SEXIEST Masculine Trait Women Find Ridiculously HOT (Do You Have It?)

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Doesn’t matter if it’s a woman in her 20s, 30s, 50s or even 70’s… There’s ONE trait in a man that we simply cannot resist... even if we say we hate it ;)
No. I’m not talking about confidence, charisma or sense of humor. Nor am I speaking of height, social status or good looks. This is something way more unique and RARE. And something that most Internet dating gurus never talk about but they 100% need to.
In this video, Marni will show what that one trait is.Why women find it SO irresistible.
And give you real-life examples to illustrate how it looks like in action so that you can copy these examples and hone this trait as well.
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[@marnikinrys]

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[@the_new_liberal_lion]

I have just a general “idle” question here for you, Marni. How did you get into the Dating Coach Business? Did you give an interview on this subject as far as your background, experience? I’d be interested in just getting to know how this all unfolded for you.

[@TopperPenquin]

My Bald Head is a Sign That I know what i am doing. 😅

[@TopperPenquin]

Actually it is this, You have the Biggest Bank Account

[@TopperPenquin]

Then when you are DA sick I will look after you.

[@TopperPenquin]

I am beyond this thinking, I will accept any activity because you can defeat me with none.

[@dameonsmith31]

Video starts at 3:45

[@daveeverhart5834]

thank you

[@818SMERK818]

What dream have i fantasy before her in hmmm think men ... 🤔

[@ejscorp]

You're the real wingman

[@josenen7682]

Thanks

[@nairbyad7188]

i've never listened to her babble that long. will fast forward now to see if she ever has value

[@marksmith-jn6qw]

A woman insults me in public, that was the last second she is around. No second chances. Take me for granted... bye. Cheat..once. I'm already gone. There are things that don't get forgiven.

[@siddified]

No means no.

[@anythingeverything4424]

You keep them around long enough to cheat???😂😂 what a simp

[@tensevo]

how about woman sweet until day after married, then she starts insulting you in public......?

[@scatmann9504]

@@tensevo If she was worth the diamond, I'd probably have practiced talking things out beforehand.

[@crackedblackpepperandrocksalt]

I started dating a girl, i soon realized that he (her ex) was at her flat fixing the sink lol, re-wiring the lights, hanging doors, fixing her car, her family even asked him round for Christmas dinner and didnt ask me lol. He probably would have turned up at our wedding. Yeah i called that off. Not to mention the silly arguements and 99% of the time i was told to go home. She had daddy issues. I have learnt so much in this life, how people think, how they operate, their motives, what way things are destined to turn out (if you let it happen). Guys have respect for yourself.

[@Remianen]

Yeah, I nip that in the bud immediately. I tell a woman flat out, I'm not interested if your ex is still actively in the picture (I don't date single moms). "But we're just friends". That's cool, enjoy your friendship. That's not something I'm interested in though.

[@thetrutha2177]

​@Remianen Same here. there's no reason for any to be friends with their ex. It's cool if she's on good terms with her baby's daddy, but she's going to realize that she damaged goods to the rest of us and she'll be single unless she finds a single dad.

[@crackedblackpepperandrocksalt]

@@Remianen yeah. She told me he would always be a big part of her life and people will have to get used to it. I said okay 👍🏻🖐🏻👋🏻 she was shocked. Let's turn it around, say one of my exes was there all the time.....

[@user-bd1nh8kp5p]

There is nothing more attractive than a man with self-respect.

[@invinciblevettel5]

if that's her attitude then she can definitely fk off. Don't wait until you have a few kids with her and you come home unexpectantly and catch the pair of them screwing. Save yourself the heartache and move on. Sounds like she's definitely still fkng him.@@crackedblackpepperandrocksalt

[@matthewh8573]

“Buy me a drink” instantly eliminates her from the gf category and into the smash only category.

[@scatmann9504]

On both ends, lol

[@sumyungchong]

😂😂😂

[@darkglobe406]

yeah but that line usually comes up only if you are hanging out in the clubs or bars at friday or saturday nights you will not find any decent girls there to impress anyway ... i experienced and lived my fair share of "club culture" while i was in my 20s and it was fun , but i was only there for one nighters , i never expected to find anything serious while i was in there . therefore to approach those 304s and buy them some drinks and engage in conversation was a good way "to break the ice" and to get some action later on in the night .

[@benstephenson8993]

During this last holiday season I had a first date set up with this Russian girl, and she was running late at the bar we were set to meet at. I called her to see how long it was going to be, and she asked where her Uber was that I apparently was supposed to instinctually order for her. I started laughing over the phone and she hung up and deleted me from the dating app we had connected on. I dodged a bullet

[@invinciblevettel5]

Oh yeah fk that shit. If she's that entitled from day one it's not going to get any better. Definitely dodged a bullet there my dude!

[@steeloned]

Could be a Russian custom.

[@ricksazama]

@@steelonedthat’s a simp reply this man clearly has standards and self respect

[@UsernamerAlreadyTakn]

That's Russian culture homie.

[@Brandon-bm9zo]

Doesn't sound like she's in Russia anymore

[@petermartin9494]

Being approached by a woman and have her ask you to buy her a drink is a super opportunity to show her who you really are. The worst thing you can do is buy her a drink.

[@OzzmanComith]

i want to upvote but the number is perfect lol

[@karolisbareika8306]

If she's ugly she'll have to buy me 2.

[@ronjcharity]

I worked with a model, she was a partime receptionist at the office. some weekends we'd hang out with her model friends. the most educational aspect of the friendship - they taught me how women manipulate men. she'd say watch what happens when we stand at the bar. they never paid for drinks, they used the guys and laughed when they walked away.

[@joeyppppppp2]

Lmao that's not a secret 🤣 😂

[@mikeloki2064]

Boundaries has been one of my issues. Get it figured out as soon as possible and life is much better because you're not taking shite from others.

[@theroyalcrownedtiger2946]

I am not afraid to setting boundaries, guidelines, and giving instructions and I don't accept less than worthwhile results, also I can be very harsh.

[@fjockey1]

"Buy me a drink." "Prove to me you're worth it." 😁

[@allykid4720]

​@KenD67 striptease for water?

[@rn7171]

My reply is " you have 2 arms , 2 legs, and a mouth". Why don't you work ?

[@siddified]

​@@rn7171What's it like being a virgin?

[@siddified]

This is the only proper response. She won't be able to anyway, but she might try and that's how you get to have fun with the ladies.

[@EriPages]

No. That's weak. "I don't buy drinks for women I've just met" is much better

[@Jonathanpowell2023]

I've learned that being VERY upfront and honest with girls from the start works the best!

[@dask1516]

Nahh.. the best way is don't say much,speak with body language and don't give anything up about yourself.. listen, ask questions and keep it about her and then you'll figure out what you can share.. we all got skeletons

[@keithpratt1849]

Nailed it. I have 3 attractive women writing me that I was politely up front and respectful with. 2 were the wannabe friends first type. They are taking initiative now.

[@siddified]

Because you're not playing the nonsense game with them.

[@ConcreteMan7000]

I agree. never let people over step your boundary's. Had some fake people try that, and then when I called them on it they hid and denied it. Lol

[@jimmydabutler9022]

If she's still talking to her ex, dump her. There's a reason she's keeping him around.

[@TexasRoadRanger]

Love the videos. I always look forward to getting the notifications

[@stevenkinscherf6642]

I'm someone who def needs to work on setting boundaries. This was super helpful as it had practical examples to put into use. Thank you Marni !

[@user-ic1mx4hj5d]

It's easy. If you don't like any little thing - tell immediately or leave immediately. Works wonders.

[@J.B.7.4]

It gets easier each time you stick to your boundaries, build confidence.

[@allenblum6257]

Great video, Marni! This is definitely something I needed to hear. Thank you.

[@pianoLee-sx9dx]

Love your videos and they are so detailed in explanations! Love all your contents, especially about the emotional tapping one... will try to talk to more women using your advice!

[@elessar_111]

Love your work! Great pointers!

[@aaronpollack8832]

I think I'm guilty of going the wrong way with every one of these. Thank You Marni.

[@SimplyArt21]

Marni thank you so much for the information in this video. By far the most helpful advice I’ve seen in KZbin. Since I saw a ‘how not to be a simp’ video a few months ago. You’re the best!

[@michellevi4919]

Great vid! It's super true, as are "calm, cool, collected" methods. It might help to explain the balance a little more. Too hard of no's communicate disinterest.

[@paulgarcia5785]

Awesome advise. Thank you!

[@Christbepraised]

Thank you, Marni ❤

[@danbreckenridge3618]

Your words of wisdom are so damn True Marni . I will stand my ground and give you my Word that if your viewers listen properly to your video and take heed ........... then they will see that your words are Truth. Sincerely 😉🤟🙏 Dan.

[@Daemonfelis]

Awesome stuff. I will definitely keep this in mind just in case women start talking to me at any length outside a professional setting.

[@dicknodnfs]

This is a great teaching video to eliminate manipulative behavior. Keep preaching, Marni.

[@paultravis3249]

Thanks for sharing

[@confideo5]

Useful thank you 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Good video. Thank you

[@joaquinramos8234]

Hi Marni. A video please about what to say after been rejected by a girl. Sometimes they are shy so reject you waiting for seeing your reaction

[@ctaylor1460]

Even better: just walk away.

[@asafgreenberg2564]

Not necessarily It is important to understand what you need and your boundaries and as a man, even as a person, it's up to us to communicate what is uncomfortable and not acceptable in a relationship, if you just walk away you're not even giving her a chance to prove that she's the partner that you want It's not just black and white, if you won't give a chance to anything you will be closed off to many beautiful things. Remember that.

[@user-ic1mx4hj5d]

Absolutely based.

[@ctaylor1460]

@@asafgreenberg2564 If someone is lying to you or trying to manipulate you it's best to just walk away -- you don't need that in your life.

[@liamorr740]

@@ctaylor1460exactly the response I’d do, if the girls trying to hit on you then walking away will force her to come back with a smarter strategy next time 🤝

[@JordanKahele]

Agree, it's better to walk away early in the relationship rather than later, especially, when there is no common grounds between the two, so it does make sense.

[@derwoodhamburger]

Feminism has not only made some women act like horrible children, but it has also harmed men in the process. Many are too scared to say the wrong thing incase they're labelled toxic etc. I am so grateful I am not one of those men

[@thetrutha2177]

May also don't give a shit about offending someone

[@derwoodhamburger]

@@thetrutha2177 men? There are women like this too. I think the important thing is whether or not they are simply telling the truth from a standpoint of growth or just outright being a dick or a bitch. The latter is unacceptable

[@peterromano1911]

❤❤ Thank you, Marni ❤❤

[@user-pe5bo5gp6e]

Marni you are awesome, thank you

[@nolanman7077]

This is like a cheat sheet to a healthy relationship. I cannot tell you how grateful I am

[@premdeb7699]

I'm from India and this video is Very Informative. Thnks Marni❤

[@allstarscope]

Thanks my hair started fading in my early 30's its the biggest thing i hate about myself

[@alejandrotorosanchez4163]

Some of those advices are actually pretty good

[@randycape8706]

Great esp! ..YES ON THAT INTERVIEW! So who was the " man from Mars" and what do you know about him?

[@italianfoodmadefromthehear8729]

Marny you are the Best!

[@Adamtronik]

I denied a girl drink in a bar once, she then started screaming at me! looks like a dodged bullet on that one! lol

[@rckalias9997]

I had a woman who kept trying to violate my boundaries during a phone call. I hung up on her. It pissed her off, and we stopped talking. lol Was completely worth it.

[@SOULSafeProductionZ]

This was a good, straight forward video...

[@vilaolsem8350]

This resonates with me.

[@cobar5342]

Very realistic advice

[@vatsalabhinav303]

Thanks for explaining from India

[@matthewsilva8617]

Great advice..I never set boundaries at the beginning thinking she loved who I was, so it never occurred to me she wanted to change me and isolate me..8 years later I’ve woken up and I’m not fucking happy..never felt more lonely in my life, no sex, no hobbies, fuck I barely play guitar anymore when I used to play at least an hour a day..my friends have one by one been chopped off, and I’d rather sit at work than go home most days. Wtf

[@nkanyezimngadi4668]

Thanks❤❤

[@crackedblackpepperandrocksalt]

Most people on the internet who say theyre gonna give you good advice, usually its not good advice at all

[@crackedblackpepperandrocksalt]

Although... This was good advice

[@user-nd3fp5fl8n]

Smart. The other great thing about this advice is the quality of the relationship will improve forever. The guy who would've been taken advantage of won't become passive-aggressive, and the couple will be more able to engage in honest, timely conversations instead of build-ups to blow-ups.

[@xaviertaylor-di5rj]

Nice video

[@vkdeen7570]

aka a facet of confidence, just being direct about what want/like/dislike regardless of what her opinion on it may be

[@carloskleiber8500]

You softened your voice Good❤

[@SicarioGary]

Basically if everyone has access to someone say you favorite celebrity/famous person is the time you spend with that person special? No! Make women compete for your time and attention.

[@CoverageAwarenessStudio]

I have had some ask me to buy her a drink but I bought myself two... LOL

[@SicarioGary]

Basically, communication, communication, communication.

[@marnikinrys]

YES

[@KM-202]

@@marnikinrys Then 👅 it ..then pound town!

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@KM-202insane dawg

[@edwardwd3zk]

Basically, kiss kiss kiss 😘 lick lick repeat finger finger finger , suck suck , ugh it’s a workout let’s go to McDonalds now 😅

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@edwardwd3zk 👀 why McDonalds

[@user-dn5sq2jw8g]

So like "Marns," it's been a couple of days since you enhanced my knowledge (that I do appreciate, as well as the taking seriously of the clinginess issue as discussed previously that somebody had to say it), anyway, I had a question: how do we currently stand on "the stuff issue?" And also (if it helps), since we've never met each other (not to worry), because "I'll show you what I like. Mon Amie, Mon Cherie! (still don't know what that means, but I have to communicate, don't I?).

[@octavianr526]

Valuable advice. However, there is a thin line between setting boundaries and demanding a specific behavior. Because a boundary says: if you do not act as I like, there is no more "we". But the rest is true, it saves us from wasting time and building up resentments.

[@aissamelharuati6275]

Boundaries, confidence, charisma, status, etc.. have in common that it is about showing strength. Strength is masculine energy, if you don't show it or don't have it you can't command respect and thus no attraction. There has to be polarity for attraction. As Marni showed in her examples, calm boundary setting is very very masculine, getting uncontrollably angry is not strength... if you're a good boundary setter, you'll be willing to end the relationship and that too is strength.

[@wlewisiii]

Regarding drinks, I've usually said, I'll take a Guinness. If she then buys one things are on a much more even keel.

[@illcryst]

I dated online for several years , after striking out time after time these 3 rules changed my life. 1. Date everyone, and never turn down a girl who messages you first online. 2. Avoid the interview process on a first date, dont compliment her on her looks, a simple "i love that dress" as you hold the door for her will do.be as fun and spontaneous as possible. 3. At the end of the night if it goes well and that awkward moment arrives, do NOT hesitate, look her in the eyes, grab her by the waist, pull her close and kiss her. This crucial moment will determine if you are getting a " come over and watch a movie" ,or " youre a nice guy but..." Text the next day.... Funny and confident is the best combo there is. Good luck fellas 👊

[@TheWholeDamnShow007]

How many times did you catch something? Like an STD.. honest question bc I’m kinda scared doing that after c19. To random n muilt ppl

[@lonestar98]

this is crazy, she's like revealing these ancient secrets of the universe for the first time ever.

[@fortyofforty5257]

Behavior is misspelled. Other than that, good information. Thanks, Marni.

[@televishenimoniker5546]

My one line distillation that covers several of these topics: Respect & stand up for yourself in a normal human way, rather than _babying_ (or whorshiping) her from the get-go!

[@GregoryTheGr8ster]

Oh lordy, this lesson hurts! I have long known that I can't set boundaries. it involves confrontation. Yikes! That scares me. I always back down from confrontation. Help, What can I do?

[@harrymaurer7984]

Start practicing…. Start doing what is mentioned in this video and don’t think that some girl you meet in the last one you’ll ever get a chance with. There are many fish in the sea 😂

[@GregoryTheGr8ster]

@@harrymaurer7984 That's true about the sea having many fish. The problem is that the time between finding a fish that I like is very great. Since I have no social life whatsoever, I encounter women who I like maybe once every 2 years or so. That's kind of a long time.

[@aissamelharuati6275]

@@GregoryTheGr8ster Change your standards, or level up to the standards of the women you like. There is no magic involved in this. Doing things you fear and don't like is the way to evolve. Simple as that.

[@nobodysperfect06]

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.

[@andrewjackson9697]

I think the hardest part for young men is when the realization that the dream they were sold growing up, doesn't exist. Married or not, a man is on his own. Marriage is not a lifetime commitment with a partner who is ready to take on the world with you. Those days are gone, if they ever existed in the first place.

[@gazoontight]

Beautiful Marni.

[@FischerFan]

Annoying Marni.

[@user-zj4my3vx8n]

Good stuff ! I wish I seen this video 30 years ago. Makes sense. Pretty simple. Why do we let women direct our manhood ? That’s what I got out of it. Better to take the risk of ending it than being miserable for 10-15 years. I speak from experience. lol

[@CoverageAwarenessStudio]

Marni, could you school me in real life... 41 yrs old... I think my boundaries are too much!

[@mattm3377]

That's crazy. You let your woman go out with her ex, you're begging to be cheated on. If my woman sees her ex, she becomes my ex.

[@stephenreiner1523]

Don't be devalued by anyone and make it known that this isn't going to work. Believe me she'll stop.

[@JasonSavorn]

Reminds me of 2 Timothy 2:15 where God calls us to sort through the diatribe and the truth. Great stuff ❤

[@angeldiaz762]

"Doesn't matter if they're 70" Thanks Marni, I was starting to lose hope of ever finding my elderly fantasy

[@barryvarga3538]

Yup and it will just be a fantasy

[@fmd120]

When a girl whom I dont know asks me to buy them a drink… I say with a smirk Ok you buy the 1st round and I’ll get the next round and make them doubles! Depending on her reaction I of course buy the 1st round.

[@timfremstad3434]

Yeah, this is why I don't waste my time....I'm not interested in the stupid tests. subtle clues I have to decipher, and mind games.....I guess I'll always be alone

[@pleximan2008]

Marni ❤

[@nickdeavers5816]

Boundaries hahahaha… I told this girl I could not accept phone calls AT work, I got in trouble for talking on the phone; you can’t text me I CAN answer those. She told me fine obviously this won’t work I’ll leave you the fuck alone…

[@Manikhiphop]

1 absolute mandatory boundary established with any woman I’m with . You never disrespect me or yourself in public because I wont disrespect her however If they do show disrespect I’m calling it out then and there. If I have an issue I pull em to the side to call them out, never in public. Always, always be prepared to walk no matter the person

[@Vegeta-kun]

My girl knows how I feel about everything including her ex. But, her ex is controlling and constantly threatens her. I try to stay calm, but it angers me that her ex threatens me and she has tried to cut contact but she's not good at keeping contact cut

[@k31rifleman]

Setting boundaries is more proof that women are tall children

[@michaelczaykowski4009]

Under the heading of setting boundaries, how do you deal with KZbinrs that blatantly plagiarize (and I mean word for word) the content of another KZbinr and pass it off as their own original content ( i.e. Warrior Fullness). Should you ignore it or call out the plagiarizer?

[@cheguevara3392]

If you "don't want to hurt her feelings" YOU ARE HURTING YOURSELF! Otherwise you are going to get more angry and annoyed by her by the day!

[@youngtripp5184]

Good information beautiful

[@marnikinrys]

Thanks for liking

[@ElHolyBoy]

Or, hear me out, or dispense with relating to them at all. Save yourself the headache and focus on yourself.

[@rn7171]

I never buy a women a drink no matter how attractive.

[@Secret19977]

I’ve realised talking to women in the third person gets a lot of positive replies So for example I’ll say, she keeps impressing me, or think she’s trying to get my attention I’ve had endless good results from dropping in third person language during a conversation

[@shiangchingp5645]

when i dated and my exes wore something i didnt like, i strait up said dont look like a hoochie and go change. if she doesnt, i bust our my clubbing clothes and call the guys up, esp one particular buddy was the best wingman in town and she knows him too lol, shiet, two can play that game and she knows im willing too.

[@norcalbry]

I used to tell the girl to ‘buy the first round and I would by the second round. That’s how my friends and I do it’ just to see how she reacted 👍🏽

[@kennethferguson3103]

If you are asking for respect you will never get it period. Respect is earned, disrespect is delta with accordingly. There is no gray area on that.

[@sneggleblech]

1:25 I must be the 1/3; I'm 43 and still have a head full of hair.

[@learnpianofastonline]

Very good training!

[@TheScooterdude99]

Money.....period

[@FGF-om6nm]

Yeah Boundaries = if she doesn't at least offer to pay on the 2nd date(assuming you asked her out on the 1st date), there shouldn't be a 3rd date.

[@anandmehta2323]

Agree with everything but the ex. If shes still friends with her ex, not over him etc, then shes gotno business getting into relationships with someone else. That ex is hanging in there to get back. to have another chance. And all it takes is one time that you have a disagreement, she runs to him crying, he lends his shoulder and next thing they are in bed. Guys with options dont hang around to get back. They move on and find another girl. Exes should not be friends, thats the biggest red flag ever. And if the ex is so great why did they break up?

[@traverseish]

Hallo marni.....am William from kenya 🇰🇪 am new today am happy to find you hey am having this gal am jobless for now am having a date this week we have talked n got along well am scared of the date I love her n I knw she likes me help out am definitely have no confidence she is smart we even go church with her we practice singing together but haven't made any move yet am intending to make it this sunday

[@user-dn5sq2jw8g]

And also I just wanted to say again about all the stuff we could have done to each other, and also there is some stuff that I've been dying to try out, and I just hope that you can live with the absence of that, because (if you can), then you're me, and hey, oh it's just great, because there's two for one drink specials sometimes. I know, "so on board." Woman, I forgave you! And that was difficult for me! What the hell! That's all I'm saying.

[@xileets]

Such a HUGE distinction in your videos, Marni: Freakin' Communicate! Respectfully of course, but be firm and tell the other person what you want, and acknowledge what they want. I mean, c'mon! Shouldn't this be our first instinct? It's not though. We have to change that. (But if you don't want to change it, that's fine for you. But I think you're wrong. ;)

[@leehogg4624]

I've never bought a woman i didn't know a drink.

[@thesandman918]

If she's still in contact with the ex there ain't nothing to talk about or settle on. Just move on bro

[@jasonmomsma8680]

Hi Marni...the advice you are giving ill put into practice...but I was wondering if you have advice for me as a man who is now waiting until marriage for God's glory...because I do want to be married and maybe this is a challenge for you to say hey...let's delve into the guys who are abstaining until marriage...I'd love to hear your results...but I'm a fan. You do a great job, and the advice is pretty sound.