So because she gave him a kidney, he's supposed to stay with her even if he doesn't want to... That's kinda rahpey...its his body, his choice too
@AbaNPreach2 жыл бұрын
Maybe dont take kidneys from people youre not serious about... Dunno, I probably wont ask a girl I have no long term plans with to buy me a house for us to live in if I know i probably wont stay with her. Some of you are so entitled & think you can take from others with zero consideration for them. Scummy behavior.
@godwintalking47242 жыл бұрын
@@AbaNPreach Damn that was quick
@gracenote1082 жыл бұрын
He should give her kidney back then.
@TacticalSniperTT2 жыл бұрын
Shame. Shame. Shame.
@slammeriversondougherty26892 жыл бұрын
Pin of Shame
@nikkij48732 жыл бұрын
This "Christian" boyfriend who took the kidney is racking up mortal sins like they're pokemon cards.
@cameronwallace75542 жыл бұрын
Legit, when she said he went it Vegas with his Christian friends, I had many eyebrows raised
@sirenict76472 жыл бұрын
@@cameronwallace7554 how many eyebrows you got??
@cameronwallace75542 жыл бұрын
@@sirenict7647 Let's not get bogged down with semantics. The important thing here is that it was a reasonably high number, matching most of the eyes on my face
@ntsakobaloyi69652 жыл бұрын
@@cameronwallace7554 😂😂😂😂
@Zodroo_Tint2 жыл бұрын
Im pretty sure the "christian" guy thinks he is okay because he do some shit like donating money to Israel so God now loves him.
@indigenoustruthx48282 жыл бұрын
She showed how much she cared by giving up a kidney. That's more commitment than marriage. Literally saved bruh's life.
@claudeyaz2 жыл бұрын
He saw her as an easy mark..knew she wouldn't get revenge..or ruin his reputation and future.
@darkest_magnum2 жыл бұрын
More than marriage meehn. More than marriage.
@360.Tapestry2 жыл бұрын
she was a simp for him
@THETRIVIALTHINGS2 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is true. But I really wish you hadn't used "bruh"...Unless it was used as an insult/sarcasm?
@batmanvsuperman_2 жыл бұрын
@@THETRIVIALTHINGS what’s wrong with him saying bruh?
@pwalker8272 жыл бұрын
As a kidney recipient. That's beyond foul what dude did. She literally saved his life
@randomjustice92732 жыл бұрын
I'm on dyalisis too bud. thanks for saying what you did.
@bringinthedope59292 жыл бұрын
@@randomjustice9273 Damn, I sincerely hope both of you are doing ok and that everything works out. i was thinking, alot of people are saying "i wouldn't give a kidney to anyone" or "how could someone donate a kidney". Yet im glad people like that exist for people who need it. It would suck to have a mentality like that just to find yourself on a waiting list.
@rmelo23822 жыл бұрын
bruh honestly that is so messed up . no wonder half the people in this comment section have trust issues. i guess loyalty is overrated nowadays
@TJ-um8ce2 жыл бұрын
He is def foul … and what about the “friends” from the bachelorette party that knew her? Women treat men badly… but they treat EACH OTHER even worse.
@antoinemartin3392 жыл бұрын
@@rmelo2382 you mean "underrated"?
@tanyaahmed18272 жыл бұрын
I'm a person in need of a kidney transplant. She gave him the gift of life. What he did was atrocious.
@randomness88192 жыл бұрын
May the Almighty aid you in your hour of need. May you be blessed with a good, healthy, long and prosperous life. Ameen I'm sorry your hoing through this. Surely God is with the patient. Wishing you all the best.
@shugo51302 жыл бұрын
Do you still need a kidney?
@shugo51302 жыл бұрын
Do you still need a kidney?
@TC4loveandlife Жыл бұрын
Praying for you🙏🏽🫶🏾
@Hooperjz78 Жыл бұрын
I'm here hoping you are well at this time... love and thoughts ❤
@Goldenlayover1232 жыл бұрын
it's not about him leaving her for me that is wrong, is the fact he cheated on her. how disrespectful to someone who basically saved his life. I swear everyday I'm more and more ashamed of Humans...
@RobinXlone2 жыл бұрын
if he had pussy getting thrown at him he was gonna fuck regardless of the kidney or not. and he was prolly doing it thruout the whole relationship. u gotta have game to get a bitch to give u her kidney after a couple months of dating. homie a scumbag tho even if he was fucking other hoes he shouldve waited longer
@Nategodmafia2 жыл бұрын
People do great things everyday. People do terrible things everyday. Media shows you that bad cause it's more interesting. So take everything with a grain of salt.
@WyzrdCat2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who be cheating showed their true colors. They a worthless, irredeemable piece of shit. And that’s without kidneys involved.
@KiraYoza2 жыл бұрын
People are capable of everything they set their mind too from ultimate kindness to ultimate evil, the evil or bad are examples of what you shouldn’t do or dwell upon too much just try to see the positive more this world can eat you up if you allow it too
@MichaelJP2 жыл бұрын
Embrace Misanthropy, the One True Religion.
@Qqxx222 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the level of betrayal she must have felt. She seems really sweet.
@amonsianzovu74982 жыл бұрын
Some man will never appreciate a good woman,no matter what she does.
@anaiskadji2902 жыл бұрын
@@amonsianzovu7498 vise versa.
@getachew.2 жыл бұрын
@@anaiskadji290 not the point.
@Reports.2 жыл бұрын
@@getachew. Point goes both ways
@anaiskadji2902 жыл бұрын
@@Reports. exactly.
@mamamarianovits90292 жыл бұрын
To all of those people saying, "it's okay, he changed his mind" or "it's so 'rahpey' of the female to be upset that she's upset"... you need to recognize one simple fact~ if he was not happy, he needed to just get out and move on, not cheat on her. She was generous, literally risking her life, he was classless by repaying her with cheating.
@lillyjader.6052 жыл бұрын
Facts I 💯 agree
@Cugastratos2 жыл бұрын
She is the kind of woman that many GOOD loyal RP men are looking for. I hate seeing good people being screwed over when they are giving their best... especially in these times.
@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman2 жыл бұрын
@@Cugastratos All that corny redpill shit is why good women like this are running away from men now. Don’t bring that podcast shit into grown folks business thats little boy shit.
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi37132 жыл бұрын
@@Cugastratos 100%
@kodycampbell29222 жыл бұрын
Well said
@crankybear12362 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't give my kidney to anyone other than my child. That woman is a gift. She loved him like a mother. I hope everything works out for her.
@drmether91502 жыл бұрын
The fact that he cheated with one of her CLOSE friends too just puts salt on the wounds… that shit is brutal and totally evil 👹
@bitchsama81812 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't get these people! Why would you want to hirt someone who was great to you. What the fuck is in their head? I will never get that.
@JacksonJohnson9792 жыл бұрын
Some close friend I hope she cuts ties with that close friend
@icalotdonthide26462 жыл бұрын
Narcissist, he was a narcissist. That kidney will fail watch, God don't like ugly
@T404-i9w2 жыл бұрын
I think she said it was someone she knew, not a close friend
@ozurafgc62352 жыл бұрын
Need to rack up as much damage as possible
@corbingrieves45052 жыл бұрын
The people that say, he's entitled to leave, his body, his choice and alladat, You know what? you right. He does have his right to his body any type of way but as Aba said, if you have a girl WILLING and NOT forced to give you a kidney, you DON'T HAVE TO take, you probably should stay loyal to that girl. Literally a ride or die and you betray their trust after they saved your life? Aba's right. Y'all entitled.
@anthonysmithjr65222 жыл бұрын
It’s scary the way people think now.
@dxshawn5322 жыл бұрын
I think many of the people saying this are just vindictive men rying to spin the "Her body her choice" thing around. If a Woman did what he did I'd have just as much hate and vitriol towards them.
@anthonylozano80352 жыл бұрын
hell yes
@FuriousCheddar2 жыл бұрын
Well since he's carrying her kidney, at least part of him literally is not his body 🤣
@NathanaelNaused2 жыл бұрын
Also why'd he have to cheat?
@erikrulez172 жыл бұрын
i've had 3 kidney transplants myself. first one was my dad, 2nd was a 17 year old that got in a motorcycle accident, and my 3rd one was from my mom, and that ones manage to last for 24 years so far. She passed away in 2016, and taking care of it is the only way I have left to take care of my mom.
@PierceMD2 жыл бұрын
Wait what
@PierceMD2 жыл бұрын
Just kidneys? Not a liver or something?
@LadyCoyKoi2 жыл бұрын
WTF!?! THREE!?! Stop doing stupid stuff with your body!!! Ungrateful f^ck!!!
@amoththatthinks2 жыл бұрын
how the fuck you have 4 kidneies?? Or are you living on no kidneys?? what the fuck did i just read
@Xemaine2 жыл бұрын
How do you keep being and getting new kidneys? 3?! 1 makes sense but the other 2? Yooo! Also, the motorcyclist is an eye opener
@ethanespo96 Жыл бұрын
This is honestly so tragic 😭 she's a gem. Even telling this story, she doesn't sound vengeful or malicious. She's just telling her tale.
@shawtyizanadult2 жыл бұрын
I feel like if you’re not married don’t do something this extreme. You can tell she’s extremely empathetic and really wanted to help someone she cared about. He’s a trash ass man for cheating though. Breakup before, simple solution.
@Indigo5652 жыл бұрын
George Lopez' wife gave him a kidney and they got divorced. Marriage isn't a guarantee
@MomoKehinde2 жыл бұрын
Absolute garbáge from the dude
@AxxLAfriku2 жыл бұрын
WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide. Take the hint, dear julia
@TechTails2 жыл бұрын
Marriage can be divorced quite easily.
@awolr2 жыл бұрын
@@TechTails That may be, but most people don't get into a marriage expecting it to fail. While a relationship before marriage does not have that 'agreement' from both parties.
@ajtaylor87502 жыл бұрын
So she gave this man her kidney, he cheats on her, and THEN gets mad when she's upset at the entire ordeal? NOPE. Send him to the gulag.
@SeeHang2 жыл бұрын
Some people are scared to look into the mirror and will put their tripods into meat curtains so they can self sabotage an opportunity because they can’t deal with the weight of owing someone everything outside of a parental figure. The psychology of this I’d imagine would be similar to winning the jackpot and losing the next hand at a casino
@namekman012 жыл бұрын
forget the gulag, send the repo man
@bigmizzymike2 жыл бұрын
@@namekman01 💯 Uh yea, let's go with your plan. 🧊🫀🧊
@samuelbekele36012 жыл бұрын
@@namekman01 Repo man first, gulag second
@tigersharkgaming85972 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@wasteddude2 жыл бұрын
Damn. I feel bad for this woman. She definitely has a heart of gold. Dude also had the audacity to say she wasn't forgiving him fast enough?! What?!
@JT-bt6jy2 жыл бұрын
This dude is NOT a christian.. aint no way in hell a christian man going to las vegas for a party.
@EverySingleJay2 жыл бұрын
@@JT-bt6jy What about being a Christian restricts a them from going to Vegas?
@user-nd6bz9un1b2 жыл бұрын
@@EverySingleJay Nothing , but the way he portrayed himself he seemed holy than Christ(from what she described). As a Christian after you get another opportunity of quality of life you hit “ sin city” for drinks and not even thank the person who gave you? Old habits don’t die.
@sakurahayakawa87012 жыл бұрын
Her ex also had a homie threaten her for telling her story online even though no identity was released. Shows what kind of asshole he is for sure
@wiredvibe16782 жыл бұрын
@@user-nd6bz9un1b if she only dates Christians then km Christian
@ChrisBaleIamtheNight2 жыл бұрын
He’s lucky AF we don’t live in the Repo Man Universe. And basically if she ever reveals his identity or people figure it out. 90% of people would consider him undatable
@Jackie97132 жыл бұрын
Facts
@ceciliai.ogwude28452 жыл бұрын
Word
@ymn52012 жыл бұрын
I bet people in his area know so he probably doesn’t date much in his town
@drmether91502 жыл бұрын
This poor woman who has an absolute heart of gold… it’s sad that her downfall was her kindness, selflessness and generosity. Maybe she was just too naive as well but I hate when people take advantage of innocent people who are better than they will ever fucking be.
@Healthevoid2 жыл бұрын
This.!
@DaroriDerEinzige2 жыл бұрын
I'm kinda sad for her. I mean, only because you give your kidney to somebody he isn't obligated to stay with you forever; but cheatin' is always ... You know? Shady, not good, bad, ...
@Dustparticle0002 жыл бұрын
Yes
@elchucapablas2 жыл бұрын
Do y’all think her parents should have intervened and warn her about a situation like this???
@BonDijon2 жыл бұрын
@@DaroriDerEinzige yeah you can't force someone to stay, but this man has zero respect for her. he got what he needed, then dipped and stabbed her in the back along the way. if someone gave me a kidney, and they treated me this right, i'd be a ride and die for life for them, even if we're not together romantically.
@leanna36252 жыл бұрын
Imagine him explaining it to his family. I know my family would disown me if I cheated on a man who gave me a kidney. Every girl he brings home to the family will have to measure up to the girl who saved his life...
@RB8Gem92 жыл бұрын
Men don't really get disowned for shit like that. Male privilege.
@daltonwashington94222 жыл бұрын
@@RB8Gem9 As if this is exclusive to men🙄
@ObiC2 жыл бұрын
@@RB8Gem9 tell that to Asians
@JPrince-rl2bf2 жыл бұрын
I'll probably change the story, making the girl the bad one
@Bryan-gw6bn2 жыл бұрын
@@JPrince-rl2bf lol crazy
@EnigmaShadow032 жыл бұрын
I don’t give people too much credit personally. She seems like she’s a genuinely sweet and decent person, and there are wolves out there more than willing to take advantage of that.
@cherub0nyx2 жыл бұрын
welcome to the real world. its a jungle out there.
@darklight69212 жыл бұрын
she wanted to lock him down cuz he was good looking.
@ishidacoolp2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for her too, but maybe girls should stop going for assholes/bad boys. Those type of men only think of themselves and don't carry about other people's feelings.
@manuelpatterson80022 жыл бұрын
i agree but at the same coin I have some disgust for people that sheltered
@politicallyretarded13082 жыл бұрын
she still open herself twice for this wolf, and still decline a "good guy"
@ItsMrstoyouboo2 жыл бұрын
My heart hurts for her. That whole situation is why a lot of people refuse to totally open up in any type of relationship.
@prymates2 жыл бұрын
Took one of her kidneys and broke her heart. Mans is an asshole.
@erickn79852 жыл бұрын
He belongs to the streets
@pjbpiano2 жыл бұрын
Probably an understatement.
@isdits2 жыл бұрын
Why, because he acted like a typical female? How much shit do women take before doing the same? STFU
@houseofhas93552 жыл бұрын
Massive kidney on this man. Wow just wow. The kidneys on this dude.
@cynthiaacquah92252 жыл бұрын
@@houseofhas9355 stop 😂😂😂
@Hakbushicomics2 жыл бұрын
My mans took her kidney, cheated on her with one of her friends, then tried to take the high road saying "its Gods plan". She gave that dude life, at least extended it. That dude reminds me of the Future memes. Ima take your kidneys and your friends cheeks
@dbs24282 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀
@kauswekazilimani37362 жыл бұрын
Pour some condeine on it, imma never tell her sorry.
@nathanthomas80962 жыл бұрын
That's some hoodville shit 😂🤣
@KL-pk7wu2 жыл бұрын
He got some tips from selena gomez
@DrAlchem012 жыл бұрын
You just know bro was drinking HEAVY in Vegas too 😂 he's a piece of poo
@LuisJRodriguezR2 жыл бұрын
No one should make HUGE decisions like this with someone they're not married to or just completely unattached to them. This likely took a huge toll on her mental health. And he definitely was not a good Christian. The cheating and discarding. All levels of wrong.
@derpherp23602 жыл бұрын
marriage dont promise shit but a paycheck to one half of the divorced. keep yo self in yo self until ya dead.
@LuisJRodriguezR2 жыл бұрын
@@derpherp2360 it’s a paycheck to both sides if both work. And yeah if I give you half my kidneys, and you cheat and leave me, I want half your money 😂
@derpherp23602 жыл бұрын
@@LuisJRodriguezR only the most likely outcome is you gona be missing a kidney AND half ya cash cus she gona take em both. let her relatives give her a kidney instead or she can wait till a dead donor pops up.
@Sunshine_str2 жыл бұрын
A lot of "Christians" are narcissists though. Was married to one. He kept on using the Bible and how Jesus hates divorce that's why he wouldn't divorce me even if I already left his manipulative ass 😂
@HashtagAPI82 жыл бұрын
But married people cheat the most? I mean what does being married have to do with any of it.
@NaXxQuarantined2 жыл бұрын
I'd rather donate my kidney to someone I don't know than to a romantic interest. That way I can avoid the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
@dalitsomz2 жыл бұрын
He did her dirty. Feelings change and temptation is real but he did her bad. I'm amazed how she's managed to tell this story. She's strong.
@JohnJohn-xs5ru2 жыл бұрын
He should have broken it off.
@rsainimortgages2 жыл бұрын
I could never donate a kidney to a boyfriend. Husband sure, child sure, parents sure. Boyfriend? Never.
@goddesshathor73132 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't donate anything a kidney to my husband either.. If he family doesn't match, oh well. My children yes .
@jahkarimirza72862 жыл бұрын
@@goddesshathor7313 You are heartless, but that is expected.
@yikes55222 жыл бұрын
@@jahkarimirza7286 why is it expected if you don’t mind me asking 😩
@DopeDevastation2 жыл бұрын
@@goddesshathor7313 selfish wife, u don't need both and i bet he would be a monster if he wouldn't for u most likely smh, for someone u supposedly wanna spend the rest of your life with, just don't get married
@mitigamespro87572 жыл бұрын
@@jahkarimirza7286 Idk dude they seem pretty reasonable, no need to make people to be evil needlessly like that. Maybe they need to imagine being with their husbands for 20+ years to maybe think "yeah I would donate a kidney to my husband".
@avi48752 жыл бұрын
"Don't use the Bible to justify your bs" Exactly this. Like if you didn't want to go to Vegas, don't go. God didn't make you cheat.
@jeremiahdavis33982 жыл бұрын
He sure didn’t pull out that Bible out when he was doing that act smh 🤦🏾♂️
@labelleworld2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful young lady. Don’t let people who misbehave change who you are. The world needs more kind and genuine people. If I knew someone I dated did that to anyone that would be a deal breaker.
@es41522 жыл бұрын
A line I genuinely Appreciate from Aba and Preach “don’t use the Bible to justify you bullshit” . I hate when people twist the Bible to justify things, like that’s not how it works people need to take responsibility for their actions. I love your channel guys , it has really helped through covid times , it has helped a lot . Y’all are fucking hilarious.
@josephkim35422 жыл бұрын
Its one of the very first commandments. Thou shalt not use gods name in vain. "Give me your house in the name of god" lol
@RobinXlone2 жыл бұрын
lol thats what the bible was written and used for to control ppl and justify it. do u know how cruel life was in the middle ages when if u werent christian u were stoned. america enslaved and killed natives because they said that going west was "gods plan"
@ydambi43342 жыл бұрын
The fact that she said she didn’t regret giving him her Kidney and that she did it out of love proves she’s living the life the Bible wanted us to live (of love) then the cheater did. I’m not even allowed to say this but it’s crazy he calls himself a Christian.
@realgenjutsu81812 жыл бұрын
True. But isn't that what the bible has always been used for? To justify slavery and to justify oppression of women folk etc! I don't know the chapters and verses by heart but there's some foul shit in the bible my friend.
@ydambi43342 жыл бұрын
@@realgenjutsu8181 the Bible never “justifies” slavery or beating women. Regarding slavery the Bible dosent exactly condemn the practice of it, but it’s important to understand that slavery back then wasn’t like what it was during the antebellum south, or where it was crude excruciating and dehumanizing. (But there are instances). A lot of the slavery was debt bondage, meaning you owe someone something and you couldn’t deliver, so now you’re working your time. The Bible tells slaves to treat their masters with respect, but the Bible also tells the masters to treat kindly and care for their slaves as well. The Bible also condemns “man stealing” or kidnapping people into slavery, any illegal means of possessing a person is illegal and is forbidden.
@AA-qt1hi2 жыл бұрын
She is by far a better person than me. Call it selfishness, trust issues, self-preservation. I am not giving anyone but my immediate family my kidney, specifically my brothers. I've heard some fucked up stories of people who were SO in love who turn around to do messed up shit to each other.
@OMAR-vk9pi2 жыл бұрын
Stay single
@Codyslx2 жыл бұрын
@@OMAR-vk9pi cope
@taylorstep81352 жыл бұрын
@@OMAR-vk9pi it's not an everyday thing to giveaway an organ.
@EnigmaShadow032 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@Brandon-w3o2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't call it "trust issues"; I'd call it common sense
@jotarojoestar8982 жыл бұрын
Despite what happened, at least as a human, she did something good for another human being. Bless her for that.
@Jarsia2 жыл бұрын
True, shame she didn't do it for someone more deserving
@GloryOkings2 жыл бұрын
Preach's face when Aba asked about kidney 😂😂😂
@phljawn2 жыл бұрын
All I can say is, someone out there will be willing to get theirs back.
@megand80222 жыл бұрын
Right!
@menak88702 жыл бұрын
🤷🏽♀️ aye .... fr tho 👀😂
@goldensun4412 жыл бұрын
Id be buying that mf a ticket to vacation in Xinjiang
@NotReallyAya.2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 man. Hand it over mf
@lordofmetal65122 жыл бұрын
As they should.
@elongatedpikachu40292 жыл бұрын
You can tell she is genuinely sweet and caring. His loss, at some point she will find a man that will cherish her. She is a rare combination in this generation. Pretty and a genuinely good woman.
@notyourfrind94152 жыл бұрын
Having a kidney removed makes pregnancy even harder than it already is, so she could end up having trouble conceiving even if she meets a good man. This was not a good decision for her at all.
@griselgriselda29012 жыл бұрын
@@notyourfrind9415 oh
@chikooochikkk62352 жыл бұрын
How do you manage to put down women here? Do you think genuine and good looking men also are a rare combination? If yes, ok fine. Since it’s the man here that screwed up. Just asking.
@R_t-992 жыл бұрын
@@notyourfrind9415 so what do you suggest she should live alone whole life? Maybe not everyone do not think like you.
@rustyhowe39072 жыл бұрын
@@notyourfrind9415 You're 100% correct, and quite possibly in later years she may regret losing that kidney due to her own health issues as she gets older.
@missbelle91592 жыл бұрын
She did one of the hardest things that is taught in the Bible. She forgave. Forgiveness isn't for the other person it's for you. You gotta go through some major healing to get to a point to forgive some things. Glad she's happy with someone else.
@Actualchristianity2 жыл бұрын
This one million percent.
@jaumski24692 жыл бұрын
The fact that the guy is christian is mind boggling.
@angelamccabe64472 жыл бұрын
Yes this. He doesn’t deserve her to have one minute of sadness or anger over him. Forgive and live well!
@ee-hd2is2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@theshenanigans5452 жыл бұрын
Right i wish I'd be like that man i still be holding grudges from kindergarten 😭😭
@Jarsia2 жыл бұрын
Straight up this woman is a saint. Can't believe he gave her up. How could he let her down like that, running around in Vegas and deserting her? He made her cry, and to make matters worse the bastard never even said goodbye. You can really tell how much his lies hurt her. This man is clearly a stranger to love.
@Shawnnnam2 жыл бұрын
I hope she's happy now. She deserves the world man.
@crispywilliams74382 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to be the party pooper... but that'll hurt her for years ...I hope she heals the scars emotionally over time...
@TacseraEpSekahs2 жыл бұрын
I can see her forgiving him. She already has quite bubbly and "everything is going to be okay" type of personality. And this comes with pros and cons. She was gullible enough to give him a kidney like nothing. But she also believes that saving someone's live (even if they are dick) is a good thing. And people do get awarded for having this personality, so even though bad things happen to her, there are much more good things, because people like her.
@radhiadeedou82862 жыл бұрын
He's a dick he's not a serial killer, saving his life IS a good thing
@kayhaich2 жыл бұрын
Honestly let's not bring up her being gullible...she was being a damn angel okay
@supersayingoku138972 жыл бұрын
@@kayhaich Yeah I don't know if I'd call thos gullible. I don't think most people go into a relationship with a person expecting to be cheated on, especially after you literally save their life. Her boyfriend was just a piece of shit, one of those Christians that don't practice what they preach
@CaliJose2092 жыл бұрын
@@kayhaich call it how it is
@ptolemeeselenion15422 жыл бұрын
Hm.
@ayyylmao1012 жыл бұрын
I think the kidney donation doesn't necessarily hinge on being in a relationship (like people who've donated to strangers). But what he did, ESPECIALLY KNOWING WHAT SHE DID FOR HIM... I have no words. No words... Reminds of that woman who fired her kidney donor employee despite knowing the employee needed the money.
@YoureRightIThink2 жыл бұрын
Yeah completely agree
@SarcasticPixie2 жыл бұрын
You don’t accept a kidney donation from someone you have no plans to be serious with. It takes two to exchange a kidney.
@daryljulioquispequispe7952 жыл бұрын
@@SarcasticPixie If you dont acept the kidney you die
@MichaelJP2 жыл бұрын
@Alexis Browqueen Yeah but maybe have some integrity, break up like an adult instead of betraying someone WHO SAVED YOUR FUCKING LIFE. Guy's a fucking selfish prick.....at best.
@ntsakobaloyi69652 жыл бұрын
Seriously is there an article about this scenario?
@quietstorm65532 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest case of "he's just not that into you" that I've ever heard.
@braxtonagee4122 жыл бұрын
I hope she finds someone who loves her completely. And is a match if she ever has problems with her one remaining kidney.
@richardvagel45052 жыл бұрын
@Alexis Browqueen Not the "top of the list" but they give you an extra ten points on your allocation score. The kidneys still goes to those most in need first. Regardless. But the ten point jump on your score definitely helps.
@pablop.76352 жыл бұрын
The worst thing is that her kidney was compatible with the cheater's body. Like she could have saved a kidney and a scar if their tissues were not compatible. BUT THEY WERE. What are the odds y'all.
@sarahr.80212 жыл бұрын
What if he only dated her because she was compatible?
@katokushika77562 жыл бұрын
@@sarahr.8021 And how would he know...
@nikicarrie40712 жыл бұрын
Bc we are actually in hell
@winterishere4402 жыл бұрын
It's indeed a little suspicious he managed to date one of the few people in the world he was compatible with.
@breewashere2 жыл бұрын
@@katokushika7756 magic 😂
@zalitosway84192 жыл бұрын
A Christian going to the Vegas sounds like the beginning of a joke. Never trust a person like that. They’re usually trying to fight from being the person they really are.
@thunderouswanderer77532 жыл бұрын
Yall making me feel like i cant go to Vegas for the shows??😭😭
@nca47942 жыл бұрын
Huh? What's wrong with Vegas? You realize there's a lot more than alcohol and prostitution there, right?! 😂
@zalitosway84192 жыл бұрын
@@nca4794 it’s called SIN City. It’s the only state where prostitution is legal.. also gambling isn’t really christiany. Exotic dancers by the thousands. God is going to roll the tape of your Vegas trip during your judgment and ask you to explain 😂😂 also I’m not sure honestly what other things to do there except lose your money and do coke. Outside of Vegas I’m sure there’s godly things to do like see the canyons
@nca47942 жыл бұрын
@@zalitosway8419 name a city where sin doesn't exist. So because it's called sin city Christians shouldn't go? The whole point of Christianity is freedom in Christ, not to be bound. The Bible says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. There's no addendum that adds "as long as it's not in Vegas." If a person can't go to Vegas and maintain their walk, there's nowhere they can go lol. No matter where you are, God is bearing witness. I sure hope you're still a child because it seems like you're slurping up milk...
@saigie39082 жыл бұрын
@@zalitosway8419 Amen! Gambling is not of God
@Pensive_Scarlet2 жыл бұрын
Wow, he finds the one girl who "has a sense of urgency to help him" instead of just writing him off as "low value" because of his disease, and he does this. I'd say "love is dead" but I don't think it ever existed.
@Qqxx222 жыл бұрын
Great point. Most women would leave once they find out about the disease. Not only did stay she gave him a kidney! Jesus Christ! What more could you ask for ?! 🤦♂️
@absolutelyfookinnobody28432 жыл бұрын
Obviously it does if she was willing to do that and still have no regrets about giving him her kidney
@sruthi27087 ай бұрын
@@Qqxx22lol dontnput woman onto this. Stastically speaking a man would be more likely to leave if they heard there wife was ill. Not the other way around
@dudewithlaptop86637 ай бұрын
@absolutelyfookinnobody2843 right? If anything, this is an example of how deep love can run despite some not deserving it.
@alidemee81612 жыл бұрын
My dad gave my mom his kidney after she had complete kidney failure. It was a miracle. They did end divorcing but always stayed friends and respected each other because...I mean he saved her life.
@LordBattleSmurf2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for your dad. It's atrocious that your mother would divorce him. It's yet another reason why as a man i will never get legally married to a woman in America. The divorce laws and courts are extremely biased against men, there is tons of risk to us men ( losing $, our kids, our property ect) and literally no upside to marriage for us that we can't get from a girlfriend. 55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of the time its the woman who initiates the divorce and she can do it for any reason or no reason at all except shes bored of you and feels like leaving and taking your $/ house/ kids and screwing a new man in your house while the government makes you pay her alimony. All these modern women want traditional husbands and a dream wedding but most of them don't want to be traditional wives. Its insane to marry a woman in America (unless as a guy you are broke and by some miracle you found a wealthier woman who wanted you- but that basically never happens because women don't date down) let alone give her your kidney. Literally every older man i know except 1 has been wrecked in a divorce at least once, and the 1 guy who hasn't was WAY out of his wife's league (she couldn't possibly hope to get better) and they got together as virgin teenagers in the 1950s.
@LOADING...o.o.o2 жыл бұрын
At least your mom didn’t cheat on your dad
@carolnicolas57922 жыл бұрын
@@LordBattleSmurf she said "they" divorced and didn't say who initiated it. They remained good friends. I'm recently divorced, and HE initiated the divorce, and got everything he wanted out of it. There was no infidelity involved either, he was abusive. But go off. This narrative you're painting doesn't follow. Non sequitor boo
@dawit94962 жыл бұрын
@@carolnicolas5792 you could tell Lord Battle Smurf is a big fan of the Fresh and Fit podcast lmao 🤣
@carolnicolas57922 жыл бұрын
@@dawit9496 the most avid listener 😂
@maylingtorres2 жыл бұрын
The impact her kidney donation creates extends beyond drinking alcohol. She may have complications if/when she decides to have a baby and a host of other potential health issues. Where were her parents/family/friends to advise her when she was making this decision?!!!
@Opeandaway2 жыл бұрын
Nowhere. She made an emotional decision. It’s not like her family could’ve been more informed than her about it though considering most people don’t know you have to have an exact DNA match for bone marrow transplants which means if your biracial kids ends up with leukemia you nor the father/mother wouldn’t be able to save your child and you’d have to hope someone else has the same biracial genetic mixture.
@HadassaMoon1442 жыл бұрын
So? Is that supposed to discourage race mixing? There are mostly whites on that bone marrow registry and whites have less generic diversity (inbreeding) than other groups such as blacks and Latinos. So those minorities tend to be out of luck anyway.
@HadassaMoon1442 жыл бұрын
*genetic diversity
@ashuranero57212 жыл бұрын
She is a grown woman, she is supposed to make her own decisions
@LadyAngela6782 жыл бұрын
Thats what I was wondering. I wouldve told her dont do something like that for a boyfriend.
@autrythegood2 жыл бұрын
Damn, he Bible pumped and dumped her, she took a major L on this one. I truly despise people who use the Bible to support their trash behavior. I’m glad she’s doing better now.
@Scrubermensch2 жыл бұрын
That's THE B I G G E S T L I ever witnessed with my own eyes damn I'd like to hug her, that's too fucking painful
@anthonyhernandez77992 жыл бұрын
He’s a massive hypocrite
@dendrien2 жыл бұрын
That what happens when you judge or assuming someone is good or righteous for being faithful or religious. Never choose or judge anyone based on that alone. Being religious does not make anyone a good person, period.
@autrythegood2 жыл бұрын
@@Scrubermensch it is, so sad and she’s clearly a sweetheart.
@team3gaming7492 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy seeing your comments on videos like these, you seem like a very fair individual.
@SkittleXero2 жыл бұрын
If they cheat NEVER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE! They simply do not deserve it. It really just causes more problems than it's worth. She completely dodged a bullet with the other dude.
@margaretc56792 жыл бұрын
I think I would only ever donate a kidney to my own child. If nobody needed me and depended on me for survival, I would consider donating to a stranger. But I don't think I could donate to anyone else I know without it forever changing the relationship. When you know someone, it is damn near impossible to give such a tremendous gift with absolute selflessness and not need or expect anything in return.
@brazejan12 жыл бұрын
Yes watch ppl die in front of you without helping
@VengD2 жыл бұрын
True... Or, for me personally, my kids' mother too. While we see each other as great parents, we're well aware that mother and father play very different roles. Their mother can do things for them, that I can't. Even if we were not together, I'd give her a kidney, just because of her role in my kids' lives. Whether she cheated on me, kicked me out or whatever... Despite what she could do to me, her role as a good mother for my kids are more important imo.
@-MaryPoppins-2 жыл бұрын
True. I feel like I’d rather donate to a stranger than to a friend. I wouldn’t expect anything from anyone for doing anything for them. But I don’t think the other person would feel the same way.
@-MaryPoppins-2 жыл бұрын
@@VengD sounds like your little ones are growing up with a genuinely loving father and mother. I pray you never have to make that decision, and may nothing but happiness follow you all ahead!!
@legendofsociety7962 жыл бұрын
Your child is the only actual responsible choice. Other than that, only organs after death should be harvested
@northernblackvoicespodcast85292 жыл бұрын
That's very generous of her. I'm instantly proposing to a chick that would do something like that for me. That's literally life saving.
@melaninmoxiellc9632 жыл бұрын
It's also literally Hero Syndrome.
@islabee942 жыл бұрын
@@melaninmoxiellc963 how do you know that??
@OMGitsTerasu2 жыл бұрын
@@forcedge2302 nobody said he was wrong. The person asked how he knows that. That's a neutral question.
@Calebe4282 жыл бұрын
@@melaninmoxiellc963 damn didn’t know doing nice things for people you care about is hero syndrome
@caribanna2 жыл бұрын
@@forcedge2302questioning someone’s logic does not always mean you think they are wrong it just means you want to know how they got to their conclusion
@BGpilot4192 жыл бұрын
Fun fact about the liver. You can donate it to someone without it killing you. It’s called a partial liver transplant. You can take a part of your liver, donate it and it will regrow into back into a full liver. The donated part will also grow into a full liver. You can only do this once btw.
@caitthecat2 жыл бұрын
True. It's only certain parts of the liver, and the younger you are the more successfully it grows back (there may be issues when regenerating), but it's entirely possible.
@zionzero71172 жыл бұрын
Learn something new everyday
@thatsthat26122 жыл бұрын
it regrows? bodies are amazing aren't they? and its sustainable for cannibals 😂😂
@sunbeames2 жыл бұрын
If livers can regrow, than perhaps it's possible to legally/ethically start organ harvesting |;^)
@thatsthat26122 жыл бұрын
and i thought I was scary 😂
@reginaldjones70272 жыл бұрын
she is now emotionally scarred and won't be the same when it comes to trusting someone
@darkdudironaji2 жыл бұрын
If my girl gives me a kidney, I am doing everything I can to make our relationship work. She risked her own health to give me a normal life back. The least I can do is give her happiness for as long as possible.
@Jgkluui2 жыл бұрын
She's still risking her life. If something happened with her health with only one kidney she's meesed up
@greent162 жыл бұрын
And she seems like a nice girl. Naive, but nice
@BlasianLuvsNailArt2 жыл бұрын
@@Jgkluui or if a surgery complication had happen. Easy table death.
@IndigoPhoenix212 жыл бұрын
Wow. She literally changed her body and life for that guy (she might not have even survived the surgery, let alone the recovery) and he took down one of her friends. This guy really ain't shit. She's way better than me, I would have went tf off.
@Waterbug15912 жыл бұрын
So true love doesn't exist?
@blaiktrout3762 жыл бұрын
@@Waterbug1591 never did.
@simplialpha21172 жыл бұрын
@@Waterbug1591 love exist...true love...idk
@bgos47276 ай бұрын
@@Waterbug1591people like her believe in true love. Look how it ends
@joyandpeacefullaughter53072 жыл бұрын
Aba is like Stewie Griffin, builds time capsule but can't count beyond three
@Gogofam1232 жыл бұрын
Daaaamn that’s a genius level analogy. 🏆
@DrNeef2 жыл бұрын
bruh
@piazzastudios42512 жыл бұрын
😅🤣😂
@bigboiidex32122 жыл бұрын
Damn! That's good one.
@staytoxic67182 жыл бұрын
I was watching family guy and saw this video 😅😅😅 that was hilarious
@Whatareyoumashugana2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately almost everyone you will ever meet doesn't care about your feelings and will screw you over if they have to or for fun. Always look out for number one
@TheGamingAudiophile2 жыл бұрын
I’d take my kidney back and keep it in a freezer.
@ishish88162 жыл бұрын
*SIR* 🤣💀🤣
@marinthegoedschalk72452 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@sandrasentertainment66342 жыл бұрын
Same - I won’t even give it in the first place
@monalichoudhary42932 жыл бұрын
🤣
@alinanamene48452 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@RuinedLeon2 жыл бұрын
Whatever aba smoking in canada is what i need
@thegameshowguy12 жыл бұрын
Leon, we do have some good stuff up here in Canada.
@taijoad18082 жыл бұрын
Can confirm 😎
@theresamoto60192 жыл бұрын
Soo true he is up in the ⛅️ 🌥 🌦 ☁️
@Kris_Si22 жыл бұрын
My first thought is Aba is lit in this video lol
@obsidian002 жыл бұрын
You KNOW that good good up there…they are the masters of the HYDRO up there!
@willnunez34622 жыл бұрын
I wonder how common this is. Literally yesterday I heard about this crazy story where this dude gave his wife his kidney, wife cheated after the transplant, divorced, took his mansion, AND THEN he SUED her for millions for the kidney HE gave. Court ruled in the wife's favor for obvious reasons, story was wild lol.
@Ash_Wen-li2 жыл бұрын
It's much much more common with things like debt. Except then they are saddled with having to pay it
@lovely-shrubbery85782 жыл бұрын
bro WHAT
@Kyronetta2 жыл бұрын
Fucking wow… people are so messed up. And it’s upsetting but not surprising they would be on the woman’s side.
@MizTheDonGargon2 жыл бұрын
well what did he expect he's a man living in America... of course a court isn't gonna side with him on anything marital related
@gemeaux20002 жыл бұрын
Unless you are my Child, I ain't giving one of my kidney to nobody...
@pirateman11442 жыл бұрын
That's inhuman.. The callous disrespect of it. Dirty bastards. A *stranger* saves my life like that and they earn my loyalty forever. My girlfriend does it? Pure, fanatical devotion. She becomes completely unfuckwithable for as long as I'm breathing.
@aramisbetances5722 жыл бұрын
If a girl I dated ever donated a kidney to save my life then I will instantly marry that person. That's basically a huge way of showing that you love someone.
@latecheckout112 жыл бұрын
what happens if she doesn't want to marry you ?
@melaninmoxiellc9632 жыл бұрын
While your rationale may seem honorable and noble, it gives big "Hero Syndrome" vibes. You still need to date that person long enough to properly vet them for compatibility.
@danielayodele61392 жыл бұрын
@@melaninmoxiellc963 but you don't need to date someone long enough to take a body organ from them? Really? 😂😂😂 Lmaaaooo
@mzu56772 жыл бұрын
@@danielayodele6139 Yes you don't. Strangers donate body parts and blood a lot and I do not need to date them at all to take whatever body part they decide to donate.
@aramisbetances5722 жыл бұрын
@@latecheckout11 bro if a girl is dating u and donates to save ur life then ofc she cares deeply enough that she wants to marry. The girl is donating to keep you a live to be with.
@LiTTLeDizZyUriNe2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for her. At the end of the day she went through the shit and made peace with it and found someone who loves and respects her. That other dude will have to live with how he treated a seemingly wholesome and nice person. I wish her the best
@xdandychiggins2 жыл бұрын
you’re happy for her because she’s one kidney down and has put herself at increased risk for a multitude of medical issues in the future…..
@LiTTLeDizZyUriNe2 жыл бұрын
@@xdandychiggins ok what you want me to do about that?
@xdandychiggins2 жыл бұрын
@@LiTTLeDizZyUriNe i just want you to reflect on how idiotic it is to be happy for someone like this. there’s nothing to be happy about here other than the fact that she didn’t die on the operating table.
@OMGitsTerasu2 жыл бұрын
@@xdandychiggins they said their happy for her for making peace with it and finding someone who they feel truly appreciates them. Stop being so negative.
@xdandychiggins2 жыл бұрын
@@OMGitsTerasu if you don’t like my negativity, no one is forcing you to interact. i said what i said, i personally don’t see what is there to be happy about in this situation. that’s just me. we’re allowed to have differing opinions.
@Al-Gore-ithm2 жыл бұрын
I'm politically homeless but when I'm watching Aba and Preach I don't feel so alone.
@samseison2 жыл бұрын
Al Gore-ithm.... hmmmm Dope name tag
@praneethadivi47062 жыл бұрын
I'm just homeless lol
@BrandonS1012 жыл бұрын
Same, I'm slightly left leaning but I don't like even saying that because both the left and the right are going off the rails. I consider myself Libertarian, that's about it but even then there is a lot of crazy Libertarians.
@anem0nia2 жыл бұрын
You're human how can you be alone? Theres 7 billion of us!
@jackriver19992 жыл бұрын
@@BrandonS101 You know there is a Libertarian party. Just vote for them.
@Nimbus3690 Жыл бұрын
This is sad case of abuse of kindness. The donor can't obligate you to stay with them because of the donation, but you have the moral obligation to stay with them for it.
@thatyellowfellow2 жыл бұрын
Him: "How much do you love me?" Her: "Enough to risk my life for you!" *Donates kidney* Her: "HOW COULD YOU CHEAT ON ME?! DID YOU EVEN CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL?! EXPLAIN YOURSELF!" Him: "BIBLE OUT NOW ON ALL DIGITAL PLATFORMS BRUV"
@babyree29012 жыл бұрын
When he finally matures emotionally, he’s gonna have to live with the thought that he has her kidney inside of him, and he’s the one that screwed her over.
@g.pearson47262 жыл бұрын
Exactly That’s what I said. She will always be the girl that got away. And trust his family will be right there to remind him 🥴
@Topazvexen2 жыл бұрын
That’s wishful thinking at best, I doubt anyone, who’s willing to screw someone over in this fashion is capable of maturing.
@S917612 жыл бұрын
@@Topazvexen 💯
@frogger2011ify2 жыл бұрын
I know your female from this comment lol. He's a dude he's not gonna feel anything about it at all we don't base our lives on feelings
@bgos47276 ай бұрын
@@frogger2011ifyexactly why you go around ruining lives with no regrets, it's the lack of emotions, feelings and empathy
@courtneyfaithmis2 жыл бұрын
Wow she’s amazing!!! The fact she’s still glad she gave him a literal part of her and isn’t bitter, wow! Can we embrace how many people aren’t like this??
@canecorsomami21042 жыл бұрын
What a kind and sweet girl. I hope she nor any of her future kids will ever need a kidney. The regret will be pretty heavy knowing she can't save her family. When ppl get a second chance at life they're supposed to do better.
@CherryJuli2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is foul as is. But cheating at the person who literally saved your life by risking theirs and giving you an organ? What kind of foul disgusting human being is this guy?
@Dustparticle0002 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@HienPham-ow5ky2 жыл бұрын
this is why its better to stay single than to end up like these situations, being loyal to your man is bad nowadays, there's no guarantee happiness once you enter a relationship, focus on yourself 💯
@ingloriousMachina2 жыл бұрын
Not all relationships are worth fighting for no matter how much you already put into it. Gotta know when to fold 'em.
@houseofhas93552 жыл бұрын
And know when to not kidney around. John 8:13
@melaninmoxiellc9632 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It's the Sunken Costs Syndrome that makes people go into such deep denial that they stay in bad relationships in efforts to yield a return on their investment, which deep down they already know they'll never get.
@Gjfdyo57862 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree, shit a Fu*king Kidney, damn 🙆🏾♀️😔, that's f**ked up. What a savage that guy is,shit.
@g.pearson47262 жыл бұрын
That is the best advice ever If I would’ve read this when I was engaged I walked away so much happier that I dodged a major bullet Meanwhile, he’s trying to get me back Not worth it
@ingloriousMachina2 жыл бұрын
@@g.pearson4726 I was yoked to a vulnerable narcissist for two years. No matter how bad things got, I could never leave him, because he was always going through SOMETHING that I couldn't abandon him during, and I had a bit of a saviour complex, thinking I could fix him and that he wanted to be fixed (he SAID he did). We had marriage plans (or at least I did) before he left, and I used to feel like him discarding me the way he did was a waste because of all the effort I put into a relationship but now I'm glad I learned the hard way in my early 20s as opposed to marrying him, and being completely ensnared after we'd already had four children and a joint bank account. TL;DR: dumping me was the nicest thing my ex ever did for me.
@AhMandarine2 жыл бұрын
Kidneys are worth around 262 000$. Next time, learn to value yourself, girl
@christiancastillo37022 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@coreyjohnson9932 жыл бұрын
Just... Damn!
@chaseo45572 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@mitsyrage22332 жыл бұрын
Literally 🤣🤣🤣
@jortharob34062 жыл бұрын
For real? Hmmm...
@sarasvensson10872 жыл бұрын
She seems like a great person. I really need his family to know what a bag of garbage he is.
@marledanimefan71862 жыл бұрын
She's a pure soul ! She's earned her humanity ! Don't talk about the other filth , he doesnt even deserve a tombstone .
@happiness67462 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂"tombstone"💀👀😂😂😂
@TheMarmboy2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@buggytheprophet10172 жыл бұрын
Had she watched Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood, she would have known that was not an equivalent exchange
@CreamFraiche312 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Xemaine2 жыл бұрын
She better grind his ahh into a philosopher stone and rock that as a ring
@alexeonbel43042 жыл бұрын
Ayo that’s some real shit.
@lundoren52402 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mamapoundcake2 жыл бұрын
⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️
@Rae4Real2 жыл бұрын
That’s kind of miraculous. A kidney match is hard to find. I’ve been on the organ donor list since 2011 and haven’t gotten a call. Not that the situation may not have been painful, but she would have donated her kidney to a complete stranger, possibly, to save their life. There’s no telling what they may have done in their lifetime post transplant. You saved a life. Live on, Love on.
@pastrie422 жыл бұрын
She must not have brothers or father because if my sister had that happen to her that dude would have some serious health problems, and my alibi would be verified by everyone at the family party. She's too good for this world.
Even with siblings it is a yes! Especially if they are great siblings that have done what they could do for your life.
@casebased83912 жыл бұрын
@@zamo1087 Probably because of the divorce rates in the west lmao. I’d give my spouse my kidney though; especially if we have children together, both parents should be in their lives.
@crh69392 жыл бұрын
@@zamo1087 I was trying to see if anyone would caught that🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But for real, I would give my husband a kidney because I don’t want my kids to grow up with their daddy due to sickness.
@IrishCat042 жыл бұрын
Child: Yes Husband: No Bf: What kidney??
@Kohii2Go2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for her... she has such a good heart. God bless. She did everything any partner could have done. She let him go out with his boys, she gave him a kidney and even tried to forgive him. Such a narcisistic asshole.
@mementomori48402 жыл бұрын
I truly feel bad for her, good hearted people always seem to get fucked over :/
@diviniamichel3322 жыл бұрын
Good heart, 1 kidney
@chrysanthemums49632 жыл бұрын
Shhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt! I wouldn't say any "partner" would of done that. If he's not my husband, I'm not doing a damn thing. I'd support from the waiting room.......waiting on someone else's kidney to come through lol.
@Carolina-rd3gh2 жыл бұрын
@@chrysanthemums4963 Exactly what I was about to say. Saying “any” partner would do that undermines the rare act she did.
@rockatansky3002 жыл бұрын
They both used religion to control the relationship
@alineng17372 жыл бұрын
She has such a good heart. Unfortunately, she’s too good for the wrong person. However, someone kind and generous like her will be blessed with more important things and a person that will love her unconditionally. Let karma take care of those who hurt you. I wish you all the best in life.
@ishidacoolp2 жыл бұрын
Facts. And may you have a happy life with little worries.
@ad84472 жыл бұрын
Karma is bs. Nothing's gonna happen. If she is lucky, she will find some one. Life is not like a movie script.
@Anotherguy1st2 жыл бұрын
@@ad8447 Agreed. Leaving it up to karma to deal out justice is as bad as having the lotto for a retirement plan.
@gazimustafakemalataturk19232 жыл бұрын
She seems really sweet. A real keeper and a gem. Hope she is still and will always be happy and upbeat like she is right now. 👍🏼
@theskorpiqn37892 жыл бұрын
This man missed out on a good thing. She's beautiful, she's driving out to see you, she gives you a kidney which actually potentially weakens her now as the other kidney does all the work. And you just fucked it up. That's a woman for life.
@thezu92502 жыл бұрын
Those are ALWAYS the kind of women that lose
@scarletsletter44662 жыл бұрын
@@thezu9250 you're right, but that's bc of men. Unfortunately, men are attracted when women act (somewhat) disinterested, independent & aloof- the opposite of this lady. To be fair, humans evolved this way, & I guess it's bc it subconsciously communicates superior genes or something. Or men like to feel that the woman will be ok without him. But we often have to stop ourselves from being too open, agreeable & giving. Otherwise it creates resentment on our end & makes the guy get bored & take us for granted. Every relationship needs balance, so if u want a sweet lady like this, be super sweet in return & reward her behavior
@theskorpiqn37892 жыл бұрын
@@scarletsletter4466here's the problem with both your opinions. You've put all men into 1 locker as the same and you're altering your behaviour accordingly assuming such things which is a terrible idea. I am a good looking man, partnered for 18 years with a good looking woman, 3 small children and I can tell you now I wouldn't skip a beat in marrying a woman that clearly goes beyond the norm for her man. Not all men are alike, some are dumber than others or not matured enough. Same with women, so always be yourself, improve yourself but don't craft yourself based on such a simple idea that all men are the same and you need to be a certain something to get one and then keep them. Your character and value is far more important than being in a fake relationship.
@theskorpiqn37892 жыл бұрын
@Avee Briana Wrong Briana. Kidneys are super important to the function of the body, more than you clearly know that's why you have two of them. They regulate and operate at multiple different levels.
@gyuhff2 жыл бұрын
@@scarletsletter4466 what a load of BS.
@mokadelic40372 жыл бұрын
Hey. She got played, but she is a wonderful human being. She accepted what happended and moved on. If that was me you bet I was taking that kidney back one way or another.
@rustyhowe39072 жыл бұрын
Right? I'd be saying hi to him at his door with a scalpel.🤬🔪
@bbbbbbb51 Жыл бұрын
Idk. The cakeface & her choice of friends & partner gave me doubting how "great" she is.
@FrameGame1 Жыл бұрын
@@bbbbbbb51 True!
@0oohnegative2 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t have to stay with her- he could, ya know RESPECTFULLY break up with her. She seems reasonable. She wasn’t forcing him to be with her, she just didn’t want to be cheated on 🙃
@v.s.41662 жыл бұрын
#1 selfishness works on a spectrum and being at the middle is healthy #2 unconditional love is nonsense, there is always a condition #3 she seems like a classic naive, kind hearted, decent girl (Without the kidney story) Kidney tale makes her sound like "they don't make 'em like that today" type -real trooper, gives me shivers man
@Gabster19902 жыл бұрын
It's really up to the person. This woman is wonderful and whoever ends up with her is a lucky person.
@melissawentzel2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was a terrible story... I can't believe how selfless she is and what an ingrate he is. People like him give religion a really bad name. He was all "Christ-like" and decent in a frail body, when she gave him "a chance to live a normal life" he showed who he really is. She is amazing, to be heartbroken and then move on without being bitter or resentful and having no regrets...
@Waterbug15912 жыл бұрын
She could be lying, how do you even fact-check this story? lol
@Petar-952 жыл бұрын
@@Waterbug1591 We can't know, but we can assume with some certainty that she isn't lying. She got another boyfriend and from watching how she presented herself, it doesn't seem like she's lying but we can't be 100% sure.
@JT-bt6jy2 жыл бұрын
How is she christian in a pre marital relationship? Why is her boyfriend a "christian" going to las veags to party with his friends without his girlfriend??
@mav3ric1002 жыл бұрын
He's who he always was. Just because she gave him a kidney doesn't mean she gets to have him forever. Relationships are gambles like pretty much everything in life. The only thing you're guaranteed in life is death and if you have good parents that aren't out to make your life miserable and always have your back and never ask for anything in return than you can make sacrifices of great magnitude for them. But someone who's not blood, that's a step too far as you'll always expect something of equal magnitude in return.
@conorstewart22142 жыл бұрын
@@JT-bt6jy She didnt say that they "sinned" before marriage, for all we know they both could have been virgins. Chistians can go to Vegas too and not "sin" and christians just like everyone else dont need to take their SO everywhere with them. We dont know who his friends are or what they are like, they may all have been religious or he may have been the only christian in his friend group. They went to Vegas for a batchelor party, that is quite a common and trendy thing to do, doesnt matter if they are christians. Christians are allowed to have fun and party too, and just by being christian doesnt mean he cant go to Vegas.
@outlaster34312 жыл бұрын
That dude is a piece of shit , but honestly I respect this girl , I would never do this , and honestly she is a good person , I am not encouraging to give people their kidney, please don't unless you feel its worth it , but yeah hope she gets everything she wants in life , she deserves it
@SatansSimgma2 жыл бұрын
Wtf! She is too stupid to live! Darwin always wins
@Gravechylde2 жыл бұрын
The best revenge would be staying friends with his family so every girl he's with will know what he did.
@HasanPikerIsADouche2 жыл бұрын
He had faith when he thought his life was limited, the moment he got a second chance at life, he started living with sin... he could always repent later
@fellowbeliever91692 жыл бұрын
It makes me sad how much we take for granted for the Lord's mercy
@ingloriousMachina2 жыл бұрын
He didn't have faith. He had a facade he used to manipulate her
@HasanPikerIsADouche2 жыл бұрын
@@ingloriousMachina I know that's an easy pov, bc what he did was so scummy but it really only works to make a villain out of the guy... this is not an excuse but I can see how a guy battling a condition for 10 years that's slowly killing him would rely on faith. I can also understand how that guy would want to make up for 10 years lost, most of his 20s at that, and in a moment of weakness doing something he regrets.
@Opeandaway2 жыл бұрын
@@HasanPikerIsADouche yeah nah he went behind her back, fucked her FRIEND, and then had the nerve to put doctrine into HER as if she was the bad person. You want to relive lost years? Breakup and tell them why. Women do it all the time “I want to explore myself” “I need to experience life” and all that other bullshit.
@gabrielquintero21372 жыл бұрын
@@HasanPikerIsADouche even though you have a valid point, the guy still got mad at her and blocked her. For him to show regret it will take more than just straight up his path (or not, only god is the one who decides how much is enough for forgiveness). And lets not forget that there are a lot of people that use god’s name in vain to get something.
@Junodragon67802 жыл бұрын
No matter the gender, cheating is wrong. People who cheat, deserves what's coming for them, and I'll be laughing when karma bites the ever loving crap out of the first one to cheat! 😈😡 Edit: Karma is a saying people, chill out. The fact that most of the comments are so focused on a saying and not the problem at hand wonder why such behavior is so rampant. Stay safe everyone, and break up, don't cheat. 🙄 🤦🏿💢
@carlegerard83822 жыл бұрын
They weren't married tho
@ajkareem56852 жыл бұрын
limp
@Junodragon67802 жыл бұрын
@@carlegerard8382 I see you're one of those people I'm talking to, it doesn't matter, if you don't like the person then break up, or make it clear you ain't in to them.
@LivyRivy2 жыл бұрын
@@carlegerard8382 What difference does that make? You think it's not cheating unless you're married?
@smoovkilla2 жыл бұрын
I hope that woman donated a bad kidney and it fails on him lmao
@myflyingkidney2 жыл бұрын
I feel like she knows she basically saved the guy's life, and yes, at the time she did it because she was in love, but on the other hand even now when she looks back she is still a person that saved someone's life. I would actually value myself a lot because of it and in theory if you never do anything of use in your entire life and everything goes to shit, at least you saved someone's life. And that gives meaning t your life. Even if it was too early it is a proof of what kind of person she is, since she must have been aware that the risk of them existed, but she did it anyway, and I think it actually makes her life a meaningful life.
@BaldLezB_In2 жыл бұрын
That username though
@denidale47012 жыл бұрын
That and getting toxic about it like Aba said will only hurt yourself and not let you get closure. She did the right thing with the bad situation she was dealt. Self preservation also means to not harm yourself further after things are done. She took her losses and left.
@MusMasi2 жыл бұрын
he then goes on to murder several people.................
@memesofproduction32 жыл бұрын
But then again, saving life of this POS is a huge disservice to humanity. He should be walking around hooked up to his dialysis machine.
@xSwordLilyx2 жыл бұрын
Probably woulda picked a different person to get it had she known.
@dywonlever5759 Жыл бұрын
“Or 1 of 3 🙄” with the tone got me dead 😂😂😂😂😂
@Rude_Boi2 жыл бұрын
In modern society, a lot of men complain about women having scummy behaviour, but there's men out there that equally have scummy behaviour; it can go both ways --- in this case, it's unfortunate that this girl got done dirty like this. No, he isn't obligated to stay with the girl, but why put her through all that and take her kidney if you're going to cheat on her, especially after she tried to save his life? 🤷🏾 cold world.
@vector3d6542 жыл бұрын
Stories like these and the pump n dump trend that is religiously followed by the modern men these days puts girls like me into deep fear of being used and discarded. I mean so many rp ytbers say that a woman beyond 25 is damaged. It's makes me paranoid thinking that the man I'm might be married to in the future will cheat on me once I have a child cause I would not look that great after all that and there's plenty of younger narcissist girls around here to take my place.
@agathachris97222 жыл бұрын
People are scummy
@signumverum34272 жыл бұрын
Gosh...he took one of her kidneys and her heart with no regrets.
@MrTekniqs2 жыл бұрын
I respect her, she gave her kidney to keep him in the world long enough to find out he's a piece of shit. And she's not upset or regretful about the kidney, just the disrespect and she got over it too. If she is a Christian, she's the only one I that practices forgiveness.
@dangerbirb49812 жыл бұрын
She saved a life. He might not be a good person but it doesn't change the fact that she saved a life. She should feel proud of that.
@Uncle_Apoc2 жыл бұрын
Me: AnP one of the wisest KZbinrs out there. Aba: how many kidneys we got? 2? 3? .....
@eug18062 жыл бұрын
I want whatever Aba's been smoking lately...
@AbaNPreach2 жыл бұрын
Neither of us smoke weed. Ever.
@outlaster34312 жыл бұрын
Pin of random comment
@pierredehaen88842 жыл бұрын
@@AbaNPreach coke entered the chat
@katherinesanchez39312 жыл бұрын
@@AbaNPreach BETA!
@Milz2 жыл бұрын
@@AbaNPreach no one said "weed"until you did. 😂
@VolfKami2 жыл бұрын
He was in Vegas reading the old testament like "hmm, all these men had multiple women so this is fine" then got to new testament on his way back and was like "fuck, well too late now, I'll stick with the old"
@kevinh23452 жыл бұрын
The trick that most people somehow don't understand that for some reason is all those dudes that had multiple women were examples of being bad. Even if God's chosen people are doing something, very often He had to proceed to smacking them around for not acting right.