Raising your Standards with your Environment

[@cutiemisbehavin1]

This all goes back to teaching people how to treat you. It is all about presentation your body, your home life, your attitude.

[@moonmaiden4197]

this reminds me of a guy I dated. I have beautiful purple silk sheets with matching curtains, I burn incense and candles regularly, I love when all my clothes smell like incense, I have lantern lights and a tapestry in my room with a nice throw rug and my walls are decorated with faeries and I have a book collection. he came over and was amazed by my room and was constantly complimeting it. that right there was a red flag for me. he was not used to finer living. I go to his house and lo and behold dog hair everywhere. he smoked cigarettes in his house. his sofa covered in laundry. his bed was the worst. the mattress was so old it was brown and covered in stains, NO Sheets at all, and no bed frame. I got out of there so fast. he was so handsome and carries himself well that I was astonished by his living conditions. it didn't add up. so don't be fooled, and don't judge a book by its cover. smh

[@LadyAngela678]

Thats why a man needs a woman.

[@whatever7588]

@@SariahLoves u thought u ate

[@virgobee23]

😲

[@iistrawberrimuffinzii]

wow..

[@charlita25]

Omg 😲

[@meika79]

I invited a friend over and and we had a few drink before he said let's go grab something to eat. While eating he kept mentioning how good my place smelled, he liked that I took good care of my plants, the decor of my living room and how cozy my bedroom looked. He said I can tell you like to be comfortable and know how to pamper yourself. I'm glad he noticed. 🤭

[@epd0126]

girl you are so on point with this video..your environment can dictate your mood, your health, your learning ability, your finances......we have all heard "your environment isn't conducive for "healing, recovery, relationships,receiving, etc..".listen people , your environment is so important

[@SheRaSeven1]

+epd0126 yes it is! :) thank you for adding more!!

[@angiepequenosmomentos]

epd0126 so true

[@eyeofra4059]

Can I call you muva, because you giving me gems no woman has ever sat down to teach me. I'm crying because I begged God to have my mother teach me how to be a woman and the art of being a lady

[@brendacrawford5744]

YASSSSS HUNNY!!!!

[@charlita25]

🙏🏾

[@patriciaangel4]

Thank you! I recently broke up with my first bf ever (I’m 19) we were together 2 years and I’m happy I experienced this because now I know what I want and it’s not a broke man, I am worthy of more and I am worth it all. Thank you

[@LadyAngela678]

My house is where I spend most money. Its my favorite place in the world!!

[@eternalabundance39]

That's so awesome

[@RachelMarron_504]

This is a helpful and useful video. I just got out of a relationship where I was a "Pick Me Chic" and you've been teaching me ALOT! I'm binge watching all your videos.

[@SinaLaJuanaLewis]

Also where you live is important. I live in a tiny place but in the better part of the town. When I tell people where I live the dusty ones just fall off. They know my standards are high.😅

[@eyeofra4059]

I'm binge watching

[@katrina1694]

I grew up in a cluttered, bare walls not so clean DULL house. I was never taught how to clean up or anything to help survive once I became an adult. 😒Your videos really helping me become a WOMAN..a smart and wise one at that. However, 🤦🏾‍♀️I have no idea how to decorate my place at all unfortunately nor how to dress. Smh I need hellllllllllp. 😂😂

[@houseofbeauties81]

Tee Love hit my inbox or send me a friend request on fb ig Roshawnda Flowers on fb I’ll ads u in some decorating and shopping groups glitch groups you’ll be able to see the pages I follow that may help

[@007stinkey]

@@houseofbeauties81 omg that is really nice of you, I would be ever so grateful can you help me!!

[@007stinkey]

@tee love, I know the feeling, and I mean I am not ashamed to say it, we didn't have alot. I have worked and taken care of myself, but decorum was not a priority, not that I domt care. But its just weird.

[@genj6630]

@@007stinkey Same! Someone told me a bit ago. My place always looked like I just moved in! I am trying now. I desire a lovely home!

[@007stinkey]

@@genj6630 and mines looks like i am about to move out!!!

[@mayaportland8805]

You are right like always, sweetie! Your girls are so lucky to have such a wise and feminine mother! I'm older than you but still learning so much from you cause I had no mother to teach me and all my life I was a tomboy lol. I appreciate your videos, marriage already got better only after few days of watching your videos , I just had my best weekend with my husband in 12 years of marriage after refusing him sex, like you say in some of your videos and that made him chase me haha. Was fun for both of us and fresh. Love your videos , SheRaseven!

[@kristenmoonrise]

LOL I stopped talking to one of my friends because the apartment she shared with her then-husband was a MESS! It stunk! I was pissed! How are you going to invite a group of your friends over and there's nowhere for them to sit? She had plenty of furniture but the sofas and tables were covered with dirty laundry and dishes. I have a few candles I'll light when I get home tonight! I also don't understand how people can live without hanging curtains up. Um, they can see you from outside when you have your lights on!

[@caressaclark1042]

I'm so glad I found this channel. You are so down to earth.. kinda like that cool smart auntie. And I am very challenged when it comes to the opposite sex.

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Challenged by the opposite sex,amen,women say men are so simple..we are the ones they need to figure out.. we have layers...but i did get baffled but they do follow your energy so clear your conscience and mind and know who are amd what you want and men will do the same

[@kxlot79]

Your videos are timeless!

[@eternalabundance39]

I come back to this one often!

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

@@eternalabundance39 yes

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

co signed

[@gina.angelli]

from my experience men try very hard to bypass these standards of living and they will try very hard to lower them ugh

[@Theoracleprincess]

Omg yes. They do the bare minimum

[@diosar9243]

My boyfriend mother is very too herself, she has a great personality and very confident, she loves drinking wine and my boyfriend buys her a wine every time he sees her because that’s what make her happy and that when a guy loves you he will do everything for you. Lol one times she came over, he gave her one of the most beautiful decorative glass that in the house and a wine and I’m like uh why don’t you do that to me lmao .... he could of got plain Glass but damn ... lol he’s a great guy.

[@mariamindful6510]

This is truth. I used to have a neighbor and her house was filthy. She was an acquaintance so I didn't want to judge her, but if I were to ever go over to her home, my mind would say, oh, you don't require much, so I don't have to be extra. In the same regard, men would see how I live, and feel like, oh she requires much. Too rich for my blood. They would feel in adequate, unworthy and insecure. 💙

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Met my dream man and he saw my mess of a home. .smh...Thanks,time to step it up!! Muah!!

[@LadyAngela678]

better late than broke How’d that work out for you?

[@alejandrasoto48]

I thank god that i just found you! I'm 27 years old, i live in Mexico and i'm TIRED of "dating" "man" that don't want to treat me and pay for my dinner and meals. Tired of that shit! I have a nice face and body, i'm a teacher, but i tend to attract losers! Since i'm a teacher i make very little money... can i find a guy WITH money if i don't have money? HOW CAN I DO THAT?! PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEE Thank you very much, from Mexico!

[@stephe.8818]

Here is one of her videos that can help you ~Too Pretty To Pay Bills kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZK1n42eqc2ghpo

[@bangelic6471]

I was raised this way but got with a man with no furniture that threw his clean and dirty clothes on the floor. I became him. But inside it felt horrible. I would flip when he would throw my clothes off the bed onto the floor. But he treated me like I started to treat myself.

[@OneSyteria]

I absolutely love your channel! Thank you

[@sabounji]

Hhhhhh it is not the environment only. It is about organization.

[@maryharris7828]

Your videos are so needed, especially since Narcassism is highly on the rise,while damaging,producing victims every day(good women).The stronger she is,the blk men team together(flyingmonkey s),even if they don't know ea.other to bring her down ,slit her tires8 times so she loses money, etc.(Been there done that).Its very scary,creepy &exhausting .Her time is spent repairing, rebuilding(counter produc tive)but not growing or healing.This leave no time to watch your long videos,due to working.Short videos like this is very comforting,heal ing,& then I got to hit the grind until my peices of the puzzles plans fall into place. Presently I'm sleeping with the enemy,while living amongst the wolves (enemies) very hateful people.So show more short versions❤️🤗, like this while I multi task my life along with studying the signs of bad dangerous men.at the end of the day,Its all about tranquility & happiness. Thank you!👍

[@ErikaBardere]

I absolutely *CANNOT* with a messy dirty room or car

[@amandagonzales5492]

I love this girl! Women today really need her! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ravengameslife9071]

Thanks for this information. Good positive stuff!

[@AuntieCheri]

What a wonderful video! SheRaSeven1, I will be checking out Do It On A Dime...At Home With Nikki.

[@learnEnglishwithhannah5724]

Love ya Shera thanks a lot for being there

[@Mia-sp8jc]

Excellent! Having so much fun with my snowy day SheRa video marathon TY! Xxo

[@DandiesUnlockedTreasures]

Shera my shero!!👑👸🏽❤️

[@sonofappreciation]

"the buffet", I died!

[@MzCookie2u]

that's so true

[@ashleybanksss]

I love you! your so funny & informative :)

[@boujieekaylonnii5238]

Hey I just absolutely love you!!! I've evolving for the past 2 years as a woman in all planes... I just really wish I had people like you in my inner circle💕💕💕 where did you attain all of your knowledge through reading where there any things that triggered your spiritual growth??? I'm so happy to have your spirit on my to watch list lol

[@SheRaSeven1]

+LaShara Quenay Butler Spiritual Alchemy , and knowing myself and my History, all lead to spiritual growth!

[@TheSunshinefee]

lovely , how have your grown now

[@tajthegreatone9326]

This is so important

[@indigoGoddess7]

A home and a house are 2 different things 💯

[@kokoawan]

@Sheraseven1.. This reminds me of my self the more confident me that must have everything beautiful around me and as contemporary castle like as i can make it 😂..also I hate $20.00 buffets and mix match bed linen lol. Some of this is just class like being clean and not taking pics in dirty rooms. Thx i loved this.. This is motivation to unpack some boxes rn tho bc i need to get some glamorousness going in my room again. Thank YOU for this video💎💖☺!!

[@florencecoach6639]

Very good and helpful video!

[@007stinkey]

Shera thanks for this video, omg this is so needed. This is definitely a gem right here. This is basic 101 for womanhood, I didnt get it. And I still struggle to find it. You put it in such great perspective.

[@mrsbefort1616]

Oh Chile she said if you’re all raggedy 😂...I’m weak

[@Hillary_camacho]

100% accurate did this before I watched the video!!

[@parler8698]

Amen

[@keniasharpe1610]

I totally agree

[@shawteeslim]

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[@SheRaSeven1]

+Vibr8love #ifyouaintgotnomoneytakeyobrokeasshome

[@shawteeslim]

+SheRaSeven1 all day

[@user-rb4gq2rx8n]

Love this 💜

[@YTfancol]

Excellent advice. TFS.

[@kokoawan]

💖

[@darksunsh9]

What is your astrology sign?

[@123CREATIONS]

I asked that the other day... I found out she is a Pisces..I wish she was a Libra lolol!!! Like me. Whats your sign?

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

[@LLCoolMama]

I think you will live to a ripe old age.

[@lc-il6wr]

U have alot of junk in the background

[@silverkitty2503]

honestly tho if a guy think you live in a tip ..if he is the one ..he wants to save you...move you out of the cockroach next

[@MzCrayKray]

Not if he a dust rat looking for somewhere warm to stay. lol They will lay up in that filth right with you. lol

[@Rusty-Brown_]

come on all women know how to be a gold digger

[@goddessglow6996]

💕

[@virgobee23]

❤️