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[@justincase1481]

#3 - "She's not mentally healthy" - well that just crossed out 90% of females on Earth under 50

[@rayelliott8141]

my woman is 52 she must be in that 10% LOL

[@ImBrockatron]

You're more correct than you think...

[@weaintfree]

💯 🙌

[@Christian_D24]

Ding ding ding 🛎️

[@Fasmidio]

And over 50.

[@zacharyhardin426]

I usually keep my phone facedown to avoid distractions (even when I’m alone).

[@jonquilmr13]

Same like when I go out with my friends I put it down cuz I want to give my friends my undivided attention

[@alasti4623]

I do that too alone, the ghosts are watching.

[@mr.kerlin6340]

Airplane mode, thank me later

[@sonny5068]

Same

[@beckybyrd3962]

Me too.

[@LostAlien88]

My friend has some mental problems. It doesn't mean we can't be together anymore. It's better to treat her better and help her. She's getting better just because of my help. I think that in a relationship, people should help, understand, trust each other and grow together. If someone is having a problem that doesn't benefit you, you should really not walk away like that. You have to give her sometime to heal and get better.

[@crazyjloop89]

Giving time to heal and be better is having compassion and its missing from many relationships. Many of our parents were not compassionate and now we have to heal and probably aren't compassionate with our selves. So those who have empathy, like your self, ❤ are a treasure.

[@shleemlington699]

Hahahaha you’re delusional buddy. Sorry but it isn’t going to work out

[@sxrk.]

#3 - I could argue with that. I have a gf which is mentally unstable and always underestimates herself in everything. She doesnt have almost any confidence, but it has changed in a good way in the last few months. Sometimes girls actually just need someone to realise they aren't so bad. This year it will be 2 years we are together and our love and mental health is only stronger.

[@wolf2966]

Same with my girl she’s a wonderful artist when I first saw her work after pestering her I wanted to see she paints almost exactly like thomas kinkade did and shard with me her last ex of 2 years told her he didn’t want he doing at cause and I quote it’s a man’s thing basically he was an extreme misogynist and was really insecure she kept asking me if she could check her phone while we were and any time I asked if she wanted certain food or do a certain activity or movie she would say okay as if I was demanding or suggesting not asking her ex had really done a number on her but over the past year she’s completely changed attitude and tone for the better she’s just recently began standing up for herself saying no and speaking up for what she wants regardless of my interest or benefits to me I say this is a win and we couldn’t be better aside from 1 or 2 things still kinda haunting her in our way but that’s more difficult to over come for someone with this type of trauma one thing guys should really understand if they’re with someone who’s not mentally well at the time is they can’t force to fix the problem but just being there is enough and that not every day is not going to be a great day sometimes it hits hard and you got to take a break to rest it off for a day sometimes two but so long as their is some sort of progress even little bits you can still be with that person

[@freakiniilse]

Thank you for saying this. Sometimes the best healing for mental health issues is a good and stable relationship

[@broforcefreedom4936]

Exactly

[@shleemlington699]

Sorry buddy, you’re delusional. She’s using you until the juice runs out then it’s on to the next

[@nemo6261]

It's a cannon event yall, there's nothing we can do.

[@blakemisch4269]

It's sad because a lot of these things and dating tips are common sense but we've normalized sketchy behavior and hookup culture so much that this needs to be said. Lol just don't lie to yourself. "Love" does blind you, because you don't want to see. Deep down you know when you've got a good one.

[@tyarnold4088]

I don't know if I have ever had a good one, now that I think about it.

[@montavio]

We have not normalized this behavior idk who you hanging out with

[@tyarnold4088]

@Montavio Hawaii you just don't realize it. Women would never have gotten away with how they act on average. I'm 40 so I was fucking way back in the 90s. Back then women acted feminine and gave more respect to men. This feminization movement over the last many years has made it worse for men, and harder to form relationships with women.

[@RR-et6zp]

They biologically spin plates with many guys and go for the best option

[@knight936]

Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men let women lead.

[@Space_Princess]

The third one isn't 100% true. I have mental health issues and my long term boyfriend says Im wife material and the most kindest, cutest and sweetest woman he has ever known. The main deal breaker is whether or not she is doing things to manage her mental wellbeing and taking responsibility for her emotions and actions and is willing to healthily communicate what she is going through to her man 🙏🏻💕

[@Manish-ut7qw]

How old were you when you started dating him?

[@Space_Princess]

@@Manish-ut7qw 24 years old

[@m4r1s44]

Say it louder for the people in the back, queen.

[@gregjackson4117]

If guys are pulling this stuff they aren’t boyfriend material. It goes both ways for sure.

[@itz_shadow]

except of the first one

[@robertnoble7554]

True, but women do this more often than men do.

[@crystalseth97]

​@@robertnoble7554 idk I do this not because im texting with other girls but I don't like when anyone looks at my screen when I'm browsing something. Imagine when somebody finds out cringy quora search results in your search history. Please don't tell me that you never used internet for asking weird questions.

[@G0bl1n_067]

@@crystalseth97 SAME ALSO I PUT MY PHONE DOWN ON THE SCREEN BC I DONT WANT SOMETHING TO FALL ON IT AND BREAK THE SCREEN

[@robertnoble7554]

@@crystalseth97 I never said that men don't do it, but mostly people with shame tend to do so.

[@fnkid1267]

If my girlfriend is not mentally healthy i'd spend my time with her more, help her and care for her more i'd never just walk away

[@Musetea]

And this is why you dont have a girlfriend!

[@fnkid1267]

@@Musetea who asked

[@cncluvr]

you are a good man

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Wow are you single baby

[@dramaybaazii]

That's a big if Things change in actual conditions

[@DivinelyHis]

It’s crazy how something as complex as mental health can be used against someone at any level… people have mental health issue that they don’t even know about from things that happen in their life that they often don’t even remember happening, y’all just don’t want anyone to date basically… no one has a clean bill of mental health 100% of the time… we’re not girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife material, we’re human beings … there’s too many of us hurting all by ourselves to be handing out advice that keeps people even more isolated in their own suffering when they can have a partner who uplifts and wants the best for them

[@PermanentHigh]

The world doesn't owe you understanding. When a man is broke and in debt, women don't give a single shit about him. And they don't have to. It's the same for women with mental issues. Those are HER problems, not mine. I'll just find a woman with none of those issues

[@ivangerginov5648]

@@PermanentHigh Exactly. If you got mental issues, work on them and learn how to control them, then date. Being the therapist in the relationship is not my duty after a busy day. Support is fine. It's just that some girls need professional help that I refuse to give again. It's their issue, not mine. Also if she has no friends to rely on for those issues, she must not be a very likeable person in the first place.

[@DivinelyHis]

@@PermanentHigh I agree with you, but healing is not something that happens overnight… no matter who you get in a relationship with and how much they’ve worked on themselves, in the midst of an intimate relationship you’re bound to trigger each other from time to time and bring up old wounds. It’s naive to think you’ll find anyone who you’re not gunna have some conflict that may or may not stem from what both of you have experienced in the past And don’t lump “women” into one category when it comes to caring about someone who is down and out.. not all women “don’t give a shit”

[@DivinelyHis]

@@ivangerginov5648 yes you shouldn’t be playing therapist in any relationship but absolutely any relationship you have with any person is going to have it it’s flaws… we’re flawed beings by nature. The point is to find someone who is self aware, conscious of their issues and willing to work on them, but please tell me where do you find an adult with “no mental issues” every in the history of humanity?

[@DivinelyHis]

The point is the grand population has gone through some shit… no one should deny themselves and other the experience of love just because they’re afraid to confront their own faults in another person

[@monchichipower6334]

What if she's pushing for bf after first date I find red flag too

[@the_bogeyman.]

#babytrap

[@FRoques]

Def red flag

[@baki577]

"she's shallow with the 😺 she shallow..."

[@Makiaveli01]

And my dumbass would fall for it 😂

[@rooone6588]

What reasons would there be to push for a bf after the first date?

[@edytamichalska5299]

Omg! You expect a woman to push for a relationship??!!! A Lady should never do it! If a guy doesn't persue a relationship with me, I just move on with my life.

[@aaronbest747]

My gf is sketchy with her phone and if I ask to look at it she gets all defensive and says it's her privacy. I tell her honesty and openness is key and she's like it's my privacy.

[@wetsock4920]

red flag bro

[@aaronbest747]

@@wetsock4920 I feel the same way.

[@bdgregorybd]

Start treating her the same way. Start talking to other girls and hide your phone from her, if she starts getting confrontational then you have your answer

[@Chris-pn9fm]

Look everyone deserves privacy especially in a relationship. But that my friend is very suspicious, I would really keep an eye on her. She could potentially be cheating

[@aaronbest747]

@@bdgregorybd oh shit bro, I got tons of female friends where I'm friend zoned like a mother fucker because they got boyfriends and husband's and shit, and if I'm scrolling threw my text messages in front of her she's always like "who's she". But if I ask about what's on her phone she starts crying about privacy and me not trusting her. Lol 🤣. Like I have this female friend who is married and has 2 kids and I'm friend zoned like a mother fucker, but this friend is also a landscaper and will hit me up if she wants help on a job. But if my gf see's me texting her about getting a side gig with here somewhere, my gf always freaks out like who's she. And then this one time my gf sent me a screen shot of a car she was thinking about buying on Facebook business I saw that she had 9+ notifications on Facebook dating. So I asked her straight up, "should I be worried" that you currently have over 9 notifications on Facebook dating when you have been dating me for 2 months???" And she got all defensive and started crying about it like "why don't you trust me, it's old". So ya...

[@shawnkelly5419]

#3: Maybe she just need someone to be there for her because she's hurting so much based on past experience.

[@SamuelSchehrer]

Biologically programmed to be in a committed relationship, where exactly did that take place? 😂

[@Anonymous05973]

I was trying to find a comment that noticed this too. Like dude what?

[@mangyo7675]

That's why they call it a "mother board" budum tssk 🐴

[@v.m.m.7729]

Source: Believe me, I know!

[@eclipsesable7276]

Because you are? So are men? And basically every other fucking mammal? He worded it in a more modern way, but what he means is that we are biologically programmed to want to mate and reproduce.

[@seenitalready]

Easy - Women face the consequences of pregnancy far more than men do They’ve got to carry a baby for 9 months, naturally, biologically, the mother will want & need protection & provisions for labour

[@boogieuggie7865]

This works both ways guys.

[@beelo383]

#3 I can agree and disagree. Most time men or women treat themselves badly due to childhood trauma, emotional abuse, physical abuse, and toxic relationship. Bad habits are common things in this world. Coffee addiction, nail-biting, and any substance that can cause further damage to your health. I would rephrase that #3 better. I would put stability I don't mean having tons of money or owning a house. They have a job, goals, and healthy habits. Many people place their phone upside to not be distracted or just how they prefer to place their phone. I agree with the hiding part.

[@brooklyntrout5307]

"Mentally healthy" is the only one I think they need to clarify. Some of us ladies, and men, are harder on ourselves than we should be. Sometimes the motivation to get something done isn't there. When you are in a healthy relationship it important to remember that not every day is going to be perfect, if you want to get support from your partner talk about it. When you partner wants to talk, listen. Be honest about your feelings, opinions, and experiences.

[@cetas7838]

About the motivation part, that's not going to work most of the time. If something needs to be done, just gotta do it.

[@mstrjon21]

There’s a difference between being hard on yourself “I need to learn this now” and putting yourself down “god I’m so stupid.”

[@antoniobrasse7157]

Last red flag will guarantee you the best smash of your life 🙊

Indeed🤣🤣

[@smartwater598]

Why

[@antoniobrasse7157]

@@smartwater598 you can definitely ask any guy that's had the experience and they will all say the more psychotic she is, the better the sex 🙊 of course this does not make for a good relationship. If you find you've got explosive uncontrollable chemistry with a woman, just know she won't be good wife material for you, maybe for someone else, but not for you. Have your fun if you're both on the same page but never make the mistake of turning it into a formal relationship.

[@antoniobrasse7157]

@Courtain Folk absolutely it goes both ways. I'd also say if one is physically attracted to someone but not necessarily respecting of them, that can also lead to off the charts sex because if there's no respect there, one or both parties may be willing to push boundaries.

[@user-ii2rf8cs8j]

You’re a fool 😂😂 but for real

[@isabellelafleche566]

Honestly, I always hide my phone but like I don’t have anything to hide. I just grew up with two brothers and I’m always insecure that if someone sees what I’m doing there going make fun of me for it.

[@PermanentHigh]

So what ARE you doing then?

[@pitah846]

But there's nothing wrong if your partner makes fun of you

[@aaronbest747]

Thank you guys for giving us the redflags.

[@SL-gz3dy]

Think a bit for yourself as well. And as i wrote to you before, you are a red flag for going to her phone. Sorry she cheatee, but that wasn't ok from your part either.

[@jordanjackman1537]

A lot of bad habits be leaving people lonely, cos people like this can't be asked to deal with it.

[@katrina7408]

If a girl is not mentally healthy with herself that is not a red flag you need to help her. If she is depressed you need to help her. You need to make her feel safe and warm. This is NOT a red flag it never will be.

[@miracleman8022]

No it is my ex gf was not mentally Healthy and it caused so much troubles I tried helping her but she always thought I was controlling I tried but I broke with her

[@katrina7408]

@@miracleman8022 I am so sorry to hear that. That is just not accepted in my opinion. If your ex doesn't know you were helping her I just don't think she trusted you. I'm not trying to be rude that is just my opinion, if I am wrong please tell me.

[@miracleman8022]

@@katrina7408 she did know lmao she told me multiple times she knew but her dad died and her parents were verbally abusive with her lol I tried helping her for 4 years but it didn’t workout I just broke up with her she was not healthy for me and my health it’s very hard to help someone like it drains you obv you might know that because either your the mentally ill one and will never know how it is to be on the opposite side or never dated someone like that lol

[@katrina7408]

@@miracleman8022 Im sorry to hear that!! thats is a horrible thing to hear! I have dated someone like that, and we are doing just fine. We have our moments but we always figure them out. I have been fight depression for years and I do think I am getting better. I am sorry you had to go through that I do wish you the best in the future

[@justtekina6709]

Get manipulated is what you are saying,

[@itz_shadow]

for the first one: some people just want privacy with their phone and putting it down on a siide is completely random

[@iam.soulman]

Guys remember, smoking is one of the biggest red flags a woman can have

[@ImBrockatron]

1000%

[@vitality4951]

Why?

[@johnkreese4706]

Or if she drinks too much

[@lilkaymarie]

What kinda smoke? 👀

[@AV-kr6gc]

Any type of smoking. If she smokes weed, she def is or has fk’d her weed plug. And Cigarettes…..really, does that need any explanation to avoid a cig smoking chick? Gross

[@lostwoodart3301]

I have anxiety but I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. I am 20 now weve known eachother since high school and recently had our 2 years of being together. Instead of not being with me because of my "mental red flags", he supports and helps me when I do get anxious.

[@doodle_bear291]

I understand what you're going for and I agree to an extent, but I don't think they were talking about anxiety. Not that anxiety isn't terrible, but they mean the girl is actively being self destructive. And I think they have a point there! If the person you want to date cant be kind to themselves, youre asking for problems. But some other people in the comments have good points too. If she's actively working on getting better and clearly dedicated to that, I feel that's an exception. Rest assured they didn't mean you : )

[@vince5417]

The last flag should be the first flag. Mental health is extremely important with both partners. The upside a loving relationship, downside a roller coaster relationship with unexplained actions. You can’t help, love anyone if they they can’t help , love themselves. Do not try to be Superman.

[@weaintfree]

FACT !

[@HenrySimmons1225]

False info brother

[@panosmeli4217]

#3.... I absolutely agree,i faced that problem,i tried to "fix" her but it ended up like expected

[@giannac0]

If shes not girlfriend material than she is probably not friend material either!!

[@19382q]

There's no friendships between men and women only men in the friendzone

[@giannac0]

@@19382q I agree

[@lunte288]

The 3rd one feels like the most important and the least obvious from the other because a girl will still get into a relationship even though she isn't mentally healthy believing that's what she needs to help herself .

[@ju999X]

I think as long as they notice what’s wrong and are working on themselves, it should be fine..no one is a finished product

[@AM-mp7ug]

@@ju999X I kinda disagree, people with mental health issues should fix themselves first before dating, too many broken relationships out there bcoz of damaged ppl getting involved with someone. Getting into a relationship before fixing yourself might sometimes be alright, but having kids is where I draw a firm line. Anyone who hasn't finished their healing shouldn't have kids imo. Doesn't matter if they're in the process of doing so or not, just be patient and wait till 100% completion.

[@ju999X]

@@AM-mp7ug Having kids is a whole different topic tho, so my point still stands

[@meoonly4989]

I hide my phones cause of notification from yt that pops up on screen,like how to heal yeast infection xd

[@TeslaPrinciples]

Confirming you have something to hide, granted maybe not what the other person is thinking, but you’re leaving them to wonder and that’s the last thing they’ll think of

[@DavidAlpmann]

My GF is „not mentally healthy“ but I won’t leave her, because I love her and want support her

[@eclipsesable7276]

Sounds to me like you made her that way, just saying.

[@DavidAlpmann]

Her Ex broke up with her, because of her depression. Just saying

[@brothuhthunduh]

#3 is huge in my experience. If each person isn't taking the necessary action to take care of themselves physically, mentally and/or spiritually, issues can arise as they are unbalanced. These issues can have a domino or snowball effect & can cause issues in a relationship.

[@ducklover-yt4136]

They just said if she is insecure about her self leave

[@ireneanderson859]

When I hangout with someone I do not text anyone else, I don't push for a committed relationship after just a few months because we don't know each other well enough, and my bad habits don't always mean I am not mentally health, just that it isn't that important to me

[@kll2163]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@taniaswain-williams1379]

Agreed.

[@chocolateprincess2656]

I don't push for relationship and I never will because that's a man's job and frankly if he's not doing it after two months I just tell him it's not working out and I'm going to date other people but I will never be the one moving the relationship forward and neither should any woman

[@AM-mp7ug]

@@chocolateprincess2656 But hasn't the man already initiated the relationship by asking you out and taking you on dates to begin with? He has displayed his interest and has invested heavily into it by taking you places, paying for your dates, buying you gifts,etc. What more does he have to do to prove himself to you? Is it now not the woman's responsibility to reciprocate and pledge her long-term loyalty to the man and later on push for marriage?

[@chocolateprincess2656]

@@AM-mp7ug NO. He initiated the dating/ talking stage. Initiating a relationship means asking her to be exclusive that's it

[@GreatLoveImmortalVenerable832]

Don't worry bro I ain't taking any girl seriously either

[@xazzie7224]

there's a thing call privacy

[@sauced9456]

My ex always had her phone flipped over, but whenever I picked it up or handed it to her I would joke around and act like I was gonna go through it….she never seemed worried so I didn’t think much of it

[@Hvac_edgar]

Just cut off a girl bc shit didn’t work out & all i gotta say is all these 3 apply to her 😬😬💀

[@ChickenWingJoe]

I learned that last one the hard way and that lead to a heartbreaking breakup for me

[@ellasummers9671]

The first one isn't necessarily sketchy. I've never been in a relationship but I'm the person to hide my phone's screen. Its just because I come from a an overbearing family who either don't know boundaries (parents) or made fun of everything I liked (brothers). So now i am creature of habit protecting my privacy and insecure about showing what i like.

[@haleygray6443]

I just said the same thing!!

[@Hey_its_Koda]

Also the too sweet woman. They act very very innocent but she has another side to her.

[@ambern.9887]

Everybody has different sides

[@jimbo12340m]

The last one is the most important, my last girlfriend even did warn me " im mentally ill" and i didint listen . 2 years layer trainwreck heartbreak .

[@justinsabater7567]

Just found out my girl has been cheating on me and she was doing all of these things but I always thought nothing of it. It was multiple times in front of my house away from our ring camera and it was her job supervisor. She’s 19 and he’s 37 😐

[@vangothengirl]

Also another red flag is if her friends have a criminal record(s) and are 304's. Be careful who you surround yourself with, especially the more you heal. God bless y'all, stay safe over the holidays into the new year 🙏💕🕊️🌸🐇

[@menkae6708]

I know women who simply don’t want a committed relationship. But if you want one, break it off. Same for women out there.

[@pecerra]

Definitely a great reminder

[@hpac9051]

These two dropping gems

[@moneymaddoks]

Bro I like your videos. Your girl and you are what’s up. Good advice. Bro your teeth are perfect by the way. If you needed to hear that then there you go. Lol

[@BurnySanderz]

These guys are total creeps, they give mostly advice that doesn’t work in real life and shitty to be honest, but u do u I guess

[@moneymaddoks]

@@BurnySanderz the give a blueprint it’s seems like and it’s up to you to finesse. That’s my two sizzles.

[@themanman165]

Bro his teeth I can't get over how big they are

[@danesthesia09]

I like his content, but have to listen and not watch. Just looks like a talking horse with stubble.

[@forheavensakes9144]

He flashed the triple sixes

[@forheavensakes9144]

And the devil horns

[@noahtruax3653]

That last one is fax. My old gf was having some mental issues and I tried my best to help her. She ended up getting more and more distant and broke up

[@HenrySimmons1225]

It's not facts tho. Just because your basically insecure doesn't mean you can't be in a relationship

[@fable_enthusiast]

Me putting my phone like that when I'm in argument with someone: mh ok

[@ajayyyy]

Okay enough of the internet for today.

[@himjyotigoswami3027]

Thats it...time to find another one...Thanks guys

[@sajjadabooyee7744]

Pure truth, only channel that each of its shorts teach me something new and true

[@leetyler4122]

Great advice! Thank you

[@ayushprajapati1868]

Last point is so true, I experienced that.

[@RustySalazar]

Thanks guys, your videos are always helpful 👍

[@thehomie399]

Botox is a red flag too

[@sickkunt7875]

Last one is so true I can relate

[@mmmsamowens]

Thanks guys

[@falaflequaw4652]

Okay the 3rd one is FAX tho Fr like it’s true w every girl I’ve been with

[@yeeeoooo1778]

Number one: high bodycount

[@TheCroin]

Bro that 3rd one is bs. Like I can put myself down and curse at my own damn self for 3 days straight and not be negative to anyone around me. It's that when you care about someone you tell them the truth, now in most cases the truth is rather hard to swallow so its seen as 'negative'

[@ronaldlucero4258]

FEEDBACK IS MOST IMPORTANT FOR ME.

[@dhoward8184]

Spot on with the mental health. So important

[@rexarnette5579]

Thanks for the tip

[@rileyvoldeng7148]

The phone one is on point.

[@lilmanq7746]

I do the first one, as a guy but it’s because I’m private af I don’t wanna see someone staring at my phone at what I’m doing

[@masonstrauss674]

Dude that’s so true. I got made fun of for a few weeks cause my friends looked at my texts

[@_saylorrxx.__]

As somebody who grew up with a crazy dad, putting my phone down upside down is a habit and reflex, even if I have nothing to hide

[@user-ei8he2ih2i]

That was the video i want now! Thanks guys!

[@nicklaurenti2722]

I Wana thank yall for making thes videos. It's rough out here for dudes

[@user-ou1um8xd1i]

Another thing to watch out is when someone is texting you asking for say money on the phone block them and move on

[@HindustaniQueen]

#2 is circumstantial

[@danteinferno1226]

Lmao this been signs since my time in high school now it’s 2023 and people catching on 😂.

[@bdgregorybd]

I don't agree with number two. My current girlfriend wanted a relationship with me two months into talking, she just didn't want to scare me off. Number three is spot on and should be a universal law.

[@sandwichsquad74]

Yeah I’d say probably by 6 months is a for sure. If you’ve been dating a girl for 6 months and she hasn’t mentioned shit, either you’re just not that guy to her or you’re not the only guy and she still wants to run these streets. Some people take longer than others because of past experiences moving too quickly so 2 months I feel is a little soon to be sure, especially if y’all only see each other once or twice a week in that time frame y’all done only hung out anywhere from 8-16x at that point which isn’t overwhelmingly enough time to be sure you’re ready to seriously commit to someone cus people are going to put they best foot forward at the beginning anyway. It takes a min for peoples guards to come down so true personality can be shown

[@bobobobixon9530]

Thanks for the tutorials on how to understand women

[@nishantkashyap3772]

You just described my ex 😂lol

[@senseautoincorporation947]

Bro drops top quality advice

[@mig2cool982]

Thank you for keeping it real always you guys 💎

[@ruthcook8599]

THIS GOES FOR MEN ALSO 🎯🔥

[@guadalupealvarez9500]

It's Sad because my dad has this things instead of my mom. His not mentally healthy since he's been through tough time when he was young and never chose to help himself or to try to ask for help to become better. Now all of his dark past times has made him into a toxic men and not be a strong gentleman.

[@BruceBusby]

She's not reaching for your hand, she's reaching for your wallet

[@michaelhmfic8346]

The turning the phone over isn't sketchy, I do it so I don't get distracted.

[@candycanex6225]

Well the first one rlly seems sketchy, but I always do it in instinct to avoid my parents knowing my convo with my friends, and I sometimes do it if im so nervous and is trying to get my friends's help- but I always do it instinctively whenever my friends text

[@fuchsia4326]

3 wrongs made a very wrong with my ex

[@pipoLopez-tz7eb]

Thank you guys real helpful to know..

[@stepanpospisil8383]

What if she started saying hi to me out of nowhere.

[@coltsfan9058]

I always put my phone face down just so I can be engaged in conversation and not like distracted.

[@Fuzzyblossom]

Both ways this stuff!! That's most ppl thesedays!😂

[@yukishomori]

part of the reason why girls are mentally unhealthy is because they don't have a guy to be there to help them. i was so mentally unhealthy before i got into my relationship, and once he started helping me and accepting me for who i was i got better, and still played my part in the relationship despite not having the best mental. yes, mental health plays part in a relationship, but it doesn't overall determine if you should get into a relationship or not, it only determines how to play out the relationship and what roles each party plays.

[@IR_Fuse_Live]

The healthy mentality one is a big one

[@detox7626]

Being a female who isn't mentally healthy, my partner being mentally healthy, it's actually a hell of a lot more beneficial than you'd think. Some gals just don't have the necessary skills that should have been learned at a young age, weather because of family, environment, or something else. I, being one of those people, have trouble functioning with my emotions. I learned to bury them, didn't have the chance to learn otherwise. And it's a rough journey, but my partner is helping me through learning these skills. So yes, it can be rough, but don't give up, maybe try helping her to be better, give her a chance to learn to be better. Also is #3 counting for mental disorders such as bipolar, bipolar depression, anxiety, panic disorder, bpd, etc? If so, rethink the words I said. Not all mentally unhealthy women can't be helped. I agree with the other 2 tho! Kudos to thems

[@Daniel-qj3tp]

Good tips

[@Izzabellashyya]

"BAD GF=bad mental health" So no one got one then !

[@seekingfreedom9020]

It goes both ways, this is making me realize why I'm not boyfriend material. I have mental health issues, and I definitely don't feel stable mentally, unfortunately as much as I love my ex I wasn't able to be there for her mentally because of my mental health. To this day I still think she is the best woman in most wife material that I've ever met, unfortunately I just have so many problems that I'm not able to be good boyfriend material. I lost a great one😢

[@habibrahmy9513]

Cuh i can't be mentally healthy rn, I got a whole pile of shit to do!, Got a year to prepare for an insanely hard exam and tbh all I want is a little time to relax

[@gadohimself]

Damn. My ex had all three. I was stupid enough to believe she would change. Ripppp

[@ddssddga]

Good call on the phone issue. My last two exes were very shady with their phone. Finally I have a woman in my life I can trust 100%. No upside down phone or secretive behaviour.

[@michaelnilson7591]

Thanks brother.