Ladies, Looks are Important! Women's Self Esteem Series P2

[@shawteeslim]

"There are beautiful women hidden under low self-esteem" priceless

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Vibr8love thanks! and its so true!

[@LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225]

Yes, deep !

[@anonnombre2339]

Used to be me wow smh

[@876Lakshmi]

a lot of women who don't wear make up envy women who do.

[@Princess-jc8rg]

They sure do!!!

[@coleemerald4094]

Makeup dont look good on everybody or some people dont know how to wear it. But yeah...when done rigjt... it makes enemies

[@myfaithingodangelswatchove139]

yes I went to the gym a few months ago and I was in the locker room and this young girl in a twenty came up to and said oh I have been been seeing you I wonder where are you going you come to the gym dresses up.but you looked cute..I really didn't to what to say back..and I just said I like to keep it going..I knew than she was jealous..and later on saw her again and thank her that I was having a bad day because some one had said something rude to me. but her seeing that I away look nice I felt better.she gave me this strange look. when deep down I new she was jealous. of me. you can feel it but that's her problem I still go dresses up when I am working out.. let no one steal you Joy look the way you want that it....

[@myfaithingodangelswatchove139]

this life changing SHERA you are so smart..and you look cute in the wig you are right by looking nice you get better treatments I have been getting free food to of so much extra food couldn't believe it..wow. no men has asked me out yet but at least they see me.and it has been men giving me free food and extra food. so maybe some day a nice man will ask me out I am an older woman so I hope it will be soon thanks so much have really missed you..

[@vturner]

ive noticed this.. I had a colleague who would say “I dont wear makeup because I dont need to” daily thinking she was better than those who do but the truth is she just didn’t know how ! She overheard me saying I paid a 300$ for an online class & she kept asking me for the info, saying how she likes my makeup, this & that 😂

[@triplemoongoddesschannel]

It's stupid to me when men say they don't like a bunch of weave and makeup but they can't even tell the difference between real hair and tracks half the time. Or they can't tell the difference between a bare face and "natural makeup"

[@SheRaSeven1]

+kittyfangs961 lol right, they will never know lol

[@blessedsoul6083]

kittyfangs961 coming from a guys point of view... because we know you dont really look like that. Make up and weaves are fun if your selling sex but when your looking for a girlfriend imagine how disappointed id be if i turned around the next morning and she looks ugly without the fasade.

[@sharoncherryontop1275]

ikr... it's so shallow...

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Yoshiyahu Yisrael false. You'll still marry a girl with makeup and weave

[@lauramccann3117]

And they rarely seek out the "natural" girl

[@kmd072591]

Men like when you look good and take care of yourself because it shows how much you value yourself. Men notice everything! I like looking nice 😊

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Keisha Michelle so so true!!! if you comeout the house in PJ's your date will be to Mc Donalds drive thru!

[@sohood2bfree648]

uh no it won't. I'm a regular bitch every day and that nigga attempt that I'll be out the car. nigga will respect me for ME not some dumb ass look cause that mean he's a weak man who'll follow anyone

[@SheRaSeven1]

well everyone is different!

[@sohood2bfree648]

Rose Lavi says you a nobody herself oh I'm so sad

[@NoName-sp5dp]

esor val geez you're bitter

[@flanmaryj]

I like all of your explanations and examples of ways to keep attention. My husband loves the fact that I do my own nails. I'm a plain Jane, with a nice body, but my husband is really fine even in dirt from work. He'll accept wigs but doesn't prefer them. eyebrows, mascara and any kind of lip shine makes a big difference on everyone. I hate when women look ugly hell and swear up and down that they don't need makeup. My momma said that men who claim not to like their woman to wear ANY makeup ALWAYS cheat with a woman looking like a clown. lol THAT'S CUZ IT WORKS!

[@leekeene5889]

I see it everyday. Men with their women and when they both see me, I get their full attention. I only wear mascara, light eye shadow but I stand out. I don't care if it's 6 am, I'm freshly showered, CLEAN, smelling good and dressed for the day. Even if going to the store really quick, I have certain clothes for those times. Never in my life! Am I going out in pajamas. Hell, my grocery store clothes are some womens dress up clothes. I will say one thing I don't play about! Messing with other women's men. That's a no no. My entire life, I've never thought about it. For 1, I respect myself and other women too much. 2. I'm very high value, I'm nobody's side check or a place holder. Hell, men that I really like for myself have to jump through hurdles to get time with me. Men have to set appointments atleast a full week in advance to see me, so they cherish that time. Another womens man not gon put in all the work I make men go through.

[@pamelasbutterflylife1312]

I love your feminine energy and allure☺! Way to level up💯!

[@takishawilliams7356]

Another woman’s man will definitely put in all the work. I’ve seen them do it all.

[@heirtothethrone1]

​@@takishawilliams7356 ohhh chile i came here to say this. Another woman's man def be doing the absolute most. Pay ALL YOUR bills and then some for you. Im just saying

[@LoveWyns]

@@takishawilliams7356oh yes, that’s true! They have a wife, a twin babies, a dog to walk, a job and still finds a way to contact you and see you. If a man wants you, there’s no stopping them

[@scorpionpam]

I wish this same message was preached to men. I feel the same way about men that wants to be In my life. Put some nice cologne and clothes. Dress up. Damn. You're representing ME!

[@genevalivingstone1929]

Lol...it just let's people know that he's spent all his money on you....

[@ShantiForever]

"there are beautiful women hidden under low self esteem" I love that!

[@ameliemarez2206]

She's not saying to go get you a wig to attract man! She's saying put an effort to look put together and girly not a sleepyhead and boyish. Even NATURALLY this can be done! Curl your eyelashes, braid your hair, put your hair down wavy, curly, straight BUT fix it a lil not just out of the shower look! Put no makeup but paint your nails and put perfume on.... GET THE IDEA? Still be yourself but put a lil effort ❤️👏🏻🌺👸🏼👌🏻🌹

[@peach8142]

Lol...a sleepyhead😂

[@kobasi2970]

Yes, taking care of yourself, caring about how you look and self love are important to relate to each other. Every woman should celebrate her beauty and femininity by making herself look nice. The result is that men who love femininity will be enticed and attracted. It's not rocket science lol I don't know why people don't like the truth.

[@MaraMarieBeauty]

Ladies I'm a makeup artist and along with Elf NYX LAGirl and L'Oréal are great makeup lines.

[@MaraMarieBeauty]

And inexpensive ;)

[@ladywytch129]

Haha😃 The ones I use!

[@sm-yj7nu]

Tfi

[@aarushi5186]

You told things nobody even talks about. These things are really really important for our overall personality.. as you rightly titled your video , for "self esteem". All the things you say are TRUE. People don't speak the truth for zillions of different reasons. They don't want other people to succeed.. or look better.. or have a better life than them. But you give away all the secrets away Goddess. That's why I love you !!! And I'm in love with your new purple ring. I just adore it. And you !! :) .

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Aarushi Bhilotra lol thank you! lol I got it at Spirit Halloween store! You might can get online as well there!

[@shellyslife4427]

lol you are soooo funny , I've had a potential tell me he doesn't like his woman to wear make up but he was steady checking out women with make up ... Keep sharing !!!

[@himetilsits1936]

Yes“ potential“ because he can’t afford the women with the nice look

[@nicolewilliams3434]

"Beautiful women hidden under low self esteem"that touched my heart Gon Sista

[@SMC-q7w]

Where I live alot of women are truely living as the product of their own environment. They literally walk around with Pjs on and boots I am tired of seeing this look. So, depressing!

[@genevalivingstone1929]

@@Theholliewitch yup especially in those small hick towns!!! That's just how you stand out..lol

[@brklyn2922]

I wear red lips every day because of you. It is an attention getter. Thanks SheRa :)

[@moonmaiden4197]

"you can't just walk by and be smelling like burnt hair" 😂😂😂

[@ShevetteJackson]

Moon Maiden lol

[@patricemarie3412]

Moon Maiden 😂😂😂 I died!!!

[@RONNIELA400]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@allsmiles3281]

Yeah. I've gone more natural as I grow with age lol but yeah. We will go ALL OUT for the "chosen one" on all levels. True confidence + a lil makeover, but still being true to you, does a lot lol. Esp. If you want a real, grown man, you going to have to compliment him! Don't forget to stay mentally sharp too because that man you set your intention on will be ready to engage if he believes you are his intention as well.

[@ItsAkena]

"you can't walk by & smell like burnt hair" lol so true

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

I love how you are not afraid of show all the different sides of you even the one with which you wouldn't go outside

[@MariaPerez-qx1lp]

I hate when men stare and their significant other is right next to him! To me its very disrespectful I don't thi k I can be able to handle it, because yes I'm very insecure and that would set me off inside. I don't make a scene but it does bring me down. Like am not good enough? And then there's men that desire many women. Can't help that.

[@tabboo9]

Loved this video. So true I just got into make up this year in my late forties due to changes in my skin. Hyperpigmentation and under eye dark circles. I don't go over board because I like me natural but I do accentuate and highlight my natural look. A little concealer highlight mascara and some contour go a long way. Bam a new and improved me. Oh yeah I proudly wear wigs and weave because I love the look it gives me.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+tabboo9 thats good you keep yourself up still and proud!

[@ladywytch129]

Most days for me is a bit of blush, mascara, and a touch of gloss with my hair up in a bun or something simple. Even if I don't have polish on my nails, they are clean and nicely filed. But sometimes...oh mama! LOL! I contour for the gods, put on the push-up bra, red lips, the whole shebang. My man loves it.

[@nadineh4767]

“Some women will just feel sorry and keep walking” yup that’s what I did when this guy was leering at me right in front of his girlfriend

[@jill616]

10:47 "Very very very very very natural, sometimes men mistake them for being Lesbians." HAHHAHAHHAHAHAH! I automatically subscribed to your channel after your said that girl

[@ParisAntoinette]

You’ve definitely leveled up! & I’m here for it. Glad you keep your old videos up.

[@OTMaraH]

This is where her Revolution begain. Right here.

[@queencupcake09]

I can't handle this truth. This is the reason why men don't make me happy. Why is it that a woman can accept a man when he looks like s**t, but he can't do the same for her. Looks shouldn't be the most important thing in the world. The way she treated you when you had nothing should be the reason you keep her. This is the reason why I have considered being a lesbian.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+QueenCupcake32 women spend millions of dollars to look good and men still talking trash and looking bad or worse than the woman lol

[@queencupcake09]

+SheRaSeven1 you never been more right lmao. As matter of fact I have a co worker who talks poop about the female customers and he smells like moth balls on the daily. Lol

[@SheRaSeven1]

lol omg moth balls lol

[@saywhatme127]

I'm late but I agree. Men be looking a hot mess or gay as hell or unkept. I do what makes me happy, if I attract one I do if I dont, I dont. Life goes on.

[@Karenmariepombagira]

QueenCupcake32 girl I aint dating no ugly ass man who stinks. If they don't dress nice I will help him buy clothes to not embarrass me. Even if I was gay I would like a girl just as cute or cuter than me. Why bother dealing with people who don't care.

[@nitz190]

Your videos are damn funny yet they make sense! love dem! 😀

[@daniellereid7576]

yea your right I try to put on a lipstick n smell good even to the store you just never know who eyes you will catch great video !

[@ime9744]

I'm going through a breakup and i love listening to your opinions which are alot of on point!

[@le55511]

There's a million in one ways for a woman to switch up. Go for it! Great message, SheRaSeven1.

[@queencupcake09]

S**t any man I date should be very very worried if I switch it up often because that would mean I'm impressing another man lol

[@She_So_Solo]

That's usually how it goes.

[@MsPrestige2009]

You should be a news anchor, strong positive personality and you're very informational. Keep up the great work lady 😎

[@lisabuckner243]

OMG it’s Big Takki for real with that wig 😂

[@KimBlaQue]

Yessss....I love my scents. Have you smelled Gucci Bamboo? It's so sexy

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Kim BlaQue not yet! ....I might order a sample of it

[@arialovetarot]

" not smellin like burnt hair" bahaha I'm dead. SOTRUE!

[@dynastiwilliams8711]

so true... I didn't think elf was a good brand I'm glad you told us that because I love your make-up and I agree with you on most of your videos I haven't had the chance to see them all but your on point! 👑

[@VondaBoo]

I was crackin up with the backyard picture old maid look...you are HE LARRY US!!! Honey I had a date over the weekend, he is a fire sign. I put on that red dress honey and YAAASSSS!!!....I am fire as well...but I just felt so fierce...LOL!! Great vid...thanks for sharing....we need to turn down the old maid even in the back yard look...LMAO!!! To funny!!!

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Virgo Rising lol girl I looked Like MJ in that picture with out his make up on!

[@neith1919]

I "thank you"....Young Goddess Daughter and I were laughing!! TRUTH!!!!...

[@xiluvamaluleke8411]

My pickmesha cousin was like 😊my boyfriend said inshould stop wearing make up and doing manicaure...i laughed n i was like he has not even married you n already allowing him to control you like this....she was like by faith i believe i am married 😂wow it ended in tears

[@orevaonaemor3865]

Premium tears I'm sure.

[@bangelic6471]

Giiiiirllll I’m cracking up at this look... you still my boo forever ❤️

[@876Lakshmi]

Some women love makeup but because their the "pick me" types and the men they like say they don't want a woman with make up she ops to not wear it in hopes that he will like and want her.

[@jhenefagin7396]

Thanks Ashera I love all your messages you bring to the table.

[@Puree24]

so true i love looking good always

[@mysticmessages5102]

Yasss! And you always look nice. You are100% correct

[@gingerspice7499]

Amazing video! An amazing fragrance (fave of mine currently) is Calvin Klein: One, I use the lotion...wooo omg!

[@bettycoleman3012]

Man you give the best advice. Luv It!!!!!!!

[@ebonylioness28]

Hey girl, I really enjoy your videos. I was wondering if you could do a make up tutorial video. Can you also include how you do, your winged tip eyeliner look?

[@SheRaSeven1]

Ashera Star on You TUbe

[@mrzharmoni6156]

Omg girl lol I love your videos. Keep them coming :-)

[@AnotherShyFlower]

Spot on video!!!! It matters what we look like!

[@tamla2011]

Sage advice. Thank you so much for the video. You are so right.

[@FollowingJesus17]

I missed a lot of these short to the point videos these are great

[@shellyslife4427]

You are hilarious but so on point lol Love it !

[@ebonyhooper1180]

Love!!! u keep it real!!

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Ebony Hooper thank you I do try lol

[@megan4920]

Haha I'm the lady with the red hair and black clothes. I stick out more that way because that's not the Southern California look. The femme fatale look is what I strive for because I stick out but still look good.

[@hotepkihoni7124]

Wow you were a goddess leave that blonde alone it doesn't look right u look way better with black hair

[@verystrawberry208]

you're still beautiful without make up and wig

[@Dajahgraves]

Hair really changes your appearance

[@diamond_noir89]

I had red colored hair and nobody gave me attention, then colored it black and now ppl be lookin my way all the time. It's also a question of what fits your skin tone tbh, but it's true some colours and styles just dont match with an individual 😊

[@yolandalouie7982]

Girl this is a good video. hehehehe

[@mindyourbizok]

Men really don't care about make up and fake hair. Men like naturally beautiful women. Women should concentrate on being natural and exercising, running, lifting weights. A lot of women paint their faces without working out.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

mindyourbizok false

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

LOVE LOVE LOVE

[@tabathalee1582]

You the bestest boo!

[@abigailleat201]

How do you feel IF your man looks at or admires another woman? i know it makes me really jealous and envious inside and hateful. but i know its just because i dont understand it...

[@diamond_noir89]

Look at other men too. But not out of rage, just look around just like men do too😊

[@coleemerald4094]

I do all these things for myself. I like looking good and I like smelling great. I find that if u do it for men. It's never going to b enough. If you wear heels they go after the women who wear 6imch heels. So yes...not all men are sperficial... but I know they expect you to look and smell nice. But they will still cheat on you,!!

[@sm-yj7nu]

A word as usual

[@Mirage238]

You look really great.

[@corinaweber9014]

Looks do.matter

[@badgirlhollywood9741]

That’s all they care about even the celebrities have at least decent looking wives

[@KamelleBlount]

Completely agree* lol some of these women be foolin these men to the 100th power full blown mask . They take off the make an not even the same complexion got dark circles and two inches of hair with bald spots in the back now this is a fraudulent crime lol but I agree tht a women should def spice it up with the looks and sex* love it videos!

[@KamelleBlount]

love your videos*

[@SheRaSeven1]

+mzdivalicious20 thank you! lol Yes too much is a crime lol

[@KimBlaQue]

Real shit. Makeup is to enhance, not to deceive

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Kim BlaQue lol right!!!

[@JJCapri]

love you you're so funny.

[@tyramuhammed6480]

no disrespect love your personality but I wig looks jokey!

[@brenme35]

This wig looks funny on her especially because she's black and blonde wigs look silly on black girls

[@celestegarcia923]

Brenda it’s not that blonde looks ridic on black girls, it’s just this particular shade of blonde looks odd on her. And the cut and front looks weird

[@Shaunteetalkstv]

😂

[@epd0126]

omg...burnt hair..lol..lol

[@SheRaSeven1]

+epd0126 lol sniff sniff

[@domeniques3498]

TRUE

[@subliminalandaffirmations857]

stop seeking validation from men.. if you feel wearing makeup and wigs then DO it..

[@hereisayana8207]

I hope you have a book in the making SheRaSeven1

[@Jeniffer61867]

. Some men say that drastic makeup transformation like this are a deception and women should let men see how they look without makeup because he would feel deceived if he finds out after marriage that she's average looking. I kind of disagree. What's your opinion about it and how do you explain it that it's ok if she doesn't show herself without makeup. Some of y'all are very smart girls, need help

[@bri3073]

No woman is sitting in their house everyday with a full face of makeup and a wig chilling. Of course that man will see her without it and she could be just as beautiful with it and without it. It’s like people instantly believe that with makeup their going to look worse without it which is not always the case.

[@Jeniffer61867]

​@@bri3073true

[@domeniques3498]

THANKYOU

[@femininebritaneyburnett8904]

❤️❤️♥️♥️

[@sophiadaniel9421]

Okay I wont wear no damn wig though!

[@badgirlhollywood9741]

It’s called a weave

[@Rubycella]

I love you

[@Dentsun4228]

OK, you a beautiful woman...the blonde hair dont even bother me that much. But i still think sistas can look beautiful with their natural hair. And some bw who dye their hair blonde make me want to vomit.

[@lalapink2809]

you are very beautiful

[@priscillanonde3093]

I love you 😘❤️

[@lachellblackmon7854]

You're cute with no make up also.

[@cattycrystal5071]

I love you blond

[@OKshay]

in this thang late

[@moweems5802]

Crazy men like a female chameleon.

[@IamKarryanne]

😂😂

[@highhonor106]

I like all of the advice you gave until said cut your own wig.. Yeah that will be an ultimate failure for me lol

[@_keytruth8287]

You look like that chick from the playas club lol

[@She_So_Solo]

@xscapist 58 LoL

[@wandaedward1590]

You sexy n you know it, that was sarcastic n you're not then most beautiful?

[@BestieTiktok7089]

I love ur videos but is always too long that's what I don't like

[@TheJohndoe908]

Ladies be natural , that's what men love . Don't hide behind makeup and fake hair because at a certain point it's going to come off & he might be taken back by what's behind your look

[@SheRaSeven1]

+TheJohndoe908 natural is great if thats what the type of man u like appreciates, some men like the make up and hair... and some don't !

[@pinkgal206]

Lmfao

[@SovereignSavage]

TheJohndoe908 lies

[@Karenmariepombagira]

Girl men who date fake hair women go and buy her weave. I saw one im a wig shop with his gal trying on looks.

[@876Lakshmi]

Do what's best for you and your man.

[@DarnellHendeason-dk3uw]

Black women can't wait to let themselves go.

[@ime9744]

I'm going through a breakup and i love listening to your opinions which are alot of on point!

[@mysticmessages5102]

Yasss! And you always look nice. You are100% correct