This brought back so many memories. I was stationed in Japan in the USAF 1969-1972. By the way, I am gay. One weekend a gay friend and I went on a double date with two beautiful Japanese girls in full kimono (who knew we were gay). We went to a Chinese restaurant at the New Otani Hotel in Tokyo. Our waiter was a very handsome Japanese man. During our meal he kept making eye contact with me and I sensed he was interested in me. The very next weekend I went back to the restaurant by myself. His name was Yoshiuki Katagiri and our relationship began then. We celebrated our first anniversary together by going to the Meiji Shrine in kimonos and paying respect to his ancestors and committing ourselves to each other. Unfortunately he passed away in 1972. At least I had 2 1/2 wonderful years with him.
@NateWithWho25 жыл бұрын
Wondering what happened to him at such a young age (I assumed)
@dashingmay5 жыл бұрын
Why did he die?
@markmark10285 жыл бұрын
Really a good memory for you. Hope you can feel better now after so many years. ^_^
@richardauchmoody24115 жыл бұрын
@@markmark1028 Yes, of course I feel better now. This happened 48 years ago. I hadn't really thought of Yoshi much until I saw this video. That's when all the memories came flooding back, both good and bad. But I wouldn't trade any of those memories for anything.
@richardauchmoody24115 жыл бұрын
A big thank you to all the people who liked my post. And no dislikes! That makes me feel so good. I hope you don't think I am babbling now, but the video brought back another memory that was both sad and beautiful at the same time. It was the funeral. I don't know how things are done now in Japan, but back then a viewing of the body was not done in a funeral home but at the home of the deceased. In this case it was Yoshi's family home. Since his family knew and accepted that Yoshi and I were in a relationship, I was welcomed into the family. At the funeral only the immediate members of the family are allowed to sit in the viewing room and greet people who come to pay their respects. I was honored that Yoshi's family included me as part of the family with them in the viewing room. Since Yoshi would be cremated his body was displayed in a plain wooden box. Surrounding the box was a table that had things on it that had special meaning to Yoshi in his life...favorite food, drink, book, etc. To my surprise there was also a large framed picture of Yoshi and me smiling at the camera in our kimonos at the Meiji shrine. It was sad enough having to see Yoshi in that box, but when I saw the picture I started crying uncontrollably. His family including that picture touched my heart so deeply. I won't go into detail, but the hardest part of all of this was going to the crematorium. Again, only the immediate family was allowed to go to the crematorium and, since I was considered part of the immediate family, I was obligated to go. This is where I will not go into detail because it was a bit frightening and painful to experience. It is 48 years later and I am now 72, but these memories have become vivid again and I am so thankful for that.
Richard Auchmoody it says something like “I am very happy that the shrine, which is a beautiful, traditional culture, is supporting same sex marriage. I hope that more and more people will share this video and one day, beautiful couples will be able to walk through the city holding there hands in front of everybody.” I hope this helped you a bit :)
Seeing other gay people just exist and be happy together really is like a form of therapy :')
@JesusisKing6023 жыл бұрын
It is 😭
@Whysoserious6486 ай бұрын
There's still hope 😭
@eugenejohnny72244 жыл бұрын
I wish every LGBTQ community could be this free. May God bless your marriage. ❤
@marshalll.89204 жыл бұрын
I think this is the first time I've seen a gay wedding performed by any religion. This is amazing.
@tomshue96304 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3Tbg3SFgqmMha8 reform Judaism also supports LGBT weddings haha😆
@aryawibawa46414 жыл бұрын
in Philippines and Thailand.. some gay couples do weddings in Churches and temples
@carmcam14 жыл бұрын
@@aryawibawa4641 i didn't know this, where is the temple? for future reference.
@amberamber36624 жыл бұрын
@@aryawibawa4641 In Philippines??!! That a big no no in our country, to be married in CHURCHES since it is still an ongoing dabate and considering that our country has a very tough religious belief but I wish they could even if not in the front of our God but in the visions of the law since thats what they fight for to be recognised by the country laws
@amberamber36624 жыл бұрын
@@aryawibawa4641 In Philippines??!! That a big no no in our country, to be married in CHURCHES since it is still an ongoing dabate and considering that our country has a very tough religious belief but I wish they could even if not in the front of our God but in the visions of the law since thats what they fight for to be recognised by the country laws
@evecordes82775 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple! I wish my son will find his true love too.
@varadero53375 жыл бұрын
He will and you will be there
@Pandorellex5 жыл бұрын
EveCor ah I’m crying 🤧💕 you are so beautiful, he will definitely find true love~
@demionkalalo5 жыл бұрын
EveCor ❤️❤️ best prayer for you and your son
@jf65915 жыл бұрын
You sure are a wonderful mother
@memalang18294 жыл бұрын
So good of you. I wish all parents are as supportive as you.
@yellownotsus75384 жыл бұрын
Nothing better than when two beautiful human loving unconditionally each other.
@carrieannmcleod52193 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's the important thing. Sexual orientation is personal and private and people should keep their opinions to themselves. All the best to this couple. Thanks for sharing.
@sanjuzmakeover90933 жыл бұрын
I am also Gay And I need a true Love too 🥰🥰🥰
@ohmygoditsronaldo2 жыл бұрын
This is hands down one of the most beautiful weddings I have ever seen.
@sasavlog035 жыл бұрын
Gay Japanese wedding? I'M 100% SUPPORTIVE AND SUBSCRIBING.
@danielisntreal61905 жыл бұрын
I don't know why KZbin put this as a recommendation but I'm glad they did. This is so beautiful 😍
@PolarPandy5 жыл бұрын
same here, lovely video
@scherrijacobsen77035 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. This makes me smile.
@Critic_number_45 жыл бұрын
I was like, wtf algorithm do they have me in lol. Oh well. Very good vid. And handsome dudes. Cheers from New York!
@hermionehang5235 жыл бұрын
It showed up on my homepage all out of sudden as well, guessing it is just so beautiful...
@kageyamareijikun4 жыл бұрын
日本の伝統的な美しさを深く感じた。 それに、2人ともの幸せ。 おめでとう。
@Fer-mt6yd3 жыл бұрын
If you haven’t seen their latest video do so because it has a beautiful surprise: they have a child now!!!! Congratulations on your wedding and beautiful beautiful family. All the best wishes to the three of you.
I had a boyfriend for 8 years and until now he is still in hiding to his parents. I hope one day we could be married too 🥺
@demionkalalo5 жыл бұрын
Marjone Larceña Pamplona i pray the best for both of you
@jbyxxx4 жыл бұрын
I can understand him. For some of us it is not easy to come out. I have been married for 10 years and my parents dont know it :( i guess, it is the pain that i ll carry whole my life :(
@wangpeter69334 жыл бұрын
Wish u can!
@qingwa7774 жыл бұрын
Best of luck bro
@magenelliepikrati85944 жыл бұрын
Marjone Larceña Pamplona not good.
@nursiroj53735 жыл бұрын
Little fact : shiba can play piano. They date since 2009 and officially being couple in 2018 Aw so cute....
@SHIBAandKOJI5 жыл бұрын
oh thx for watching and listening the detail ! yeah i tried to play piano this time, hope you enjoyed it:) have a good day!
@MeiEclipse2875 жыл бұрын
Congratulation to SHIBA and KOJI. Your guys have a beautiful LGBT wedding
@MeiEclipse2875 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you guys
@carlybmanaoisyamamoto59715 жыл бұрын
@@SHIBAandKOJI 😍😍 congratulations po 😇😇
@carlybmanaoisyamamoto59715 жыл бұрын
@@SHIBAandKOJI 😍😍 congratulations po 😇😇
@marl34914 жыл бұрын
Im pretty much sure I’m not the only one being emotional. Nothing to see here except two beautiful person loving each other I’m crying! Hope you’ll live a happy life!❤️❤️
@djantebe84214 жыл бұрын
YUMEKOOOOOOO
@judykraska4003 жыл бұрын
Me too, l shed some positive happy tears, while watching two happy human beings in unison. So soothing, and peacefully blessed. Love is love 💖.
@huaxiongyan5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. It's a beautiful wedding. It's love's eyes when you saw each other.
@SHIBAandKOJI5 жыл бұрын
That's what we believe in ordinary moments:) Thank you for watching our video !
@AS-bq4tm5 жыл бұрын
*see
@faredri85025 жыл бұрын
Really it's real. 😊
@jhingbangayan7624 жыл бұрын
Same sex coupling is as old as human story. It is written, painted and documented in ancient history books. Alexander The Great was homosexual and preferred his male partner his best friend and confidant till his last breath, Hephaestion. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_China. I'm so protective of my LGBT family and friends ☺️
This is so pure and genuine. Literally burst to tears while watching this heart-felt video. The love between them is so strong to the point I can feel it's radiating from my screen. This is so lovely and pure. 🥺
@geofffikar34172 жыл бұрын
I got emotional watching this too. They are made for each other and their son is beautiful. Wonderful.
Their story and wedding are a like a dream to me. It actually made me cry. As a gay Asian man in my 60s, migrated from Taiwan to US since my early 30s, I have been living a lonely life and never had a long-term relationship.in either place.
@mizbootsie81753 жыл бұрын
Not to late.😊
@c.m59243 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Not too late. I really hope you find love too
@tonynguyen32553 жыл бұрын
call me
@adelineshi6643 жыл бұрын
祝你早一天遇到靈魂的另一半
@Juneau043 жыл бұрын
i hope you find love and peace.
@sisqosnew5 жыл бұрын
I'm from Taiwan to say congratulation to you. I hope every couple in the world can get married in their countries. Only Peace and Love.
I love how the video ended with “What are we gonna have for dinner tonight”. Such a simple question that shows a gay relationship really is, at its core, just two people bonding with each other. I wish many people out there would stop treating gay people as sex-obsessed demons; I dare say for most gay people out there, they find it more important to have someone to connect with emotionally.
@jericmaggay84575 жыл бұрын
I'm turning 28 nxt month and its been like almost 4yrs of being single and I'm still hoping that someday.....someday I will have this moment too.
@aslj11795 жыл бұрын
Omg me too lol Scorpios in the house
@jypmina_penguinprincess62735 жыл бұрын
Me too. I'm turning 27 next month 😭
@lonely_warrior78465 жыл бұрын
O dear you will, love will come at it's own time
@dhambz235 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and it's been like 25 years of being single. lol
@doc727745 жыл бұрын
Karl Asiado lol I am 52 and 8 years of being very single....hope someday I will meet a guy
@sawa93022 жыл бұрын
2人ともカッコ良くて笑顔が素敵で最高に幸せそう😉
@diatrywibowo5 жыл бұрын
I'm so jealous😭😭😭 Great filming Great bromanc Great couple Great wedding Congratulation.......!!! I wish I could be like that...
@ladydie7195 жыл бұрын
Don't dream it, go find it
@jean-charlesmarlier68315 жыл бұрын
I totally agree,and very handsome couple too ❣️
@vincentplacibe38725 жыл бұрын
Hey..
@___________18765 жыл бұрын
Bromance???
@The_Black_Caps2 ай бұрын
Bromance?! It's romance they r literally married 😭😭
@muhammadfadzli1933 жыл бұрын
Love is truly beautiful. By the way i'm a muslim malay gay guy here from Singapore. I just turn 42yrs old this year July 2021. I just pray that someday, i will meet my soulmate to spend my life with, till my very last breath. I wish you both blessful everlasting relationship till heaven. Cheers to u 🥰🥰🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
@dedicreator54793 жыл бұрын
Muhammad Fadzli amen
@morside78063 жыл бұрын
I'm a Muslim too and gay. This combination is a disaster but I have a hope for a brighter and happier tomorrow.
@rawrrawr40633 жыл бұрын
Wow, i know islam is quite intolerant with lgbt but whoever you are, God will always love you. Because he understands you, he made you afterall. Smile😉
@melvanmalayo973 жыл бұрын
Wow very nice from Philippines
@muhammada24453 жыл бұрын
Im malay Malaysia and shock seeing this 👁️👄👁️ i mean your family?
@Jl2damax5 жыл бұрын
Damn they’re a cute couple. Both are very handsome
@zerjiozerjio5 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Both gorgeous, and it's all enhanced by how happy they are together
I don't know who you are. When I happened to watch this video on KZbin, I really admired your love. Wish you both happiness forever.
@johntoomey27434 жыл бұрын
I'll second that!
@nayan56122 жыл бұрын
This had me in tears for some reasons.....the whole vibe was so wholesome. I hope you both stay happy together forever and ever
@jaesun4418 Жыл бұрын
Me too a happy tears...just like the time I held my godson I cried all of the sudden because of the joy. And I wish I can hug them and their baby now. All their videos that they shared brings so much love and happiness. I am thankful that I get to witness this and in the future their baby can look back on this! I wish them good health and their marriage to be strong always!
@Bactadmai5 жыл бұрын
Wishing you both the best 😊🥰🎉🎊🍾
@miafei4 жыл бұрын
I do not know how many times I have watched this video. It just brings me so much peace and hope... Yet, it still has brought me somewhat affliction. I am bisexual. At the beginning when I just figured it out I started dodging everyone, I did not want to accept who I was becoming (as if something was wrong with me) I was afraid of start falling in love with my best friend and what other people would say, so I cut my relationship with her down without a single word, I just disappeared. Not much time later I started dating a guy, he was not only my partner but also a special friend to me, so when we broke up I just could nor hold his departure... I sink into grief and sorrow, life had no meaning... but she the one who once more time came into my rescue, my lovely friend who I once ignored was there to bring happiness into my life. You might be wondering whether or not we start dating... well, we did not. It is necessary to once again learn to love myself before I can get to love someone else. My current path is all about what I want... who I am, and who I want to become... for some reason this video gave the energies I needed. It does not matter if my future belongs alongside a woman or a man because now I deeply believe that love is energy, that is what we are "energy" which one day will find its path. And so when the time shows up I will fight for it. You guys are an inspiration not only for me but for all people who are still fighting its internal demons. Because probably (sorry if I make assumptions) you guys had to face challenges all along the path of your relationship, gossip, rejection, doubt... and yet here you are sharing your incredible path and love. Thank you, for showing us again that life is beautiful, worth it, and full of surprises all along the way. Congratulations! May the future let you guys go back one more time wearing your gray hair.
@Mark_Nasayao5 жыл бұрын
Every time i watch two person getting married regardless of gender, It instantly give the feeling like I was the one getting married. That cloud 9 feeling of happiness.
@ganeang7593 жыл бұрын
2years later I still think is video so beautiful the song, color filter, the traditional, the natural all fit together so well
@derekstynes96315 жыл бұрын
What a Handsome Couple You are , Wishing all the very Best for Your Life together !
Many happy love filled years to both of you. My husband (Caucasian) and I (African American) just celebrated 31 years together, some people still think we shouldn't be together, that we wouldn't make it. Prove all of the naysayers wrong just like we have. Many blessings.
@nsr59615 жыл бұрын
Amanda Butterfield “I’m so glad we made it, look how far we come my baby” -Shania Twain
@ascia11124 ай бұрын
After five years, It still the my favorite wedding film and give me the list to go to next step.
@chananvajvajra38305 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful and inspiring. Love wins. Congratulations for you both.
@SHIBAandKOJI5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the lovely comment! We are so happy to hear from you!:)
@tlyu77515 жыл бұрын
LGBTQ を政治利用する共産党に騙されないでほしい。御幸せに!
@Hitome1434 жыл бұрын
Honestly, this is the first time in my life to feel a strong emotion after watching a video. A feeling of wanting to support them and to pray for their happiness and blessings. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@hyphuong45675 жыл бұрын
Their smiles when being together are just purest thing on earth I just can't...
@jamesk8s12 жыл бұрын
Watching this AGAIN! I hope you are still married and still in love!! So handsome and beautiful both of you!!! I saw this a couple years ago! I hope you both will continue to treasure each other, speak to each other in loving and supportive ways, never take each other for granted, and be very clear on how VERY rare it is to find true committed lasting love in gay life....so I hope you will always love and cherish each other KNOWING that what you share together is VERY RARE! Treat your marriage like the treasure it is!! ❤
@triawanintaiwan5 жыл бұрын
Someday, I will have these moments too.... Or maybe not.
Lets pray for the marriage equality in Japan: May the Japanese embrace it with understanding, acceptance and joy. May the society pressure the reforms to the legislation. May the LGBT in Japan can live as who they are, beloved and love whoever they hearts lead. Amen.
Congratulations Shiba & Koji Thank you for sharing your special day with us. May you both forever be in love, And may love forever be in you. Here's to Japan passing marriage equality laws soon.
Watching again 3/2023. I watch when Shiba gets on bent knee and proposes to Koji over and over. Brings tears to my eyes, such a beautiful couple ❤🔥 ❤🔥
@SHIBAandKOJI Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping watch and loving our works. I wish our clumsy journey helps someone’s life too:) love
@jamesk8s1 Жыл бұрын
@@SHIBAandKOJI Dear Shiba and Koji, thank you! for all the beauty, love and light you bring to the world. Whenever I need a "pick me up", I watch your videos. The 3 of you - you and your cute son, the love you have for each other, is so uplifting! I hope that the two of you will always treasure each other. What the two of you have together is so SO very rare. May you always hold close to your hearts your greatest treasures which is each other and little son. Wishing you all every happiness always ❤🔥🌟❤🔥....James USA
@Hannah-cg2nq Жыл бұрын
I believe it was Koji who got on bet knee and proposed to Shiba.))
@sandramaria1213 Жыл бұрын
Eu gosto muito essa parte do casamento amei,foi lindo a união deles,eu emocionei❤❤😂😂🎉🎉felicidades
@msmaiko48905 жыл бұрын
Oh god I’m crying that is so beautiful. I hope I’ll be able to find someone I love as much as you love him.
@rin-re6vk4 жыл бұрын
おすすめに上がってきたので見ました ああああ素敵、、、、😭😭😭
@shreyatripathi99363 жыл бұрын
I am literally crying..This is the best heart warming video I have seen in 2021.. Lots and lots of love to you both and you newborn.
@totoro82123 жыл бұрын
お二人ともずっと幸せになりますように。
@engtertain53625 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful. Hope you guys blessed with love all around
@kazuyanbottom8405 жыл бұрын
僕も好きな彼氏とこんな風に幸せにないたい 夢が出来ました ありがとうございます
@BothHands15 жыл бұрын
森田和弥 頑張れ! 私も素敵な彼女出来て、こんな結婚式したいなぁ
@nadine10184 жыл бұрын
Straight, gay, bi, it doesn't matter. Love is such a wonderful thing ❤️. I wish you both the best
@fransfrans38013 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most beautiful video/story on youtube i've ever seen
@gustavt64935 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute, you make a videos 10 years ago and now married ( ^^ ) congratulation
@junko.m1125 жыл бұрын
なんて洗練された映像😆 色んな国の方々からのメッセージ✨ 美しいです👍 御幸せに♥️
@SHIBAandKOJI5 жыл бұрын
とめジュントメ 世界は優しいですね☺️ ありがとう!
@kallandracampbell21055 жыл бұрын
One of the most beautiful things I have seen. You two almost make me believe in love again. Thank you
@snuppl5123 жыл бұрын
I don't know this channel, only came across this channel yesterday and watching this video touched my heart, I'm extremely happy for these two people becoming together forever in this life
@yonasberhane62575 жыл бұрын
OMG cute couples, beautiful wedding, extraordinary place.... what more do u want in life??? happy for u guys :)
When I see your baby now, I think you too are amazing, all the best in 2023, hope you and your boy full of joy and happiness forever ❤
@pamungkas71824 жыл бұрын
"Take me high take me low" I've heard a story I've heard it said I've come to believe that love is a bet Sometimes you win it Sometimes you lose it Sometimes it calls you right in the move Come to my table Come to my bed girl Easing my hunger Easing my head Bringing me fire Bringing me water Taking me high Taking me down Ohh. Give me your pretty Give me your messy Give me your happy Give me your sad I maybe staying I maybe going I maybe left out May fall apart Come to my table Come to my bed girl Easing my hunger Easing my head Bringing me fire Bringing me water Taking me high Taking me down Ohh... Ohh... Come to my table Come to my bed girl Easing my hunger Easing my head Bringing me fire Bringing me water Taking me high Taking me down Ohh... taking me down... Ohh... taking me down... Taking me down
@TakoyakiAdventures4 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks for the lyrics! They are so beautiful.
@natalieseeto34674 жыл бұрын
Who is the artist singing this song?
@JasperJT19705 жыл бұрын
Guys, thank you for sharing! It was amazing! And full of love. Two beautiful men, in such stunning environment, celebrating love. Congratulations!
@prinsipevlogs5 жыл бұрын
_indeed
@dannieshidae33635 жыл бұрын
Congratulation ... it doesn’t matter what gender, colour, nationality, race, religion or whatever you are. Love is always beautiful ❤️
@nicholasward9502 Жыл бұрын
WOW! Beautiful couple, beautiful film and clearly a beautiful partnership ❤
@grevialde3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I am sad, I always go back to this video to remind myself that if it happened to them, it is possible that it can also happen to me. Shiba and Koji, thank you for inspiring me to still believe in love. 🙏
@montanawest11834 жыл бұрын
Love is not blind. Love is what allows us to see, to understand and to recognize both ourselves and others too. I shed tears watching this. Love you both ❤
@misakura60815 жыл бұрын
I must say, you both are Handsome 🙌😍 congratulations 💕❤️
@misakura60815 жыл бұрын
@Hillary Thai you're not alone 😁
@chrisle730 Жыл бұрын
I have been watching a few dozen of times but it’s still bringing me to tears ! What a beautiful lucky couple ! May God bless your family always ❤