What About Love

[@DJSpeaks]

You were blessed with wisdom from a young age. Thank you for sharing your gift. I appreciate you Shera. You don't know how many lives you've touched with your truth telling! Women need to hear this. No more lies and politically correct fairy tales.

[@godsqueen9437]

She’s gifted 🙏🏽😍

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

💯

[@Mimi-ss3xx]

I'm so glad that you made the point about men not needing love to have sex. It amazes me how a man can have sex with someone they don't love or respect but they would perform the same act with a woman they claim to love. That is baffling to me. But when they're s broke all they talk about is love and going 50/50. They never talk about security, financial responsibility, long term goals or basically anything that actually matters in a long term relationship or marriage. Hmm....

[@Mimi-ss3xx]

Yes we have been brainwashed by Hollywood. And maybe you're on to something. Maybe love between a man and a woman doesn't exist because no one enters a relationship or marriage if they don't stand to benefit from in it some ways. I've noticed a trend in Hollywood where the poor, broke and socially inept guy gets the beautiful girl who is way out of his league (every Kevin James movie ever) and now these men think they are entitle to a woman. And then they go on and on about love to guilt trip us into accepting them with their short comings. We are emotional and us being emotional creatures often works against us.

[@damaliabuneri817]

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[@MsAyoFashola]

midatlantic09 exactly. That's why we go for the money

[@ashleyramirez9069]

@Irina Ivanova you can say that again👏

[@indigoGoddess7]

@@midatlantic09 that’s why women need to make sure the guy is wealthy. Men and women value different things and guys who want sex with no feelings - shouldn’t be getting emotional about transactional business contracts (doesn’t matter how short/long the term is)....

[@DJSpeaks]

And everything you're saying about how the honeymoon stage ends and the infatuation stage ends after you've been married a while is total fact. Marriage becomes friendship. And I read the love languages last year ...mine are acts of service and gifts. I used to think I was weird because words never made me feel loved. Now I know I'm just action oriented. Do something for me...that makes me feel loved.

[@issyo957]

The same for me , actions speak more

[@brownsugarbaby5003]

Tina done told y'all since the 80s. "What's love got to do with it. What's love but a second hand emotion." It's silly to marry just for love GROWN people should not be thinking in this way. Just goes to show that most Americans grew up on Disney LOL.

[@carolynmerritt7100]

Thank you sis! Please get over it, right. Use those emotions only when necessary. Nobody has time for babysitting somebody's emotions.

[@indigoGoddess7]

A woman in her early 40s was talking to myself and some other girls (in ours 20s) and she kept ranting about her AINT for shit ex husband. How marriage is a piece of paper - mind you, they’ve been divorced for over 10 years. One woman in her 20s said that her bf’s mother was rushing them into marriage. Lol the same 40+ year old woman said who cares about it, you’re in your 20s. In the next breath she started complaining about her current bf who didn’t want to get married 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I kept shaking my head like this woman hasn’t learned a damn thing & is still upset over her divorce...

[@Melly16yr10]

Australians to unfortunately

[@Sunshinestarryrose]

Hell yeah princess jasmine was rich and took in a begging thief based on some feelings lol 😂

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

That last line!! 😭

[@godsqueen9437]

Now that you mentioned it.... You take the guilt out of looking at being in a relationships and living the lifestyle you want

[@tgresty]

I had to stop the video to say you are so wise on the matters you speak on. I have watched many of your videos more than once. Also you always look stunning. You have inspired me.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+tgresty thank you so much so sweet

[@midatlantic09]

+SheRaSeven1 Serious question: Have you ever cheated on your husband?

[@SheRaSeven1]

midatlantic09 no

[@SheRaSeven1]

***** only have sex with men who are super broke or younger than you with nothing to offer you besides sex, you won't get attached lol

[@gc6358]

Are you stupid. You know how wise she is ! If she did why would she admit that on KZbin to a stranger?

[@mahaalotaibi8352]

Yes I agree and I'm a girl who is in love with love itself! Lol but you will soon learn if love was real it would have lasted forever.

[@69Fabulosity]

I agree I'm a helpless romantic! I fall in love with the thought of being in love ! What a curse! I just float on a cloud 😂!

[@shebacynn1320]

Damn..you're so right, if love was real it would have lasted forever.😔

[@Roseberrylove]

Wow that is so true.

[@masculist1019]

8:29 Wahahahahaaaaaa You are awesome!!! He doesn't only bring the money home, he even does the house work????? I'm speachless. You are such a little devil. ;-)

[@new_7772]

Masculist101 😂😂🤣🤣

[@carolynmerritt7100]

Learned all of this from men, and it keeps my life simple somewhat. They have preconceived notions about how a woman is, until they see I think just like them in so many ways. All I want to know is what is he bringing to my table besides a fork and knife.

[@Blackdiamond929_]

Yes Shera is right, Read 5 love languages by Gary Chapman!

[@mayaportland8805]

I watch your videos with such gratitude! I got to show my daughter this in couple of years lol.

[@babyc.3015]

Love matters after this person has proved himself to u

[@rouge_queen]

You look sooooo beautiful 💜💜💜💜 I'm 22 years old and your videos always make my day!!!!!

[@nikkimadison6892]

my generation we were fed a spoonful of b.s. ..not to use a man for his whatever he had but he gets wat he wants from the girl..very dooped!

[@khrisi9410]

Bamboozled and hoodwinked. Jus lies on lies on lies 😂

[@crystalarnoldfortune]

Loved this video..

[@smartkookie]

Love is ALWAYS choosing me. Your mom your kids no one coming b4 me.

[@masculist1019]

When listening to her words in this video, you have to keep in mind that she married a man that she found alright, but not superhot. The reason for this is that she put financials first.

[@joybliss9970]

Masculist101 iii

[@npnpnp858]

Masculist101 Also she picked a relationship guy, not a playboy

[@AvonR]

@sheraseven1 I agree because the pattern for me was clinging on the idea of "love" keeping me in a dead relationship longer than I should have. I believe that the feeling was holding me there and the fear to grow as a partner with a worthy mate. Great video!

[@changeforsafety5178]

Shera you are so beautiful and loving. I feel like you are the mother of mothers. You want the best for your daughters of the universe and give tough love to guarantee calm security and protection at the very least. Peace and blessings ✌

[@meacolaj]

Thanks for the very informative video bff 😁

[@drapink9050]

Amen. Love was doing nothing for me anyway.

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

I laughed at your comment! And howled! 🤣 💯

[@nikkimadison6892]

you are the best shera! I wish I had ur wisdom as a teenager!!!

[@neith1919]

So, True!! Thanks Again!!! Smh....

[@florenceh.manswell3855]

Your hair looks great, your make up is great...love the cat eye...need a tutorial lol

[@samyraalexander1710]

Wow, this have to be my favorite look! Loving the hair

[@robertandrocky5004]

Take a sex drive out of a man - marriages will stop

[@Jeniffer61867]

I love this room and the content of her older videos was more amazing.

[@tommy_smalls]

you do have a point.

[@lisamellon4413]

So true

[@nikkimadison6892]

it's OK no regrets..I had fun too!

[@chillchill1711]

Hi Shera, I'm still new to your channel, I've watched sum of your videos & I can really relate/agree to what you said, but for this video, sorry but I have to disagree with you on this. True love does exist. That's why we have to put work on the relationship/marriage. For me affections & attention is the utmost priority in any relationship. I can't imagined being married to a man that I do not love just because he can be a good provider. The love & attraction has to be there eventually for a marriage to last & tango. ;)

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

As he provides for you that attraction will develop for him.

[@blockawocka4026]

Grow up…

[@ngbadure]

So your husband pay all the bill and have to do the house work as well? What do you do? :-D

[@chrisharris2367]

That’s how it should be! I’m sure he’s getting stuff out of the deal. And after all I doubt she does KZbin for free; that’s income

[@Youtubeaccount50512]

She said only if you want to, its your choice

[@nikkimadison6892]

Omg

[@fung8978]

😂

[@waltsfly4996]

Quality Women and Men need, want, Value and will Have LOVE, RESPECT, PASSION. Communication and Compatibility..! Just to name a few of the most important qualities both should bring to the table. If they desire an Ultimate Committed Relationship. Period! 😆! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and keeping them Brief...

[@rasoolzakee3082]

Not all men men value loyalty Coretta Scott King love Malcolm X you know when a woman loves you when she's willing to go through hard times with you not just good times not just when the money flowing when the champagne is flowing what she's talking about is all superficial

[@jasminepearls1047]

If you are a housewife you should probably be doing the dishes and laundry. Maybe you do but from how it sounded it doesn't sound like it. you are adding too much to his load. At least let him relax.

[@jacpppp]

Spoken truth why would she listen to your advice? 😂😂 she knows exactly what she's doing

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

If a man can afford to have q a maid do the cleaning etc... Why should he expect his wife to ? Not saying that is their situation but think about it... Maybe some people don't do those things be a use they cwn afford for someone else to. You didntvknow their personal situstion and neither do I.