She Converted to His Religion Just to Kill Him and Take All His Money: Ejaz Ahmad

[@morgan.bullock]

I love how much you talk about the victims lives. it’s nice to hear things like how he loved peanut butter and mowing the lawn. it helps humanize them even more as sometimes watching true crime videos all the time can make it seem like the people are just characters. he was a real person who deserves to be remembered lovingly, may he rest peacefully

[@contenteater]

All to often only the killers are remembered.

[@tyegordon]

I completely agree. These real people deserve to be cherished and remembered for their lives and not their deaths

[@dylghtbae]

right why always the nice ppl like 😭

[@lilyelizabeth5637]

i appreciate hearing how these people were human. sometimes we make those who have passed away seem like saints. we only remember the best of them. personally i like hearing the stories of them messing up, or their struggles as well as their highs. It makes them human & easier to relate to. when we make them out to be "saints" they feel further away & idk, almost makes the distance greater. "that's not what happened" is a good book that draws this idea out well.

[@Angela-tg3ol]

I was literally gonna say the same thing 💓

[@theplaidbutterflyprince]

Ejaz sounds like he was such an amazing person. May he rest in peace.

[@miasandoval7999]

Is that a hush hush pfp?

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

An entire gift to this world, and it’s sad that his family was robbed of his light.

[@SAJK0KAT]

So many evil people out there and this man sounded like a keeper. And this happens to him… it’s a shame! :( poor guy!

[@hueyspectrum]

Imagine. A real angel manifests on Earth and gets killed by his insane wife. Why is it always the best people who die? Well, I know the answer, but you get what I mean.

[@SAJK0KAT]

@@hueyspectrum so why do the best people die? :( I wish it wasn’t. I feel always mean when I say this, but I have met really few people like him. It’s so rare with this kind of people. And the world need more of them. 💔 (I’m not a good person, but I’m not evil or mean either.)

[@aminahgomez8553]

Hearing how he started praying during his last moments of life broke me into tears. 😭 May Allah grant him the highest ranks of Jannah, forgive him for any shortcomings, accept all of his good deeds and fill his grave with light. Ameen You bringing this to light has I’m sure brought several Muslims to pray for him which is so important for a Muslim (To have another Muslim pray for you after you’ve passed away). Thank you so much! He sounded like such a wonderful person. After being so kind to this woman, she still oppressed him tremendously and then murdered him. What an awful woman!!!! I’m glad she was given a life sentence. Her ultimate day of judgment is when she will really have to answer for what she did to him. Astagfrilla

[@mrspringle6130]

Astagfirullah***

[@mrspringle6130]

Atleast you tried your best lol

[@lyna7038]

@@mrspringle6130 pretty sure the way you spell Arabic words in English doesn't really matter (there is a mufti menek video where he speaks about this btw )

[@Jls728]

@@mrspringle6130 are you even Muslim? If you are, then you should refrain from being haughty and proud as you know that’s a sin. If you’re not a Muslim and you’re a troll… 👋 ✌️

[@isaambrosiaa]

Ameen🤲

[@Rocketcat1025]

as a pakistani-american muslim, thank you for covering this case with as much respect and integrity as you did. he sounds like he was such a beautiful soul. inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un.

[@duaaaminkamran]

same. im pakistani-american and i am so grateful this case was covered respectfully.

[@mona__nyc]

inshallah

[@SundaeSaurus]

إن لله و إن إليه راجعون، هذه القصة جعلتني أشعر بالحزن الشديد، حقا لم تكن تستحقه كان إنسانا ممتازا

[@Ahmad67475]

I have a uncle whose name is Ejaz Ahmed and he passed away 2 months ago. Obviously I know this will have nothing to do with him but my heart kind of dropped when I saw his name! My heart breaks for this man and his family knowing how horrific everything was! I can’t imagine having to live with that knowledge! May Allah grant him Jannah

[@ma-sal5831]

Ameen ya rab

[@bluebelle2193]

Ameen ❤

[@laviccaeyi]

Ejaz is the kindest human I’ve ever heard about in my entire life, there is a special special place in heaven for him. His parents must be so proud of the man they raised

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

He had the worst taste in women. One woman couldn't be bothered to convert to his faith even after having a child with him, and the other woman killed him. May the Almighty grant him Mercy.

[@chipsdoritos1315]

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 Dude im a muslim and in islam no one should force anyone to convert to any religion the person doesnt believe in, hell its even haram to force someone against their well. Whats the point of someone converting to a religion they dont believe in, they wont act it the best way like it should and just like his other wife who converted for no other reason than to convert, she went on to not care about anything Islam is all for

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 but why should the first woman convert? ejaz took it well so why are you talking

[@rubymilne6651]

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 “couldn’t be bothered” what? She had her own religious beliefs too. I’m sure it would be feeling like a betrayal to your own religion converting to another

[@intensepassion3382]

@@rubymilne6651 are you talking about the killer?

[@chantellevoss9418]

How scary, for an immigrant. I just always see non-minorities saying how immigrant are scary … but rarely do we talk about how scary it must be for the other side !!! Makes me angry and so sad .. what a great man. RIP!

[@penskepc2374]

Illegal immigrants are, legal immigrants are less likely to commit crime than those born here.

[@aphr0d]

Maybe non minorities rarely talk about it, but it's on the forefront of minorities minds. People are quick to villanize minority groups and that just makes it easier to see them as something to fear.. instead of someone who's human just like them. Someone that wants to BE and to be seen AS part of the community and surrounded by care and love.

[@Baldjotarokujo]

Aren’t women considered minorities

[@teodorasavoiu4664]

@@CallmeCalypso that's not really relevant to the points being made i this thread though

[@unicornrainbows5456]

@@CallmeCalypso While your statement is correct, it’s not relevant to what was said in this thread because no one made this claim or insinuated it…

[@janaslytherin1047]

Side note: Islam is a religion. A Muslim is a person who follows the religion. Ex: I am Muslim and I follow Islam.

[@Baldjotarokujo]

Okay question is Muslim also a religion

[@moegin]

@@Baldjotarokujo what.. they said a muslim is a person who follows islam lol muslim is not a religion

[@janaslytherin1047]

@@Baldjotarokujo Muslim is a person who follows Islam. Islam is a religion.

[@jadec3959]

@@Baldjotarokujo A Muslim follows Islam the same way a Christian follows Christianity. I hope that makes sense

[@Baldjotarokujo]

@@janaslytherin1047 okay okay thanks

[@wickednikki1987]

What an evil woman. He helped her out so much and he didn’t have to AT ALL. He was just an amazing person…this story shows no matter how kind and giving you are there’s always a leech somewhere to be found.

[@fillequixote]

This story is incredibly sad. How rare it is to even find a person like Ejaz, so grounded and faithful to his core. Ultimately, and I hate to say it because we need more people to be like Ejaz, but he was entirely too nice. Not even in a way of blaming him for what happened, never that. But when Leah showed how nasty she really was, and how she’d always sort of been this person who was terrible to the people she should have been best to- he still tried his best to give her a leg up. Even with no particular obligation to it, and she had/ continued to hurt him. Personally, I would have for sure snapped (not murder but I definitely would have made she sure couldn’t get close to me). This video really highlights a childlike innocence in his desire to give the world into a better place. While still being a man who can provide, nurture & guide a family with grace. Islam is such a beautiful religion and Ejaz stood firmly with it. It is such a shame that/how he passed. And to have left behind a beautiful and caring family, that loved him and understood him deeply regardless of the separation. I’m glad he could have that, at least, since he didn’t seem as is his life was lived in pursuit of material or professional success. Many of us dream of having a spirit like Ejaz.

[@fillequixote]

As a side note, I hope Leah comes to the gravity of what she’s done and she never knows peace with it.

[@nizia7z]

@@fillequixote Ameen

[@sradsoccerluver98]

As someone who grew up in a Muslim family, I’m glad you spoke about this! Thank you!

[@mukeshpatel-gj4sd]

Islam is not a peaceful religion, it encourages death and destruction to non belivers,,,,I rather be a moron

[@Mel-os3ld]

@@justaturky2890 where do you live?

[@ShadyLane420]

She removed his head and unmentionables what a sick person Leah is. She was lucky he even tried to help her get her life together. May he RIP!

[@hueyspectrum]

Lowercase the L in her name. Capital names are for people, but she’s not a person. She’s a monster.

[@mangomonet2464]

I can’t even fathom how someone can do that to another person

[@squidwardtesticles1191]

Gentitle

[@cydneyyt]

@@squidwardtesticles1191 get a life ❤️

[@JustThatLauren]

@@squidwardtesticles1191 yeah, that made it a little hard to focus on the story when she kept saying it like that lol

[@ValerieHalla-no1else]

As a man who has been abused,I just want to say thank you, you're an amazing soul.

[@bigfrankentertainment]

She really is.

[@libbyshea2620]

I hope you are out of that abusive situation and are doing much better 😊

[@colmpo4261]

i hope you’re doing better

[@Baldjotarokujo]

Are you out and safe? I hope so

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

i hope youre doing better

[@aasiyahhasan7664]

I'm usually a silent viewer but he seemed like such a kind soul and she was a level of evil I can't even fathom. Subhanallah.. may Allah reward him for all of his good deeds, forgive him, and give him the highest ranks of jannah (paradise) ameen💔 Edit: I really like how you put the victim in the title and have them as the main focus of the video. Keep up these amazingly researched videos!👍

[@learragreen60]

“Gentitiles” is killing me 😂😂😂

[@JuanDavidRoa-wb8iy]

I KNOW lol this is so endearing though

[@yes3858]

Same here, I came to comments specifically to see if I was the only one, lol. First time I was like, no way she said that, in hearing things or it was just a slip, but then she kept saying it 😂

[@yes3858]

I'm going to make a short of each time she says it, lol. Maybe even make an edm song using it called gentitles

[@linche0starlight]

And also Pregnet not Pregnant 😅

[@mudaawi]

He seemed like the perfect man , what a cruel world we live in

[@Baldjotarokujo]

It’s cruel and unforgivable

[@Neku628]

He seemed to be too trusting. This world is too cruel, I don't think I could be so trusting like Ejaz like having a stranger in my own home, much less my own sister.

[@lefertap7636]

Muslim subscriber here👋🏽, instead of saying Muslim religion you could say Islamic. Thank you for making this video, I never really heard of this case before, feels nice to see someone shed light on it.

[@yosraawedni]

Or Islam simply !

[@courtneyfrost915]

Why? Is the term Muslim offensive?

[@lefertap7636]

@@courtneyfrost915 ofc the term “Muslim” isn't offensive, I never said that. The way she's putting it into a sentence doesn't make any sense. Islam is the religion, Muslims are the people following it.

[@courtneyfrost915]

@@lefertap7636 No, no, I wasn't implying that you said it was offensive. But, I wanted to know why, because you were not the only person to make this comment. Also, sometimes a word that was once deemed ok, becomes offensive later on. You may not have lived long enough to see this occur. But, I have. So, I wondered if that was the case here.

[@yara438]

@@courtneyfrost915 no worries, its good to be curious, this opens up for more conversations and understanding others

[@michellecgb]

People like Ejaz are wonderful, it’s sad that others take advantage of people like that and ultimately seek to destroy them.

[@yum_parmesan]

His mother would have been so so proud of him. May Ejaz rest in peace

[@Bonkezz]

Bro how tf is it even possible for a person's biggest flaw to be that they're too nice? This man was literally too pure for this world. We do not deserve people like him. May he rest in peace and be remembered for his unwavering kindness.

[@Reem.H.A]

Ejaz sounds like he was such a good person :( Rest in peace 💔

[@sophiaa4531]

A true man of Islam. Praying for his son and loved ones

[@ramak5226]

you’re literally so amazing i love you sm

[@Mimi-hn6iv]

It is sad. Then some of the men that do speak up, end up getting made fun of.

[@ilovehotmoms5804]

And who exactly created and upkeeps that system? Men. For the love of everything that is positive, STOP saying the same “omg men can’t share their feelings” rhetoric; yes you fucking can you just choose not too, and then bitch and moan about not being able to.

[@ramak5226]

@@Mimi-hn6iv youre right. even in schools, mens mental health isnt talked about which just shows how much there is to work on.

[@ramak5226]

@ocean ☽ i get what you mean but its 2022. equality in mental health should be an obvious right for everyone including men, when they put on the crown as you say it was an empowering thing to do and mental health was not as important as it is now, sadly suicide is more committed by men because of how they for example didnt learn about how important their mental health is, being surrounded by women who are open about those things may or may not have made it harder since it’ll “make the man appear weak like the women” which obviously isnt true

[@alwayshopeful7587]

@ocean ☽ men are stronger emotionally no doubt ,but at times especially in a relationship ,they are can be soooo easily manipulated and abused ,i came to know this when i married my husband .when outside he is known as a hard ,angry ,masculine kind of man but when he is with me he is the sweetest little thing ,almost as a kid who likes to get pampered and loved ,that is so different ,men also want the same care and attention as all women do .

[@brandiaxell8400]

This story completely shattered my heart. Pure and kind people like him are becoming more and more rare to find, and he was robbed of a potential for a fulfilling and beautiful life. My heart aches for him and his friends and family. It takes some hardcore evil to brutally murder such a pure soul. I do hope he is resting in peace. 🕊️

[@bananaarmy2805]

What a horrible, manipulative, evil, monster of a woman. She had plenty of chances to turn her life around but chose to suck the life out of anyone who tried to help her. My heart truly goes out to the victim of a crime that should have never happened.

[@withloveariba]

as a muslim this breaks my heart :( i hope he’s in Jannah iA

[@sumeraahmed1830]

as a Muslim it breaks my heart whenever someone is killed unlawfully regardless of which religion they follow.

[@withloveariba]

@@sumeraahmed1830 of course!! i feel the same way ^^

[@Baldjotarokujo]

I’m not Muslim and I hope he is too

[@Ahmad67475]

May Allah grant him Jannah and his family Sabr Inshallah

[@hayleyelizabethbrowncleary]

You should have had to edited and explained yourself hun, some people are just so sensitive 🙄

[@starsighting7167]

As a Muslim it's nice to see coverage of minority cases. Really sad story

[@Sarah-nd9zh]

as a muslim subscriber im glad you're talking about it thank you

[@ellis7622]

Wow, his mom dying right in front of him like that must of been insanely traumatic. Poor guy.

[@saraha1998]

I appreciate you mentioning how important his 'Muslim religion' was to him but you know you could just say Islam right? 😅 Also when you said gentitals, instead of genitals you had me on the floor girl 😭 I feel really bad for Ejaz, he was too kind, sooner or later it was bound to happen that someone would take advantage of his generosity 😔 may he rest in peace ✨✨

[@burppp.]

Thisss! I was like “girl it’s geNItalss” every time she said it like that lol

[@Ran-c7d]

It's not funny!

[@evitagadsden8356]

Yesss! Gentitals

[@anherika3600]

I had to stop watching the video halfway because of how much it’d bother me to hear her say “genTItals” 😭

[@MrsManette]

She's saying it like that so that KZbin's algorithm doesn't detect it and demonetize her maybe?

[@anfacbae6461]

May Allah grant him jannah

[@copiedusername6834]

Ameen

[@Kittyoutline]

Ameen

[@suicidalstolenart817]

Ameen

[@AshleyxRajput]

Ameen

[@Sarah-nd9zh]

ameen

[@thecarouselpitch]

You did a really great job emphasizing the life of the victim and humanizing him. What a thorough telling. Thanks for framing your stories this way.

[@oppaloopa3698]

What a beautiful soul. He deserved to live a long life filled with love and peanut butter. My heart aches for him. Thank you for taking female on male violence so seriously. Many TCC channels will completely brush over this aspect of some cases because they don’t think it’s that big a deal or even believe that the man should’ve simply not let himself be abused. Cause that’s totally how that works, right?

[@halimadayow2130]

The fact that he took the shahada brought tears to my eyes..May Allah sw grant him the highest rank of jannah

[@purplelove3666]

Ameen,Ameen

[@gabobaggins]

Ejaz is such an incredible person. If only there were more men like him out there who're kind and understanding.

[@EvonneLindiwe]

👋🏿greetings from Nairobi. A good example is the ongoing case of Christian Obumseli who was killed by his partner. We need to talk about men being abused as well. Rest easy Ejaz.

[@penskepc2374]

Is that a case in Nairobi? I haven't heard of it.

[@Izzyjean]

LOL do you know what christian said about black women before he was killed???? I dont feel bad for him

[@ddddddmi]

@@Izzyjean what did he say?

[@Izzyjean]

@@ddddddmi Look it up, he called us bald headed, dark bitches and so much more. He was a colorist and a misogynist that believed white women were better than us and yet he was killed by one funny how that played out for him

[@EvonneLindiwe]

@@Izzyjean I do. But he did not deserve death in any case even if what he said about us was horrible.

[@meioww977]

this is the first true crime i’ve ever cried to. i wish i had a loving father like ejaz and he sounded like such a wonderful loving man. it’s so sad and heartbreaking to know that he was murdered. your voice is also so calming 💕

[@rooroo1704]

The killer is a monster. I mean they all obviously are, but she's on another level. Howcome you kill someone who helped you so much? But also, how come you kill someone as innocent as Ejaz was in general?

[@saraalvarez5056]

Hayley you've been so constant in my routine getting better from a very bad depression. I applaud your intro, from the heart. My best friend (he) and I (she) have through the years helped each other out escaping and recovering from our abusive partners. It's so true that it happens both ways and it's important to be conscious about it. We now are actively involved in helping others and creating awareness here in our part of Chile. Thank you so much for your words and just being such a nice person, empathetic and caring. Love from Chile!

[@fatimamunoz3465]

It’s sad to think about that if his friend never introduced Leah to Ejaz than he’d probably be alive rightnow living his best life with his son… truly heartbreaking 💔 May be Rest In Peace

[@esthellakomerl8084]

Not a good friend. 😕

[@nyny5843]

@@esthellakomerl8084 his friend didn’t know it would it turn out like this.. don’t blame the friend, blame the person who needed seriously help in this situation.

[@JeniferJay]

“Gen-tit-tals”, you pronounced it right at 1:07:20 I thought you had corrected yourself but then you went back to saying it incorrectly 😩 I’m sorry I couldn’t ignore it🤧 it does not take away at all of the main focus of this which is the victim Ejaz and how an amazing man he was and did not deserve at all what had happened to him. May he Rest In Peace🕊

[@username1100x1]

I couldn’t ignore it either especially when she was saying “gentitals” back to back 😫 Ejaz seemed like a wonderful person. May his soul live forever 🕊

[@CharlotteCakeHole13]

Same here… wonderful video but this was a bit distracting for me! I love your content though 💕

[@gh0st0fstarman69]

LMFAOOO

[@MK-hz2bn]

Probably saying it incorrectly keeps her from getting demonetized

[@joycemarie9702]

Ugh ! Seriously drives me crazy when a word is mispronounced over and over! The one time she pronounced it correctly was a mistake…. She should edit her work before posting!

[@brokenfoxproductions]

I know it's serious and what happened to the victim in this situation is horrendous, but every time I hear Hailey say "gent-itles", I giggle.

[@PeachHaze420]

Saaaaame!!! 😭😂

[@poebott]

like why does she say it like that 😭

[@kristgreene420]

mulp-tiple too 😭

[@sarahcrawford246]

i was hoping someone had already mentioned this, every time 🤣 Hailey, you are still one of my favorite go to youtubers, even though you added an extra T in there, lol

[@minniemarco4660]

Oooh gosh it’s driving me insane!

[@torturachina6452]

Sickening. Religion and faith shouldn't be used to scam people

[@saraha.1336]

Lots of people do it, even governments

[@tiaslays255]

Wait til you find out why Christianity is so present in the United States then 😳

[@shania991]

you would be surprised how much it issued to scam, harm, or in simple words trap people by making it fit their narrative.

[@jaqkende8153]

try coming to utah

[@ifyoulikepinacolada254]

@@tiaslays255 is it bc of colonisation?

[@NotAPorch]

He sounds like such a good guy, truly selfless and charitable. He went above and beyond, and for her to turn around and stab him in the back is horrific.

[@AbigailWrites]

This story hit me harder than others for some reason. Ejaz just sounds like such an amazing person, and the world is worse off without him in it. To his family, may Allah give Ejaz an easy and pleasant journey and shower blessings upon his grave 💐

[@rooroo1704]

Amen 😭

[@sadeendaoud4949]

Ameen

[@ma-sal5831]

Ameen thuma ameen

[@AnnaSoll99]

What a great human taken by such a cruel way. Would’ve loved to meet a person like him. Rest in peace Ejaz. 😢

[@smilesrobotlover1546]

I'm so glad you brought men victims to light! I'm very glad that women are being better protected against abuse and that they are being focused on, but I believe that we need to also give male victims the same attention. I have a good friend who is clearly being used and drained by his girlfriend and it sucks since they always feel the need to bottle it up inside. So I'm happy you recognize this.

[@valenciasaintilus9573]

how tf are women being " better protected " against abuse? Yes there is more of conversation but what is really being done or put in place to offer better help?

[@alienvomitsex]

​@@valenciasaintilus9573 I'm curious as well. Look at Gabby Petito's case.

[@sandraoxford883]

Besides laughing at how you pronounced genitals (I mean gentitals) LOL 😂 🤪!! this case is so sad.. and you are brilliant at spreading awareness and also peoples stories, you have great empathy and a way of describing things, making it easy to understand and listen to. I listen while cleaning homes and it makes it more interesting. You’re great ⭐️

[@Lindzilla_]

Oh my god it’s driving me nuts I came here looking for this comment!!!!

[@itsjustamyx3]

@@Lindzilla_ same!

[@crippledalien5937]

I wondered if it was on purpose..strange.

[@blahxblahxblah100]

listen she just has "insuperior" language skills

[@sandraoxford883]

@@blahxblahxblah100 it makes me laugh, and lightens a dark case I reckon. Lol. She’s a lovely soul 💜

[@afra3044]

the dua/islamic prayer for someone who has passed away is "inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun" if anyone would like to make a quick prayer for him. unrelated but im so tickled by ur use of "muslim religion" 😭

[@courtneyfrost915]

Inna lillahi was inna ilayhi rajiun...I hope I said it properly out loud, for him.

[@anzajamaa5001]

@@courtneyfrost915 it means to God we come from and To God we return

[@LT-jc8dv]

That is not a prayer for the departed. "Innalillah wa inna ilaihi rajioon" means " Indeed, we belong to Allah and we will have to return to Him.” Muslims use these words when unfortunate things happen as a reminder to self and those who hear us say it, that we do not control everything and we will all return to our Creator in the end.

[@Shammo0os89]

What an incredibly tragic story! RIP Ejaaz (his name in Arabic literally means "miraculous"), and what a wonderful human being he was!

[@TaNebula]

Ejaz is the kind of person people pray to have in their lives. Either as a friend, husband or an acquaintance. Rest in peace Ejaz

[@oceancat8725]

the mother part made me emotional, as an Indian, I can say indian and Pakistani people have a very strong bond with their parents specially mom

[@MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df]

I think this is more Muslim thing than Indian and Paksitani thing🥰.. BTW respect sister from Pakistan ❤️

[@angelang222]

What an awful, tragic case. So heartbreaking for Ejaz and his family. May he Rest In Peace and his memory live on. ❤️ He sure sounds like an incredible human being.

[@stormyanngraves]

He sounded so sweet and kind. He sounded like a literal king. And it was so wholesome the way he thought peanut butter was like the best thing ever and loved mowing the lawn. Such a wonderful person. Taken too soon.

[@leahpolk3985]

very strange coincidence... my name is Leah, was raised extremely Sheltered and religious (Mennonite) me and this girl lived pretty much the exact life. Ya know, minus being the crazed evil psychopath. you are always responsible for your decisions and actions. Ejaz deserved so so so much better. may he find peace

[@yuli1_266]

I wish this was just a happy story of a hardworking man named Ejaz who loved peanut butter and mowing and cooking and making the world a better place by being a better person than those who hurt him. :( Rest peacefully Ejaz, thank you for being wonderful while you were here on Earth

[@mar9888z]

Thank you for bringing light to this issue! From one king to a queen.

[@Army4life82]

Ejaz 😭 may you rest in peace 🕊️ forever no one deserves this type of treatment regardless of gender race religion sexual orientation that's all obsolete. Everyone deserves a happy pain free peaceful life! 😭😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@isabelnewton19]

this is probably one of the most upsetting stories i ever heard. every time you mentioned the things Ejaz did i was smiling because of how amazing he was, and then when it came down to what that horrid woman did to him it just shattered my heart. no one will ever forget him and everyone will remember him fondly. he'll live on in everyone's thoughts and memories forever.

[@eyelasg]

Ejaz is so kind and wholesome i cant get the fact on how could a person be so low that she dare to do such thing to him, i would be luckiest person to get someone as Ejaz as my partner 😭

[@dodg1123]

My heart is breaking for this man. He deserved so much better.

[@melissaclark6578]

My brother was a victim of abuse for 16 long years. So many times it was my brother being removed from his own house because the police automatically think men are the abusers. Even when my brother had witnesses the officers didn’t believe that my brother was the actual victim. Not a mark,bruises,or broken hair strands on his exes head. He had bruises,scratches so deep that blood was dripping from them,and hand print bruises around his neck but hillbilly authorities down southeast never think men are victims. They see the male victims as weak and not keeping the woman “in check”

[@e_i_e_i_bro]

You ever think they assume the man because in their area of work they're called to every case of DV, and it's usually the dude?

[@anonymarmy7461]

@@e_i_e_i_bro women getting abused maybe much more common than men getting abused, but authorities should not be assuming one way or other. They should do proper investigation before deciding who is the victim and who is the perpetrator.

[@e_i_e_i_bro]

@@anonymarmy7461 things are better off without biases. all I'm saying is if you look at statistics of violence against women, it's insane. Naturally many law enforcement and emergency workers will have their biases based on experience and stats.

[@eh7322]

Ejaz seemed like a literal Saint, I'm so devastated for his family someone took his life in the worst possible way. 💔

[@filsanmohamed5264]

It not the “muslim religion” but Islam. E.g I am Muslim and I follow the religion Islam.

[@Baldjotarokujo]

So Muslim isn’t a religion, I’m not good with this stuff

[@breadgirl9806]

A Muslim is a person who follows the religion Islam. Similar to how a Mormon is a person who follows the church of Latter Day Saints.

[@yourmom2997]

@@Baldjotarokujo a Muslim is a person who follows the religion of Islam. The religion is Islam, though. I can see why you’re so confused. 😅 hope this cleared it up! 💗

[@amandamcdonald8199]

@@Baldjotarokujo no Muslim is a person the religion Islam

[@AMMA83]

@@yourmom2997 I have no idea why they're confused. This is very simple. I assume they're from America, this is just basic knowledge for those of us in the UK.

[@queeng2921]

Thank you for shedding light on this case and on this victim. As a Muslim it deeply saddened me to hear about this. I’m glad you’re bringing more awareness towards men who are victims of abuse and Muslim victims in the crime world.

[@itsobviouslyyuta1461]

For anyone that’s curious, what Eijaz said in Arabic before passing away I called a shahada which is a sort of last proclamation or prayer. Lol idk how to explain it but there you go

[@napbuddies]

Ejaz seemed like a such a lovely & generous person. Truly one of the most special humans. RIP

[@BrittneyStAubin]

Everyone needs an Ejaz in their life!

[@jadeirvine799]

I found mine in grade 6 his name was Nick

[@lefertap7636]

@@jadeirvine799 what happened to him now lol?

[@jadeirvine799]

We just moved to different high schools so we hardly see each other now

[@rinrin4757]

A better one, everyone should try to be an Ejaz rather than need one

[@BrittneyStAubin]

@@rinrin4757 Why not both?

[@jayleensaucedo2443]

Wow I know being charitable is very important in Islam - I hope while practicing kindness and charity, people stay safe

[@anubis71]

It’s so sad hearing how bright and kind the victims r in ur videos and then hearing how they were taken from this world,

[@CallMeSkinny]

Ejaz is my hero, he sounded like such an amazing soul and humble person. I’m so happy to have gotten to only know even a little piece of what he was like, I can’t imagine how blessed people felt to be surrounded by him. His mother would be proud of how amazing he came to be, she must of been an amazing women too.

[@emilymiriammay96]

He sounds like such a kind hearted man 😭 he didn’t deserve this at all, what an awful women; I hope karma gets to her! Also, I can’t take you seriously when you pronounce genitals like “gentitals” 😭 💀

[@ashleyw6160]

I totally agree...Karma is a b*tch, I heard!!! Also, I'm trying to figure out if she's saying "gentitals" like that intentionally or not, so I've been looking through the comments to see if anyone said anything about "gentitals", lol! So far, you're the only one!! 🤣

[@daniellem8484]

i literally came here to see if anyone said anything ab it lol

[@onuspromis7166]

Pretty sure is bcs of the algorithm

[@Randompersonwhocarestoomuch786]

Muslim here. You can live with your mother in law because once you marry her daughter, she is deemed as family (mehram) and you cannot marry her. For example my husband can live with my mother as if it’s his mother. Even if we divorce, you can never marry your wife’s mother or grandmother. Pakistani here as well. His name is pronounced as Eh jaaz. Not eeejazz.

[@karolinetavarez4533]

I wonder if the friend feels guilty. How could he have known what kind of person she was. Damn. Why does bad always happen to the good?

[@queeniec1684]

Haley, thank you so much for choosing to share this case with us! I am a woman and a feminist and understand all the historical underpinnings of why violence against women is so terrible and why they’re in conversation is so important. But I also personally know a man who is going through some thing which is creepily similar to what you described in this episode. The conversation about men being abused by women is such an important one for us to add, I agree, to those on the table today. Thank you again for sharing with us and I can’t wait to see what you choose next! Wishing you a great weekend :-)

[@angel6904]

how heartless does one have to be to hurt such a kind person.

[@xellbell]

This story broke my heart, he seemed wonderful and so caring. RIP Ejaz x

[@jordmachkim]

This is such a tragic story… thank you for covering these lesser known cases! But also… it’s “genitals” girl, not “genTITals”..

[@raynwhite1287]

i found him loving peanut butter so much very wholesome. may you rip ejaz

[@avalynelise]

you’re so good at connecting the victim to the audience and showing who they were as a person.

[@alrightymmkay_]

He was this kind and generous because this is how his prophet taught him to be. Mashalla this man was a wonderful Muslim. ❤️

[@Duru-ed]

grammar 101 with hailey muptiple: multiple gentitals: genitals insuperior: inferior p.s. I love your videos!❤

[@crippledalien5937]

Why though? Annoying to hear these mispronounced. She does a good job but this cannot be ignored

[@neptunem]

@@crippledalien5937 sometimes people just have a more difficult time remembering the proper grammar or pronunciation of words. (more especially if english isn’t their first language) its okay to correct/critique someone kindly, but really it can be ignored quite easily! not a huge deal to be honest

[@Jay-eh4qv]

@@crippledalien5937 she has trouble pronouncing words sometimes. she said that a while back

[@courtneyfrost915]

@@crippledalien5937 While it can't be ignored, because we know the correct pronunciation, it can be overlooked. We know what she means to say. That's all that matters.

[@heezypeasy8611]

Women abusing men happens a lot more than we think. Society has made it so that men feel extra embarrassed coming forward to tell their story.

[@alienvomitsex]

Society, or men?

[@mahsaahsam7823]

​@@alienvomitsexSociety, a lot of women also laugh at "weak men" who ask for help.

[@virginiaryan7940]

Such a selfless man, rip to him

[@zorax1019]

As a Pakistani muslim this hits close to home ... He was such an amazing person May Allah grant hi high place in jannah Ameen

[@NicolemarreeJ]

His mama knew she was passing 😢 this poor man I feel so bad for him. You can just tell he is kind look at that smile and eyes and as an ex DV victim I feel this so differently this could have been me in March 😢 Rip Buddy I’m so sorry this happened to you, MEN ARE AND CAN ALWAYS BE VICTIMS TOO!

[@reese6387]

Hailey! I've always wondered your process of researching the cases for your videos. I've always been interested in research, but I don't even know where to start when I find a topic I want to write about. I think it would be interesting if you could have a little segment or even a mini-video on your process? Just wanted to put my thoughts out there- keep up the great work!

[@beth-bi9yv]

He sounds so lovely. The part about his love for peanut butter made me relate so much. My family also makes fun of my love for the stuff. So sorry that this monster took such a light out of the world.

[@NFKhan-eu3ff]

My heart hurts for ppl who get killed for being too kind.

[@Emma-dq2gz]

This made me so sad 😢 Ejaz seemed like such a wonderful, kind hearted human being…what a cruel world we live in…

[@fatimasouane1864]

I pray that the “Arabic prayer” Leah referred to was Ejaz saying the shahada. May Allah grant him Jannatul firdaus Ameen.

[@noonoo9392]

I genuinely love how in-depth you go and telling more about the victim's life so you get a feel for this person and who they are. I prefer this to a short sentence of what a great person they are but with you, we get to feel like we know the victim much better. I will say i did fitst few times have to figure what you meant by gentitles then realised genitals. Thank you for the content and the honour you pay to the victim, their life and how much they mean to the people they left behind. Much love to all family and friends left behind.

[@thickMilkk]

rest in peace Ejaz, this world was too cruel for your kindness.

[@kaylaroelofse2012]

We need more people like him in this world. It’s just so sad that when you have this person that can make the world a better place, his life is taken in the most horrific way. Ejaz never deserved for his life to be ended in anyway nevertheless in such a way.

[@hollywoodcait]

I really appreciate what you said at the end about male abuse. It is so important to shine a light on it. Thank you

[@asm1317_]

I'm really glad how you mentioned in the beginning that abuse has no gender. Sadly, anyone can be abused and we should support all those affected and not dismiss their struggles because of their gender.

[@dumbysoup9011]

you pronounced almost everything wrong, but i love your video 😭 also you can say Islam and not just “Muslim religion” same thing as saying Christianity and not “Christian religion”

[@P-Wolsey]

Gentitals

[@hotmess9640]

@@P-Wolsey real classy

[@camvin575]

@@hotmess9640 She's only pointing out what was said, most of us realised this.

[@hotmess9640]

@@camvin575 I didn’t realize till after I watched the video 😭😭

[@babsmarshmellow]

@@P-Wolsey this had me so confused too

[@mslcoca]

What a nice man , such a shame his life ended in such a way . Rest In Peace Ejaz

[@EssaVibeZ]

He’s a martyr so he went to Jannah directly without any questions especially cuz of the kind of person he was, may Allah bless him n give him the highest levels of jannah

[@thatsojani]

Hailey you're a storyteller 🥰 I admire the fact that you study and research everything to share with us with so much detail. Love listening to you! 😊

[@indacoupesippinfaygo]

Ejaz is so beyond kind-hearted, such a beautiful, lovely man. He deserves a life full of love, light, and peanut butter. ): may Allah grant him jannah 💕