How to Keep your Husband Chasing You

[@kymmiehush]

Currently dealing with this, the second I go silent and do my own thing, he starts to chase me. Idk why but mine likes to be treated badly too. Dressing up and going out by myself, he goes crazy, and loves it. Before marriage an uncle told me, don’t tell him everything…I didn’t listen. I get more by being silent took me 8 yrs into my marriage to figure this out. I was a give everything for my husband type of girl and it was the worst thing bc there was no mystery, no reason to chase. The silent treatment works wonders, be mysterious.

[@JenniferManifests]

Same here! This is Crazy

[@Sagrada.beautyy]

ditto

[@OG_GMa]

Great advice Girl. After 26 years, 4 adult children and a grandchild, my husband still gets upset if I don't answer the phone or his text within 2 minutes. Always keep them on their toes...they secretly love it.

[@MegaZedlav]

Lora Jenkins Lady you got that good good, that's all lol. Everyone don't have it!

[@gashamuton3947]

So great we appreciate

[@CarlSherron]

No the fuck we don’t love it speak for your self. This is all manipulation 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@ee528]

They definitely do

[@CarlSherron]

elanga w sorry different breed over here. I promise you where I’m from. We don’t give two fucks. Problem is, you think humans are predictable when human nature is unpredictable. Feel sorry for your husband 👌🏾

[@queencupcake09]

Yea this is true.. Men for some reason love when a woman doesn't care about them. Idk why.

[@muddywatts1878]

weak men, of course.

[@gleeshtv3283]

Mother issues.

[@mustikamaharani7568]

It's true

[@kellypyffer3958]

They like a constant chase it's so annoying😒 😂

[@shaun1293]

Bullshit. If a man chases you, you lose attraction to him. It has to be a constant balance.

[@nike_thegoddess7765]

My husband is naturally possessive which makes the chase fun for me lol

[@RandomPersonsOpinion]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@paulkamau1806]

Lovely video content! Excuse me for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you researched - Mahorrla Intoxicating Pleasure Method (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a good exclusive product for Giving awesome hand jobs without the hard work. Ive heard some decent things about it and my cooworker at very last got great success with it.

[@leticiajackson2237]

She’s exactly right! Never tell a man everything!

[@msjrene05]

I've been married for almost three years. I love the game you give. Very helpful!

[@SheRaSeven1]

+msjreneful lol thanks

[@aj0769]

Not a good advice... i do care about every thing my girl says ! She has to be my friend, i can tell everything, no need for mystery on both side. When we need space we take it, we chill with family and friend.... the fuck !?!??? All this game to keep me hooked isn’t going to work on me. The only good things she say is about apparences

[@charlita25]

​@@aj0769 💯 her advice is for old school 🏫 "traditional " couples

[@chynamoon193]

YES! That is so true the game doesn't stop once your married..Good Video

[@gingertansil3492]

yup

[@curtistinemiller1560]

This advice is "Gold" ,You have to still have a life and friends make him wonder what is she up to today ,maintain your mystery,,Don't tell all your business keep a lot to yourself ..Have hobbies and things you like to do by yourself..

[@Sashologist]

Alllllllll true! Even when he complains about having to chase me down he continues to chase. I give temporary consideration &inadvertently go right back to giving him the chase

[@lizzyg1758]

Share more share more !!!!

[@jessejameslatimer8686]

Always stay levelled up and be busy, that easy.

[@iamsofia3782]

You are saving marriages 😂

[@lc-il6wr]

In her recent videos I think ppl been complaining..maybe she broke them up

[@lucyochan344]

i just got married 2days ago,great advice thank you

[@ikimmy87]

Congrats 👏👏

[@nickj4281]

Lool rip for the husband gud luck

[@themoonbleu627]

lucy ochan congrats

[@sanjanaj6148]

Congrats gurll🥂

[@jasjuaquin140]

And you're already worried about this. Lol

[@Quaveduchess]

You have old lady wisdom. You must have listened to your Mom and Grandma when they were imparting that slight edge knowledge. Way to go❣️ You are my daughter’s virtual big sister. Thank you.😁

[@ministerstayfly9213]

THE LETS YOU SAY THE MORE WE LISTEN........ MILLION DOLLAR ADVICE....

[@jessyfereira9882]

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[@carlosmendez3757]

interesting points ,if anyone else wants to discover get him to propose try Covert attractor audit (just google it ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my neighbor got great results with it.

[@mustikamaharani7568]

True

[@TheSunshineplace10]

Less

[@Keeper_of_the_Hearth]

I'm not sure why some people see this as something bad. To me, these things are what we do to keep it engaging. It's like exercising your relationship and keeping it healthy and interesting 💪❤

[@SerbSimulator]

Cheers for the Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Mahorrla Intoxicating Pleasure Method (should be on google have a look)? It is a good exclusive product for Giving awesome hand jobs minus the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my good mate called Gray finally got amazing success with it.

[@josepirela1372]

Appreciate Video clip! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Mahorrla Intoxicating Pleasure Method (do a google search)? It is a great exclusive guide for Giving awesome hand jobs minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my old buddy Taylor got excellent results with it.

[@livelikecactus3732]

until when? till both died?

[@FunkyBruja]

What's she's saying is so true. I know from experience.

[@karlenmgl]

IDK my husband ask me how my day is less than five minutes after I come in the house. He asks my opinion on household decisions, he does the laundry ,he likes to do everything together. He likes to talk more than me. I'm the one who falls asleep waiting to give my 2cents

[@ivyn6015]

Karlen Lewis that s sweet lol

[@Supremebeinglivingmybestlife]

@ Karen Lewis To those that are saying my man is not like that I don't need to do that Nan na na na. Well you better double check your man he might be cheating. Anyways. You all must always know everything doesn't apply to everyone there is always going to some exceptions. You don't have to come here and say my man don' na na na na na . Just say thank God for that ok cause he might just be using vthat to throw you off . Anyways .This beautiful woman is here trying to help those of us that is not as fortunate as you all. It's hard out here for us women being that most of our men are in jail and turning gay😭😭😭 she is here trying to teach those of us that need the help and we appreciate her for it. She is a smart lady 💕 you have to use mind games on some these men magic trickery whatever it takes it's got oir be gotten you want to have the upper hand in the relationship because unfortunately 😔 it's the sad truth men love to chase so you better keep throwing your ball so you can see and know what he is chasing or hmmm you gonna wish you did that is if you truly care for him .that's the way it is most men are dogs. So don't bash her . thank you Ashera💗💓💖💕💞💯

[@lizzyg1758]

Sounds like he needs to make you chase him😂

[@ayanaxdanielle]

@@lizzyg1758😂

[@bluerosefire_503]

You say treat your husband him like a boyfriend. Have some mystery, dont be too easy but be alluring. Thats sounds fun...thanks.

[@MaryThiboudeax]

Question (for those us dating) ... Do you believe in the saying "marry a man who loves you more than you love them"?

[@SheRaSeven1]

yes because they will always be trying to please you and you will never have to chase them or worry about them losing interest, plus no matter how you treat them they will still love you lol

[@ireneleroy8698]

Lovely Video! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Mahorrla Intoxicating Pleasure Method (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind product for Giving awesome hand jobs minus the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my friend Sam at last got excellent success with it.

[@muddywatts1878]

In other word Go marry a sucka so you never have to worry about fixing your own insecurities.

[@katiataggarta1914]

The Auntie we all needed. Thank God. Thank You Shera

[@jonnettebush980]

my boyfriend gets mad if i dont answer hom right away. i still take my time

[@lizzyg1758]

For the women in here that are condemning this advise … please know highly masculine men need this… and we sometimes give and give too much details and talk to much… this advise is not manipulative but it’s just methods to create mystery even in your own marriage… what’s amazing is how fucking true this is.. the moment you start applying her advise you see them make Certain moves

[@catyukikovictorinalsy5983]

Love your explanation, think I told too much details... I need to listen to u. Cuts when I went France, to see my in laws and honeymoon, I was so quiet and he came very talkative and even cooked dinner as well we bought me fancy branded gifts, i was puzzled why he was sweeter, when I was quiet or answered short replies.

[@lyvebullock7440]

I hit my husband with the errands line all the time..lol

[@5050TM]

I'm not even in a relationship yet, but it is not too early to learn so THANK YOU for this valuable advice! I will not forget it. It all makes perfect sense. You are such a beautiful woman and you're sharing great wisdom with us. I happily subscribed!

[@issasugazad5949]

Update?

[@AFocusedLiving]

I tell my mum this because I notice my dad gets tired of her talking alot

[@sarahbill3085]

I control my husband anyhow I like it because some months ago he started cheating on me and he started treating me badly not knowing that he has someone x behind so I met one powerful spiritual man who helps me with my wishes contact the spiritual man if your husband is after you message him on WhatsApp

[@sarahbill3085]

[phone]💕

[@ivyn6015]

I have been applying your techniques to my lovey, dumb ass boyfriend of six years and after just two days the effects are amazing. Your energy and mind is just amazing! Shit 😍

[@_keytruth8287]

When I’m at work I don’t text or call my boyfriend even when I get off work I wait for him to call me !!

[@dertysoufrecords]

Dont be mad when your single!

[@leyvamichelle]

you have to work on Your spiritual life and make him really miss you and love you okay,,Get the Spiritual Love attraction Crossing Oil, and take your bath with it and add little into Your Lottion and rubbed it after your bath and wait and let him see You , make sure you use it when he is not at home and wait for him to come and see you and he will never have peace in stay very far from you because all what he will be seeing in you in the best form of human he never meet before okay, make sure you never use that Oil with any body ok,,,,

[@ThebigGLRams]

Its ok. He is still a boyfriend.

[@leyvamichelle]

@Gee rams You Can Use it on Your Boyfriend okay

[@Keandra_9]

Justin Richard lmao 🤣

[@farfromaverage_5333]

I enjoy your video's however, this particular one I would have to disagree. Not every man is the same. I have been married 20 years and I do the opposite my husband is a happy man and he treats me like the queen I am. We take it day by day, enjoy one another and our kids. He still tells me I'm as desirable as I was 20 years ago. mutual respect and communication is key.

[@california4258]

It's been 6 years... How's still going? 🤷🏻‍♀️😌

[@soggycookie345]

@@california4258probably isn’t 😂

[@intentionallivingwithsabri9774]

Your husband must be the outlier. But to most men, this advice is solid and applies.

[@mikdogg69]

Lol...mines always says I sneak off when he's sleep!! been doing that since day one!

[@wendyfoster7939]

THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST VIDEO YOU'VE CREATED!!!!!👍👍👍👍👍

[@kiwi5118]

This comes naturally to me.

[@AndreaNicoleWatson]

Please do more videos for the married ladies ✨

[@travelfoodielove]

More tips on long term relationships please! Thanks goddess!

[@leyvamichelle]

you have to work on Your spiritual life and make him really miss you and love you okay,,Get the Spiritual Love attraction Crossing Oil, and take your bath with it and add little into Your Lottion and rubbed it after your bath and wait and let him see You , make sure you use it when he is not at home and wait for him to come and see you and he will never have peace in stay very far from you because all what he will be seeing in you in the best form of human he never meet before okay, make sure you never use that Oil with any body ok,,,,

[@juliajulia1581]

Thank you for the advice , I try too hard and it’s tiring . I want him to chase me! I’m tired of chasing him.

[@dinothetruckerwright8]

This lady speaking Facts

[@fabiolaontiveros899]

LOVED this advice! I needed this talk. Thank you.

[@themoonbleu627]

Yes I was married 14 1/2 and he chased me the entire marriage but bad thing is I got bored he was so predictable and grew very unhappy so he was so intrigued and excited about me and my always changing ways and he was like about of exciting if watching paint dry ( FYI this is the sole reason for the divorce )

[@candyxoxo19]

Hey did you remarry yet?

[@lrturner4141]

Good advice for women who never been married b4.

[@MelissaLona]

In a nutshell she is saying. Don’t be predictable.

[@mishad2545]

I’ve only been married 2 months and I’m here. Nothing I do is good enough and I’m so lonely this feeling hurts I’m never heard it sucks

[@CarpeDiem-vc3gq]

Sorry to hear what you’re going through. I hope your marriage gets better and you’re treated the way you want

[@samxsara]

Maybe you need to listen to yourself first ❤

[@Jada.alexandraa]

how are you now?

[@ritaaleksandrovna4518]

I loved the gum sounds tho 🙌🏻

[@nixie1986]

My husband doesn’t chase or want to have intimacy. Our whole relationship I got upset because of this but after baby I just don’t get upset anymore. I want to be chased and have romance 😢

[@xobibis3004]

Omg I love your channel you speak sum real ass shit 💯 I was bein way to easy on my nigga

[@zenithnamyalo9137]

your the best. good advise

[@theresemeggitt8455]

really good advice I really like her she's totally cool

[@hairfanatic87]

Same thing u have to do when you just meet someone

[@beautydialyblog8554]

Can you make a new video like these for married woman 💪💪💪I liked very much

[@TheCozyTeaGardenASMR]

I like this lady... thanks for the game. I’m tuned in

[@sarahbill3085]

I control my husband anyhow I like it because some months ago he started cheating on me and he started treating me badly not knowing that he has someone x behind so I met one powerful spiritual man who helps me with my wishes contact the spiritual man if your husband is after you message him on WhatsApp

[@sarahbill3085]

[phone]❤

[@TheCozyTeaGardenASMR]

@@sarahbill3085 girl what are you talking about

[@TheCozyTeaGardenASMR]

@@sarahbill3085 no

[@sarahbill3085]

@@TheCozyTeaGardenASMR do you read my message very well?

[@fwmich9674]

i’m naturally like this

[@verac6731]

Brilliant advice!!!!

[@Rusty-Brown_]

i love her vids she is saving me so much from bad women thank you

[@Oceanpurples]

Yes thank you bc I talk my husband head and sometimes I feel I need to do that bc he don't say much

[@DrAnonymous-e5c]

You are a QUEEN 👑

[@busymommyiam8990]

I just wonder if a marriage can be "reshaped" after 15 years... Can I start doing some of these things or is it to late and it might backfire on me?

[@monicadrew4701]

I don't think it's ever too late. Focus on yourself - change YOUR energy and everything around you will change :)

[@LatinRoses]

This is golden. Love you girl

[@kaalifire8308]

very awsum and helpful wisdom thanku. and i love ur eyebrows!

[@goddessenergyhealing8445]

this is so true some ppl are taking it the wrong way i make sure i dress nice smell good grab the keys and go and he usually following me around the house asking me where the hell im going and why i have to dress nice without him lol i just smile give a sexy kiss and say I'll be back and that I'll check in dont check in on time and he going crazy about how many dudes ask me for my number lol i love him but its cute plus he's a libra and i have to go there with him im a cap so he knows what it is

[@marymichaels8861]

Best advice ever

[@EbonyRivers1]

This sounds like mind and manipulation games that folks play in their younger relationships. My hubby and I focus on intentionality and creating closeness and intimacy, not being fake “mysterious” and trying to trick each other into giving attention.

[@lizzyg1758]

How come you are on then type of video then?

[@jordosara]

@@lizzyg1758😂 nailed it

[@josie5592]

Girl my husband is psychotic if I sont answer quick enough he thinks crazy

[@brandiwilson148]

I love you. You're a blessing to my life

[@Blue-gw4ft]

Gold lesson for today ❤

[@JoifulFamily]

KZbin Gold 💗✨✨✨

[@happy2bhere706]

It bothers me that someone is trying to silence all this good advise. Thank you

[@bloommoon6050]

This video is too short we need and updated video on this topic.

[@jlmadd]

Don’t get married. Unless it’s beneficial. You really want to cook and clean and slave for someone? Listen to all these people lying and cheating. Catch up

[@coconutdimples6509]

Can you make a video on arrange marriage. What are your thoughts.

[@sayedelijah]

Lying don't help, when your married the damn games need to stop, playin hard to get isn't worth it either. There is no mystery when you've been together for a long time

[@SheRaSeven1]

+ILLSKILLS ONE lol tell that to men not women lol

[@themoonbleu627]

ILLSKILLS ONE not true I was married almost 15 years and the games must not stop you can be loyal and play games

[@earlrussell1026]

You must love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. You must love your neighbor as yourself. Jesus the anointed is Lord! Repent and be baptized and believe the Gospel.

[@sistarwande6213]

The new commandment is to love your neighbour as Christ loves YOU, John 13:34

[@Justme-bp2rn]

Hey Richard what is the gosphel?

[@jukey50282]

This was great advice

[@Phoenix-bm6sr]

What if he feels rejected when refused sex and gives up ?

[@leyvamichelle]

you have to work on Your spiritual life and make him really miss you and love you okay,,Get the Spiritual Love attraction Crossing Oil, and take your bath with it and add little into Your Lottion and rubbed it after your bath and wait and let him see You , make sure you use it when he is not at home and wait for him to come and see you and he will never have peace in stay very far from you because all what he will be seeing in you in the best form of human he never meet before okay, make sure you never use that Oil with any body ok,,,,

[@valeriedakota2289]

Shera dropping 💎

[@kadiva3429]

GOT A LATIN MAN AND LET ME TELL YOU, TOO MUCH SUSPICION WILL DRIVE HIM RIGHT OFF A CLIFF LOL...none of these things work on him (except for dressing cute when leaving the house) Latin men, a little bit trickier but i do like the suggestion of a back massage instead of sex. Gotta try that and see Thank you mama

[@stefmonroy7509]

Yess they are jealous more than just a little. They get pissed not intrigued. Even the dressing cute it's like "where you going looking like that?" They want you in the house looking like that.

[@omolevincentia3447]

The guy was never super interested in you in the first place if it takes little to drive him off

[@summerbreeze340]

Keep your mand attention ladies....Be the other woman 😊

[@Orlanzepol123]

I agree with all your advice. I see you have learned your lesson LOL

[@charonsthebomb3564]

If you’re not in a bad situation with your husband I wouldn’t advise you ladies to do that. Just pray to the most high and trust that the most high will either show you or him what needs to be fixed. If you take matters in your own hands, when it involves two people you AND your husband, you will mess your marriage up ladies. DO NOT PLAY GAMES I REPEAT DONT PLAY GAMES. COMMUNICATE WITH YOU’RE BESTIE, BABE, HONEY, whatever you call him lol.

[@Ace4694]

Does these advice pertain to men too or just women? Because if a man does that the wife would think that he's cheating.

[@theresemeggitt8455]

She is good. LOL

[@manjeeravedantam2053]

Love your advice

[@caramellamiss]

Where can we find more marriage content of shera

[@jayvyngrant621]

LoL.. Never do something, u dont want coming back at you.. But I get you.. Trust me when I say, we do not always want tobe around you as well.. It doesn't mean I don't want you... It just means, I don't want you at the moment.. But I can dance either way.. We can do the nasty every day, or we can do it when ever.. I know how to adapt.. But the question is, can you adapt as well... For me, long term Relationships are about compromise, trust and loyalty.. I do not need to know your every move.. I have noooooooo problem with you doing you, as long as you dont cross certain lines.. U can not get upset, if I turn you down, especially if you are doing the same thing...

[@KamelleBlount]

great tips girly love it*

[@nixlein]

But is he not the best friend and we should talk about things with him? Do I need a girlfriend besides?

[@useruser-zi4fr1um9o]

I feel like my husband is the female in relationship

[@jeandoe4887]

🙂 Dang Im so Single 😂 Thank you 😘

[@fwmich9674]

i have this kinda chemistry w my man

[@jennie20able]

reading the all the comments here. well thankfully i dont have to play these kinds of games with my man, and besides he not the sex everyday type of guy with a super high sex drive lol i know i would find myself getting very annoyed if he were that way then yes i would find myself naturally declining him, but not for a whole week tho thats extream.

[@tonye1345]

The clean up woman is ready to take advantage of the games you play with your man

[@themoonbleu627]

Tony E yikes

[@michellehendrix7135]

Go get AIDS nigga

[@88.vv1]

My husband will get so angry if I did these things, and will suspect cheating

[@JJ78X]

dont follow her blind shes scamming people

[@loddiehert2742]

What if he doesn’t really have sex with me? Hes always tired, he does work hard, should i wait for him to still pursue me?

[@theresemeggitt8455]

yeah I'm going shopping lol

[@muddywatts1878]

It's all good until men start doing videos teaching other men how to play games. Make him work for sex, then as soon as he make you work for attention its gonna be a problem. LADIES IM TELLING YA'll FROM A MAN"S PERSPECTIVE, SHE IS GIVING YOU DATING ADVICE FOR MARRIED PEOPLE....ass backwards. And just to give an example, how would you respond if your HUSBAND waited 30 minutes to text back every time you text him?

[@jasminepearls1047]

Tariq Nasheed did

[@Newskinned]

She didn't say make him wait 30 minutes EVERY time he texts...smh

[@sabineduchard1775]

She said once in a while.. not aaalll the time obviouslyloll men think they want something but when they get it, they are on to the next chica...

[@karlenmgl]

Muddy Watts It has happened for 7 years now ,I wouldn't be upset .I have a strict no cell policy at my day job. He is up all night long until 2 am , sometimes 11am so we been on 2diffrent schedules for all these years

[@stealthycinderhella]

How do you feel about like if your fella has a social media crush or how do feel about social media and relationships in general thoughts tips how to deal with different situations?

[@giagiaa6118]

hey love you.. any tips on me finding a man,

[@msiryn9151]

I prefer you chubby ,u were so much cute here .i love u nways🥰

[@Caribbeana]

Agreed. She looks younger and cuter with a chubby face.

[@blessingncube2935]

I think so as well she looked soo good

[@stefmonroy7509]

I think she looks nice either way. Cute here but pretty now too.

[@boujieekaylonnii5238]

Good video maybe you should make a video on how to get a man

[@mzique]

Thanks

[@ronalde.mcknightcpc5542]

Many women select the wrong guy. They don't do there due diligence.

[@littlemisswowzers7188]

Haha love ur videos... Could really appreciate your help if ever you get the time lol

[@kevingtonburrows7496]

If my wife makes me wait a week I’ll just go and get it somewhere else and file for a divorce!

[@jasjuaquin140]

Lol sure

[@Goddessoftarot216]

If it’s dripping wet and bite back. Then my guy your lying