Shocking Truths About Joint Family System vs. Nuclear Families

We’re exploring family dynamics with Ahmad Bilal, a clinical psychologist who specializes in family issues and counseling.
In this episode, we’ll talk about the challenges of living in a joint family, like a mother's insecurity and the lack of privacy. Ahmad will also explain how money often influences who makes decisions in joint families.
We’ll also discuss what it means to live independently in a nuclear family. We’ll look at how making some sacrifices can give you more freedom to make your own choices. Whether you’re considering living with extended family or on your own, Ahmad will share practical advice to help you find a happy and balanced family life that matches your values.
Join us as we learn more about these different family setups and how they can affect our lives.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - 02:49 Introduction and Guest Introduction
02:49 - 04:14 Introduction of Joint Family System
04:15 - 05:55 Financial Independence & Parental Involvement
05:55 - 07:38 Girls' responsibility to compromise in early phases
07:38 - 09:52 Son's Connection with Mother
09:52 - 12:00 Financial Expectations in Gen Z & Parents
12:00 - 14:30 Sons dealing with their mothers
14:30 - 18:49 Son's Mother vs. Son's Wife Conflict
18:49 - 27:50 Dealing with family dynamics
27:50 - 38:00 Family expectations while finding a proposal
38:00 - 48:51 Living in a nuclear system
48:51 - 53:58 Tips for Joint Family System
53:58 - 56:38 Conclusion and Wrap-up

[@sabahat.official]

My mother is a micromanage lady.. She's having difficulties with my brother and his wife... due to my father's emotional unavailablility and Anger issues.. whereas my mum in law is super easy due to my (late) father in was super gentle and emotionally available to her.. Fathers play huge role.. More than Mums I guess.. My husband a sensitive and supportive person. Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah. Allah paak sabko meri jesi saaas de or unko sehat wali zindagi de. Mere sar pe unka saaya rakhe. Aameen.

[@AyeshaGlass]

Such an underrated channel 😭 You will excel one day plz make videos with Sir Ahmed Bilal frequently . We want more podcasts with him

[@yumnahayat310]

Such a wise man. Wonder why he doesn’t get more coverage

[@syedzainnoori]

Because he's too busy with university and counseling sessions. He teaches us psychology at UMT. Without any doubt he's one of the great personalities that you'll meet in your life.

[@mujtabaqamar7194]

Great podcast, much needed topics.... Yet criminally underrated

[@Zehra-y4x]

Amazing program. The way they both have discussed this topic is remarkable. This issue is highly important issue of our society. Jazakallah!

[@umarnca]

SO FUCKING TRUE!!!! On point! ❤❤💯💯

[@irfanyaqub9643]

Good topic guys. Finally in pakistan someone speaking about it.

[@Drshakeel09]

Best

[@color.my.mental.health]

Maza agya, such good discussion!!!

[@drmalik-yz5mu]

Great talk

[@irumniazi4695]

Amazing work.

[@laalakbarjamal8354]

Good topic

[@zarnabmansha204]

Also talk about the families where husband is far away from the family and the wife and kids get suffer from that. In some cases she has to live with in-laws no matter what. Shed some light on this too.

[@misbah76]

Enmeshment

[@zoyai.4435]

Jou point apnay discuss kiya hai kay larki ki family kehte hai family bari na hou takay kaam na karna paray woh issi lete kehte hai kyun kay mostly 95% awam bahu ya biwi nahi kaam wali dhoond rahay houte hain. Shohar ki jahah poore poore khandan kay kaam kar rahi houte hain larkiyan.

[@iqraazeem9159]

Best