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I had an email come through askshumake@gmail.com from a woman that wanted some advice about her relationship. She says that they've been together for a few years and she is tired of waiting around for her boyfriend to finally decide to marry her or at least propose to her. He's well aware of her desire to be his wife and at one time he seemed to want to marry her as well. Now days he seems to be uninterested in marriage and as a matter of fact, he gets aggravated when she brings it up.
This is a woman that has both of her parents in her life. In fact her parents are married to this day and have been together her whole life. She was raised in an environment that she wants to have for her self. Both of them have no kids and she is ready to have her own family, but her dream has been put on hold due to her man not showing any interest.
She wrote me, because she wanted me to tell her how to make her man marry her, but unfortunately that's something that he has to want to do on his own. My advice to a woman in this situation is simple. Never give a man an ultimatum, especially when it comes to marriage. You want your man to marry you because he actually wants to. You deserve to have the type of relationship you want! So if the man you're with doesn't want that, you should find a man that does. It's that simple. Never try to force a man into doing something like this if he's not ready for it. That will turn out bad for you.
"But I love him."
I know that it's not easy to walk away from somebody that you truly love, but hear me out...
Alot of men will never marry you if they don't feel that they have to. I know I just said that you shouldn't force a man to marry you and I do mean that. But what I'm talking about is not the same thing. Your problem is likely tied to the fact that you've been acting like a wife already and your man believes that there is no need to marry you. He knows that you love him and he thinks that you will never leave him. So he feels like the ball is in his court. Therefore he is going to move at the pace he wants to and there really is no guarantee that he will ever pop the question.
What will make a man think that he needs to marry you in a timely manner?
Letting him know what you want in the beginning, show him how much of an asset you are, and show him that you are the type of woman that will walk away if you're not happy. No hard feelings at all. You're just the type of woman that knows what she wants and will not settle for anything less. If you're really as good of a woman as you believe you are and you have that type of attitude, you are far more likely to end up with a ring on your finger.
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