How to Upgrade your Look Fast to Date Up

[@caressaclark1042]

"I'd rather walk all day in heels than have to pay bills"😂😂😂

[@CelestialGoddessImani]

Caressa Clark I love her

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Caressa Clark I'm with you on that!

[@missball404]

Caressa Clark lmao😁

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Caressa Clark I agree with you. 😉

[@queenrocksradio2677]

I have a spinal injury can't wear heels lol

[@starchild8107]

Dress for the man you want not the dusty you have !

[@jazz1327]

Rd z

[@nuninuninu5095]

@@butterflyqueen9260 watch more videos lol. Also watch Michaela Pink. You have to rethink "love".

[@nuninuninu5095]

@@butterflyqueen9260 no worries. I thought you were asking how do I stay focused on leveling up and dating/marrying up and not falling in love with a man who has you paying for stuff cause you're in love. No matter what, hoping all is well with you.

[@nuninuninu5095]

@@butterflyqueen9260 continued blessings for you.

[@astraaea]

Also eat clean and DRINK TONS OF WATER. A plastic surgeon friend of mine always says creams won't do half as much as being well hydrated and fed will, and they will too prolong your beauty (plus being cheaper).

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

SheRah is right. I had an ex who would sabotage my efforts at the gym. He would bring all kinds of stupid food in the house pick arguments about me going to the gym even though he met me going to the gym. Then he wanted me to dress down and like a dummy for love I listened and 40 pounds later I was mad. And I was really mad when he started looking at other women that I use to look like. Never will I ever again let myself go or dress myself down to make anyone else feel better about themselves. Don't do it it's a set up. And then when the relationship ends your looking stupid. Always look and be your best and don't let anyone get you off your game. If you stay ready you don't have to get ready.

[@msmichelletoliver651]

SHENA CROWE Amen! Preach I lost weight it wasn’t easy it took me several years I went fr size 20 to 2 now everyone is saying don’t lose no more weight but when I was fat no one ever said ur getting fat

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Michelle Toliver yep when your back in the mix then it's a problem but when you were getting fat noone slapped the donut out of your hand no they continued to watch you eat yourself into Oblivion. Yep the hate is real...when you tell people your on a diet or watching what you eat they want to entice or peer pressure you into eating something stupid. Congratulations on your weight loss that's a huge accomplishment. No matter what you do people will always have something to say and I feel like they are just waiting in the woodwork for you to get back fat again.

[@brklyn2922]

Congrats on your weightloss!

[@brklyn2922]

Agree! People will try to sabotage your self esteem if you let them. They are watching you too for a slip up.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

BRKLYN 29 yep this will never happen to me again...

[@vivveene]

Truth. I have always asked myself, 'if I would date me, if I were a man.' There! I got my answer.

[@mekkaabdul3176]

Viv - 😭😭😭

[@ronellgerald7317]

SAME!!! I decided to work on myself until the answer is yes

[@vivveene]

F Unis: That's the plan. How have you been handling level up while quarantined.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

Fantastic way to put it 👍

[@mikasjewels5772]

Ladies: 95% of your wardrobe should not be jeans and sneakers.

[@Latte-girly90]

Mika Fryer yesss!! Get you some heels and skirts

[@Tay-mj1wu]

Mika Fryer dresses, Blazers ,pencil shirt and heels then? I'm going to try out this very nice authentic perfume. It's pricey but seems worth it.

[@brklyn2922]

Jamaican Tay I work in a very cold environment. I wear dress pants and feminine blouses but I wear skirts and dresses outside of work.

[@DarkAries76]

You shouldn't go on a date looking like you just got off from work at the warehouse or cleaning houses.

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Mika Fryer true.

[@goldenticket9211]

Yes you are right. Family will trick you too especially in the black community. Plenty of overweight educated women with good jobs who insist on always dressing comfortable and not working on that attitude. But they family set them up with that girl you doing fine, getting yo money, education and the right man gone take you as you are. Dont change for these men. And a lot if them are getting used by broke men.

[@diamantechica5201]

100% true

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

And they also set you up by saying that you’re doing too much... I remember even in college, I use to like to wear heels and blazers and they would be like “where are you going?? Why are you so dressed up??”... even my own mother told me that I was vain because I get regular mani/pedis and wax, I told her that it’s apart of normal grooming😁

[@BabyKush420]

My dad doesn’t even know I’m not working right now.... cause he’s just gonna nag me about being independent hehe his wife is 50/50 so I laugh at them both now 🤭🤭🤭

[@theeladyj]

So true

[@LaBellezaMorena]

You’re so right! You’re always right. I’m so glad I found your channel at 20 years old. I’m already attracting better and better for myself!

[@jennikasanon7565]

Katia Bella I'm 20 too & foreal right , I feel so wise beyond my years

[@Beauutyy1]

I'm 20 too!!!

[@venna1520]

Congrats Y’all I’m listening her for my future, glad we found her before too late.😌

[@0024811]

Damn I wish I knew her 11 yrs ago..but im learning now.

[@ceceblooms8666]

Im 20 too😍..any success so far..or tips on how to level up on a college budget?Help please😍

[@goodwonderful3189]

"they don't curse all the time - cause they're not as angry" 😂

[@4exquisiteservice680]

"Because they're paid" 😀

[@iaf4454]

​@@4exquisiteservice680 ❤❤❤

[@zuribreeze4887]

“Your feet will go numb after a few hours anyway, you won’t even feel it”. 💄👠💋 ~SheRa

[@3rdeyeperception47]

She is definitely telling the truth. I'm a man of means. I've had my share of women. Broke and with money. I knew in my heart what I wanted that would make me happy. I married a hustler. She is cute,smart, sexy, and classy. Has her own wholesale travel business. October will be 2 years of marriage. I sent this video to my 22yr old daughter. Just want her to level up.

[@three7446]

anthony mosely im just glad you don’t have a son because this is a sugar baby arrangement. There’s nothing wrong with dating a man with money but this youtubers says being in love is wrong and having emotional support and friendship is “weak”. Do you genuinely want that horrible of a life for your kid? To always be on guard and never trusting your partner because you both just take from each other and use each other?

[@HoneyBee4163]

@Ella You are young. God never intended for you to meet, date and marry when you fall in love. Most marriages around the world are arranged and their divorce rate is lot lower than here in the states. This dating concept is a western civilization concept. The bible actually says HUSBANDS are to LOVE their wives as Christ loves the church....and women are to RESPECT their husbands. It still exists here, a man would have to ask permission from her father to marry. If he could not provide better than Dad....the answer would be no.

[@cosmiccrush22]

@@three7446 one way to look at it

[@taliahali9827]

Say what y’all want, this woman KNOWS exactly what she’s talking about. I’ve been taught my my aunt lol if what you’re doing is working cool but if not, what do you have to lose?

[@theflaca]

"Spend that money and improve your looks first. That's what matters to men. That's all that matters to men." This is more correct than perhaps even Shera7 would realise. In an interview with a top twice registered psychiatrist, Daniel Amen, he stated, and I quote, " men judge a woman's entire character based solely on her looks. THey will become completely stupid in the presence of a beautiful woman". I have since seen examples of this behaviour especially on youtube. A female pianist plays pretty well but like many others as well. All the youtubes contain comments largely from men stating how wonderful her libretto is, how great her pianisimo was in that 2nd movement, how dramatic and imaginative her rendition of the finale was. REALLY? If they were just audios without video, no male would even stop for long on any of her youtubes, and probable even been harsh critics. So why do they give her such accolades? She wears the skimpiest minnie showing maximum inner thigh just covering her bush, she never wears sleeves, always strapless, with the bodice slung as low as can be legal, and her back is completely exposed to the start of her arse. Her look sells the CDs, not her talent.

[@nuninuninu5095]

Hi what's the name of the pianist please?

[@cUser691]

@@nuninuninu5095Possibly concert pianist Yuja Wang but she is extremely talented. Unlike many other concertizing pianists who let their talent speak for themselves and who dress more to moderate standard clothing, Yuja sometimes wears things more suitable for a stripper; she dresses provocatively and some say unsuitably and inappropriately but husbands attend her concerts with their wives and later go home and have a 30 min appointment in their bathroom with a box of Kleenex tissue. It could also be Uzbekistan born concert pianist Lola Astanova. She too is extraordinarily talented + knows how to do the “sexy classical pianist” thing with the long dark hair and tight gowns showing boobs. Both pianists are very talented AND both know how to attract wider audiences especially the men to their classical music events and symphony performances.

[@thankuwelcome2153]

Motivation! I almost forgot how atractive Iam .untill I started watching her. AND stepped my game up.

[@learnEnglishwithhannah5724]

Anybody sum up here please or adds shera’s ideas:here are what I remember Look your best High black heels Nice hair color that fits skin color Clothes not too tight not too large Dress your age Have your car clean Wear short dress Clean and polished

[@missybella9046]

I tend to get more compliments from women about my appearance. Little girls will look at me up at down and smile at me. Men will assist me by opening doors or letting me cut lines. Your appearance and presentation does make a difference

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Yes‼️ Sameeeeee

[@treaty3848]

Throwing out my wardrobe in trash bags while watching this lol. I had so much fugly stuff I was still wearing belonging to my ex. Bye bye "pick me clothes"

[@lilnecababy]

Yasss I just googled classy women's clothes 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@tomaitoe]

Sis! I just finished putting three trash bags of fugly clothes outside and saw this comment #confirmation

[@leeslyrose]

Take them to goodwill at least, not the dumpster 😩

[@ronellgerald7317]

Treaty Auto Repairs I’m doing this tomorrow nothing bad can come from a fresh start

[@princesa_247]

🤣🤣

[@lexnicole9599]

yall need to stop wearing them synthetic wigs to the point where they get frizzy and matted

[@mikasjewels5772]

Lex W lol!

[@jasminepearls1047]

Hot boiling water or flat irons on low on wet hair.

[@DarkAries76]

Yes some will wear the hell out of a wig.

[@Tay-mj1wu]

BlaqueViolet lmao and some don't even bother to wash it. 😂

[@LaReginaPatrizia]

Lex W True but a frizzy wig did not stop Irene Major from landing a billionaire. Lol However, they can always apply a little heat to the synthetic wigs. Also, a little frizz looks more natural. Straight synthetic weaves often look shiny and unnatural when they are brand-new.

[@staceywalker6673]

Your sooo honest an to the point, without trying to hurt others feelings.......a bit sarcastic, but funny. The women who talk bad about SheRa, most i'm sure have little or no life experience. either have never been cheated on, don't know men at all, or are in denial. On most of her vids SheRa is on point!! What took me 40 plus yrs to learn, shes teaching everyone for free.....she is NOT a man hater.....shes only being 100 legit. I know there are tons of women who truly believe most men are faithful, nice moral guys.......I wish they were......they just aren't!! Look at all the gorgeous women in hollywood, models, actresses, singers, idols........they ALL have been cheated on!! Men for some reason just cant be faithful. SheRa has sooooo much wisdom in her head.........I thank SheRa7 for giving us all this valuable information!! My memory is fading an I keep forgetting lots of stuff.

[@mariekretzschmar34]

Followed you since your mortuary school/days..! You are worth ALL my free time, time, any money it would take to learn from you. Thank you for all you do. 🌎

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

22:00 "when you're dressing and put yourself together, remember it's not about doing what you like it's about doing what men respond to." Similarly, I've realized that I shouldn't wear my favorite colors, I should wear the colors that look best on me. I used to hate the color pink but I realized that it looks so nice on me. It compliments me. It makes *me look better.* therefore I like it.

[@bootsmade4walking]

SO TRUE!! I need to remind myself of this!!

[@user94585]

“Wedges are a tell-tale sign.” I live for wedge and kitten heel shade.

[@Nkeabands]

Thank you so much for this video. I've been following you for years and when I find myself stagnant in my level up journey, I watch your older videos to keep me on track. I love that I can notice visible differences from then and now. I'm about to turn 20 but I know what I want in life and I know what kind of men I want to date. I know that working on myself now will bring me further ahead. I'm currently breaking down the old me in order to build the NEW me and match the frequency of all my desires. Thank you Shera!

[@rollinggstonee]

relatable

[@epd0126]

im noticing that women are looking either too trendy (black nails, long un natural video hair, instagram eyebrows) or super afro centric (mohawks, face piercing, shaved head)..what happened to just trying to look feminine and attractive

[@BabyKush420]

I thought guys loved 40 inch hair after Nicki Minaj and clermont twins quickly learned only dusties like it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@whatsonhermind1768]

epd0126 girllll you’re right

[@amilllion1]

Why care, do you!🤷🏾‍♀️

[@cosmiccrush22]

@imjustsaying yes high class unique afrocentric

[@ancientgypsy8338]

I feel that your videos call other women out of their masculine energy and back into their feminine. That's not a easy thing to do congratulations and thank you.❤

[@secret-garden]

So much of this resonates with my soul. Thank you again Shera! Tomorrow I shall wear my heels. Pencil skirt and blouse are always intact. Face also shall be beaten. Thanks for the strong word and encouragement!

[@OTMaraH]

Learning before i turn 18, im going to give myself a whole new look.🤗😍. Thank you ashera😚

[@Latte-girly90]

Otmarah Kortram yassss 😁👍 I turn 18 later this month! I'm trying to get this info for when I graduate

[@OTMaraH]

Blogger Queen thats wat im talkin about😂👏👏

[@01lei]

I’m 18 now too ^^ I’m having problems Bc of my attitude, speech and anger problems but nothing I can’t work on, it’ll just take me a while. I’m already starting to clean out my wardrobe just to switch it with my classy items as I work in the summer! Going to start college downtown looking like I LIVE IN THOSE NICE HOUSES 🌝

[@trinitee624]

sameeee. I turn 18 in september ! Lets get ittttt👏🏽👏🏽

[@Ninapoles]

@@01lei omg same just found her page and I'm going to college in the fall!

[@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a]

Your like a big sister, thank you for your advice. I'm turn 30 this year and I'm need to work on some things for myself

[@missb2583]

The

[@snapbak2fit]

Omg your bringing me back to who I was before my last child. I already made me hair appointment and nail appointment. This is exactly how I thought... your 100%

[@debbiegreen408]

You're so right some of the women I see on a regular are so out of date. They always comment on me when I pass by them to my room, I'm a teacher. They say it sarcastically. Do I care? No! These teachers wear flats everyday. I mean Middle School and High School. When I walk in my look demands respect. My hair and makeup is on point. My nails, and outfit is popin. And the shoes, lets just say sometimes I can't feel my toes in this one pair of sandals. Years ago a man told me to always dress for a man. Like you said earlier, make sure our undies are matching and up to date. Everyday I go to work I'm shinning. Like a diamond! Redo yourself! You are so correct speaking on this subject. Never get comfortable. Thanks.

[@Kim-pc8rs]

Sophia Loren is who will be my Icon for my transformation. I plan to have full transformation from head to toe.

[@genevawelch9865]

Kimberlie she’s one of my level up inspirations too!

[@susannahdean584]

Hmmm...I'd be interested in a 'how to get broke men to leave you alone' series, lol

[@queenie_the_virgo]

Susannah Dean tell them upfront you need money and I mean like rent money at least $1000 cash.

[@brklyn2922]

But some men are so rude though. They would say something like, what would I get if I give you this money...so annoying. I can spot them from far away!

[@naturalcharm222]

BRKLYN 29 New York broke man act this way. Especially Brooklyn men.

[@queenie_the_virgo]

BRKLYN 29 they get a thank you.

[@user-og8ii5dc4l]

It might take some time, but broke men know who not to approach. Just like SheRa is saying in this video, "People treat you how you look." You can carry yourself in such a way that let's them know to back up. It's the way you walk, your confidence, etc. But sadly, some of the dusty ones are dumb and will try anyway.

[@antisocial_socialite]

Girl! You're 5'9"!! I thought u was a shorty🤣 I love what you're saying in this video but girl here in NYC pulled together looking still attract the broke men cuz they think they can get a free ride 😅

[@jdbailey442]

ayitah69 Yep, no lies told. Even dusties with nothing to offer try to holler at polished women, sigh.

[@queenrocksradio2677]

IONENABILLION PREACH!!!

[@lilnecababy]

Same in DC

[@learnEnglishwithhannah5724]

You are a good help for women to be self confident and have successful relationships with the right men for them... thanks and big kiss from France 🇫🇷

[@sarahburciaga9147]

Yes I went to the grocery store, did my hair and makeup wore business like pants with dress shoes. Cute guy kept bumping into me.. Saw some wife's giving me the hairy eyeball.

[@florenceh.manswell3855]

I need to go out alone...i am not comfortable but I have to do it

[@ladyfay7777]

This tho

[@jacqueline9575]

You can do it, I always go out alone to night clubs

[@vevomaxx5779]

LOVE THIS LADY. SHE DEF KEEPS US GOING.

[@feliznavidad6958]

That explains so much. I've been told I'm intimidating, constantly told I'm out of guys league even though I dont wear makeup (but I have long hair, a naturally model face from what I've been told and a skinny hourglass body with naturally massive breasts). Older men are pretty much the only guys who approach me. Guys my age act inadequate.

[@TheSolsticeShop]

I come from a family that expects me to pay for things and I feel like I shouldn’t and I should have a man that will take care of me. I’ve been watching your videos and I am learning a lot. Sometimes I don’t feel like I value myself cause my family is depressing and it makes me depressed.

[@Solotv84]

Ixamara Castaneda so a guy paying for you would make you not depressed? Real Men respect women who can take care of themselves

[@TheSolsticeShop]

I do take care of myself it’s just disappointing that men in this generation are not being the providers anymore that’s what makes me sad.

[@sunnysider5855]

Don't listen to this loser he frequently comes onto here to troll. Would you want a man like that? You're paying half the bills and he's spending his free time trolling women online. Is that sexy to you? No so don't listen to these losers, keep watching she ra and don't even waste your energy answering and reading these total failures for men.

[@truthdude8849]

Thats part of what comes with equal rights. Men cant be providers if women make money too

[@sfab5039]

GIRL DONT FEEL BAD IGNORE THE TROLL HES BROKE. IF YOU'RE WITH A MAN YOU SHOULD BE TAKEN CARE OF IGNORE YOUR FAMILY. THEY SHOULD BE HAPPY YOU WANT THE BEST OF THE BEST

[@tacarragalaxy2483]

I like wearing heels I can shake my butt when i walk lol

[@danadane561]

LMAO!!!

[@roses4me451]

"Is he watching me walk away? Yes, he is". (Gloria from "Waiting to Exhale")

[@mamacocolilo105]

Isn't that how u attract a dusty? Think classy 😉.

[@JanniqueB89]

I love wearing heels too. My confidence and posture is always better when I have them on. I feel like a Goddess.

[@homest1454]

SheRa - a lot of your older videos are really good - in addressing How to Meet Rich Men or How to Use Your Feminity to Attract Affluent Men - What type of Woman Does a Rich Man Date.... etc. They are also really funny. Gooooooooooooooooooo shera

[@caprispillingtheteaLST]

Hey Sista Pisces Ashera, Yes I love this video. Some females really do need to upgrade their look. They think just cause they been with their man for years their not suppose to upgrade the way they look. If I was a dude I would not want my woman looking like an old grandma. But also if a person loves you, they will be with you whether you look good or not. But still, enhance your beauty.

[@vevomaxx5779]

Keep the freshen up bag in the car.

[@three7446]

The way you laugh and say “ok” is like you’re a Disney villain lmao

[@sfab5039]

FACTS I WAS AT A CASINO AND 2 DUSTIES TALKED TO ME BUT WERE TO AFRAID TO ASK ME FOR MY ##### I WASS THRILLED

[@queenrocksradio2677]

SD W 😂😂😂

[@ShayLamere]

I just want to thank your mother & sister for giving you us! Cause this game is saving more women than birth control 😅

[@nappyscribe1987]

I’m married. I use your advice for getting hair clients 😊. Just like people can attend Alcoholics Anonymous for eating disorders.

[@boitumelokeabilwe946]

Laziness and fear will rob you the life you want!

[@nuwill-rising6222]

Attractive black actresses: Nia Long, Saana Lathan, Angela Bassett, as far as brunettes are concerned.

[@jeaniek4980]

Leggings under a dress or skirt look nice when it's cold outside. Also in New York in the winter time you have no choice or freeze. The other option is warm tights.

[@lwestbrook8325]

You need to create a beauty book!

[@whatsonhermind1768]

Soooo smart, I’m definitely still in the process of leveling up

[@oko_okano]

I am 5'9'' and I wear heels all the time! :)

[@TeiRen2012]

It is interesting that instead of taking the advice, everyone on here both men and women resort to attacking black women. We love to hate on each other it seems. We especially love to down black women when black men are often even worse off.

[@stephaniemartin5693]

omg Ashera I just noticed that you got over 17,000 subs on this channel and over 20,000 on the other channel. im so glad i found your videos two years. i sub all your channels and take everything you say seriously. love your advice.

[@Mia-sp8jc]

Ohhh! Yes and I just found this channel, I was like WAIT, am I seeing double?!

[@CelestialGoddessImani]

Nikki M. Me two yesterday she fix my life lol

[@Mia-sp8jc]

Yes! SheRa is fixing my thinking and this is fixing my life.

[@CelestialGoddessImani]

Nikki M. Girl I have this sugar daddy and amma do my best to get them coins

[@carolecollins585]

I agree with the wig thing. Save up and get a human hair wig Men know when they feel plastic fibers Add that real one to the list for him to pay for. You'll look cheap in his eyes for 25.99.

[@LaReginaPatrizia]

Carole Collins I'm not saying that she is wrong but the men with money don't really care about an inexpensive wig. At least, from what I have seen.

[@kxlot79]

Lady you are FUNNY! So vibrant and real, no wonder you got so many copycats and content thieves!

[@heatherschaeffer9540]

I think you are great, I wish I seen your videos years ago. You give great advise to women and men. Sincerely, Heather

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

I better jump on this now while men still think I'm 23-25 lol

[@katiewaity3413]

so u are older and look younger?

[@sabri1913]

Lol yes gal !

[@belladonna1083]

I will stick with my cats and freedom ..I am married to myself,💚 I love watching your videos very entertaining❤️❤️❤️

[@rollinggstonee]

@26:55 this is accurate. my new bf got me an amethyst bracelet for my birthday. we’ve only been together a few weeks. it isn’t diamonds but this is a win for my level up journey. ✨✨ dress the part.

[@Shineynsparkles]

Long hair brunette, mohagany, brownish blonde and cute but classy And wear nice things look like wifey :) Nails and toes a must and skin be flawless Your makeup must must must be like classy and effortless!

[@jasminepearls1047]

Sun dresses, nice jewelry custom or not.

[@maryjosetorres2697]

YOU INSPIRE ME TODAY!!!! I am going to upgrade my look starting tomorrow, i will keep in contact!!!! Thanks!!

[@sherrita8582]

You're rite,I did a makeover a year ago at 46,and when dating o appeal to what men like...cause in every man is an " old fashioned guy"

[@lawdhammercy4448]

What all did you do? What do you mean, specifically by "an old fashioned guy"?

[@nuninuninu5095]

I think she's saying despite modern times, men are still the same. They want a pretty women. Looking good to them is actually more important than being educated and having your own money. Men innately want to take care of a good looking woman.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

I like your advice, but let's be honest noone wants good advice. You have to look the part for the part you want to get. Let's put on our listening ears ladies. 😃

[@goddess22233]

2023 and these rule apply ❤

[@QueenOfPrinciple]

Wowww you rally told the truth about the women they go out with not being on their level. I have a lady like that I take with me wen we go out. She doesnt put herself together as well and then she acting funny.

[@hollysorenson4898]

Lol you said you weren't gonna be on long and it turned into a 44 minute video but I'm not complaining :)

[@jasminepearls1047]

lol

[@Aquariuswonder86]

You must’ve not seen how long some of her other videos are. 44 minutes is short lol. I’m here for it tho 🙌🏽❤️

[@999Lumen]

Excellent advice!

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

999Lumen Exactly excellent advice.

[@CELEBUTAIN]

I'm a firm believer of grace honestly. You can conspire and follow all the tips these amazing women are giving you. But the life u are destined to live chooses u.

[@takeactioncanada297]

You are teaching me so much. Thank you thank you

[@nattyrocberry]

I I watch this video already and they just came across my timeline tell me to watch the game and I’m so glad that I did because I was so depressed I was so sad when walking around my hair all over the place my so-called man just left we’re on vacation and I’m going through a lot of family stuff and now that I’ve watch this video I am about to put myself together and I know you wanna know why my mail notification forgot and did not take me up because he had already planned this vacation and he did not know me yet so thank you Sheeera because when he come back he’ll see that upgrade it leveled up Natty

[@books6000]

I hope you are doing better, the family issues resolved and back to your old self and leveling up.

[@nattyrocberry]

books6000 I am and I have !

[@angelinavitaleco9640]

You are awesomely funny and thank you great video. Love your authenticness

[@ProsperityULLC]

I kinda don't like to compete. I'll admit it. It may be an insecurity, but I see it more as me wanting someone who wants me. I don't like being an option.

[@taliahali9827]

Kevin Ferere if your woman is beautiful she’ll always have options her being with you just shows you’re the best one

[@ProsperityULLC]

That's with anyone tho.

[@taliahali9827]

Not really some people don’t have many options

[@faceofantasy1194]

Men always want options. It's I. Their nature

[@pamemarald3601]

well my two cents...rich men don't show that they are rich..they behave normal....they expect the other person to be normal as well.....that woman can have any type of personality, classy, tacky, gypsy, whatever goes....they are open minded but what they like is honesty, genuineness, some purpose, goals in life, self contentment, which means that you are already happy...hahaha even without them....lol thats the most important thing....if the woman expects them to spend money right away....they would still deal with her but in their mind put her in the category of business woman.....they would not be serious about her at all....it would last as long as they r not bored...then quickly that woman will be history....rich men like genuineness, any kind of look goes, make up , without makeup.....glamour, simplicity...as long as the woman is happy and whole and they like her individual personality.......

[@iStorm-my5fp]

Also do a video on how to reject men politely in like a party, bc I dont want to discourage the other men there from encouraging me

[@Mia-sp8jc]

I love your advice and your delivery.

[@IamKarryanne]

I cut my hair off...before the bald head movement. I know i'll have to switch it up to land the type of man that'll take care of me .lol. Well at least i'll feel comfortable when i take it off...my wig that is.

[@SheRaSeven1]

IamKarryanne that's true for me. It may be the highlights that bring out tones in your skin

[@letmeeaturbrainz150]

I've been told by a lot of men and women that I look pretty with my bare face and been asked am I wearing foundation even when I'm not. Do you think I should still wear more makeup? I do fill in my brows and wear eyeliner and mascara.

[@annakarina8417]

Lipstick makes huge difference, you can skip foundation

[@Nofretari]

Remove any tattoo that is visible when wearing clothes to look classier.

[@Nofretari]

Farah Bee then go for a lower class man because most truly high class men find it low class and crass. Sometimes new money millionaires might be okay with it but not old money rich. Just like most high class men think women smoking is low class looking.

[@vnleao]

Farah Bee My solution for you is to try to use makeup to minimize it. Get a man with enough money and you can get treatments to minimize the appearance of the scar. I feel you on liking the idea of taking an artistic approach to it but it would be a deterrent for enough men than it would probably be best to avoid it. Maybe you’ll find a man who will be ok with the tattoo but it’s best to wait until he says is good with it and committed to you.

[@devonwilliams4354]

I hate wedges😂😂 tell tale signs! I love your tips but, can you do some outfit of the day to help with suggestions?

[@callalilly4743]

I love how your "quick" video is a whole 44 minutes 😂

[@2452dee]

Shera aint lying on this #sprinklesprinkle

[@TheBlessedQueen2000]

Sprinkle Sprinkleee

[@SunniTheEarthBabe]

I just love you. You have me cracking up every time I watch you🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@molierresignoga]

They got a blonde color for everybody. But men love me in Blonde

[@taylorgoldstein5501]

When I dressed more conservative old men stopped me and complimented my outfit and said I reminded them of their ex gfs, that’s who I wanna attract

[@high5_mohini283]

"I'd rather walk a whole day in heels 👠 than pay bills." -Shera☆

[@sofiavelyka1669]

Ily Shera❤ Your videos are such comfort videos. Love your personality ❤❤❤🎉

[@Cute_Stuffs]

Shera is our mother god & saviour..

[@msve3730]

Getting them is one thing But keeping them is another

[@elia1789]

I m getting my ketatine treatment in a week. I want to show myself some love 💓💓💓

[@sophiademure]

elia1789 are you worried about damage? I was thinking of straightening my hair aswell.

[@elia1789]

sophiademure my hair grow fast so i dont mind. I ll let you know xx

[@elia1789]

sophiademure hello dear! I ve just got home from the salon. My hair is very soft and shiny after the treatment. Βut i chose to have the plant based keratin done. I m very happy with the result AND no damage at all xxx

[@sophiademure]

elia1789 thanks for the update lovely 🌸! I’ve also decided to get a smoothing treatment, so exciting to do something new with my hair 😸.

[@elia1789]

sophiademure we put ourselves first 😘😘

[@reflectionprogression2210]

On the heel tip...im 6'1...so I got heels but I dont want to tower over most guys lol

[@brklyn2922]

Wear your heels or wear lower heeled shoes.

[@daniebajan6306]

Reflection & Progression get some kitten heels. Still sexy and not too tall

[@jdbailey442]

Reflection & Progression I am 5'11 and don't care. I only deal with men that are 5'10 or taller.

[@Wealthybaby]

Girl my friends is 6'4 in heels, ppl think she's a model, & she has no issues wear them, be confident lol

[@ritagomes9186]

What about braids and goddess locs

[@amaj_lex]

I do everything right except my shoes. Ugh I gotta get it together

[@MidlifeCharm]

Me too! I need a foot stylist!😅

[@14Uindigohealing]

SheRa you are so right!!

[@andreaherrera4219]

I love your advice

[@ruthanyasi8290]

What about long braids? Are they polished enough?

[@2452dee]

As long as it's not at your hips. Length means a lot also.

[@melissaasmr3357]

I think we have the same tattoo. I have 🎼 notes and 4 stars around it. I know it's off the subject but i just notice the tattoo.

[@meoonly4989]

When i live in tiny town,almost a village jeans and sneakers are high maintance lol

[@rollinggstonee]

😂😂 girl you gotta leave your town. no one worth anything is there lol no offense. speaking frm my own experience and living in the hood lol

[@jredbone11]

The cursing part wow ! I curse all the time too smh 🤦‍♀️