Sheila Davalloo Case Analysis | Love Triangle Cringe Killer

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There are a number of important lessons here. 1) Dating married people isn’t the best idea. 2) If your wife doesn’t have sex with you for a year but then suggests you get into handcuffs and put on a blindfold, you need to try to think clearly if you can. 3) Stabbing someone three times in two different situations over an hour will result in people thinking it wasn’t an accident.

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1)✅ 2)✅ 3)✅ 😂

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Number 1, ppl that are married don't act like they are married when you first met them, you gotta do your own p.i. work just to find out the truth on ppl..that is the reason I don't trust no one!!!

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

This is such a disturbing case. Anna Lisa was just minding her business, but lost her life in such a senseless, gruesome manner. The scariest part is the fact that Sheila appeared to be a stable person to the outside but was a monster on the inside. Just horrific. Great review Dr. Grande, thank you.❤️

[@jhonklan3794]

What about Paul? Men can never be victims

[@Strype13]

Sheila : "My mentally challenged brother is coming over to spend the night. You need to go get a hotel room, and don't you dare think about swinging by unannounced!" Paul : "Awww, you're so good to him honey! Okay, see ya tomorrow. Love you!" Yeah... Gullible is an understatement. Holy shit.

[@veronicalynn9756]

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[@globes179]

They're the kind of people who's brains are capable of calculation black and white data presented on a page. Otherwise, they're quite dumb - I know plenty of people like this.

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I don't think intelligence is really the issue. Some people are just very trusting - it is a facet of trait agreeableness.

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Where do all of the gullible people of all ages come from?

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Dr Grande talking about “cringe” and video game setting on Easy has just made my day for some reason. As always, a very interesting and thoroughly thought out analysis.

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I liked Dr. Grande's line too, "This gave the prosecution a lot of time to come to prepare a murder case against her." Something tells me that maybe I could have got rich if I had taken the advice of one English professor to go into law. 'Ironic' that lawyers and prosecutors and judges so far in more than one place have not outlawed prostitution altogether? So many good lines today heard that it left me wondering why someone with more than o degree qualifying her to be a psychiatrist told me in one of her 'treatment' rooms after a long wait in the waiting room there once, "You should have lied. You just don't know how to play hard ball". I am starting to believe that I am a more stable person than more than one psychiatrist. Except when having to remind someone that they don't own me.

[@lynncrf]

What is cringe?

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[@Andrea-nom]

Holy cow! She drove him to the hospital and then stabbed him again?! This is wild!

[@sherrihinton8567]

She definitely isn't a lovely wife

[@jhonklan3794]

Its not wild its tragic.

[@matthewneufer1758]

@jhon klan Yes very wild Google Translate wild

[@hopeausbyn1734]

Noticed that when Sheila was confronted with the truth that she would become hysterical.

[@Stephen-to7jx]

Apparently she thought he would be dead by then.

[@bethtrautmann6901]

Sheila was so used to manipulating others that she believed she could manipulate the Police as well as the Jury; however, they were not emotionally involved with her as were her love interests. She appears to be a total narcist and I doubt if she feels any guilt for what she has done. Excellent analysis by Dr. Grande.

[@SarahSmith-mu1wc]

This woman is so scary. The sheer obsession and deciet makes Sheila one of the most dangerous kind of people.

[@chesspiece81]

People that decide to represent themselves have a fool for a client. This has never been more true than in Sheila's Davalloo's case.

[@jadetaylor2443]

So Nelson had two past girlfriends that he considered more mentally unstable than Shelia?

[@carolinarios2994]

🤣🤣🤣

[@SoulDelSol]

He was covering for his side piece

[@globes179]

They were probably totally normal. This guy's judgement is atrocious.

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[@SuperNuclearUnicorn]

Sounds like he's an absolute winner when it comes to picking up the ladies lol. I guess they do say that crazy girls are better in bed though, so maybe he just really liked it kinky

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“ it was like playing video games on easy for years” Very good analysis Dr Grande 👍

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[@zenawarrior7442]

I remember this case. She does sound narcissistic; they love kind but gullible people-can keep taking advantage. Thanks Dr G...another good one 😊💕🧡

[@samuelhenry8366]

That describes my ex and myself respectively, to a T. We givers must know our limits for takers haven't any.

[@rachelw821]

What’s really crazy is that her ex lover had 2 other former girlfriends who were notably crazier than her!!!! You can’t accuse the man of not having a type.

[@harrietthespy2119]

🤣

[@joev1097]

😂

[@crystalb4178]

@Rachel W What did the ex girlfriends do? All I could find about his past relationships outside of his with Anna Lisa and the murderous psycho is that he gave authorities the names of two of his exes because they had mental health issues (the article didn't say what the issues were or that they surpassed her level of crazy).

[@geneiryodan9734]

Nelson Sessler is a manipulater too

[@AdamS235]

Birds of a feather

[@GrubbJunker]

"Sheila decided to represent herself." If that's not a "death sentence" to a defense, I don't know what is.

[@DonPeyote420]

much like Theodore Bundy

[@leonieromanes7265]

Sounds like something a grandiose narcissist might do. What a psycho.

[@clarissa8477]

That’s always a huge red flag to me that the defendant is a narcissistic nut case.

[@testboga5991]

Representing oneself shouldn't be legal. Even evil people deserve a fair sentence and mentally ill people could potentially be crazy enough to attempt it despite being innocent and fail.

[@mdmflor4574]

I know, it but too much !! Lol

[@MithraSemiramis]

wow, the whole arrangement for having her "brother" over really breaks my heart for the way it humiliates the husband. yes, it seems gullible in an almost indefensible way, after the fact, but it really represents a man going above and beyond to be sensitive and considerate. as someone with significant mental health struggles in my family, I appreciate what it says about his character and I think she's a monster.

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[@badgerhooker8275]

Being an emotionally dependent doormat doesn't make you a good person.

[@erikparent8176]

@@badgerhooker8275 You are correct! That is one half of the dual energetic relationship. The victim and victimized. It takes two to tango! Meditate and break the unconcious desire to be a victim! You then wont attract the opposite!

[@jhonklan3794]

@@badgerhooker8275 But if you're not, you get accused of being controlling.

[@maureeningleston1501]

Glad you covered this Dr Grande, I've watched the prison interview she did with Piers Morgan, and wow she is cold as ice, scarily cold I'm glad she'll never walk free.

[@shanesullivan460]

Well, now, don't be so sure. They say 110 is the new 97.

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I just finished watching that which lead me to here. Wow that interview was creepy because she's so convincing. Gives me the creeps!

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[@peejthompson]

What an absolute tragedy for Annalisa, a beautiful, smart woman, who did absolutely nothing wrong, crossing paths with Sheils and being butchered, Sheila was so self-absorbed that she was unable to care about the precious life she would take. I find it hard to believe that a clever woman, with everything to live for, did not have some kind of psychiatric disorder, ripping away her humanity. These cases fill me with desolation. Every day I struggle to save the lives of victims of trauma and I watch, humbled by their broken bodies' fight for life. I help treat them and we tell them to hold on, no matter how they present, It fills me with sadness that someone would destroy another person out of possessiveness. Dr Grande, you work too hard, your exposure to all this horror is concerning as you never seem to tale a break

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I love The X-Files too. The truth is out there. Trust no one.

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Does not everyone have night vision goggles to search for UFOs?

[@mrs.reluctant4095]

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Hello, happy Sunday! 🌼

[@mrs.reluctant4095]

@@erikparent8176 TY! Happy new week, Erik! 🌻

[@lnc-to4ku]

I loved your thoughts on this case! And I so loved hearing how you say how she was playing a low level tactic in a high level situation when it came to the police and jury! You give so much information on topics, but in such an intelligent, clever and well thought out way, And, with the most calming voice I've ever heard! Thank you again for such a great analysis, Dr. Grande!

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[@rullmourn1142]

TY, Dr Grande. I remember this case, im a true crime aficionado. I think it would have been better for everybody concerned, including herself, if Sheila had left marriage out of her life choices. She must have been in a rage when she slaughtered the woman her ex-boyfriend was with.

[@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata]

Excellent analysis. Thank you Dr. Grande.

[@ChristinePerez903]

What a lady. Wonder why Nelson rejected her? Great video Dr Grande.

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[@Pimpernella]

If this were a novel? Anyone would think the story is a little too far fetched. Except the part about running unto the knife, if you are a lttle gulliblle, haha 😂. Really enjoyed this one, Dr Grande. 👍

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[@MateDrinker33]

Seriously, if this were a work of fiction, people would consider it not believable, lmfao!

[@jhonklan3794]

Its not funny, the man was stabbed what is wrong with you

[@elainearchibald9020]

Thanks for your analysis Dr. Grande! It amazes me that it takes awhile for some people to see the signs. Sheila is one dangerous woman! TFS

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[@charlene9638]

Anyone representing themself is automatically gonna LOSE

[@gaylesharp9652]

That was complicated. Thanks for the video. Very interesting.

[@SoulDelSol]

"Guess the object!" "A knife??"

[@thegreencat9947]

A red hot poker?

[@emilyhollis4231]

I've never heard a worse defense! His body raised up and onto my knife!? TWICE?!?!? And Paul?? Gullible is an understatement. wow! just wow!

[@oliviagreen7423]

Aw c'mon, that's happened to all of us once or twice😄 But seriously, I don't know if these people are so mentally unbalanced they think we will actually believe them, or they dont, and don't want to take responsibility, and the bs lies are just another way to give us the middle finger

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Yep I'm living on the wrong planet.

[@MsSwitchblade13]

Have you ever heard the song "Cell Block Tango" from Chicago ? "And then he ran into my knife... He ran into my knife ten times."

[@leptonsoup337]

My doctorate isn't in psychology but here is my analysis: anyone that stabs someone NINE TIMES is BATSHIT crazy.

[@francesbernard2445]

Yea. I think they call it - Criminally insane.

[@HermunthrudaWaldheim]

I believe you, when you say, you know nothing about psychology. You really know nothing about it. And about people as well.

[@teresaboyer5707]

Can you please talk about how a 14 yr old boy could possibly stab a 13 yr old cheerleader 114 times? (Tristyn Bailey)

[@SoulDelSol]

He'd first stab her 25 times, then 25 more, then 50 more, then 13, then 1 more time. That's one way to get to 114 stabs

[@SoulDelSol]

I bet he was shooting for an even 115 but counted wrong

[@Mama_Bear524]

That case sickens me. I don’t understand how a child can do that. I think of my own boys. I can’t imagine being his mom.

[@penelopephelange]

Lol that was hilarious

[@francesbernard2445]

I have a theory about that sort of thing when a gullible person losses it in a criminally insane dramatic way after sometimes overhearing pimps on the bus while they are talking on their cell phones about their 'wonderful' dating website. Was that guy on the bus I overheard once maybe from Iran too? He was offering someone details on what they might expect after being set up for a date with someone he already knew well.

[@baroquefiddle4790]

Oh Dr. Grande, that statement on "cringe" absolute gold 👌 🤣

[@rullmourn1142]

It looks like Nelson is being held captive by Sheila in the picture of them together.

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Such an Interesting Video as Always!! Thank You Sooo Much!!!

[@lonewanderer480]

Sheila was a narcissist and a nut. I've seen a couple documentaries on this story and the level of ego and gall on this woman is just amazing. These ridiculous lies and having the audacity to think that she would convince anyone that she was innocent is just...

[@ulaff]

I never would of guess cringe to be in your vocabulary for some reason, yet it amuses me greatly. Always on top of different topics, love the analysis from many different types of cases and people. 👏🏻

[@PlsWaLuigiDomMe]

Me thinks the defence using Anna Lise’s weight was another way for Sheila to prop her self up as the better option

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[@clarissa8477]

Excellent analysis! It’s quite easy for certain women to manipulate certain men if they want to. She hit relatively easy targets with the men she was in relationships with. Her tactics not working on the police and the jury are exactly how the justice system is supposed to work, and is pretty satisfying.

[@jackiemarsh2470]

Loved This Video Dr.!! Thank You Sooo Much!!!

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Always enjoy your interpretation. Your humor is outstanding. Thank you

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[@swannavon]

I think your insights on this woman's personality are spot on. I found it very hard to understand how she could think her attempts to portray herself as innocent could be convincing. It seems she was very accustomed to getting her way by manipulating people, and as you implied, was not prepared to deal with clear-sighted individuals or with the law.

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[@KB-jr9bd]

I am amazed by Dr Grande eloquently calling this woman cringe

[@lnc-to4ku]

And I don't know why it struck me as SO funny when you said how "She's expected to be released in 2079.... when she is 110 years old! ;D ;D

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I was looking for this comment because it made me chuckle too. 😆

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[@kelliearnold8498]

Dr.Grande great job. Love the shirt. There’s no way the stabbing was a accident. That’s crazy.

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Dr. Grande, please do one about the female serial killer Joanna Dennehy. There's plenty of info on her. Hers is a terrible, yet very interesting case.

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[@Dbarr311]

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[@angela3126]

Right! Blue or gray contacts are popular among Asians.

[@susanbergman9765]

Thank you.

[@erikparent8176]

I'm surprised Shelia did not make mention of "new age" or "quantum healing". Then she could be lumped in with legitimate spritual teachers and the mystical Arts, 🔮 while spirituality is painted in a negitive light and with a broad brush! Why Not! 🤷‍♂️

[@matthewhart1855]

You should do a video on the death of Elliott smith, whether it was a murder or suicide. Interested to hear your take on that

[@tfs203]

So glad she defended herself!

[@easttowest5984]

To be so intelligent, she sure did the most stupid things to cover up and lie. It's like she forgot that the police would be investigating.

[@thierrytalon8600]

Where do you find the time to do so many quality videos with a family and a full practice?

[@Zach-h2l]

go check his 700k subscriber video from like a month ago, he describes his process

[@kevinsommerfield6341]

Dr Grande does this full time now. But he is still very busy. He puts out a video 7 days a week. I believe the thank you video he put out when he reached 700 k subscribers describes his average work day. He has a very strong work ethic.

[@BurroGirl]

Had she ever heard of divorce?

[@emmyrose1802]

Thanks

[@MartineH1]

It is Incredible how that man, her husband could be so naive and nice.

[@zero_bs_tolerance8646]

I wonder who she's manipulating now? Because it never ends, right? Thanks, Doc. Stay safe.

[@amybaker3551]

Well, I know her part in the prison production of "The Cell Block Tango". "He ran into my knife 3 times. He had it comin."

[@FrankBenlin]

Just remember folks, you are putting your life in someone's hands when you give them control over you. How many people do you really trust that well?

[@SoulDelSol]

I would never let anyone handcuff me

[@FrankBenlin]

@@SoulDelSol Nope. But would you cuff someone on request?

[@SoulDelSol]

@@FrankBenlin I've definitely cuffed other people absolutely, with their consent of course - and as soon as they say word i take them off. Personally it's not something I'm comfortable having done to me, I'd have a panic attack (and i dont have those), feel claustrophobic or something. But i do enjoy cuffing others, I'm more of a dom than a sub i guess

[@FrankBenlin]

@@SoulDelSol Yeah, I've heard of you, Dominator Dan. :)