Sexual Fantasies | Dave and Ashley Willis

On this episode of the Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis tackle the provocative and often undiscussed topic of sexual fantasies within marriage. They address some common misconceptions about sexual fantasies, healthy and Biblical boundaries for sexual expression, and the God-given freedom couples should enjoy being creative and playful in the bedroom.
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A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together they have built a strong following, reaching millions of married couples through their blogs, books, and videos. They have four young sons and live near Dallas, TX.

[@JULALAINE]

I cannot flirt with other men once my heart is locked to someone, my heart will only open to him who keeps me and love me. No fantasy and imagination to other men. Thanks for telling us that even saying, OMG he is hot, we are now imagining what's the feeling of being with that person is a no no, cheating inside and in our heart is a no no.

[@lisaweaver7881]

Love your podcasts, such great advice!! I'm working my way through all of them! Married almost 4 years and have an amazing marriage, but I still love to find inspiration and ways to enrich our lives❤

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

Are You Open on a threesome

[@christophersalvatoreraimun8578]

Your information it’s 100% accurate, and I’ll add and go further in this, the more a person entreating fantasies about another other than the spouse, it work like a practice drill to get mentally open and familiar in going outside the marriage for fulfillment. It dangerous and wrong form of practice.

[@mateykolev9510]

100% accurate? Not what research shows. Religious people are the people that fantasize the most and the top 3 most frequent fantasies are all about sex with people other than their partner. You can devert as many planes as you want but they run out fuel and crash in to your airport regardless. Now you have to deal with the carnage. Wonderfull air traffic controller.

[@nyssamojica2945]

Thank you needed to hear this

[@OTG-thaOne]

Love these podcasts!!

[@Dave-um7mw]

One other thing that I don't think people consider regarding fantasies outside of their spouse is the Law of Attraction, that 'You become what you think about.' If you're thinking about some who isn't your spouse, the world will begin to conspire to separate you two.

[@jccarty1477]

How does the law of attraction work with pour people? Or homeless? They can think hard about being in a better place but it won't change much

[@mateykolev9510]

Too bad than. Religious people are the people with the most frequent and most vivid fantasies about sex as shown in research. Your god is one hell of a comedian. 😂😂😂

[@zolimak927]

What I was thinking too!

[@danielachrist19]

Thank you SO MUCH Dave & Ashley for this! God really shined His light in my life through this podcast!!! Just like scripture says : You will know the truth and it will make you Free \o/ . Whom The Son Sets Free is FREE INDEED and that happends to me through everyone of the messages here on Marriage Today and XO Conference where you and others collaborate!!! Thank God for you and all the team!!

[@jomamablu]

This session is eye opening to realize how important it is to not only have the physical and mental connection between the two BUT it is equally if not MORE important to have the spiritual connection between the husband and wife as well! We are made in God's image (trinity). If one - physical, spiritual, or soulish - is out of place then we are not balanced. I'm beginning to believe that a godly husband and wife need to help each other in all three areas. When this happens, God will bring a great revelation of each area and together we will be able to walk out the potential we have for God, for our spouse and for ourselves. I was never a fan of flirting with anyone other than my hubby. More than ever - we need to focus on God and on each other. Love your sessions. They've been very helpful to us.

[@jeffreyk.693]

11:57 I'm English. That accent was perfect😳

[@humblejo130]

How do we submit questions that we have?

[@hoiliswu6070]

Both comented Marriage Awesome

[@michaelcorbos1415]

What fun is this

[@Lala-ht8ps]

Bally's was exactly like that. It's funny they went out of business, but YMCA still in business! Lol

[@melodywilkes762]

What if your fantasies are faceless people?

[@stankakol5195]

Bring Bally's back!!!!!

[@bintaj1012]

🥰🥰🥰

[@johnbrownlee5213]

Lingerie equivalent for a man is the tool belt

[@melodykubiak5850]

If the marriage bed is supposed to be a holy place, what does roleplaying of sinful situations bring to it? For instance, a butler seduces a maid. Or to degrade themselves by acting like a stripper. The same thing with causing pain, as in spanking. I don't think God wants us to cause each other pain. That takes away from the marriage bed being holy. The same with talking dirty. How does that bring glory to God? Treating our spouse as the most precious person in the world cannot happen with dirty talk, calling names, etc. They are perversions of the beautiful gift God has given His people to draw them closer together in their marriages.

[@yorti006]

Very good point

[@JULALAINE]

No to mental infedility, that's why the bible is teaching us on how to do self-control and being single minded our partner.