She said she is the head of the table! Even when a Man is there. No Broke Men. No Men with Kids.

She said she is the head of the table! Even when a Man is there. No Broke Men. No Men with Kids.
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[@theoriginalkilox7592]

“Some people aren't loyal to you, they are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty.”

[@wudacudashuda_]

Agreed, well stated.

[@Wynter_Heat]

Damn okay quote of the damn day!!

[@SwagDemon]

Damn you just hit me over the head with a understanding I couldn't put into words

[@godsangel67able]

Straight 🔥🔥🔥

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Whew!!! This!

[@SayconTalks]

Powerful episode- I dated a guy who is an asshole with a great job and health problems- he never wants to discuss dealing with his health problems- then calls me whenever he’s not feeling well. My deal breaker is anyone who runs his body into the ground and doesn’t believe in health care, self care , and eating right! Learned my lesson!

[@bettywillis9192]

She will be taken soon. Sounds like she is the answer to a high value man’s dream. I also see generational curses being broken by the kind of life she exemplifies by the choices she makes. Her family will be blessed. Best wishes my sister.

[@dramaking973]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 she don't know shyt about men she da cuz she a shelter smart aqua wit dumb action

[@rogers5622]

Sounds like he wanted someone to take care of him.

[@bobbyraybourne5991]

Dawg I had this girl break up with me because I didn’t have health insurance lamo😂

[@mistermanishify]

@@bobbyraybourne5991 your freaking lying lmbo😭😭

[@SheilaTrueLove]

For the person who in the comments who said "YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE", that is NOT always true. You can be an amazing, positive, loving and supportive person. You can be all the great things a man looks for and you're still going to attract BROKEN MEN. This is because everyone wants to be a part of your life and be close to the great ENERGY that you give off. So you're still going to see broken and dysfunctional people come your way. That's life and that's normal. Majority of people in the world are BROKEN and DAMAGED.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Women attract all kinds but she is picking wrong. If your list involves swag, style, and good with women you're gonna be lost most of the time. Women do it and men do it. When men are young we look for the baddest body with the prettiest face. As we get older we learn what we need and pick somebody for the long haul. She may not be a dime but we get that we have to be more realistic. Women will not let some of these superficial things go. For men it's looks, for women it's income

[@cyes1156]

She said "Im the head of the table" even if he has his stuff together and a man of value!!!!?????🤣🤣🤣....Case closed......WE ARE MEN! We dont want women like that! Thats masculine energy! This is why so man Black women are single that toxic mindset y'all have.....VERY MASCULINE..... Masculine energy attracts the "bums" that she dates

[@nicolea.7501]

Good women have and use discernment. Good men have and use discernment.

[@cyes1156]

@Troopz & Redeye Nation U are what u attract!!! An empath/people please is toxic... A narcissist is toxic.... These are two toxic people coming together to form Codependency!!!! So yes! You are what you attract!!

[@ms.helpmeet4753]

No.

[@sivan3125]

By wanting to be "head of the table", she eliminates 99.99% of the Men she is looking for. Unless, Will Smith becomes available. 🤣🤣

[@lonestar199]

Or a d wade 😂😂

[@sivan3125]

@@lonestar199 Yes! 🤣🤣🤣

[@sivan3125]

@Sincerely, Bria 🙌🏾👏🏽🤣🤣

[@sacoope1]

He might very well be available since slap-gate🤣🤣. Then again, Will has a type and she doesn’t present to have the physical appearance that he goes after.

[@augustmoor]

Or Russell Wilson 🤣

[@aguy9071]

She is unbearable. Her standards are reasonable but the way she communicates them is so unpleasant. There’s a funky attitude with this one. She still thinks she can lead a man. The single cycle will continue for her

[@augustbaby8254]

Of course a medical assistant in NY, LA, Chicago, Seattle, San Francisco, DC, etc makes more than other areas. It’s called a cost of living adjustment which equates to some of her counterparts in other cities. For example $100K in NYC equates to around $60K in Atlanta. In her case even making $60K (modest salary) in NYC as a MA equates to her salary of making roughy under $40K in other cities. You can make $18+ at some fast food spots aka bodegas up there. Its extremely difficult to live on your own comfortably in NYC with assets and a decent financial portfolio. My professional guess is she’s probably with family, roommates , or inheritance. They (male and female) can run the BS on these APPS, but some of us are a little more observant, and attentive to detail. Some folks need to be more coherent with reality vs this fictional rhetoric. #DEADASS YO

[@justhomas83]

Take away her Dad's black card and car. Then we will see the only fans page pop upon the net tomorrow

[@alvinbiggsjr8351]

Lol

[@mypageisbeinghacked]

Great assessment!👏🏽👏🏽

[@TruthbTold777]

She didn't say she's an MA she said she works in the NA department

[@jazzkyng9717]

exactly, that's what i was thinking. Making a 100k in the south is a lot different than making a 100k on the east coast.

[@deeant44]

A 30 year old CNA is competing with guys she date because she has a lot of talent 😂 where do she find these people

[@msalohakitty]

A cna and a medical assistant not the same and there’s nothing wrong with being a cna. Keep that same energy when you’re old and need your stank ass wiped

[@hunt1110011]

red flags everywhere

[@gwene.9912]

She is the head of the table… wow!!!! I understand being married and as a wife having discernment and covering my husband, but never will I say I am the head.. we are definitely a team but I respect him as the head of our home..

[@blacopsassassin2771]

And that is why you are married (happily) I assume from the comment, and she was dealing with a homeless man😟 who picked a Murderous chick over her....

[@kalimbaayinde25]

AMEN. My husband is and will Always be the head of the table.

[@teea8328]

The more I see videos like this, confirms that a lot of people are damaged and need to seek help by a licensed therapist instead of contact KZbin gurus. I really hope that one day therapy will be destigmatized so that people will be open to getting the proper help that they need

[@Nickswagger100]

She’s the “Head of the Table” mentality is what’s going to keep her dating broke men! Men who got themselves together are not going to accept that!

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Excellent observation

[@JDMHaze]

Yeah and there will be a cat or a dog at that table with her

[@NailedUnicorns]

Big facts....it gives masculine vibes.

[@JDMHaze]

@@Slow-Rolling cat mom

[@TheTez1990]

Was rocking with her until she said men are jealous and she wants to be the head. No woman wants a man that they have to lead. That shit is a total turn off for any self respecting man.

[@bknatural_e]

I agree with her that some men are jealous. I’ve been there. But, I agree with your statement that no woman wants a man that they have to lead. It is a turnoff for the woman.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@Jay Strauss "they want the power of a man, the privileges of a women and the accountability of a child" I believe that's how the phrase goes

[@cyes1156]

@@bknatural_e Its obviously not a turnoff for her🤣🤣🤣.....She clearly said she wants to lead even if he is a man of value......She is a looser for that.....Its masculine

[@chico5817]

She used the word jealous over 5 times. She sounds very immature and chooses men that are also immature. She’s 30??

[@bknatural_e]

I don’t think it signifies immaturity. Perhaps she just hasn’t learned how to finesse her words yet. All I interpreted from that is that she wants someone who is ready to celebrate her and her success with her and who feels like they don’t have to be in competition simply because she’s going after her dreams. We all look to our partners for encouragement and cheer. I think it’s a reasonable expectation.

[@chico5817]

@@bknatural_e Then as I suggested, her choice in men could be suspect. Another consideration that goes to the issue of immaturity; you request a partner’s opinion on something, they provide an honest, sincere opinion but it’s rejected simply because it’s not 100 percent glowing in affirmations. When you ask for objective opinions be prepared the the possibility that there may be some suggestions for areas of improvement- that’s love.

[@meloran2571]

@@bknatural_e Celebrate what success? This woman has a job - a job like any adult should have. She's not special. Thinking she is in her head doesn't make her special to a man. She's looking for a man to worship her.

[@bunchielove6893]

@@chico5817 but she admitted to picking the wrong men. It's not immature at all. One of my friends husband got jealous of her when she went back to school. Sometimes it doesn't show up until the woman tries to improve herself. Men seem to have a hard time doing the same.

[@liberatedilla]

@@bunchielove6893 so true

[@brianfisher4701]

"I'm the head of the table" single for life

[@ItsGoingDao]

She’s almost there! A little humility would do wonders

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

Humility will not come from her. That's why she's single and also that attractive. Trust me, the smart men won't deal with her.

[@bosstalkwithloskie9026]

@@Grizzle-Grizzle at all

[@djpioneer937]

Exactly, "the get jealous when they see how talented I am."

[@bosstalkwithloskie9026]

@@djpioneer937 shot made me spit my coffee out like the audacity !!!! Just because u deal with homeless men dont men the rest of us are jealous of you also seems like she only dates aspiring rappers she may wanna change that to

[@ItsGoingDao]

@@Grizzle-Grizzle sadly I agree. I could be wrong, but she sounds like she wants a healthy relationship. The hubris from her thinking that she has healed will turn off quality men.

[@melemelstl]

She has confidence and KNOWS what SHE wants .. can’t hate on that or think negative about that .. cause long as you know what you want then no one can’t say nothing about how you know how ppl should treat you

[@opinionsofsomeaveragebros]

She this mindset is a problem… you value has to match up with your confidence. You can assigned the worth you want but you have to qualify for said worth

[@bobbyraybourne5991]

Yea but everyone not jealous of you

[@lordtrill7731]

Yall be really thinking they going fxk yall?😂😂You embarrassing yourself

[@bigknox2115]

She actually seemed ok until that head of the table debacle 🤦🏾‍♂️ that’s that over inflated ego in our community that keeps marriage rates declining

[@Byebandit50]

Women don’t propose nor control marriage 👀 very inferior and dangerous mindset you have

[@crzyruskie86]

Why do women keep missing the point? If you want to be head of the table, then be head of the table. In that case let the man play a support role and make his income irrelevant. That's what it means to be a leader and head of the table. Not, oh I'll get mine and save it while you make yours and I'll spend it. TF are you thinking? You don't even know what it means to be head of household because your standards contradict everything. Men will be head of household and date a girl who works at McDonald's because we don't give a shit about your money, we take care of ourselves anyway.

[@stackzdollaz9508]

Facts

[@ashasun6620]

You don't care about her money which reflects on the type of women you get.

[@aguy9071]

@@ashasun6620 men value character over assets. Partly because we don’t get to use those assets anyway. I’d marry the humble, sweet, and friendly girl at Chick-fil-A before i marry the boss nurse with 100k.

[@ashasun6620]

@@aguy9071 stop the cap, your not marrying anyone.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@@ashasun6620 you mad because we value character over assets??

[@Babyluv_]

She’s a NURSING ASSISTANT in NYC. What she earns in NYC is trash. Idk why she’s trying to sh*t on people who live down south. That was not humble at all. Also, imma need her to just speak for herself and stop talking about “other women” 🙄

[@BrianaKeitera]

Girl I was thinking the same thing! The main reason you make more is because the cost of living in New York is way more expensive than down south 🙄.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Exactly 💯

[@aguy9071]

She make 50k and spends 40 of it on rent. Arrogant and stupid

[@torjelanimedia850]

Lol she stayed in Tallahassee for a few yrs that’s why she said “down south”

[@maryannghoson9724]

I mean down south pays less than east coast.. I think that’s just what she meant

[@jayramzeyconstructionllc5108]

She is getting all the attention and praises from all the women here, hope she is looking for same sex marriage and best of luck to her.

[@SuperTruthful]

Stop hating on the woman and women should praise women cuz all you bm have is hatred for them. you're jealous first thing you wrote, she's getting all the attention and praises and that just tears you up and makes you angry. why???

[@andrebundy3773]

Yes bro it’s insane how they give al this bs advice about black men when they’ve dated nothing but lil boys and Pookies and Ray Ray how can u give advice when you said you don’t know how to pick a man but I hope she finds the girl she’s looking for 🤣

[@Roccofan]

@@SuperTruthful Absolutely no hate. She simply isn’t moving like a woman that has thought through her life and goals. She sounds like she just wants to keep going on dates and getting into short term relationships. A 30 yr old woman should know to move differently if she wants a husband and children. Do you disagree?

[@Iceberg_Mac]

😂😂😂

[@SuperTruthful]

@@Roccofan Plz let me assure you that there are millions of women in this country that don't want marriage, it's not their ultimate goal in life and it's not a prize for them. Believe that.

[@MzBunny2790]

It’s actually easy to date someone homeless in nyc without knowing they’re homeless. Unfortunately, a lot of people (mostly under 35) for some reason are forced into the streets. As long as they maintain a job, they usually will put them in a shelter. Being in a shelter, a single parent, or recognized as “homeless but working” is the quickest way to get affordable housing in NYC. Everyone isn’t sleeping on the street with a blanket and a cup.

[@mariaelena8710]

Please don’t settle lil sis…you’re young so do YOU while you can.

[@treysince21]

She's 30.. u call that young? 5 years from geriatric pregnancy. Smh

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

This is awful advice. You trying to get her to die alone?

[@Jame6999]

LoL typical woman advice

[@magicworld3242]

@Maria Elena, and she'll end up old, alone, lonely, used up and bitter, like you.

[@7mileawesumdre539]

She's the head of the table even when she has a man. Let's see who finds that appealing?

[@Rella28]

Jealous? I can smell the hate and dust

[@NiKaHikari]

@@Rella28 not jealous, men just don't find that trait attractive in women

[@7mileawesumdre539]

@@NiKaHikari that's all. Difficult from them to accept this.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@Rella28 that is not jealousy. That is a turnoff women need to quit trying to be men in the relationship. We as women want men to lead, provide and protect and then we get these type of women talking she is head of the table. Make it make sense .

[@7mileawesumdre539]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 thankyou sista very refreshing to know you all don't share these views. They'll call you a pick me... I'll call you a a Black man's WIFE!!! BARZ!!

[@jerryrodriguez3554]

"I'm the head of the table" is why she is single and most likely will remain unmarried and attracting bums, she needs to humble herself

[@personalshopper2585]

She seems like a very nice and intelligent young woman. I am also an Aquarian so I'm attracted to intelligent men also... however the one thing that I disagree with her about is being the head of the table ... I am older than she is and I know that as a woman it is important that we have men in our lives that are leaders and who will protect and love us... therefore, a woman must allow a man as the head in her life in their relationship...if he is the right kind of man. there are so many young women today, that want to be the leader... that is not our role as women ... when we learn to submit and learn that there's nothing wrong with submitting to a good man...you just have to be with the right kind of man who can respect, love, provide, protect and honor you as a woman... when a woman feels comfortable enough to submit to him and let him take his role and you take yours as a woman, you will naturally feel more feminine as a woman...you will delight in him be the leader. you will find the yin and the Yang will come ❤ together naturally. First become the person you want to attract...and then only accept the kind of man that complements your desires😌

[@shadyzbabii420]

If youre intimidated by her, just say that 😂

[@MrStaano]

@@shadyzbabii420 She is delusional. You too.

[@Iamgroot377]

Exactly! No man tryna deal with a masculine woman, but it's ok women like her can have their preference keep on dating the bottom of the pit I wouldn't even waste my time speaking to women with this type of mindset if I were single. Married 10 yrs to a peaceful, feminine, cooperative, and submissive women and because of said traits I lay the world at her feet.

[@aguy9071]

@@personalshopper2585 stopped reading after “I’m an aqua man”. She said she doesn’t need a man, the men are listening

[@chitown2222]

Ok boo I see you. This was one of the best conversations on this show. Young ladies coming up take note please.

[@entertainmeimboredplease4250]

She is absolutely right women do all the work in the house hold anyways these guys now days built different they disgusting acting cry babies, gossiping, vain an heartless.

[@aguy9071]

*the men you interact with lol. The men who don’t are probably avoiding you

[@bfields112]

Her ex started being jealous after she dropped her mixtape 🤣🤣🤣🤣 #foh

[@jjerome27]

Shorty is a 30 yr old CNA! Who has witnessed and delt with mad emotional damage! Her ideal man is a narrassist.

[@chefbay3943]

12:00 helll nawwwwwww Women don’t protect men!!!! Y’all always got some backwards way of trying to explain some dumb catch phrase you bandwagon’d on. Men protect women. Let’s not try to conflate spirituality with protection. Let’s not equate making a house a home as “head of household.” The “head,” weather a table or home, is the breadwinner by definition. And she distinctly said she doesn’t want the man to make less then her. Stop all the cap!!!

[@madcobra2444]

She's in constant competition with her man

[@MrHeat1up]

Head of house is a tax term. Married people don't have a head of house. It's married or married filing single. How much money you make has nothing to do with who leads your home. I do understand the concept.

[@SuperTruthful]

well, i don't see men protecting women but i am reading every single day men attacking and murdering women in the streets. A man shouldn't make less than a woman cuz he is going to be resentful not her.

[@maia3420]

@@MrHeat1up Head if house isn’t just a tax term. It replaced the term “man” of the house to be more PC. It means the leader of the family which is the husband/father usually unless he is absent/dead. Then it’s the mother.

[@MrHeat1up]

@@maia3420 the specific definition: The Head of Household filing status was designed in 1951 to acknowledge the financial burdens carried by single parents. It provides single-parent households with an increased deduction and a preferential tax rate, effectively treating a head of household as a filer and a half. Once again, the head of the house has nothing to do with who makes more money in a relationship/marriage. My dad never filed the head of household.

[@yellowbears1]

She's pretty, smart and confident. Black men will be intimidated by her hopefully she's not just dating black men.

[@Designsbyyvonne]

She is totally correct about broke or men with no vision getting jealous. Smart girl!

[@jerryrodriguez3554]

Picks pookies in her 20s and wants a good traditional man in her 30s with an independent modern women mindset smh good luck to her but I doubt she's gonna get wifed with her attitude

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

Finally!!!! Someone posted EXACTLY what I was thinking 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@cyes1156]

Preach..... Everything u said spot on!! Im glad men are waking up

[@reggier2343]

She is horrible at vetting men, but wants to paint us all with the same brush.

[@aguy9071]

This is why fathers are so necessary. What does being artsy have to do with being a good mate? And what good man is gonna let you lead him?

[@wilfriedboh1]

"i'm head of the table" LOL 😆

[@maia3420]

I see nothing but complimentary comments for this lady saying she won’t accept a man with kids or no money, but when men say the exact same thing about HER kids (or her weight) it’s a huge problem on this channel. Those are critical thinking skills of a child.

[@pauloskidane2819]

You know these birds dont wanna listen

[@meloran2571]

the fact that after watching this vid, there are so many women saying the like her tells you how f'd the dating game is. I don't blame dudes for just using these type of women for fun.

[@marcyscloset6835]

but she does not have kids, why should she date a man with kids????

[@maia3420]

@@marcyscloset6835 Because men rarely are given custody of their kids. The kids would be mostly out of the picture. Also there is no expectation from men that their new woman financially supports his children. Most women however have custody of their kids so they’re around full time AND they want the man to financially support her kids like he’s their daddy. Case and point, the viral video of the mother with 4 kids circulating right now. Angry at her ex husband for only Buying his son food and not her 3 other rugrats from other baby daddies. You will rarely if ever hear a single dad complaining about his ex woman financially supporting his kids let alone his kids by another woman. Never.

[@blkapino6318]

A talented nurse's assistant, my kinda girl... 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayemendi4501]

Look… put some respect on nursing assistants!! They are incredibly valuable to the healthcare team. I have had nursing assistants catch my patients tanking while I was with another patient and they had the urgency to get me in there quick!! I have had a few patients whose lives were saved because the nursing assistant saw something just wasn’t quite right in their vital signs and how the patient was responding to them. I don’t play that whole down playing the role of nursing assistants, especially very experienced nursing assistants. They don’t get paid enough for the job they do. All my love to our amazing nursing assistants!! We would truly be lost without you!!♥️😘

[@KandyGTV]

Yall joking and clownin but a nurse assistant will be the one taking care of your sorry a$$es when yall old and can't do for self. They play a vital role in hospitals, nursing homes, and long term care facilities. For many of you these women will be your only company and sense of comfort in your last days. If your lucky not to be found in your home days or weeks after you met your end.

[@kayemendi4501]

@@KandyGTV YYYYYAAAASSSS!!! ALL OF THIS!!!♥️🙌🏾

[@Iceberg_Mac]

😂😂😂

[@3hug3hug6]

@@kayemendi4501 fax

[@jayyy5852]

She’s gonna be single for awhile …very overwhelming

[@3hug3hug6]

Fax

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

You ain't lying 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@JDMHaze]

single, with a "couple" cats 🐱 💜

[@meloran2571]

she will not be single. She'll end up dating what she has been qualified for her whole life; bums.

[@rafi18thletter74]

Homeless dudes can’t get enough of her!

[@carolyneasley8980]

Nurse Aides are an extremely important part of the nursing field, they prop up the nurses and keep them going. It's also a stepping stone into becoming a nurse.

[@DemureDarlings]

UMM SHES BEAUTIFUL, REASONABLE, AND TALENT!!! WHATS THE PROBLEM???

[@Tmrolln]

Kenda facial expressions! Lol 😆 🤣 😂

[@just_shaeee]

Especially when she started singing 😂

[@thechubbypuertorican917]

I’ve been through a lot = a man is going to suffer when dating her

[@leramfreeman2950]

Was going great. Then she blew it by saying she is the head of the table! No quality man would put up with that. SMH

[@JDMHaze]

yes, she didn't really appear as arrogant despite some of the things she said earlier, but this one sealed her fate and made it more apparent to others according to the comments... You let them talk long enough and there it is

[@MrHeat1up]

We wonder why she is single. After hearing her philosophy on why women are in charge..... I understand why she is single. The competition with men is in her head. She wants to be the man. I keep telling y'all, all of you are looking for a fool. Did she say a high value man "knows his downfall will be the woman that he's with"? 👀

[@MrHeat1up]

@MsZoomification I can't disagree because I don't know any inadequate men. All the men I know are straight forward good dudes. Educated, married and successful. Just by her description of what she doesn't want tells you what kind of men she normally deals with. you can go to any college campus to find the opposite. But nope because she be in those streets!

[@irvinkaleb]

...she's not humble at all. And thinks men are jealous of her when men don't tend to compete or want to feel the need to compete with women anyways. If men she talk to are that way shes definitely choosing Wrong.. and then says she's the head of the table? Seems like she's playing herself if anything. and seems like the type that's easily played. The delusion..

[@joeroot9142]

She said broke men are jealous. Are you broke?

[@cyes1156]

Spot on comment

[@stopdiscrap]

Lmao that household going down

[@robertprater7770]

BLESS HER LIL HEART

[@JDMHaze]

bless her cats 🐈

[@Warrenwoon]

She gotta stop messing with them SoundCloud rappers and step out of her comfort zone lol

[@OhhYouu..MICHELLE]

“Oh Okay” in my Kendra voice 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@Erica-cf1xb]

“When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” - Lao Tzu This Black Queen learned the lessons from her past mistakes and used it to set the standard for how she wants her future to be. She was blessed with many talents that will always keep her being self-sufficient while here on earth. She no longer needs the validation of a man who does not support her because she has learned she is valuable. She knows her worth alone, but also how her talents can generate wealth in a loving partnership. This was live, so there wasn’t a second chance to make a first impression. Perhaps if given the opportunity, she may have decided not to mention the pay scale comparison. We will never know. But I think what she is asking for is rational and I truly believe she will get everything she deserves in this lifetime. As long as she understands life will continue to give her opportunities to learn and grow from. I may reach out to her as a potential mentor if she is interested in furthering her nursing career. Currently, I am pursuing my FNP and I also reside in NY, 34, no children, single, but I can’t sang tho. God bless this Black Queen ❣️🙏🏾

[@CognitiveDiscussion]

How is she a queen without a husband?

[@Erica-cf1xb]

@@CognitiveDiscussion I can already tell you are a Samuelite, therefore I am using discernment and choosing NOT to entertain you or to further engage with you. Be blessed Beloved. ❤️

[@CognitiveDiscussion]

@@Erica-cf1xb I don’t want your blessings ma’am, just need to know how a single woman is a queen without a husband? Even in historic Africa, queens didn’t go without a husband. A queen is rare, not common.

[@blu3novagaming779]

That may be true but she's knows nothing about man nor does she know what a man wants

[@bellamonroe7322]

She ain't nothing but a masculine woman who will stay single because of her past

[@Scam-ish]

I’m a lot like her , very into music etc but marrying a women who wasn’t into that stuff was more fulfilling than the relationships I had with ppl into the same things like music, dance art etc . Sort of because when I was with women like this lady we would always be creating , there was no break. And I can speak to the competitiveness I think I would want to guide her into what my vision was but her vision was just as strong in the same fields . We were by default competitors

[@alvinbiggsjr8351]

That makes a lot of sense! Yikes no breaks sounds miserable.

[@helena3631]

I like her all the best for her

[@candycrusher2024]

See I think the same thing. She thinks she needs a creative guy who does the same things but she may need to keep those hobbies for herself and find commonality with core values.

[@Scam-ish]

@@candycrusher2024 so true and it’s so good to ask about my wife’s day and to hear something that’s new or different to me

[@Scam-ish]

@@alvinbiggsjr8351 yeah it’s not just with music either I’ve had that experience with being with an Entrepenerial spirited women seemed awesome and refreshing at first then it just became exhausting

[@MRSAVAGE215TV]

She lost. I wouldn’t waste my time, and I love how everyone keeps remixing what a “high value man” is. She is gonna be the head of the table with her cats & dogs. Stay woke.

[@bosstalkwithloskie9026]

on god

[@reginahuckaby2226]

That's why she's single.

[@ronee8942]

Y’all don’t have a discerning spirit at all. How is she lost???? Y’all are toxic.

[@bosstalkwithloskie9026]

@@ronee8942 ok lets run it down 1. She has a taste for homless men and rappers 2. She assumes because the homeless guys and aspiring rappers are jealous of her that a real man would be in our world shes broke and we dont care because hrr money wouldnt matter regardless im a man i pay the bills 3 she wants to sit at the head of the table with a real man not gonna happen for her to pull that off means the guy is weaker than her which she also doesnt want so i.e shes lost did i explain that well enough or leave anything out?

[@eddieelliott1496]

💯% dropped 🎤

[@TheLoveOfNikki]

I love her!!! I hope she finds all the peace joy and LOVE she deserves 🤎

[@magicworld3242]

She's a nut case.

[@eugenecaldwell9619]

@@magicworld3242 😁🤣🤣🤣Why you say that?

[@kimberlyjackson6498]

@@magicworld3242 Yesss!!! 😂

[@MJ-hg1mk]

She doesn't stand a chance. I'd bet the house on it. Poor thing. No clue.

[@CbusRon]

It’s funny how all the single women are praising her. Maybe y’all should date her to see why we wouldn’t lmao bye! I don’t want a woman to be the head I just want some

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Rite as a woman myself I looked at her sideways when stated that and she is a liar notice how she keep looking up and around when she talk.

[@CbusRon]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 she was all off the whole vibe and just not cute enough to have a attitude like that. You obviously can’t find anybody so Bible yourself ma’am lol nobody jealous of your talent besides broke wannabe rappers that you attract 😂

[@drzpapi413]

I'm extremely intrigued by the human psychology. We express what we desire and present them as solid requirements. Yet, never experienced it. Never had it. And most likely end up with a quarter of what you "require." Just look at the track record. In my single years, I enjoyed asking women about their past relationships. You learn so much about them.

[@runwind8955]

This is true, however you have to go for what you want. If you don't ask or don't require or make plans with your someone..All is baseless, with no whereto go...the bar set so low. Good people will give regardless. Sometime we think we are above and want to be served our needs but have to remember to also serve. I've had to realize that my husband is his own person and wasn't made to just do what I want him or need him to do. However, he does good things and I for him. It is definitely a learning experience to learn the person your with if allowed. Some people never show who they really are as they send their representatives...fake...and then the real pops out after they get tired of being fake...the..liar, unfaithful, weakness, emotionally broken and unsincere, untruthful. Anywho...that is the real psychology of meeting people to me.. We meet many but only a few are worthy and true blue💙

[@bigtank6465]

@@runwind8955 I'm curious, do you think a husband and wife are equal partners? You eluded to the idea of a woman who wants her husband to serve her and do what she wants.

[@Hendog410]

It's called wanting better for yourself. Like it's not that deep. She wants better for herself and her future and she can't do that with a broke man that has no goals. Also has no time line of reaching them.

[@runwind8955]

@@bigtank6465 yes, I did elude to that. 1st I think a man should be given the opportunity to lead, however not many can or want to. Alot of men want to be the leader of the home, yet want the wife to work full time, cook, clean and pay half. Yet, this a 50/50 type of set up. What person would do all these things and then let someone lead them, I would'nt... this situation is one where they both lead each other, everything else is 50/50. When i stated that I wanted my husband to do stuff for me, I do, I want him to give me alot of attention, work out with me, go for alot of walks, lots of talks, dance, have fun and lot of hand holding, hugging and lots of romance. Everything else is 2ndy. Money is a tool to me, I'm an earner...I want the stuff that money can't truly buy: devotion and sincerity, not just obligation.

[@bigtank6465]

@@runwind8955 Sista respectfully, it sounds like you want a Girlfriend instead of a husband. In today's climate, both the man and woman have to work to sustain the home in most cases. But the man is still the Leader regardless if the woman is employed. It is a woman's job to maintain the inside of the home (cook, clean, etc.). The man maintains the outside of the home (lawn, house maintenance, vehicle maintenance, etc.). A man doesn't have time to cater to his wife in the manner you suggested. She is not the first or the second priority- Work comes first. It is however, a woman's job to Cater to a man. Everything you stated you want from a man is a complete contradiction of a woman's biology. I wish you and your husband the very best. But a man should give you what you Need- Not what you want. And what you Need is a productive man who will put you in your place when you start asking for too much attention. You'll likely lose respect for that man if he gives into your wants.

[@logicman5010]

The title is why she will be alone alone alone

[@DaddyWarBucks]

Good Luck but sorry to say she will be single forever 😂

[@Zrosum]

Aside from her misunderstanding of the head of the table she's got a good head on her shoulders. Could be a strong pick if someone's willing to put in a little extra effort. Good luck out there and God bless you!

[@meloran2571]

That is a big red flag though because it shows her mindset and the attitude she'll have in a relationship. She already thinks she's above you.

[@Yobachi2007]

Yeah strong is the word brotha. She's so strong she competes with every man she dates, and thinks you're jealous of her. This isn't a pick you take even in the 7th round.

[@tundra0828]

She's all yours. Good luck!

[@Zrosum]

@@tundra0828 Oh ha, I’m in no need for a woman I’ve got an outstanding one of my own. Good luck to you. All things take time and compromise that’s a guarantee in life.

[@spythe]

You can always tell how screwed up someone dating past by their "new" requirements for future men Please for the love of god tell me why any successful man(a man she actually wants) would want to deal with her after knowing all of this.

[@aguy9071]

My thoughts exactly. Now at 30 you want this “good man”? All of a sudden you know what he looks like?

[@queencharles3527]

She has no kids and she's relatively young. She's cute too. Why wouldn't a good man want her? Because of her dating history?? That's an actual question..lol

[@spythe]

@@queencharles3527 She's just alot with her personality, her dating history, and the whole shes the head of the household non sense. I just don't see a focus and motivated guy willing to deal with a lot of her..... she doesn't seem like peace

[@queencharles3527]

@@spythe ok. Got you.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Don't tell them. I love when they do that. They are revealing their scarred past.

[@youngodyssey16]

I like her lol she truly hold herself accountable

[@Dantregfs_]

Ladies… you do the opposite of what we like … it’s not that hard

[@justhomas83]

Yeah but they sure do talk a lot. So much for actions

[@SuperTruthful]

But what you like isn't what women like...that's not that hard to understand.

[@ErazerPT]

Some comments just show the disconnect... "All that good energy"... Exactly what most men will "resent" in her, having to deal with the Energizer Bunny all day everyday... It's tiresome, it's draining. We have lot's more to think about and deal with other than you, everyone has a life to tend to. Eventually gets her the "stfu and let me have some peace" exasperated response, her feelings get hurt, a whole new set of batteries comes on and... everything goes sideways.

[@rncgsu]

It's sarcasm

[@TheDtoDiego]

😂 good luck 😂

[@tubeslats]

She says guys she dates are jealous of her. That's probably because she only dates low value men. High value men pass her by.

[@wingdragonzero]

Kendra dying with laughter 😂 😆 🤣

[@sabrinaclark9285]

Whew...she ain't speak nothing but facts on that ex always coming back! 💯 That's called a narcissist! Ladies look it up!

[@dmac5808]

Nice unique voice. You are a woman that is focus and with standards , a lot of young women need to follow your lead. Never settle.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

I luv my sistas but I have to keep it 💯 she is an alpha woman meaning she will always be competing with her man and looking down on him. A man that is a true leader, protector and provider is not going to deal with her attitude. Women need to quit trying to be the men in a relationship/marriage. Good luck to her tho.

[@kian1237]

She’s exhausting, but I wish her the best

[@FootWrkTv]

Yes, honey I agree.

[@TashaAlexandrea]

I relate to her. Literally experienced dating similar men where they get jealous of you and try to hold you back from blessings with manipulation. It’s also refreshing to see another black female in her early 30s child free with standards. Her standards aren’t even high. Literally bare minimum. She’s not even asking you to pay for anything and the men in these comments are saying hard pass. This is exactly what I mean when I say men = confusion. I understand beauty is subjective (she’s gorgeous to me) but she’s has a good head on her shoulders, is responsible, has a career, child free, has hobbies and goals, standards, the list goes on. Yet, you sit and critique her saying she’s scared, competitive, her standards are too high, she’s not humble.. there will always be a problem, won’t it? Look, if you don’t like women and are secretly insecure just say that. Because it’s giving broken record with the way y’all complain about how women don’t submit but you lack the safe space and protection women need to think about submitting to even begin with 🙃

[@96Views]

Bruh this is the issue, she’s gorgeous to you but u don’t decide relationships, men do why is this so hard to understand, why do yall keep thinking we like what u like, all of the stuff you listed are mostly irrelevant when men go looking for a wife, I hear this all the time from women” to me she’s beautiful” are u a man??? Noo, she ain’t that nice Atleast get braces white ur hospital money to improve the appearance

[@sg5720]

@@96Views do you not understand what men say to women can be very very confusing? You want a woman to submit but have nothing to submit to. You want a woman with no kids, but she must accept you if YOU have kids. You don’t care about her having a career but she is suppose to go 50/50 on everything and therefore she must have a job to pay for that. You don’t care if she is educated, but you clown women who are not educated. If a woman is a single mom, you all make fun of her but then get mad at women who decide not to have children because the man they with has vanished. She must look good all the time but that don’t apply to you. Sorry, but a lot of you men are just not clear what you want in a women. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of women can be very confused to. 🤷🏽‍♀️😔

[@7mileawesumdre539]

How is she humble when she literally says "im talented and men are jealous" that the actual opposite of humility ma'am.

[@7mileawesumdre539]

I'ma help you sista out so your no longer confused drop the attitude truly learn what humility is and watch you get a man I promise 😉

[@MrHeat1up]

@@sg5720 I love you just because your attempting to understand. Just like men say about woman in the streets. You can't turn a hoe in a house wife. There is a saying about men. You find a man in the streets don't be surprised when he acts like a alley cat. And most young ladies or women in general have no clue what cloth the man she lays with comes from. Meet the man's family, see where he is cut from. If he grew up in a trap house don't blame anyone if you choose him.

[@Mrrhill]

It only takes us 30 to 90 seconds to decide if we want you and how much we’re willing to sacrifice to get you. You’re value will rarely go up but it can go down easily.

[@gospelofyashua]

She DONATED her box 📦 to the homeless 🤔🤢😂

[@MenTalThePoet]

This young girl is very pretty with very twisted relationship views. Her arrogance is probably what got her thinking men are jealous of her

[@pickmeisha]

In all my 40 years I never once met a man who was jealous of my possessions or talent.

[@nicolea.7501]

I dated a few men who were my same profession or who were in school to be my profession and none were jealous. They were excited. She might like men who have jealous natures.

[@meloran2571]

This is just something these women create in their heads. If you can't stand their arrogant attitude then you must be jealous or intimidated.

[@omgimover4075]

That’s because only narcissists and sociopaths are jealous of women. As long as you stay away from that kind of man, you never will meet one.

[@meim1st]

I thought they didn't exist until recently speaking with a friend who's established & well off but became very offended when we got in a discussion on buying organics from Whole Foods. Omg he totally hidden Tyrone out to me saying I think I'm better than him etc. This man prides himself for only dating WW because he's a Wallstreet exec, top tier & was so mad at me, saying, if a WW said it he'll understand because they're raised like that & they're winning over BW but I think I'm white, better than him & "I'm a typical BW" trying to tell him he isn't ish. All because he's full of negative stereotypes.

[@nicolea.7501]

@@meim1st That's not jealousy, that's paranoia. The Black community hates each other but we won't acknowledge the hatred exists.

[@bfighter8930]

"Head of the table" will be THE deal breaker for 98% of male applicants.....

[@stackzdollaz9508]

She’s clueless. She’s a NA in NYC soo Yeaa she makes more then a NA in other cities. Cost of living is higher in NYC. Thought everyone known this by now.

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

Guarantee that she dated bums often because dudes with their act together ain't dealing with her.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Bingo 💯.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

She cannot scare off a strong man She is made for a very secure man She'll bless him.. I see her heart She is a beautiful spirit..

[@blackmancool9983]

Dear Women. Men love quiet and humble Women.

[@anbublacc5086]

She seems like a whole headache of a woman. Good luck to any guy who decides to get involved with her.

[@youngtimer7531]

She dated a homeless guy... and she has standards?

[@marcyscloset6835]

She didnt kwon he was homeless.... I know you heard her say it.

[@jermaineburgess3767]

Straight airhead 🤯

[@mudddge]

Space cadet came to mind for me

[@glengg6925]

I wanna say mad love to this black queen she makes so much sense I haven't seen any one on this channel who even come close her beautiful intelligence 🤔

[@rdinperry100]

I like her. Very smart. Knows what she wants. And a great thinker ... she is really thinking about her past and what she's been through and how she wants to move forward. Hope she finds the man for her and he finds her.

[@prettiilexii672]

I'm stuck on how she has a long list of requirements, but dated a homeless man!!????? I'm so confused now.

[@marcyscloset6835]

She didnt know he was homeless. Don't act like you didn't hear it and also people are not allowed to evolve and grow ??? very stupid comment

[@maryannghoson9724]

Her singing is actually really nice naturally, I’m sure she sounds better than some celebrities with all the edits etc..

[@e-maginne]

I’ve never heard of a man being jealous of his woman. Is that a normal thing? She keeps bringing that up.

[@suchafknladyyy5780]

She's attracting who she's attracting because she's masculine and a "skrooong sista"

[@myvalentine9590]

Wish her best luck! She’s seems headed in right direction

[@Roccofan]

She’s a 30 yr old woman talking about how she competes with the men in her life, she is not headed in the right direction.

[@justhomas83]

Chill she has already lost. No man with a Brain will entertain her nonsense just cause she has a appealing looking face.

[@MrStaano]

Yeah she will die alone. She thinks she gods gift. She isnt.

[@tubeslats]

She is headed for being a cat lady.

[@JDMHaze]

she's going to make a cat or dog very happy 😊

[@BjtheLawyer_]

Some women want a high value man who submits to her. First, a man probably not high value if he submitting to a woman. These women want men who are leaders of everything but their relationship. FACTS!!!!

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

They want Will Smith

[@cyes1156]

Facts black women want a Russell and Will.....SO DANGEROUS

[@your_belief_vs_everything]

If she's not ready at 30 and has these kind of unattainable standards she won't ever be ready.

[@Wynter_Heat]

Shout out to her naming HOMELESS being a deal breaker!!😅😂

[@bossqueen6552]

A lot of black men are homeless trying to live off a woman's house including the download gay brothers.

[@blaccfeather5803]

@@bossqueen6552 and it's a lot of black men who are straight and have their shi together lady.

[@vincentharris110]

@@bossqueen6552 You are nothing!

[@justhomas83]

SMH we are all one bad check away from homelessness. Humble yourselves

[@Mr.Ming07]

@@bossqueen6552 wtf is a downloaded gay man lmao

[@estrodenaro3359]

Don’t know why she is complaining about what money a man can bring when she is the “head”! Be the head mamma 👍🏽💪🏽

[@billie-ocean8286]

U don't know how people will change sometimes till the child arrives

[@rvwilliams100]

Reading the comments from the men, these guys will never get a woman. They don't have a mind of their own and they believe that foolishness from the internet dating coaches with failed marriages and can't get dates.

[@veetahbee1368]

I knew I wasn’t tripping! It’s like they memorized a montage of their favorite manosphere videos & recite them on command.

[@Ebizzill]

I will drink to that. look at these folks... when they heard "30" , they automatically went into "you dont get to call the shots anymore, you old af" ...

[@stackzdollaz9508]

@@Ebizzill nooo she’s a 30 y/o NA thinking she’s gonna be head of the table. That’s y she’s always gonna get men that make less then her or no job at all.

[@charlespierce6899]

What in the Narcissistic Telenovela is happening here?

[@deejai1173]

I just would like to say, I applaud her for stepping out there and investing in herself as far as relationship knowledge and self worth. I hope it all comes together for her. Best of luck sister. 💕

[@mrworkowt5419]

Did you hear her say she's a head of the table in front of a man and you're applauding that?

[@suchafknladyyy5780]

@@mrworkowt5419 and I bet I'm willing to bet my WHOLE family and I mean husband sons homes cars and all that she's one of the same ones liking tweets and post of protect black women and she's attracting momma boys and homeless men cus she's too masculine and "the head of the table" look at how she said her men are jealous of her 😩🙄we so lost as a people collectively 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jonjones7137]

Why are you in competition with YOUR OWN MAN

[@deeel5692]

She seems competitive to me. It's exhausting.

[@hardlessons9732]

Artist types. Her man is probable in jail or going to jail. Why do I feel she is reading Steve Harvey books.

[@NightRidah777]

Wtf is wrong with these women? It's like they're all completely broken

[@Imjustsaying-j3v]

And 🎬 action: 1:38 What does she mean by this it couldn't be financially she an (NA) nursing assistance. The average salary for a nursing assistant is $19.28 to $22.25 per hour depending on years of experience. Interesting... [Warning Signs] 4:37 🤦; She also stated 5:02 So, who is she in competition with? 5:17 🗣; She's calling attention to indirectly blame the men at this point.😕 5:38 🌪; Self-medicated hiding within herself.‍ 6:15 🤷‍; What!!! 7:11 🤦; You already have! 7:34 🗣; Indirectly blaming again. 8:12 🤷‍; The false reality 🤦; 9:19 😕🤦; A slight selfish nature - [JMO]: selfish motivation as the inverse of otherish motivation: wanting or striving to benefit the self without regard for the well-being of others. Selfish motivation occurs in social contexts where behaviors have direct or indirect consequences for others' well-being. 10:58 🗣; This phrase or opinion is overused and betrays a lack of original thought. 11:37 😕🤦; Controlling. 12:21 🤔; This is interesting, let's reverse that, what would the woman say about the man? (12:41 Just a theory) My overall observation; is the 11 "warning signs" learned from observing this conversation. It's no wonder she's setting at the head of an empty table right now.