Sex vs Gender vs Orientation

[@hansolsboo1907]

Ok so I've been replying to a lot of comments here since this video was posted, and every time I get a new reply and come back, I can see that the like-dislike ratio is looking worse. So I wanna say something to the creators behind this channel. As someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community in a country where "hate crime" is not even a term as those are considered more of a "service for society" by most people here, I have to say that I really appreciate this video. It is incredibly important to talk about these topics openly. And you probably knew that the response wouldn't be the best and that you might even lose some subs, but you still decided to make this video and upload it. I think that says a lot about you as human beings. My respect for you and your work has grown even more because of this. Thank you.

[@Alessio1986able]

You just do not know anything about biology. But God will forgive you.. ahahah

[@cementtable326]

That’s a long comment

[@mr.wilson2027]

Dumb learn human biology

[@hrthrhs]

So as long as BS makes you feel good then it deserves praise.

[@GabS-o1m]

Yes! 🙌🏼🌈 don’t worry about those haters. 😉

[@TeamRCXD]

I believe the Gender discussion has gone out of hand. At the gay pride in Washington last year, people were protesting because they felt excluded, while the gay pride fights for acceptence of the entire community. People come up with many genders, but keep making boxes for themselves, because they don't want to be put in a box, is counterproductive. Anyone should be able to be who they want to be and love who they want to love (as long as that person agrees).

[@TitusRedwind]

TeamRCXD You have summed up my opinion perfectly. Labels are way too limiting. Gender and orientation are unique from person to person so there's no way that we could ever create a system that works for everyone.

[@lordmew5]

TeamRCXD that's fine be who you want to be and love whatever consenting adult you want. The problem is transgender/gender nonconforming people dont exist in American society. Like it was stated in the video gender is a construct it's only meaning can come from what is made of it. In America we only identify 2 genders based purely on sex. So if you are a part of American society you can only be one of the genders. One's own gender identity means nothing if it defies the the the arbitrary limits we have on the construct.

[@serenaisaloser8058]

Yes, but creating some kind of definition helps some people understand what pronouns to use and how to approach a person

[@christiantaylor1495]

SerenaIsALoser But those people have unreasonable expectations of how much people should pander to them.

[@christiantaylor1495]

lordmew5 I agree. There are only 2 genders in America at the present time but the nature of gender implies it could increase or decrease.

[@therealhagrid779]

This is a non-controversial comment.

[@liz9206]

hOw cOme yoU GeT tO dEciDE whAt tHe cOmmeNt iS. iT haS fEeliNgS tOO YoU kNOw!!!!1111!!1!

[@bunny11114]

Did you ask the comment its consent before labeling it 😠😠😠

[@heythere5121]

TheRealHagrid HOW DARE YOU?!?!

[@robinvandemaele3430]

I'm offended by this.

[@mothersandfuckersofthejury5416]

This is one hell of a non-controversial comment

[@frostyfoster7267]

*Sees title of video* Me: oh this comment section will be fun *sips tea*

[@cjck1344]

Let’s watch from a distance with a bag of chips and watch humanity descend into madness :P

[@robbie3732]

exactly

[@MYSTERIOUSORBS]

aaaaAAAAHHHH

[@psychadellicsweater8311]

Same. There's probably an argument above me lmao. Edit: oop I guess not... _yet_

[@MYSTERIOUSORBS]

ツ꧁TheBlackScrunchie꧂ _just screaming at the moment_

[@owyn5376]

I'm sooooooo happy you mentioned bisexuals

[@owyn5376]

Christian Taylor Yeah, but a lot of times we get pushed to the side or misrepresented.

[@christiantaylor1495]

Die Fledermaus I know. Even some GAY PEOPLE Still think we want a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time or can't be loyal because of extra temptation

[@christiantaylor1495]

Hatch22 I don't understand the metaphor?

[@Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummm]

Is nice to have some representation for once god damn.

[@アイドルトラッシュ]

Which is ironic because we’re the biggest portion of the community

[@ssomethingorother5493]

Any videos on asexuality/aromanticism?

[@fnafnerdbonnie907]

Ghost Song OH MY GOODNESS YEEES!!!

[@tunesquicklee]

as an ace,,,,YES PLEASE

[@elllong7969]

no.

[@terra1829]

I was waiting for this :(

[@finalfroevo]

That be cool to see as an Ace Aro

[@TheFireTiger21]

This will quickly devolve into a comment war so before we get flooded by tumblerinnas and toxicity I'd just like to say that I don't care what you identify as, as long as you're a decent person you're fine by me Love you all

[@luck3y778]

Someone without common sense wrote the above and below comment.

[@The_Apple_Chapel]

Hexilo yeah because being a decent person is utterly stupid -_- The Fire Tiger your doing just fine :)

[@matthewwoodmass4161]

Hexilo Why does it matter? Ya gonna be dust some day, so will they. Enjoy your life instead of losing your mind over meaningless subjects like they would too.

[@corvin8011]

I don't care what people believe the are, as long as it does not interfere with my life

[@pinkhelmet119-.]

lights473 I second that dude I just say if you want to mutilate yourself fine by me but don't pretend is not a mental illness.

[@grinchyskellington]

I'm surprised i haven't seen any comment bringing up Jesus or just religion in general

[@zer0_ner034]

Derlynatri Oh, there's one. Out there, somewhere.

[@Mech-Badger-Man]

Yep, just found it, it's yours.

[@grinchyskellington]

Badger's Den with that i mean bringing up religion to the argument itself and not just mentioning it like i did

[@kabo0m]

Oh I could but why? It won't make any difference and is pointless in this area.

[@vrsce0178]

@@vampirerev7577 Ha Gayy.

[@rbdriftin]

I'm sure the comments will be thoughtful, considerate, and tolerant.

[@Ian-jn9zj]

Rob B Indeed, everyone is just SOOO accepting.

[@playo9197]

Yeah...

[@OceanAce]

Meme: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZu4cnaXirSrjac

[@fhisaldsfulda3241]

*HAHAHAHA*

[@blue_cameron]

Rob B there are only 2 genders

[@gayshipper7779]

My sexual orientation is different from my romantic orientation. I’m an asexual lesbian

[@phantom2615]

Cool beans! Stay proud

[@hhhertaaa]

Cool

[@shelleyberry378]

It is the same way for me

[@wokk9543]

HOMOROMANTIC LMFAOO

[@Amongus-st6ye]

Yeah. I'm homoromantic pansexual

[@Xgil2Play]

I don't mean to sound disrespectful in any way, but why do we sexualize women's chest?

[@pilotsthatpanic-1215]

Lumify | Gil THANK YOU.

[@Reigndolph]

Not sure.

[@keithsbaconpancakes]

Lumify | Gil because they turn people on

[@Xtremedude720]

It's not sexualized for no reason, it's something men look at and find pleasure from. Men are different from women in sexual pleasure centers, as men are much more focused on the physical aspects of a woman biologically.

[@lostwoods3025]

I think it’s because having breasts is a sign that a woman can give birth to a child or that she’s gone through puberty.

[@fnafnerdbonnie907]

You should do a video about asexuality and the romantics and the difference between the sexualities and the romantics

[@arandomcat4412]

FNAFnerdBonnie they did

[@robrot404]

asexuality is people who cant get laid and realized that, good for them

[@fnafnerdbonnie907]

Robrot as an ace that is not at all what asexuality is. asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction to people. it's not a choice and asexuals can still fall in love. just because someone can't "get laid" doesn't mean that they don't have sexual attraction to other people

[@audreyl.4876]

Yess please

[@Critterpedia0]

FNAFnerdBonnie no you're either a heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual person who has a preference to not be in love, plus may I ask how old are you? If you're like 10-16 you probably haven't found proper love, wait and decide later if you're "asexual" but it's fine to have preferences and not make up new genders right?

[@bamboo-3125]

This video is gonna get a lot of dislikes but thanks for making it.

[@christiantaylor1495]

Scraggy Pants Gender is personality and expression. Society does assign gender rolls and that's actually good.

[@christiantaylor1495]

Bàmboo - Why is that?

[@hornetsch1374]

Christian Taylor ok so after your logic if my personality is actually my gender I could say that my personality is other from male or female and could make up my own gender. People who think that there are the 76 gender (there's a list online, google it) go after your logic. Like, there's the "mysterious gender" or the "small, dog-like gender" and much more garbage.

[@nathmyproblem1914]

Thats when you're wrong

[@bamboo-3125]

@@nathmyproblem1914 ok

[@spiritedrenee9895]

‪Hetro, Homo, Bi, and Ace seem to be the main 4 sexualities with other labels in between. But I'm confused. There's Adroromantic, which means attraction to masculinity. How is that a sexuality?? There's an orientation for every little feeling and a label for you to pick and choose which one you want like it's some fun club and it's making very confused‬

[@spiritedrenee9895]

NeonMix, I know. There's a name for each little ting that is slightly different from the norm and is now being pushed into the LGBT+ community. I don't want say something that might invalidate these people because they might really be gay/trans etc. but mostly because I'll get called a bigot. I just don't understand how you can believe that no one can tell you that yo might be wrong because they're not feeling the same thing you're feeling, so they don't know anything and that makes it automatically correct. There are definitions to these things like being trans. It feels like political side had taken over to the point where we have a lot of people claiming or believing they are Queer or something from brainwashing. They then tell others exactly what LGBT+ is when they themselves aren't.

[@Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummm]

Dude sexuality and gender are fluid,confusing and complicated .I still don't fully understand it and I'm a very active member of the LGBTQ+ who does a lot of research, don't worry we'll eventually get there. :)

[@spiritedrenee9895]

Black Willow, Yes I agree with you on that. I To me it seems that last of these are getting names for no reasons. I always thought these things were normal and now each small feeling that might be different is getting its own identity. I see your I just think people these days are getting way to caught up on labels.

[@SevCaswell]

Unfortunatly labels are how society functions, people are pressured into declaring I'm X or I'm Y, but the 'big' labels like gay or bisexual don't feel like they fit so people come up with ever more specialised labels, when in reality every single person experiences gender and sexuality in a different way, so there is no label that will ever fit everyone, except for 'human'. (and even then I feel there are some who aren't even that either)

[@louise558]

About the question about attraction to masculinity, MY interpretation is that it doesn't really matter how you identify yourself, but if you seem more masculine than feminine they would be attracted to you. And if you're more feminine, despite your gender, then they wouldn't be attracted. I imagine it's something along those lines :'D (Then again, it's what comes to my mind when reading "attraction to masculinity", I'm in no ways an expert or something like that :'D )

[@Jasmina1Urata]

i'm a girl, i hate skirts, dresses, heels and long hair (on myself). i have short hair (i got jungkook's hairstyle from life goes on in the forest a few months ago), i wear jeans, sweatpants, hoodies, sneakers. i also like girls. and because of that, most strangers think i'm a boy. i used to take it a lot more personally, now i don't really care lmao

[@mushvoo]

Why did you just describe my entire life ;w;

[@RonCrown]

? Ok? At the end of the day you're still a girl tho. These people are saying that because you look like a boy you might as well identify as one (or some made up gender) and that's incredibly wrong.

[@Jasmina1Urata]

@@RonCrown i agree!! like damn, what does how i dress affect them in the slightest

[@Jasmina1Urata]

@Aryan 764 467 you're an insecure little boy who thinks making fun of lgbtq+ people is a personality trait

[@kreek-o5x]

There is a possibility that you are in fact not genderfluid. But it's really useless to fight about that. As a genderfluid person I can say being genderfluid at least to me, means you can be a man of culture as well as a woman of culture.

[@skyisherelol3492]

Basically, Sex: what you were born as Gender: what you identify as Sexual Orientation: what gender(s) you like

[@abbytrilights4692]

Correction. Sex: what you are born with

[@skyisherelol3492]

@@abbytrilights4692 ...was that meant to be transphobic or..?

[@abbytrilights4692]

@@skyisherelol3492 Let me explain. A transwoman was never a man. Doctor, parents, family, society tell her that she is a man but no. She was always a woman. If she was given a choice she would never be called a man just because of a penis. You are not born *as* a man because of a penis. You are just born *with* a penis.

[@tomastotrenaki]

@@skyisherelol3492 So how many genders are there?

[@skyisherelol3492]

@@tomastotrenaki a LOT. Dunno exact number

[@kermitsson5155]

I usually think that all of these things about gender are stupid and people are just Trying to get attention, but you guys have helped me better understand all of this but i still think this is a lot of information to go with how someone wants to live their life, i wish we could all just live peacefully and not care about the way in which someone wants to go about their life.

[@mysryuza]

Yup

[@salem_8493]

Kermits son At least we enlightened someone

[@CoolMintMC]

Kermits son You usually thought that all of these things about gender were stupid & people just trying to get attention? That's EXACTLY what's wrong with so many people. 1. I'm thankful that you're now enlightened. 2. There are still people who do that, so don't get me wrong, 3. But people shouldn't just lump the crazy extremists with every single person in that group.

[@Ian-jn9zj]

Karl Batchelor His point is that we should lay off, and let people live their life. Trans people know who they are biologically, but would like to be identified differently. If that's how they want to live let them live! They are doing nothing to you!

[@woodpeckery]

Karl Batchelor... Say what?! Maybe try a different language, and add some punctuation!

[@brianvaughn6658]

You explained this very well, but I believe the problem lies in the fact that there’s a lot of people who misuse the term gender, and use it more for describing personality rather than their sexual orientation. Also people who say they sexually identify as an inanimate object sort of ruin the whole concept of gender, because no one takes it serious and inanimate objects aren’t in anyway a sexuality. A similar argument can be made by sexually identifying as another animal, or something else that’s living, because for one it doesn’t make much sense, because it doesn’t seem right classify an animal group as a sexuality.

[@plasticflowered3958]

Wait, you also got it wrong. Gender isn't the sexual orientation of one people. It's the role they have in a society. How they feel masculine? Feminine? Both or none?

[@brianvaughn6658]

Plasticflowered ø well I didn’t know how to put it exactly, thank you for clarifying, but you also further prove my point in that if you feel masculine, feminine, both, neither, or something else, makes way more sense and can be taken way more seriously, but saying you feel like a toaster just makes you seem a bit crazy (which is off putting) because it actually does not make much if any sense

[@plasticflowered3958]

Brian Vaughn pretty much trolls and memes are taken seriously and I agree it is really annoying, considering that lgbtq+ just want respect and recognition

[@garrylawson1470]

Plasticflowered ø you can’t say lgbtq+ it’s lgbtqia+ you could have offended me if I wasn’t feeling good about myself today.

[@plasticflowered3958]

Garry Lawson sorry my fault. The weird thing is that I'm an ace and I totally forgot the a 😂

[@mallowcloud3417]

It is very sad that so much of our nation's youth are misguided about these topics. Thanks for shedding some light on the topic as always.

[@WILLINGLYWILD]

Ironic because this video is made from a misinterpretation of the subject matter, not the truth.

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

But there are multiple ways of analyzing it.

[@mallowcloud3417]

Please don't start a war in the comments. I was merely stating my opinion on the matter and complementing the channel.

[@pinkhelmet119-.]

Nathan Olson it is sad people don't know basic biology like you

[@pinkhelmet119-.]

KitKatKittens Yes well there's two main genders but there's other ones like asexual where you can basically clone yourself the one where you could change your gender like frogs and the other fucked up mutations ur XY chromosomes could go through, but humans only have male and female chromosomes even if they're fucked up you still are a male or female

[@orb3796]

If you're non binary, please don't scroll down any further. Just take this hug of appreciation and validity and flee

[@humandefinitely]

thanks for the warning, i shall now run.

[@brickbuilderx2316]

Very informational, but these topics have too many facets to effectively possibly cover it all.

[@ButterflySeraph612]

Defintely. Psych2go is more of a crash course kind of channel, but I won't be surprised if they expand on these topics in other videos.

[@brickbuilderx2316]

Charlie Evangelista I hope so, I like their content

[@ButterflySeraph612]

Ryan Okubo They have more content on their website. They said this at the end of the video, but it's still something to look at. Psych2go is really good at what they do, although my pessimistic mind believes that some people viewing their LGBT videos might not have an open mind with this topic.

[@brickbuilderx2316]

Charlie Evangelista that is understandable, I am also very skeptical, but about everything

[@ButterflySeraph612]

Ryan Okubo Honestly? Better to be skeptical about everything as long as you keep an open mind, which most skeptical people do. Most, haha.

[@DevilSlayr]

Was afraid this was going to be some political video, glad to see you stayed neutral and were very informative and factual. Thanks pysch2go!

[@mrpac-man4344]

DevilSlayr 5836 They obviously had a left political bias.

[@kaidenlol_yt9084]

Ye

[@dumplinglover8042]

@@mrpac-man4344 Can you....

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

@@mrpac-man4344 John Money be their roots, little they read and little they knew, what he did no good for me or you, for past shines brigher than the moon

[@neoneclipse1421]

Imagine thinking people just existing is inherently political. Touch grass.

[@BearMinimal]

Hi if you’re reading this. Please remember you’re beautiful 😍and I hope you are having a wonderful day! From a small youtuber in Australia! 😍😘

[@BearMinimal]

beautiful country! i love it here :)

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

This my friend is a small sparkle of happiness among a chaotic comment section

[@BearMinimal]

thank you you're sweet :)

[@danielvamu]

You say that gender is made up of gender identity and gender expression, but you don’t explain what ‘gender’ itself is. The term you’re defining cannot be included in its definition. I’d like to hear a more elaborate explanation on that.

[@plasticflowered3958]

Daniel Valcárcel Muñoz de León gender is the role that someone has in a society. It was made up so that people fit in icons rather than expressing themselves.

[@motozappa225]

And most importantly,they don't actually argue why this is a social construct with a valid argument,they assume so,because of some made up preguidices and steoreotypes and this is just dumb,(for example) be a man as you want to be and as you feel to be,but you are just a man and not some demi-assault helicopter shit

[@plasticflowered3958]

Human Qrystal I'm really bad at explaining things. So here's a link en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_construction_of_gender

[@plasticflowered3958]

Aza The Motozappa click the same link if you want to. I won't bother with your irony 😂

[@smammy9581]

Alright, I think I can do this. Gender is a form identification and expression, as was shown in the video, but I agree it was very broad and vague. But gender is very complicated. I believe gender is a form of identification that mixes or excludes masculine and feminine traits normally found either in biological make-up or in a society.

[@PimsriYotube]

We don't "Invent" new genders/sexuality/etc. we just give them a name that they never have, because they were never recognized. You can say that all sparrow are sparrow, but when someone points that "This is a house sparrow, this is a wood sparrow, this is a song sparrow, and this is a White-throated sparrow", you should listen. There are no wrong in calling sparrow species by the wrong name, but when the sparrow correct you "No, i'm not a song sparrow, i'm a white-throated sparrow" you should listen to it. We may discover more sparrow species, and you have no right to say "More sparrow? why make it complicated? it's just sparrow". We dont make the rule. It just is different. but all together it's a sparrow. It's a bird and we are all birds, we're all the same.

[@muffins3629]

P R E A C H

[@sweetbepsycho]

CaptainDashund Good analogy, simple but on point. It makes sense. It help me understand. Thank you. 🙏

[@nikusiayellow02]

oh shit, thank you so much for this.

[@jackattack5902]

Thank you so much for making this.

[@kabo0m]

Do sparrows have more than 2 sexualities or genders or what ever?

[@Mortegris]

This is a great, accessible, short video on the topic.

[@Onelostcrow]

Sex: female Gender: Agender/nonbinary (previously genderfluid) Orientation: Panromantic Asexual edit [09/03/21] (dd/mm/yy format): I found more about myself since my original comment! I use they/them, he/him, it/its, and void/voids (neo pronouns poggers!) pronouns!

[@yukir.9156]

Ye some "bro" over here🙋‍♀️ Sex: Fem Genre: Gender fluid Orientation: Pansexuel, with Bi preferancies, but open minded. And wish you the best. Best regards👍 ;)

[@alllittlethingzz]

Sex : Fem Gender : non binary Orientation: Biromantic demisexual

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Gender: male Sex: same as gender Sexuality: bi Pronouns: biology based John Money: left out of my belief

[@English_Mapper24]

Sex: female Gender: women Sexuality: straight That’s how it should be

[@yourpalal4778]

It's really annoying how it's apparently okay for men to walk around shirtless but not women. The only difference is that one doesn't exceed how far the stomach sticks out and the other does. The stereotype on people's chests need to be gotten rid of, it can cause damage in so many ways.

[@technounionrepresentative4274]

Yeah guys need to wear shirts as well, trust me guys hate other men who walk around shirtless

[@tomdobson9343]

#freethenipple

[@Dnd-Versatility]

5 minutes for all you need to know... Can't they show this at sex ads? It's like 1/9 of the lesson

[@christiantaylor1495]

Teddy Kuma It would have to be stressed that societies benefit from having gender roles though.

[@Dnd-Versatility]

Christian Taylor you can have more than one video tho. Just make sex ad better overal

[@mindful_alice]

I liked how the video tries to explain a complicated and nuanced topic in an approachable and non-judgemental way. One thing I would add is that not conforming to societal expectations of gender doesn’t mean that you must identify as non-binary or transgender (although it might). You may still identify with the gender you were assigned at birth (or you might not). I wanted to clarify this because there’s one part in the video where it sounded like the narrator was saying these people are by definition non-binary or transgender (e.g. a girl who likes action figures) and I’m pretty sure that wasn’t their intention. They also said that gender identity is how we identify and how we personally interpret our gender, which makes sense to me.

[@SupremeMarioGamer]

sex: biology gender: identity (also only 2) orientation: preference

[@mysryuza]

Agree

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

You are right

[@parfaiyaki]

ye

[@daemontargaryon9534]

thank you!! im so tired of feeling the need to be pulled to one belief or another. this reminds me that i really can have my own opinion that varies from both sides and that i really dont need to side myself with anyone when i dont want to. so thank you

[@seannotconnery8191]

this

[@deupree29]

Pan sexuals aren't usually mentioned at all. Thanks for not forgetting us!

[@kazimirishere9670]

Can you do a video on dysphoria and how to treat it please. Because I hate dealing with this and I know alot of other people do aswell

[@Money_Fox]

then don't make dumb mistakes

[@Chill_Man]

@@Money_Fox that’s not what dysphoria is but whatever-

[@cjck1344]

i don’t wanna start a fight so uuhhhHhHhHhhh i like garlic bread-

[@iminvisible873]

Casey Heart what about other breads or plain garlic why is garlic not good on its own did you get the garlics consent!!!!!!

[@skerion7956]

Did you just assume that bread was garlic?

[@Carology_psl]

Huh! Same! I'm not NB but garlic bread is the shit

[@luuuuux_]

Garlic bread is the greatest

[@English_Mapper24]

Yes same yum 😋. I’m craving garlic bread now . Mmmm 😋

[@DorkyDezzi]

Finally figured myself out watching your videos Sex: Female Gender: Gender fluid Orientation: Panromantic Demisexual

[@dardick1213]

Good for you

[@quicklepicklethecat2386]

Congrats

[@uc-dw5yh]

congrats 🌈

[@smokenotfire]

Congrats! Welcome to the nonbinary community! (By nonbinary I mean every gender outside of girl and boy)

[@aster9809]

congrats! i'm born female and genderfluid too

[@Tintin-wo4wc]

This is really nicely animated and very informational. Good work!

[@Jorge-ru9ek]

Im a psychology student and since i stoped with the humanists perspective to a more scientific one I realized that the fact that gender its just and only a matter of social construct is highly put into question once you enter into the world of sociobiology and evolutionary phsychology. Nature vs Nurture in a more holistic way and less idiological one I guess.

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

YES YES YES I've researched a lot on that, you're right!

[@sebi821]

Care to elaborate? Love to learn about a different point of view.

[@Jorge-ru9ek]

hey! maybe youd like to read some stuff of Steven Pinker, Edward O. Wilson or Melissa Hines! :)

[@Ninjaananas]

Jorge Don't you know what cultures are? And how can gender not be a social construct when it is actually something from social sciences and is indivisible dependend on culture?

[@Jorge-ru9ek]

Ninjaananas. I do know what cutlure is. Gender is built from a combination of biology and culture, not just biology and not just culture, someone who says the opposite is trying to sell you and idiology.

[@Kaazzoo_]

I wish you would have talked about the difference between Romantic Orientation (r.o) and Sexual Orientation (S.O) and how you can be panromantic but heterosexual.

[@breathequietly872]

Kawaii Taco I was thinking that also^^ but I’m sure they will make a video on that separately sense it can get a bit more complicated and might need more explaining^^

[@sonofthg]

I am a straight white dude, former soldier. Pretty typical vision of someone who knows nothing about any of this, but it is really cool to know more and understand those around me better, ty for the education! It's obviously true that quite a lot can and has been said on these topics but it's nice to have a place to start

[@English_Mapper24]

I’m a heterosexual cisgender white girl who loves shopping and wants to be a nurse

[@totalwreck7435]

​@@English_Mapper24 r u 2 dating yet

[@English_Mapper24]

@@totalwreck7435 dating who

[@GabS-o1m]

For everyone: You are loved and worthy regardless of gender and sexuality. ❤️🌈

[@UsedAlex_FJ]

:)

[@chiggywiggy524]

:)

[@jeffelmore5614]

Even shitty and evil people?

[@ImmaWrongdoer]

CAP

[@Bagbonk]

@@ImmaWrongdoer :(

[@abee948]

THANK YOU FOR THIS

[@smilefishyish]

The only thing I would mention is that bisexuals aren't just attracted to "the opposite and same genders" but rather bisexuals are attracted to multiple genders (which includes non-binary people) not just men and women. Great video otherwise though! I sent this to some family members who were curious to learn more about the LGBTQ+ community!

[@noomanuu]

sorry but there are only 2 genders.

[@springtime44]

What about cats and dogs

[@smilefishyish]

@@springtime44 what about them? I’ve had both as pets 🥰 lmao

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Bi means 2 tho. As in men and women, does'nt matter If they are this or that mentaly its an atraction of physical bodies. Everyone is attracted to people hovever

[@danepain]

Bisexuality has always implied being attracted to BOTH of the only two genders, hence the bi.

[@stm7810]

People with dysphoria: yeah this is accurate Scientists: simplified, but yeah, this is true. Psychologists: glad to see this message spreading. Moron: there's only 2! HotDog and Bun!!!

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Scientists who dont do gender studies: nope, look up John Money, belief does'nt make reality thats delusion

[@stm7810]

@@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj actually his experiments proove that you are the gender you identify as and not the one you're raised as. that kid didn't just be a girl since they were raised as 1 with a feminine body. thanks for supporting my argument with your stupidity.

[@zeklez1164]

What some of you "2 genders" people seem to forget is that not everyone is the same. Not everyone is like you. Not everyone feels comfortable with being male or female and simply RESPECTING WHAT THEY WANT TO BE CALLED would solve this whole issue. I don't care if you disagree, it's the other person's business, not YOURS to tell them who they are or what they should be. It's really immature tbh

[@arsongotbannedbouttime5542]

Your comment is very nice and not idiotic! I'm happy that your trying to tell people that not everyone is the same

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

What you seem to forget is belief does'nt beat reality, look up John Money and not your sosialy constructed cock

[@trentons2000]

This was surprisingly well done! Both Alex in the original writing, and Catherine with the video script, did an excellent job in presenting their findings. I just wish the sources to the actual psychological research was more readily available in both mediums.

[@theidpboi6205]

69th liker, i'll have you know

[@danieleoduro3829]

The issue we need to fight is actually GENDER STEREOTYPE ROLES!!. I can be male and love pink (i actually do) and its totally fine. I'm still male. Womanhood is a social construct, it changes in every culture the expectations of women. This is where people get confused. The similarities in gender/sex are due to the fact that biological females/males have traits that are common to them cross culturally because of pure biology. Female brain has specific traits, the same goes for males. Then society adds its expectations on us too. And if gender is a social construct why do you need to transition to feel accepted. Does a change of perspective and mind not enough? Or maybe leaving the place in which you dont feel comfortable in your skin to another place where gender stereotypes are not that crazy. Or better being a part of this movement against gender stereotypes!!! Bcos I personally think when you transition society wins. The new transitioned you is still connected to what society expects a sex certain sex to behave. (I.e being able to use make-up now as a transwoman is still a social construct, who said only women can use that? Society! You are still living a according to the social construct!! And furthermore you also prove the point that sex and gender are intrisincally connected and not that separated as the preach it!! Since you feel transitioning would get you closer to your gender expression

[@trentons2000]

@@danieleoduro3829 I’m not reading whatever transphobic nonsense this is bro you’re replying to a 4 year old comment wtf

[@danieleoduro3829]

​@@trentons2000bcos I have watched the video now and I'm commenting!! Is that difficult to understand??? Videos are meant to be watched over long periods of time!!!

[@trentons2000]

@@danieleoduro3829 okay but why did you reply to MY comment? I don’t wanna see your transphobic nonsense

[@kabo0m]

I learned something: the difference between gender and Sexual orientation, which are often incorrectly thought to be the same thing. However, gender and sexual orientation are two distinct aspects of our identity. Gender is personal (how we see ourselves), while sexual orientation is interpersonal (who we are physically, emotionally and/or romantically attracted to).

[@5th-Season]

I define gender as either being born a male or female. Sexual orientation who you wanna f**k. How you see yourself is just self perception, and how you feel is just your feelings. I dont understand this idea that gender is separate from biological sex. If it's not decided by biological sex, then it's decided by how you feel, which changes all the time, and really becomes a meaningless term.

[@Money_Fox]

go to Venezuela

[@danieleoduro3829]

The issue we need to fight is actually GENDER STEREOTYPE ROLES!!. I can be male and love pink (i actually do) and its totally fine. I'm still male. Womanhood is a social construct, it changes in every culture the expectations of women. This is where people get confused. The similarities in gender/sex are due to the fact that biological females/males have traits that are common to them cross culturally because of pure biology. Female brain has specific traits, the same goes for males. Then society adds its expectations on us too. And if gender is a social construct why do you need to transition to feel accepted. Does a change of perspective and mind not enough? Or maybe leaving the place in which you dont feel comfortable in your skin to another place gender stereotypes are not that crazy. Or better being a part of this movement against gender stereotypes!!! Bcos I personally think when you transition society wins. The new transitioned you is still connected to what society expects a sex certain sex to behave. (I.e being able to use make-up now as a transwoman is still a social construct, who said only women can use that? Society! You are still living a according to the social construct!! And furthermore you also prove the point that sex and gender are intrisincally connected and not that separated as the preach it!! Since you feel transitioning would get you closer to your gender feelings!

[@Gwynhyvr]

I'd be super surprised if there was another asexual lithromantic non-binary person in these comments. But hey, if you're any part of the LGBT+, I hope you're having a great day.

[@zer0_ner034]

Sam Wildeshire What if they're not part of the LGBT?

[@Gwynhyvr]

Zer0_ Ner0 I suppose you can still have a great day. ❤

[@cyberdemon6669]

Serious question...is asexualism a choice? Also, do you enjoy being as so? My knee jerk reaction is that this is not a good outlook to have and your mind is probably full of personal torment.

[@janLilin]

What's lithromantic?

[@ginger6readspaceman]

@@janLilin Lithromantic means that a person could see a person and feel a romantic attraction. But as they get to know them the feelings go away. It's basically the opposite of Demisexual

[@JBJune]

To clarify: Gender isn't necessarily "whatever you make it out to be", as that could be interpreted as people can identify as _anything._ What they mean is that there's male, female, and then there's the in between (or trans). Most people identify as either strictly male, or strictly female, but some people identify as trans, and there's nothing wrong with either of those things. But don't get your panties in a twist over it, it's not a big deal. If someone refers to you as the gender you don't identify with, then just politely and calmly ask them to call you by a different title. If you accidentally mistake someone's gender identity, and they politely ask for a different title, then be respectful and do as they ask. There's no need to be pushy about what you identify as, or what you think someone should be identified as. It would just make the world a slightly better place if we could all stop fretting over gender identity and move on to more important things.

[@charliealmar8862]

Why did I click on this video? I should have known the comments would be filled with hate

[@Psych2go]

Try to overlook the hate, remember to see all the wonderful people who are supporters, tolerant and respectful.

[@alexdaisy9016]

People confuse this three? Sex is genitals Gender is how you feel and what pronouns u want people to use when they talk about u And orientation is who you want to love (To sum up i guess)

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

John Money agrees, and he loves children, alot, very much, touches them even

[@English_Mapper24]

Sex and gender are same thing . People with a penis act like men and are masculine and use he/him People with a vulva act like women and are feminine and use she/her

[@415-HH]

to sum it up: 1) sex is prenatal dna 2) transgenderism is egoist consumerist culture 3)orientation is preferences for what feels good currently (neurocircuitry, learned preference, conditioning, the whole shebang) imo

[@shivangiverma2477]

USA schools may be failing sex ed standards but schools in my country don't even talk about sex. Hell, I'm 20 and my mother is yet to give me the sex talk! Even talking about sex is taboo here. If a girl loses her virginity before marriage it becomes a huge deal among the older generation in my country. So sex ed or lack of sex ed is not only a USA centric problem, it needed here too

[@yuricooperwell7473]

Hey psych2go, pink💖 ain’t for girls, blue💙 ain’t for boys 💜 purple on the other hand though...

[@mushvoo]

hMMMMM

[@joshconnolly4309]

i think that a lot of the things in this video were extremely solid and unbiased but i did notice that a couple times sex and gender were used interchangeably, after stating they are different. i’m not gonna get into my opinions but i do wanna see if y’all can make a future video like a part 2 that explains further to some younger kids who may be interested/ starting to find ideas that they can begin to ground their beliefs in. thanks!

[@themilkman8554]

I noticed that too... trying to educate people but can't even be consistent with their own terms/definitions. I'm honestly fed up with people trying to push their reality onto me when there is no truth, everything is relative apparently.

[@Oli_Bird3041]

Love the person just for their personality

[@rakeshchandan007]

Basic facts told in this video...ignorant dislikers shall open up their minds

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Basic facts like sex = gender and feelings wont warp that

[@robertjones1886]

3:18 "bisexual people are attracted to people of BOTH genders." Both: used to refer to two people or things. So you're confirming there are only two genders.

[@Vic2point0]

Good catch!

[@shai17altamiranoanco77]

I think tjey were trying to say that bisexuals are only attracted to the male and female gender Pamsexuality also exists and it defines people who are attracted to humans, so they believe in multiple genders

[@ashiech9537]

people dont realize that personality characteristics =/= genders. just because youre a girl but youre into sports rather than the stereotypical dresses and pink clothing, that doesnt mean you identify as a boy, or identify as some made up gender. People are saying to respect these people and use the correct pronouns, but all that's doing is glorifying a mental illness. It's like calling someone who is anorexic "beautiful and healthy", but that just encourages their issue. The only exception i see with this are people who actually struggle with gender identity biologically(xxy chromosomes). I would just like to respectfully disagree with anyone who believes there are more to genders than boy and girl, and to anyone who thinks they can switch it up whenever they want; this is how I view it.

[@whattheheckamidoinghere4305]

I'm a girl and I'm learning to cook because once you out of the High School doors, you realize that reality hit you harder than criminals, just saying.

[@jacobduarte2298]

Sex, boy. Gender identity, boy. Outward gender, more on the feminine side. Gender expression, non-binary. Sexual orientation, heterosexual. Gender is complicated, but this video helped me alot.

[@urlocalcoffeepot]

Hi! I'd like to clear something up, 'Non binary' isn't a type of gender expression, it's an identity. I think what you meant was androgynous (laments terms: presenting as a mixture of masculinity and femininity, or, lack there of feminine and masculine qualities) P. s (I know it's been a year but hey, better late then never I guess)

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

John Money will clear it up for you, in fact he discovered it

[@CS-fv2sn]

To all the people trying to poke holes in the gender description: this is an informative video. Its giving a dumbed down, simplistic explanation of different genders. of course someone's personality traits don't dictate their gender... only the person themselves can dictate their gender. But for people looking for more information (and not an argument) this video provides a basic idea of how non binary people identify. If you're still confused, there are a ton of resources online in which actual non binary people describe their experiences. and if you actually listen instead of arguing over something you can never personally understand and probably know nothing about, perhaps you'll learn something.

[@oliviavanhook1183]

Just as long as it’s understandable and you’re happy, I’m okay.

[@doppiosfrogphone2686]

I’m a confusing mess... I want to buy a binder to hide my boobs cause I hate them and want to be a boy... but then idk how far I gotta go or something like that. It’s hard to explain

[@tomsagamesisbackagain.3808]

Not gonna lie I feel the same bro.

[@aster9809]

there are cheap once online! there are also binders disguised as normal sports bras so if your parents dont like the idea of you binding you can lie to them. i can send the link to ya also there are binder giveaways if you or your parents cant buy them

[@Eli-cv7kv]

@@aster9809 cheap binders can sometimes be incredibly painful to wear and can cause more damage than getting a properly made binder from sites such as gc2b. If financially it's hard to purchase one there are giveaways like you've said that can offer them and sites such as mermaids who will be able to provide you with a properly made binder for free or minimal payment. Just wanted to clear this up because purchasing one is slightly better than buying one from sites like amazon or eBay because if sizes are wrong it can have very damaging effects. Hope this helps x

[@aster9809]

@@Eli-cv7kv oh, sorry i know some things about binders but im not perfect

[@Eli-cv7kv]

@@aster9809 that's okay! Not everyone knows about this kinda stuff but it is important to be aware of it so people don't hurt themselves. Besides, I don't know everything about binders either so dw :))

[@hunterallsup2951]

I want to start a serious discussion here, what's wrong with identifying people based solely on their sex parts (intersex included too) and letting identity/expression/orientation be their own separate entity. I see a lot of hate with identifying people as male or female and I don't see the problem with it. I understand people have identity issues and denying them their identity can be detrimental to their mental and physical health, but I wouldn't think it would be offensive if we just treated sex as a separate thing like hair color or height and allow people to identify and express however they like. Also thank you for not turning you're comments off because I've never been able to have this kind of discussion before. I'm here to learn and grow.

[@flowersir7335]

Edit: I just realized that I think I read your comment wrong. My apologies.

[@davida6146]

I'm a non-binary, gender neutral, asexual, transforming-homoerotic lesbian with homosexual tendencies... I'm also a homeopathic doctor.

[@ryoki_PH]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH GUYSSSSSS!!!

[@spikebaltar5071]

Not for long.

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

No thanks, i don't need a birthday party for my sexuality

[@electrajones5462]

So important that we begin with agreed upon vocabulary. Awesome video. Thank you.

[@beardog6569]

Thank you for acknowledging the biology of sex and the variations that exist as well. A very loud minority are trying to claim that sex itself is a social construct. I think it is for political reasons because if you equate sex to gender then the interpretations of many laws will change. Personally, I'm open to people expressing themselves however they feel. Gay, bi... be free. Be trans. Be what you feel you want to be. Whatever is healthiest for you. God knows there are many non heterosexual people trying to fit themselves into the hetero box... and that isn't healthy. The things l would add: Children are a serious case we need to be careful with. They can believe they are many things - like Superman or a fairy - but leave that behind through development. The rush to chemically alter children is a concern to me. Not because l think being trans is wrong, but because adults can't be sure that what a child expresses is something that is transient or permanent. Apart from that, I'm all in favour of anyone doing what they feel is right for them, or at least pursuing it. Think about how committed you would need to feel to your gender to change your body, life style... tell family, friends and workmates... That takes real balls, no matter what sex or gender you are. - an actual biologist

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

The dose for cancer treatment with lupron or leuprorelin is 3.7 to 7.6 Transitioning or blocking puberty aka given to 12 year olds and recomended by "medical experts" is 11 to 20+ ml for children, many of them admit that they wish to "see where it goes" or "what happens" or "they don't know the side effects yet". Using a human to test something sounds quite familiar, hmmmm Mind you this drug has killed and made people insane from the pain at just a few shots, side effects are similar to long exposure to radiation, imagine giving it to children at 3-7 times the dosage an adult would take against cancer but for 6 years instead of half a year. The last guy who chucked down 4 pills is now in a coma.

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Also also look up John Money

[@punpun9053]

Gender Dysphoria.

[@grinchyskellington]

Pun Pun thats me

[@heglegowo2771]

Derlynatri me too

[@hopelessly.lavenderly]

big mood™

[@kaous5690]

Uhm yeah some of nb people and all trans people have it

[@hopelessly.lavenderly]

Fuanteina Nightcore you don't need to have gender dysphoria to be trans

[@pilotsthatpanic-1215]

There’s three SEXES. THE PARTS BETWEEN YOUR LEGS. (Intersex) Multiple gender IDENTITIES. HOW YOU FEEL. NOT THE SAME THING AS SEX. Multiple gender EXPRESSIONS. HOW YOU CHOOSE TO EXPRESS YOUR GENDER IDENTITY. And Multiple orientations for these things.

[@tunesquicklee]

exactly. and all of the above is backed up by science!!

[@akidoesrandomthings9125]

Actually, there are 3 sexes, because people are born intersex

[@pilotsthatpanic-1215]

Congratulations Alexander thanks for reminding me of that

[@nathansmith720]

Not fully correct. There are more than two sexes. Sex is dependent mostly on chromosomes and there are more than two combinations for humans.

[@akidoesrandomthings9125]

Pilots that Panic! - No problem :)

[@thegoddessofedge]

Spread the love, y'all

[@HalloWitch93]

I'm a biological male, but all my life I've had this particular fixation on femininity. And within the last year and a half, having freed myself from the residual effects of a brainwashed childhood, I've started taking up crossdressing and exploring my feminine side more thoroughly. Maybe I fall somewhere on the spectrum? I'm not sure. I'm hesitant to make any conclusive statements here as I know so little about modern ideas of gender identity and have only just recently started learning things about myself that I never even realized.

[@RonCrown]

You're still male. Your personality just gravitated to this because that's the activities you like to partake in. This gender thing is nonsense. Activities you partake in do not make you a woman. Enjoy your crossdressing and dont let people make you feel bad about it.

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Femboy and tomboy, look up proffesor lando he will yelp you out

[@HalloWitch93]

@@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj Thanks, I will!

[@TheobaldLeonhart]

I have a few things that I’d like to mention - Bisexual means “attracted to two genders”, they just so happen to be commonly male+female - I haven’t seen much of this, but it is possible for a nonbinary person (or enby) to be straight/gay, it’s just slightly different than the normal definition For example, I identify as homoromantic (gay). But for me, it’s different than the normal definition. Instead of being attracted to males or females, I’m attracted to other enbies And, let’s say you’re nonbinary, but you feel more masculine/feminine. You could use the labels “nonbinary gay/lesbian” or “nonbinary straight” - Orientation is split into two categories: sexual, and romantic Sexual, sometimes referred to as sexuality, refers to something that is physical. You’re attracted to people who have a certain body, you want to have sex with them, etc. Romantic, refers to emotions/feelings. You’re attracted to a certain personality, you want someone that makes you feel a certain way, etc. Sexuality, and romantic orientation, are completely separate from each other, most people just so happen to usually have them “match” For example, I’m asexual homoromantic. Someone else can be bisexual homoromantic, etc. - Similar to bisexual, bigender means “feeling like you’re two genders”, people just usually feel male/female. For example, I’m bigender. However, I’m agender/demimale, not female/male - When referring to gender and sexual/romantic orientation, there’s a “demi”. However, it has a different meaning for the two Demigender means “not fully”. As in, you don’t fully identify as a gender (usually male ir female). Like, I mentioned in a previous point, that I’m demimale (along with agender). This means that I don’t fully identify as a male Demisexual/demiromantic means “not immediately”. As in, you feel a sexual/romantic attraction to someone, after a connection with them is formed. For example, I’m demiromantic. While I “can” think someone is cute, I don’t start developing romantic feelings for them, until after we’ve made a connection - There’s also QPP/QPR (aka “queer platonic pal”/“queer platonic relationship”), but I believe it has different means for each individual

[@JTorres719]

The universe is a social construct!

[@bastianbreitenbach4723]

John Torres could be!

[@Mech-Badger-Man]

What we know of the know of the universe is, but what is really is is not effected by our views or opinions, unlike our perception.

[@patrickhector]

I feel like the description of "sex" could be expanded upon a little- not only can physical characteristics betray genetic makeup, your genes aren't always strictly "xx" and "xy". There are several genetic disorders that result in "x", "xxy", "xxxy", so on and so forth. Here's a complete list: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_chromosome_anomalies So the definition of "sex", even separated from gender, is not black-and-white. And this is hard biological science, not psychology. Hopefully this gives people a bit of context when considering the grey areas of self-identified gender.

[@breathequietly872]

Thanks for making this video! I’ve been trying to explain this to my mom, and the way you explained it really helped her understand^^

[@robrot404]

shes already disappointed, but good job for trying

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

Robrot You don't have to be rude

[@breathequietly872]

Robrot really? Hmmm^^ thanks for the input^^ I really appreciate it! I’m sure your family thinks the very same

[@iniguezawsome]

Robrot you're an ass

[@breathequietly872]

Robrot nope^^ that’s just how I text^^ now how about you be quite^^ because believe me you don’t want to mess with me. I’m a VERY scary person^^ also have fun with you so called ‘life’^^ also you’re welcome lowly human for being able to be in my presence.^^ hope you have a wonderful night^^

[@Lilaclightning12]

Who needs arguments in the comments when we have Five nights at Freddy’s security breach

[@danielalt7508]

Just a reflection about if orientation is "which gender we like". Would that mean that if a girl has gender boy, and boy has gender boy, and they like each other - they are gay?

[@username4864]

yeah they would be gay

[@English_Mapper24]

Yes. If they both have a penis then ye. If a trans man married a women then that’s lesbian cuz the trans man still has a vag***

[@raliballen1]

Being “Feminine” or “ Masculine” should have nothing to do with your sex. They are just stereotypical roles society has gotten used to labeling things with. We shouldn’t even call behaviors feminine or masculine. Being a male is masculine and being a female is feminine. Your personality just makes you who you are. You don’t have to be a female to be emotional and passive and you don’t have to be a male to be aggressive, logical, and dominant. Calling behaviors, objects, ideas, etc feminine or masculine confuses people because it makes them think it’s weird to do those things if it doesn’t match their sex.

[@joelfairchildunderwood9843]

Female and male brains are physically different look it up.

[@raliballen1]

Joel Fairchild Underwood yes but not as much as people make it out to be. Humans are the only species that judges each other. Every other animal just acts like itself. You can barley tell the difference between a female and male dog for example besides biological features.

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

@@joelfairchildunderwood9843 only the cerebellum is 6% bigger on males, how they act is the biproduct of hormones

[@Ghost_with_Bow]

I'm still a noob in these topics. I know there's a lot to this, and I want a good and solid understanding. So thanks, I learn a lot from your videos.

[@foxthemess518]

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen on this. This is very accurate very clear information. Good job.

[@kabo0m]

Gender is an amalgamation of several elements: chromosomes (those X’s and Y’s), anatomy (internal sex organs and external genitals), hormones (relative levels of testosterone and estrogen), psychology (self-defined gender identity), and culture (socially defined gender behaviors).

[@lloyddragon2036]

Happy pride month from a bisexual (panromantic) non-binary transgender person THANK YOU for making this video

[@milesworld426]

HOLY FRICK FRACK IT'S MY TWIN! AAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Non binary and trans? If you don't feel like a man or a woman how an you tell you either needed to be a man or a woman?

[@emelingrace4186]

This information needs to be shown in schools at middle school level. It would help stop a lot of bullying and heartache.

[@cuckoo_head]

Ellea Arin at what age exactly? small kids can't handle these type of knowledge

[@iniguezawsome]

Were indoctrinating kids enough as it is

[@salem_8493]

Ellea Arin It should be shown in 7th grade

[@emelingrace4186]

Queen yeah. 6th or 7th grade

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Teaching children about a persons beliefs is outlawed John Money is the guy

[@petersalucci5444]

I’m probably an intersex. And I used to be Transgender.... I’m a 14-15 year old boy And I’ve always had a feminine personality. I’m definitely not your typical rough boy. And when I was younger I would ask my mom if I was girl because that’s just how I Felt.... I felt way to much like a girl than a boy. It’s also the reason why I’ve always been Able to socialise with the opposite gender more than my own. Now, I’m not gay, but People stereotype me as gay because I have a feminine personality, and it annoys me Because, a tomboy isn’t always stereotyped as lesbian, but when u get a guy doing Girly things he is considered gay. Now I’m not hating on gay but it’s kinda frustrating When people always stereotype u the first time u meet them. But I’m happy that I’m A boy, I wouldn’t change myself for the world, but I still do keep in contact with my feminine Side and that’s just who I am. 😁 Thx for the vid :)

[@tvbnine793]

Am I the only one who gets pissed when people say shit like OMG YOU CHOOSE TO BE GAY like bullshit no you don't....

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Thats what lgbt said to me all the time "oh homosexuality and bisexuality goes under gender", "oh gender is q social construct and you learn your gender from someone around you"

[@satanisjustanemoangel6930]

Yaaasss teach people the difference queen

[@garrylawson1470]

sophia K oh my...

[@Oddity2994]

So many people think I'm a guy I honestly just don't care. I identify with female pronouns and was born a female but just use what you want.

[@alicewolf2888]

I love the new intro

[@ravenclawsden2103]

Alice Wolf same! Except for the bell sound at the end of it.

[@ShankX10]

Look I like you guys but I will just say I dont agree with some of this.

[@nightingem]

Shank X it’s a good thing you don’t have to agree or disagree because it’s fact! You can’t just disagree with someone’s gender, it’s still an intrinsic part of their being.

[@ShankX10]

Look gender wise I do not care about the pink for girls and blue for boys type of stuff you can dress and act how ever you want but lets say on a piece of identification you must wright down your sex you may feel like your a girl but physically your a boy the only time I can see that changing is if you are on hormones or have gone threw surgery. And with orientation I think straight bi and gay are the only 3 we need everything else makes it more complicated then it has to be. If you want to question me I am happy to have a discussion.

[@mysryuza]

same

[@edietriesart1885]

Yeah, I have to agree with Shank X as well. I believe there are two genders, male and female. Though I’m open to new ideas so long as there are real and scientific evidence of other genders that exist. Like transgender people, there’s proof that transgenderism is real and I believe that you need gender dysphoria to be trans. No disrespect, just throwing it out there.

[@jjacksonwright]

Shank X While it is great to see that you’re more tolerant than most people, i will have to disagree with you on the fact of there only needing to be 3 sexual orientations. There are more than just those 3. This doesn’t make things more complicated, it actually makes things more simple, this diversity of sexual orientations give people a label that fits them more accordingly. While labels generally aren’t good, in the LGBT community, they help identify our gender, sexual orientation(s) and romantic attraction(s)

[@pikseel8806]

I like eating paper

[@HeroSandwitch]

Just a question, why does everyone use blue for male and pink for female? Colours ≠ Gender (my thoughts)

[@random.-person]

it actually used to be the opposite! It used to be pink for males and blue for females, and it was because of "Pink is a strong colour, perfect for the boy, while blue is a dainty colour, which is prettier for the girl"

[@tomdobson9343]

@@random.-person the reason why it changed is actually really dark it was because they used pink triangles to identify gay men in consentration camps in ww2 so society saw that as feminine

[@random.-person]

@@tomdobson9343 o h

[@thescarytransperson]

cis people are weird and need to gender everything. but yes, in history it was mostly boys = pink and girls = blue

[@English_Mapper24]

I like green and pink so ig I like boy and girl colors ? 🤣

[@thebelligerentbull]

Wow, thank you SO MUCH for creating this! Society is STILL so ignorant on this topic and we need more straight-forward and simple explanations like this circulating on the internet. I live in NYC and even though this is a very open-minded city people by and large still expect that because I am a transgendered woman that I must want a female body and that "transitioning" always means taking hormones and getting surgery. I still have to educate my friends and acquaintances that my gender has NOTHING to do with my body and is simply a result of where I fall on the feminine to masculine scale in regards to my personality. Therefore, my pronoun preference also reflects my position on that scale. I am patient because I know they love me and it's simply because they have been taught otherwise and there is much confusion out there around this topic. Thank you again for cutting through the confusion with this content.

[@bakedbeans5494]

Loser.

[@LittleTimmy2016]

Uhhh thank you five year old psych to go video for kickstarting my genderqueer awakening Last time i watched this video i was wearing pants, i am now in a pretty ass skirt

[@sadtimepensive9638]

I'm a pansexual transbøy Happy pride mønth

[@sadtimepensive9638]

Human Qrystal 🌈🏳

[@sadtimepensive9638]

JustVannah 🏳🌈

[@bamboo-3125]

KitKatKittens Yes "Shut the up" Makes sense

[@assassinscreedreallifepran1080]

@@bamboo-3125 Oh yeah, sure ~sarcarsm XD

[@aaro3455]

can I ask how old are you?

[@lebyam1512]

This is one of the many reasons I subscribed

[@jackhandma1011]

The absurd thing is when it comes to sports, people consider the gender of the participant. It should be obvious to anyone that sports are separated not by gender but by biological sex.

[@seanf1451]

❌️ Trans men (biological females) have even more of an advantage over cis women. That's what testosterone does (this is assuming that's their transition journey, so maybe not)

[@felineartsy]

I 👏 LOVE 👏 HOW 👏 YOU 👏 PUT 👏 PANSEXUAL 👏 ON 👏 IT'S 👏 OWN👏 It shows how it's different from bisexual because most of the time when I say I'm pan it's either pan like what you cook with is mentioned or someone saying isn't that bisexual?

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

So you like dogs? Children? Corpses? Inanimate objects? I only get a yes when its a man and a woman

[@byrne6340]

thid is probably the first video I've seen on the matter. It was a lot of time ago, but I've figured out I'm bisexual and agender. So, thank you. This kind of information is always valuable.

[@mushvoo]

I'm asexual and bigender O.o

[@byrne6340]

@@mushvoo yay! :>

[@rx500android]

You nailed the sex part, the orientation was OK, but you didn't explain it very well, and gender... Yeah. That's not really how gender works.

[@psychxdxlicsadnxss7714]

You should make a video on little space/age play and how it deals with coping with anxiety.

[@mango.spams3]

Dangerous Mistake yes please, people are saying it's illegal to be a underaged little (like under 18)

[@psychxdxlicsadnxss7714]

meiko da Fox Tbh I'm an underaged little, but I feel that if it's not a sexual relationship, being a little is not harmful. I regress for my stress and other reasons, not to be 'illegal'.

[@mango.spams3]

Dangerous Mistake oh.

[@andrewnovak1390]

age regression and being a little are two different things. If you're a minor and you age regress its ok, but don't join the CGL/littlespace community which is strictly for adults and its a literal kink :/ Don't put yourself in danger