She Left A Good Man at 23 and Now She Wants Him Back at 35

[@carlosrob6494]

Fellas you never take any woman back that step out on you, regardless who she cheat on you with.

[@kaze7521]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@squizzysharpe5865]

Facts

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

FACTS. NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@brianmcclain5273]

Fellas don't be a dam foo and take a women back keep it moving 💯

[@alisterjoseph3750]

The man is right 😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@trini_staple]

If they don't want you in their prime, don't take them in their decline. Stay up, kings.

[@jprestovevo9NE]

talk that shit

[@damienr3086]

YEAH THATS RIGHT!!!

[@jonathanjohnson5216]

Bars😂😂😂

[@djhayes3105]

Dud you are bugging, I don't care if it's Michael Jordan she cheated with, she is gone.

[@kaze7521]

💯💯💯

[@teamsmiling]

Facts, homie, I was thinking the same thing f who the person is she cheated plan and simple, these young Boi's be bugging 😂😂

[@cephasmee6456]

Dud sounds right. 🫥

[@James-s8d7u]

True

[@turbo1997hsm]

​@@cephasmee6456Only to a clown. Only a fool will take a cheating woman back

[@tut0ne190]

Only move forward. Never go backwards. It was a reason you left.

[@iamkingfrost]

Agreed

[@dlebb8322]

After swallowing several meats, she wants to get back 🤔

[@al-mateenrankins2412]

😂😂😂😂

[@llGotemll]

facts 🤣🤣😂😂

[@michaelallen8112]

Cumberland 😆😆😆

[@Eman14128]

they want someone to offload all that baggage and bills onto.

[@PushmanNard]

😂😂😂

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

a woman cannot be in love and respect you if she is shared.

[@TheFragranceJock]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@alpheushill4292]

That's shows how lame he is, straight simping.😅😅😅😅she don't care for you if she cheats, women are emotionally gone.

[@szn1580]

Woman can only serve one man only. Facts

[@DezJphenom]

Everyone in this comment section are Triple OG’s! Speaking straight FACTS!! 💯

[@realmusicrealartist4899]

My guy is tripping, if a lady cheats on you she is emotionally tied to the guy she cheated on you with 😂 the relationship is over 😮

[@tonyantoine5823]

Especially if she’s not your wife!

[@JHendo247]

@@tonyantoine5823yea and even if she is your wife. Your time to leave!

[@problemchild2k13]

@@tonyantoine5823even worse if she is your wife. That means she broke vows to sleep with that other man. Let her go.

[@TheFragranceJock]

💯💯💯💯

[@MaticulousGamer]

just look at the way he sits... body language literally tells you the type of male he is

[@labaroncharles1958]

This man talk more than the women and didn't make one good point. It does not matter who your girl cheats on you you with. If she cheats on you you make sure you x her out after that. I believe women when they talk about how weak men are these days

[@teamsmiling]

Big facts. I'm disappointed in dude

[@PoloButtaBall]

Facts

[@labaroncharles1958]

@@teamsmiling yeah you're right bro truthfully it's this kind of mindset that will get you cheated on in the first place. Women smell weakness on a man and this is what turns her off and gets her to looking for something stronger in the first place

[@thebucketmanj8525]

He doing it because he tryna get with them lowkey.🤣🤣

[@RudolphManor]

​@@thebucketmanj8525 He's pandering for pussy basically. 💯

[@JovhonteFirstOfHisName]

Wait did Rico say if my girl cheat on me with Drake he’ll charge it to the game?? Lost me on that one bro. I’m out

[@montste8257]

Dawg, I'm with ya on this one, she's his now, cuz obviously she wasn't mine

[@JovhonteFirstOfHisName]

@@montste8257 it was just our turn at that time 😂 merry go round

[@tlaclacan7722]

As soon as I heard that, I paused am out too bro

[@zaketirenaudbarca615]

Lol I literally listen to these podcasts wit my lil homie on purpose to teach him tht people jus be talkin to fit in and sound cool instead of bein themselves who tf would go bacc to a mfr tht fucced over U... wat type sense does tht make these dumb mfs said I agree why mfs think money clears up or makes u write for u to deal wit disrespect drake Jake jon dnt fuccin matter them mfs bleed jus like U

[@smartbiney801]

Brooo.... its sad. He's feminized

[@charlesmadison489]

Please get another male representative on this show, he doesn’t speak for US

[@etiennecole6898]

I'll just watch a different show 😂

[@fawaztaiwo2165]

True talk. I taught I was the only one that see this

[@princedemetri]

What makes you think he’s speaking for you?? You a grown ass man with your own thoughts, so who cares? Men should only speak due themselves. Looking for “male representatives” was your first mistake.

[@willhustle25]

This dude is really trippin'

[@katomane6116]

Right he cool, but I feel like it’s sass somewhere 😂😂

[@TheBlackManIsGod.7]

Rico sitting there with his legs crossed like a bad-bitch 😂

[@Coachkingrod]

😂😂😂😂

[@allencampbell1058]

The best revenge you do as a man thats been overlooked is to keep focusing on yourself and your goals and they will come back to you now that they see some potential that he has already made. Dont go back for her when she thought you were nothing and was ignored and overlooked..

[@onejamaican1551]

This

[@HK-th1sw]

Cheating is a lack of respect, easy

[@christianbenn316]

& a red flag

[@joyceg7859]

To yourself and others.

[@marcybarnard5545]

Facts!!!!! Both Men and Women!!!

[@kathyander4920]

Amen! If don’t try to hide it. Run, run and run!!

[@godrules3596]

That part 💯 I dont know why it's soo difficult for people to understand this it should be common knowledge theres no way around it.

[@AlphonsoWilliams-ji7kx]

They don't understand that women want a man more when he doesn't want her. Time apart is the best thing that draws a woman close.

[@deshawnbond1703]

Why is that

[@luvphoenix956]

never take a cheater back

[@christianbenn316]

For it's a red flag

[@justforthetv]

Rico, why are you crossing your legs like that, my guy lol

[@NajAli85]

The bag 💰dropped

[@torrey2708]

💯 😂😂😂😂

[@asdfxcvbn746]

the zest is real.

[@dapo09]

Auditioning and advertising himself for them people

[@joshdunn8199]

I swear I was thinking the same had to stop watching the video he's more feminine that the girls lol

[@vicsosa83]

Number one reason for divorce.. woman just not happy and feel that the grass greener on the other side

[@dlj332]

The whole unfaithfulness doesn’t equate to disloyalty is a cop out. Faithfulness is a component of loyalty. That reasoning is a way to sidestep the responsibility of faithfulness in marriage.

[@myronbourne6937]

Nah. Most men with options have no intention of being faithful

[@snatched.4513]

Exactly they are tryna be slick

[@asdfxcvbn746]

@@myronbourne6937 stop choosing the top 10% of men then. they ain't FOR you.

[@turtondwayne]

Facts only rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂😂

[@abdul-rahmanbilal3516]

U shouldn’t be with someone and desiring another person!!!

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Nice video..., but there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..

[@oglaskubuot]

Great sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Yes its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@oglaskubuot]

Thank you. I will look her up online right now

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

You definitely should

[@manoftheserengeti3052]

Four black ladies here and nothing of substance in all that yapping.

[@JHendo247]

😂😂😂

[@alpheushill4292]

😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

[@random6130]

Towards the end the woman in the peach sweater made some good points .... you should listen again

[@buFFlosouljah1]

🤭

[@brianjackson8418]

5 women

[@moreycleveland2472]

FOR YOU YOUNG BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN THE PRIME OF YOUR LIFE FOR EVER THAT WALL IS BUILT TO LAST FOREVER & IT IS UNDERFEATED NO CAPPING😢

[@gottech5601]

If im in a serious relationship and my girl steps out on me i dont care who it is im done with you theres too many women out here looking for the same thing im looking for out here so ill take my chances out there 😊

[@christianbenn316]

She'll never get a 2nd chance from me if she ever walks out sorry

[@Kynndr3ddSynn3]

Don't go Back. NEVER EVER G0 BACK‼️

[@kathyander4920]

Wished I had learned this lesson a long time ago.

[@Joshdifferent]

💯💯💯

[@BlackMarvel25]

Never lose your self respect by taking a woman back who did you dirty.

[@dinero9865]

As a man who has had many women at a given time and probably still can, I stepped out on those women because I didn’t love them. When you love someone or something that much there some type of sacrifice that occurs so you can have it in your possession

[@totalpackage2107]

Like I told my wife when I was courting her…” if I lose you then I never had you, so you’ll be doing me a favor.”

[@derrianterrell]

Never take a woman back that leaves you.

[@christianbenn316]

I agree

[@qgrandberry]

That's real light skin for him to say he will take her back

[@buFFlosouljah1]

"But it's Drake though...Drizzy!" He as light skinned as that goofy ass take. Foh.

[@RudolphManor]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@christianbenn316]

He'll be stupid to take her back

[@oneup7238]

15:54 we can't let this slide. She tried to send for the men. Men en masse aren't asking for a woman like this as a wife. As men we know our levels and don't stray into the land of the elite but women always want the rare men regardless

[@B3GR8T]

If a woman cheats on u fellas, walk away. Don’t entertain the idea of getting back.. if you take her back, subconsciously you’ll never trust her and she will never respect you.

[@onejamaican1551]

This.

[@CLARENCESHINETTE]

What ? When a woman steps out she doesn't just step out physically also 3motionally, with men it's just physical This dude a simp

[@gdot5438]

that’s not true at all 😂

[@nahmean06]

Being loyal to your responsibilities and being loyal to your person are not mutually exclusive. you need them both or you indeed are DISLOYAL

[@myronbourne6937]

I'm loyal to whatever I agree to be loyal to

[@rodniegsm1575]

The thing us, when she ran away, she and her ex didn't grow together . They grow apart from each other, that's why it doesn't work.

[@turtondwayne]

Facts only Rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂

[@flamingrage100]

Let these people think the way they think. It’s straight foolishness, but if that’s how they cope with infidelity let them be I’ll keep myself away from them.

[@emmanuelankrah7232]

Facts bro. I was thinking the same like what are this pple talking about😂😂. They don’t know shit about being loyal.

[@OmarJones-t5q]

Fellas never backtrack

[@nijoelgreene851]

If I cheat and she get back, I won’t leave her. Men gotta NOT CHEAT in the first place

[@therealloulove]

Never take a woman back after cheating no matter what anybody says. She can’t love a man she doesn’t respect if she cheats she doesn’t respect you and she doesn’t love you 💯

[@LG-ns5rk]

Wha... 23 - 35 = 12 yrs..a slave.

[@reimourrpower9357]

The responses of the hosts are more logical and reasonable than what I saw 2 years ago. Salutes the 8 crew for personal & professional evolution.

[@mell6481]

I'm not charging ish to the game. I'm out SMH

[@gdot5438]

yeah because you can’t take what you dish

[@mell6481]

@@gdot5438 Men and women aren't the same. We can give studies and data as to why and you'll still try to compare us to each other. I don't care what anybody say, that violation is different. It's no going back.

[@BlackManTravels]

NEVER EVER TAKE THEM BACK! Too many women with less issues out here to meet and wife up. Avoid these damaged goods at all costs.

[@mjay9881]

Uncross your legs like that, my guy

[@marleyjanim5033]

What’s wrong with crossing legs

[@mjay9881]

@marleyjanim5033 that's a not masculine a leg cross. That leg cross It suffocate's, hurts and crunch your male parts downstairs.

[@misterlexx2721]

​@@marleyjanim5033 That's some girl attitude. Maybe he is LGBTQ 😅😅😅😅

[@ree4214]

Please and thank you.

[@TA-ht4jo]

@@mjay9881He’s not a masculine dude. Does he sound or talk like a masculine dude? What did you expect?

[@j.thomas23]

The play on words….cant be faithful if you aren’t loyal, lets be real.

[@colesmith6004]

Exactly. Semantics smh

[@jodezod]

Facts! These folks are messed up in the head with that thinking.

[@BriceHoward7001]

".... Being unfaithful does not make you disloyal..." .... TF!!! Nah you can miss me with that one bro. That's gaslighting 101. Imagine someone cheating on you and saying that.

[@MistaBawlz3000]

Yeah, that shit waa insane ta' me when it hears it leave his mouth. Like, bruh, get tha' fuck outta here. That one chick rebutted in disagreement that she feels they kind of go hand-in-hand and she's absolutely right!! They're synonymous as hell! Yeah, he needed to tighten-up on that one.

[@joyceg7859]

Even though you lie when you cheat being unfaithful doesn’t mean disloyal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fuggin disgusting “ you caught me stepping outside “

[@3800ThaBizz]

Married for 14 years been faithful for the entire ride. Cheated through all my relationships up until being married. And cheating, the act it’s self is disloyal.

[@Hustle4thefuture-ox6bj]

Rico is giving me Dwyane Wade vibes very zesty😂

[@Squeeky-Da-Don]

Never trust a man who folds his legs like a woman!

[@buFFlosouljah1]

"Zwayne Wade"

[@VegHwvSurvdv]

Get your passports guys, go to countries like Philippines, japan , chile, bulgaria where women are much more traditional and ready to get a good man for marriage by 21.

[@emanuelclark443]

Fellas NEVER double back Trust unc 😤🤞🏾

[@WereGururumon]

You don’t speak for us gang, soon as she mess with another dude it’s over with. Foh!!! Get SMART GUY back on this podcast asap!!!!

[@LVE2103]

Didn't watch the vid. Assuming the title wasn't click bait, just slid through to say hell nah... she don't get have that. In the words of AC, men must say no to the reach back. 😂

[@jasonwilliams9307]

In AC voice S/o to BLACK MEN🗣

[@itzcookingseason8071]

Shout out to Black Men! This is nasty work!

[@swtpeaches75]

"That's what you wanted That's what you got" unrealistic taller... more curvy, does not amount to more love I agree. 👏

[@victorsilas5487]

Argh man, people do change and become something different from who they were before. Even if people do not break-up, people still change. The only fault in us as people is that we want to get so much grip of the past not realising that the one thing that is constant in life is change. But, what an awesome conversation.

[@derringerlong3575]

Best thing I ever did was to double back. We were both ready second time around, and we were great together, turned out perfect. We worked like a well oiled machine, no hiccups. She past away 15 years after we got back together and married though. It was10 years between us getting back together, but we found our way back to each other. So it can be good, just depends. Although, I wouldn't recommend necessarily the doubling back, most of the time it doesn't work.

[@DJGENOTYPE]

I was head over heels over a woman back in college. I was around 25 at the time. She curved me every chance she could get and only spent her time with the local thugs in the Houston area. She always considered me a friend and nothing else. When I was around 36, she ran across me on Facebook and was going about how she always thought about me and wanted to go out on a date. I kindly declined and kept it moving. She now has 3 kids and weighs about 60 pounds more.

[@beasmode18]

The wall is legendary

[@jonathanjohnson5216]

🤦‍♂️💡😂😂😂😂😂👍

[@jonathanjohnson5216]

They bounce off of IT 🚨💡

[@hoovercstyle419]

I don’t know who told the Male that he had good advice . If a woman steps out on you , she is being disloyal.

[@TA-ht4jo]

He’s pandering.

[@ohmyv3gatron]

Is the host wearing a woman’s coat? 😂

[@macgoldie7771]

Look how he got his legs crossed like Auntie

[@asdfxcvbn746]

Look at his lips though. look like chicken grease.

[@ChadDanes]

Let me get this straight, she had nice new car unused. Then she took it from her man and now that it’s been used, cigarettes holes in the seats, been crashed by other big black cars (BBC), she wants him to buy it back?

[@If_TC]

A MAN SHOULD NEVER SIT LIKE THAT WITH THEY LEGS FOLDED

[@ahyashrawchaa1310]

If you Brothers don't get anything out of this video just understand they're telling you without actually saying that Men are literal tools to them. It's about what they can get out of you that suits their needs specifically, whether large or small. I will add though the Sister at the end spoke nothing but the truth.

[@RudolphManor]

See People & Things For Who And What They Are & Not For What You Wish For Them To Be. 💯

[@gordonallen9095]

Not taking ANYBODY back after they left to be ran through by somebody else. If you feel the need to leave, STAY gone. I moved on, and I'm done.

[@MrDaddymeez1]

Thus is prime example of why u don't gets daring tips from random weirdos online... if she cheats you leave her, and vice versa. Have pride in yourself

[@isaacisgud]

6:21 he tripping - fellas don’t listen to that advice. . . We know if she step out That person will destroy her GUTS knowing it might be a one time thang 😂😂😂

[@NaajiRahmbah]

“……people are lying because of social media…” is THEE headline of this video. This is absolutely a fact. Most people are not living what they’re posting. Most of the time it’s for engagement, attention and (for some) for the money

[@MGrose407]

The first pretty much admitted and explain why it’s different for men and women and why a man won’t usually accept cheating! She said it’s usually getting attention and everything else before wanting to be intimate whereas a man usually doesn’t get involved emotionally to have relations with a woman.

[@iamvibrashn]

You know something. I seen this one before in my own handbook. The young lady who left me was not much older than 23. The reason however I would never ever turn around is.... Had the young lady just needed to figure out life and left to do that I'd have understood that but, no there's more. The young woman left me for what what truly was her elder sibling so to speak and I told her of the dangers of the encounter then she slept with my best friend to add insult to injury. All to hurt me. I'm afraid of what even a young woman with such vigor would do quite frankly.

[@roadrunna5925]

People cheat because of having too many partners. The more you be intimate especially for a woman. The harder it is to pair bond.

[@HeroesNStuff]

Nothing but truth spoken after 13:50

[@elizabethh4329]

when you live outside of the original biblical design, you have to create rules to self govern, and everyone gets to make their own rules. That means you get stuff like this convo above, where technically they can all be right because everyone is governing themselves. Many prayers to all of yall in the game tryna find somebody serious!

[@constructiveeconomics6733]

Gents, if you have any shred of respect for yourself, if a woman you're in a relationship cheats on you...WALK away and dead that relationship. Never look back. Never allow her back into your circle. Cut all communication. Do not engage with her.

[@ALEXFVHS]

This dude is tripping. U never take a girl back if she cheats on you. It don't matter who it was with. Dude is bugging

[@weldscholars8253]

Why that dude lookin real zesty

[@asdfxcvbn746]

because those the type of dude black women listen to. the ninjas that look like they wearing lip gloss lol smh

[@salbill4484]

cuz he's probably likes getting his shit pushed in.

[@LeTaureauNoir3x7]

They don’t want you in their 20’s but they regret it in their 30’s…😏

[@15cballardw]

Lack of self control and allowing the temptation to be the guide of your relationship/marriage. And some ppl have the mentality that their significant other will never break up or divorce them.

[@ikemchude]

From experience, very true. You can't change people from who they really are, only GOD can help them change if and when they put in the work to change

[@Ricsteed1987]

You CAN'T take her back she has probably caught 30 bodies in that time

[@youngone1985]

Yeah, people can be molded and changed. The question is for how long and to what extent? Woman don't want the sexual market place to exist because she didn't EARN her value, she was mostly borned with it. She realizes how hard it would be to do so as she loses it with age. She doesn't want him to be unfaithful because of her validation, and fair enough, but again how much and to what extent?

[@Bigmoney333]

This happened to me . Tried to come and dictate terms again 😂. Hell no I’ll never take you back

[@davidclass7150]

That unfaithful is not good period no matter what with me period 😊

[@samuelaspenceiii2412]

She just proved why you shouldn’t take a woman back who cheats. She liked the guy on a level above sex. She saw potential in him being better than you.

[@talesofthedrip]

Once they realize they cant have a hot girl summer forever is when they finally want the "nice guy" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Smiley0725]

Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.She ain't into you, that's it,let her go for good!

[@whynotyou783]

Shorty can never come back if she steps out. You’re trippin Only reason you’re approving Drake is because YOU are a groupie to Drake

[@leunammetherapper3723]

Most people really still be dating childishly, looking for the "looks good to everyone" type of relationship, over actually what is good for you personally...

[@ree4214]

Infidelity is just laziness. Work on your own house. And normalizing dysfunction is wild. WTH. Nah. Keep your tail to yourself. Self control.

[@3dtraining633]

Loyal literally has "FAITHFUL" in every definition. Its one in the same lol.

[@mr.dccomics9018]

She wanted Pookie and Ray Ray and wanna give you the leftover.

[@TahreekBolton]

Some of these think pieces are crazy. Dude said if it’s Drake, he can understand.. Hella weird. Then, one of the ladies said that it’s wrong for a man to talk down on his woman to another woman, but if he let the other woman know that he’s not leaving the woman he’s with after they do whatever it is that they do, it’s somewhat better. Trash

[@itzcookingseason8071]

So she's on a pound tizzy tour for 12 years, and now she wants to reach back? Fellas like AC says... this is nasty work!!!

[@MrMoore88]

..."you'd rather be lied to" 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@wendellkirton3694]

Never take she back let she go long she never cared or loved you

[@vw9227]

Why dude thinks women cheating has the same effect on the individual who's cheating psyche's. At least the dudes I know will come back to their girl. As for the women I know who've stepped out, they eventually lost respect/interest in their current partner and get swindled thinking their side piece is better, until the side piece reminds her that we just smashing. Women on average are more emotionally attached to sex then men, so when she cheats it's probably not about the physical, it's about something she thinks she's missing that her spouse lacks.

[@unclejay1634]

They might want to think about the word forgive and overlooks because the the pain of not having the person in your life is greater than the pain of disappointment

[@ta15235]

Respect is more important than love for a man. When a woman cheats she lost respect for you it’s over

[@JONAHOGAR-gl5ub]

this is a social awareness,am calling for more conversation like this to educate our younger people about the reality on ground and not falling victims to some of these government policies that has broken our family values and systematically made our women to marry the government,I feel and fear for tomorrow.🇳🇬💯❤️

[@Candlelighttrailvibes]

Why should I take back a woman who got ran through by the streets?

[@MinisterKPE99]

These women will Get 🥜 on and ready to gaslight you back into a relationship 💀 fellas what a time!! They can’t RUN FROM ACCOUNTABILITY

[@whenniceguysretaliate5619]

Word Games don't keep hearts from being broken. And if you really know your partner; you probably know how they feel about Loyalty and/or Faithfulness. Fatal Attraction (1987) is a older movie, but it can show the consequences of stepping out. That being said, Life Consequences don't follow a script and always have a "Happy Ending" or even a good ending.

[@rasheedlyn817]

These days I rather be alone than being in a relationship.

[@Osiris-dk9dq]

And here is one of the reasons why men should prioritize themselves. I'm not talking about selfishness but just prioritizing ourselves, personal and emotional development. They only think about themselves. As long as they are not able to self-criticize, assume responsibility for their emotions and actions, they will not be ready for a relationship.

[@JamesWhite-mb8mg]

I didn't want the woman to be anything except happy, kind and agreeable, but even that was too much.