SHAPE Your Partner/ Specific Person ∬ Everyone is You Pushed Out

[@frankkitty6525]

I believe that talking about negative parts of a relationship with friends and family is really damaging too. It clearly just keeps reinforcing the bad things and manifesting more and more of it. :( How I wish I knew how this all worked a year ago when things fell apart. Working on bringing back my wonderful relationship. Will focus on the positives. Thank you for your videos!

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you like them❤️

[@HillaryJubilee]

Shelly I feel COMPELLED to say that you look absolutely gorgeous!!!! A true vision! Your self concept must be STRONG haha!

[@a.h.2667]

So true, I even see this happen with work relationships. Most of the conflict we face begins internally.

[@ShellyBullard]

YES. Exactly.

[@holisticchrissy5420]

This is a game changer. My SP and I had a three year relationship and the last year of it wasn’t awesome. I didn’t realize that we were both shaping each other and it manifested into a break up. This video made me realize that just like I manifested the differences in us, now I can manifest the Union, I can shape who he will be (and who I will be!) when we come back together. I know we are learning what we need to in this separation and now I have the gift of shaping him into who I want in our future. Thank you!

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@biakds5800]

When I am anxious and unease about my manifestation (impatience even when I have signs in my 3D reality) I come and watch your videos and I instantly feel calm and centred.

[@kristinmess8107]

You are changing the game for me, everything feels better and I am at ease today because of you! Thank you.. love Nevilles teachings and you deliver them so well.

[@Cookie.Monster831]

This is so true. When i met my SP, she was just as i wanted. Everything was great, i didnt even have to tell her anything and she knew what i liked and disliked. We broke up and i was always worried this guy would try to ask her out during our breakup, and low and behold i manifested it. However, i manifested her back, but now with a bad impression of her. Sure enough she pulled away real soon and is now acting in a way that made me feel insecure when she was coming towards me. It almost seems shes a different person. Since then i have stopped reacting to the current reality. I feel if i can just reprogram my subconscious mind to see her how i did when i first met her, things can work out. But im not sure how to go about doing that while im trying to manifest her back again.

[@shraddhathuwal4870]

Scripting may help.

[@ofmetalandiron]

One thing I've noticed recently as an indication of a positive internal change is toxic people dropping out of life in matter of days even before new people with whom we resonate start appearing.

[@MalaWaldron]

Enjoyed your video - thank you. Made me laugh though, because this is one of those things that NOBODY in a relationship wants to hear LOL ... all I can say is Test It ( and prepare to have your mind blown!) What helped me accept this (after testing it) was the belief that we are all connected to God as ONE

[@ShellyBullard]

Either nobody wants to hear it... or everybody wants to hear it! For me, it actually was VERY EMPOWERING and helped me understand why I'd had so much struggle in relationships before. It also was basically the only tool I needed to transform my relationship. This Truth definitely changed my life.

[@MalaWaldron]

@@ShellyBullard I agree 100% .... and yep, this one changed my life too ... many times!! PS Thanks for being one of the few law of attraction people talking about improving your current relationship (there's an abundance of SP ones)

[@helenajahjah8917]

@@MalaWaldron, how long did it take for you to see changes in your relationship after testing it out?

[@portaljulia]

shelly you are such an enlightened person!!! Thanks for bringing this holistic view on relationships!! it has changed me for better

[@ShellyBullard]

I'm so glad it resonated, Julia! ♥️

[@magiciansalchemist3693]

FACTS!!! I Saw an Episode of Star Trek called "Shore Leave"..revealed this Reality..Everything they thought both good and bad manifested. Even the inner Conversations and Expectations about A Person showed up 15yrs later.

[@stevethompson3683]

This is absolutely mind blowing! Thank you Shelley.

[@garyely6081]

Shelly you are amazing. I used to watch Roxy, Amanda, you, and a few others. I love all of them. However I found that my manifestations were all over the place. So I decided to just concentrate on one teacher for the next 30 days. Just listen to the one I'm most comfortable with and can relate to. Well girl, you are the one. Ty ty ty so much for your teachings. They have changed my life. I will repost in a month what happened.

[@tiaweidman]

Update?

[@garyely6081]

@@tiaweidman things are going extremely well. I work a tipped job and money has never been better. Sp situation is totally in control. Started towards my dream job and things are falling into place. The most important thing that I can say that has make urself the priority. Don't worry about what sp is doing. Don't worry about if they are calling you and etc. Put the focus on u. They will come around they have to. The most important thing it sounds so counterproductive but is to worry about you. They can't chase u if you are chasing them. Same with money and etc. Sometimes I question myself but so far so good

[@tiaweidman]

@@garyely6081 so happy for you! Things are great with me as well, I just love reading updates from people. It’s so important to stick with a happy mental diet! Whenever I have a negative thought I just flip it and take a deep breath and do some affirmations.

[@garyely6081]

@@tiaweidman absolutely the main change was not forcing someone to call or text and etc by me reaching out. They will NOT forget about u. If u predominantly think they miss and will reach out they will. It's hard to sit back and let things flow but that all you have to do. Self love is the key

[@sweetsue4204]

I appreciate your pointing out that this concept of accepting your responsibility in all interactions, and making the mind shift from judgement to curiosity and wonder will transform any and all encounters - all relationships, big or small. When you can accept, “Oh…..I made that happen” and shift to, “How can I change my assumptions to reflect that I’m coming from a point of loving?” your headed for home port. 😁

[@terrybunton194]

Yep this has blown my mind. Obviously he started being my ideal and my worry about a silly thing has manifested total distancing. I have done that to him ,I know he is a wonderful kind hot person who is deeply into me I just need to know it is the truth .This is an epiphany. OMG you are amazing and explain everything so easily.

[@deepikabali9199]

You're right, I had imagined my SP like my new love post my break up with my 1st college boyfriend. I had imagined him to be an Investment banker and one who loves and respects women, his mother and his sister the most. Guess what, I exactly met the same type of man who is my SP now and I'm manifesting him back again.💞💞😍😍 I wish I had seen this earlier I joined your channel bit late I guess. Thank you so much Shelly💞💞😍❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Amazing!

[@stephanievance4685]

I will share this wonderful video. Shelly you are a gem!

[@elliemcc4648]

So if you wanted someone to be more physically affectionate or say certain things like for example call you a certain nickname you would just assume they do until they do? Do you have any affirmations or advice to help achieve this?

[@christineweber6990]

Is this true for toxic partners? Can we shape a very toxic relationship? This is amazing information. Thank you!

[@turkanismail1848]

Aaaaaamaaaazing, yessss sooooooo true, i realised ive been doing it and i do it more conciously now. I do it say on the monday and it manifests as quick as the next day or day after. X

[@shraddhathuwal4870]

Can you please tell how do you do it exactly??

[@pavelkokm]

This is an excellent description of EIYPO!!! 😊♥️

[@beanieyounghans3878]

Working on the commitment, marriage and babies!

[@nsha1219]

I just luv ur energy so much positive... ❤️ i really feel connected to it..

[@yeoyvonne]

Wow amazing ! Love your content ... 💜💜💜

[@raeidanakhoul]

This is the holy Grail thank you so much this is amazing advice

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome✨✨

[@amix73able]

So true my sp is a reflection of me and I always wondered why. I even told him that he’s a male version of me! 😂

[@lilibeth8500]

Thank you Shelly! I whould say that this is one of your best videos! It shows the power that we have in creating our lives! It was explained perfectly! Awesome!🌹

[@ewanyoike100]

Love your vids. Just discovered u

[@julierose9624]

Wow. Our minds are so powerful.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes!✨

[@magiciansalchemist3693]

In the Bible it States My Beliefs BE MADE MANIFEST

[@shruthijayavenukumar]

Thank you. Happy new year 😊❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

You too! 2020

[@shruthijayavenukumar]

@@ShellyBullard ❤️❤️

[@sharonthomas865]

Hi Shelly, Thank You for sharing Your Video

[@Leonee88]

thank you i needed this reminder today 😊

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@sherelak]

Thank you so much ... 🌷🌷🌷

[@bfloss2938]

Beautiful Video.Thank you.🙏🏾♥️

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome!

[@bfloss2938]

@@ShellyBullard bless😊🙏🏾

[@iammisskriss]

Years ago my husband had an affair. I was very hurt but he asked for forgiveness so I forgave him and our marriage, after some counseling, is pretty good. After watching this I believe that I made it happen because of my low self esteem at that time. I expected him to find other women more attractive. This makes so much sense.

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@ShellyBullard]

Here's your affirmations eBook @iammisskriss love.shellybullard.com/18-marriage-affirmations-freexvh57wga

[@miss_mikimi]

What about languages?? We both have different languages, should i "talk" with him mentally in his language? I mean for Self-Concept i use my native language but which language for affirmations for him?

[@shraddhathuwal4870]

Repeating this daily may help: I HAVE NEVER HEARD YOU SPEAKING OR THINKING BAD ABOUT ME. IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE REFLECTING THE RESPECT AND LOVE I HAVE FOR YOU. SAME IS APPLIED TO ME AS WELL. ENERGETICALLY WE ALL ARE ONE. THOUGH I AM OVERWHELMED SOMETIMES, MY INTENTIONS FOR YOU HAVE BEEN PURE AND FIRM ALWAYS. YES WE DO SHARE THE GREATEST BOND AND THE DAY IS NOT FAR WHEN WE WILL BE CONNECTED SPIRITUALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY FOREVER ❤️

[@ioany6144]

Wow 🌸were these your first videos?😻

[@heatherpalmucci5999]

Excellent

[@suzannemayo8369]

But how do you shape them for the positive? Do I focus on the current positive aspects or can I imagine what habits I would like for him to have and somehow he adopts those behaviors?

[@JC-ph1vv]

This sounds very wild... I have to test myself......only then I will be able to believe it

[@rawbliss34]

This is SO wild! .... Radical Truth! 💖🌟💖 How do we "let go" of the beliefs (from our fears/history/dislikes) that get projected and played out?

[@ShellyBullard]

YES! I agree!! When I finally saw the depth of this Truth, it fully blew me away. Letting go: you have to just remind yourself over and over that YOU are creating everything in your reality... things that are still appearing are merely reflections of your old beliefs... and you must PERSIST in the new creation until it becomes FACT: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pH3GiIiDe55kfZY

[@rawbliss34]

@@ShellyBullard Thank you dear Shelly!! Our analytical minds do NOT serve us well here, lol! ----- I'm hearing from you that we need to keep on focusing on/assuming ONLY how we desire someone/life to be ... SO DEEPLY & PERSISTENTLY (and enjoyably!) that contradicting old beliefs just basically fade away.

[@swmonty9785]

You need to understand what your sub conscious beliefs are and clearr the things holding us back and input beliefs that will benefit.It is not as simple as one might think as we can hold beliefs from past lives ,trauma at cellular level,etc That is where a decent energy healer can help using muscle testing .You might think you hold a certain belief but at the Sub Con. level it can be a different story.

[@swmonty9785]

@@rawbliss34 That is hogwash , beliefs do not fade away. Shit Shelly what are you telling people???Bullshit by the sounds of it!!

[@ShellyBullard]

You can clear anything you believe you can clear. You are God. If you think you can't, you can't. If you think you can, you can. That simple.

[@funkymonk7]

I was thinking this very thought this morning.

[@Twisha12]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@rickymarcantel3855]

I akin reality to the ViewMaster toy back in the day. You select the view card ( reality ) that you will 'see' ( experience )

[@leighannv2108]

I understand the concept, and I see it in about 99% of him. What I have a hard time accepting is that I created him doing drugs. We are in our 40’s. Not teenagers. I’ve never been involved in drugs, never been associated with anyone involved in drugs. 8 months into our relationship I find out he is doing drugs. How is that “me pushed out”? How can I possibly take responsibility for a 45 year old man (42 at the time, yes, we have been on and off chit chatting for 3 years now) starting to do drugs? He did them when he was younger (horrible history with family life, molested, beaten, on his own since 16 etc.) however I have a huge issue with taking responsibility for him doing his drugs. When I told him that he had a choice, the drugs or me, he chose the drugs and that is when we split. He stated “no one is going to tell me what I can and can’t do, I am a 42 year old man”. So we split. I won’t have drugs in my life or near me. I do visualize the he is clean and sober, that he has chosen me over the drugs. (I am talking street RX, illegal drugs and drinking), however after 3 years, it’s only gotten worse. My whole point is, I can’t justify in my mind or heart that I caused this horrible thing to happen. I never worried about it until I found him doing it. He even lost his job over it. How am I supposed to say that this is me pushed out?

[@tijafication]

You didn't push it out. The universe pushed you out by revealing his habits to you. I want to share my experience so that you can get an explanation. I know a very close friend whose boyfriend was never protecting her from the abusive vulgar statements which were coming from the bf's other male friends. My friend was very shocked about that but her bf convinced her that after marriage everything will stop automatically. That is why he was not protesting them. Even the guy was not introducing her as his gf to his other good friends. Guess what, my friend and her bf got married in 2018. It was mostly my friend's persisting love and effort that made him to say yes. Now still that guy is not protesting his male friend's vulgar statements, even the guy hid his marriage to his friends and parents. My friend is now understanding that her husband is never going to stand up for her. This marriage has no meaning. Now see, the universe has shown my friend from the very beginning what is the problem with this guy. This is a horrible character that one can ever expect from a bf. She invested 4.5 years to be his loyal gf. Meanwhile that bf always hid his relationship from his good friends too. So it was a clear sign from the universe that you should not marry this guy because your good thought didn’t change his character before marriage. So, take the sign and invest on yourself, to attract the ideal person in your life. Your thoughts can change your reality, but there is always a choice given by the universe. See the sign, trust the universe and make the wise choice.

[@kirstin5268]

Well... that aplys to him aswell then, doesn't it? So these wobbles I sometimes feel about staying or leaving the relationship... are these his fears/thoughts/believes about me 🤔? Any thoughts on that?

[@marcyallison5996]

I want to book a session with you and found the paypal option but where do you pick a date or time for the session??? I want to do a phone call.

[@ShellyBullard]

Great! I look forward to it! I email after it is booked but you can email me now at [e-mail] and we can find a time. xo

[@ShellyBullard]

[e-mail]

[@geethaka6576]

Shelly, how do I manifest my partners to be more financially abundant? Im pretty well off myself

[@turkanismail1848]

See him taking care of expenses and feel taken care of xx

[@fratwor9033]

I see it with video speed reduce. 😄

[@jothriny]

What abput narcissistic relationships?

[@stevenspencer528]

I feel like I have watched a million law of attraction videos. I'm so annoyed I want something I manifest everything except for that one thing and it is driving me nuts I cant do it anymore. I'm mental emotionally and physically drained.

[@ShellyBullard]

what are you trying to manifest?

[@stevenspencer528]

Being a firefighter being a emt and serving my community through faith to going out to africa and Louisiana for mission trip I have manifested all of that even to a three legged dog checks in the mail to vehicles. Only thing I haven't been able to is a special person so I can get married and have a family with. That's all i want and need to complete my life. There is one person i dream of having a family with getting married to and seeing us having baby's. Regular dream is coming home to her painting she is in suspenders she has a baby bump I come over she tells me she loves me and I come up behind her kiss her check and her belly and help her paint the room as our three dogs combined sit outside the room laying down and just watch us.

[@ShellyBullard]

@@stevenspencer528 A specific person? And you've been trying to manifest her for awhile? Are you living in the end result (only) that you are her are together (the answer to this question is "no" because if you were, you wouldn't feel exhausted about it). You have to live in the end and live in the end ONLY. That's when it'll manifest: kzbin.info/www/bejne/an29dauwfd1od6c

[@ShellyBullard]

@@stevenspencer528 this one too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJyrYmOAm7eqq9U

[@stevenspencer528]

I have been living in the end. I have watch all of yours Veronica's amanda and several other peoples videos.

[@sherrikaramautar8576]

What if your specific person shows up but they are still playing mind games with you? 😒

[@positivevibrations7074]

Can we shape someone's mind after the breakup?

[@ShellyBullard]

yes

[@positivevibrations7074]

Thank you so much🙏 Please suggest some videos!

[@Goddess_Priestess]

🙏🏾💕

[@angelbaby3175]

How can u get them to change how they feel about you?? If no contact and I change my story and stay 100% positive he will contact me and want a relationship but he claims he doesn't want one because he's not happy with himself and has to deal with his personal issues

[@gaithrislife]

Assume he has no personal issues and they will be gone

[@manuh.3546]

First do the work and better yourself before you shape your partner. Otherwise you make him/her as bad as you are.

[@patzypl]

Shelly...so if you are creating your partner and lets say someone else is in the relationship.....2 woman 1 man... one woman has been with him for 23 years and the other only 2.... that means that the 23 years one has to win him because of her beliefs right... I mean, it would be really difficult for the 2 year one to get him right... my question is.... wich woman has more power??? Although the other woman was able to have him for 2 years... who created this??... the 23 or the 2 year one or him.... so confusing....

[@gaithrislife]

No. Time doesn’t matter. If you assume no one outside your reality has free will it has to be that way. Circumstances don’t matter

[@patzypl]

GaithrisLife Thanks 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@ricardopinto1339]

ONLY to be certain can this also manifest a SP even if i dont know if She even exist?

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

Oh she exists, that part is weird, how you going to get her to stay with you? If he wanted me to always stay, he would have to be exciting, but do the romance that I want, plan things always with me....ALWAYS give positive interesting passionate attention, to me and only me mostly!!!

[@christineweber6990]

So does this mean we can change a narcissist?

[@gaithrislife]

Yes

[@ceranaded]

i've watched a number of your videos and I've enjoyed them. thank you, you've been super helpful in explaining this concept further. it's not even a concept, it's more like a lifestyle and it's so life-changing!

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad you enjoy them🙏

[@Gloroxsocks]

How do I let go of the guilt from negatively shaping partners from the past? I feel like it’s holding me back from attracting someone new

[@Twisha12]

😊

[@ShawnFX]

Hi Shelly, can we change how our SP dresses? I want her to be more modest-looking, start wearing a headscarf because it's very important in our religion that we both follow. Thank you!

[@shireensaroea946]

MLP Shawn - yes you can . The easiest way is to write it down on your list ... do you have a list ,

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

Poor girl, can't show her hair, but God loves EVERY hair on her head!!!! Don't you ?

[@Strwby04girl]

Gah! He’s a narcissist... I really need practice wow...

[@Strwby04girl]

What if it’s been bad a long time and we aren’t even committed!!! Can I still try to change this??

[@gaithrislife]

Sarah Be time is an illusion. It doesn’t matter. Circumstances don’t matter.

[@candydelauney6230]

Why do You laugh about this.... Such an important topic and it feels strange u should keep giggling... Shelly feedback for You

[@swmonty9785]

Shelly be careful what you say because I have read some of your replies to peoples questions and you are giving them advice that is actually far from correct and this is dangerous.Kim Kardashian is bad enough

[@ShellyBullard]

😆

[@marcyallison5996]

Like what? I wanted to book a session with her.

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

@@marcyallison5996 well, a lot of this is against scriptures... as Christ was chosen, so that humans would have 'free will', saying our s.p's are of our creating, is saying they don't have freewill.... yes, I would love to have my s.p love me more than I ever imagined possible..... however, I've cried so much for believing l.o a and him working, being somewhere else, not with me.... that's not what I would create

[@Star20304]

Thank you 💗

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome 💙