Men Want Women to Have Low Standards

[@chococookies7292]

"If he can't even buy you a meal or cover a bill, what makes you think he will even provide for you as a wife?" Yup!

[@carolinelala9818]

You're so right.

[@tijeraslack3]

ChocoCookies 💯💯💯

[@tijeraslack3]

OutThere2017 Exactly! Men these days try that well cook at home or you cook on the first date. Nope!!!

[@BlackCulturalPreservation2023]

Exactly skip the losers💯

[@indigoGoddess7]

Better yet, why would he be a good father?

[@She_So_Solo]

Men know our value they just hope we don’t.

[@lindsayanderson9429]

This applies to other females too…

[@Trailblazers323]

Our biggest enemy is other women and their low standards. Smh

[@Nina-cd6uw]

@Savage Princess I think he said that these types of men exist, but are not the majority and rather points out that most men do respect and care for their women, but only if they've proven to love and respect the guy for his personality and exterior and not take advantage of him for his money and status. And he might have put that in unclear words and have gotten a bit polemic in the ending, but I see that "trend" in men as well and for them it's a healthy one. A good wife is not one that only wants to stay at home and spend the man's money, she also loves and adores her man, respects him for his personality and gives him emotional support in hard times. And he seemed to mean that this is what men respect, not a woman that only takes. (He was defending men.)

[@nimanixo]

Vanessa i just realised this like a week ago its so true

[@tijeraslack3]

Vanessa 💯💯💯

[@blacktulip4386]

Word

[@Jeniffer61867]

But those are Pick me women who either dump those dusties or get dumped eventually or stay unhappily married . Because those kinda relationships never work.

[@melindaroop1346]

If you go out on a date with a guy and he doesn't open the car door for you or the restaurant door, do not go out on another date with him. My husband still opens the door for me when we go out to eat.

[@douchebagpatrol7237]

that's so messed up dude :( if u truly love your husband u would open the door for him as well or at least not expect him to open the door for u or do u not love your husband?

[@jlovesj3335]

@@douchebagpatrol7237 hell no.

[@BLURRRULB]

Only when you go out to eat or all of the time?

[@BlackCulturalPreservation2023]

Guess your a man that wears a dress.

[@44aske]

If it is that important then you have to tell him. And not expect him to know that. Because this day and age things are more personalised. If you go and buy clothes at the store you don't expect the worker there to know what you want to buy right? You tell her or him right? Same goes to dating that is dating are for. To get to know one and another.

[@giggles1219]

These Feminists need to wise up. This is REAL Feminism. We need to raise our standards!

[@justwanjiku]

This is so true!

[@blacktulip4386]

@@justwanjiku kabisa finally a woman speaking sense

[@keikei1943]

BOOM🎯

[@boredshrimp9425]

Liberal feminism is killing the real feminism, radical feminism

[@brokenbrad6182]

@@boredshrimp9425 any sort of feminism is bad

[@LR-gw3pn]

Women want security!!!! Why can't these men get that?

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Laje Reine i have no clue lol maybe secretly they want to a be us?

[@LR-gw3pn]

+SheRaSeven1 They are lazy nowadays

[@SheRaSeven1]

Laje Reine true! lol I have to teach my daughters to do for self because the men will not be manly anymore they will be more like women in the future!

[@LR-gw3pn]

+SheRaSeven1 True. I personally believe the feminism movement killed this. Sadly, men have to be trained LOL. I think when women go back to no nookie before the ring, they will be forced to step up. I'm training my son to be chivalrous and a provider.

[@SheRaSeven1]

Laje Reine good for you! thats a good ideA!

[@vanaphill2454]

Lots of men have gotten so lazy and cheap. It's a TURN OFF!!!

[@yeahthatsme921]

It makes my stomach hurt. Like what the fuck you working for. Lifestyle is cheap too. I don't want to work never did. But I will get something small so I don't have to have sex for it. Black men make my stomach hurt

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

I am not turned on by broke dudes.

[@kekef3620]

Same here but for me its beyond them being broke. Its the fact they are ok with their situation and have no plans to change it. How can I be attracted to someone like that? 👎

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

Exactly. Right now I know a lady with a broke dude. She is working and taking care of him. He works here and there and I know for a fact he does not give her any money when he has it. And instead of getting rid of him, she keeps holding on as if there is something to hold on to.

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

@dcosb09 So in other words, fat, old women want nothing to do with you and that makes you sad and lonely.

[@babyc.3015]

I get wet if he can provide

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

I agree hard working women are showing their sons that women are responsible for bringing home the bacon. Therefore when they become men, they do nothing for women. And expect the woman they get with to be responsible for them financially, basically replacing their mothers.

[@indigoGoddess7]

A guy said to his mother: "I'm choosing this woman because she reminds you of granny and yourself...she's hardworking"

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

@@indigoGoddess7 True.

[@MysticButterfly22]

100% agree with you!! Women should never lower their standards for a man, especially if he can't offer anything to her.

[@williammark7772]

Love this lady.

[@essenceaquarius9958]

Same!!

[@documento6789]

Excellent advice to women. Don't listen to haters. You are smarter than most people.

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

the men that want women to have low standards all up on this video though. get up out your feelings and do some self inventory.

[@NS-vd7hf]

I'm soo dead😂😂

[@tijeraslack3]

Belizean Bad&Bruja 💯💯💯

[@BashaerB-h2c]

I mean, if we women have to suffer each month, have insane hormonal changes and mood swings and STILL be able to get our degrees, make money and look good I don't see how it's excusable for a man to not have money at least. They literally have less obstacles in every sense yet they can't even achieve the bare minimum? Makes no sense and it's unfair especially if kids are involved. These men are selfish and delusional.

[@jessicaselenecenteno]

This is true. A lot of men want women to accept the bare minimum. A lot of feminine men resent women.

[@chandafudgebrownies1]

Talking about passport bros 7 years ago ! 😂😂😂 Shera you are EVERYTHING 💜💜💜

[@cpeacenlove]

I'm not even going to read the comments, lmao! I just wanted to say that you are telling the TRUTH ma'am!

[@Luckimee]

I'm beautiful and smart and I'm tired of dealing with losers. I deserve the best. None of the women in my family taught me because they didn't know. I'm smart and I'm a fashion girl. My friends are beautiful and don't date men on their level. My aunt that married my uncle knows. I'm going to start hanging with her :). TEACH ME YOUR WAYS oh wise one! I raising a daughter on my own and doing a damn good job. I have a lot to offer. I can cook but I want to learn more. I want to learn how to be a better woman, a better mom, and a good woman to my future hubby. Oh and I'm 34 and I look 25. Come thru!!!

[@MrsTruthTeller]

I've been struggling with keeping my standards high. I've always attracted successful, chivalrous, and generous men but recently, I moved to a new city and the men here are atrocious! They pay for everything but they only want to meet up at night for drinks. They never plan any nice dates and they all seem to be too busy. My friends say that that's just the way the men here are. People keep telling me to just relax and have a good time (translation for lower your standards). And lately I have been feeling like I have to. All these men are the same here, it's crazy! They have money here but women outnumber men by a lot so they are lazy. They put in little effort because there are so many women they can choose from. I never experienced men not wanting to take me out on real dates until I moved here!! I plan on moving soon. Thanks for this video, it's stopping me from lowering my standards because men, and even other women keep trying to convince me to lower my standards more.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+MrsTruthTeller lol wow, well men in New York are not the ideal husband anyway, so I would live there have my fun then date more seriously when I move away!

[@AnnSimpsonKittyCatPuss19]

+MrsTruthTeller You need to change the men and women who are trying to get you to lower your standards.

[@Trailblazers323]

SheRaSeven1 What are food cities for single women to be in for the kinds of men we need to meet?

[@douchebagpatrol7237]

seems to me u r part of the so called 80% of women chasing the top 20% of men simple maths will tell u that only the top 20% of women can have the top 20% of men gl with that when u hit the wall single

[@pepettehousemusic999]

What city is that, nyc ?

[@stargazerlily8451]

A haunted shack, I'm done 😂😂😂😂😂

[@abonds93]

Why don't family or friends put girls on game ????

[@kayyoung9242]

abonds93 pure jealousy I think 🤔

[@essenceaquarius9958]

Maybe they don't know the game themselves

[@tijeraslack3]

abonds93 Because they don’t know. I wish my mom taught me that when a man comes to see you that he doesn’t come empty handed. Her mom taught her that but she thought it was a “hoe mentality” and didn’t teach me that. I’ve attracted so many dusties and I shut that shit down. I expect dates and a man not coming empty handed.

[@Ehlaar]

They don’t got damn know lol

[@indigoGoddess7]

@Rose Rivera I agree with you. "The crab in the bucket" mentality. When I was 18 and lost (trying to figure out what I was going to do in school) an older male sibling brought me to a woman's house. This woman was on social assistance, no high school diploma/GED, 3 kids at the time with 2 deadbeat babyfathers, no license, barely any food in her fridge (she couldn't even offer us anything! We had to bring food to her house), no job and no maternity leave. That was the day, I lost the little bit of respect that I had for him. That was his view of women and I took note of his life and her life

[@Stargazer3131]

I have just discovered your videos and I'm addicted! :-) You sound so much like myself, I don't date broke, colour struck and self hating of his own image and trying to tout that to me and think its "cute", doesn't want to pay for our dates, and long term pay for our lifestyle and for the children I will risk my life to give him!

[@will232bc]

A sister in one of your videos said: how can a man not feel embarrass about being broke? And I understand why women think like this, but I didn't understand this 5 years ago as I learned that the woman was created as a symbol of perfection. So, I got few things to say about the question: 1st, as a man I was raised by my mother and father to be a man, and I thank God for that.... I was raised to cherish woman but at the same time, not to be a fool. Anybody can be go through a bad situation in life hopefully not for too long? But aside from that, I believe is more about superficiality. Some women want 100,000$ wedding knowing that nobody can afford it? But speaking for me, I like woman with high standards, high self esteem, I can't lower her standards, I don't like being broke, I will feel embarrass to be broke... I wouldn't be naïve enough today to tell a woman to lower her standards but don't get to washed up on chasing a fantasy....

[@Luxiouriousprettyme]

U do only subtly

[@tamebunny6389]

No I understand what you're saying. Financial responsibility is key to maintaining wealth and prosperity. What good is a $3,000 hand bag if you can't turn around put $3,000 back in your bag? Now if this same woman came in with a business plan like we're paying $100,000 upfront but we're advertising this brand of tequila at our open bar and streaming a live feed ect (just like the celebs these women base their dream weddings off of) a plan for how to make that money back well now her high standards are a reality not a fantasy.

[@bive4167]

Of course men ought to be careful about golddiggers. Big difference between a woman who wants a husband with comfortable income and a gold digger who'd leave at the drop of a hat if you were to lose your money someday. I have come to like shera and her community here and most of things I agree with but among these are also entitled women who think they should just exist and men should worship them. Wouldn't wish them on my brothers and sons or any decent man seeking love. Both men and women ought to cautious about not being used and dumped.

[@lillylafleur7869]

Continue doing what you are doing!! Educating and teaching young ladies out here you are very smart and wise. I'm thankful for your KZbin channel

[@Cashina1]

Big sis, you've just raised my standards thank you

[@aliciaw3422]

I love your video's! I am a confident woman but feel even more empowered from watching your videos. Thank you for speaking the truth. x

[@mdavis7056]

Two words for this Video, "On Point"!!

[@ScarlettTantrika]

“All this can be yours” lmaooooo 😂😂😂

[@lydieb5555]

Me too!! So much!! Thanks to your videos on manifestation, my life had totally changed in one month! In one month, only, I've reached my goals, move from my country, started a new job, a new life and my bank account is quite happy... So how to say it? A thank you is not enough! And apart from that, I just enjoying all your videos :) big kisses and love from Saint Barth 😘😘😘

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Lydie Boulon wow thats womderful Glad to have helped you! :) good luck!

[@PriestessOYAShangoLadi]

You are 100% right

[@glowupguide29]

Omgz I read an article about this today. I didn't know it was you that she was talking about. she talked about her friend helping her meat this rich doctor and he bought her a bar. I'm still shocked. I really wished I knew you personally

[@marie-stellamakoumbou2709]

I just turned 20 (I’m not dating for the moment) and goodness FORBID I lower my standards for a guy 😂 Thank you so much for this video ❤❤❤

[@leslieblake2305]

A haunted Shack LOL LOL LOL HAHAHA! I cannot with you :)

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Very few Men out here did not see the proper male figure who held it down growing up. Their mammies did it all...... and think some other woman about to do it all! I’m glad I saw the standard growing up.

[@girllilio8026]

I think I’m that type of woman lol only money turns me on😄

[@janeromeeks8862]

If some people would just take a second to think about what this young lady is saying, they'd know she's telling the truth and nothing but. Women and men are hardwired differently. Personally, I'm attracted to power. To ME, that means power of body, mind, spirit and heart. Can he provide for me? Can he protect me? The ALPHA male, so to speak. There is simply no reason for any man, in my humble opinion, to get upset that some women in this world are true women by EVERY definition of that word. Some of us know exactly what we want and what to expect. MY dad was the first man to show me what a KING looked like. So guess what kind of man I'm attracted to. My dad was a real gentleman, a true alpha male and loved my mother so hard that even if the damn sky was falling, she wouldn't have taken her eyes off of him. He didn't put his hands on her, didn't call her out of her name, didn't make her cry, didn't make her break her back out in the world working either. She stayed home, enjoyed being the woman she was created to be and we had our MOTHER with us. She didn't have to struggle that way. My dad did all that. In return, my mother provided a beautifully clean house full of pleasantness, good food, respectful children who got their homework done, was at all of our PTA meetings and band stuff. As a grown woman, I NOW understand why my dad couldn't wait to get off work everyday and come home. When it came to my parents, satisfaction was a LIFESTYLE. I didn't grow up in a house where money was an issue. My DAD took care of his business! Because my mom had all that free time to teach me stuff, spend quality time with me, I grew up to be a confident well adjusted woman without emotional baggage. I grew to be KIND, RESPECTFUL, HONORABLE and worthy of a man's time and attention. If a man feels as though that is not what he wants to do then fine. The thing for him to do is to either do what it takes to get the woman he wants (as stipulated in this video) or find himself a woman who does not have these standards. Some women, and I'm not knocking them because I'm proud of them too, HAVE to go out and work. Every woman's situation is different. But I will tell you the truth. I have never ever met ANY woman who has children and works outside the house say that she "loves" it. They have ALL said that they wished they could have stayed home and raised their own babies. They tell me how they cry at work, wondering what's going on at the baby sitters and cry because they've missed milestones in their children's lives and how they wished they had made better choices. They cry because their CHILDREN cry for them every single time they have to leave them and go to work. However, my number one TOP priority when I had children was to STAY HOME AND RAISE MY OWN KIDS and no amount of anything was going to change that. I was blessed with an amazing man, God rest his soul, who took care of us and I knew beyond a shadow of ANY doubt that although he didn't start sh*t, he could damn well finish it if he had to. That's what I like. POWER. If a man wants to be treated like a KING then what's wrong with expecting him to ACT like one? How sweet does a man think I'm going to be after working all day on my feet just to come home, clean house, cook dinner and give him some soul shaking sex? Do you really think I'm going to respect him as a man if he has put us in a situation where I have to take on a more "masculine" role? Seriously? It's impossible for me to do that. I am a born that way woman and I have a whole lot to offer a man outside of sex and good looks. Right now, my children are all grown, gone off to college except for my baby girl who is 14. My children's father passed away 13 years ago protecting US and even made sure that we'd be good financially if something ever did happen to him. Because of that, although I was a widow, I WAS ABLE TO REMAIN HOME taking care of my children. I've done the best I could to finish raising them but there is ONE thing I can say, my sons know how to be MEN and my daughters know exactly how to be WOMEN. I'm 41 years old and I feel like 18. Full of strength and vitality. lol! Why? Because I didn't have to work like a dog in my younger years trying to earn a living. My man wasn't rich or wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but he made a good income, he provided a home for me and our children, put money aside and by God took care of me in every way I needed and wanted. I'm sure that there are other men out here in the world like that, but to this day I swear I haven't seen them where I live. I might need to move. lol! Just sayin... There is a lot of wisdom in what this young lady talks about and women everywhere who wants a serious relationship that leads to marriage would do WELL to listen to her. I hope some of the men (not all, because there are some who knows real when they hear it) here would step out of their feelings for one second just to consider what she is saying. It is NOT an attack on men in general. No. She's just telling the truth and sometimes the truth hurts. Why should a woman feed a man's ego if he LITERALLY cannot feed her and anything that comes from their union without a struggle? This is OLD school talk. Not every woman is down with that feministic crap that ruined families. Oh no, no no. 2 incomes these days? That's what it takes? Okay then that simply means do what you have to do to acquire that and go after that woman you want. Simple. But if it's easier to just come here to troll and bash women with old school standards then I have to say that the transparency thing is real and we see right through you. If you're that man then please raise up from here and go after the woman who has LOW values, LOW self-esteem and LOW expectations. A man throwing tantrums and having hissy fits is not a good look. Trust me.

[@milliontimesover2180]

Janero Meeks Lawd, say it one more time! They don't hear you tho!!!

[@darkphoenixempress2976]

Janero Meeks I truly appreciate that you took the time to write this out of your life story. Mine was very rocky, my father really wasn’t much of a man, he had a coke and alcohol addiction, abusive towards my mom, child molester, because his father did that to him and thought it was okay to do that on me and my sister. He worked under the table jobs couldn’t get a real job. He left when I was 3 and it’s been 20+ years since I’ve seen I’m and now I’m 26 but it’s hurtful that my father wasn’t there to show me how a woman should be treated because he had his own personal issues and was very selfish. Throughout life I’ve had issues with men left and right even when now I just kept attracting men who weren’t about shit, players, bums, abusers, thugs, I never knew what a mans love was because I never experienced it from my father. And as for my mom she had both her parents ( my grandparents) in her life but she had a rocky relationship with her siblings (aunts & uncles) and my grandma was always working and so was my grandfather but he was supposed to be showing my mother how a man should treat her but instead he tried to make sexual advances and rape my mother and also tried to do it with my other aunts so he wasn’t about shit either , very abusive, drinking habit all I heard was bad about him. But it reminds me why my cousin and another guy asked me why is it my mother, sisters, and I keep attracting these same kind of men who weren’t no good and I told them it’s because our fathers even my mothers father before us didn’t teach us how a woman should be treated and to know our worth and that’s how we kept ending up with men who weren’t about shit or that had feminine traits , bums, thugs etc. we weren’t family oriented growing up. So it’s difficult but I’m learning on how to get my power back and love myself and not settle for any man that’s of no use to me or any good where they’ve had my best interest at heart. And I truly believe that’s what is the most common problem women have today in why they keep going for for less and settling because most of women today have “daddy issues” and that’s why most women are single mothers, jumping from relationships, to relationships dealing with bums and losers, and also we have “mommy issues because we didn’t be properly be taught on how to be a woman and how women should carry themselves instead of being loud, ghetto, trifling, and seeing some of the things that our mothers went through because they thought that was okay. And now I have to be the Rosie the Riveter because i cant even depend on men because I haven’t found a man that would treat me right and with respect like I deserve and most of these men out here can’t keep a job, messing round with crazy ass women making them their baby mommas but never marrying them. And nowadays women are taking care of the men and putting time into them and the men are becoming the women in the relationship or sitting in the passenger side of their woman’s car or riding their woman’s ride because they don’t have one of their own. I see it all the time and trust I’ve been in that situation before. The main problem is Men are slacking a lot in so much it’s not funny that they depend on women too much and we’re the gatekeepers even when it comes to building a man up that’s even nerve wrecking. So it’s completely twisted & draining psychologically especially through black families because we as women don’t value ourselves and known as gate keepers know we hold the power and some use it for good and some use it for bad and that some women choose to settle for garbage 🗑 instead of a true king 👑 on how to profess, provide, protect black women on how we should be treated but it’s so messed up we don’t have our own priorities in that order. So I truly appreciate your story. It was inspiring. 🙏

[@trapgypsy22]

All of this!!!!!!!! something made me stop and read your comment...God bless you!!

[@ndgostardust645]

Thank you for sharing this. It’s important to hear stories like this and to know men like this exist!

[@moniquemitchell5092]

@JaneroMeeks Your story and everything you wrote here. hit the nail hard on the head. Anything I have ever rely on as a woman and as a respectful one. You could not have made any clearer. We have been looking for women like you. Stories like yours. To inspire. To set the standard. To show example to the men of the world. The role. The placement. And correct standard this society has lost. The structure of the man and woman. And the quality of what a true King looks like. That was your dad. A woman, a lady.. your mom. And the product of how the family structure is so important in creating healthy, feminine, lady like women.. You!! Everything I could have ever said or referenced to.. You said it here. Thank you so much for writing in detail. And for sharing that. I wish I could share your comment everywhere and love it a million times over. I agree with you. I support everything you just said. ❤️ Stay beautiful!!!

[@LR-gw3pn]

Sharing! You always hit the nail on the head.

[@Ablessedbaddie]

Equal rights doesn't mean equal gender nope!

[@lydialydia9824]

"I showed her how the game was played."😂😂😂😂

[@agatainventio9464]

this should be blasting loud on every speaker

[@misse2078]

You are still ALL THAT, so don't let them tell you otherwise , :).

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Funny Tiger thank you lol

[@betissakouassi-brou3925]

@@SheRaSeven1 You're still ALL THAT girl!im watching in 2023

[@cheynaforehand8814]

Shera you truly save lives you just don't know please never stop making content

[@njos315]

Real portrayal of our society and how man act. Bravo

[@robins6177]

“Not like the grand haunted house, more like a haunted shack” 😂😂😂💀☠️

[@Ablessedbaddie]

These men doesn't deserve a woman point black period, I'd be suprised if they even want one since they don't value women enough (homosexual behavior) and obviously can't afford one or be able care to take care of what could comes with one ie children, Unfortunately he will only be able to get desperate women who dont know their worth or place value on themselves ( having standards). I actually don't see it as a bad thing. As a matter of fact we as women should be Glad these men reveal how worthless to us they is! We should be happy that alot of these men even went out of their way with leaving a comment under a video title that describes them perfectly to prove just how useles they is! Driving shera video further home all whilst disqualifying themself!. In my opinion it helps us women know to avoid this type like the plague!. One shouldn't try to even say shit to them! It's best we Let them remain in their poor ways and hope they continue to be so blatant about who and how they are to women as it actually helps us women who *only want the best for ourselves from real men* (and by real men we mean the type of men who actually act like men and do their part they are made to do true men by their inherent nature!) Their bluntness helps us to dodge these types of mens bullets bc they obviously aren't up to par for what we seek in the opposite gender for ourselves as the best for us anyways.

[@staceywalker6673]

I get why some think your mad or a hater, etc.....but once I got to know you just a bit......I got to see what your personality was/ is like. I found your actually a very nice, smart woman who is witty an has tons of knowledge about men an how they operate, etc. I knew men were dogs an they will ALWAYS cheat.....it took me years to learn what Ive learned. SheRA is helping all these young women an ones who just dont know whats really going on. I was raised with lots of values/ morals an im a loyal lady........I have seen men cheat the night before their weddings, night after, my guy cheats an wants to leave after my loyalty of 30 years!! Now that im older an not as attractive anymore......he gets a much younger model. SheRA is only trying to help an prevent ALOT of heartache an years of having NOTHING from a man with nothing!!

[@imo.124]

Shera you are so amazing. Watching all your old videos and gaining so much knowledge and good advice. Thank you!

[@sincereiam]

People are so use to associating the word bitter with black woman that she almost slipped and said it.

[@HighheeledgypsyTV]

LMFAO!!! I love you girl. You speak the Truth. I am busting up. hahahaha.

[@pla4825]

oh im sorry i dont have room in my life for a child right now LOL

[@butterbean3892]

And thats how it should be!

[@quinessamuhammad8489]

Dang Passport Bros was pulling this crap all these years😂

[@careforjusticealways]

they have issues…

[@patriciamay2690]

Yes raise your standards ladies! Don't be fooled by losers

[@Neneham1966]

First of all I would never be in a bar to meet a man in the first place.

[@Lennymoongoddess]

Watching Feb 2022 😂 Shera is gold man!

[@keonao.3215]

Shera calling out the present day PPB @ 14:38 😂

[@workingnature3223]

Thank you for existing. I love you. sister....

[@kishaandpac4eva239]

A haunted shack😂😂😂🤣

[@consciousbeauty9244]

That demon in the thumbnail...great advice Shera 🙏🏽❤

[@chasitylarson218]

Great video. I agree...men need to step up. If I have to be the man why do I need one.

[@ImmortalGirl]

You have such a badass personality

[@charlita25]

“Haunted 👻 house 🏡 “ 😫🤦🏾‍♀️

[@tijeraslack3]

You do personal coaching because I need me a rich husband! 😂😂😂

[@denfolo5224]

@14:36 This woman was talking about passport bros a long time ago.

[@Ablessedbaddie]

Just from the title of this video its sooo true!.

[@frederickjolliff4642]

more men should be more smarter with money and resources not even bother especially if you don't have them to swander build yourself its always room for improvement

[@sunnatural1272]

Frederick Jolliff ......Look at China..Lol!!! They killed all the girls and saved the boys under their One Child Policy. 20 years later Chinese men are marrying up all the African and Black Women. Trust me, if you don't pay, someone else will and will be delighted to bring Black women home the paycheck!!!

[@phalynwilliams4119]

@@sunnatural1272 , I didn't know that they are marrying black women.

[@truthiswealth1074]

NO you didn't with the IKE pic lol 😂

[@kyracoach]

I really like these older videos. To the point.

[@tabboo9]

Don't you also do personal coaching? I love the real talk blogs. Very on point.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+tabboo9 I offer a session for $15 for 20 minutes of chat or coaching! friend me on Facebook facebook.com/shera.seven

[@tanyaaminov6079]

securitu is very important for a woman

[@jovan7437]

I love that POC women speak about this.

[@GoddessLaurel]

And 9yrs after this video was made you’re all that and a bag of chips and a cold drink to go with it! ✨✨✨💕

[@tannerc2041]

A haunted house 🏚!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@afronubian917]

Tell them!

[@va8196]

The thumbnail 😂😂

[@sunflowers2469]

wow you look completely different! beautiful then and beautiful now, just different 💗

[@JackieGQueen1]

Preach🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@I_am_midnight]

I need a man like that

[@buckheadberries8751]

This made me 🤩😂🤩I love it!!!❤️

[@beautylove5940]

True That about the "orgasm thing"... 😔.

[@jasongr3219]

I rather women have high standards, which is why I'm always complaining when they choose the worst men. I'm broke, which means stay away from me because that's a low standard, I'm good with that. A rich guy is a higher standard, as long as he's not a rapist, a pimp or a psychopath. Actually, women like pimps so idk.

[@maritzag4502]

ashira! gurrl your hilarious.😂

[@moskaamarkhel4499]

Can we manifest a specific person, if so, how?

[@SheRaSeven1]

+moska amarkhel better to manifest their qualities and someone like them... specific person is harder because they do have free will and if they are not in agreement then it won't be real

[@moskaamarkhel4499]

+SheRaSeven1 thank you!!!

[@moskaamarkhel4499]

+SheRaSeven1 Also, I don't have Facebook so is there another way to do a reading with you, email maybe?

[@SheRaSeven1]

yes u can send me a note an email at [e-mail] I can email you your reading.

[@artisticagi]

After a year of hanging with me, she starting dating rich men. 3:18

[@mdavis7056]

Lolol...@Kilo Whiskey!! I was typing fast smarta$$!! Funny!! ...On point is what I meant!!

[@spearmint4093]

great video SheRaSeven1! agree 100%. my father was absent but i had a stephdad who payed for everything.. How old are you now? and can you please show a picture of you 15 years ago?😗

[@pla4825]

You should show pictures of you when you 1st met your husband

[@Jeniffer61867]

Love her advices

[@MarqueshaMartin]

Peace SheRaSeven1....I truly appreciate your advice....the truth hurts at times....that means I'm learning something and helps me work on stepping my game up as a person. Do you have a video on men who claim "they are not kissing no azz to be with a woman".....I want to share my story with you. can i email you?

[@belizeanmom32]

Do you counsel individually?

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Kisha B yes I can do a one on one session, you can write me at [e-mail] and I can give you more information on how we can go about it! Thank you!

[@Resume08]

She put that good good on him😎

[@thelovely1553]

Now I catch on after 20 yrs of being married to a man whose not a total provider..yuck

[@habibtiz4335]

Shera to level up is like Karl Marx to communism - the shera manifesto

[@ddeast8877]

😂 I love the last frame of this video.

[@vanaphill2454]

You should teach classes and write a book on the game. Great videos.

[@kiwi5118]

I’m in Houston too. Let’s hang out

[@44aske]

I do not think you should compare players with men. Players are to women what golddiggers are men because they only want a specific thing only. And it is not men that have high standards. That's women who have that. Bacause men like different kinds of women. While women only like a certain kind of men. If men where to have same standards like women we men would only date and marry fashion models. That's the kind of mentality women display.

[@mdavis7056]

Two Words for this Video, "On

[@busterhymen6000]

that's one word, genius.

[@amberh3924]

So what do you make of a woman who has been with her boyfriend for over 2 years and recently, he has started listening and living the MGTOW life?

[@MsAyoFashola]

Amber H dump him

[@BLURRRULB]

So....did you leave him? Or he may have left you? Update?

[@Melanie-le6mw]

He got to go! 🤣

[@clare3791]

Wow this title says it all

[@georgec8210]

I don't want my wife to work either. Now I make enough that i dont need her to work. But she better be gorgeous and be amazing at sex. She will sign a pre nup and if she cheats on me she ain't getting shit. I only date really good looking girls now. Before I dated girls who made the same money as me or close to me and it never worked out cause they were not the most attractive.

[@georgec8210]

Rose Lavi​ I dated a girl for 2 years who made a similar salary to me and all she did was complain about money. She expected me to always make more than her when we worked at the same place. She left me for a lawyer and now she's engaged. I realized women who make the same money or more than me won't respect me and will become bitter. When she left me She wrote me a letter how she wasted her time with me, how I'm a loser, how I'm not a man and can't afford a newer car. I drive a 2006 Outback and I love it. She even told me once if I don't get promoted than I'm a loser and she started comparing me to other guys. Now I date girls 10 years younger who actually know how to have a good time. The sex is incredible and I buy them things cause I want to not cause I have too. They appreciate it more and when im with them I just feel way happier and alive.

[@caitnu3863]

George Chachati She made you into a man. Good for both of you. I would never date a male who makes the same or less than me. Males who try to date women in their bracket are failures. Good for you on now seeing that you need to date younger and lower income to have what's is more important to you as a male.

[@sunnatural1272]

No prenuptial. That's selfish. Use up your wife years, hard work and in the end she gets nothing. I will never be so stupid to sign anything of the sort. A man that asks you to sign is selfish and loves his money more than you. No money, no marry!!!

[@sunnatural1272]

George Chachati .....Your Ex made you level your ass up! Now you know you must spend money and buy new things to keep a female. Stop half stepping and dating women you know you can't afford.

[@lydieb5555]

LOVE YOUR VIDEOS .... KISSES AND LOVE :)

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Lydie Boulon thank you! I appreciate you!