Reasons Why a Man will not leave His Wife

[@ladyred1850]

I heard a comedian say when a married man cheats on his wife with an upgrade he's leaving. If he cheats and downgrade he ain't going nowhere!

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Thick brix lol true lol

[@ladyred1850]

I was talking about looks not money.

[@NeenaSd]

SheRaSeven1 I need to tell you an issue personally in email. Can you please share your email address

[@somyan8540]

Looking for a available suitable man myself. An not gonna look for those with a wedding band on their finger. Lessons learnt. Ta x

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@Thick brix Not so fast! I’ve seen MM cheat with upgrades (looks) and still stay and love their old, unfashionable frumpy ass looking wife. Why? Because he considers her an Alpha female. She still brings it in the BED, cooks well and takes care of him, his home, the family AND again, the asshole still loves❤️ her. Looks and youth DON’T always matter. Don’t get it wrong y’all.

[@queenoflasvegas]

Married people are trouble.

[@shandelle4274]

This, is brilliant. As mad as women will get watching this, i'm a woman myself and this is nothing but truthful and raw i love it. A man looking and dating another woman, shouldnt even be married in the first place, and if it isnt with one girl, he will keep going until he finds a woman that he can cheat with. You can blame the woman all you want, but if it isnt her, it would be the next one

[@amberdavis5898]

That’s true, however when a woman knows a man is married and continues to entertain him karma will come around. You can’t do people dirty and think it’s not coming back. Fault wise it’s his. But she has her part in the lie.

[@lucasessman1910]

@@amberdavis5898karma isn’t real

[@Cantetinza17]

My friend spilt the tea and his wife kicked him out, but he didn't go with her either. He felt like she betrayed him. I told her that he didn't value her anyways, it's best to move on. I had another friend that waited over 4 years before she finally gave up on him. He had small kids and was not geographically desirable. A lot of stuff played a part to her giving up on him. If your gonna cheat then upgrade. That's the truth. It's all true... well most of it, sometimes the reverse psychology can back fire, but if that happens then he really didn't want you. He just wanted a "stress reliever".

[@G-14classified]

What do u mean by upgrade? Some people aren't cheating to get into another relationship. Sometimes its just about sex.

[@farzana113]

Being around men is loose loose game no matter what you do he will always think the grass is greener the other side

[@healthshapenbody]

Married men or women usually don't leave because it's convenient and they can have their cake and eat it to with no consequences

[@bebopnola]

How about just DON'T DATE A MARRIED MAN.

[@Cantetinza17]

+T.L. Bebop not gonna work to simple. Common sense doesn't play a part.

[@somyan8540]

@@Cantetinza17 some men are decent some just aren't. Its as simple as that. Maybe its just their luck. Choose those who's got luck. Safe and secure, no problems type of class. ☺

[@tonismith88899]

Then you have the married men who lie about being married and leave you to figure it out

[@natalie_1mog3n]

@@somyan8540 lllriiuu

[@tintamalambo444]

No

[@angelabrown7096]

This is so true and funny once again. you say exactly what people don't say

[@insomnia773]

L

[@buddyfaya8631]

This is why I like her. Machiavellian as fukk

[@imperialshugar754]

Today's marriage is a joke. Cheating, Lying and sleeping with the enemy....as long as No One knows how bad it is it's all good...

[@toussaintstraditions547]

Today's marriage? Women had no place to go!!!

[@liorasitelman1856]

Nah. Not my style. Goal is to find someone who isn’t married and start things on a good moral ground.

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

No such thing as moral ground. Ever heard “bad things happen to good people “ it’s true. No matter how you do it bad things will always happen and why people always say “why did this happen to me”

[@liorasitelman1856]

@@LifeIsTrulyMagic everyone has to live with their choices. I don’t want the bad conscious of messing with someone else’s marriage. Plenty of non married people around. No need to go down this route

[@lakitabutler9017]

I am over being married smdh! Now and days its all for show, lust and not love and most end up killing each other, besides God will give a man or woman their ordained mate when ready and this love will be a SPIRITUAL MARRIAGE!

[@emmarose9466]

Lakita Butler Amen

[@rubyrattler891]

Guuuuurrrrrrlllllll PREACH about the paperwork factor..... too many overlook this very significant aspect‼️‼️💯💯💯

[@jamilgotcher5456]

I declined a dinner date with my ex bf from high school because I think he would want her to know about us because he would love to make her jealous with me because I'm a former fashion model and she knows all about me because I was his first love. I'm not going to get used like that and pump up the ego of two people. It would pump her ego too. Thank God I'm older and smarter because if I were younger I would have been stupid enough to believe he would leave his wife.

[@cindymejia4515]

The married man I’m currently dating told his wife he loves me over the phone, my jaw dropped. He told her he loves me and she went hysterical. I still not convince. He’s so jealous and wants to control me. He’s saying he’s divorce but to me actions speak louder then words.

[@cindymejia4515]

Y’all think he’s serious?

[@miaporche2256]

That is horrible that he would do that. He is so disrespectful....

[@saiuizgg7599]

How are things going?

[@melaniehernandez4185]

He doesn’t love you and he will do you way dirtier than he did to his wife because she’s innocent in all this and you aren’t. Karma will get you bad!

[@missmack2328]

@@melaniehernandez4185 karma isnt real and his wife could have been a bitch

[@theflaca]

Shera7 you are sooo spot on. Especially at 9 -10 mins. I love your frankness, and brutal honesty. The best relationship videos I've watched. All the others are lost in lalaland of ideals and good lies. I'm seeing a married man that I met on an affair website, just for sex. It's the first time I''ve ever seen a married one. And it's hilarious fun. But he knows I'm looking still, and have another as well. In fact I think 3 boyfriends at a time is the way to go.

[@danyellg3079]

no woman that has been dealing with a married man is going to be dumb enough to go to his home. Like why should she totally stoop that low? If they know and accepted the situation then thats what it is! If he going to leave then he will regardless if he be with the side chick or not.

[@jennifermayer2708]

It is stupid, immoral and desperate to date a married man who cheats on his wife. It is disgusting and sinful to date only in a motel room. Is this the best you can do?

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

She dated a married man and he left his wife for her. She’s been married to him for 20 plus years now I believe and had kids. He purposely looked for her and she accepted. They both build the life they envisioned both got what they wanted .

[@503ashkatchem4]

It is still it right if people are so unhappy file that divorce than go fishing if the woman wouldn’t let him go it’s still a faggish excuse of a human being file the divorce

[@Bubbles-od2tv]

@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Exactly. There are so many miserable married people who don't have the guts or confidence to leave their marriage. If anything, they're testing the waters of their exit by having affairs first.

[@waterfalls2724]

You will curse yourself dating a married man or woman. God will not bless you with your own husband.

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

Shera been married to her husband for 20 plus years. He was married when they Met. Still married and had 2 children that God bless them with. Both rich and financially stable. You curse yourself on life with the power of your words

[@waterfalls2724]

@@LifeIsTrulyMagic who says she didn't reap what she sowed. If you think it's ok . Mess around and find out what happens when you do.

[@waterfalls2724]

@@LifeIsTrulyMagic since you like to quote scriptures what does the Bible says about sleeping with a married woman or man? Things are not always what they seem especially if you didn't repent and you are still telling people it's ok . The same way you get them is the same way you lose them. I've seen people get with other people who don't belong to them and it didn't end well. God said who I put together let no man or women separate.

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

@@waterfalls2724 so you’re here to condemn everyone Pharisee? Could you list the apóstoles and other those close to god in the Bible that committed adultery ?

[@madelinegreen6116]

It sounds like in order to take a married man, you have to become bossy and naggy. Kind of counter productive. That just doesn't sound appealing.

[@tryna_be_better4549]

PSA.... They DO NOT LEAVE BECAUSE THEY DO NOT WANT TO MAN OR WOMAN. There is no man or woman that is cheating that genuinely wants to be with the person they are cheating with. People get bored and cheat or they are upset and cheat or whatever BUT USUALLY PEOPLE ARE NOT GOING ANYWHERE. just do NOT date married people. I am a married woman there is no man that I am leaving my husband for.

[@themartinn9354]

😂😂😂​@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473

[@charlenebuyshouses]

that laugh shera you are so devious

[@amaziing22]

Disgusting how other women date married men. Eww

[@MakeWay4CJ]

It’s even more disgusting how men who have actually taken vows before God, his wife, his family and friends can so easily drop his zipper with another woman and risk everything he has....but I’m sure you meant to mention that too, right? ;-)

[@Abena_Goddess87]

Disgusting how married men cheat on their wife.

[@Chezzglozz]

... So what??

[@jamilgotcher5456]

Men cheat so much, I'll never look at a family photo on Facebook the same again without thinking about how these men contact women from their past via Facebook because they've contacted me.

[@Chezzglozz]

IM IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN MY SELF. AND I DONT FEEL BAD. SORRY BUT NOT SORRY

[@Arizona_lilly]

men love their wives

[@sharoncross2633]

Good channel! Subscribed!

[@farzana113]

I don't like this game do this do that plan this plan that I can live without a man a good man is vital and important but a man that you are not sure of you are better without

[@SM78..]

Lol you are fire 🔥 girl! I love your perspective!

[@mw7882]

I am exhausted. Sounds like the making of a "pick me chic." No thank you. I will pass.

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

Not if you have the right target. Look at shera, she still married to James after 20 years and rich .

[@joannaatkins556]

So TRUE one of my Friends have been dating a MARRIED MAN for 15 or more yrs....

[@beac8238]

OH GOSH. I hope she has tangible benefits. Some people will play the role until they die.

[@snowqtee]

Eww,why would you want to even have sex with married men especially with kids involved smh!If he’s cheating on you with his wife DUH he’ll be cheating on on you too and gross if he’s sleeping with both of you! Karma’s a bitch and when you’re married with kids one day your guy will cheat on you and you will know how the other women felt..

[@G-14classified]

If I were to step out on my wife I'd never give another woman extra ammo. My family is never to be spoken of. Im not here to lay on the couch and talk about my family life. If I'm cheating its about sex and none of that extra shit. Spending consistent time is when feelings get involved and that's not good. Treat them like a side piece and they think they're a side piece. Male or female. U take control of the situation and steer that shit how u want because you're the one with everything to lose.

[@G-14classified]

@Clowy Nicx look, I don't judge anyone in life and I don't have an opinion on their relationship. There can be so many reasons why people cheat and stay together. I was born out of cheating and I use to be pisser with my dad but as I gotten older and got to live life. I understood his plight. No excuse for cheating for whatever the reason is but it is what it is. That why chest of yours in a relationship isn't as easy as said. Investments have been made for some people. Many people feel the way u and rightfully so.

[@G-14classified]

@Clowy Nicx Why are u concerned tho?

[@G-14classified]

@Clowy Nicx I'm giving perspective based only. If I were to cheat.

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

Why not just have sex with your wife

[@Chadia1505]

Married men will never leave their wives .

[@indigoGoddess7]

You must be new. Her husband was married and left his wife. She actually talks about it. A lot of you women suffer from low self esteem and it’s really showing. Too many of you think that men and women have the same values. 😂😂😂 Like the women who get mad at other women for maintaining their appearance while they’re looking frumpy & clutching onto their husbands in public😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Insulting some of us women who have standards and aren’t interested in your dust bunnies

[@lucasessman1910]

@@indigoGoddess7both the original commenter and you are crazy lol, both stupid takes. Shera is smart tho, some of y’all tho… seek help for that trauma baby

[@daijahjohnson6381]

I can’t wait for this

[@soy_red]

TRUTH!!!

[@mireillebernheimer11]

Thank you

[@gailmeadow5497]

Why give advice to a woman stealing another woman’s husband ? It’s terrible

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

She only speaks of men of means. If he’s worth it. She did it and proved successful. Both rich after 20 years successful with 2 daughters

[@stephengreen5865]

I'm in that same situation with a married woman she tell me that her husband says to her there is no divorce I c ur point of view they have 4 kids 3 r grown I have 2 job making more than her husband. me and her been 2gether 7year she been married 23 years she wants a divorce what's your advice for me?

[@Abena_Goddess87]

Wow, maybe try to find a wife of your own.

[@jenniferwooten4602]

She's not leaving Bro

[@moselc09]

Any updates?

[@stephengreen5865]

@@moselc09 she divorce

[@moselc09]

@@stephengreen5865 y’all ended up together? Are y’all still together?

[@silverkitty2503]

you have a very quiet voice. A lot of the time men who are about to have affairs are already about to divorce ....but if you have an affair they feel happy again ..and happy enough to go on in the marriage for a few years more ...even if you end it ...and old men won't leave at their age ...not saying don't date married men ...do what suits your situation...but don't get emotionally involved. I don't say i wouldn't do it though....but i think men will do favours for you anyway without dating or sex

[@danyellg3079]

what if they are roomates? no sex or any affection

[@NA-vt6mz]

Danyellg so what where is ur benefits from him

[@quarentinedlove2903]

It means he is lying why would he live with his wife if they are just roommates ?

[@danyellg3079]

@@quarentinedlove2903 Both comfortability and familiarity!

[@KimHeb.]

Thats not possible they are having sex or he would move on

[@danyellg3079]

@@KimHeb. listen don't speak for me I am a witness to a marriage that is not sexual! Every marriage is not based of love sorry to inform you of that. People marry for many different reasons so please

[@mariame3586]

asher a you are so realistic

[@centeredbalance2175]

thanks GF!!!

[@absolute923]

Is your husband allowed to sleep with other women? If not are you afraid of him cheating on you? How would you feel if he left you for someone else? No negative reasons behind my questions, I am just really interested to know as sadly your info in this video is quite accurate. Thankfully most men don't leave even when threatened... and many wives try to work things out even when the other woman attempts to separate her from her own husband.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+HelloAnsonia lol I believe in revenge lol so if he left it would be broke and injured lol !!! I think the other woman would not even want him anymore and then he would just be alone lol

[@absolute923]

SheRaSeven1 I'm learning a lot from you. Thank you for actually sharing the info not being vague and sending us to buy books..

[@SheRaSeven1]

HelloAnsonia lol you are welcome... the funny thing is people keep telling me to write a book lol ! But I like doing videos and sharing the info !

[@suzanneshafer7793]

A man usually stay cause she don’t make enough money for house and kids so you just side chick even though you act like his wife but I know a man cheated on his wife I sent getting sex from her or you look so good he sees you than goes make love to his wife thinking it’s you he’s touching he’s stuck so I say back off do you and he’ll see where he really needs to go

[@beac8238]

suzanne shafer at the end of the day he doesn’t love his side chick enough to leave his marriage. marriage includes love but it is so much more. some people you have fun with. others you build a family with.

[@andreahoward2683]

Hell my husband left 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@maiamiimaiam4343]

Did he come back

[@Chadia1505]

Better for you girl !!

[@elizabethshearin8127]

Nice advice .. You should do a video why few women have a baby by a married men ???

[@sandraheggs]

Well, if he covers his dick it can't happen.Did anyone think before they leaped.If a married man or woman cheats, ask why they do it.

[@jaybeezie5919]

Don't listen to this chick. She gone get some of y'all ladies molly wopped 😂😂😂.

[@ephraimsinsurance694]

im in love with a married man and a love him soo much what will do?

[@katiewaity3413]

Ephraims Insurance you’ll learn to be happy without him because it’s pathetic to rely on someone else for your happiness

[@G-14classified]

Run!

[@businesslady7840]

Continue to be stupid 🤣🤣🤣

[@pattypink1374]

Dumb bitch !

[@Keylaward]

Don’t waste your time, he is a cheater and not matter what he says once the affair is discovered he will dump you, that’s the sad true :( Work on yourself and focus on really what you want. Sometimes we end up in situations that we never imagine. Take care

[@yahnessaYasharaal6777]

Girl your next trip will be straight to hell. Instead of schooling women the reason a single woman should not be messing wit married man you’re teaching how to insist in a relationship that has no good destination. Omg 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

She married a man who was married. They been together now 20 years with 2 beautiful daughters and both rich and successful

[@Daisylilly_]

@@LifeIsTrulyMagicshe isn’t talking about life here on earth, she’s talking about after she dies will she live happily in heaven ?

[@DetroitCoko]

This video and Part 1 are so fucking funny. This shit is real and TRUE!

[@ToniLHall]

Some men leave their wives? Why

[@mecca115able]

Where's part 3?

[@antoniaantonya3250]

You said if he is not talking about his wife that means it's about somenthing else. Can you please tell me what that means? Thank you

[@memoryrinehart]

Is there a sequel to this sequel? (It abruptly ends).

[@Youshallbefilled]

Never date a married person. EVER. If you find out they are married and you get the call… tell the truth and save them from the habitual cheater or from a deadly std.

[@collardgreenschronicles]

I like her. ❣️

[@freddieevans263]

Very good I am not leaving my wife and kids for nothing because of my money.

[@learnEnglishwithhannah5724]

You are cute and intelligent love you

[@littlemissy8356]

Why would you want to entice a lier, and cheat to come be with you in the first place?

[@LifeIsTrulyMagic]

Bc he’s mad rich and can give you the life of luxury

[@l-r9427]

What if a man is married and separated and everyone knows u his girl including the wife and you even met her and their child loves you and u have keys to his home?

[@Southerngirl0828]

DaGod7 Do they plan on divorcing??

[@beac8238]

LadyEquipped the wife is legally the wife & you are illegally the girlfriend until the divorce is finalized.

[@KimHeb.]

The wife can also sue the other woman for violating the marriage if she wants. Your just giving her proof to do it if she wants

[@neelprakash330]

Sound quality is poor.

[@alearios4248]

To true I spit my drink out

[@missmaomi28]

When you laughed @7:24 😂😂😂

[@tressaanderson4471]

Thank you!

[@liorasitelman1856]

Why date a married guy? No. Just no.

[@1234lisadavis]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙌🏻

[@freddieevans263]

Somebody steals stories from here to use for there benefits.

[@vvele2357]

Why teaching go got married people. Single people should go got better single people.

[@mervinmcforbes]

R u seeing anyone ??!.

[@Fresita21Velazquez]

I love you lol 💕

[@quarentinedlove2903]

My bf is married but he is with me most of the time and he pays for everything bought me a house a business cars he just is traditional and will never leave his obese wife but he loves me just something I have to accept

[@maiamiimaiam4343]

Still w/ him

[@Chadia1505]

Break up with him after getting all of that and find someone richer and single girl

[@corinagreen8462]

Lmfao yes wife yes wife😂

[@mecca115able]

Okay.. Look what if he says he's not gonna leave. U threatened to tell wifey. He begs. And accuse you of trying to break up his marriage. Mad at you.

[@G-14classified]

Why would it come to that. If a woman know a situation is like that, then she knew the consequences of her dealing with a married man.

[@Keylaward]

If you do that he will say “He can’t trust you anymore and is over” lol You will end up feeling like a crazy psycho ex or he will tell his wife because now he is afraid you will tell her either way he won’t ever speak to you again and that’s when you realize that guy didn’t love you or have any respect for you existence, he just used you for sex. Sad :/

[@vanessaanders1619]

So did you tell the wife?

[@BUTTA408_]

Women like me make shit happen

[@stressedout4979]

wrong on all accounts

[@daijahjohnson6381]

❤🎉😂

[@shelleysamuels3682]

Lmaooo 😂

[@CNNWANNABE]

This shit is hilarious......