Signs He is not the One

[@BiblicallyHandle]

This is how you help a man...by being a women he’d improve himself to get. Not by giving him money.

[@O.X.N.]

This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@spirenoir]

🎯🎯🎯

[@LoveReece1]

U betta say that sis!❤💗🙏🏾

[@MariamAli-wg6gk]

I did both (I continuously work on myself) and still nothing!! I guess some guys just don’t appreciate you the way you deserve it

[@trekstarsam2494]

@@MariamAli-wg6gk To quote the immortal words of SheRa7, "Get another one!"

[@geemale4073]

sing number ONE is he doesn' spend any signficatnt money beyond paying for a movie. erase him from your phone.

[@maried9383]

If he don’t spend the dime he ain’t worth the time.

[@coldblooded568]

@Paul no woman that loves herself will pay half your bills.

[@pinkorchid2044]

Men are natural providers, that's why they are stronger. And woman is supposed to be nurturing and caring and soft/feminine

[@toomuchinformation]

@Paul So? BM complain about BW being too masculine. If that is the case it's because they're having to work too hard; 50/50 actually ends up being 80/20 for the woman. They end up being too much in their masculine energy because of this imbalance.

[@toomuchinformation]

@Paul Yep. You just gave the game away. Dusty revealed!

[@Lovelyone1]

“I never approach a man....I don’t even approach my husband”-SheRa. 😂😂😂😂😂. Gotta love her!! Solid advice.

[@rmbree3027]

😂😂

[@theflaca]

"men like games. They lie to make it easier to get what they need". Priceless

[@brianb7059]

Sounds good! But no!

[@sonyab2u974]

Yep!

[@Greekalittle]

Especially dem dustie men

[@CS-pl1re]

This fool helped me to get a new appartement to play house with me hé really thought i was going to cook and clean. He tried to be nice for a while but he’s mask if falling and he joked about loaning the furnuture 😮😅 But is paying for everything pff what do i do?

[@elia1789]

this was a slap in my face. and it hurt...

[@vam9785]

yeah same here .... the slap of reality. But oh well better late than never

[@divinedarkfemininetarotbyt3457]

elia1789 lol

[@shashamarie4760]

Slap in my face. Almost word for word. 🤦‍♂️

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

Same here!! But you are lucky to know

[@ArmyBarbie]

😂😂😂

[@Mydadnamedmeevan]

Know your worth

[@kyracoach]

Yes!!

[@andreiawilliams6342]

Yes

[@elisaiotero-figueroa9601]

I don't understand what that means

[@tyralowe299]

How

[@LoveReece1]

@@elisaiotero-figueroa9601 it means know what u possess and what u deserve.

[@nothingbutme1150]

Another signs that he is not the one is when you meet them for the first time and they want to take you home or is persistent on going home with you ... Think about it... that person doesn't value themselves and has low self esteem because they are putting their sexual health in jeopardy. They value short term pleasure over a lifetime of serious consequences. It shows a lack of responsibility and accountability on that persons part which why would you want that type of person in your life in the first place. Sadly today this a norm in the game and many get blinded when the damage is done.

[@kmd072591]

Totally agree! How they initially approach you says a lot.

[@warmcozy]

Shannon G Agreed. I once went on a first date with a guy who asked to go home with me on the first date. I felt so uncomfortable. It didn't happen, of course. Clearly, he wasn't the one.

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

yup.very much so almost like its the norm. that is an immediate turn off wanting to come to my house

[@Buttrcreamqueen]

What about inviting you to their home as a first meet, and no date?

[@nothingbutme1150]

Thats a no no because the first date sets the tone on how the rest of the relationship is going to be. So if you go to his home for the first date why would he bother even spending money on taking you out. Think about it.

[@antisocial_socialite]

When men finally do approach me they either say I look mean, I look taken or I look high maintenance. At first I was falling for the reverse psychology until i realized the ones that usually said those things were the insecure ones.

[@sonyab2u974]

They say that because they don't know what to say and they dusty!

[@icestarr1572]

@PHILL SHIVELY Well if they're being "honest" about saying women look mean or taken then maybe they should just leave them alone and not approach them.

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Good....that means you look too expensive for brokies

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Taken means kept, high maintenance means expensive and mean means "don't come my way if you don't have your ish together". Looking too approachable can be bad and attract low level men.

[@aura5944]

What if you really did look mean?

[@Imadrinkmatea]

It’s crazy how Shera BEEN on it , been teaching women about male nature and things of that such and now it’s a trend .. BEEN doing tarot and now that too is popular. She been on . I wish I would of found her content years ago ,and though I love my babies dearly I definitely would have chosen a better father for them. But hey , they say when the student is ready the teacher will appear. I am forever grateful ❤

[@nono-tg8dn]

I so needed to hear that- "when the student is ready, the teacher appears". I wish I knew about her content sooner but I'm def in a better position now to receive her messages and to be serious about her teachings. She's a blessing and srsly got me out of a slump 🙏🏾😩❤

[@ericae6611]

It's so true about getting addicted to men who treat you really well. I could never go back to a man who doesn't put me first and go above and beyond for me.

[@vam9785]

Taking notes .... I used to talk to losers because I thought well they are people too and I should be nice to them, but she's right ... the right guy sees u and thinks less of u. A queen does not settle for cheap attention.

[@Lovesinneedoflove]

The love spell of Cheap attention just wore off of me Glad 2 b at peace single

[@kathyalex778]

I used to do the EXACT SAME THING! “Pity dating”. So dumb. Never again.

[@sm-yj7nu]

[@LoneStyleTribe]

I love when a man works for me, I feel so desired and flattered. lol I love it, and only real men love working for it. You're completely right! I also feel so feminine when that happens to and I look at him like he's a man cause he is pursuing me. It's one of my favorite feelings in the world!

[@TheSinisterMinister666]

Casey Hendricks There is none! LOL

[@Lfavored777]

When a man loves and adores you he provides. That’s the type of man I married ❤️

[@officersquarehead]

Why would anyone want to attract a MGTOW. I thought they DIDN'T date.

[@umsiee]

@@tylanrichards lol

[@umsiee]

@@janejanejane3793 daaaaayum

[@No_Show94]

Yup never approach a man

[@AO-wg9ne]

Why is that?

[@brianb7059]

This sounds like good advice! Now this will keep the gold diggers away from me when I'm at the bar trying to enjoy my drink.

[@fatmaezzahraabderrazak1452]

@@brianb7059 lool no one come across u even bruh

[@egolovely]

I am adopting you as my big sister! I'm not taking no as an answer😂😂😂

[@jcitychic]

you can borrow her on tues thurs and sun. i need her mon wed and fri lol ...... she my auntie sister all wrapped into one

[@TheMrshall1]

This is funny cause I swear I wish I could call her for tea on Saturday’s like girl let’s talk

[@umsiee]

🤣🤣🤣 we can all be sisters!

[@sensuallysexual]

@@umsiee That's what I'm Saying! Shera gives the term 'girl talk' new resonation.

[@wendizzle8950]

Ok so i'm late, which day do I get my sister?🤣🤣

[@taitai108]

She is so right. Been there and done that. It's suck when at first you think you are free spirited and want to make the first move but later on you feel the pressure of always having to. It's not a very pleasant feeling and makes you feel like you slowing losing your power 😒 yuck!

[@umsiee]

@49jubilee I agree! Learn from your experience and do better!

[@TiggysTC]

Exactly It's "unnatural"

[@Lalajewel]

taitai108 I was like you free spirited until I had to learn that everyone doesn’t deserve your free spirited self , you will lose power and men know this they will take advantage .

[@theflaca]

No man has ever spent much money on me. none of them were ever into me and i'm 52. Thanks for this brutally honest advice. It's still not too late to get them to pay to see me.

[@tiffanyassoci]

theflaca you will become a billionaire or meet one

[@stephania4940]

TIFFANY CLARK this is what I neeeed

[@olgachafeeva2828]

Then you waited too long. Sorry

[@aminah761]

theflaca me too

[@brianb7059]

That's because you would view a man as weak if they did spend money on you.

[@tonismith88899]

I've never been the type of woman to approach a man. Mom always taught me the same thing Shera is saying. If a man wants you, he'll come after you.

[@BestversionofKP]

Exactly

[@Vision2life1]

This fits all the characteristics of the guy that Im deleting from my life.

[@lisathomas2835]

Vision2life1 that part

[@oliviaseed1199]

Vision2life1 lol

[@Angelamar819]

Vision2life. Me too 2018 can't continue with it

[@kisabarbie2826]

Yesss

[@HausOfAdonis]

Vision2life he must be a loser. You’re really pretty (if that’s your actual picture in your avatar)

[@donnastubblefield7744]

Be classy. Conduct yourself like a lady. Wear nice clothes that accent your body, but do not reveal a lot of skin. Men like a mystery. They enjoy the ''chase", and you are the highly valued prize! You are the queen to his king! Be the challenge and unique. Love your videos SheRaSeven1!!!

[@dunyazade]

You have to write a book.

[@QueenJeneeneX]

dunyazade lol i guess u havent read her books

[@SheRaSeven1]

thanks for posting that !!

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

Anytime.

[@herronholford150]

Write a book? you kidding me the stuff she is talking does not work

[@jlee6772]

She wrote a book .. Am a dude and im.peeping game

[@shashamarie4760]

She said, "Their looks start improving." Omg. Trueeee Set me free girl. 💜

[@candiedsugarxo4462]

It really does lol happening to me right now

[@rosegrungerose3533]

"To go years without a title". Ooooh you hit the nail right on the head.

[@joybliss3351]

I was married to one who didn't take me anywhere for 5 years and always took his buddies along if he went anywhere so I would be uncomfortable.

[@azra5101]

I will never chase a man again, I dont even think I want one anymore, they mostly all the same, I kept dreaming of my soul mate to find one, but I dont think this exists nomore sadly

[@msrailroadtracks2920]

You are so right to date an unattractive guy you never know. I dated a guy whom I found unattractive but very nice, had money and he treated me EXACTLY like I want to be treated always taking me out to NICE restaurants and paying my bills I grew to like him because he always made me laugh and he was totally into me. I would have stayed with him but his performance was way below sub par so I had to let him go. My ex had that issue and I suffered for years so I was not about to go back to that

[@ArmyBarbie]

Shirley Harrison facts

[@stephania4940]

His performance sexually?

[@themango9644]

What issue?

[@chocolatebunny6084]

Performance?

[@Seven11seven7]

@@themango9644 the sex was bad

[@LaChanceuse]

I don't usually comment on anything online. but gurlllll, you are the truth! thank you!

[@nazraahmed2881]

SheRA you’re absolutely right cause I’ve been chasing a ex boyfriends for 2 years and now I’m whit my fiancée who’s really loved and treated me like queen 👑 omg!!

[@orubek355]

Congratulations !

[@GDBONEY]

I'm old enough to he your mother, what you are advising, is totally on point. I co-sign all of what you are expressing. When I was a young bride/fool, one of my older brothers had to sit me down, school me on the do's/don'ts of relationships. I WOKE UP!!!!!! You are a wise/knowledgeable young lady!!!! Keep your column going, to help your sisters out there rise up to queenship......God Bless!!!!

[@justinafields4450]

So True...with SOO many Black Sisters dealing with being single, and rejected by Black Men for women of other races. GREAT Video🙏👏👍❤️✌️

[@hfsmm1hfsmm167]

Oh, my goodness. Ladies... Please at least give the man you are interested in a smile and eye contact. If he does not approach you, then yes, he's not for you. Women choose.

[@wayudadada2478]

Just the most realistic, straight to the point, no bullshit, advice ever, thank you ma'am 💗

[@divineempress8539]

I've always done this. People don't believe me when I tell them these gems. I've always been taught to never make the first move.

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

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[@janessasade2777]

I've told all my homegirls about your videos! You are the truth and us "traditional women" appreciate you putting us on game boo 😘🙌🏾👑

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

Come comment to my video @ENDLESSAMBITION

[@suzan698]

your a wise woman , you have great sense of humor as well , love you

[@Amberussianbeauty]

Can I just say, you are a gift to this world for us all women

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

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[@lanibarton2504]

Oh my God. You are so right about finding a man who chases us. That's the kind of man I want.

[@MegaLadylove2012]

I think #1 sign if you go from being happy to miserable

[@terriray24]

I wish I found her in my early 20s. It would have saved me so much time and energy

[@Yogawithadorah]

You and me both but we are here now🌹 I’m glad she has all her videos still ❤

[@floraggba]

Same. Now 27, but a lot wiser. We got this!

[@vturner]

this is soo true, guys can always tell when a woman wants them

[@Omega13_channel]

I'm glad my bf is none of those things. He brings me flowers, calls or texts at least once a day, called me his girlfriend right away, brought me around his friends and his family - even his children. He takes me out to dinner, buys me great presents for my birthday, etc. The problem is that he can be insensitive and angers easily. We break up a lot. Even if he tries to ignore me, he always comes back. But I'm sick of it. Unless he gets therapy for his anger management I'm gone. I'm already dating other guys.

[@jadeproctor8959]

Lmao I’m confused

[@MultiKingvegeta]

Wow

[@pridefulebony3905]

Leave him... trust my ex was like this too. Run my bath water, bring me flowers, buy me gift, pay some of my bills. But he had major anger issues. I overlooked it until the day he almost choked me to death. GET OUT N DO NOT LOOK BACK. HE CANNOT CONTROL HIS EMOTIONS THEN HE IS DANGEROUS

[@sameerah21]

Sometimes people do nice things out of guilt. Maybe feels guilty about his anger, so he tries to make up for it in other ways. It's the same way with abusive men.

[@bescuit]

What did you do to that poor guy

[@Ms.Tamara_]

Just found ur channel today and I’m so glad I did! I really needed to hear so much of the things in your videos. I just kicked my dusty out of my house almost a month ago and I thought that I would be so lonely n down while going the motions of being single after 5 years of being there for him and being understanding all while doing everything for myself n trying to improve my life. All he did was slow me down and constantly say how I wasn’t helping him enough. It was such a waste of time n many lessons learned. I’m beautiful n have no kids and I’m so happy to be free n am so ready to level up n move on with my life. I’m a good person and I was starting to forget that I deserve so much more. Thank u for reminding me!

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

Come to my channel and give me some advice @ENDLESSAMBITION

[@kiwi07050kr]

Dang, my feelings are a little hurt because I've been messing up. hahaha! Thanks for the great video!

[@kgar007]

As a man, she is f'n right, they will improve you for the better.

[@GhostRider-870]

As a high status man I agree with these points. However, the whole 'not texting back' thing is BS because if you're asking for something THAT important then you would actually CALL. Good video.

[@survivingcovid-19onagourme5]

Great advice! My mom failed me! She NEVER told me these things! I have missed out on filthy rich men who adored me because NO ONE ever advised me! 🤬

[@steph6109]

The liklihood is that your mum never knew either. It's your responsibility now Good luck

[@carolcarolyn8928]

If she didn't tell you, she didn't know Orr didn't think it was important then. Forgive her and start learning.

[@Loved1120]

I ain’t approaching no man and definitely not chasing one ,,,Come get me and he did !!!!! !

[@sensuallysexual]

Aside from the chase I notice that a lot of men will just admire with their eyes and their body language, knowing that they'd just rather look, feeling the lack of confidence to approach, and knowing that they definitely cannot touch! As they break their necks and lick their lips while I remain classy, content and beautiful. A real man recognizes and pursues a great catch not an easy one. That's what they love to go after! It's our womanly nature to have the man insatiably attracted to our feminine energy. Divine feminine gets Divine masculine 🔥

[@vanaphill2454]

If you have to do any work to get this man, he is not worth it. Dump him.

[@dattexboy]

This sounds like my ex girlfriend. She always compared her ex to everything. I eventually took the hint.

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

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[@MsLotusBlooms]

I agree, always give the gentleman who makes you a priority your time.

[@VriEvolutionTarot888]

1:04 priority, 2 month’s maximum for him claiming you or you should be out plan B 5:20 11:20 13:30 15:30 competiton and games men love. 17:10

[@latoyabattle325]

its funny that you have to tell alot of women this but thats only because they have lost their dignity when it comes to men. they think its cute to approach men and it not. not at ALL.

[@CactusBBVegas]

agreed . women act like men these days...

[@DrGoddessMonaSexTherapistBMsc]

Great advice she ra 💜 because I was with a guy for 12 years who never gave me a title and never asked me to marry him and every guy that I’ve dated before him asked me to marry them right away so I thought in my mind eventually he will 🤔it never happened 🧐so now he shocked when I broke up with him and told him I’m no longer want to be put last on anyone’s list and now I’m dating eligible men who are successful and know how to treat a goddess

[@umsiee]

Good for you!

[@nanaamakyerewaa6656]

How's it going now

[@chizee3945]

Woow. I feel like crying. No one ever taught me what you are teaching.

[@Mrs.T305]

A man can turn out to be a total jerk even if he was the one who approached you. The success of a relationship isn't based on who approached who. It's just a gamble.

[@viktoriake8865]

the problem is many men do approach women but then leave after some time of dating. the women is left with many questions in her mind: Why did he lose interest? We had such a good time? He approached me even first? And so on. Thats when women start to chase behind him.

[@brklyn2922]

Viktoria Keß I don't chase. If he doesn't make the effort to call at least within 2 days, leave it alone.

[@brklyn2922]

Viktoria Keß Men will show interest. Texting is not enough.

[@brooklynkroess1022]

Viktoria Keß so true! I dont get why some men even aproach first and then just ignore you its confusing af

[@viktoriake8865]

Are you SheraSeven?

[@viktoriake8865]

yeah they lose interest somehow.

[@BreLee003]

I love these videos. Can you do a video on Serena Williams engagement and all the backlash she received. She said none of black guys she dated wanted to marry her.

[@AO-wg9ne]

What about Drake lol

[@l.g2791]

I literally just turned on my laptop to get my daily dose of you! What a topic I need for today too!

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

Yess it's good to never forget

[@ivivredulen1013]

I agree too; sometimes cultural beliefs also blind some women....e.g. in Africa, in some native cultures, most of your advise will seen as out of place....but it's also changing slowing these days...thank you

[@linasaidwhat]

Leticia! Keep making relationship advice videos please don't stop! You are an inspiration. You should also start a spirituality channel

[@pamelaher5845]

Carolina Sanchez she has one

[@Lalaland369]

Lol those commercials are not empowering.. More like disgusting. I swear everytime I see that deodorant commercial where the girl gets down and proposes to her man makes me want to puke. It's so unladylike & desperate. Ladies need to act like ladies and men need to act like men!

[@pinkgal206]

Whitney lol

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

Omg I hate that she asked that man to marry him. I was just so offended! Like ugg black woman begging for a man to marry her? How awful!

[@bloommoon6050]

You have high self esteem

[@naomigates30]

When she said men like games, "Basketball, football, golf lololol I died hahahahah

[@natashavaugn1018]

​ ​ I'm 21( grad student, debt free), he's 37 (divorcee w/ a kid, found out he was in debt) dating 3 months (would be 8, but I cut him off, but gave him another chance)... After 3 months dating consistently mark he said he, " still needs time to get to know me better". He was was blockedT + number erased. No time for his foolishness. Thanks Shera! #TeamNoDust !!

[@jpat989]

Why is a 37 year old man interested in a 21 year old girl? That is a red flag. Where is your daddy?

[@Allaboutlove478]

I’m sorry but he’s in a completely different stage of life and shouldn’t be chasing 20 year old girls. There’s always a reason why women of their age don’t pick these men

[@sistersforlife8233]

My spirit sister ❤️

[@ChaNelDiOr_85]

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[@bloommoon6050]

You need a tittle. Thank you Shera you are the best relationship advisor of this time.

[@kits1111]

When narcissists men speak they have no emotions or feelings in their eyes ... Do you agree girls ? Wats ur experience?

[@lydiamontey9194]

My ex kept trying to get me back while he was already seeing other girls. After he got one of them pregnant he was still texting me trying to see me telling me how he's not over me bla bla. I guess she finally caught him and made him text me and admit he was having a baby. If I was her I would be so upset my man texting his ex telling her he's never got over her and wants to see her and talk.. How sad.

[@ayoluwabainabey7535]

lydia montey hh

[@mssummerrose1]

6:24 absolutely true... they change b/c they're happy and you see their looks in the light of how they behave with you and THAT makes a person beautiful, if you didn't see it in the beginning 7:48 women often are not used to being treated well (no father etc.) so they're used to the crumbles, not always b/c they don't "have self-worth"... 8:37 men chase directly, women attract with presenting what the man wants: maturity, happiness, kindness. self-love, etc.

[@cakehungrygirl]

This girl cracked the code. She’s showing y’all the rules to the game😂😂 be smart and listen ladies!

[@lwinston5950]

Mine chases me and I have his attention but his money isn’t right ... he pays for all dates but that’s about all he can do . Wants to do 50/50 if we live with each other . He’s a very nice man but am I wrong for wanting more than that ?!?

[@kaytee789]

Same, what did you end up doing?

[@bessie6785]

No you’re not wrong for wanting more than that. You deserve it. Don’t lower your standards

[@leeslyrose]

It’s a trap. He was doing all this to get you under his wing but then you will be the roommate

[@themango9644]

I hope you let him go sis

[@kits1111]

If he is the man he will work hard to earn for u n not convince u for 50 /50

[@simoly7893]

My man chased me and he didn’t get me directly and he has been obsessed with me Since day one. He knows i’m hard work and a challenge but he likes it

[@marygathigira8904]

In Shera we believe

[@nappyscribe1987]

Showing this one to a Very Important young lady. These values aren’t being practiced by many of the young women. They say.. men don’t go for that. You have to show you’re interested AND have sex. I say if others are doing that, you be different! She may not listen to me because I’m 63. But she may listen to you. But maybe not, because of your looks (she may say.. that’s easy for HER to say) but when I messaged your video to her, I said it doesn’t matter how you look 🤣. I just feel that no matter HOW you look, people judge you according to the way you judge yourself. You convey that you think you’re trash people treat you like trash.

[@sheenachante]

Omg why haven’t I found you years ago. 😩💔I finally have a big sister 🥰🤣

[@bre970]

sheena chante' I agree and now I’m paying it forward with my niece and daughter

[@Shayvideos1]

Very true about how they become appealing to you when he shows you how well he treats you and others will see it to.

[@MaryJane-tr6uc]

Man, thie hits home so much. Thanks you Shera for helping me sift through lol and dump my dusty

[@bloommoon6050]

Ya!!!!! Don’t let losers spend your valuable time. A nice wealthy guy could be enjoying you company

[@ceeceeme1]

That's why you gotta cast a spell on that mofo and manipulate his ass like he does women.. tuh okayyyy lol

[@kayclark289]

fshionclass lol

[@Cathleendeluna]

Ty fly sexy shit LMFAOOO U WATCHING ALL HER VIDEOS 😂😂😂

[@bescuit]

Why wife up a manipulator? lol

[@williamjames4031]

I am really happy for you. Control his ass.

[@KimAkia]

Agreed! dropped some great jewels in this video

[@xMelfina]

My ex never allowed me to pay for one things while being with him. He does speak about our future together, getting a ring, and a house. But never bought me a gift

[@debbyluxe]

Future faking that’s what he did with you sorry about that

[@cj3704]

I know women who text their husbands/boyfriends ALL the time. And I mean ALL the time. If the guy doesn't text back, the women get upset. So I'm wondering what your thoughts are about that, SheRaSeven1? If the woman texts him occasionally and basically acts normal, then I completely agree that the guy should be texting back pretty quickly.

[@lataramccraw9748]

Me either...never approached a man first and never will

[@ummnadia]

he was never sure what to call me

[@heatherchando5873]

He trying to make you guess and worry about him! Fuck Him!

[@LoveReece1]

I started spending time with my ex and don't call him anything. When I tell somebody about him I say my ex. He thinks we're back together but subconsciously I see still him as an ex. He tells me and shows me he loves me all the time and I tell him, "I love KZbin" He thinks I'm saying I love u too. 😂😂 I know he's not my husband...smh. He adores me but I just think he's cool. The moral of the story is if a man can't give u a title it's because you dont hold one in his life.

[@ckezzy5011]

@@LoveReece1do you still speak to him now? Did you manage to let go?x

[@arlenedennis9446]

Several of these happened to me and we use to argue about it all the time . He is back with her now even after he talked about her like a dog to me . I wish I would have found your videos sooner .

[@lydiamusima5840]

My experience of heartache and embarrassment with my relationships or friendships with men has taught me important lessons. Now I’m quite strict and neutral with men. I don’t wait in line to make personal contact. Even I’m interested in a certain person I don’t give them any special attention. There’s no more anxiety as to whether he contacts or not as I don’t send messages. I have loads of phone numbers, social media contacts and never make contact by any means. No texts, no DMs no comments on posts and no expectations

[@Lynn-r7x]

LOL this is sooo true. I try to tell my coworker all the time her man is not IT for her. He calls her "bitch" he doesn't listen to her etc. But then she will see my boyfriend bringing me gifts and food and stuff to my desk and she is like "omg that is so nice *name* doesn't do that!" I'm like girllll. My fiance is not considered to be traditionally sexy or fine or anything. He is really cute but he is a little shorter but he treats me like a QUEEEEEN. My friends notice his actions more than his height now lol

[@noik_11]

Why didn’t I come across this two months ago!!! Watching everything so you can keep me in CHECK.

[@btfields323]

All these rules😫 jeez i just want God to put a sign over his head saying they the 1. This too complicated

[@sweetiee-e2i]

I never thought I'll subscribe this lady

[@iaelborntosing9756]

You always speak the truth. Your videos are gold 👏👏👏👏👏

[@KatrinaMidgette]

Maaaaaan I wish I would have seen this or heard this 10 years ago!

[@brieze1233]

All red flags applied 2018...2019 gonna work it.

[@SPONGEBOB8900]

This is solid advice😁 nothing but truth!

[@Communitychoud]

Wish I found her 6 years ago I was 20 this would have been so helpful : (

[@gigibearplays1]

seriously 😅😂

[@OrangeBalls-u3v]

It's okay whatever happened back then but now that you found her you learn things become a better version of yourself

[@OrangeBalls-u3v]

It's never too late

[@kadzadejlorena5154]

that's so right that it makes me cry...

[@valrobinson547]

Damn! Have you been in my back pocket the last 6 months! Damn! I say dayummmmm! U r 1000% accurate sistah!!

[@BBC4.0]

I totally agree

[@artisticagi]

Go and get that feeling of what it feels like to be chased by a man. 6:00 I never approach men when I go out 14:57

[@Devorshe]

This video was most definitely for me!🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tiamaria1581]

Girl u definately speaks truthfully...i wish i had kwn u b4...thnk u fr sharing ur knowledge & being apart of my life....continue to do wat u r doin, u r doing an awesome job dat others r afraid to do....

[@reginabroughton5917]

They will do that approach but than want you to call and text them, irritating ".