我是ENFP 1. 我人生最大的挑戰 : 我覺得有兩個 - 很多時候真的要做了才知道到底是怎麼回事 - 理性/邏輯/情緒 大亂鬥 時時刻刻需要被認同才知道自己在不在對的方向 2. 我怎麼形容我這種型 :pain in the ass. i will say ~ 3.別人都看不到我的那一面是其實我真的很努力去了解、去聽取別人的想法觀念、也很願意去看別人的“帳篷”. 在台灣長大到21歲,其實非常的痛苦; 因為我有ADHD但小時候只被說是輕微的ADD,然後又是同志.所以其實有很多時間一直卡在為什麼我跟別人不一樣 - 也因為這樣產生了一個不太好的察言觀色的技能 :不是那種很知道什麼時候說什麼話的那種,而是過度敏感到可以很快速地接受任合表情聲音動作立馬做出回應避免/閃躲讓自己不再受傷 其實在台灣我一直以來的覺的我不知道我的邏輯在哪,每天感覺到壓力很大然後真的在過度運用跟不運用中擺盪 後來去了美國唸書,在舊金山。第一次感受到人生的色彩 the very first time that I feel like I can be myself, and I start seeing the therapist find out that I have ADHD and start knowing myself better and learn how to express my feeling my thought 其他分享: 其實我很可以跟陌生人聊天,由于我跟別人聊天不會去預設很多,像是我不會管我跟你認識多久/認不認識/然後每一刻是真誠地回應每一個對話. 但真的會玻璃心,而且因為太好懂,情緒藏不住,很容易就被有心人士牽著鼻子。 I also have a question : moving back to Taipei after living in SF for 8 years, How can I still being myself while the situation below happened : 認知上的差異 I feel like I’m always having hard time to have any kind of discussion with people from work or asking question related to work. I don’t need the result, or how to do it. Not even the answer. I just want to know why how so I can have those data to make judgment. And majority of time you can feel the annoyed and tense energy from them. or said why you need that much information those are not relevance, can you stop you being so obsess, this is annoying. you are in your head and thinking way to much right now.