It's been almost 3 months since I shaved my head. I wanted to give you an update, talk about insecurities, reactions, how I feel if I am growing out my buzzcut again, and so on. Instagram: / ecofriend.lia #minimalism #minimalist
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@daylight_indie814211 ай бұрын
Had a bf i was living with, said he would break up with me if i shaved my hair, broke up with him this year and temporarily moved in with my grandfather, who said he would disown me if i shaved my head, but i did cut it pixie short and was fine. A week ago i moved in with my sister and for the 1st time am living in a safe place. I think today is the day!
@scarmaladesАй бұрын
Girl im invested did you do it?
@louiserebecca23583 жыл бұрын
I shaved my hair a year ago during our 1st lockdown in the UK. My ancestors were italian and my hair is so thick, hot and unmanageable! No hairstyle would stay put, and it cost me a fortune in hair cuts every fortnight. Part of me has always wanted to do it, so one day just grabbed the dog clippers and went for it. I've never looked back! I absolutely love it! I've had around 3 negative comments. 2 people thought I had cancer, and a third said she preferred it longer. I just jokingly told her its lucky I wasn't doing it for her! My eldest son said I looked like a lesbian but suspect he was messing around. Everyone else said it really suits me, and I wear it well! I'm never going back. I love it. For the first time in my life my hair isn't controlling me. It's cheap, easy to wash and dry, and ths eczema on my scalp is gone. Beauty comes from within and I hate that society says that women have to be slaves to style! If you are happy on the inside that flows though regardless of what we wear. I equally never touch make-up. People are more surprised at that than my hair to be honest. I just tell people I don't need it; I am beautiful enough without it. I just tell them that God has provided me with a beautiful face, and who am I to cover it up?
@Harajukubarbie3333 жыл бұрын
Im shaving mine today and I hope it gets rid of my dandruff and helps with acne since my hairs so oily also I saw your profile pic and you’re stunning!
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
That sounds wonderful!
@bigr00752 жыл бұрын
How does it make you feel? That's all that matters. You definitely love it, so keep it. Want hair? Get wigs hahaha any style of hair you want
@nohanm86552 жыл бұрын
Hope to can do the same as you 😊♥️
@BadWolf1958 Жыл бұрын
Very beautiful bald
@Melian07 Жыл бұрын
If you're young you're not "allowed" to have short hair but then if you're middle aged or older you're not "allowed" to have it long... I'm so fed up with these societal expectations.
@kemimin49503 күн бұрын
i agree, however where i live there are many women with short hair not because they're not allowed to do otherwise but because of the older age and often after pregnancies their hair just doesn't grow long anymore (thinning and breakage, some health issues..), those who do have good quality sport sometimes suuper long hair)
@shannonalver77285 ай бұрын
When i was in my 50s i shaved my head to a buzzcut. The feeling of freedom was amazing. You look good.
@luuativee8 ай бұрын
just shaved my head like as short as it goes. its very refreshing. my family is freaked out but i like it
@WigRealtorАй бұрын
Me too. Love it
@corriemcclain79603 жыл бұрын
My skin got a lot better when I shaved my head too. I love having mine short. It makes my life easier, but I totally understand changing the length with the weather
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
That is so interesting to know☺ yes, it's such a practical haircut
@user-bn2op3xt1b3 жыл бұрын
I cut my hair 3 years ago when I was 20, for some reason people around me wanted to have an explanation about this big change... the reason? I felt too warm :) thank you for sharing your experience and again thank you for your videos!
@songbird60thompson143 жыл бұрын
I love your authenticity! So refreshing! The beauty I see in you is your smile and carefree spirit, no matter what kind of style, you’re consistent. Thanks for sharing.
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I totally believe in that too! I am a lot more interested in your character than your hairstyle ☺
@Natalia-rt1lr3 жыл бұрын
I dont eat meat and its really annoying that everybody always asks me why?? Why do we have to offer explanations about our decissions or choices? You cut your hair, its ok. You wear always in black, its ok...Everything is ok if our choices are about ourselves and we dont hurt anyone with them
@d.i.d123 жыл бұрын
I liked your long hair, I like your short hair but more importantly I absolutely LOVE who you are & what you’re contributing to the world. 🌎💙❤️
@shannonalver77285 ай бұрын
Well said!
@CS-xl9xv3 жыл бұрын
I shaved my head when I was 16 and again at 20 and again last year during the pandemic at 26. It felt really cool, freeing and empowering every time I did it!
@tinylittlebutstillalion41013 жыл бұрын
I had a brain sugery 10 years ago, and had to shave my hair, i grew it out again, but i feel like it Was more difficult for other people than for me. And a lot of people thougt that i had cancer..i like my hair longer but i have tryed almost every haircut that i wanted to try. Do you and Do not care about what mean people say. Love from switzerland ❤
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
I can definitely understand that! Often times other people tend to have a stronger opinion about my body than I have. Greetings back from Germany ☺
@sandys63793 жыл бұрын
We waste too much time thinking about what others will think. What about what we think and like for ourselves? All that matters is that you like your hair!!! 🙌🏽
@emilyunderwood83033 жыл бұрын
You mentioned decluttering thoughts of how your hair looks. That was such a powerful statement to me -- so I cut mine off too. And I love it! Thanks for the inspiration!
@samalsrei50892 жыл бұрын
I actually shaved my hair a few weeks ago inspired by your video where you shave your head. So thank you! I also love that I don‘t have to think about my hair!😊
@veggirl19643 жыл бұрын
I've had my hair buzzed to a #4 for about a month. I love it. I will probably grow it back again for a while, because I love change. What I have discovered is that EVERYONE has an opinion about my buzzed hair. Some love it, some hate it, some are confused by it, but, for some reason, everyone feels a need to voice their opinion. I struggle on and off with feeling less feminine, although the longer it is buzzed, the less I struggle with that. It has really been a great exercise in thinking about what femininity means to me and has helped me let go of my hair issues. My whole life I've given so very many hours to overthinking my hair - what style should I have, how long should it be, should I color it or not, why can't it have curls, etc. It is freeing to let go of that and just embrace having no hair. I spend about 10 minutes a week with the clippers and have to do nothing else to it all week. I have atopic dermatitis that also affects my scalp and that has been much easier to deal with while my hair is buzzed. It's also really nice to roll out of bed and have my hair look exactly the same as it did when I got in. Now that I've had it buzzed, I think that even though I'll probably grow it out again this fall, I will at some point buzz it again.
@meghane34772 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you brought up the style change thing! When I shaved my head the first time, before I dressed really tomboy-ish and I didn’t like dressing that way after I shaved it. So I grew it out. But in these 2 years of growing it out I realized that dressing the way I do is me, and no matter if I have short hair or not, I don’t need to change the way I dress! I don’t wear makeup or jewelry either and I didn’t do my eyebrows. But now I do my eyebrows and they shape my face so much better and I feel like I’ll like my shaved head better. I’m doing it again today!
@tracygraham80522 жыл бұрын
My hair, at 55 is short and so thin you can see through it. I want to cut it all off (though a friend is a professional makeup artist and hair stylist who told me prenatal vitamins, or Rogaine). I just want it all gone and as a restart, but am terrified. Did anyone cry over it at all? Please help me. I need a cup of courage. And a plate of faith. BTW I love your buzz!
@KA-kl2cf3 жыл бұрын
I buzzed off my long hair after watching your video after you did it Lia. I agree that people feel they have to make some kind of comment or offer some reassurance that it looks okay as if it was some sort of accident. I love the ease that comes with short hair and I have a bin of styling tools and products I don’t need anymore. Also when it’s windy out I don’t have to secure my long thick hair. I rarely wear makeup and jewelry. Some people I knew thought I was a boy visiting my house. It’s just hair and I may grow it back or not but I’m enjoying the experiment!
@TheYouthquaker9 ай бұрын
I’ve been shaving my head for 3.5 years now and will never grow my hair out again. I wanted to do this years ago. More women need to try it because it’s transformative. I’ve learned a lot about people from this.
@nancyparker21993 жыл бұрын
I buzz cut my hair to one inch over 15 years ago. I love it. I am 70 years old and don't care what other people think
@emersongrace82023 жыл бұрын
Your initial video really propelled me into doing it. I've always thought about and talked myself out of it because I was worried what people would think. But i shaved my head about 2 months ago and I'm so glad I did it. I dont think about it, it doesn't weigh me down, and hiking in the breeze is amazing! Glad I decluttered my hair and I definitely think my confidence and style has evolved because of it
@andreeap21973 жыл бұрын
I really liked your hair before, it has a wonderful colour and you could tell it's wavy, but I also like your buzz cut, it makes your skin glow. I've noticed that people tend to comment when one loses weight or suddenly has way shorter hair, might be that it makes them curious about our health, but that shouldn't discourage us to choose whichever look appeals to us. Enjoy your shorter hair and the time you save by not having to style it!
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I guess all changes in apperance can provoke people to comment on other bodies, but that is also something we need to think about :) I totally agree with you that everybody should be able to choose their haircut freely :)
@Ismea_2 жыл бұрын
I love this! I too have seen the stronger makeup look or jewelry and it's awesome, it's just not me, so it's nice to see someone who didn't alter their style to accommodate the buzz cut, even just for the video!
@magdalenahernandez15623 жыл бұрын
I miss my buzzed so much. My boyfriend helped me shave it! loved the lack of attention it needed and it was a confidence boost being someone of my culture to do it and hopefully inspired someone in a positive way. I loved how different it was from everyone else. You stand out but you blend in too in some ways. My parents thought I was crazy and weird for doing it but even now with long hair and beforehand they thought that too so nothing new there! And, besides, the people closest to me saw me for me and not for my hair choices. And that’s what I loved. I can’t wait to do it again. I’m having fun with hair now. I have a different relationship to it and we’ll see how long it gets before I get sick of it again 😂
@ginnycounterman49663 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the fact that you are open to change. In all of your videos, it is obvious that are perfectly okay with modifying your clothes, hair, etc. as it best fits your life. You don't see your lifestyle in "black and white". You see your lifestyle, fashion, whatever as YOURS and it changes as YOUR opinion dictates. It's important for people to realize that it is acceptable to change their mind or improve upon what they choose. Thank you for being so real.
@SparklesNJazz2 жыл бұрын
i buzzed my hair off a week ago and it’s easily one of my favorite things i’ve ever done
@junebelcourt-suhaka14343 жыл бұрын
People that make negative comments must hate themselves!
@taegansteinfort2648 Жыл бұрын
I shaved my hair for the first time the other day, and I have had a million thoughts in my head since. Your video and all these comments have helped a ton. I am able to relate to so many of the shared experiences! Glad I’m not alone:)
@hristiyanamitev3 жыл бұрын
For the past 13 years I have been suffering from Alopecia Areata, which means that I get completely bold circular spots on my head. Somehow I have noticed that they appear when I try to grow my hair, so I am yet again with the shortest hair possible. Sometimes I wish I could experience having long hair or just feeling more feminine, but most of the time I am just happy with my smile, my hair and the fact that it takes exactly 10 seconds to dry. And I always like to remember that all that matter is being authentic and comfortable. After all short hair allows us to have freedom of mind and that is why Buddhist monks cut theirs :) No distraction at all...
@user-ri1xj1fn9i2 ай бұрын
You’re attitude and thought process is refreshing! I am debating shaving my head and this video was helpful, thank you :)
@20kjw3 жыл бұрын
I think you look feminine - and so beautiful - because you are being authentic your inner beauty is shining through
@user-lx7ci3gg5f4 ай бұрын
I think it's really interesting what you said about jewelery and make-up, that some people do more of that after they get a buzzcut. For me, it was the opposite; I felt like even small earrings could look too much. Kind of what you described about the smaller head without hair in comparison with a big sweater. I also found that cerain colours where harder to wear due to less contrast between between my haircolor (which gets lighter as the hair gets shorter) and my skin tone, which was interesting as well. I too went shorter and shorter, as a way to not have to cut it as often, but also found that I didn't like it too short. The shortest for me was 3 mm on the sides and 6 mm on top which felt too short. I much prefered having 6-9 mm on the sides and 9-12 mm on top. I never really thought about how having so short hair impacted my skin (apart from the imperfections being more visuable/harder to hide), but now that I think about, I find that my skin isn't as good now as it was with short hair (I've been growing my hair out since June last year). Sigh, I really miss the simplicity of having really short hair. But everytime I buzz it off I end up missing my longer hair eventually, and it takes forever to grow it out, so I must stay strong lol.
@lorihornbogen80952 жыл бұрын
I let mine go gray and then I decided to cut it real short….I never looked back…I’m happy and I don’t care what anyone says….I love the simplixcity
@aeugh67435 ай бұрын
It's mind boggling how similar your mindset is to mine! Happy to have found you
@Godisfirst212 жыл бұрын
I just shaved my head....buzz cut! I LOVE it!
@edwrdawg2 жыл бұрын
ima keep it real simple. you’ll always be beautiful💛
@vivendoaway48523 жыл бұрын
I really loved your hair. But what I like more on you is your courage and authenticity. I really support people that want to experience different things. I think it is very important to explore yourself to feel what is the best for you. Thank you for sharing your experience. I think some day I will shave my hair too.
@milacasper Жыл бұрын
You look absolutely wonderful and i could listen to you and watch you speak for hours
@susanmorris6350 Жыл бұрын
Than you so much for sharing this! I am about to donate all of my hair for the same reasons and was getting pretty worried, but I am so excited now!
@sunflowers7302 жыл бұрын
People need to mind their own business. Someone shaving their head doesn't hurt people around them, so they need to buzz off. ( see what I did there? 😉) Seriously though. It can apply to anything at any time. When I was around my mid forties, I said oh, my legs are too fat and ugly with spider veins to wear shorts anymore. Then just a few years later I said screw everyone else. I went back to wearing shorts for coolness in the summer, and I said if anyone thinks my legs are ugly, they don't have to look at my legs, now do they?
@maytelopez60733 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I think you look beautiful 😊. I also shaved my hair last March, a lot shorter actually, the shorter I could go just with the machine. I decided it last year, but I decided to wait for the spring. My experience has been similar, my haircut is definitely a style statement, my friends tell me my looks and outfit look more cool just because I have shorter hair 🤣 I have had a lot of positive reactions from my closest friends and family, my grandpa was the sweetest, he hugged me and told me I looked so beautiful. In terms of attention, in the street I see people staring at me and that is a bit uncomfortable, I hope it will normalize in the future. And yes I have been loving it!! It is so easy to maintain and I think it looks always presentable 😄
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Oh, your grandpa really sounds so amazing! Yes, I definitely hope too that buzzcuts will become more normal for women too! ☺
@speedyspeedgirl17783 жыл бұрын
I've had my buzzcut since just over half a year and I absolutely love it! It is much less work it is nice and cool in the summer and does not get sweaty and one random thing I noticed is this: I love wearing hats but Berlin is quite windy. So I could not wear them because they would fly away. Now the short hair actually gives a lot of "grip" and I can wear my beloved hats again without them flying away. 😊 I am a bit scarred for the future though, because in the next year or two I will be reentering the workforce (now I am sick with depression) and I am scarred to have a disadvantage in the job application process. Because we all know that appearance and attractiveness plays a huge role in first impressions and such. And even though I absolutely love it I do see that I look less feminine now that my hair is short. I do not know yet if I will start growing it out once I am ready to apply for jobs or if by that time I will be brave enough to try it like this. But yeah, that is a fear that I have. Especially with my academic background and desire to work with people (so not just sitting in an office behind the scene).
@TheMissileHappy2 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna shave my head in 2 days! I'm kind of nervous, but also super excited :D
@pacifica97183 жыл бұрын
Great video as always. I think the short hair looks lovely on you.
@Laura-ub1wt Жыл бұрын
IT LOOKS SOOOO GOOD ON YOU!😍🤩
@Bumbledora3 жыл бұрын
I hate pimples on my face. I don't get them very often, but they do show up sometimes. Even as a 51 yrs old. I think you look cool! I have to say also, that when you did hair, I thought if was very natural beautiful hair. I think it's important to feel what oneself want, not what other wants. No matter with your very short hair or longer, you look good in your clothes. And comfortable clothes, cozy, soft to the skin, we both have in common. Stereotypes are for people that think ignorance is bliss. And I just ignore people like that. Much love💗♥️🌻
@reneebakos8230 Жыл бұрын
I have a shaved head too. The one thing tho is that I'm letting it grow. The city I live in unfortunately is very judgemental and I don't fit in. I'm 41 and my family likes it but no one else does. It's hard on me getting stares and pointing fingers. It's gotten so bad I have to grow it out. It's a sad situation.
@Go-zi1py3 жыл бұрын
From a practical aspect a buzz cut in summer is cool and comfortable and in winter longer hair is warmer. It would be really easy to buzz it in the summer and let it grow long in winter. Less work more practical.
@paulijooste30103 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for this video xxx BRILLIANT and so very needed - I shave my head because I like it and have been called so many things but at the end of the day it's my life, my choice etc. Love your work - it's really inspiring.
@brib16263 жыл бұрын
I think everyone needs to do what's right for themselves! I cut 27" of hair off last month and I'm really happy with it! Went from butt length to chin length. It felt kind of good knowing my hair would continue to be used also, instead of just tossed out like from a regular hair cut :) Lots of people asked me why I did it
@melaniegodwin87913 жыл бұрын
I love your hair and think it suits you perfectly. Ignore the negative comments because you are a breath of fresh air in a bland world!
@Harajukubarbie3333 жыл бұрын
I really wanna shave my head, I’ve wanted to for 2 years but everyone’s like you won’t look good or you’ll look like a boy etc but I’ve done crazy stuff to my hair so it’s not that crazy to me… I really just need a reset, mentally and for my hair I was just looking for recent videos about women shaving their head and I love your lifestyle! I don’t wear makeup either and I love eco friendly/minimalist stuff so I subbed
@innere_raeume3 жыл бұрын
There's a hairstylist that's got quite a following here on yt reacting to women shaving their heads and I watched that video before shaving mine, it was so encouraging. Fuck what people think. I have been mistaking for a boy but it really doesn't change who I am - I have learned so much more about myself when the hair was gone and all that's left really was me. If you want to do it, do it. It's so worth it - even if you don't like it, it will grow back and you can tell yourself you had the guts to try at least
@Harajukubarbie3333 жыл бұрын
@@innere_raeume I had super short hair before but not shaved and I got mistaken as a boy so i'm used to it. And yes I'm going to but idk how short i wanna buzz it to and I watch his video too and that's what originally made me want to
@andrewbarry51303 жыл бұрын
Keep your hair short or long. It's your choice, don't let other people or advertising dictate how your body should styled. We have enough sheep in this would, we don't need another one.
@kathleenwelsh79662 ай бұрын
You look very comfortable and authentic with short hair. 💜 I have a lot of hair. I have had an undercut for about 8 years and I love it. Right now my length is a little above my shoulders. Maybe some day I might cut more off. 😊
@katjarozantseva80693 жыл бұрын
oh my, I had really strong wish to shave my head 5 years ago when I was finishing my degree, but I still wasn't brave enough for that. also I lived in a not so tolerant society at that moment, and I was afraid that bullying against a bald woman can go physical. i like that shaved head reminds me about monks and their concentration on their thoughts, not their hair. I already thought again about shaving my head this spring and now I see you :) I think I will finally try it after visiting my grandma soon
@kleio73232 жыл бұрын
I already have a short hair but it grows out so quickly and I've always wanted to try to shave my hair but I'm so scared.. so that's why I'm here.. Thank you.
@biancascerri77383 жыл бұрын
I think your features have really come out and it’s lovely
@lorla853 жыл бұрын
I did get my hair cut extremely short too, about 6 years ago, I just got tired of it and decided to get rid of it… the beautician ask me if I realize how many of her clients would love that hair on the floor. 😂😂😂 it almost looked like a small dog as I have fairly thick hair! I did let it grow out again. I decided that tattoos are so permanent and a lot of people get them, hair cuts come & go it will definitely grow back 😀💕
@kathyrizzi87543 жыл бұрын
I have a buzz cut and my head is small also. Earrings gives it more balance, plus they look great with buzz cuts. I do wear them everyday, my hang up. LoL! You look good in the length you have, enjoy the freedom! 👍🥰🌺🌹♥️
@kathyrizzi87543 жыл бұрын
We can’t worry what other people think in their heads, it’s their problems, not ours. There’s 4 other ways they can look! ⬆️⬇️➡️ ⬅️ 😂
@joellechiara3 жыл бұрын
Mm - I buzzed my head about a year ago and have repeatedly buzzed it over and over again, thinking I would grow it out and it never felt good. I also find that living in two different cultures really has affected me. When I'm in Austria (where I live), no one thinks anything about it. But when I'm in Los Angeles (my home town), I get the strangest looks. It's just hair!!!!! My family here in LA doesn't really care for it it either - they think that long blonde is the 'so cal' thing to do I'm sure they think I look like a thumb. It's really annoying. But I love it. My husband loves it. My clothes are a little different on me too - collared shirts look not the best anymore. I think you look great - I love your aesthetic and your whole vibe. You do you boo. xoxo
@marysusansusan3 жыл бұрын
That's really interesting cause I feel like you look way more feminine than me
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Ok that is interesting ☺
@marysusansusan3 жыл бұрын
@@ecofriendlia I think maybe I just grew up associating fairer features with femininity. I'm a white woman but I have black hair and eyebrows (think Southern Europe) and I was bullied a lot for looking like a man growing up cause I had the complexion associated more with like "hairier ethnicities" or at least ethnicities that have more visible hair cause it's so dark (at least this is the case in Europe and North America). Because of this I think I just feel like I don't look very "pretty" with sort hair. Thankfully, these days I really enjoy looking masculine sometimes too :D
@spiritbeingapotheca3 жыл бұрын
I find myself only wanting to watch your videos with it shaved. Even the one’s you upload recently but were filmed preshave, I’m all “nooooo I want the shaved!” I think it looks amazing on you. There’s a girl at my son’s middle school with blonde shaved head and even from afar she is just beautiful and glowing. I have a massive mane of wild frizzy bumpy loopy knotted freeform locs and some days don’t want anyone to see me, and other days I’m like f it, I’m tired of caring. I let it go because I was tired of fighting my hair everyday. And my man’s hair is as long as mine ;) mid back.
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Haha, that is interesting! But I think I sometimes feel similar when I look at old pictures or videos of myself ☺ yes, that is a topic too, usually for kids, it's even harder having a length that is not associated with their gender. My son used to love long hair but he always gave up and wanted to cut his again when other kids started making fun of him. And when I cut my own hair pretty short in 8th grade everybody used it as a reason to bully me... I am sure your locks look great! Hair can be beautiful in so many different ways ☺
@gurukiran9103 Жыл бұрын
I went to the barber today to get a buzzcut but unfortunately I didn't have the confidence to get a buzzcut and came back with a regular medium length haircut
@itsvintage50s572 жыл бұрын
I'm contemplating getting a buzz cut! My hair is thin, completely straight, and oily. I have to wash it about every 1-2 days just so it's not greasy and it's aweful because whenever I try to style my hair it just doesn't stay up because there's either not enough oil or too much, plus the straightness of my hair. I cut my hair into a pixie but I don't think it's short enough because if I got a buzz cut I wouldn't have to deal with this anymore!!!
@sidewalksaints2 жыл бұрын
great vid! love the buzzcut:)
@lpanayi69542 жыл бұрын
I have sensory issues with long hair AND having a buzzcut. I've done both many times. Long hair drives me mad: it's hot when it's down and it hurts when it's tied up- and a buzzcut head itches when I lie down or wear hoods/ hats. I've also found that as I grey at the front it looks more like I have a receding hairline, and as I'm older people tend to assume as a default that I've had/ am having chemo. I'm not sure there is a hair length that I DO feel comfortable with, tbh. I have trichotillomania which is better when my head is shaved, but I tend to scratch and skin pick more when my head is shaved. I don't know what the answer is- Short but not buzzcut hair, or chin-length at the longest. But then I am dependent on others to cut my hair, which I'm not keen on either. I think the buzzcut looks good on you. Very classic.
@antifleshnimbus47853 жыл бұрын
When I shaved head, I was just waiting for everyone mistake me with a boy (my family was making alot of very bad comments about it, so that I guess mostly the reason of insecurity, beside I wear rather not-feminine clothes) and well... people still can see I'm a girl ;P + I had no much bad reactions from strangers of co-workers, beside one woman asked me "what happened to you?" and one guy saying someone may mistake me for a man XD
@michellelabelle30483 жыл бұрын
I have long blond hair. My partner has asked me to leave it long because that's his preference. I have also had it short and dark. Tastes change over time and hair can grow and be cut depending on how you want it to be. Just be happy with yourself.
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Yes absolutely! And while I think you should do what feels best for you, I would also maybe have the haircut my partner likes best on me if I didn't have a preference ☺ (I think that is an interesting topic. For some people, it is a no-go to do something your partner doesn't absolutely approve of and then others would never let any opinion from others guide a decision )
@CiaraColette3 жыл бұрын
You’re so lovely. I always enjoy your videos. I love your authenticity and simplicity. 💖
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! That makes me really happy ☺❤
@bethmontgomery47663 жыл бұрын
You're such a lovely soul, truly enjoy your energy. I have thought about shaving my hair off or going for a really shorter style. I think I'm *almost* there... the inner voice is what is mostly keeping me from experiencing the freedom of shorter hair. Thank you for breathing confidence into the digital airways. Well recieved! Love your content!
@teresastorms37743 жыл бұрын
I still love it! I might go for it while it's still hot out. I did get mine very short and purple! I get weird looks sometimes and I don't hinkle much of it. I forget I have purple spiky hair until I see my reflection somewhere, LOL.
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
You should if you want to! It grows out so quickly to make another haircut again if you don't like it buzzed ☺ I know what you mean! I have that too that sometimes I think about why people look at me strangely until I realize that it could be because of my hair (or if I am with my son because people don't know if I am his mom or sister 😂)
@teresastorms37743 жыл бұрын
LOL, I just might once my purple fades. 💜
@mayvel15373 жыл бұрын
Love your view on it! I've got the opposite (super long hair), and it's interesting I can relate to all you said :)
@jerrycful5 ай бұрын
I love your clean, simple, wholesome image. Femininity comes from within you. You're beautiful to me. I wish I had a girlfriend who thinks and looks like you in this style! :)
@martinam99893 жыл бұрын
Love the video, your hair and your channel in general! Thank you for your content, it really helps me on my minimalist journey. And I've been thinking about a short hair cut for a while... I'm even more tempted now.
@suzstancova42203 жыл бұрын
There is so much negative about women having short hair. Hair is just hair and will always grow back! My favourite song from India Arie is "I am not my hair". Maybe you should play it to all the people who have problem with you having very short hair. You look beautiful with long or with short hair.
@CS-xl9xv3 жыл бұрын
I like short hair and pixie hair cuts. The only thing that I don’t like about short hair is that you have to get haircuts every few weeks but to me it is worth it because short hair looks better on me. I think it suits me better
@BigRiceBigRabbit3 жыл бұрын
this is so awesome, I'm so tempted 🤩
@laurabeetschen28283 жыл бұрын
Lia, I once cut my hair to grade 1 and had a lot of people think it was a chemo cut. But at between 9mm and 13mm nobody much says that.
@leonorgarcia37503 жыл бұрын
I actually got the cancer thing quite a lot when I first shaved my head??? Like people would ask my family members and my boyfriend if I was okay and if I was feeling better :|
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I actually only got that online! I really hope that people realize that it's just a good and practical hairstyle ☺️
@outfield19887 күн бұрын
Buzzed cut is amazing on ladies
@talatete873 жыл бұрын
You are really beautiful inside and out 💜.
@Robert-qm1ld3 жыл бұрын
Hi La. My mother always had short hair, even back in the 1960's and to me short, medium or long is fine. I think some people look better one way than another, but that's just preference. My hair is long, middle of my back and I have a short beard that I grow and shave, grow again. When you first cut your hair I thought the middle length was striking and I'm curious to see how it grows out this fall if you decide to. I'm going to cut mine as soon as I figure out how I want it to look. I'll get someone to cut it in a style that suits me. 😀
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
That sounds gold to me ☺ I am glad men usually don't get as many weird comments for long hair anymore as women for short hair (at least it seems that way in Germany) but I think personal preference is of course always a thing and the most important preference is the one of the people having the haircut ☺
@Robert-qm1ld3 жыл бұрын
@@ecofriendlia I live in the Southwest US and very few people from this region care but when I worked in Florida - let's just say I was glad to leave when the time came.
@katielammert70604 ай бұрын
I think it’s gorgeous!
@anitajurkovic11814 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@Rendani1202 ай бұрын
You are looking so cool with short hair ! my whole family dont want me to cut my hair this short ( im an adult (27 Years old ))
@jaceepevey9080 Жыл бұрын
I want to buzz my hair so badly, I have middle of shoulder length hair right now and it's so thick, plus my hair is always greasy, it doesn't matter how much or little I wash it, I've tried different shampoo's and oils and nothing really helps,, I constantly wear my hair up which gives me headaches and Im so sick of it, but I'm 16 and still need parents approval,, I can sway my mom because she understands what having alot of hair is like but my dad doesn't understand so he'll thinks it's just for a trend and it's not
@nickifoos Жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful. Thank you!
@Bougie6422 жыл бұрын
Just came across your video and as an objective viewer seeing you in former videos with long hair I know your overall appearance is elevated with your buzzcut hair. You have pretty shoulders and appear petite which is nice.
@matildalepoglavec92673 жыл бұрын
Bravo! For saying these things and thank you for doing it.
@1974AMDG3 жыл бұрын
I wish I was brave enough to shave my head and I'm in my sixties! I think one really good thing about it is no more 'bad hair days"!! I have a lot of those and usually cover my hair with a hat! Hair is always a problem for women, our whole lives...men have it so much easier. Any nasty comments you get says more about the kind of person THEY are, than it does about you. Those peoples' opinions don't count. Just ignore them, sweetie.
@lorettacasillas65473 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful! I love your style.
@cloudstrifelockhart2 жыл бұрын
I shaved my head down to skin with a razor and after two weeks it was the same as yours. İf it was your three months of growth then your hair grows slow af
@novafalcosmithАй бұрын
I have had short hair for 20+ years and I am growing it out for the first time and was wondering what peoples tips and tricks were and advice was for someone like me who has had short hair for over 20 years and is growing it out for the first time, please be kind no hate and no mean comments
@amberdwyer12423 жыл бұрын
Not that it should matter to others, but I think you look very feminine and pretty with short hair and I don't understand why others think that let alone feel the need to say that to you. Also, it makes you happy and that's the most beautiful thing about people anyways.
@MI-ll3xy3 жыл бұрын
Love your contents! Actually there is a yellow dot on the left side of your camera and has been there for several videos now.
@ZikhonaN3 жыл бұрын
I love you Lia😍🍃
@lindawarner70463 жыл бұрын
I think you look adorable with your short hair.
@ecofriendlia3 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@eileenlenz90672 жыл бұрын
I love your hairstyle!!! Best regards from Eileen from Hannover/Germany... :)