10 Things People Get Wrong About Asexual People

Are you asexual? Somebody who identifies as Asexual is somebody who does not experience sexual attraction or an intrinsic desire to have sexual relationships. There appears to be a lot of stereotyping when it comes to sexuality and what it means to identify as a certain sexual orientation. This may be down to people not fully understanding what it means to be asexual or how other people experience asexuality. To end the stigma, here are a few things people get wrong about asexual people.
Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes only and not designed to suggest that if you relate to anything mentioned within this article that you are Asexual. The points made in this video have been researched and taken from other sources according to assumptions that are made about asexual people. if you suspect that you or somebody you know may be asexual, then always confide in somebody you trust to talk about it.
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[@LocalAceAJ]

An ace: *finds someone attractive* Someone: I thought you don’t find anyone attractive? An ace: I’m not sexually attracted to people (sometimes), that doesn’t mean I’m blind

[@Yamaguchi_Tadashi]

Right! Like I might not wanna do it with them but hey doesnt mean they cant look smoking hot and like I couldnt date them-

[@avacadotoast5571]

I mean you can like how someone looks and not want to do it with them god

[@PestilentAllosaurus]

Like I told my mother, who tried to 'catch me lying Me, commenting on a well put together and nice looking pop-star. "I *thought* you said you aren't attracted by anything?" Me: Well I still appreciate beauty and what looks nice! Doesn't mean I feel sexual attraction towards them! I don't see you wanting to **** that nice looking car you thinks look nice. There's a big difference. " She's.... still in the mindset that my asexuality is because I haven't found 'the right one' or it's because I'm sick with no energy. I've... always been this way and it made me very confused about myself until recently (33yrs old) When I finally understood what Asexuality was and how it suddenly opened my eyes that what I experienced, had a name. That I wasn't alone..

[@Foolbound282]

I would've ruined the 420 likes, but the person before me beat me to it

[@justarandompersongwen9928]

I had a crush before now i don't since I'm a Ace :l

[@zanon__]

"Asexual women do not get periods or do not have a uterus"This makes my head hurt in so many different ways.

[@krisztinailles5620]

Same. Though it would be nice in some cases. TwT Imagine if having periods were optional. That's be great. (In my opinion at least.) What do you think?

[@hafsahossain1394]

@@krisztinailles5620 I'm heteroromantic asexual and I'm trying to figure out if I'm demi-romantic as well.In my case,as I'm a sex repulsed asexual,I believe I'm not gonna have sex ever and I also don't want children.So I know as I don't want a uterus,it would have been great if I didn't had one.I wish didn't have periods every month..

[@krisztinailles5620]

@@hafsahossain1394 Understandable... periods can be such a pain for women. For me it's just annoying thankfully, but I still don't really like it... Also, good luck with finding out if you're demi or not!

[@hafsahossain1394]

@@krisztinailles5620 Me too,I'm gonna have my periods soon and I hate the fact that I've to go through it all over again.Btw thanks for the wellwishing..

[@steeouzie3538]

@@hafsahossain1394 i'm just like you, heteroromantic asexual, sex repulsed, but i would like to have children one day, probably by adoption. Getting told again and again i just didn't find somebody to love is so damaging.. i was beginning to question myself if i really knew what i was.. but seeing i'm not alone reassured me, so thank you very much for being here in the comment section

[@sighara-critchep4234]

Disclaimer: I don’t speak for all ace people, just how I experience it myself. My friend kept asking me questions about me being ace because he just didn’t get it. So when I called someone hot, he said “Hey, I thought you were ace?” I responded, “I can look off the menu, i just won’t order.” He finally got it.

[@akilucky2090]

Ngl that's a good one. I always use the "clothes" or "pizza" reference.

[@pepito6121]

Bruh im gonna steal that line, then maybe my friends will understand too and stop asking uncomfortable questions

[@coffeetree_]

WOOOOAH WAIT, mind if i use that?

[@pokegirl1799]

that is literally the best way I've ever heard ANYBODY explain asexuality

[@theperksofbeingabookworm906]

That’s a great way to put it!

[@_vampzz]

As an asexual, people are always getting things wrong, it’s always “AsExUaLs ArE eMoTiOnLeSs” or “YoU cAnT fEeL aTtRaCtiOn?!?11?1!1” or that, like, sex without love exists so love without sex exists too!

[@swapfealplays]

Ikr right, my sociopathic tendencies have nothing to do with me being ace

[@Roadent1241]

My autism is the thing that makes me 'emotionless'. I can still feel love when bonded, I just want to keep all the clothes on and watch DocWho with my SO, thanks!!

[@vanillaa01]

@@Roadent1241 aw

[@vanillaa01]

@@swapfealplays Exactly hdhdhd

[@Roadent1241]

@@vanillaa01 Thanks XD

[@inezalisa449]

Someone: Do you have a uterus? Me as an asexual woman: Do you have a brain?

[@Flarflenugen]

My coworker's mother thinks the covid vaccinene will turn people trans so I'm not surprised on how stupid the human race can be.

[@ShaimingLong]

@@Flarflenugen Correlation / causation mix ups with a good old dash of wanting to believe they are the few that know, while the rest are oblivious. Makes them feel smart. They also tend to be the kind of people who fall into the memetic theory of believing what sounds convenient and/or beneficial to them or their beliefs, then pass it on to other like-minded people. Much like the pineapple improving the taste of semen myth, starting as a study to see how far it would spread compared to a more mundane lie. The pineapple claim spread so fast, with hundreds of outlets reporting on it and doing their best to try explain it, the origin point was buried and lost. True meme in action. People believe what they want, no proof needed.

[@teraspeXt]

@@Flarflenugen wha...?

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

Seriously though that really is a stupid question.

[@Flarflenugen]

@@ShaimingLong honestly I've eaten pineapples with and without semen and I think I prefer without. Just doesnt taste right, ya know?

[@dionysus913]

“Asexuals are just cold loners who don’t feel emotion” Asexuals: Damn, dat cake looking kinda thicc

[@lianakeirasky3877]

I CHOKED ON MY COFFEE FUCK -

[@Starrii_Skies]

🍰👀

[@kcthefrogusedyt8319]

LMAO

[@detritusthecomicseries7558]

🍰🍰🍰😌😌👉👉

[@realblnts]

@@lianakeirasky3877 LMAOOOO but that cake looking SHEEEESH

[@_Ernest_8347]

Me and my partner are both asexual, and are planning to get married as soon as we can. We have already started planning our wedding together, and have picked out some cute frog rings off the internet. Both of us don't like kissing, and we are planning to have 2 or 3 kids (adopted probably) when our adult lives are stable enough to take care of them ^^

[@lunawolfheart336]

I still don't know how to feel about kissing. Some kinds I like other kinds make me feel wierd but I think it's a sensory thing for me

[@cads4643]

That's great! I hope you and your partner will have an amazing marriage and a amazing family!

[@sway1623]

Awwww! I wish you two the best of luck!

[@_Ernest_8347]

@@cads4643 thank you ^^

[@_Ernest_8347]

@@sway1623 thanks a lot :)

[@CairoCreations]

I found out (at 16 I might add) that people date for sexual reasons and not just because they wanted to bake pies, live in a tiny house together, cuddle with tea when it’s cold and go hiking together when it’s warm. Pretty sure I’m ace tbh- Hello- update over half a year later. I should state I’m 18 for this whole story and already identified as asexual. Bout a month or two after I posted this I met a girl- we got really close- she asked if I would date her. Figuring the feeling I had felt toward her was romantic attraction. A month and a half more of dating and after we kissed I just- realized I didn’t feel anything. That I didn’t veil her as any more then a friend. A few talks with my therapist and many sleepless nights later. Me and the girl had a long talk- she had been cheating on me- well I wouldn’t call it cheating since we had only been together for a month at the time she started. But she had been seeing someone else because she felt like I didn’t really love her. I told her about what I had been feeling and how I wasn’t sure about any of this. So we broke it off- it only ever really lasted about 2 months and was the only romantic relationship I’ve ever had. But we didn’t end in an argument, just a mutual agreement that it wouldn’t work out, and we wouldn’t have any bitter feelings toward the other. I went trough a lot, trying to figure out what was wrong with me and why I didn’t love her. I talked with some AroAce friends and thought about it, did some research, and what I was feeling toward her was probably just platonic attraction. I do identify and Aroace now and have no plans of getting into another relationship (obviously) for forever. Identifying as Aroace has been one of the best things that’s ever happened to me, made my life a whole lot better. It makes me feel so much like I’m not “broken” anymore. I feel so much more content with the relationships I have. I may never romantically, or sexually love anyone, but I still have a very happy life filled with love. Platonic love for my friends, familial love with (some) of my family, love form my pets, love of my hobbies and the career I’m pursuing (I’m going to collage to become an ictheologist right now), and just love for the life I’ve built with the help of my friends and family and coworkers and classmates and therapist and everyone else who supports me so much. I lead a life filled with so much love and appreciation now and I can see that. Being Aroace is amazing! Us Aces and Aros and Aroace are out hear living lives and proving that you don’t need sex or a romantic relationship to lead a fulfilling happy life! Stay safe fellows!

[@lemin0u]

I RELATE

[@elizabethwinifred9331]

i didn’t discover this fact until I was like 22 and reading reddit stories where people complained about their partner feeling like a roommate… and I’m over here thinking “isn’t that the goal?”

[@Em_Elizabeth]

That's why I lost my interest in dating, because I was under the impression that s*x must come of it. (And hence why my parents treated "date" like a dirty word.)

[@ulyana_schen]

Man, I can relate. I identified as bisexual constantly saying to myself something like "I can fall in love with everybody, I just don't want to imagine and have sex with them, maybe this will change later". And one day I realized the point- Um, yeah. Biro ace here ✌

[@BlackfireBmo]

I literally remember talking to a guy about that and he was like, “it’s a huge part of the relationship.” And I was like, “really??” Cause I truly didn’t want that haha

[@caramel..]

I just hate when people confuse the difference between being aromantic and asexual

[@randomuser5443]

With all fairness, anything outside of heterosexuality is only now coming to common culture.

[@froggerspoggers_]

Yeah, I used to think that aromantics were all asexual by default, this coming from an asexual, cause no one bothered explaining it to me whenever I brought it up. It wasn't until I actually read about it that I realized they're not necessarily related

[@KoreanMapping]

As a hetero ace I agree

[@dreamy4522]

I agree with that The difference between sexual and romantic attraction should explained more often

[@PsychoChuckGreene]

Asexual used to have a different label back in the day, it’s called “virgin” and we use it as an insult

[@uroboros_8563]

An Asexual here, saying hello to my fellow asexuals. May we find people who understand us and love us.

[@just_jana9959]

Hello from another asexual

[@PsychoChuckGreene]

Hello predators

[@madeleineslater7965]

Hello hello form a fellow ace ❤️

[@horroradorer]

👋 😅

[@doodlefan3256]

Finally, another chaotic person I share something with

[@Lesiosaurus]

As an asexual I’m not completely apposed to the idea of having sex; it’s just never appealed to me and I’ve never understood why people view it as soooo important in relationships. like so important they’d rather not be together than not have sex. Isn’t personal connection more important than physical connection? Maybe just me lol.

[@jeremalice]

Nah man i agree

[@tacothursday7364]

Dw not just you, I fully agree with you

[@aninvisiblepotato8532]

Felt hard

[@maureenseel118]

As a demisexual, to me sex is the ultimate way to be close to someone or a physical expression of an emotion. I can't fathom a one-night stand. I can't imagine being physical with someone unless I was in a deep and meaningful relationship with them. Jason Momoa is hot, but if he offered himself to me on a silver platter, I wouldn't want it.

[@desirod_15]

Hey I have a question- so like can asexuals make out, kiss etc?

[@glitchifier5448]

To all u asexual people, you are so valid and never let others tell u otherwise.🖤 -your local pansexual trans man🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@rafreyes5140]

✨💕

[@box3450]

[@Mcdonalds-Cheeseburger]

Thanks, have this Croissant in Return: פ̶̨̛̹͆̇͋̈́͘p̵̨̳̳̗͍̓̿̐̃H̴̡̛̛͇͉̦͉̟̲͑̓̂͌̈́͝ſ̵͕͉̹̅͊̈́̆̾̉͝͝פ̵̨̮̲̮̪̦̣͔́͋̓̚͜͝ſ̸̮̀̿͋͐̅͛̍͒͠פ̶̹͕̲̙͔̳̺̮͂̂͝͝͝Λ̸̨̱͖̖̗̗͆̈̇͆H̵̡̀̂̚p̶̛̜̬͈͙̈́͝ſ̵͇̗̹̞̟̩̦̝̂̾̓̀͊͝Ⅎ̴̤̯̒́̏͝Ⅎ̵̦̟̼̞̜͙̯̓̃┴̸͇̜̂͋͂̀ͅp̷̥̘̥͓͓̊͊́͘ͅ∀̵̢̟͕̹̈͌̊̈́̒̅̓͜͠p̵͙̩͍̾͒̊̄͋̂͝͠͠Ǝ̷̟̗͖̥̱̞̤̑̋̅̌͆͒̎̚p̴̮̐פ̴̮̙̤̭̜̱̹͙̑͊͑̄͘͝Ḩ̵̛̗̺̣͇͖͇̅͗̉̅͊̐̂͐͜Ԁ̸̢̞̤̦͓̥͓̫̜̑̀͂Ỏ̴̝͉̫͊͆̓̓̋͝ʞ̴̢̮̪̻̼̪͖̊̉N̸̨̯̰̝͋̒̽͛̀͝͝q̴̬͇̋͛́͝ʞ̷͓̜́̋͆͝ͅṕ̶͚̝̓̓̀͘ ̵̨̘͚̖̥̝̹̓̇͘S̴̖͉͈͕̉͐Ǝ̸̢̨̛͎̟̲̞̺̮̆̄̊͜Ň̸͓̔͛̐̔̿̚̚O̸̼̖̠͒̐̈͑͐͘q̴̭̘̐̔̈̾́̕Ọ̵̯̭̫̼̻̘̀̽̀̂̉̎͝͠Λ̶̛̝̑̾̀̓פ̶̞̞͑̑̆̒͝͠ſ̶̫͕͚̠͔͇̥͚̹͛̐∩̶̡̢̛̲̟̗̣͈͚̆͌̎̋̕W̸̢̤̟̱͚͍͖̼̌͒̉̍̑̐͌q̶̨̢̘͉̼͙̿̐̎̀̚Λ̷̨͙̘͎̻͙͂̈́̎̆̿̿̕ͅp̴̜̳̼͈̩͍̠̪̖̉̋͐̇̔̊̋ſ̵̞̟̹̯͙̉̒́̿͜͜͝͠ſ̸̢̦̺̥̫̞͉̹̐̆̊̃̐͐͜͝H̷̡̜͎̲͕̟͕́̀̐͐͗̃͘͜ ̸̻̑̔͐̉̄̎̾͠ɹ̵̜̜̬̲̈́̓̓̇̀̆͝∩̸͇̪̻̬͖̘̯̿́̉̑͊͘O̵̗̔̄̉́͆͝⅄̵͍͈̭͉̭̙̺̺̓̕q̸̙̣̹̫̼̬̃̎Λ̷̛͕͗̌̋̂̅̔̕͠q̸͔̱̹̜̭̺̣̼͛͘ͅp̸̨̰͓̰̹̻̲̣̖̂Ⅎ̷̭̖͓̰͕̥̳͛͆̎͑̕פ̶̠̻̽̽̍̌̓ɹ̶̖͓̯̏O̵̢̠͕̙̪̅̅̔̽͊Ⅎ̴̢̧̡̡̥̣̜̃̑̂̓͊̇͘ ̷̨̛̝͚̭̺͕̟̹̿̾̂͋͆͋̒͘͜ ̶͍͔̈́͑̈̏̿̔̌̾͠Ǝ̴̢̧̄̾̌̊̚W̴̨̪̬̜̙̼̓͜O̴̳̓͆̅́̆́͆͋̔Ɔ̴̢̃̂̎́̐̕ʞ̷̢͎̲̰̠͇̏̾ſ̴̧̧͚͚͔͉̳̞̣̏͆̈́̀̽̍̒q̶̣̜̿̆̍̌͌̎͝͠p̴̧̢̺̝͚͚͚͐͒̈́̊∀̵͚̥͕͗̈́͘͝ſ̴̢͍͙̮͑̂͆͊̕Λ̵̼̄̒̇Ⅎ̵̢̺̲̳̠̼̘͉̐̿͜Z̷̝̣̙͚͇͎̱̠͎̔͌̑̔͆́́́̚ſ̵̨͕̥͕͈̻͚̱̒ʞ̴̙̓̎̾̕͘H̶͍̔̓͌̿̕ ̷͉̼͆͊q̸̹̲̘̣̺̆̓̈̎Λ̸̥͈̒̄̎̅̑̌͂͘ͅƎ̴̝̹̥͕̖̼̇̆͊͒Λ̴̖̯̮͎̬̱͓͎̀̐̈́͝∀̸͈̥̂̏Ḩ̷̲͔̯͎̝̹͑̽̔̇̆̚̕̚͝q̸͔͕̓̈́̃ͅℲ̵̢͈͈̪͙̪̤̉̈̔̔̐͒̽͜q̵̢̭̭͓͍͂̊̄̽̎́̕q̵̺̥̋̍̈̀̚פ̷̨͈̯̹̬̥̦͕̰̈́̎q̸̢͂͐́̊͜͜N̴̢̛̛̥̄̒͛͂̊͗Ⅎ̷̨͙͎̦̖̭̕̕q̵̤̭̦̜̟͕͍̆͜͝͝I̵̺̙̩̗̹̎̅Λ̷͈̯̝̝̗̃̓̾͋̿ͅͅΛ̸̮̻̬͇̉̅͆̂̍͌̇͂̿q̴̨̬̦͓̹̯͉͆͗H̵̳̬͒̍́̊͐̌͘פ̵̤͊̆̈͝H̸̼̐͂̀͒͊͋ ̷̯̟̳̞̰͓̯̄̔̒̎͊̽͝פ̴͇̩̯̺̀͋̈̈́̓̐┴̸͈̯̺̱̰̦̔͗͊̃͠ʞ̵̪́H̶̡͇́͂̀̽͊̈̍Ɔ̶͈̤̋̍q̶̮̓̔̚Ò̶̢̟͙̗͇̊͜͝˥̴̡͇͋˥̷̪̦̖̾Ǝ̵̨̙̗̫̋̂̔̆͝͝͠͝H̶̢̧̬̯̲̜̥̠́̏p̷̧̛̱̯̖̞̳̹͇̊̀́̀̔͗͘̕ſ̸̧̘͎͉͚̜̦̄̿͠H̶͕̖̦̰̒̉̍̍͛X̶͍̾̌͊ͅS̸̥̜̮͂̿̎͝Ⅎ̶͕̼̺͍͆̅͗̅̀̐̏͗q̵̛̜̝̜͔͎͈̅Ⅎ̸̥̺͚͕͇̬̻̑́͑̅̑̀̌͝N̵͚̬͂p̵̡̨̧̲̝͙̥͆̔̿̿̀̏͒͘͝Ⅎ̸͙̝̱̰̮͉̦̫̦̑͆̐q̵̺̺͓̗̗̠̣̟͂̆̀̆͘̚̕͠ͅp̴̢̨͇͍̽͐̌̔́N̶̡̢̛̹̘̖̮̹̠̯̏͛͆͌Z̶͙͈̟̞̋̿͋̓Ì̶̧̘̬̫Ԁ̷̪̮̖̠̓͂̃͗̓̌̀̚ʞ̷͈͉̩͍͛ſ̶̞̯̹̻̰̱̆͛̚פ̶̟̮̇̊̌̽פ̴̪̻̈́ʞ̵̨̳̥͇͔͙͈̞̃͝M̵̗̹̺̮̬̊̍̊̋͝H̴̝̰̯̭͚͖͑͒͜ ̶͙̲̲̤̯͒̀̏̉͜q̵̢̱̖̳̅͜S̸̹̟̲̎͋̂q̴̡͓̖̬̱͇̎̄͗͗͛͘͜͜פ̸͙͔̻́̎̅̓̈̈̈̎͝Z̸̟̠̳̳̀˥̵̡̮̣̱̹̹̉̆̑Ì̶̹̣͉͕̜̹̄̉̓̅͋̀͜N̸̛̺̓̃͒́͑͠Ɔ̴̡̘͕̳̜͇͕̪͈́̆͌͘Ⅎ̵̤̥̰̼͍͑̈́̈́Ḿ̷̙̦͓̈́̾̊̓̔ɹ̶̙̑͛S̶̛̺̯͈̩̖͇̐́̿͌͗͊͠פ̷̨̣̤̮̳̩͈͈͊̃̕͝Ⅎ̷̨̪̯̰̹͖̳̲̈́Ɔ̵̤̞̬̼͖̯̗̔̆̊̀̿̓̍ͅp̵͇̟̳̬̻̥͆̏͒̐̈́̈́͜ͅṈ̴̱̽͋̍̿̌̓H̸̫͓̩͇̠̫͈͆̿̈́̄͘פ̵̛̛̟͍̙͈̈̋̎͐͝Ԁ̸̡̭̲̣̤̃̆̋̋̄̏͝Ì̴͈͐̇̅̍̇̍͑͝N̷̉́

[@johnnycade.switchblade]

Thanks dude

[@KaylaPearlCPNinja]

Thanks ❤

[@shriya150]

"asexual women doesn't have uterus and they don't get periods" dayumnn i wishh 🤧

[@fluffy698]

I'm a cis male, but it seems like periods suck so yeah that would be kinda cool.

[@glaceRaven]

Yeah, if only that were true... I used to have periods that were very heavy and lasted for literal months until I got medical intervention. The only reason I don't now is because I have to take pills to regulate the cycle. If I ever go off them, there's a chance it might start again (because that's what happened every other time I tried that). So yeah, if ace women didn't have periods a large chunk of my life would have been significantly simpler. 😓

[@sydsb1essed]

@@glaceRaven Omg you are so brave and so strong, I cant IMAGINE having a period for months, let alone i can barely handle a WEEK but idk how you did it.

[@Coughdropeater]

Yeah same

[@amidlej8237]

@@fluffy698 believe me, they suck so badly

[@Emmaem111]

I see a lot of people say that “sex is what makes us human” when in reality that is the stupidest statement I’ve ever heard in my life. Most animals on Earth have sex, does that make them human? Is sex the ONLY qualification we need to be human? Really I think that what makes us human is our ability to choose if we want to have sex or who we want to have sex with. The fact that we have a choice is what makes us human and people need to realize that just because you deviate from “the norm” doesn’t make you any less of a person.

[@c.0.m.m.0.n.3.r]

Preach

[@tenkaii934]

This ^^^^

[@peacefulleopard8016]

Also...we’re the only species to cook our food before eating it. Most other mammals have ***. So cake and garlic bread is actually what makes us human.

[@lovemyself219]

Daaaamn i finally found someone who has the same mentality as me

[@lovemyself219]

@@peacefulleopard8016 😂❤❤❤❤❤

[@RubyDaLynx]

I understand that being homosexual is probably the most risky in terms of backlash, but asexual people are pressured in similar ways. Sure, we can marry and adoption is way easier, but when a man or a woman don't want kids, the world erupts in chaos. Somehow a person not wanting kids is selfish, like it's somehow a gift to bring them into this world

[@marijajanicijevic8211]

I know, I said when I was 17 to a grown ass (midle-aged) person that I don't want kids, and she was like:🥴tHAt sO sELfISh 🥴 It's not f**king selfish it's just that I am an emotional mess and don't want to traumatize a child for a life. So, at least till I learn some self-control (ofc working on it), I don't want to make more damage to this world.

[@fw_diego77]

I never understood why you have to have kids. I'm not spending 500,000 dollars every 5 years or so just to feed and please some child I didn't even want in the first place.

[@lunawolfheart336]

People literally want me to have sex to fix me. But what they don't understand is I have a sex drive I just lack sexual Atraction and def won't do anything with someone who won't respect my boundaries

[@M4__1n]

I know, whenever i say that i don't want kids or a partner ppl are so fast to say that it'll change overtime and that I'm too young to make those choices, i know myself and since i was a kid i felt this way pretty sure it won't change so fast.

[@Dredfullart]

Well, it might change. I never wanted kids but as I've hit 30 I'm starting to entertain the Idea. Not saying it will definitely happen but just making the point that not every opinion or desire you have remains the same throughout your life

[@Stelledore]

“Asexual people will never get married” *ahem* Sweetie ever heard to PLATONIC relationships and PLATONIC marriage?

[@weakattheknees.]

Or even romantic ones, minus the s3x. At least, that’s what I want lol

[@Eli.rogers]

Also romantic feeling still exist No romantic attraction would be aromantic ;_; Why does everyone get it all mixed up

[@finnd6338]

or even romantic ones without sex

[@juliasings6131]

You're mixing up asexual and aromantic Aces can have romantic relationships-

[@Sleepy_Sunshine]

you can have romantic relationships without sex, romantically I'm attracted to all genders, cause romantically your genitals do not matter, but I am heterosexual, i could date a woman, or any person with an engaging and attractive personality, but i only want sex with men

[@ashead5225]

Can we all agree that this topic is one of the most ignored and invalidated in our modern society.

[@golden.fire.princess9653]

Everything is so hyper sexualized people can’t fathom having none or less of it than average

[@PsychoChuckGreene]

In a couple of years no one gonna care anyway

[@LyralioRC]

@@golden.fire.princess9653 I know, right? I can't say for sure (not a mind reader, lol), but I'm fairly certain most people in my life just assume I'm making stuff up when I tell them. None of them acknowledge it, let alone take it seriously (if they do, they're doing a bang up job of hiding it). Once me and my friends were watching a nostalgic commercial with a busty lady and they were going on how they'd love to have her in their icebox and I went "Nah, I'd rather have the ice cream. Plus she's not my type" as a joke, but someone immediately said "Well she's a girl, so that would be super weird" or something to that effect. Yay mild homophobia. -_-

[@Lampey22]

Yes. I’m still trying to find a way to tell my parents that i am asexual while not making them think i’m gay

[@vantaneko]

Yesss

[@cherrycolagames3187]

The fact that people call ace/aro people “heartless” disgusts me like why tf do you care if that person chooses not to get laid like fr that’s none of your business 🙄😒

[@Anaea]

It sucks that people say this even if the person is a genuinely nice one.

[@cyriswinters5233]

Even if they aren't Asexual or aromantic it's nobody's business who you're sleeping with or dating unless it's hurting you or your partner(s)

[@cherrycolagames3187]

@@cyriswinters5233 Exactly, no one should interfere with anyone

[@georgiasomething2064]

It’s also rly dumb lmao 😂

[@mezzovii]

I don't think I'm asexual but I agree with you. It's weird. No sex = no heart? I don't get it. If anything it seems like the other way around. Sex is weird

[@kasan8495]

I was deemed as “edgy, cold, loner with no emotions” because I have no interested in being in a relationship like my peers in high school. It’s hard for me to open up about this because it’s rarely mentioned when it comes to LGBT+ matters.

[@Ax3l0tl]

My partner is asexual and this video helped me understand asexuality more than I already did, so thank you!

[@aninvisiblepotato8532]

Please be kind to them

[@_skadi_9928]

"Asexual women do not get periods or do not have a uterus" God, I wish ): Edit: Just realized I'm probably also trans/nonbinary so yeah- Edit.2: uhhh okay so I figured out I'm aroace and now I'm not sure if I'm trans or nonbinary. Like, my gender under the umbrella term, sure. but i dunno. I do know that the best way to describe my gender is with help of the theory of philosopher Berkeley about reality so that's cool i guess (I will not elaborate on that). I'm just gonna keep editing this comment in the future because I think it would be fun to read back on this and see if anything will change

[@georgehutter339]

Same

[@caramel..]

Sameeee

[@just_jana9959]

That would be nice

[@kurichan142]

*VOUCH*

[@erikburzinski8248]

I want to know who the %$#@ thinks they dont personally.

[@cupidstears]

me, asexual: “ah finally a video of real taste”

[@random_girl3164]

Same

[@brrmbrrmm]

When I saw the notification I was like "YIPPEE!"

[@kat4t4]

omg I thought I commented without remembering bc of our profile pictures

[@elinagouravan6466]

Same❤️

[@shashanksams]

hehe yes

[@yoonbums_frog8442]

As a grayromantic ace who’s been told that my sexuality doesn’t exist and have experienced all of these- thank you for sharing this video. It made me feel better

[@charlieiguess7890]

What always bothered me about asexuality is how people confuse it with being aromantic. Those are two different things and some should really start to look more up. For example: I‘m a fangirl. And I often look for asexual characters. And one time I found one who was not only asexual but also a great character all together. That is until I found out that he was meant to be aromantic, not asexual. I wasn‘t even mad, I was just really disappointed because the creator usually put so much research into creating their characters.

[@nostalgicrobot]

I hate being a sex-repulsed asexual. It's one of the reasons why I can't get into a relationship. No one would ever want to be with someone who is disgusted by intimacy. So I'm kinda forced to accept that I'll be alone forever.

[@xiomayriediaz7338]

Same );

[@Safeara397]

Sorry if this is over-stepping for a stranger on the internet, but I really connected with your comment and felt compelled to share. I know it's easier said than done, but you should try not to hate yourself for something that's part of who you are. Yes, finding a relationship with a partner who has the same preferences for intimacy may be more challenging for you than most, but it's not impossible. After all, you exist (and all the other lovely aces in these comments, myself included!), so there's bound to be others like you! Plus, you are a whole, complete, human all by yourself, who is deserving of love, no matter what kind of relationships you may or may not have throughout your life (platonic, romantic, etc). It's good to be accepting and content in life, but if you truly desire to be in a relationship with someone like you, don't give up! That's all I wanted to say. Hope you have a wonderful day =)

[@manscapedgrinch1427]

Mood

[@azure_0773]

no I'm right here for you! i'm asexual too! :)

[@sarahchattaway95]

I mean I can think of the aces that feel the same way u do or understand . Good luck with it I'm sure if u want to find someone u will eventually

[@nicoleonfeels]

I recently had a talk with someone that swore humans are beings with inherent sexual needs and desires - I used Asexuals as an example of how this is not always the case. Just because something comes so naturally to you, doesn’t mean everyone feels the same way.

[@eeveearoace]

we're gods

[@RR-dh4jh]

Something to learn about

[@keiron.4612]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo there's only 1 god and it aint you🤔

[@reverseli]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo hey uh while you don’t believe in a religion I don’t think you should really be insulting someone over it.

[@lucaventinove3151]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo What you said is incredibly insulting and not needed, and I'm telling you this as an atheist

[@Angel-vu3fz]

"That doesn't mean they can't experience other forms of attraction." me, an *aromatic* asexual: "yeah that other form of attraction is probably friendship."

[@incognitoburrito7458]

I’m a sex positive asexual so I’m for sexual activities just as long as they’re safe and consensual. I’m not really that into sex but I will make dirty jokes and express when something is a turn on. That sort of confuses a lot of people though because they think that since I’m asexual, that must mean I must hate sex or hate having it. Sexual attraction is not the same as sexual preference.

[@coffeetree_]

SAMESAMESAME i do not like sex i just imagine it would be so weird doing it, you know i never see anyone and think “damn, im getting a bo-“ but some ppl say “oh you can’t be a virgin forever” *SLAMS DESK REPEATEDLY* THAT’S. NOTWHATASEXUALITYMEANS

[@karlaf.soriano3422]

THANK YOU!!

[@-ss-8606]

I'm asexual aromantic and agender but I just discovered myself not long ago,I'm afraid that people might get me wrong or have a stereo type for me as "emotionless like wtf"

[@cradica]

I don't know if I'm asexual (but I am about 60 to 70 percent sure I'm aromantic.) I'm not entirely against the idea of sex but I have had so traumatic experiences evolving it.

[@themologies]

as an aromantic asexual, you don't know how much it means that people actually think that we are valid and that we exist. a lot of people call me a 'heartless' and a 'monster' and nothing hurts more than people's word, saying that i just didn't found the 'right' person to fill this gap in my heart.

[@elysiiumv]

Fellow aromantic asexual person here! I relate to what you said well, so it’s always nice to have validation

[@asarishepard8171]

i got dumped by someone who claimed to be asexual and denied me sexually. how about dont get peoples hopes up and dont play with them.

[@themologies]

@@asarishepard8171 looking at your comments you seem to be a rude person aren't you? well i am glad they did, we wouldn't want to associate with people who force something on us that we don't want and can't comprehend, we are literally called 'asexual' what do you expect from us? have a good day/night :D

[@asarishepard8171]

@@themologies how about i spent alot of time and energy getting ot know this person and in the past anytime you want to be close to someone ive had sex and being abruptly and rudely broken up with (I gave her space and it came the fuck out of nowhere might i add) is rude as hell too. you asexual people need to stop leading people on that a relationship could happen. so yes im being rude about it.

[@mrsbunny5519]

@@asarishepard8171 How about you stop judging an entire community because of your experiences lmao I mean, sorry you got dumped, but that's not our problem, that's the problem of the person who dumped you and you.

[@james7551]

"Not everything is black or white" Thank you for saying that.

[@EternalDensity]

It's also grey and purple! Ayyyy.

[@theoneandonlyluci]

Yeah! Grey asexuality VS Asexuality

[@theoneandonlyluci]

Which are both of my flags.

[@Someguy028]

EXACTLY!!! You can’t just forget about my mixed homies out there. Shout out to my boy Pedro.

[@ReinaRegalia]

“Say it louder for the people in the back.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@dawsoneleven4712]

I came out to my Mom’s girlfriend a few years ago. I wasn’t worried because she’s gay. This LESBIAN woman looked at me and said “aren’t you a little young to be making that decision”. She literally said “it’s just a faze” in a different format. My stomach dropped. I just couldn’t believe it. I’ve gotten that reaction from other people to. My brother literally told me he thought he was asexual at my age and that I would ‘grow out of it’. Everyone is always so confused when I tell them. It’s the worst.

[@melasn9836]

I'm so sorry about that. Unfortunately, some of the most hostile reactions to being ace have come from other LGBTQ+ people in my experiences, and sadly, I've heard others say that as well. It's disappointing.

[@Vixaltain]

I've been crushing on an asexual person for 2 years, and this has helped a lot with my thoughts about approaching them for a relationship, friendship, or anything. This makes me feel a lot better ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@agusttea8615]

Just remember that asexuals still have emotions and (unless they’re aromantic) also have romantic feelings. They’re still suckers for romantic gestures and can get nervous just like anybody else. Just be yourself !! Good luck !!!

[@myspringday5977]

When I try to tell my older sister that I am asexual she always tells me that I am not and I am straight whenever I compliment one of my favourite idols they always say "See! you are not an asexual you just complimented him!" So what! does complimenting someone decide your sexuality.Thats why I hesitate to open up about my sexuality to even my family.

[@user-ne7eq1zt7j]

Exactly. I had a very similar experience with my mother. I told her that I was ace and explained it, but the next day I was going on a walk with her and this random dude was across the street. My face was red because it was over 90 degrees Fahrenheit out and I’m bad at exercising, but my mother said “You’re blushing at him! You’re not asexual!”. So yeah, she obviously didn’t understand my explanation the previous night and I’m probably not going to talk with her about it again.

[@myspringday5977]

@@user-ne7eq1zt7j I understand you

[@azure_0773]

that's why you have me, because I'm asexual too :)

[@myspringday5977]

@@azure_0773 aww thankyou

[@silentcookie7261]

I can't really relate to that experience per se because I haven't told my family (it just never came up and I would find it weird to bring it up out of the blue, I don't really care if they know or not), but the part about favorite idols... yes, absolutely. The fact that you can compliment someone for their talent and/or personality aside, there's also a thing that's called aesthetic attraction. Like, I may don't feel sexually attracted to them, but I still have eyes okay?! So... I don't know how old you are, if you're older or younger than me, but as an older sister myself (more like middle child, but whatever) you have my support regardless

[@charlossen]

As an asexual it makes me happy that finally somebody actually understands and explains how asexuality works

[@Unintentional.Garbage]

Yeh same :)

[@brrmbrrmm]

I am AroAce and feel the same

[@jcblue1981]

well thats just wholesome

[@buljuls]

The same :)

[@Rotting_Rose_]

yes same :)

[@a_ghastly_stranger2265]

1. I’ve heard the, “you just haven’t found the right guy yet” thing and like yeah and I never will cause that’s not how it works! And like bish please I *live* in my head 24/7 so I think I know better than you 2. Y tho, like genuinely, I said I’m not sexually attracted to anyone, not that I’m not romantically attracted to anyone!? Like dude! 3. I’ve met a few people who are sex repulsed and honestly I get it lol, though I am not and like the idea that asexuals would never have sex or would like, actively hate it is so weird to me, like someone asked me, “would you have sex with your partner if they wanted to even though you’re asexual?” And like yeah, if I’m in a serious enough relationship that sex is in the cards then yeah, I want my partner to feel good! And it’s not like anything bad is gonna happen, knock on wood anyways lol 4. Haha that’s funnym pls stop asking me if I want to be a nun when I tell you I’m ace it’s not funny nor is it cute, and I will lecture you, not in a bad way but just to educate you, so if you’re doing it in an attempt to be funny, stop 5. God I wish it were true 6. I’ve actually never heard that one before so I don’t have anything to say about it 7. I- wot, um who I just, I swear people are just mixing up aro with ace, and even a romantics get platonically married! 8. Um yeah never heard that one either, well I mean, I have but not in reference to asexuality 9. I mean, I try my best to dress, ‘gay’ cause I am. Also I feel like the whole lgbtqia+ community has a general way of dressing, and someone said, and I’m paraphrasing here, “it’s like a part of the culture as well as a way to identify other people that are like you” and I think that’s pretty accurate, also if you ever say that the way any group dresses is ugly prepare to have hell rained upon you by everyone in that community and everyone who supports them. 10. ahem. *ITS A SPECTRUM PEOPLE!!! HOW MANY TIMES MUST I SAY IT! ITS A SPECTRUM!”* also I thought I was greysexual for a while, but I figured out that I identify much closer with asexuality

[@Airvix]

Thank you for this list I honestly found it really helpful, being some one you figure out she was Ace.

[@parsifalkitty5109]

When people only use spectrum for a wide based community when its pretty much universal in this day and age

[@ChuuMoon777]

As an Asexual, we DO find people attractive, we just don’t have sexual thoughts about someone

[@patriciaanneherrera9156]

We need an asexual tinder so that we can find each other lmao🤣

[@notevenhuman8141]

There's r/dateademi on Reddit. Its meant for everyone but focused on ace-spec people

[@annalesewinget6792]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@randomuser5443]

Get a hobby where social interaction happens, safest way to get to know people

[@cyriswinters5233]

There are dating apps for this I believe if you feel that's your only options but you gotta be careful. Meeting People in person is safer usually though so that suggestion is better. Both ways you gotta be careful though.

[@RosheenQuynh]

@@annalesewinget6792 ???

[@scarletroseVT]

Tempted to send this to my parents so that they can finally understand why setting me up with "the right guy" isn't going to solve what they consider a problem.

[@IshaSharma11]

Yeass

[@midnightsarrow160]

I wish you luck if you do And if they still dont bother with it then forget them I'm your new parent

[@leftyfizz]

My mom thinks it isn't even real, thats why I told them I'm a celibate 😔👊🖤🤍💚🖤🤍💜

[@cheesec4kecat]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm ...

[@midnightsarrow160]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm wtf

[@imalwayswatching5103]

THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS! We need more people like you on the internet and everywhere else

[@lilahhudak697]

Thank you so much for making this, phychtogo! I’m asexual and I’m almost always worried when people hear it, bc many people take it the wrong way. I’m already making a list of people to send it to!

[@kathyborthwick6738]

Asexual Elder here- raised 5 sons! Simply have never been sexually attracted to men or women! Loved my husband and enjoyed the affection and just thought that sex was overrated!

[@jasmink3841]

so is it like, you accept sex but you dont go out of your way to get it just like what happens happens? im sorry if i made a misconception just trynna understand

[@kathyborthwick6738]

@@jasmink3841 Have Romantic attraction but no sexual attraction! Thought it was just me!

[@exxwhy1645]

i’m wondering, how do you know you don’t experience sexual attraction?

[@peppermint5117]

@@exxwhy1645 "Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the sexual or erotic interests of other people, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate choice." u just realise u dont have it and then ur like "oh yeah im maybe ace" still not sure if i am, I think im demisexual (meaning i only experience sexual attraction after getting to know someone) I also heard that aperantly allosexual people, when they say someone is "hot" it actually originated from actually feeling hot, like tempreture, because of sexual attraction. I was absolutely blown away by that, i just saw that someone had a cool sense of style or they're body is attractive but not in that way, just looks cool take my words with a grain of salt though, because I'm not sure myself, and tbh idc, it doesnt affect me much

[@KuvaPefo]

69th like :3 right on.

[@rubyamateurtactician4354]

I also think it's important to note that being asexual and being aromantic are not the same thing. I am simultaneously asexual and the most hopelessly romantic person I know.

[@cyriswinters5233]

Lol yes. I'm pretty sure I'm Asexual and I know I want a partner. I have cute dates and stuff in mind but I don't find people "hot" or "sexy" while my classmates and friends do.

[@aRandom_dog]

I identify as aroallo and it's really annoying when people confuse the two and just lump them together, just because they both start with "a" does not mean that they're the same

[@hafsahossain1394]

@@cyriswinters5233 soo true..I'm also an asexual and sex repulsed.Literally even at this age I don't know what's the definition of sexyness.I wonder what is that.I'm actually a fan of some celebrities and they have a huge fanbase.So whenever they show their abs or them sweating after their practise or performance is filmed,the fans literally go crazy about that.I've seen lots of fans thirsting over them like this and I find this very confusing..They say they behave like this coz the celebrities are sexy and they feel flustered when they show their abs and act sexy??and I absolutely can't relate to that.That's why for a long time I thought that only having abs and sweating will make a person sexy!?but still even after that I don't find myself thirsting over them.Now I know that I will never know what it is lmao

[@cyriswinters5233]

@@hafsahossain1394 exactly! I don't understand what the big deal is about shirtless people! I don't know what they mean by "sexy" to me it's just there! It's so confusing lmao

[@georgiasomething2064]

Wait there’s a difference between asexual and aromantic? Lmao spellcheck doesn’t like the word “aromantic”

[@NoxAtlas]

As an asexual I haven't met anyone outside my family who would respect my sexuality. They all tried to talk me out of it or treated me like it's a disease or disorder that needs to be cured. I learned to talk back but it's still frustrating that people act like like asexuality isn't LGBTQ+ because "the A stands for ally, duuuh" or worse: "asexuality doesn't exist, it's just some Tumblr trend like non binary genders"

[@identitycrisisatthedisco8973]

I love how calmly and accepting of these topics they are. It's so informative

[@mariahmcdonald9167]

Omg I LOVE how they talked about asexuals "not wanting to get married." While I am not a part of the community myself, asexual people still can feel romantic feelings! They're not robots! We love them! Remind an asexual near you to go hydrate

[@brawlmaster67]

thanks for the reminder, i legit haven’t drank water in like 10 hours

[@lunawolfheart336]

@@brawlmaster67 that's not good go drink water now!

[@nothankyou6840]

will do, i love water

[@ache5935]

thankyou when i came out as asexual the first thing my friends said were "but you've had a crush before" and "i kinda that i mean i didn't think you liked relationships anyway" and i was kinda suprised considering they are both bisexual like it's not like i'm aromantic im STILL happy to be in a relationship. the only thing im worried about is that im straight and i feel like alot of men wouldn't want to date me because they would want to have sex when they were older or they might peer pressure me into doing it

[@nothankyou6840]

@@ache5935 just be careful with who you go out with, and if it seems like your relationship might get serious just let them know that you aren't interested in sex & (if this applies for you specifically) that it's completely off the table for you, nonnegotiable. Their reaction will tell you a lot about their personality and if they're someone you want to be with anyway. If they don't respect you enough to acknowledge and accept that you don't want to, they don't deserve you!

[@loading8434]

Not asexual, just came here to educate myself for future relationships with someone who may be - or just so I understand the community. ❤️ Edit: btw u guys are so amazing, I hope u all find love and happiness and don't ever let anyone make u feel like being asexual is wrong or fake. this community is so wholesome ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mari17897]

Same

[@kreedyjay2654]

Thank you

[@kcthefrogusedyt8319]

We need more ppl like you. The fact you came here to learn more about asexuality makes me happy. As an asexual myself, thank you :)

[@loading8434]

@@kcthefrogusedyt8319 🖤🤍💜

[@Rayray-yl1ed]

Same here ❤

[@Nomi_womi]

Hello fellow aces!

[@n1ghtm4re76]

Lol, disabled kid

[@GrantTheMedic]

Ah, that’s gotta be awful.

[@victorhimanclan5802]

huh? what do you mean@@n1ghtm4re76

[@marshallerickson493]

I have sent this to so many people because it perfectly explains it, thank you so much for explaining something that is very complicated for many people outside the community in a comprehensive way

[@shattermirror]

The frustration when our parents tell my sister and I that my bisexuality is a curiosity phase I'll grow out of and my sister's asexuality is because she "just hasn't met the right person yet". Like, sometimes they make me want to scream into the void.

[@Iostinmars]

I'm sorry that you both have to pass through this, but this is just a reminder that you both are real and valid as who you are

[@Flarflenugen]

My neighbor came out as bisexual and her mother had a response of "well you could still marry a man so I guess it's okay" Another bi friend of mine has a mother with the same mindset as yours. I just don't understand why people can't let other people be who they are

[@Iostinmars]

@@Flarflenugen it really sucks, but I hope they know they're not alone :]

[@ShaimingLong]

@@Flarflenugen Some people just seem to form a rigid view of how the world is and if anything comes along that doesn't fit in, it's either given a temporary excuse or is denied being real. Like in the case of my friend's wife, she seems totally fine with all forms of sexuality except asexual, as having a sex drive is just what humans have, apparently. But she's the same with other things too, like mixing certain foods is just something *not* done. She was seriously repulsed at the idea of a bagel with chicken and cheese, chicken or cheese, sure, but both on a bagel was like taking jackhammer to the foundation of physics to her. My friend believes it's just how her family raised her to be as they're very much the same with odd, specific steadfast beliefs of things. I assume that is how it is for a lot of people, that somehow their brain gets hardwired into their own perceptions and they can't let go or adapt to the larger world around them. Rambling now, but another friend, she's from a very pushy and opinionated family. She's been taught women *have* to wear makeup, even when home alone and was pressured into cosmetic surgery because her petite frame was too "boy-like" and kept making her believe she would never get married because she wasn't "womanly" enough. Worst part is, she fully agrees with them and got mad at me for trying to convince her that she was fine before and is fine now and doesn't need any surgery to be worth something, especially to herself but she just got mad at me. I would have been fine with it if she just didn't want to talk about it, but the unnecessary and unexpected anger stings. Unfortunately her self image and self worth issues have caused major commitment issues, so she's constantly having one night stands but shuns and ghosts anyone who actually cares and wants to build a relationship. What amazes me most is how much time and effort people put in to trying to "correct" others. It's just so much easier to not give a damn, if someone isn't hurting anyone then let them live their life. If, you feel like they need help, offer it, don't push it as misunderstandings are everywhere! It seems a bit cold and apathetic, but it's how I try to live my life.

[@whizz_0711]

My parents are quite the opposite 😂 my brother is 19 and still didn’t get a girlfriend and my parents sat him down and told him stuff like “we’ll support you no matter what” and all that, they thought he was gay but he just hasn’t found the right one

[@Rotan_Paska]

FINALLY somebody talks about this

[@Danny-eq6bk]

Hello my fellow asexual

[@amei_46]

Agree 👍

[@amei_46]

@@Danny-eq6bk Hello r u asexual too ?

[@Danny-eq6bk]

@@amei_46 yes

[@misiadominisia9549]

Yeah I'm asexual so i clicked this video as fast i can xD

[@eepshay7239]

Thanks for this!! My partner came out to me as asexual and I have been doing my best to learn lots about this to make sure they are comfortable :D

[@treyatkinson7564]

Thank you, I greatly appreciate the understanding you put forward in these videos. I've just had to go about my life being blunt and straightforward about my asexuality, because I've gotten a lot of the reactions that you listed here. Thank you for showing the spectrum so many of us live on!

[@firestarternero1819]

Sometimes I can't believe there's people out there asking questions like "do you have a uterus?"

[@Flarflenugen]

Honestly I'm not surprised. The human race is stupid as a whole. Remember that one senator that thought that a woman's body could tell the difference between consensual and non-consensual sex and be able to shut it down? Perfect example of what I mean.

[@Mari-eo3yi]

“Oh are you ace?” “Um..yeah?” “So you don’t have a uterus?” “What????”

[@liseegeskov8769]

@@Flarflenugen senator??? This is Why i dont trust the current goverment

[@bryonyperecat5954]

@@liseegeskov8769 I think it was someone in the last U.S. government, but yeah, they might have gotten re-elected. (I can't remember the guy's name either, but I had a bunch of friends in the U.S. making fun of him)

[@hidinginyourcloset]

Since I have red hair, I've been asked if "the curtains match the drapes". People are just so inconsiderate to the emotions of others. They need to grow up.

[@perpetualMess.]

I'm not ace but THANKYOU. They are often shunned in the community or ignored. Thank you for bringing our ace friends into the light and inform people!

[@Huathemulgogi]

Thank you too, for not ignoring us

[@perpetualMess.]

@@Huathemulgogi our Ace People are just as important to the LGBT family!

[@tenshimoon]

Aww thank you for acknowledging this! I'm so encouraged to see more acknowledgement and acceptance from within our LGBTQIA+ community :)

[@rain3228]

And thank you for saying this :)

[@Someguy028]

I would say we’re ignored because all we do is chill. Then again I’m new to the community so what do I know?

[@rein5230]

I wish i can meet my fellow asexuals. I feel so alone and invalidated by everyone that I know personally. I wish there was a nearby community where we could all hangout, have fun and just be ourselves. No judging looks and stereotypical comments. I need ace friends 😭

[@natashakiture]

Paromantic ace here! I hope people can be more understanding of asexuals

[@justinetiberio8137]

Here in the comment section we can all meet here together

[@KaylaPearlCPNinja]

Aroace and agender here! Happy to be friends with you. I also identify as non-binary as well.

[@TheOddOnesChannel]

Same!!! Omg let’s hangout

[@Kekmuno1]

As a panromantic asexual, the “asexuals arent attracted to anybody” rlly hurts my feeling. I am currently dating two people (poly relationship dw lol) and they both accept me for my feelings

[@crystalgacha2218]

Im pretty certain im asexual, i dont really come out or identify as asexual, i would just tell people i dont like the idea of having sex, it makes me uncomfortable i would rather cuddle or hug! But people definitely say "you'll start liking it when you get older" 😭✋

[@Momo-tk7oc]

I can fully relate

[@Anaea]

That's terrible. Some things you feel may not ever change. Why can't people understand that it isn't some sort of "phase"?

[@crystalgacha2218]

@@Bunny-xr7cx thats so true!! People just assume we're gay/ closeted becsuse we dont like these things 😭✋

[@edgardoroyer3984]

Same. My mom says that it's "what all men want".

[@themightypancake5695]

I'm definitely in the same boat. I relate to how people describe asexuality and what you just said, but I don't really like labelling myself so I just tell people that thinking about sex and the topic as a whole makes me uncomfortable (hugs and cuddling seem alright though!). Most people unfortunately don't understand, but at least my mom understands why I questioned myself about it in the first place

[@k.t3888]

10 Things People Get Wrong About Asexual People: 1. People assume that they haven't found the "right one" yet. 0:54 2. People who are asexual are not attracted to anybody. 1:27 3. People who are asexual hate sex and do not have sex. 1:53 4. Asexual people are celibate or abstinent. 2:20 5. Asexual women do not get periods or do not have a uterus. 3:08 6. Asexuality is a medical concern. 3:39 7. People who are asexual will never get married. 4:07 8. There is a reason why people are asexual. 4:34 9. Asexual people tend to dress a "certain" way. 4:57 10. All asexuals experience no sexual attraction at all. 5:26 I hope many people watch this video.

[@ashleythehooman]

Thx :)

[@kathibear6943]

Thank you!

[@aera7867]

Thnx:))

[@ddpyyyHA]

Ty

[@sparklingdeath1730]

How did you do that so quic- nevermind you’re a time traveler

[@finnd6338]

thankyou for making this :) its great to see that people are teaching others. theres so much misinformation.

[@TheSodorSteamworks]

I checked this video out because I have an asexual cousin, and I want to be as supportive as possible. Luckily according to this video, it looks like I’ve said all the right things😊

[@hexxiing]

man everyone thinks sex is needed to have a good relationship. i’m growing to hate this earth purely because i can’t have a romantic relationship. hi, sex-repulsed enby asexual here ! it’s hard enough to find a partner as is, without even touching on the asexuality. as the world we live in slowly becomes more accepting, i hope by the time i find a partner, they’ll understand ! anyway, enough of my ramblings. this is very well done and i hope more people get educated on the matter !!

[@dali-dog]

I feel you, as a sex repulsed gay ace I get into these moods where I lose hope that I can ever have a long-term partner, someone who I could happily spend the rest of my life with, because so many people act like your relationship will be meaningless without sex. Which makes me really sad because I really, really want to have somebody like that someday. In my case, I really love romance, and it really hurts me when people tell me that I'll never have it. I know that isn't true though! I know that you and me and anyone else who wants a partner will be able to find one eventually! And regardless, I believe that everyone reading this will have a fun life full of amazing people, friends or otherwise.

[@energeticstunts993]

@@dali-dog Geez, here I am being pro romantic in love with an asexual girl (I don't give a SHIT about sex, for me it's the emotional support) and yet she walks right past me, never been so heart broken, 💔

[@teodortodorov1662]

I`m hetero and I think the same! I prefer everything than sex

[@boiwifeyasmr4U]

It’s needed for me.

[@Ash-vc8el]

Same! Some people don’t even understanding, I even tell my friends I probably won’t get married any soon and they just don’t believe! I haven’t told them About me yet.. :( I hope they support me after I tell them!

[@isaak1748]

As an asexual, I love that someone's giving us a chance to address the missinformation 😌

[@randomuser5443]

I honestly didnt know these existed. Lets hope the next generation will have better questions

[@kimv_]

@@randomuser5443I agree

[@isaak1748]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm No, I just don't feel sexual attraction to other people. I have my own opinions, feelings and my own way of diving into relationships. Your comment is very ignorant.

[@Taro-X]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm well,people can be people,and if there were to believe in something,well,let them have it. its their life to live and so do yours. you can be and believe in what you think is right,and so can others. So be respectful to others and soon you'll view the goodness of it. Hope your health is good and best the luck to you :D

[@Taro-X]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm you are correct,I agree on this,but I believe that if their want to live in their beliefs or reality,it's all ok and fine if it doesn't influence other people in a negative way. As long as they enjoy living the kind of way they want,and it doesn't influence others in a negative way,it's ok for them to have it.and so you too,you can live your way of life you want,as long as it doesn't influence others negatively :D

[@orangejuice1623]

The period one though- Like, seriously?! Just because they don’t get s3xu@lly attracted to others, doesn’t mean that changes their body. This is ridiculous-

[@LeeAllanSpades]

I met my husband when I was in high school, and he was the one who made me realize that I was Asexual. My fear of coming out to him about it was what made us break up the first time, despite the fact that I was romantically attracted to him. Four years later, we were brought back together and I basically told him that I was Asexual right off the bat, before my heart could be broken again. And he straight up told me that he didn't care. He shared those romantic feelings with me. 10 years after that, we are celebrating our seventh wedding anniversary.

[@BizzyLaVicious]

When asexuality first started to really come into the public's eye, I remember a lot of people saying things like, "what, you think you're a plant or something?" I'm glad that died out.

[@azure_0773]

exactly we all have the ability to reproduce, we're just not obsessed with sex period

[@Mari-eo3yi]

Didnt die out with my parents 🥺 like miss maam pls stop calling your child slurs thanks

[@BizzyLaVicious]

​@@Mari-eo3yi I'm really sorry to hear that. I feel for ya, I'm bi and my parents constantly used to belittle bisexual people, insisting that it doesn't exist and we're all delusional, attention seekers. I really hope that your parents can one day understand. Either way, keep your chin up you're not alone and you're as valid as anyone. :)

[@bryonyperecat5954]

@@azure_0773 Well.... maybe not everyone has the actual "ability to reproduce"? :) Could definitely say that everyone has the ability to engage in sex in one way or another though. But yeah. A lot of people are too obsessed with sex.

[@purplehood8418]

Did not die out…that’s the one that sets me off lol

[@p1xelware]

I'm scared of never being able to find someone that accepts me as asexual :')

[@mikaelmyers6135]

Same here. I may be ace but I’m also a hopeless romantic, but I worry that I’ll never find another person like me.

[@exoticbutters3317]

Same Here-🖤💜

[@aFand0mCollect0r]

I do!

[@tw1nkgirl]

there are soo many people in the world, i know you'll find ppl who accept you as you are !! C:

[@nemofurvent4202]

my gf and I are both ace and we met at school. I was terrified when i confessed my feelings for her, i was both scared of rejection and scared that she would want sex with me eventually, but then SURPRISE, she told me "well, i kinda like you too, but you need to know i am asexual..." - sometimes destiny just works out, people ! I also happen to be polyamourous, and I have another girlfriend, who isn't ace at all, and has no problem with it - we've been together for three years now, and it's going great ! Nice people do exist, and I am sure you will find some too !

[@SomeonecalledBlake]

Thank you SOOOOOOOO much for talking about this! I am asexual myself and see a lot of hate towards asexuals online, where people ALWAYS get wrong what it means to be asexual, so I’m really happy that you’re talking about this and make things clear to others

[@yan4505]

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT. I am not asexual myself but I get a lil mad when people keeps mixing up aromantic and asexual, I also don't like that "asexuals don't feel romantic attraction at all" memes it's just wrong

[@helloxd2635]

As an asexual, an asexual relationship is so wholesome- I’m famous (thanks for all the likes I never got so many :] )

[@jasmink3841]

YESS

[@duccline]

YEA EXACTLY

[@mikeydusoe4107]

Until you fall for an ace person and turns out they were questioning aro as well 😅

[@pedroviniciussilvaleal8113]

I really hope is not bad manners asking this or anything and I’m not offending anyone, I’m simple a really curious person. Like I always heard that sex and physical intimacy is a really important part of marriage, so like do asexual when like married or in a relationship love their, significant other but don’t really feel that much sexually attracted to them??? P.S: I really hope I didn’t offend anyone I’m just a extremely curious person.

[@mikeydusoe4107]

@@pedroviniciussilvaleal8113 you'll probably get better answers than mine, as I am only questioning. The friend who explained it to me said it really depends on the person. There are three "types" of asexuality. Sex-repulsed: "ew gross" Sex-Neutral: "Well if it makes my partner happy..." And Sex-favorable: "I have a sex drive but not towards a specific person." But to answer your question, yes sex is important to a relationship, but not in the way that "you should have sex because you are married." It is more important that the sexual desires of each person are on a similar level, be that level at 0 or 100. The main thing is understanding that romantic attraction, or love, is different from sexual attraction, lust. It's a fickle thing, because they are often portrayed as either one and the same, or completely separate, but the truth is somewhere in the middle, where a misconnection in one can harm the other. So yes, they do feel the romantic attraction, but they wouldn't feel the sexual attraction.

[@frogwitch5265]

The hardest part for me was that I actually started hating relationships and the idea of sex as I was growing up. You know when literally everyone keeps talking about attraction here, sex there, of how they would to kiss and touch someone? Or even worse, when someone started getting physical and weird with you just because they felt attracted to you. I always tried to understand anything that I couldn't, but this...I really can't. Other people can't really understand why asexuals stays single for a long time, but actually It's pretty logic, there's no point in pursuing someone who we know won't accept being in a relationship without sex, and some of us won't make it just because our partner wants to, since it doesn't make sense to us.

[@VanielDeeform]

Sure, and It’s also not other people’s fault either if they do feel sexual or want to kiss and get physical when they feel attraction. No need to hate relationships any more either, since Fortunately, there’s an Asexual community more easier to access than ever before, so it’s possible to contact & meet others that have the same preferences and persuasion as you.

[@LeejahTab]

Im an asexual myself, and also am not interested in getting into any kind of relationships. I just like to be alone, single and happy. But i do watch alot of romantic bl mangas tho.

[@ilikebearsboi]

i’m both aro and ace, and i’ve never been told “you haven’t found the right person yet” or “you’ll see soon” so many times

[@estherambrose1990]

I love this channel and with this video makes me love it more, I’ve been feeling insecure about my asexuality because of friends and personal choices so this really helps me deal with it ☺️

[@topnotch3268]

Her voice is calming

[@Psych2go]

So true!! - Cindy

[@MrOcean-wl1vy]

No not 'her' , she is Amanda go and follow her YT channel & Insta.🙄

[@davit7307]

Agreed

[@mmm-ei3yi]

@@MrOcean-wl1vy bruh. they said her which refers to amanda. don’t be rude

[@keiron.4612]

It's beutiful

[@skombgrave]

When I told people I was asexual they would be like “Weren’t you dating a boy?” Yeah, and what of it? 🤨 and then acted like I was crazy or didn’t know what I was talking about

[@naraferalina2308]

Same. I respond with: "Yeah, I was trying to make myself straight and force myself to accept sexual advances I was disgusted by, but due to heteronormative beliefs and comments such as the one you just made, I didn't know any better."

[@erenjaeger1738]

Yeah that makes you straight. Not asexual

[@cupcupping]

@@erenjaeger1738 ace heteros exist my guy

[@erenjaeger1738]

@@cupcupping just pretty being a loner ngl. Just can't handle a relationship.

[@cupcupping]

@@erenjaeger1738 "just can't handle a relationship" dude you realize asexual people STILL can have relationships right

[@lyricowhite6543]

When I was younger I spent a lot of time trying to understand and define my own sexual orientation. I can be attracted to either male or female in a romantic/sentimental way which for some time made me think I was Bisexual, but then I noticed that I didn't felt attracted in a physical level but emotional, making me think I was Pansexual. Later on I understood that I was Asexual because, though I do can feel sexually attracted to someone, most of the time I'm not "sexually driven" as some of my classmates used to say. I simply didn't and, though I don't mind intimate contact, I don't feel any need for it and sometimes I can even feel a bit put off by it. In the sexual sense I've no trauma regarding it, so I'm one of those who can safetly confirm that Asexuality isn't something that's BORN from trauma or something of the like. I've always been like that since childhood regarding the pleasures of the flesh. What's more, I regard the body more in an "aestetics" point of view than anything else, jeje. I used to have a friend who I tried to explain what's Asexuality to her 'cause she asked me why did I always identified myself as such, because she was one who also thought that, to fall in love/be with someone, feeling sexualy attracted to them was a MUST and- yeah, while in a romantic relationship there can be something of the like, it's not a requirement to be sexualy attracted to them or lust for them, to love them. I can say that that conversation was very stressing for me that time because of the misconceptions she had about Asexuality, which many of them even DENIED the possibility of Asexuality being a thing, a real orientation. Anyway, I got out of that one alive and with my mental sanity intact for the most part so, it was ok. I liked the video a lot and not being able to give thumbs up more than once to the videos of Psych2Go have always seemed unfair to me, one is no enough jaja. Please do keep up with the good job bringing valuable information like this one to us!✨

[@aninvisiblepotato8532]

It's so frustrating when people say sexual feelings are important in a relationship for it to be healthy. Like why does Love needs to be sexual?

[@lyricowhite6543]

@@aninvisiblepotato8532Honestly? I don't really know why. If we talk about having healthy relationships in the romantic sense, I don't think there's an actual NEED for the sexual intimacy to be present for the relationship to be considered HEALTHY. I mean- I've seen couples of old people who obviously don't or can't have that kind of intimacy anymore but they're very happy and satisfied besides each other; just in their loved one's company. And I don't know, but there may be even couples who, for some physical, biological or psychological reason, can't or won't have such intimacy and yet, be very satisfied and happy in their relationship with their partner. I'm not saying that sexual intimacy isn't something good or that shouldn't be, just that there's no absolute NEED for it to be there for a couple to be happy, satisfied or wanting of each other. Yes, sexual intimacy CAN be good for a relationship to deepen or even bloom but- for me? I've always thought that feelings, emotional connection and compatibility, are way more important. After all, the body and it's functions decay with the pass of time, but the feelings and emotions one has for another may not if they're good enough. Sexual intimacy do can keep it alive for some, but for others simply don't and- it's a bit sad, because Asexual and even Demisexual people sometimes have it tough to find a long-lasting partner because most people are too focused on sexual intimacy and may not stand our "celibate ways"-as some people say- and break off or even do certain despicable things behind the back… What I want to say is, LOVE and SEXUAL INTIMACY can go together, but there's no absolute NEED for each one to be there for a relationship to be healthy or be satisfactory. If you can have sexual intimacy without love/feelings, why can't you have love/feelings without sexual intimacy?? 🙂

[@azir1595]

THANK YOU! THE ACE COMMUNITY NEEDED SOME1 TO EXPLAIN THIS! you are the greatest content creator ever

[@HarshSharma-pg8qs]

Psychiatrist: Are u sexualy active Me: Hell yes P: I mean with some other person Me: Oh then no

[@41052]

Same lol, down with myself but when it with someone else 😟

[@liam-zj9np]

LMAOO he asked me same but he didnt believe me 🧍‍♂️ weirdo

[@so.mean.-_a7893]

That's me....💜🖤♠️

[@LeSyd1984]

Shouldn't that be called mono-sexual?

[@Mari-eo3yi]

@@LeSyd1984 nono,I think it’s auto. Monosexual sounds like the attraction to colors-

[@Lunautau101]

Also, don’t assume that someone who is ace is just “afraid to come out as gay.” *You don’t get to pick how other people label themselves.* Someone may be ace and homoromantic but someone can also be ace and heteroromantic, panromantic, biromantic, etc, so that statement can just be straight up rude. Edit: oh yeah and don’t forget all the other romantic labels (aromantic, demiromantic, etc) so yeah just don’t say stuff like that. Please.

[@PsychoChuckGreene]

Metrosexual was once a label, but turns out it was just a fad... just like this cringe video nothing but fad labels and in the next 10 years or so, no one is gonna care what people identify, they are all the same, Human.... with different fetish

[@dramaticallydreaming3656]

I wouldn't call asexuality a fad label as it has existed for centuries just never properly defined. Sure we might abandon labels one day but sexualities aren't "fetishes". How would asexual even be a fetish? O.o

[@Alicia-zf3nq]

Just pointing out that the aromantic labels don't belong under the ace umbrella, but rather in the aromantic spectrum. Asexuality and aromanticism can exist together, but they can also exist separately as not all aromantics are asexual. So it's important not to put aromanticism under asexuality so you don't invalidate non-asexual aromantics.

[@Lunautau101]

@@Alicia-zf3nq Ah, okay, good to know. I’m in both (demisexual and demiromantic) so it happened to be the case with me. I forgot!

[@ungodfearingghost5476]

I’m a non binary pan Demi romantic asexual

[@fatherjune]

I used to get sexually harassed by a guy in my class a few years ago, and it's so absurd how many times people have asked me, "You sure your asexuality ain't the result of that?" . . .

[@shadowgirl765]

Oh wow! A channel that actually listened to my comment!!! Thank you for finally covering asexuality 💜

[@Psych2go]

Here's another video on Asexual. Some of you enjoyed our first video on What Does It Mean to Be Asexual? kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2ekaIh3fZqZmbs What other misconception(s) you know that aren't mentioned in this video? P.S Disclaimer is listed in the description box. [EDITED] Thanks for the feedback on the asexual flag color order is in the incorrect order. We've given feedback to the animator. Unfortunately, we can't change it within the video once it's published. Going forward, there shouldn't be an issue with this in the future. However, everything else with the information is accurate. Color order should be black, grey, white and purple. Thanks for understanding!

[@kiwii1027]

[@sparklingdeath1730]

:)

[@Psych2go]

@@kiwii1027 💕

[@h.amster1314]

Hi!!

[@Psych2go]

@@sparklingdeath1730

[@lynidk5463]

Even being asexual I have a nice girlfriend, and we are in a stable relationship, a lot of people think the sexual and romantic atraccion are the same thing, but they aren't, is not so hard to understand.

[@randomuser5443]

Congratulations on the relationship. Hope it goes well for the long run

[@lynidk5463]

@@randomuser5443 Tysm

[@_7galaxies371]

How I’ve experienced my ace journey 1) I’ve come to notice that whenever I developed a crush/squish on a person I tend to pay more attention to the persons aesthetic and/or physical features of their face, funnily enough I sometimes develop a crush/squish on a person if they remind me of a fictional character and/or IRL “celebrity” 2) I usually develop squishes more than crushes, I’m not really interested in the broad range of sexual/romantic relationship, I just want to be one of their close friends with them and do cool shit together ya know?

[@racoon_in_ankhmorpork]

“Being asexual has nothing to with […] the jokes you crack” THANK YOU. I am one of the most dirty-minded people in my class, I’m the one in my friend group always telling dirty jokes. Sometimes I feel weird about the fact that I am the one to do this when I am also asexual, but ultimately my level of comfort with the topic has nothing to do with me being asexual (especially since I am only ever so slightly sex-repulsed), and I needed to hear this from someone else too. This is also extended to the whole video-thank you for all of it. The algorithm has caught on to my sexuality and it makes me feel like there’s a lot of ace rep around, but in reality too many people don’t even understand what the term means. So, my point is that every piece of representation counts; thank you again, from the bottom of my heart

[@ari8417]

I’m 19 and recently came out (not so publicly) that I’m asexual (still in questioning about if I’m aromantic too) and it took so long because I was just trying to imitate what other people did, without feeling at ease with it or understanding why people were obsessed with sex. But then, I just realized that I’m just not interested in having sex (and probably romantic relationships) and that it’s not in me

[@jocelyn7805]

Good you find out. Whatever makes you feel comfortable with yourself

[@xrainings2664]

Hey same! For the longest time I had no idea what asexuality was, and I kinda figured something was wrong with me. I currently identify as a demi-homoromantic asexual, though I’m still sort of figuring out my romantic orientation

[@Someone-dz6bk]

I found out im ace and aro about like 5 days ago I was thinking about being aro for a long time now and Im happy that you found it out

[@theoneandonlyluci]

Well I'm 14 (about to turn 15 in two more days going to adult hood) and I'm asexual and I have so many uncomfortable moments every single day. Even with toxic people. I don't even have social media anymore cause I've been bullied for almost everything. Even my sexuality when I used to be homophobic. Bit now I support the LGBTQA+ community and people are now making fun of me for being asexual. Um I mean they always did that to me.

[@Lockz1111]

My boyfriend is Asexual, he makes me feel warm and loved every day and I can only hope I make him feel the same. I can only assume the people who think asexual people can't date or get married are very shallow and only see relationships as a way to get sex

[@fireruby1882]

😭UR SO LUCKY

[@atsu.u]

exactly

[@OBLIVIIONedits]

That last statement is also not true and actually sounds a bit like now you’re shaming people who have higher sexual drives. We are all human beings with different needs and desires. I think we all need to remember that and have acceptance for each other and treat each other with the respect and kindness that we all deserve

[@riyaa5905]

My bf don't knows about it yet ...and tbh I also discovered it today

[@GensChilledCola]

someone: "wait so if you aren't gay/bi/pan/straight, what are you?" me: "ace, I don't like people that way" someone: "so like you don't wanna be married?" me: "for me, no, I don't plan on it" someone: "that's *sad* " (I'm ace/aro, and I don't ever plan on being in a romantic/sexual relationship with anyone, emotional and platonic are fine)

[@hot_cocoa009]

I love this a lot! I'm asexual, and want to someday have a SO, but people I have told about my sexuality thinks I can't feel love. Thank goodness somebody cleared this misconception. Edit:SO means Significant Other.

[@sabercat2178]

As a bisexual person, I love asexuals. Y'all should be free to eat all the cake you want 🍰

[@whinybaby8072]

As biromantic ace, I love your pfp

[@ache5935]

the problem is that we are limited to the people we can date because obviously couples are gonna wont to have kids and sex and because we don't want that it can cause chaos

[@starllen]

Gimme the cake

[@thatdoodlebunny1593]

Thanks for the cake, friendly bi!

[@thundiepants5010]

I agree, I'm bi aswell.

[@fangborealis4629]

Haven't seen the video yet, but just wanna say, I love that psych2go is covering asexuality and helping share info about aces. It's quite needed if I'm being honest. Thank you~

[@Psych2go]

Thanks so much Fang! We're trying our best to cover and shine some light on different topics :) - Cindy

[@yum3386]

@@Psych2go hi Cindy!

[@bagel4943]

@@Psych2go Thank you Cindy

[@georgiasomething2064]

EYYY the profile pic 😏 DSMP makes it everywhere o7

[@yum3386]

@@georgiasomething2064 what is DSMP?

[@isabellewilkinson1103]

Thank you for doing this video!! I feel so validated! The only thing that you could say next time is that others who are most likely in their 50s or older shouldn’t say to a 15 year old (me) that they can change my mind about being ace

[@jagodak.6867]

The only thing lacking here is explanation of what sexual attraction is exactly and how it differs from libido

[@kode-man23]

This is the best way that I understand it/ it was explained to me by my therapist: Sexual attraction is looking at a person and getting the “sex” stimulus from that specific person. Libido, or sex drive, is feeling the sex stimulus without a specific person causing the reaction. From an ace perspective, you might find a person to be ridiculously attractive, but do you honestly want to engage in sexual activities with that person? I know that for me, the answer is no. Having a high sex drive also doesn’t preclude someone from being asexual. You could still masturbate, but not want to engage in sexual activities with another person. I just try to simplify it. Am I having sex? No. Do I want to be having sex? No. Do I care that the answer to those first two questions is “no”? No. Then I’m somewhere on the spectrum.

[@usernameeueueue]

HAPPY ASEXUAL DAY MY FELLOW ACES ‼️ LOVE ALL OF YOU

[@usernameeueueue]

im a day or two late but thats fine ahaha

[@acompleterandom7360]

Wait this exis- When day was this?!

[@thatstupidchick7934]

@@acompleterandom7360 April 6th

[@PsychoChuckGreene]

I thought asexuals can’t love so why do you contradict?

[@horroradorer]

Love you BACK 🖤✨

[@trinilagos5957]

As someone who is trying to discover their sexuality, videos like these are worth gold

[@trinilagos5957]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm okay

[@Taro-X]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm let's calm down,believes can be anything by anyone. and so can people believe in what they want to believe in. be kind,and hope positive will come to your life :D

[@user-rm3nr3ip6j]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm based. Godspeed bro

[@Taro-X]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm yes you can :D Nobody is gonna stop you from believing what is right for you.Unless it influence others in a bad way or harm others,you can believe whatever you want. Believe in the existence of god,yea that can too,just don't allow ritual of sacrifice/mutilation as it's influencing someone negatively and even harm someone. And yes,you can even believe in harming yourself is good and all,But why?,why harming yourself in a bad way that will influence your future where you can be healthy and find interest in life...but I can't force you to believe in what is right as everyone has its own right to believe in what's right.therefore,if someone were to believe in mutilation of themselves is good,then,go on...their beliefs are Their belief.but I'll strongly advice them to not harm themselves.and,is an advice I give,not pressure or forcing them to change,whether they want to change or hold on to their conviction,it's up to them. So,that's my belief of what is "right" for me,but,that's just my belief or what's "right".I might be wrong,we might be wrong,as there's nobody is perfect. But,you can be your perfect self,not in a "perfect" way of saying it but,you can set the level of righteousness for yourself and call it perfect for you,I too can do that too,and so the others too. Stay safe :)

[@muff6761]

@@Bruhmoment-tk4hm GOBLINS LFMAO,you sound like a lame dude

[@bonbon1315]

This is amazing and finally a video that explains asexuality correctly are you guys planning on doing an aromantic version of this video?

[@aino5530]

As an asexual, I can totally relate to this video! People have been asking me these type of questions and how asexuality works. Personally, it’s annoying, but I’ll try to bare with it :)

[@cloudmilkshake]

They really said "Let's make a video about 10 things people get wrong about asexuality and then get wrong the asexual flag during the whole video"

[@silentcookie7261]

And here I was wondering what was bugging me the whole time but I just couldn't put my finger on it ^^'

[@kcthefrogusedyt8319]

Ikr that honestly bugged the shet out of me

[@violets.9381]

THIS. I WAS SO CONFUSED THE WHOLE VIDEO

[@evilpotatosheep2625]

1:00

[@iri783]

SO THAT WAS WHAT’S WRONG I KNEW THERE WAS SOMETHING

[@itz-mercury3263]

This is perfect! I wanna write a book with a asexual character so this will probably help me make the characters better

[@metra8604]

hey! would you like me to give you some advice? im an asexual myself, so i might be able to help. if yes, then first off, are they just on the spectrum or straight up asexual?

[@itz-mercury3263]

@@metra8604 oh yes please that would be so helpful for me! They are straight up asexual

[@Artistic_StayofSkz]

Good luck with writing the book :)

[@itz-mercury3263]

@@Artistic_StayofSkz thank you 💕

[@cloudymk8322]

that's cool! good luck on writing it :D

[@inue_draw]

this is so helpful, thx for helping me better understand myself and the people around me!

[@nothankyou6840]

"sexuality has nothing to do with the jokes you crack" the amount of sex jokes I tell-

[@greensonickid3304]

Please tell after each joke you go *"but Eh, what do I know?"*

[@nothankyou6840]

@@greensonickid3304 not every joke, but i have before and honestly with the reaction I got i should do it every time lmao