Sex, Love, Submission, The Good & The Bad - Things No One Told Me Before Getting Married

Hey, fam! Welcome back to my little corner on youtube. Sincere apologies that a video didn't drop last week😔, if you follow me on Instagram, you already know that I encountered significant challenges while uploading the video. The video went live but after a short while, I had to take it down due to poor quality.
In this video, I share things I feel you should know so you go into marriage fully prepared and adjust your expectation accordingly as well😅.
Please let me know what you think of this video, COMMENT and LIKE, thank you!♥️
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[@charismaagu7315]

Submission comes easy when you are submitting to the RIGHT person. It all starts from choosing right. Thank you so much Chidera, this is very detailed and enlightening. I love what you do ❤️

[@ChideraPeters]

♥️♥️

[@tegaokogu9630]

lol what do you mean by submitting to the right person? You cant marry the wrong person. Whoever you marry is the right person

[@onyi__]

That submission verse you explained. APT!! I’ve never seen it in that light, and I’m just 17 years old😂you’re doing absolutely amazing, Chidera. Love to see it!!!!❤️‍🔥

[@titilopeajayi6303]

I really love this marriage series, I mean you’re what they call leading by example. You incorporate your positive lifestyle into what you teach. Welldone. And yes please, shoot the ‘questions to ask before you get married’ video. Thanks

[@arin.officialmusic]

Wow, Chidera, this was amazing! Thank you for sharing - you weren't preaching o - you were spitting fire. Everything you said makes a lot of sense. God bless you!

[@DynamicDoris]

Wow. It just keeps getting better. I can write a whole book from this marriage series. Thank you so much for sharing. And yes I would love to see the video on questions to ask. I'm already excited 💃💃💃

[@chiomanwabufo831]

Thank you chi, I would also love you to share the books you read before you got married and others books you know that can be helpful to help your single friends like me get equipped for the journey called marriage.

[@ChideraPeters]

♥️♥️

[@maydvicky3316]

I would recommend 100% Marriage for you, the author is a Nigerian but cant remember the name

[@chiomanwabufo831]

@@maydvicky3316 thamk you

[@nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181]

I just stopped the video midway to salute your manicure game!!!! 😍 Now that I have gotten that out of the way.... back to the video😅

[@ChideraPeters]

Awwnn thanks sis!!

[@Tino_M]

I love how real you get in your videos. Thank you for sharing and taking us on this journey with you Gift ❤️❤️

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww thank you so much Tino ♥️♥️♥️

[@glowingheartoluwadamilola3457]

Hi, please don’t quit KZbin your message is life changing thank You for this video

[@chinwechinwe3560]

The value in this video is priceless 📌. Thank you, Chidera

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks for watching too Chinwe ♥️

[@igohedimma4691]

I’m liking this series cuz I’m presently watching a lot of these kinda videos since I got engaged late march😄😄🥰❤️ thanks chi plz more videos

[@OyepearlTV]

Congratulations

[@ChideraPeters]

Oh congratulations 🎉! And I’m glad it’s helpful ☺️

[@ItsMaerii]

This video is so educative Chidera😁 I total love this marriage series ❤️

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww you’re welcome ♥️☺️

[@akinpelurofiat]

You are absolutely right. On sex particularly. It's over one year of my marriage and sometimes ehn...... I will appreciate it if you can do a full video on sex(in the context of marriage) as it seems there is so much to learn. There are few resources on that (that I have seen) and I need help.

[@sunshinescorner810]

Thanks for the consistency babe 😘 Kaduna raised a virtuous woman Love from here baby girl 💕

[@eniolaodunuga7747]

Overall best in knowledge!!!!! You hit the mail on the head about submission! Good job 👍

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Thank you CP I'm taking notes so that when I get to this stage,I won't be so shocked 😁 n we want more of this too Thank you for the explanation of d submitting part, guys need to hear it

[@biyiadegboro6321]

Loaded as always Chidera, Interested in the next topic, please go ahead!

[@ChideraPeters]

Hahaha thank you

[@victoriaigodifo2808]

Amazing content. Your videos especially the uni videos have been of help to me. I'm in Portsmouth for my master's and i go back to some of the videos for guide. Thank you for your help

[@akinboracheal1972]

This is really educative ❤️...... thanks alot for this darling 🥰..... looking forward for more 😘😘😘 I love you ❤️

[@janesoribe9846]

I'm really enjoying this series and the content you keep dishing out. Not married......yet, but find this video helpful. Thumbs up Chidera.🖒🖒🖒

[@Jhaymhel]

Is the consistency for meeeee💃🏽🥂

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks Joyce

[@delighteze5980]

Thank you chidera for this info. I'm the kind of person who believes that if you love me, you should know what I need. You shouldn't be told what to do. And funny enough it pisses me off when I have to tell you to do this or that for me. It makes me believe you don't care. But listening to you make me realise my mistakes in this aspect. Yes by age I'm your senior but I know age doesn't mean you know it all. 😄 I have learned today.

[@ChideraPeters]

Awww you’re welcome ♥️

[@AladiAkoh]

Congratulations on 24K!

[@ChideraPeters]

Thank youuuuu ♥️♥️

[@TimilehinOlamide]

Enjoying the series. Thank you Chidera Please can you do a video telling us the books you read before getting married

[@ChideraPeters]

I’ll make a note of this. Thank you

[@graceHumphreyy]

Am I hallucinating or something? why does it feel like I've watched this exact video before? I tried going through the comments and it seems like this video is new to everyone else.

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol you’re not hallucinating. I had to take down the video last week due to video quality issues. So yes you probably watched it last week before I took it down

[@graceHumphreyy]

@@ChideraPeters @Chidera Peters I thoroughly enjoyed it the last time that I forgot to notice if there was a video quality issue or not. Welldone Chidera, you're really being intentional ❣

[@bessfavoured1675]

I love this series. Keep it rolling in. You are doing a good job girl!

[@ChideraPeters]

Thank youuuu

[@chisomwinifred383]

Nice video Dera. Please I would love you to do the next series questions to ask before marriage. Actually learning a lot from your videos

[@ChideraPeters]

I sure will, thanks Chisom

[@stephanieakut4996]

Free Indeed! Love it 😍. Cheers to 24k 🥂

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks babe!

[@SonsareZ]

Great video! Well thought through and a massive help. Thanks 😊

[@AladiAkoh]

Our video is back!! 🥳

[@ChideraPeters]

Yes yes it is!☺️

[@janechi7226]

Weldone dear, Yh sure kindly do a video on questions to ask b4 u get married. Tnx

[@laurettaoshomoh]

I loved every part of this video especially the submission part because most people don’t understand submission. It was good that you explained it well enough. You’re doing well 👏🏾

[@chideraachugbu4339]

Awesome video. Very enlightening. Pls give us more

[@yourpersonalfinancegirl]

I really enjoyed and picked up lessons, and I just realized that you read a lot 😌

[@afolabinoamesi]

This is solid advice. Thank you so much

[@WilmaForson]

Can I love you any less. Chai Jay have blessed us with a virtuous woman. Virtue overload😍

[@Ireshandle]

LMAO! I am absolutely not a morning person and my partner is. I’m glad 😭 because I can’t relate to some of the things they said in Proverbs 31 🤣

[@coletteezenyeaka3333]

I love! love!! love it !!!, cant wait for the next one.

[@bukolaakinsanmi5836]

You're on point and so articulate about all the points.

[@ChideraPeters]

Thank you ☺️

[@kemiandtheyouths6455]

I love this video Chidera

[@jeh_ssy]

I feel like I've watched this video before, don't know if it's just me😂

[@nmesomaokparaobi7664]

I'm loving this. Well done Chidera.

[@ChideraPeters]

You’re welcome ☺️

[@rose_be2330]

Sorry Chidera may you please tell me where you did your marriage counseling and courses?

[@amarachiigwilo1406]

I loved this video. I learnt a lot. Thank you Chidera

[@deborahogundare8393]

Thank you so much Chidera. You are a woman of substance. Keep it up❤❤❤.

[@ChideraPeters]

Thank you so much ☺️

[@emmanuelokeke8855]

Awesome insights, looking forward to the next video.... Thank you so much 💓 💗 💛 💖

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks Emmanuel

[@temitopeblessingemmanuel5714]

Great! thanks for the practicalities... can I ask which Marital courses you took please?

[@Ojuolape]

Enjoying this series 💞

[@ChideraPeters]

Glad you are ☺️

[@oritsela]

Chidera, did I just hear you say "innit?" Haha, you don truly become English gyal. Love from a fellow 9ja ❤

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol how I go do nau 🤭😂

[@oritsela]

@@ChideraPeters I see you jare 😂😂😂

[@chinenyesandra6868]

Thank You Chidera for this video. It’s so helpful ❤️... please can i get the names of the books and their authors. Thank You ❤️

[@sylviannadi1309]

Good one. Love your personality.

[@blessedkenue]

Thank you so much. Great content. Yes anticipating....

[@sandraudechukwu3751]

I just love this lady!❤️❤️

[@sharonomotayo3438]

i really enjoyed this video and i what you said about the concept of submission.

[@suziedaley743]

My big sis downloaded all your videos and I watch them every night

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww bless her!♥️

[@festuschizaram7613]

I enjoyed every bit of this...tks dear ❤️

[@iyanu5602]

"I like to win." Top-tier. 🥳😂

[@patricia.nasike]

I remember watching this video 🤔

[@thelifelovechannel]

We’d love to see it! Shoot the video!😄

[@janeta6400]

Great content!!!

[@pamela_ofuani]

Me and you na the same thing o My energy is top notch in the morning. From 12a.m till 11a.m.

[@iyanu5602]

LOVE the intro! 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@bunmiibinuhi9103]

Thank you! You're blessed

[@maydvicky3316]

In a case of Domestic violence and the man begs afterwards, what's your advice to the woman

[@abuja_beautician]

Thank u so much for this content❤❤

[@Jenny-fl5cn]

I liked before watching.

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks Ada ♥️

[@onyinyechukwu2610]

Annoy you is an understatement 😆 😆.

[@Elldrop1]

Can't agree all the way but still enjoyed the watch 😁

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol of course you wouldn’t agree all the way!😂😂

[@Jaay2022]

Welcome welcome!

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks for showing up Jamila

[@chiugoamudi]

Well done chi

[@livviegabriel2076]

I learnt so much sweetheart. Thanks 😊

[@ChideraPeters]

My pleasure!♥️

[@isaacboateng3151]

Thanks dear... So helpful

[@sunshinescorner810]

Chidera help a Sis, please which app do you use for thumbnail?

[@ChideraPeters]

I use Canva

[@sunshinescorner810]

Thanks babe 😘

[@djipantyjocou7793]

Thank you for your help 😘

[@ekuassanwamanful279]

God bless you very much❤

[@janechi7226]

Would also be glad if you can do a video talk abt sex as not many of us knows about sex. Thank you

[@MomentsWithIbukun]

Where can I get the book "apology language"

[@ZionWitness]

You can't run from you calling

[@oyeludeaminatyetunde2068]

Please shoot the video. This was helpful😊

[@ChideraPeters]

I will , thank you ☺️

[@oluwatobidorcas1374]

i like your gum, its brown and veryyyyy finee💓

[@biolaluv]

Preach on pastor 😂😂😂😂👏👏

[@eseoghenemukoro]

LDM with PK, Kingsley Okonkwo and Mildred Kingsley-okonkwo on KZbin have amazing videos on Love, Dating and Marriage.

[@happinessonabolu3638]

Amazing

[@rollandanonymous8194]

What happens a few years down the road after you’ve submitted and have “died” for your wife?? 7 out of 10 times she marries someone else… if you r both newly weds… best case scenario is she waits for a couple more years out of respect for what you both shared and still gets married to someone else… 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ just saying

[@godwinejiofor8064]

You should bring death into this because you are not in their should I encouraged you widow or widower to remarry after the death of their partner because it is not easypp

[@johnpauluzukwu5078]

I want the next video

[@ChideraPeters]

Yes sir 😂

[@lotannaagbaegbu4238]

Hit the nail right on the head! You’re my name sake btw

[@marilyn_warrior]

chai this na work oo loll

[@deborahilo6792]

Word

[@auntyjayne]

👏👏👏

[@aeeshaaaa2211]

❤️❤️❤️

[@tolulopeolanisebe6109]

♥️♥️

[@juliet5446]

Daluu Chidera

[@jessicaluka6054]

❤️❤️🔥❤️❤️

[@interpretingtravel]

Shoot that video

[@lifeofbubbles]

Let me sit comfortably. Chidera is giving us some gist🤍🤍

[@ChideraPeters]

Premium tea sis 😂

[@samuelrejoyce]

First of all, I love your ear ring , secondly, I love this video and have taken one thing away from it. God bless you for sharing