thanks :).

[@db2ez]

i totally feel you bro, the other persons soul and how you two connect is way more interesting and important than what yall do in the bedroom. Its easy to find someone to hookup with if that's all you're after. My goal is to find someone I can grow with and we can make each others day to day lives much more enjoyable and purposeful

[@Daniel-bw6tg]

I feel you bro. My very own family started thinking that I am gay for not bring any girl into my bed. it is so sad how in today's world one cannot enjoy being single until they feel ready for a relationship. At times I get girls just to prove a point. I definitely don't care about sex. It is sad..

[@JordanGreenYT]

my pops hit me with the question when i was 19. i was devastated 😭

[@Daniel-bw6tg]

You will reach higher levels brother. Definitely built different!

[@Malik_Hoff]

Sex is hell of overrated. I'm happy alone

[@TheSaintMo]

You’re not weird for not wanting to have sex bro you just have a purpose within yourself which most men have difficulty finding, so they indulge into things like sex to distract them from finding their true purpose and keeps them in a trap. What you desire is far greater than what sex can bring and thats what makes you built different 🙏🏽

[@lucianwong420]

I also never cared about sex, it’s never the first thing on my mind. People always find me weird for being a virgin. I usually get insulted for not wanting/having sex. It’s still happening, so i prefer to just stay alone.

[@abdullahalajmi1313]

I feel u bro people are freaks

[@simonshura9144]

Well same but i love to fap and pmo so thats basically the same outcome

[@pizzateach453]

Thanks for speaking from your genuine heart. I think the world has excessively sensationalized sex to the point where we mock people for preserving their virginity until marriage (which is supposed to be the right thing to do) and disrespect their decision to remain pure. Just because someone is celibate doesn’t mean they’re a loser. In fact, I commend them for being a rebel against a hypersexual culture that has reduced love into how many body counts they have like a sport. Faith and success > feelings and sex.

[@lloydeelloyd]

It is overrated and the hoops the man has to jump through to get it too. Gets boring real quick too. I care about validation more than sex , like being desirable to women. Sex is just a trade , a man wants a womans body , a woman wants a mans money

[@raskult]

This is a good analogy

[@TeeTribe]

Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability on sharing on this topic 🙌🏽

[@hoeslovenaz1412]

I see what he’s saying he means sex without love is overrated it pointless I understand

[@JordanGreenYT]

that's what i'm here for!

[@michealdominic7788]

Lmfao 🤣 what? am not even gonna say anything

[@marko9695]

As a guy, I felt this. I discovered I'm demisexual a while back, but before then I forced myself to chase baddies because "all of my friends are doing it!" And honestly flirting and sex can be fun with a person you're into, but it destroyed my mental health to glorify it. There are men like us and its totally okay

[@ronmayo4920]

Well im 42 no sex in over 20 yrs

[@thereisnopandemic]

Most men who care about sex too much it’s because they never get it.

[@tylerharris4392]

yup,guilty as charged

[@davolthe1261]

Not entirely true but i get what you mean, still warm blanket(pussy😂) is one of the best feelings in the world 😊😅

[@onexonesie]

​@@davolthe1261It's really not the best in the world once you get it😂

[@davolthe1261]

@@onexonesieOk each to their own, for me it can be if am really horny if not it's just meh nothing special 🤣

[@Wario1382]

Because modern women are too shallow

[@6riannn]

I appreciate you for being transparent n honest with yourself as always bro ❤️💯

[@JordanGreenYT]

the foundation of any successful relationship is communication, and the relationship with self is no exception!

[@ejtipp4650]

Bro sex is totally overrated. It is for Procreation nothing more, nothing less.

[@thomaslemon3971]

Mother Nature incentivized us procreating by making it enjoyable. But I agree 100% that it’s very overrated. After my first time, I was like “…that’s it??”

[@angelmaldonado5657]

@@thomaslemon3971 you mean God did

[@ejtipp4650]

@Thomas Lemon Dont get me wrong i love Pu//y...its really what it attached to that is the problem! So much time, money, work and effort when i could just rub one off and get back to my beer and Call of Duty. Plus, as stated, it only real purpose is to make more of US! 🤦‍♂️😲

[@ejtipp4650]

@@angelmaldonado5657 Mother Nature could be considered God, just a thought.

[@RouxusLeGueux]

@@angelmaldonado5657 Ok why did """""god""""" make my grandma suffer so much ?

[@bstrouble]

This is exactly how I think & I only had 1 partner before as well. Emotional intimacy comes first before the physical

[@zolabison2744]

I agree

[@Ashurbanipal7446]

I seriously envy you man. Its all i can think about. Ive always thought that if i could hypothetically choose to not want it at all then i would in a heartbeat.

[@noellam788]

I appreciate your perspective on this. There are so many people, just like you, who prefer emotional intimacy over sexual intimacy. I’m a girl who sees the world this way, and I like seeing more men talking about this. Keep going Jordan 🚀 Your message is really powerful

[@K4113B4113]

You don't think sex can deepen emotional intimacy?

[@noellam788]

@@K4113B4113 It for sure can!

[@K4113B4113]

@@noellam788 Not only that but sex is much better when there is emotional intimacy. So why not have both

[@t.d6978]

I don't agree with this fully because I don't view sex as just sex, I view it in a spiritual way and I use it as one of my ways of connecting to my partner on a deeper level. I fully understand what he means tho, a lot of men today waste that powerful energy on girls that don't deserve it

[@eliahsturm6308]

facts

[@JordanGreenYT]

i can get behind that philosophy. i do see sex as an exchange of energy, but it's not the ONLY way to exchange energy. i guess i just prefer the other mediums of exchange over that particular one

[@charrybomb]

Sex isn't spiritual, its through the flesh. Keep coping bro.

[@doctorh.m.l4727]

A long time ago I made a promise to my parents and mostley to my self to never have sex untell I'm married and to be honest I'm glad I did that.

[@sushilnayak8639]

Why are u so glad for that ??

[@epicmangames823]

@@sushilnayak8639 sex at a young age can destroy ( and will destroy your mindset towards women) Sex will make you only think about sex in relationships, this can cause tons of problems cuz a lot of the society todays relationships are doomed because the only think about sex and not true love.

[@stanleygodwin8071]

Needed this one Jordan keep em coming 🙏🏾

[@thecoolclub127]

I fully agree with you here brother, going monk mode is good channel your energy into your career, surround yourself with loving people and do what make you happy .

[@mk-oz7xt]

Wow ,only if there were more guys like this who were into emotional connection and deep conversations before the flirting and sexual conversations

[@AndrewCarmy]

Good video Jordan, I don’t care about sex either I care about love, sex with someone you love is great cause it’s meaningful, having sex without love involved is pointless, after it’s over and the girl has no love for you, you will still be sad it doesn’t fill the void

[@Bendege]

exxactly, couldn't have said it better

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Facts

[@hoeslovenaz1412]

Thank you

[@fegik5922]

Maan sex really isn't all that, it's marketed.

[@jaywitopeneyes4336]

"The same way other men look at sex I look at success"SAME bruh

[@Jacob_Tiller]

This quote is freaking fire 🔥

[@dorado4526]

I have to admit the my desire of wanting to have it was so out of control back then that it ruin my teenage years. All of those time I could have use to be more productive were wasted but it low-key was the reason why I started to work on myself and seek to improve. In a way I am glad things happen the way they were.

[@KreedRetired]

90% of everything you've said here is what I've said so much to people. I've avoided so many girls of sex not cause I don't like it, but because I don't rate it as much as humans do. It's nature, I let it happen the way it should and not force anything and with whom I'm sure I'm into. There's more to life than just sex bro. Only men who have come to the stage of handling their own responsibilities know this

[@darkknightshaun]

Sex is kinda overrated, but sexual intimacy can be as strong as emotional intimacy too. It can get you closer to women that you are in a relationship with. I think your looking at it in a negative standpoint like, “sex is so overrated omg why do people have sex anyways”. That’s the type of vibe you’re giving across in this video. I don’t think it’s wrong to not care about sex, but it is something that we instinctively think about and it’s for a reason sometimes it’s good to get that sexually intimacy, but from someone that’s special and deserves it. I think you really are talking about the “hookup culture” because sex can be one of the greatest things ever with the right person. Meaningless sex is what truly doesn’t matter.

[@JordanGreenYT]

i feel what you're saying bro

[@charrybomb]

I think we all know sex is only for reproduction. Keep coping with your flesh bro.

[@Alcazar.otm4]

I appreciate the honesty Jordan and I think me and you share the same standards when it comes to relationships. I personally see past the sexual part of a women and I like to get to know them physically emotionally and spiritually however I do believe That intimacy such as kissing , hugging and sex is essential for a healthy relationship. I do believe that deep down you care about all these things maybe you just haven’t put all together yet but when you get into a relationship I guarantee that will change because when a man and women come together and if they connect on all levels, everything they do is just natural and at that point you can’t put a restriction on love and what it’s capable of doing.

[@malone4735]

Man Without purpose Distracts himself With Pleasure💯

[@Heluctis]

I feel like I am in between the average man and you Jordan. I do think about sex frequently but when I am talking to a girl I find I like getting to know her more than getting her to bed; and if things escalate too quickly, that just makes me like her less. I have denied girls to sleep with me before and that just drives them crazier. Just like everything in life, you need a balance of being reserved/open sexually.

[@uchihauzumaki2605]

Can you elaborate on the rejecting sex making them crazier part haha? I have heard this before, does this make them want to sleep with you even more or does it make them get triggered and cuss you out?

[@Heluctis]

@@uchihauzumaki2605 It makes them want to sleep with you a lot more. To the point they are the ones chasing you, what I believe is that they start thinking: " Why does this guy not want to sleep with me when 90% of the guys out there are begging me to sleep with them".

[@uchihauzumaki2605]

@@Heluctis Makes sense thanks man

[@alvinmcneil8544]

Your absolutely correct in that sex is overrated over many other life goals. Sex is a compliment to the physical relationship. It is even more of a passionate and affectionate compliment prize especially within the bonds of marriage. Don't let the overrated sexuality quest distract you from developing yourself to achieving your life goals. When your time comes to show true intimacy within a relationship, (hopefully within a marriage), you will fulfill your passionate obligation naturally.😜

[@desireeadjei9033]

You are one of the few attractive guys that have sense. Proud of you bro.

[@JoshuaApplewhite]

I feel what you’re saying to an extent. Sex is definitely a fruitless endeavor when that’s all you want out of a relationship with a woman. But for me personally, I wouldn’t ever say that I don’t care about it. Sex to me IS emotional intimacy which is why I say I relate to your take but I don’t completely agree. But that’s also why I don’t care about it to an extent when it comes to women that I only value from a physical attractiveness standpoint. It’s pretty unpopular to have either of our takes though. I enjoy your videos for that reason though.

[@eddog5619]

Not caring about sex in marriage has been GREAT. 10x more centered, focused, and driven. I still do have sex with the wifey but it’s not a deal breaker.

[@dominick2443]

I couldn't agree more Jordan. I've learned from even seeing sex from porn that its so different from reality and girls im around i never really try and its never my end goal to have sex with them. And the only time i desire sex is when were alone intimately. Then when the horniness lowers and your mind falls back to the ground aka reality. I dont require sex. I also think that young men believe they need to have sex to prove something to their manhood which isnt the case. Yes it does feel manly afterwards but true confidence to me as a young man is knowing you do not need it. For example, i do not NEED porn/masturbating. I am confident in knowing i do not need it.

[@ta-ct8lv]

Only truths..sex is overrated.

[@jawant6039]

Because you is not can get any.

[@robertcarter384]

@@jawant6039wrong

[@davolthe1261]

Am guy and it's the best feeling, no it's not overrated at all , pussy is fucking amazing and best feeling known to man if you ask me 😂

[@SmoothSkiez]

@@davolthe1261you can either use that to connect with someone you love or let it destroy you mentally and spiritually.

[@Wario1382]

​@@davolthe1261cuck

[@Jacob_Tiller]

6:53 - 6:59 I know this is a serious video but this would be a hilarious clip to reply with on Twitter

[@IboSoHandsomePlsHandsomeMan]

Lmaoooo

[@ninjaempire9093]

Lol fr

[@mr.dawson1988]

Imagine if the camera zoomed in with each question😂😂😂

[@JordanGreenYT]

😭😭😭

[@dvo9882]

The reason why sex is “overrated” is because this society has been getting sexualized in every aspect over the years. Prnography, stripe clubs etc. Its really sad men, women, and even children having a problem with this.

[@monopolybillionaire5027]

They want more wage slaves

[@figgmastah]

Totally agree, of course we care about sex, everyone knows what happens on a flatline but still, i love this opinion.

[@tee9828]

Jordan is a different breed. Very unique individual, these are the kind of standards I like as a man

[@alexsanimeart5706]

If you don't think about sex first when you see a girl, you really have overcome a lot of your biological instinct. Plus, sex is way harder to get for men and most of the time it isn't a priority when you're on your mission

[@patbenz4327]

6:08 I'm 42, I've always seen attractive girls that way too: I'm not interested in casual sex, but emotional intimacy.

[@Jacob_Tiller]

Success > sex (but both are great)

[@zivamayne]

I can relate to some of your experiences in some ways. If you was smashing around since 15 it would probably be different. But this is the way your life had to go and it ain’t wrong. It’s just different.

[@brookeplifts]

Everything you said fr defines me 100%. People like us are def rare

[@Sisanf]

Bro this is spot on!!! I have these exact same feelings and approach to sex

[@TheMrdons90]

I really don't need sex, I just wanna have kids. Retention feels better than sex.

[@youngbullchris636]

Right it’s like sex is cool and that can come later but I agree that that emotional intimacy comes first and success which I feel like girls like even more since it’s so uncommon💯

[@mikaeladisse8641]

Solid! The irony of this is that that you will actually come off more enigmatic to women. However you are fresh meat for those women that have tallied up bodies and possibly even kids of their own from different dudes. They will see your purity and outlook on sex and try to wiggle their way into your life

[@eheheh3263]

You’re just more about the mind and emotions than the physical… that’s my guess and that’s perfectly fine dude… you’re a deep person… I’m a woman and I’m like this so I understand

[@thedivineconnection-wholeness]

I really agree. Sex is relative, love is absolute. Giving everything up for truth and the highest wisdom will melt your attachments and make you realize your spiritual nature beyond material obsessions.

[@JordanGreenYT]

beautifully said

[@Oatsy26x]

Shit I mean my body count is 0 so I'ma take yo word for this sht

[@RedSunUnderParadise]

Society: Hurr, U am just In-Cell!1!1!1 Like seriously, make fun of games like chess or football and it's cool, make fun of sex and you are the somehow Ben shapiro's clone.

[@user417dpd2ihe]

Sex is purely instant gratification.

[@gaimyt]

Ok

[@MohitVakharia]

I understand your point about sex and success but imagine coming from a country where you just have seen sex happening on screen until you're 25. So finally when you get sex you want to keep doing it because you were frustrated by lack of it. But I understand in western countries, sex is such a common thing that you're bored of it I guess 😂😂😂

[@ta-ct8lv]

No bro..its the same in all countries, all cultures.. Sex is actually overrated..Bollywood produces simps through their songs and movies and all that shit.

[@Andrew-gd1ky]

Bro how can I change this because I think about sex a lot like 75 percent of the time. Im still a virgin and all i can imagine how good it feels but i cant at the same time

[@Bendege]

bro let me tell u, i had that too, but to be honest, the feeling wasn't much better than just doing it urself, but the (deeper) connection u get with ur partner from doing it, showing each other love is what makes it woth it, so my tip is, unless u get urself in a commited relationship, don't bother doing it cuz it will be meaningless and nothing will change. (just my opinion)

[@JordanGreenYT]

every time you start thinking lustful thoughts, intentionally place your focus on your purpose. over time, you will rewire your brain to associate lust with purpose

[@icecoldmabon6960]

i feel the same way. We built different here. But all my friends do only care about sex that’s why i distance myself from these people. I feel like I’m the only one who thinks like this but if I level up in life hopefully I’ll attract more friends that think like me. Just going through a lot of pain right now because I’m the only one of my friends who thinks like this. But imma keep moving forward and not let anyone change me

[@dnheat5894]

We in the same bubble bro trust me

[@AlbertKoshi23]

I absolutely relate. I love this video. I found this comforting, touching and really awesome

[@davidvasconcellos6858]

Sex is one of those things that if you have it great and if you don't there are so many other things that makes life worthwhile!!!

[@JordanGreenYT]

absolutely! there's so much more to life than sensual pleasure imo

[@davidvasconcellos6858]

@@JordanGreenYT Yes!!!

[@a.j1632]

Part of growing up and becoming a man is realizing that having sex with 30 women every day is not fulfilling and would not lead to long term happiness. Contrary to what we think when we are young

[@JordanGreenYT]

facts bro

[@MatthewRumble]

I don't care about it but would want to experience it once to understand both sides. Success > sex

[@JordanGreenYT]

all in due time

[@Thatbul]

Woah I wouldn’t say it’s overrated but it’s definitely not valued like it use to be. Sex is easy to get now, back then it was more like a reward.

[@JordanGreenYT]

i don't see it as a reward tbh. i see it as more of a tool to build what i REALLY value, which is emotional intimacy

[@creatingdigitalassets]

This is exactly the kind of guy I wish I could find. That’s the same way I structure my priorities.

[@JordanGreenYT]

i feel like this mindset is much more common in women in general, but there are definitely more men with this mindset than you may think!

[@aakashelumalai1499]

Sex is pointless. Humans are the most intelligent beings, and they have greater meaning for life and have more potential for bigger goals then just sex

[@JordanGreenYT]

exactly bro!

[@younggknowledge2415]

You just explained something I’ve tried to in years. Never thought I’d see someone like me

[@ceceberry6051]

It’s natural. It’s called self control.

[@jamarlbryant1445]

Appreciate it you jordan I think about sex sometimes I’m still a virgin but other than that I’m thinking about success or my purpose 🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾.

[@JordanGreenYT]

gotta keep elevating bro!

[@jamarlbryant1445]

@@JordanGreenYT facts bro

[@KingBongBoon]

0:29 BARS 🔥🔥

[@Coldest1_]

I just treat it like it’s any other leisure activity

[@alannajm]

it’s so weird to see this perspective from a man. perhaps weird is the wrong way to put it but it’s very different. my perspective is skewed at the moment due to many of my coworkers, manages, friends etc. talk about sex so often it’s like their main drive. also my past relationship we dated 2.5 years and the only reason we broke up is because he wanted to know what hookup culture was like. so it is eye opening to hear different perspectives.

[@hillsongaming2822]

22 and still a virgin to this day I must say must people assume your either gay or out right weird. To be honest I’m happy with who I am I rather be married to than sleep around.

[@thebatman3905]

I'm also 22 and virgin. You're not alone. I love you

[@VTReddick]

Sex for most men is again like you've stated before a biological response. And I feel as though sex should be on a man's mind but also it shouldn't cloud a man's judgment into his goals. Because at the end of the day self improvement is pretty much setting the base for you to be a better mate for a female. It's just our biological nature. I do respect you and your personal preferences but maybe this is more of an insight into the "hype" of sex. Much love Jordan 💪🙏❤

[@JordanGreenYT]

i get what you're saying, and i definitely don't disagree. however, i feel like i've more or less detached from the idea of elevating for the sake of women attraction. all you really need to attract women is confidence; the other stuff (money, status, muscles, etc.) is just smoke and mirrors

[@Big_talks.]

People won’t understand this though

[@icecolditez694]

Looking forward to learn something new

[@justinwhaley1288]

You are an inspiration. Subscription earned

[@deziray8193]

I thought it was just me 😳Im 23 years old and still a virgin when i tell people they are always shocked never fails and they ask like whyy and i tell them exactly what your saying right it’s overrated and not that important loosing my virginity is literally at the bottom of my to-do list and always has been 🤷🏽‍♀️, ppl automatically assume that because i am an adult and still a virgin that there must be something wrong with me that i give men a hard time , I’m stuck up ,im too uptight , i need to relax , im being difficult but in reality its not important to me & i dont want any soul ties to multiple ppl 😭🤷🏽‍♀️that simple

[@iamzay4938]

Yea it’s sad that people penalize or look down on virgins thinking something is wrong with us. God didn’t intend for us to act like animals sleeping with whoever, he holds us to a higher standard. Honor your temple

[@joshuam.2917]

@@iamzay4938 If God didn't intend for us to sleep with whomever and whenever, then why did he give us the ability to? Honest question. We as humans do not have a designated period of mating (mating season) like a lot of other animals. To me that seems a bit counter productive. That's like an engineer building an intelligent robot with the capacity to feel emotions to then tell that robot that they are prohibited in expressing and feeling said emotions.

[@deziray8193]

@@iamzay4938 amen !!

[@deziray8193]

@@joshuam.2917 It’s called free will, Gods not gonna force you to do or not to do something all he can do is give you the the truth and warnings about what may happen if you do or don’t do something, if you choose to do it that’s up to you but your gonna have to deal with the consequences which can be soul ties among the many other things you can get from having sex with multiple ppl , it’s like Someone putting a cake or your favorite unhealthy food in your face it’s up to you to decide wether or not your gonna eat that knowing it’s unhealthy nobody’s gonna force you to do anything but there are consequences if you eat that cake ex. Gain weight or health issues it’s the same concept! ☺️

[@joshuam.2917]

@@deziray8193 I understand the purpose of having free will as well as the consequences of our actions, however, what I can't seem to wrap my head around is why give us the ability to do something you don't want us to do. It's like a martial arts instructor demonstrating a fighting technique capable of ending someone's life to then tell their students to never, under any circumstance, use the technique because it's disgraces the art form and that they detest anyone who uses it. If God is, as you all would say, the all powerful creator of existence itself, then why allow something you don't want happening. Because God didn't intend for us to fly, hence why humans are born without the properties capable of growing wings. Its like a writer purposefully sabotaging the flow of their story by incorporating events that have no reason to be there. Assuming that is the case, would a human mounting any aircraft be taken as an action against the will of God? If not, then why would it be when reviewing the situation surrounding sex with multiple partners because if God, the all powerful being that he is, truly didn't intend for us to do so, he would have made it so that we were incapable of such a task. Given that there are species of animals who, by their natural instinct, mate for life, why are humans treated differently? This is an honest question and I'd love to hear your response to this.

[@Hazmatsuitguyagain]

I’m Aroace and I think that a lot of society is about sex and love and when I was 16 and all my friends had girlfriends and weren’t virgins I was still a virgin and didn’t have a girlfriend and they thought I was weird so they stopped talking to me anyways that’s myself story

[@Alright281]

Man of the Century

[@zeknight4352]

Honestly same I didn’t. I never seen it as a value or anything “impressive”. In fact I pray to god to stay away from it due to the many problems that may come to it (unwanted child, std or worse)

[@pedroroque829]

I too never see a girl as a sex object lol. Never, I really thought that it was a normal thing. I always have great conversations with them as well. Sex is the last thing that comes to my mind

[@greatestofantoniotimegreat1750]

Ian gone lie I fw y’all but some of y’all know if you girl comin on to you, you gone take it

[@artty9214]

Jordan. There might be chance that you could be demisexual. Not to put a label on things because in truth, how you tend process things when it comes to topics like this is akin to my own. At times I remember even in high school I tried to force myself to like and fall for someone when in truth I’ve only ever loved one person who I both lost my virginity too and have been in a relationship with. I believe I’m capable of falling in love and to have sex but it’s an incredibly rare thing and it barely clouds my mind.

[@zer-pl9tn]

again not to put a label. but it sounds like antisexualism or just success mindset.

[@JordanGreenYT]

definitely thought about the whole demisexual thing, but to your point, i don't want to label myself because i know that i'm constantly growing and evolving. a year from now, my perspective may completely change

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Jordan, the alpha male build different👀🔥💯

[@user-pc5rf2xn1l]

Consider it a blessing. Im a female who used to be hypersexual and believe myself to have had sex addiction.

[@user-pc5rf2xn1l]

God helped me with it. It distracted me from focusing on success. You may have a low drive. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you're hypersexual. Culture stereotypes men want it all the time women don't. I was very sexual. I'm a female and society made me feel ashamed. The whole you're a slut thing. I wanted help and God helped me. I'm forever grateful to him.

[@TT_Highlight]

Amen sister in Christ

[@KreedRetired]

I thought I was the only black man who felt this way. (Not racist)

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Facts but my libido is sometimes high and I’m a virgin haha

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

It is overated if you look at it under the microscope.

[@royaleuropemapping9306]

Damn, I swear everytime you speak is as if you were reading my mind, I really wish we had met in real life, I think we would have got along pretty well.

[@yet.4587]

I was just thinking that

[@genovasquez8361]

Sex I think about at all times no matter whats happening. I don't think about success. I have my own place and car so I can have sex a lot.