She Instantly Regrets divorcing Her Husband & Gets A Taste Of Equality | Women Hitting The Wall.

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[@TalkThatThought]

Women only want equality when it's beneficial to them.

[@alfonsodegreat5471]

Fact

[@freddywhite1067]

💯

[@TalkThatThought]

@@freddywhite1067 Yeah

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

When it happens to men 99,9% of the time its fair. It barely happen to then and its this world its not fair.

[@alexandredevries3391]

Exactly

[@rabbithowls71]

She still got a better deal than a man. If she was a man, she would have gotten all the debt plus child support and alimony.

[@sun--shine3296]

Damn fucking right😭😭😭 they went easy on her ass Lol. Either child support or debt and she was given an option. The man woulda had to pay ALL OF THAT SHIT.

[@TalkThatThought]

Fact

[@grbenway]

@@sun--shine3296 that and she still is doing quite well , freshly did hair, fresh nails and you know piggy is not going out without 8 layers of paint on her face.

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

@@sun--shine3296 I did! Was living in my old truck in the parking lot of where I worked... Until a friend let me crash in his basement for winter.... Took many years of scratching myself back out of that hole ,but 23 years later I can say " life is good!!" Oh! And I'm single...ain't doing that stupid shat again!

[@bigbob3772]

The evil powers that be are realizing MEN have woken up and STOPPED marrying and having kids- this is the ONLY reason you will start to see some 'good' legislation'. Trust me, they just want their batteries plugged back in to the matrix- they HATE YOU.@@sun--shine3296

[@dustin6225]

Whenever they say "the why doesn't matter", it absolutely means the divorce was 150% their fault and they are absolutely the villain in the story.

[@keirangrant1607]

Took the words out of my mouth. And she probably quit her job so she could have her payments reduced. I pay my child support. I pay child support and she got me in the divorce too, so I have no sympathy.

[@Martin-jk2ng]

Absolutely nailed it

[@johnmaxwell1356]

I was thinking the exact same thing.

[@dpeagles]

💯💯👍

[@deezworld2318]

She emasculated her husband everyday of his married life for making less than her.She was extremely abusive and toxic. That's why the reason "doesn't matter".

[@seemykids99]

"We got divorced, the why doesnt matter" So it was something SHE did, or she would have bitched about whatever it is she left him over.

[@iggs67]

She was the breadwinner so she thought she could do better with another man, who’s a higher earner. But it backfired because men don’t care about women’s money. We see an average woman with children.

[@lockyp204]

Dug her own hole. No sympathy

[@boomboxmachine]

Endlessly

[@mr.makedonija2627]

These broads man smh

[@TalkThatThought]

Yep! She probably did

[@psykloneja]

When she said "the why doesn't matter" regarding her divorce, you know she's the reason for the divorce.

[@GTFBITK]

His fault was he got whole milk vs 2% fat milk.

[@MoayyadYaghi]

the fact that she's the bread winner, means that this relation is doomed to failure.

[@TalkThatThought]

Exactly

[@columkenn]

At no stage did she say "I now realise how unfair divorce settlements were for men for years"

[@stripedrajang3571]

Also, nowhere in her rant did she finally admit that SHE was the one that initiated divorce. And, she never admitted that she made a huge mistake initiating divorce, and never admitted she is a complete moron for doing so.

[@lotusqueen4233]

As a woman, I am looking forward to the day when it is a national law for mandatory paternity testing even if you are married before a man signs off on the birth certificate. It cannot happen soon enough. No man should be forced to pay to raise another man's children because the woman he is/was with is a wh@re. I feel for the children who will be the ones to bear the brunt of their "mother's" filthy street life behavior. It is despicable how the courts have allowed this for so long. Gentlemen, protect yourselves at all costs and at all times.

[@m.x.refrigxolani8365]

You have spoken well ❤

[@TheSnoopyclone]

The test doesn’t matter. If the guy has been a provider for the woman, the child becomes his responsibility. If he takes care of the child, he is responsible even if not his.

[@lotusqueen4233]

@@TheSnoopyclone If the man KNOWS the child isn't his and doesn't care then by all means he can care for the child. No one is debating that. BUT every man has the right to KNOW if any child is his or not. The test DOES matter to the men who don't want to pay to raise another's man child. No one has the right to force their beliefs on anyone especially when it's done through outright deceit. Everyone must be held accountable for their own choices and actions and if there are people who don't mind paying for the choices and actions of others then go ahead pay, no one will stop you but you can't force those who won't to do so.

[@korilono3871]

Mandatory test for both parents. This will ensure there is no "switched at birth" scenarios

[@lockyp204]

Won’t happen. We live in a Matriarchal society

[@BodyByBenSLC]

I was drowning in debt, I didn't have a Netflix account, took the bus, 2 jobs, didn't date, 5 years of living in the smallest crappies apartments I could find, thrift store clothes and shoes, cooked at home, gave blood plasma 2 a week, no vacations. When I did finally buy a car used Prius and paid of in a year. Cut my own hair, entertainment was the public library. 5 years and paid off 70k in debt I never made more than $12 an hour until I was 40.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

Now thats discipline bro

[@manasseh7]

Dam that’s a real life success..good job man

[@jonyjoe8464]

Your the man...

[@Frank75288]

How much do you get for giving blood , they don't pay you in England

[@anthonypowell7959]

Ask a woman to do this! Not a chance. She be straight out looking for another simp to pay her bills

[@Thedrickx]

1. Who filed for the divorce? 2. Who chose debt over alimony? 3. How did the debt accumulate? Financing unnecessary cars? Unnecessary Amazon purchases? Unnecessary dinners out? 4. Why at 6 figures are you not able to keep up with the bills? Still spending on unnecessary things?

[@miquebts]

Because they never pay bills till the husband is gone they think everything falls from the sky and man never do anything and are miserly and greedy

[@stevef68]

Why did the DAD get custody?

[@Shadow_Banned_Conservative]

At six-figures and losing her married write-offs, like her husband's business, and maybe mortgage interest and home office expenses as well, she probably got a huge bump in tax liability when she walked away from her marriage. I earn six-figures, am single, and have no write-offs to speak of. I take home about half of what I earn a year after taxes, insurance, and retirement savings, near half is what the government keeps out of my check in fed, state, fica, medicare, etc. If I had kids to support or alimony to pay, I'd be looking poor as well. I've known divorced men who made high five-figures and by the time alimony and child support were done with them, along with the marital debt, had to live in a roommate situation. Taxes when you're a single person making six-figures is no joke.

[@Thedrickx]

@@stevef68 courts award custody based on what is in the best interest of "the child", that of course being the state. You see if she gets custody the state gets 27% of the child support payment based off his 50k or so income vs. 27% of the child support payment based off her 250k income if he gets custody.

[@guytech7310]

Shes no longer making 6 figures. Likely she was able to to get a lot sales commissions when she was younger & more attractive. After the kids she wasn't getting the same sales she was before & her six figure income vanished.

[@giga_chad9]

I love how they do ANYTHING in their power to not pay child support…… TO THEIR CHILD

[@vapsa56]

The child is a weapon to use against a man in a divorced woman's eyes. She wants to hurt the man in any possible way. If she gets the child, then she will go to court to drain him dry of all resources. If he gets the child, she will fight to the death to ensure that he doesn't get any resources from her. The child is an excuse. The lawyer at the beginning was hilariously accurate. Feminism flies out the door when women have to pay.

[@dpeagles]

My buddy got custody. She only had to pay $100 a month. 14 years he never received a dime.

[@SeppoNakkinen]

@@dpeagles Doesn't men go to prison, if they don't pay child support?

[@dpeagles]

@@SeppoNakkinen It does seem to be that way. Women get a pass.

[@SigmaINFJHeyokaEmpath]

We love how you dumb humans fall for the trash traps set by the agenda. 😂

[@richardeast3328]

Feminists also don’t want to be an ironworker, a lumberjack, a pipefitter, a longshoreman, a miner, a roughneck, a bricklayer or a sandhog. Or any other job that they deem beneath their lofty status.

[@yasmeenah.b]

Most women can't even physically do those jobs.

[@johnvencill1511]

Booyah

[@lockyp204]

Yeah they still get easy mode unfortunately

[@Ryo8761]

​@@lockyp204they are in those industries As an assistant, hr recruiter anything non physical

[@RitzCaraldo]

What is a sandhog?

[@AwkwardLey]

When we are wrong, the divorce reason doesn’t matter, but when men are wrong, we tell the whole story I’m just saying this is how it always goes. I’m Jamaican 🇯🇲 so maybe I’m typing with an accent

[@corysimmons455]

Total b.s

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

Its im 95% or more female wrong doing the reasson of divorce. Becouse its simple women leave more due to her innate greed, and cheat more too that finaly been talked about.

[@ZedBeiFeng]

Yup equality is not what women want what they want is power without responsibility but that’s not how it works.

[@andrea9905]

​@@corysimmons455i think she's trying to say that these women in the video didn't have a real good reason to divorce lmao

[@ZedBeiFeng]

I don’t know wtf happened but women have overplayed their hands and men are just not risking it anymore. If Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos 2 of the most powerful men on the planet can get screwed so can the rest of us.

[@shadows4271]

when a female does not want to disclose the reason for the divorce, it usually is because she is to blame for it...

[@SigmaINFJHeyokaEmpath]

The ignorance is astounding with you humans.

[@TimKollat]

"usually"? No its Always

[@Oldmane-420]

USUALLY?? It is ALWAYS the case if she’s not crowing about what a terrible man her ex was!!! Period!!

[@philyerboots3215]

My ex-wife got bored of me paying 85% of the bills, me doing 85% plus of the housework... not to mention all the DIY. It didn't sink in that doing all of this stuff left me no time to be fun. A long story short, I divorced her and she blew £27k in 15 months. I pay her nothing and she pays me nothing... though I have our son more than she does but that's my choice AND for his benefit.

[@CashKingMarcus]

😂 I took close to $1 million of all the debt in my divorce and an exchange. I got all of the commercial properties. I paid off all that debt in about three years with no whining, no complaining, and so now I have all the stuff and none of the bills. It’s called math ladies.

[@alfonsodegreat5471]

She can feel now the pain men go thru all the time

[@TalkThatThought]

Yep

[@Investmentiqinsights]

You damn right brother. Men go through a hell of a lot more but they don't get on social media and cry like a baby. These 304s don't deserve most men. I bet she divorced her husband for a Pookie or Ray Ray and the situation backfired on her sorry ass!

[@TalkThatThought]

@@Investmentiqinsights Yep

[@jimhills1920]

Hey, Lady, sorry you’re divorced and having money problems like alimony and child support. Since you’re learning what men go through, here’s a tip for ya: “It’s cheaper to keep her”. 🤔 Or in your case, “Roommates til the kids move out.” 🤨

[@deannacrownover3]

You know, I cannot understand this mindset at all. My husband and I have been married for 30 years and he retired three years ago. It drove him insane so, he decided to go back to work. I'm having a hard time just getting through the day without him here! Nevermind all the work...I just miss him. Y'all can have all that "I don't need". Imma go lay the table for supper.

[@clownshoes6137]

It's interesting that she says the why doesn't matter that they got divorced. If it was his fault, she would be screaming it from the roof tops. So, she probably cheated, and now she's complaining that she's drowning in debt. She does coaching????? 😂😂😂

[@Apedrape]

probably a hot dog eating contest coach.

[@farmerned6]

"WE decided to get a divorce - the WHY DOESN'T MATTER"????????????? YES IT FECKING DOES

[@anladd245]

she is like I supported my husband...isn't that what couples do for each other. She admits she was told not to take the debt. She was so against giving her ex husband money that she financially ruined herself to spite him.

[@jvillain9946]

You forget its a woman. Thats should clear up any confusion

[@actionjksn]

She could probably live Lean for about 2 years and clear most if not all of the debt. She's probably eating in fancy restaurants every week and buying expensive clothes and stuff. As far as the divorce you can tell by what she was saying that she was the one who wanted to be done with the marriage. She was probably cheating on him already.

[@foyorama]

In the end it’s always about money 💰

[@mrgadget7235]

my ex literally use those exact words to me. "It's all about the money now." The thing is that it was my money, not hers. We had a day long trial and she didn't get it.

[@edrios5324]

This is very satisfying. Men go through this on the daily.

[@AkWar9]

So somehow she gets to pick between debt or alimony and child support? If it was her husband the judge would’ve pinned everything on him.

[@heybro6105]

She's the reason the divorce happened, that's why she's not giving every single detail about said divorce.

[@rileyvanhellsing7751]

The woman in this video... she's complaining about drowning and struggling to pay bills... yet is trying to sell coaching? Who the hell wants to spend money to be coached by someone who's life is falling apart financially. What is she gonna teach? How to go broke quickly? How to make really bad decisions?

[@mrgadget7235]

who wouldn't want to hire this woman as a COACH?

[@christorpherjoyner4630]

Boo Hoo! It's No fun when the Role reversal & The Rabbit has The Gun Huh. I have Absolutely No Sympathy for these Women 2023. Y'all so strong & Independent it's y'all world right? 🤣🤣🤣

[@overcomerbtbojesus]

@@christorpherjoyner4630😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣👏👏

[@jvillain9946]

Thats called female logic

[@jeffw1267]

You've got to watch out for those female "life coaches". I've known a few. They're ALWAYS divorced at least once, they've ALWAYS had abortions, and they generally drink and use drugs. They also have advanced degrees that they no longer use.

[@timothyh3063]

"I am not asking for anything, unless you want to sign up for my coaching program, taught by someone who has no idea wtf they are doing in life and their own choices have only led to disaster." What a great deal!!

[@norpfuseman1485]

Hahah yeah this was pretty hilarious 😂

[@thedalillama]

I know two life coaches. Neither has accomplished anything in life.

[@ashfordj81]

All these divorced, post-wall women try to sell themselves as life coaches. Being an example of what to avoid doing in life doesn't make one a coach.

[@aulvinduergard9952]

@@ashfordj81 Well, you can always listen to them and do the exact opposite. I'm pretty sure that'd lead you to a better life. lol

[@jean-philippeperetti8463]

The woman in this video now knows how it feels for a great number of modern men.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Been watching male friends and coworkers go through this since the 80s in high school. Also because of “no fault” and other reasons I decided at that time to avoid marriage and single mothers altogether. I have absolutely no sympathy for this woman.

[@lockyp204]

Hundreds of thousands of them. Sucks to be her. Brought it on herself. This is a feel good story

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

She's complaining about all those collection calls... welcome to the world of divorced men.

[@mpa8336]

Life's not fair, unless the man is totally screwed in divorce court.

[@benfranklin3638]

Welcome to “equality”…..

[@MultiDriven]

to good to pay her husband alimony she took the debt to stick it to him, being spiteful always bites you in the ass at the end.

[@SigmaINFJHeyokaEmpath]

This is what you humans do. You are useless with no redeemable qualities. That isn't gender specific. It is evil humans across the board. You have become a useless species that enjoys being evil. You deserve extinction for your lack of respect.

[@ItsOKtobeNormal]

Why would she want debt that has interest when she could just pay a set amount every month to her husband to take care of their children?

[@dibakarchakraborty8712]

I am happily married in India. There is not a single divorce in my family for the last four generations and I don’t know anybody personally in my more than 50 years of life who is divorced. Divorce rate in India, even in present times, is less than nothing. Thank God.

[@lockyp204]

Indian women are becoming westernised. It’s coming unfortunately my Indian friend. And look at all those Bollywood movies. Indian men are the definition of simps

[@columkenn]

👍

[@Jaysin261]

When you have something good do not talk about it and tell people.

[@bigbob3772]

But does the woman look after you IN THE MARRIAGE. Intimacy as desired, compliant, gentle, FAITHFUL, pleasant, stay fit and desirable to you. These things MATTER in the marriage.

[@princejangra1231]

​@@bigbob3772the woke shitter make it seem like they are held captives and this less divorces when they are just happy people with different lives.

[@timothyscavo8510]

It's refreshing to see that there are women out there getting a reality check, as harsh as it can be. The divorce machine should be put out of business.

[@lockyp204]

What’s amazing is in that entitlement, it didn’t even occur to her, that she being the main breadwinner that she has to pay alimony/child maintenance- hilarious 🤣 There’s your equality you wanted babes 🤣

[@VineGrove123]

@@lockyp204Feminists want equality until it makes them uncomfortable. Then they become victims. A woman cries when she wants her will and and cannot make a logical or reasonable argument to get it.

[@zzyzxRDFwy15]

It's an industry.

[@TalkThatThought]

Yes my friend

[@kushkingla7385]

My buddy won his divorce in court, she pays alimony and child support to him. Guys can win. He also saw the writing on the wall and set her up through text messages when she contradicted herself on the stand. Judge said he didn’t trust her and caught her lying. BOOM.

[@JustNo8808]

Divorcing your husband and having to pay child support and or alimony is not nearly as bad as them divorcing you after they cheated on you and then having to pay those.

[@AmoreG94]

No way, for real?

[@JustNo8808]

@@AmoreG94 Yeah women are kind of bad people and have been for some time but apparently it's new so you blue pillars.

[@AmoreG94]

@@JustNo8808 I’m 29 and I’m afraid to get married and low key don’t want too. Also been with my Gf for the past 2.5 years and she wants to. The More I approach 30, the more I drift off to wanting to be single forever and continue to just grow my worth.

[@JustNo8808]

@@AmoreG94 I suggest a fake marriage after she gets too pissed with drawing out the relationship. Some dudes have managed to stay engaged after 5-10 years.

[@TalkThatThought]

Yep

[@maximus451]

Let this be a lesson: people who get what they want often find that they don't want what they got.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

ah yes, as i learned over 30 years ago: *women are always asking for things they DON'T want. stuoopid,? yes. but that's women for ya (*coined by MGTOW-Balance)

[@jvillain9946]

Women want everything they dont have, nothing they do have and anything anyone else has, but theyre never happy with any of it. They want everything and its opposite at the same time all the time but also never.

[@Old_Geezer]

Indeed, or, similarly, another one we should all have been taught at an early age: be careful what you wish for, you might just get it.

[@christopherlewis2194]

She didn't want to pay that alimony

[@MrGchiasson]

I love that great old saying.. "Take it like a man!"

[@SteveMichael]

So let me get this straight. This lady had a six figure job, and a husband who probably took a lions share of the work with the kids, to allow her to make that nice fat check in sales. She then chooses to divorce this dude, and her kids are hurt bad by it and this dude is also trying to manage his life now but obviously on a lot less money. She then complains because taking on the kids AND the debt to avoid child support and alimony was just too much? Lets be honest on what happened here my lady. You were hanging around a bunch of dudes who make way above the average salary and you looked down on your husband. This festered in you and you felt like he wasn't good enough for you, so you bailed. Next up is you are not a young hot sales lady anymore and sales gets a bit harder... You then are forced to leave. You see your husband didn't change, but you did. Guys this is a warning out there over 90% of marriages end up in divorce when the wife makes considerably more than the husband. If she has a bachelors degree or higher it goes up even more. Let that sink in... You meet a great lady and make say 70k a year, but she makes 150k a year. Your future with this woman has less than a 10% chance of working out. You must address this ASAP and talk about it. One theory is that women like to brag about their husbands and when they are around people that earn more, are perhaps in better shape and may be a bit smarter, then they start to dislike you more. Just be aware of this.

[@mrmalio]

AMEN

[@jjm152]

Women and men BOTH marry up. Women marry up based on money and social status, men marry up based on looks. Somewhere along that process, you're supposed pair bond so this becomes less important, but that's the initial decision.

[@lockyp204]

The moral of the story. You can’t make a woman happy. This is such a modern trope of relationships now. You have to earn more or you’re divorced. They’re pathetic.Stay single guys. This hypergamy is a virus. And to the op. No woman on 150k is ever dating a man on 70k…Ever! And if it comes to that in a marriage that guy is divorced. All they care about is money, and status for their pathetic self esteem.

[@TheDarkNinja7]

She got fat too.

[@khi3v40]

She's just an ungrateful woman. Lol

[@christopherlewis2194]

"the why don't matter" she said that because she was the reason.

[@Beecher_Dikov]

She seems very strong and independent....😂😂😂

[@jamesadams2334]

No woman is independent! Every one of them depends on men every day for something.

[@pisswobble1571]

It's funny how women can flipflop in a single argument.... It really needs calling out

[@HeliosX28]

I be calling it out every time I see it 🤠👍

[@SigmaINFJHeyokaEmpath]

It is what humans do, men and women. You are a worthless species in general with no redeemable qualities.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

@@HeliosX28 so do i, but then they try to flip it with, "oh that's different." women are easier to read than a kidergarten book

[@bigblk45]

She probably was responsible for 90% of the debt anyway 😂

[@flydieselair]

Welcome to my effing world. Two divorces, both because my wives wanted to be independent. First one after 14 yrs. and the second after 17 yrs. The big problem was, they couldn't be independent without my money. I'm 65 yrs. old and live in my sister's house.

[@jamesadams2334]

There is no such thing as independent women. They all rely on men 10 times a day but don't see it as that because they feel privileged. They all say that they don't need men but when the power goes out and none of them know how to fix it and get it back online and in 6 hours their cell phone is dead, they are ready to hand out blow jobs just to get the power back on.

[@vapsa56]

Be careful about what you wish for women. You might get it.

[@RodGrom]

Women: “I, I, I, I…. ME, ME, ME, ME, ME….YOUR FAULT, YOUR FAULT, YOUR FAULT, YOUR FAULT!!!” Men: “Ok then, good luck with all of that!!!”

[@mrgadget7235]

anyone who 'dates' her and considers a relationship would be WELL ADVISED to see out her ex and listen to his side of the story because it doesn't sound like she's telling the full story.

[@wildbill1726]

There are big refrigerator boxes available, and spot down under a bridge somewhere. 2023, what a time to be alive.

[@lockyp204]

Don’t get married guys.. Isn’t it great when the shoe is on the other foot 😂 This is a feel good story, it warms my dead heart.

[@BlakeC27]

It sounds like she let her ego get the best of her in regards to choosing the debt over having to pay him child support and alimony. Emotions over logic.

[@SigmaINFJHeyokaEmpath]

That is typical of both genders, childish and emotional with no rational thoughts.

[@fleabag2mr.151]

Now this woman knows what ALL men go through. Welome to the club 😂.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

Thank God I didn't have to pay both child support and alimony. I would have been living in a box by the river. Child support is over in 4.5 years.

[@stripedrajang3571]

I thought child support goes on till the "child" is 21 years of age now? Am I wrong in this assumption?

[@bigreal-wf4xo]

Strong and INDEPENDENT 😂

[@josephbrown9685]

If you haven’t seen that interview with the divorce attorney, his name is James Sexton and it’s a fantastic interview. I recommend watching the whole thing.

[@Bosshog-WealthHealthBetterment]

Was looking for this comment, thank you, Sir.

[@garysztaba192]

Ahh, poor baby! I want you to think every day that your EX is sitting in some bar, and you are paying for his and his 304 drinks. Love it!

[@TheJHMAN1]

There are thousands of men who suffer like this for every one woman.

[@FelixMuk]

Damn right life's not fair... She actually was able to get married.

[@waiwai5233]

If she was that amicable then it would not need the court to decide how to split the property for them.

[@srmj71]

"We" decided to get a divorce... Was it really "We"? I'm going to guess the answer was no. You know what is truly f'n awesome? Millions of men have and continue to go through what she's describing and worse, and here she sits, crying the blues. I say, "ride the lightening you whipped up"!

[@sw6155]

Every once in awhile KZbin recommends a video like this to me and it’s like watching the aftermath of bad car crash… I can’t help taking a peak but it’s heartbreaking. I feel sorry for everyone involved and just hope good (not bad) lessons are learned…💔 😓

[@bryanspink8042]

A feel good story to start my day. As a divorced guy I can tell you I LOVE seeing women getting a dose of reality. It’s all fun and games to them until they’re the ones forking out the cash. The best advice I can give to any guy out there is this: you may think you love them, but don’t ever trust them. PERIOD. If you think something isn’t right, you’re probably correct. Keep notes and have them ready for the eventual moment when they try to burn you.

[@nickygouldstone3532]

I GUARANTEE you that at least 90% of "their" debt was run up by HER anyway!

[@MacDaddy50]

Equality is like being released from jail. It costs money to maintain freedom when being freed from marriage jail !

[@reginaldsmith6949]

Never thought of it that way...

[@MacDaddy50]

@reginaldsmith6949 Why do you think so many women want to get married to a man earning 6 figures if they had their choice! Marriage is the only contract where a woman is highly rewarded in a *no fault state!*

[@magicmarlie]

Somehow when women have to pay alimony, they understand how fucked up the divorce laws are. If her ex husband was making this video, she would feel an ounce of sympathy

[@brucew.willett8196]

The why DOES matter.

[@marks.7593]

Her statements are the definition of Trickle Truth: At 3:34 she says "the why doesn't matter." At 3:55 she says "the reasons for the divorce were not my fault fully. No I shouldn't say that. I'm just as much to be accountable for the divorce as him." This means there is something she doesn't want to say, something she is hiding.

[@johnmaxwell1356]

"Join my coaching programs"? You're going to show me how to go broke and not have good relationship/life. Nah, I'm good. I'm also curious as to why she isn't paying child support. If child support was even an issue that means that he got custody of the kids. Hmmm...why? Just goes to show that she isn't telling the whole story.

[@Apedrape]

I don't see how she gets out of child support. Alimony sure, you can deal that away, but child support is a completely different thing.

[@BodyByBenSLC]

All that sweet sweet equality!

[@ryanbarker5217]

the why never matters to people who are the ones to blame. if he was cheating on her, the only reason she wouldn't mention that is if it would hurt his money-making ability and thus her alimony/child support.

[@jamesadams2334]

Now she knows what men go through constantly! Welcome to every man's world!

[@TheBlackToedOne]

I'm truly sorry that lady is going through what she is post divorce because it is so ugly that no one should. It's harsh and a true, heartless ass-beating and no way to defend yourself. It's like being in a boxing ring with your arms tied behind your back and there is no way to protect youself or anyone to protect you, and the fight isn't over until the other side says it is. I was impressed that she actually accepted equal responsibility for the death of her marriage. With that, I am glad she told her story and that women are finally starting to get the full experience of being a man in today's world. Be careful what you ask for ladies, you just may get it.

[@davidsiebert1454]

I love how she starts off with "this might be TMI and all my divorce girlies will know this!" You made the choice to marry him, be accountable for your choices. I like how she wants us to join her "coaching program" 🤣🤣

[@Jo-zi5px]

Young man, do Not explain yourself for spreading facts and showing the current state of imbalance 💯! I have a son that is 15 and I pray and hope that he doesn’t encounter most of this new wave feminism. We just discovered your channel and we enjoy watching, pausing, giving our own opinion about that person/ subject. So keep on doing you 💪🏼

[@MrZola1234]

She is describing an issue that can cause problems with equitable distribution in divorces. Most small business owners grossly inflate expenses and make their profits look much less than they really are. This grossly misrepresents how much the party is making.

[@mikebatl1]

Except for she did his books and knew exactly what he was making. She literally describes this in the video. So in this instance your point is moot.

[@MrZola1234]

@mikebatl1 i really wasn't talking about her... i just mean in general. Also, it's irrelevant in divorce court if you have seen books. They go off your tax returns.

[@SparkyJohn111]

@@MrZola1234that's a very broad statement. You can't say ALL, there are good and bad everywhere.

[@MrZola1234]

@SparkyJohn111 they court doesn't take testimony from the spouses regarding income. It is based on documentation. So, yes in this particular situation it is all family courts.

[@guytech7310]

taxidermy Is more or less a hobby, not going to bring home big $$$.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

How did the wife end up taking all the debt? I want to know how to do this .

[@jimmyboy131]

She takes all of the credit for his success, "I set up this, I did that, I made sure of this and that..." Plus she takes credit for all of her success. What a sweetheart!

[@theredroomers]

You caught that as well? She’s a real piece of work…and will undoubtedly regret this decision, somehow blame him for it all when he moves on does better without her, and then will proceed to die alone. We’ve all seen this movie.

[@gary_dg]

And yet after 2 years still doesn't have a handle on "her debt". Maybe she skipped the part about budgeting. If she was, in fact, a successful commissioned sales person, she would know how to set goals, have priorities, etc. Obviously a spending problem.

[@lyltonjackson7355]

I hear you, jimmyboy. It is all about her. I have heard it said that pride and egos are the anesthesia that deaden the pain of stupidity.

[@MarkMoore-ce2xb]

I remember many years ago when Joan London the TV reporter got divorced and had to pay she was pissed

[@UncleSmack]

So the reason for her divorce “doesn’t matter” AND in a single sentence she said her leaving her leaving her job was “mutual” AND that she was drowning in debt. So clearly the accountability train has COMPLETELY left the station.

[@MelissaWilliams74802]

There should be mandatory DNA tests to be on the birth certificate - As a woman that watches - i agree with your messages any good woman would because the better my husband does the better it is for my family - WIN WIN.

[@1alayzzia]

I watch your videos to keep me on track for my son. And to get reflective reminders of the stupid that we ,women, are inclined towards.

[@garrettlees]

A financially stable woman who marries a biological male (can't call him a "man") with no job and no income, and she ultimately divorces him?? No! You don't say! Never saw that coming!!

[@iliaselbourji1865]

Called providing...

[@marks.7593]

You just outlined what our society believes about men and women. Males are not men until they have earned it. Women are not called non-women or any other term, they are just women.

[@MrMenefrego1]

I am convinced that no one today knows the definition of "literally;" She said, "I'm literally drowning," no, you're not literally drowning; if you were, you would LITERALLY be underwater with your lungs filling with water!

[@lauramuller7079]

Well guess what you wanted a divorce and this is what a man goes through on the daily.

[@barrysheridan9186]

I sympathise for both sexes in these situations, but unfortunately it is women who have brought this about.

[@stevew6910]

Must have been one hell of a debt, I bet she isnt paying alimony but is paying child support, She quit her job so it could be reduced, Usually men get nailed to the wall for doing that

[@guytech7310]

Nah, she stated why: She left because she was no longer getting the sales. Really she was let go for under-performing. She likely got a lot of sales when she was younger & prettier, than with a couple of kids & age sales didn't come so easy.

[@3Canibus]

Shining light on topics most don't have or choose to ignore, is kool. You did so respectfully and kept it professional. Stay Awesome!

[@prohollow606]

I instantly laughed at that First Lady…. They divorce thinking they will just get money and kids but love when it goes wrong… and younger women are realising they won’t even get the chance to ruin a man and take his shit😂😂

[@dreamiet]

😅 I just had to replace All four tires. Gas is now $6+ where I am at. My husband paid for everything and took us, the family out to a buffet. Lol life is hard but it's probably harder for my husband who has to support everyone. Great man. Great father. Great hubby. Sometimes divorce is necessary but most of the time it's just a whim. Don't ruin a happy marriage because you think the grass is greener on the other side. It's probably not. Lol

[@freddywhite1067]

Well! You asked for equality

[@TalkThatThought]

Exactly

[@brokenrobot5166]

Best idea ive seen for alimony is to issue special debit cards that can only be used to buy goods or services related to the welfare of the kiďs, no vacations or luxury goods.

[@superbirden57]

Schrödinger's Feminist : A woman that decides which direction to go, a victim or aggressor depending on what will garner her the most power, leverage, and money.

[@superdave8248]

The divorce lawyer’s story …. I’m surprised more lawyers aren’t promoting the hypothetical to their female clients. So you make more than your husband and you want a divorce. Well, he is taking half the assets and you have to pay spousal support. What, you don’t want to pay spousal support? Well then hypothetically you can avoid that if you file a ERO on the guy and don’t actually divorce. Keep your finances separate so when he is forced to leave he isn’t spending your money. Then when his day in court comes on the RO, you cry, you state ever argument you have leaves you believing for fear of your life, and he needs counseling while his issues are addressed but he needs to stay away from you till then. Hypothetically speaking, but that buys you a year or two to hide your wealth for when ge files for divorce.

[@BaxterB1641]

She was advised not to take the debt and takes the debt. Doesn't want charity (which I respect) but then asks to join her coaching (betting it's a personal lifestyle coach) program. I have a hard time taking advise from someone who doesn't take the advise from others... Does she not see the irony of I wont take you're advice but you should take mine as a "Coach".

[@christopherlewis2194]

I bet you she won't turn down a cash app she was really asking for money

[@BaxterB1641]

@@christopherlewis2194 I don't think anyone would turn down a cash app. But her saying I have it then saying but I don't want it. Just say I don't anyones charity.

[@JamesASharp]

She's strong and independent. She'll be fine. 😃👍🏿

[@StrumVogel]

I had accountability court for my ex wife yesterday. She hasn’t been paying child support and all other court ordered debt for almost 2 years. The court system just kept kicking the can down the street. And other dudes kept picking her up to use her till they’re tired of it. This kept her from any short term accountability. The court system needs to change, and MEN needs to change. Otherwise we’re just enabling these behaviors. And men, those who you let into your life, matters.

[@dcummings336]

The painted black fingernails tell the whole story without her even opening her mouth.😂

[@ricksmith4736]

Equal Rights... I cannot wait for the Military draft to start..... They will make great Cannon fodder..

[@guytech7310]

They aren't going to be drafting Women. My guess the draft will be targeted at at Gen-X men since most millennials & Zoomers are unfit for service (Obese, drug problem, emotionally stable, etc).

[@saeedhossain6099]

5:21 when she described her life as a dumpster fire, and then has the audacity to ask the audience to take her COACHING class, and not just venmo her money!?!? what possible coaching can she provide, she's already given away the most valuable information, she's a cautionary tale of what not to do....

[@belm7448]

All I see from her story is "well you all wanted equality. THIS IS WHAT EQUALITY LOOKS LIKE." Now she can see EXACTLY what a man goes through when men are divorced by women. I have no sympathy for her. 🤷