[ENG SUB] 是家还是牢？走进寄宿家庭与监护人行业 Becoming a Guardian to Foreign Students in Singapore

随着疫情结束，越来越多留学生涌入新加坡。除了学校宿舍外，选择寄宿家庭的学生也不在少数。然而，并非所有寄宿家庭都能带来“家”的体验，监护人与留学生的相处成为关注焦点。
点看视频，一起跟随《联合早报》走进本地寄宿家庭，深入了解监护人这个行业。zb.sg/xzSK
Note: English subtitles are auto translated.
#寄宿家庭 #新加坡 #早报 #外籍学生 #监护人 #guardian #guardianship #internationalstudents
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[@bforbanana6184]

认同最后一个阿姨说的，做监护人要有良心，怎么能把自己的孩子放心交给满眼利益的人呢？

[@user-uw4so6vw6z]

I feel bad for the first kid, it reminds my own past struggles with similar issues. However, I'm glad that I've managed to get past them. Thanks for the video, hope it motivates students who are facing challenges.

[@xujunling]

講真，如果孩子還小過來留學，還是建議父母自己過來陪讀，撇開監護行業水很深，政府對此監控管理弱，把小孩子放交給自己不認識不了解的人來監護其實也是不負責任的。

[@brookeallison3589]

So, guardianship is super essential! I realized Singapore is a law-abiding society, all international students must have an official guardian. However, every coin has two sides so this is not good for everything. That is why it is so important what you choose. Good luck to all foreign students in Singapore.

[@user-gl1hr5zd6h]

thumbs up for this story！👍👍👍

[@leilei1831]

感觉宿舍环境很棒呢～～～我以前寄宿家庭基本上就是放羊吃草，周末活动基本上自己安排，吃饭也分开吃，晚上几点回家无所谓，他们说新加坡很安全。

[@hongguang_bao]

得有一些规范和标准，行业才能健康发展。

[@deepbluemountain6888]

It's crucial to be careful when selecting a guardian. A classmate of mine from China told me that his guardian didn't look after him properly. He's very intelligent but got mental health issues that weren't addressed in time, and ultimately, he decided to leave behind the world. So my point is, if you're struggling and your guardian not able to assist, it's really important to reach out your teachers and friends for support.

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

His parents should look after him not his guardian. A large portion of the blame lies with his own parents and not outsiders for his fate. They knew his condition was not well and they still wanted to choose such a challenging lifestyle for him.

[@deepbluemountain6888]

@@anglo-saxonconnor817 Everyone has their own choices, and each choice deserves respect. Pointing fingers and arguing about other's actions here is pointless. I agree that parents should look after their kids to study in Singapore, but not every family can afford to do that. If it wasn't for their child's future and freedom, why would any parent want to send their child to live with strangers? Also, as mentioned in the video, not all living experiences are bad. I believe the majority of them are positive. We shouldn't let one small stain ruin the whole picture.

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

I respect your dead friend choice for ending his life then. But I don't look kindly on his parents for sending him to a hasten end because as his closest kind they should know your friend health condition best and of all the choices in this world they still want to choose the option of sending him alone to live and study abroad and well they lost their children as a result. They made a very badly gambled choice and now they have to bear the consequences of it all. Your friend is indeed freed but before he was he created a pain as a gift and pass it to his parents.

[@johnkind5981]

Singapore University is in the top ten of world ranking but many China students and Indian students claim they study in Australia because the universities are good….the best Australian university is just in about 30 something 😂😂😂

[@SHIYIHE-vf9qq]

前排！🎉🎉🎉

[@user-ji8uo2wm3d]

是都是中文使用者参与寄宿家庭项目吗？听起来蓝老师的团队也是普通话交流

[@Bellbellrc6]

因为是中文媒体啊，为了观感会force受访者说华语

[@walkinginsingapore8548]

Dark side of Singapore

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

花钱买罪受。自己的国家没学校吗。

[@user-rb1nd1tb4v]

兄弟，人各有志！

[@SHIYIHE-vf9qq]

一直呆在一个国家你能学到什么，看到的东西永远只会是单方面的，出来是为了看世界见世面的，学习不同的文化和知识。出国留学的意义说实话其实就是为了增长见识，拓宽视野，每天呆在一个国家，看到国内所有的事情就以为所有国家都是和自己国家一模一样的运作方式，这是完全错误的

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

说的比唱还好听。要看世界要选个两天就能走完看遍的一个点。还有在学校里能看到什么。说到底就是要拿奖学金，居留权和文凭的光环罢了。

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

自己的一线学校挤不进。做家长的无法释怀用钱把孩子送去沾洋墨水罢了。中国人的心态。

[@anglo-saxonconnor817]

Whatever. It is none of my business. End of the day it's your children who suffer not me. They could spend their life being by their parents side everyday and form long lasting friendship with their friends if you are wise enough not to uproot and wreck their lives in the first place to begin with. Your choice your consequence.

[@user-zg5on1pr3b]

允許他人留言侮辱新加坡為 ' 坡县 ' 不去刪除反而刪除回覆者 ? 聯合早報可別成為中共同路人 , 中共發言人。成為下一個「被外國勢力影響」法辦。

[@xujunling]

中共和新加坡政府目前是友好往來關係。會說坡縣的頂多是井底之蛙的無知傲慢的小平民。

[@xujunling]

是我自己刪的，別多想了😄

[@ssg-9876]

新加坡是自信的精英政府，从来就没有大外宣和大内宣这类部门，最有钱的政府从不肯在这方面花一分钱，这一点，你有心的话，很容易从网络上观察出来

[@kaythailee4767]

有可能是被KZbin刪的嗎？

[@kaythailee4767]

我舉報那篇文為hateful content了，以從我視線消失。

[@Anonymous-zb8lv]

坡县真的好落后。 就是的第三世界，鸟不生蛋的地方。 竟然如此对待我们的孩子。 党真的该出手了！ 没有我国，坡县会走到今天吗？

[@ornegusan]

共惨党万睡! 万万碎! 万万万唾 😂🎉

[@bobbybobby7878]

哈，世界上不是只有中國咩？不存在其他國家的你來錯時空了，現在是2024年我們在中國星球。

[@pengyushan1700]

我知道这个账号，天天都在发表反中言论的账号，在这里反串，美国🐶就知道反串黑中国么

[@TofuZen]

又是个假中国人来搞内轰。

[@xujunling]

無知，去對比一下中國和新加坡人均GDP和人均收入吧，再看一下改革開放前鄧小平來訪新加坡和李光耀對話，可以說沒有此行，就沒有中國的改革開放政策。深圳是第一個參考複製新加坡模式的城市。