She was married for 19 years. New man should make at least $100K. 12 min mark things got awkward.

She was married for 19 years. New man should make at least $100K. 12 min mark things got awkward. She reached out to a guy from my show and he sent her a message he sent to all the women.

[@Veronica-dc5ms]

She’s in her 50’s?? What youth fountain has she been drinking from???

[@buffalo.blackk]

Her arms are flabby and her boobs are droopy. Hard pass. Why do 50 year old women think they qualify for an ambitious man? If I’m 47-60 and I’m ambitious and doing anything in life I’m dating women in their 30s. This is the problem when women get to pick heir own mates. She’s a bust-down for old heads at this point. Now she’s going to trick off on some impoverished African dudes. Sad how pitiful all these old single women look. Sad indeed.

[@4656superman]

definetly still looks nice,

[@Veronica-dc5ms]

@@4656superman , I agree ~ whatever she’s drinking I want some

[@dionthornw9838]

​@Veronica-dc5ms probably because certain people look good up to 61, after that gravity handles you if you aren't in shape..

[@Veronica-dc5ms]

@@dionthornw9838, I’m also curious about the aging process of Asian women ~ they could be in their 40’s and look 20. There was a documentary about it that I have to research again….

[@allMinabe]

She looks so beautiful I would not have guess she was in her 50's.

[@brielax4441]

Very beautiful Sista

[@nmmboy]

Facts 👌🏽

[@lupavo1738]

You're right, she looks like she in her 40s at least, but she does have the mindset of someone in their 50s.

[@factlife2.o270]

But she is still delusional at 52

[@mztisfeisty8024]

I thought she was in her 30s.

[@Caram3l_Bombsh3ll]

She was practically drooling over Dwight. He hit her with the “Thank you for applying but we’re going with a more qualified candidate”. If he was interested, he would not have sent you the rejection template.

[@beemonique8466]

Lol😂😂😂😂

[@chancexthexchief]

meanwhile she’s happy she even got that lazy ass message & really thinks he going to “reach out by the end of the week” 💀

[@shennarice5749]

Yep 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mabele7014]

You nailed this response

[@sakpase88]

😂 😂 😭

[@StockMarketCashFlowTV]

She looks amazing for 51 years ❤

[@GreyMann2]

Her hair, style and complexion are on point! Her clinging onto those who aren't clinging onto her are red flags tho. Best of luck!

[@Gotinks]

Sounds like he cheated on the first wife with her, and then cheated on her with the 3rd wife! 😂

[@JustBree716]

Listen I wanted Kendra to ask if she knew if the husband was a cheater before she married him. My son father is a cheater and he's been married 4x's now. Twice to one woman. And I have to wonder if they bother to ask or care. I think most times they don't but that's just my 2 cents😅

[@nmmboy]

Lmao that sounds about right 😂

[@omgimover4075]

💀💀💀

[@abdoumassah]

She will find a man in africa if she’s whiling to give up that green card

[@cecilemorton8109]

Right🤦🤔

[@ethereal3333]

I think Jackie is a good woman. The way she interacted with Kendra without becoming defensive/argumentative shows a lot about her character. She's also beautiful and vibrant.

[@LOSTGPS]

as a man, she seems like a headache to me. Being "very" opinionated is a masculine trait and she has trust issues. She's also fixated on a man that's not even feeling her. NOPE buy a cat!

[@candorsspot2775]

She was argumentative. She just wasn't belligerent and hostile. With that said, she's a reasonable catch, but she's here reaching out for a man who is clearly not interested.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

She does look good for her age, but she's still in her 50s, soooo... 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lordtrill7731]

Date her then🤷🏿‍♂️😂

[@stevenharris1460]

Then you date her. We good.

[@FancyCapitalist]

Pro tip for women: If you're on a dating show looking for a man, don't voice your interest in another man publicly. The type of men that you want, the successful ones that already have options will put you at the bottom of the list.

[@citrustaco]

It's really not about other men having options, but what you actually want. If a man was on here looking for woman, then at the end he's thirsting over another woman he saw on the show, talking about how he wants to be with her, no sane woman is going to want to talk to him now because he's made it very clear what he truly wants. Doesn't matter if the other woman (or man) has options. The person calling in isn't focused on the person who might contact them.

[@citrustaco]

This woman is attractive, fit, and has good diction. She hits a lot of checkboxes for what men are looking for. But she's going to turn down a lot of good men over a fantasy.

[@beemonique8466]

That's why she was hesitant to give his name.

[@janine7185]

I think she came on the show, just to get his attention. Her energy around Kendra's questions about a potential was lack luster and like she made up something, anything.

[@blacklegacyentertainment5757]

I only make 50k a year and Im not even interested.

[@twistedtoxicreality6744]

As a 6'4, black man, women legit put us on a pedestal and will give us 10k passes compared to a short man. It's nuts. I've been on dates were some just rag on short men 90% of the time. Tall men do not have to work as hard. My 42 year old, 6'5 brother with 15 kids proved that. 😂😂😂

[@evaphillips2102]

Being tall is like having pretty privilege. I hope your brother made sure all those kids are aware of each other.

[@slangtang6671]

They will tell men they dont shit on them tho 🤣

[@perdybirdie]

That's why I don't care about height and prefer men between 5'9-6'0. They're more humble and less competitive lol

[@Rightousbleavher]

Sad reality…

[@alp.9672]

I'm only 6'1" man If I was your height or your brother I would need to be NBA.........

[@dee_jay78]

Thank you Kendra for holding both men and women...... ACCOUNTABLE!!!!!

[@brandonbrown6918]

23:35 is priceless 😂😂

[@DJPerryvillaTheDrive]

Maam the market you left 19 years ago isn't the same market

[@reeree5748]

😩🤣😂

[@tammy2839]

I no right times have changed since 19 teen years ago

[@R.Yvette.X.]

It's not a market anymore. It's the gazelles and the hyenas.

[@beedubbya2278]

@@R.Yvette.X. omg lmbooooo

[@wjohns911]

You prefer her to stay in a marriage where she is getting vm cheated on is wwwiillldddd

[@bellaklava600]

After 3 yrs of doing the show KendraG has really learned so much about men & women. I really appreciate her telling women straight facts. It's the way we should all do our friends. Especially women in the sisterhood. Friends don't let friends waste their own time & gas them up with expectations that aren't realistic.

[@1232N]

What did she set straight in this episode?

[@TheCakediva08]

Exactly!

[@lakeishag76]

Yeah, you can definitely tell the progression in her some of opinions. I appreciate the feedback she gives.

[@Moe_Lester_fromUptwn]

You'd think she'd be off the market

[@thinkman2467]

She definitely cuts through most of the typical wmn double talking nonsense. Which for a modern career wmn is nothing short of a miracle. Once she drops the what's your sign nonsense, she'll be as reasonable as a wmn in her position can be.

[@1deonlucas9]

She actually seems like a good person, and she looks good and takes care of herself. I like her.

[@jenkericj]

I agree but like KS said Nurses are the worst.

[@buffalo.blackk]

You’re a dork, bro. You simping on a 58 year old single mom who’s thirsty for another man. She spent the last half of the conversation talking about some dude named Dwight who wouldn’t date her. And she said she has trust issues from past relationship trauma. And she’s willing to cheat on her husband. And this adds up to a good person and you like her??!! What hell. These dudes like Lucas take simping and whole new level.

[@gregb1374]

Yeah she's attractive. But she lost me at the I cheated back (got my lick back). Nit only did she revenge cheated, she wanted to keep her marriage and lost. Lost the husband and obviously the man she cheated with didn't want her either.

[@serious7179]

​@@gregb1374 I don't understand the revenge cheating either. If my husband cheated on me, he will be out of the house and there will be no coming back. I don't know why women tolerate a cheating scum bucket.

[@itypethetruthnobshere8975]

idk what yall are seeing. I see a head full of messy nappy hair, darkskin and big glasses

[@Mr1972Dean]

Kendra, you won me over with this one. She is in que, and she wouldn't give the guy that is pursuing her time. You opened her book and she didn't realize it until you said something.

[@brandonbrown6918]

23:35 is priceless 😂😂

[@crazyDayz27]

If a 50+ year old says "i got my lick back" leave her in the streets 😂😂😂... she is very clueless too, kendra is realizing the crazy shyt thats going on lol

[@nneenaa6343]

😂😂😂

[@RahYisrael99]

I couldn't believe she said that.

[@Intentionaltia]

😂😂😂

[@Jmaury-iv9te]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@KingDavid0501]

Right...she said she wants a loyal man...she is not loyal herself...just cause he cheated doesn't mean that you have to do the same...just leave!!!😮

[@sweettea8790]

Whew...she got on my nerves claiming she didnt know the dude's name. Girl, bye! 🙄

[@MichelleWilliams-rd4is]

OKURRR 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤭🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💯💯💯💯

[@Ev-rd2lw]

Simple, Log off

[@micah7817]

She didn't receive what was expressed. She brought him up in hopes he would see this so he could possibly respond, lets be real. If he does, by some chance hit her up, she would obliged. She threw herself out there so much, he could probably hit. I don't have the highest self esteem but even I would remove myself from the flock if I received a automatic reply😂 NEXT CASE(khia voice)

[@brooklynforever1990]

Absolutely he’s clueless

[@bobbym1799]

Facts

[@ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to]

90% of women are chasing %10 of the men

[@VendieSolde]

Spot on!

[@omgimover4075]

She’s 52? Omg I thought she was her in 30s

[@thebestchannel5456]

38

[@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOS]

😂 I thought she was in her 20s because she said, “she got her lick back”. Grow up ma’am.

[@TeacupYorkiesforadoption]

Me too! I'm 36 and I'm sure she looks younger than me 😂😢

[@FancyCapitalist]

If a man has 4,000 options, it is really unlikely he'll pick an older woman.

[@chillycharles910]

Zero chance unless she's famous like Erykah Badu. Her young dude is a nobody but probably has a lot of chicks attracted to him.

[@barbarablackmon7807]

Most black men slso choose mixed race or white women rather than older and dark skinned. Just look at athletes and celebrities.

[@RahYisrael99]

​@@barbarablackmon7807exactly. She made a big mistake saying she prefers black men. They definitely don't prefer her.

[@mr.culturefreedom2073]

​@barbarablackmon7807 you mean the less than .001% of black men? BTW most black male athletes are married to black women just like the average black man. Yall stay lying on brothas. 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

[@jfarm30]

@@barbarablackmon7807no, most black men are married to black women. We much rather date black women but if you are a man that makes money and have a ton of options, it can be difficult to marry a BW. I’m an attorney and at my last job, I was the only black attorney that seriously dated black women and when I asked them why, the black guys explained how easy it was to date outside. The women were young, in shape (normal BMI), and had been lightly touched! They prefer BW but there was a large gap in the quality of women when considering marriage. And my white counterparts were having sex black women but were not interested in marrying a BW.

[@sheriharris7635]

I am so glad Kendra called out her mess! This is an issue across the genders. Women find a man physically attractive and will put up with his nothingness and his disrespect just because he looks good beside her. Men go after the woman they find physical attractive and when they get dogged out then suddenly all women are the problem. People are shallow. Period! That shallowness guides decisions and this is why some men and women keep finding themselves in the same type of situations. But these folks won’t admit that they’re the actual problem in their own life, they’ll instead say “men ain’t sh!t” or “women don’t know what they want!” Well he’s been not sh!t and you’re not so special that he’s going to change. She does know what she wants and it ain’t you.

[@digigum5996]

I honestly have to agree with all of this. Shallowness has ruined dating and marriage, but we all looking for arm candy.

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

I mean you are right. I don't have any old boyfriends except a guy I went out with for 3 months after my husband died 25 years ago. I learned real quick that sumbody can claim they are sure they want to date you 1 moment and not sure the next. Thing is, I knew I didn't like him like that anyway and was just doing it because he asked me out. I got what I deserved in that case. My whole life I've never cared for having boyfriends. All through my highschool years, I would only be friends with guys. It was never a priority.My senior year i fell for a guy that I married after my 1st year in college. We were married 10 years B4 he died. We had 1 child. But I never dated again except them 3 months I mentioned above. I'm in my early 50's now and I still don't date. I've always had men wanting to do all sorts of things with me and for me. But I've always been happily single, choosing who and what I do. But I know everyone isn't like me. I just can't imagine being at the mercy of waiting in line with thousands of other women for a man to choose if he wanted to talk to me. But he sends me a printout of what he wants in a boo. If I'm not it , don't bother, but I'm still being hopeful. These women are Looney AF if you ask me. Low brain power!

[@sheriharris7635]

@@NestozLikwidVPotient couldn’t imagine it, never have done it, and better not catch my daughter or son being so dusty. I’m on the older side of the millennial generation and like I told my husband, we’re becoming the parent generation. Where did we and our parent generation go so wrong that these youngsters coming up can’t manage relationships? Well here it is. This woman is in her 50s and willing to deal with this mess. How would she teach anyone any better?

[@FaithandPurpose828]

What I read from your comment....blahblahblahblahblah....

[@sheriharris7635]

@@FaithandPurpose828 you read it, got the message, and felt attacked. Do you and your struggle. Makes me no difference.

[@gid.095]

People really need to know what and what not to say online. What man will take her seriously knowing she cheated back on her husband.....

[@yournamemustbejealousy2062]

Moral of the story, don't cheat on her because she will do the same to you.

[@vendeverous886]

@@ajt8967 I believe one day she will look back and regret that she didn’t just take it and stay in her marriage.

[@elroy1rose139]

​@@ajt8967 that's wat happened when you choose the wrong guy. Now you'll never know what it feels like to have a man who truly loves and respect you as a woman 😊

[@SofeeYAH]

@@vendeverous886 genuine question, not arguing, i am very curious: would you stay with your wife after she did back what you did to her? in other words, if your wife cheated on you, would you stay in the marriage?

[@Magnolia3720Slim]

​@SofeeYAH I knew this question was coming! 🤣🤣🤣 When are you women going to realize that you're not built like us, so can't do what we do and it be looked at the same

[@professafloyd88]

This woman NEEDED TO BE RIGHT so bad. She was arguing with Kendra too damn long.

[@TyWerks]

facts

[@bombay3201]

She received that lol

[@TyWerks]

@@bombay3201 🤣🤣

[@jrobinson39]

That wasn’t an argument. It was Kendra digging into trying to figure out what the woman wanted lmao

[@jay4341]

@@bombay3201gawd damn I hollered 😭😭😭😭😭

[@beedubbya2278]

She looks every bit of 37

[@Ruthforme]

Girl, your hair is beautiful and healthy!! Thank you for NO BONNET Sis. I wish you the best of luck.🙏🏾👍🏾

[@moniquew3603]

So many women are willing to wait in line for "that dude." I'm glad Kendra told her that cut and paste message should let her know she's not an option. She's in the same age group as my mom, so this was so interesting to see. I didn't realize grown people put up with that kind of shit...

[@sheilae.9670]

Exactly! I absolutely agree with you

[@itypethetruthnobshere8975]

when you desperate you will do anything. There isnt an age limit for anything. I dont get why people dont realize that. What exactly should "grown people" act and do? Is there a standard?

[@candorsspot2775]

Lol they don't wait.

[@Fabrizio7171]

@@itypethetruthnobshere8975 I believe where they are getting at is that we had ages in the past where people would get ridiculed for living a certain lifestyle after a certain age. It’s actually what’s missing in todays society . Like are you gonna go out every weekend ,get sloppy drunk , suck dick in the club bathroom while hoping a trazillionaire grabs you out that situation for the rest of your life?

[@slangtang6671]

I mean they dont want a broke or average man so they might as well compete or wait in line for the highly desired man they want. Does every lady think they will get the guy they want ? 🤔

[@Chefcook4it]

Why are we still talking about this guy. She spent more than half of her interview talking about a guy who is not an option.

[@bruceleroy838]

BW have a thing for men they can’t have

[@ChosenSpi]

Guys like him are rare.

[@SIRENTHEROCKER]

to educate women on how they should think of themselves and not wait in line for a raffle. it was needed and I'm glad she did.

[@tashlaine]

​@user-vt7tq4ue3c but he really wasn't a prize..twice divorced I believe

[@ChosenSpi]

@@tashlaine the 4k women say otherwise lol.

[@BlazingSaddles2081]

She keep saying “I receive it” but steady trying to justify it. 😂

[@MichelleWilliams-rd4is]

U ARE ABSOLUTELY SO RIGHT 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤭🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯

[@texasaggieinorlando2396]

She will keep waiting for a guy like other Dwight instead of the guys who want her. That is why she will probably stay single because her standards are so high.

[@glynisgibson4933]

KG, dont want to be the loser in her interview..

[@RemIsNice]

I'd recommend women her age let go of the 100k salary requirement. If the man is making 80K and his kids are grown, he should have plenty for discretionary spending.

[@cecilemorton8109]

Exactly 💯

[@mkmeabeliever]

LMFAO! You make that sound like 80K is avg when it's not. 54K is the avg median income in AMERICA. Plus BM don't avg 54K. Good luck to her. 😂

[@SunshineKK99]

@mkmeabeliever Yeah, but in your 50s, you should have been working for at least 30 years by then. So that $54k average is for grown grown BM?

[@mkmeabeliever]

@SunshineKK99 NO BOO! Stop it! Y'all just regurgitating social media "talking points". Numbers/Data don't lie.

[@judahdash2807]

How dare u tell someone what their requirements should be😂 more than likely you are a man & ya'll see 5- 30min clips of women & come to the dumest conclusions ever then have minions following u with a upvote👍🏽 smh See u don't know this woman or the next which mean you don't know her value of worth I'm not her age but u should know this day in age a woman that age 90% have grace respect & less 🐈 miles will support encourage will not talk dw to a king more than helpful in many ways no interest in running the streets & that alone is rare u think having a 30 yr this day in time is more valuable u don't get out much u thinking a 20 yr old should more likely to ask for 100k is rt !!! crazy work see my friends will take your 100k & spend it on the next 🥷🏽😂 and will so b4 u put a lady dw for asking for her worth just know another woman my age has to figure out what to do with that cause at this age I want a wild toxic excitement on the road🥷🏽 and if he give me 100k me & my girls gonna get hair & bottles in vip & yea spend it on the next one so play it safe & watch what u say of course I have respect for myself but I'm just saying I know she's more together & rounded or whatever who are u to say she should ask for less cause of her age ......and I'm only saying that because my sister is her age & we are totally diff just to show u men are weird & don't know us sad but go give your money away idc & if your a woman your a hater for sure be honest

[@poeticwisdom3]

This conversation near the end is awesome, is literally shows the truth about dating women of today, and the lack of listening skills. This is the most real conversation I heard in years.

[@chancexthexchief]

i felt the same way & this doesn’t only apply to women b/c every person at one point or another are partly responsible for not getting the life they want SIMPLY b/c they’re holding on to relationships that don’t serve them, holding on to people who don’t want them, holding on to bad habits that keep the great people away & holding on to unrealistic standards that will leave them alone! love this show b/c i get to learn more about others & myself

[@chillycharles910]

Thank you. This conversation really needs to happen more.

[@NurseHancockAndFamily]

Wow! Kendra is so smart! Ladies, regardless of age, skin complexion, whatever, you have options. Trust me, I know…

[@jasonwharry552]

She went from being married competing against one woman to divorced and competing against 4000 women for one man 😂😂😂

[@sarantoure7233]

😂😂😂 this is so true that it feels ridiculous to me

[@sosaray7624]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is the funniest comment yooooo I'm so deaaaaad

[@idubldairu8330]

😂😂😂

[@ordellmichaels7866]

Lol 😂 52 delusional and the need to be right.

[@hotindecember1951]

She was not in a marriage if she was competing with another woman! Y’all men are clowns.

[@mariecharles9758]

She's 52 with a 22 yo mind of thinking when it comes to men. This is crazy to me.

[@RM-po5pn]

It’s the norm.

[@texasaggieinorlando2396]

I agree ☝️

[@Riyuki1]

Kendra realizing a lot of things men say about some women is correct about attractive men getting away with shit other guys can't.

[@LOSTGPS]

yep but most women would never get it because they're not speaking to countless women every night.

[@R.Yvette.X.]

Attractive Women get away with shit other Women can't, so it balances.

[@buffalo.blackk]

Shes old. Masculine aka “opinionated”. And she’s delusional thinking at 52 she’s gonna get a man that’s attractive to her and ambitious.

[@LOSTGPS]

@@R.Yvette.X. not really because those attractive women are with men every other woman wants, theyre not dating average guys.

[@tippy06]

I've also heard men say they would put up with more for a very attractive women

[@serious7179]

Wow... I'm shocked that she is 51... She looks at least 10 years younger...but she needs to dig deep and be honest. Women let men treat them like trash because they find them attractive... it's crazy.

[@alp.9672]

Yea I will not deny she looks great for her age.

[@mel2000]

I bet she would date that Dwight Thompson guy even if he made $30k instead of $100k.

[@matumizi73]

Over 3 years, Kendra has turned into a top level chess player and teacher

[@vegannn7178]

Dwight a post wall unwed 3x baby father sending copy & paste messages like a HR recruiter is what these women are going crazy for?????

[@thelessons3768]

No. It was a pre-written "reply" that he stated it was pre-written for respect to reaching out to him because he got tons of messages.

[@bruceleroy838]

Excuse me men don’t hit the wall. That’s a female thing

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

@@bruceleroy838 Everyone "hit the wall" to the opposite gender.

[@Ms.Carter90]

😂

[@njpme]

City Boys up!

[@nathanlopez3918]

Kandra was on point on this show. She seems to have learnt a lot over the time she’s been doing these shows. Kudos to her. When men tell tell women these things we get shut down, told we’re hurt, we gay, we hate women etc. so I’m glad Kendra gave her a respectful reality check

[@GrownMenTalking]

Kendra dropped gems! I really hope other women are listening...

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

Wow momma have 31 and 23 year old boys she definitely could've fooled me she looks good.

[@ashleighbarnes4265]

Kendra done flipped this entire interview on Jackie!!! Lordy!!!

[@LadyK007]

😂😂😂

[@bernardtalbert6729]

When Kendra was schooling her about ignoring those guys that are attracted to her and instead chasing the player with 4,000 women chasing him I just started laughing because that's exactly what Kevin Samuels used to call modern women out for. Older generations of women put more emphasis on a man's ability to provide and protect instead of his looks. But modern women put more emphasis on looks and swag.

[@AzPhattygyrl]

She was older 😅

[@bernardtalbert6729]

@@AzPhattygyrl "older generations" of women (i.e. women from the 50s and 60s) vs modern women today

[@allthatsheiz]

She all but 50 her damn self 😂

[@deekay1747]

It’s a 2 way street. Too many men chasing “badies,” instead of focusing on quality, morals and character. Both genders need to shape up in order to make things work.

[@bernardtalbert6729]

@@deekay1747 not true. Unlike women men know where they rank. For example most men know they can't get a Beyonce or a Halle Berry. On the other hand you got women as big as Lizzo running around saying that their a 10 and deserve a HVM?

[@Biancareneetv]

Kendra is 100 percent correct! I’m not waiting on no man that sent me a pre recorded message and a text at that. He not that fine, because what’s gonna happen is, he may find a woman and women still going to be reaching out to him so it’s gonna be hard for him to even be faithful. That’s exactly why I don’t go with these oh so fine choices.

[@LadyK007]

💯🎯

[@JD2.0N54]

He not that fine. But if he's fine enough, you'll act the same way she did.🤔

[@kujas]

@@JD2.0N54 as it should be

[@bbweedon91]

A noble effort to reach through the delusion Kendra

[@johnjay3308]

Yeah. She'll find out how impossible that is

[@tasharenee4835]

She was doing good ,she had to bring up Dwight 🤦🏾‍♀️. Than she wanted to argue baby them true colors start showing. The delusional is real.

[@kenyab3526]

So true… it was like just give A person a lil rope and they will do the rest..

[@airicadotson]

So here's my take. She initially stated that she brought up Dwight because she might take his lead and use an automated message as well. However, that was just a guise to shoot her shot at a man that she couldn't even remember his name. Awkward. I understand Kendra's point to a certain extent. This is online dating on steroids so the rules are a little different. A woman could create a dating profile and recieve over 100 messages in a few hours. That doesn't mean that she has 100 options. She, just like Dwight, has to take the time to filter through the messages to determine who she may be compatible with because not all 100 suitors will fit the bill. In this instance, it takes time to figure it out because you know nothing about the person besides pictures and a few posts. So i wouldn't immediately be turned off when someone says that they are trying to sort through the prospects, nor would I ruin my chances with others while he sorts it out. (I also would never pursue anyone from Kendra's show because of this). But if he knew her in real life and this was his response, then yes automatic turn off. I also agree that she was allowing lust to cloud her vision with Dwight. I hope that her prospects give her a chance and still reach out.

[@onepanwonders3579]

She didn't remember his name so I don't think he was very significant to her. Kendra overreacted in jealousy.

[@quettiageter3352]

Absolutely right how is she waiting on a ghost man. That's weirdly

[@thelessons3768]

She left a man who cheated... She cheated... She wants a man that makes $100K who will most likey put her in rotation and cheat on her.

[@sweettea8790]

You act like 100K is 1 million. 🙄

[@abrown6214]

@@sweettea8790 It's is to the women that want that

[@thelessons3768]

@@sweettea8790 No. Not one bit.

[@GrownMenTalking]

​@@sweettea8790 $100k puts you at the top 15% of earners in the United States. It's not a million but it's above average...

[@joeem1502]

@@sweettea8790but a single man who is attractive and makes $100k is pretty rare

[@itsKeMonte]

The lesson I learned from this video is “attraction” plays a big part. Attraction will have women break rules that they set for other men. I keep telling people attraction plays a huge part, especially the amount of effort she’s going to put in to get to know you, notice how he may not been in her qualifications but yet she will wait from 20s to 50s a lot of these ladies act the same.

[@tmston2]

Imho and experience, physical attraction is a small part for women, women tend to be more “attracted” a man’s qualities of consistency, thoughtfulness, confidence, intelligence, humor, security…..typically the looks are a plus with women

[@IamRonJackson]

@@tmston2bullshit.

[@FearNvl]

​@@tmston2BS. I know for a fact if a woman is really physically attracted to you she'll break all of the rules. You get the sweet watery guts with zero effort.

[@ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to]

​@@FearNvlfacts I'm a perfect example I'm 6' 4" x navy and I've always had women ready to give me box I'm 40 and just getting close to 100k but I've always had women even in a relationship they know about they still will spend time with me...

[@Coco-uk9tv]

​@@tmston2 I think this maybe the case when a women is a certain age and has some wisdom, experience, and perhaps some heart brake, behind her, but I'd say physical attraction and looks is a major factor at the beginning of a relationship.

[@afro_buddha4977]

This conversation got annoying with they started talking about the man with 3 baby daddies ....at her big age, she couldnt stop interrupting and would not comprehend.

[@damonpayne3765]

Right!

[@phytgurloptimalhealth1527]

😂the man got 4 baby daddies 😂

[@theeblkmermaid]

“He doesn’t have my number “ He didn’t want it ma’am 😂😂😂😂

[@Noname-hc5uw]

I don't have much respect for Kendra's intellect, but she was very much on point with this sista. At 52, you should not put such a premium on a person's looks.

[@Babyluv_]

No intellect ever present 😂

[@serious7179]

Well dang lol...

[@spb8039]

Why not! At 52 is she supposed to settle for an obese troll? Looks are important at all ages.

[@alp.9672]

lmao I agree with you on that statement, Kendra was clockin' her.

[@leahluvv4929]

Exactly! Kendra's right! Id never talk to a guy who sent me a message like that. Id also be turned tf off but yet and still she brought him up because she still wants him and was hoping to get his attention. Just move on. Dwight is busy 😂

[@elroy1rose139]

See many women don't realize. A with that much option the woman he's looking for has to be very very special

[@blessedforever1424]

Lmao😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

[@LOSTGPS]

"I have options but they're not all the options I want" Woman you're getting the men on your level, she's too old to be so clueless.

[@tpoppy9303]

This applies more to men than women. Losers talk to women above their level all day everyday.

[@4656superman]

a women is never to old to be clueless😅😅😅

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

Women seem to never tire of chasing men that don't want them. If she manages to catch up with the 4000 deep dude, he gonna screw her once and then talk bout how he's had better. Shame the shyyt out of her, then she'll be on to the next guy and have a bitter attitude about how she tired of being used by men.

[@tpoppy9303]

@@kuja5809 Just say you're a virgin fam... ..yall the only ones complaining

[@tpoppy9303]

@@4656superman I see a whole lot more old men trying to holla at young girls and wondering why they keep asking for money and end up cheating on them. Most older women are totally fine with being alone. Old men are willing to pay for company in droves! Not even sex. Smh.

[@LoveFireWellness]

She really takes care of herself! She looks great! And she has good vibes! I wish her luck! 🙏🏿

[@scorpiocara6798]

Fluck the interview ladies...can this segment just be about her skin care regimen

[@dangdeionn]

Right I think it’s because she really melanated

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@dangdeionn idk I see a lot of 50 year old dark women that don't look 2 decades younger. Black ppl usually look younger than they are but this is an extreme case n plus her skin is so clear. Not a lick of makeup

[@SunshineKK99]

@@scorpiocara6798 Self care. Water. Working out. No stress. 😄

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@SunshineKK99 i want to know if she does anything else or uses anything

[@MzDollyAwesome]

The way I took it, she probably brought him up in hopes that if he is watching he will move her up in line and maybe reach out to her but I get what Kendra is saying. After he sent the generic message she shouldn't care if he's watching or not.....but then again Kendra did give the disclaimer that he literally has 4000 women hitting him up. So what do you expect? Of course he left a generic message. He could've just left her on read.

[@brandonlongdikjones8117]

She would have gotten a real response if he was interested even if it were a million women

[@blessedforever1424]

Period !!!!!!!!!!! Ain’t no man that mf special that after you send me generic response I’m wait to see if u come back with something else ……… just don’t even respond cause if u got that much time on ur hand to look through over 4K profiles something wrong .

[@sandranorton53]

Kendra understood what she was saying but is telling her she's silly for doing that. Let's say he does hit her up two weeks later she WILL entertain him and he WILL cheat on her and most likely just have sex and bounce. What that message means is he checked her page and he don't want her so he's entertaining the women he's actually attracted too. If he does hit her up it's after it doesn't work out with the attractive women and he need a booty call. If you entertain a man that disrespects you like this he's always going to disrespect you. The correct thing to do is to block him after that message and move on. Have some self respect. A lot of women like herself are average looking and don't realize the men chasing them are their looks level and the only type of men that will fully commit to them. If you're an average looking woman an attractive man with options won't settle for you. He'll just be having fun for a period of time.

[@JD2.0N54]

She's not what he's looking for. Why would a 45 year old man with opinions date a 50 year old woman.. Kevin Samuels was right ✅️.

[@itsnunu101]

Thank you Kendra. You gave Jackie some great advice.

[@tommyjoe136]

If Dwight wanted a 1 night stand w/her she'd be down because "he's clearly out of her league".

[@wordplay6665]

No he isn’t

[@priscillaboyd7888]

You were spot on Kendra. She said she was going to persue him after she return from Africa. So yes she put herself on hold .

[@xTeddyBubblex]

Kendra hit it on the head this time. She literally has people that genuinely want her for her and she’s going after the Nigga with hundreds of options. She herself said in so many words that he has the choice to jump from girl to girl if one ain’t doing what another will and she’s willing to take that risk cause he makes her lady parts tingle. I think I can speak for all men when I say if I knew FOR A FACT hundreds of women were in line to date me I couldn’t MAKE myself be monogamous even if I wanted to 😭😭

[@ImThePrizeXY]

Facts✊🏼

[@aliatianna888]

That’s kinda sad.

[@allenaruffin4911]

DAMN she looks amazing! I hope she finds what she is looking for! Good luck.

[@AprilLeon]

I love Jackie’s demeanor she seems such a pleasant woman. I hope she finds her person. And she looks beautiful for her age. Yes go Ms Jackie

[@LOSTGPS]

notice none of the men are saying shes pleasant, women keep other women single. Kendra was even getting annoyed at her.

[@WordsMatter1982]

Shoot your shot ma

[@tippy06]

Me too. I totally agree

[@stevenharris1460]

Then you date her.

[@johnjay3308]

So u got pleasant from an over opinionated, argumentative, 50+ yr old chick with an attitude problem? Y'all will lie just 2 leave a comment. Jeez🤦😤

[@geminimac613]

She got an automated message and counted that as an actual conversation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂…… I can’t put enough laughing emojis at how that sounds…. Beyond stupid

[@jfelton3583]

KENDRA was giving the real when she started talking about the options capable men have. However we'll see if her female audience FINALLY listen and understand. Most females are ignoring their best options they'll ever get and will be perpetually single because of that there!! Preach to 'em Kendra

[@scorpiocara6798]

He'll cheat n do her wrong anyways....whatever she gets

[@R.Yvette.X.]

If the best Man you can pull is not good enough for you, then you're better off Single.

[@jfelton3583]

@@R.Yvette.X. Exactly stay single, because clearly most of y'all aren't good enough for the man you want... That's why you don't have him CLEARLY ✌️✌️

[@jfelton3583]

@@scorpiocara6798 not necessarily but here's the thing she's chasing men that literally every woman wants and then is surprised that he cheats... The guy that was broke didn't cheat he just ain't good enough for her. Which is fair, I'm not suggesting she settle for completely broke (however females call 50k broke when that's literally what the Average American makes) but miss me with the notion that every man is out here cheating. They aren't.

[@yettiluch1]

@yvette that's silly logic. If the best you can get isn't good enough, you need to step your game up. Cuz you aren't who you think you are.

[@cjjohnson2250]

Kendra I am so glad you had the opportunity to discuss this topic of this beautiful sister selecting this unattainable guy sending a cut and paste message. You are the prize not a option. Thank you ❤

[@JustBree716]

It's not about carrying on like your some prize at 50 plus to men who are mostly either married and are in long term relationships at this age that the you don't see a decent man staring you in your face because you stuck on copy and paste. No mam. After 40 you have to get creative and stop all that queen shea butter, I'm the prize bs. That's an unnecessary ego trip. Be nice, be pleasant, be fit.

[@jfelton3583]

"you are the prize" wasn't the message that she was trying to convey to her. You MISSED IT. Y'all keep missing it.... Smh

[@bruceleroy838]

Bullseye 🎯

[@jfelton3583]

​@@JustBree716 THANK YOU. I'm so glad there's a "woman" who gets it and is saying it. Because they don't want to uear it from men and they get mad at Kendra and just stop listening. But yes you get it. These females don't see the good man in front of them that is the best option they'll ever get but they ignore him chasing a man that is essentially unattainable for them but they holding out hoping and wishing.

[@JustBree716]

@@jfelton3583 and did you hear how she answered Kendra's questions. She's a prize alright 🤓 Seems like a nice lady but even when Kendra asked about finances then told her a man could work at McDonald's and be able to take care of himself then suddenly she says he has to make $100k. Should've just said that from jump. It was a lot passive aggressive for me. But shit I don't chew on carpet so let me back down a bit🤓

[@cherylmcallister1134]

Single in Chicago. Looking for an honest, God loving brother between 45-60. I got my bag: come with yours. I wanna travel and laugh and have fun. No entanglements or situationships. I'm not an option, I'm a great choice.

[@Sam-zr3ly]

All the best my sister

[@kujas]

Why not become content with dating yourself, you don’t need a man, sis.

[@cherylmcallister1134]

@@kujas never said I NEED a man. Currently dating me. I'm interested in a connection and companionship.

[@phytgurloptimalhealth1527]

I hope a man finds you, sis. I moved to the Chi in 2020, met my hubby 2 months later. His dad was my patient & hooked us up. We got a home in 2021 & married last year. We met at 43 and got married at 46. I wasn't requiring a high earner, but he is. Anyway, just know there are options out there for you; and you don't have to turn into the bitter "I don't need a man" type of woman. Date yourself, date others, enjoy your fam/friends and most of all stay open & optimistic❤

[@Nellaadiorr]

I knew you was gone make her a highlight 😭😭

[@carlostaylor6562]

That was a good discussion. It shows why a lot of people are single. She was focusing on the man who was unavailable and totally ignoring the guys who are available and actively pursuing her.

[@aquirayves278]

“Treat every man like he’s ugly” I agree!!!

[@halftimehomes]

“What’s gonna happen when you’re 70 years old” 😂😂😂

[@JustBree716]

Now Kendra Samuels worried about somebody being alone at 70. Whew child, it's the I been doing this so long the delusion is real Kendra Samuels ain't it😮😅

[@Donmecca415]

These women need to get a damn membership to the nearest SPCA

[@04ccarroll]

@@JustBree716 It’s called reality she should be more realistic about what she is looking for dating wise

[@danielademide]

@@JustBree716 You and your ilk are the reason the black community is at the bottom of the barrel. Look at the results of your single, independent and strong, don’t need no man across all cities. Compare it to the gains of all other minority groups on the back of the civil rights black men fought and died for. Your children are wiping one another out like chickens and you are the queens of the landfill. Are you married? How many children? How many fathers? Your boys can’t read or write and your girls are popping out bastard children by age 11. You black women are definitely winning. Baltimore, St. Louis, Memphis, Detroit, Atlanta.

[@suckersandmarks4986]

That was the sentence of the evening. You're too old to make your sole criteria for dating what a man looks like on the outside. That could be anybody.

[@lovelyjavid]

She is fifty-fine!

[@DanFreeman723]

She's looks dope. But she's set in her ways. She's mentioning all these dudes because she doesn't have any options. Typical bluff strategy. She's discussing a dude who didn't want her. Women with options dont move like that.

[@butterflydiva1965]

She really looks good for age , I thought she was 30.

[@Kyle97492]

40

[@digigum5996]

I would definitely say about 45 she does look good

[@nikkilove9301]

Self-Esteem Session 💡 She needed this💡💡

[@kamieyonce]

Have fun in Africa queen!! She seems fun but i dont think she is gonna be ready for what the dating pool is nowadays and for that-i will pray for her lol,she looks great for 52 also!

[@thelessons3768]

Um she has been on the market for 6 years

[@jamalfountenett1463]

I love how respectful she is and how she say she received that I love her attitude nice lady hood show

[@Talkswithtee302]

Omg this lady looks so fabulous! For her age! I hope I look like her when I get that age!

[@duanenonlyac]

The answer to Kendra’s question toward the end of “Why would you still wanna deal with him?” is either (A) she doesn’t take offense to his auto-response and she has some understanding for it or wasn’t turned off by it, or (B) she’s so attracted to him that she’ll throw standards/morals/integrity/etc. out the window for him for a chance to be with him. Either way, this woman should have never brought him up because their interaction was so insignificant and it caused this episode to go on 20 minutes longer than it should have. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ackeered]

Kendra wants to tell her to pick the men who love you but the sisterhood would kill her. That beautiful woman is chasing Chad.

[@ourtruth216]

I feel in love with a man who could not communicate if his life depended on it, by far the most difficult relationship to maintain.He was good to me and yes made a good amount of money and took good care of me but never would I ever recommend a woman to stay with a man who can’t communicate, especially when he’s older. He’s not going to change, he’s just looking for a woman who will tolerate it.

[@candorsspot2775]

How did that happen? If communication was important, how did you manage to fall in love?

[@yoyomabach4518]

@@candorsspot2775 that’s exactly my thoughts

[@Lordamraphel]

@@candorsspot2775 "He made good money and took good care of her"

[@candorsspot2775]

@@Lordamraphel It's never enough. 😞

[@mariim6245]

Respectful & effective communication is important. A relationship will not last without it

[@CarlosTurner-z7u]

Like Kevin Samuels always said. Women are attracted to the same type of man who don't want them

[@williescott6701]

Kendra, you would be a great coach for women. Because, the things that I’ve heard you tell women in reference to a man are golden! In addition, a lot of black men women chase the man that don’t have the same interest in them. They would rather chase a guy who isn’t interested in them, as they are interested in the guy. And, I end this message by saying, I hope to one day find a woman who has the wisdom, as you do! Keep up the great work!

[@candorsspot2775]

'the more attractive a guy is, the more options he has'. It took Kendra 3 years to figure that out? As a 40 something year old woman? Sigh...

[@Intentionaltia]

😂😂

[@TerezGemma]

Kendra will constantly ask the same question and not understanding this woman. I understood what she was talking about the 2nd time Kendra asked the question. She’s OPENED to talking to the guy but that doesn’t mean she isn’t going to stop talking or getting in a relationship with someone else. She’s not waiting for the man. And if she isn’t attracted to the men in her inbox she isn’t. The end of this video was irritating me so much. 😂😂😂😂

[@tre12124]

Kendra is weird af. See right through the weirdo

[@muchaluchagigante6318]

She tried to get some sense into her. Thats why.

[@brandonlongdikjones8117]

She stuck on Dwight, if any fool gets with her they know as soon as Dwight hits her up it's on, she played herself sweating Dwight so tuff

[@sandranorton53]

Kendra understood what she was saying but is telling her she's silly for doing that. Let's say he does hit her up two weeks later she WILL entertain him and he WILL cheat on her and most likely just have sex and bounce. What that message means is he checked her page and he don't want her so he's entertaining the women he's actually attracted too. If he does hit her up it's after it doesn't work out with the attractive women and he need a booty call. If you entertain a man that disrespects you like this he's always going to disrespect you. The correct thing to do is to block him after that message and move on. Have some self respect. A lot of women like herself are average looking and don't realize the men chasing them are their looks level and the only type of men that will fully commit to them. If you're an average looking woman an attractive man with options won't settle for you. He'll just be having fun for a period of time.

[@sakpase88]

🤦🏿

[@scorpiocara6798]

OMG I FLUCKING LOVVVEEEEE HER HAIR!!!!! WHAT THE FLIP IS SHE TALKING ABOUT THAT'S THE MOST BEAUTIFUL HAIRSTYLE YOU COULD POSSIBLY HAVE....AND HAIR TEXTURE!!!!!!

[@worldpeace0266]

She was frontin .. sis knew her hair was bomb. She was trying to be humble, she wanted to brag😂😂😂. Her hair really beautiful though.. ❤

[@thuandao4243]

Looks like she just woke up 😂

[@cecilemorton8109]

I said the same thing. Her hair is freaking bomb fr....and she is gorgeous.🥰❤ She looks like she's in her early 40's I wouldn't have thought she was in her 50's at all. She's tough..❤🥰

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@thuandao4243 looks sexy and bomb even IF it did look like that. Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@cecilemorton8109 I initially thought she was in her 20s

[@Sam-zr3ly]

That is what is called equality. Congratulations kween. You did it. These are the women good men want but unfortunatley, I am broke and dusty and I do not qualify for her.

[@jb9911]

What exactly did she do?

[@Sam-zr3ly]

@@jb9911 She cheated as a pay back for her ex-husband cheating on her which I think is a great achievement. What men can, women can do better and she did better

[@Mr.Ming07]

@@Sam-zr3lyyou really think that’s an achievement, her exhusband is remarried meanwhile she trying to get at a man on a online dating show that has a very wide variety of women to choose from 😂

[@angellicbeautyproducts9479]

Sucks to suck

[@jb9911]

@@Sam-zr3ly imagine praising cheating. It’s disgusting on both sides. You and her are both bottom tier

[@ReggieDaPlug]

This highlight is when Kendra G went Super Saiyan…. It was for the history books 📚

[@mr.g.6311]

Keep waiting for Dwight…while he explores his 5k options. KS would’ve loved this. 😂🤣

[@brielax4441]

😂😂😂 that man sent her to Voicemail, social media style..

[@alyu9337]

She’ll be the magical one 😂😂😂

[@chancexthexchief]

@@brielax4441 mind you he more than likely glanced over her profile before sending her the “i’ll get back to you later” message meaning that was an informal rejection letter 💀 and she still waiting smh

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

She's in the queue without really realizing. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@SweetEssie]

Yeah KS definitely loves dogging out women when they truly don't know

[@TravelerShaun]

Kendra is learning how hard it is to tell women the truth.

[@Legend_has]

He did nothing wrong. In fact, he went out of his way to be respectful.

[@coachkayjaystevens8062]

Her hair is gorgeous ❤❤

[@KnwName]

I can’t slide in a man’s DM. I’m just not built for it … I believe in liking who likes me … you gotta apply some pressure this way ….

[@mid2k]

Her hair is beautiful!! I LOVE IT!

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Her hair and her skin are on point tho I gotta give her that! That hair and skin healthy af ! Body nice too. She’s taking great care of herself. I bet dressed up she’s a show stopper.

[@Coco-uk9tv]

I agree with everything you said, but she needs to change her specs as they are so unflattering.

[@TheWrightBrand]

If she said "hold on" one more time and made us wait to update her FB status, way too much.

[@michelleknight1868]

I get what you were saying to Jackie, Kendra. Too often we give people passes for poor treatment because we found some value in their appearance or some other non-factor. Great perspective and insight Kendra!

[@Msladyinc]

Damn, just when I thought your self esteem was high as it SHOULD BE, because YOU ARE A CATCH! I HATE that you want this dude. Girl turn your attention to the men that want you. SOMEBODY that wants you must be qualified!

[@AQueensvoice123]

I think she already has her heart set on Dwight. She's pretty much blocking anyone else, maybe subconsciously. She thinks she is open for others but she's not.

[@bobbym1799]

Facts thank you she the only one not admitting the truth to herself.

[@Ruthforme]

Preach Kendra!!….She is trippin’ just admit that you have no problem allowing Dwight to treat you like a number. Come on Sisters, maintain your dignity.😊

[@angellicbeautyproducts9479]

Black dont crack...goals🎉

[@aprillondy7326]

Kendra has said a BIG mouth full today!! When you know your value, no one will get a pass!!!!

[@ThatManDWill]

With a MAN we will take PERSONALITY over BEAUTY

[@marquitahatcher3561]

That's not true, men definitely go for looks and youth

[@ThatManDWill]

@marquitahatcher3561 damn it I said MAN not MEN !!!

[@Winnie9801]

😂😊