'BisexuaIity Isn't Real'

[@Shoe0nHead]

some bi slurs i’ve seen you guys have come up with in the comments so far: -Bionicles (naturally) -Bykes -Baggots -SeeSaws -PingPongs -Fence Sitters -Diet Gays -Bisexual also, if you’re wondering why there are comments from hours ago that’s because my simps-errr patrons get early VIP access to every video. you can also become a si- i mean VIP here: www.patreon.com/shoe0nhead 🅱️🅾️🅾️🅱️🅰️

[@babbisp1]

"21 seconds" after upload? That's a personal record lol TRANS RIGHTS

[@erenyeager9575]

That time of the year already huh?!

[@FharishAhmedPortfolio]

Happy Belated Birthday!!!

[@FreedomAndPeaceOnly]

*'Georgia Guidestones destroyed'* WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOO FCK THE NWO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Adambenhmida0000]

Mommy

[@mimbo2479]

Everyone knows the best bisexual slur is "centrist"

[@APairOfOldSkoolVans]

Ew...

[@di5963]

Works as a slur for ace people too

[@G.N.F462]

prefect

[@JohnSmith-ki2eq]

Or cuntrist

[@yumeriagirl1231]

Fucking Brilliant 🔥🔥 Bahhhhh!!!😆

[@nothingnerdyNtertainment]

Gay people: It's not a choice Also Gay people: CHOOSE

[@TryingtoTellYou]

You debunking the entire homosexual agenda with one comment -

[@libera7161]

Yes, I remember a boy who is gay, and I had a friend who is bi. I thought I could match them, but the boy who is gay said to me that my friend couldn't be bi, he must be either gay or straight. I was a closeted bi too. So this annoyed me.

[@mycatistypingthis5450]

Every man that I slept with did not mind me being bisexual.

[@Fausto_4841]

I had a GF in highschool who claimed she was bi, at the time I didn't care we were monogamous so I really didn't give a shit. I never saw any evidence of it, honestly I thought she was could be and trying to get attention (she was) Fast-forward 20 years and last time we spoke she said it was "toxic" bc I was "so into" her being with women. Thank God we didn't last must after highschool, she is absolutely insane now.

[@TryingtoTellYou]

@@Fausto_4841 You dodged a bullet

[@Sleepytechnician]

As a pansexual, please put a warning when you’re going to flash cookware like that. It’s really awkward to “get going” in public.

[@LikeTheNumeral]

gets me harder than a cast iron skillet

[@grotto185]

💀💀💀

[@thatHARVguy]

*PUBG intensifies*

[@ijustdocomments6777]

🍳🥘🍳

[@AmstradExin]

@@thatHARVguy I like my weed too.

[@grouchyoldpatriot]

I dated a lady who said she was bi....... I just didn't know she meant bipolar.

[@daemonsilver3304]

All women are bi, that way.

[@ericweber5942]

I dated a lady who was bi... She was bipolar and bisexual 😂

[@Earthboundmike]

Please god let this be a joke.

[@WolfLykaios]

Rest in pieces.

[@Mrch33ky]

Here all week folks!

[@mellar5864]

"Sexuality isn't a choice" "Dear bissexuals CHOOSE!!!"

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

Underappreciated point.

[@Photovintageguy]

Actually saying it was not a choice was to get traction. Now that they can cancel people they call it proud choice. FYI it was always a choice at some point. Perhaps people really messed with your head as child, now it's a sexual attraction.

[@Suiseisexy]

@@Photovintageguy tfw califorian white male and you have to honestly wonder how many of the people responsible for you during your childhood were secretly activist freaks who wanted you to fail/die/never reproduce and you'll never really have the answer but you know it's definitely more than one

[@mrcrabowski]

​@@Photovintageguy "sexuality was always a choice at some point" Waitafuckinminute... I hope you're talking only about bisexuals now... it would very piss me off if not because you'd so wrong that it would seem almost unbelievable that you'd meant it seriously...

[@Photovintageguy]

@@mrcrabowski everyone forms some kinda sexual preference along the way. It could be early on. Regardless that whole it's not a choice, is from maybe 10, 20 years ago. Look up what people are saying about sexual preference. It's a proud "choice" now. I personally never thought people were born a certain way. But peoples sexual preferences/fetish don't exactly seem like a choice they just kinda fall that way based on experiences. That's why messing with kids heads in school the way they are doing it, is pure evil. "Study estimates trans youth population has doubled in 5 years". At this point those kids definitely wouldn't call it a choice, it's a path they are definitely going down. But many change thier mind of course. Studies have reported higher rates of desistance among prepubertal children. A 2016 review of 10 prospective follow-up studies from childhood to adolescence found desistance rates ranging from 61% to 98%, with evidence suggesting that they might be less than 85% more generally.

[@issagarci2887]

It’s unreal. I tried to explain this to my straight boyfriend and he was so baffled. He cannot understand why we (bionicles) are being vigorously attacked. He’s like “isnt it love is love” and acceptance above all? Apparently not.

[@TotalTuxedo]

Turn off the internet and the attacks go away. Seriously it's not like strangers would know I'm Bi unless I tell them. And he's right, "Love IS Love" but acceptance isn't something we can expect everyone to have.

[@Onnarashi]

Another straight man here, who's been romantically involved with two bi girls (not at the same time). It never even occurred to me to judge them for that. One of the girls told me she preferred relationships with men because she thoughyt it was easier. I didn't go into why that was, but I think her reasoning was that it was more complicated (emotionally) for her to be in a relationship with another girl. Shre'd probably be called out as homophobic by the alphabet community.

[@gamingforever9121]

@@TotalTuxedo yea the whole love is love argument is the exact argument maps use.

[@schnek8927]

@@Onnarashi I was thinking that while watching the video; I can *EASILY* see a lot of bisexual women favour men because it's simply going to (very likely) be an easier relationship, without the hassle of having to deal with two womens hysteria. (one is usually too much for any guy, much less a woman) But no, being realistic, looking out for your own mental health, and making the best choices for yourself...? Well that's just homophobic ain't it? Hah!

[@deusdex1186]

No, silly. It's "Belong to my specific group and adhere to my specific ideology... Or else..."

[@DJScootagroov]

"straight men can be trusted with other men, absolutely not I've seen what the homies get up to." I aint even gonna fight this, this is facts.

[@eduardhegyi]

Kiss your homies goodnight!

[@SenbonKaguya]

Homies in the back be like

[@arpo_marxx]

Grab ass with the homies was the best game in highschool :)

[@dukedevlan5457]

@@eduardhegyi you know many secrets of the Bro Code

[@ExeErdna]

This is legit true from my own experiences.

[@ilEagle3696]

i saw a comic strip that explained bisexuality perfectly it's like someone saying that they like both waffles and pancakes but people act like the fact that that person is eating waffles at the moment means they lied about liking pancakes

[@agibitable]

They're just jealous of our superior taste buds

[@atuasaysnope]

wait this is literally THE explanation for it

[@ilEagle3696]

@@atuasaysnope EXACTLY "Pick a side" WHY CANT I LIKE BOTH????

[@seekervaltriz9447]

@@ilEagle3696 I'm having both at the same time, can't stop me

[@ilEagle3696]

@@seekervaltriz9447 HELL YEAH

[@ZeniteZero]

Kind of ironic how groups that have been discriminated against for their sexual orientation/identity discriminate against other groups that don't conform to their interpretation of sexual orientation/identity. The lack self-awareness is astonishing.

[@BloodyBay]

Kind of like how Jews and Christians were persecuted by the same Romans, but while Jews learned the folly of intolerance, the Christians instead picked up where the Romans left off. It's official: Gays and Lesbians are becoming the new Roman Catholics.

[@MrWill7980]

You either die a hero, or live long enough to become the villain. Edit: I misspelled die. The US public school system is a total failure

[@Maniacman2030]

I find it hilarious they have slurs for NORMAL people. As in, for the majority of our species. Crazy stuff. They think hating on people is going to get those people on their side. Of course, their main tactics are Gaslighting others like an abusive partner/spouse, so it's not all that surprising that there's pushback against them.

[@xoxxo236]

Sounds like a religion

[@DCwolf138]

I'm guessing it's because a lot of the newer members haven't actually faced one on one discrimination, you get the occasional nutcase in public but when I was young it was still socially acceptable to abuse us in public and people would either look away or join in. I will never forget this one girl in my later school years who beat the hell out of me for being very out in the open with my girlfriend. I begged her beforehand to wait untill the day after because I had just lost my uncle to which she laughed in my face and said she doesn't care. Her and her 6 other friends left me in a parking lot where I proceeded to crawl to the bus stop and wait to go home. It was horrible the way we were treated.

[@brockjohnston2942]

"most bi women have only dated 1-2 girls." me, a straight male who hasnt dated any chick: "is this implying that im asexual?"

[@captaincapitalis1205]

Damn bro guess I’m asexual too

[@Devil-Speed8]

We must all be asexual huh

[@mr.pinstripe7171]

@@captaincapitalis1205 Same

[@IzzySarru]

@@captaincapitalis1205 I prefer the term wizard. I earned it.

[@BaxsStudios]

Man dont know Im bi and I havent dated a man or a women. Thats beein unsuccessful on all sides

[@drdasterdly4241]

Being mad at a bi person for being in a hetro relationship is like being mad at a feminist woman for being a stay home mom, like isn't the point these things people can do whatever they want? If someone wants to be in a more traditional relationship they have every right to do so, and people that think otherwise are part of the problem.

[@bobboberson6664]

No you're wrong!!! You have to do what THEY think you should be doing. You can choose whatever you want as long as it's what the narrative tells you

[@maxmercurythemm827]

What!? How dare you insinuate that a feminist can't want a man's job! (Of course, it doesn't mean they actually want to do said job, but that's another story.) The LGBT community is practically blowing itself up.

[@thunderbird3304]

This is the same line of logic behind the "trans women who are feminine are upholding the patriarchy" line that TERFs use. Even if they are feminine, that is their choice, isn't it?

[@dustycloudy3753]

I'm a bi woman married to a man and being a stay at home mom atm. I must not even exist to these people 😅

[@michaelt.5672]

@@dustycloudy3753 I'd say you do exist to these people. And to them, that makes you the problem. As it always is with people who have a preconcieved ideology that can not accept reality disagreeing with their image of it.

[@eraldocoil2719]

"You aren't oppressed enough to be valid." *Proceeds to oppress*

[@LifeIsStranged]

they're helping us to get enough oppression points, how sweet of them

[@treeeyed8578]

​@TheGrandeGenio i know i find that way of thinking hilarious. They attack us for not being oppress, how ironic

[@LifeIsStranged]

@@treeeyed8578 yep

[@VoidSpider69]

"here, let me do the honors🥰🥰"

[@eraldocoil2719]

@@VoidSpider69 ong

[@vynashe4442]

"Straight men can be trusted with men? Absolutely not I've seen what the homies get up to." Literally no truer thing has been said.

[@WannabeShady90]

?

[@blackcitadel37]

Bromance

[@danib3575]

lmfao for real though

[@Absurdtheistic]

The gayest men I know were all straight men

[@sheathlink4060]

A group chat full of straight males is where you’ll find the most homosexual statements

[@vxxiii4160]

I have a friend who's bi and she's had a boyfriend for several years now and been happily together since. But from what I've heard from her the amount of hate messages because she's in a hetero relationship (and even threats) from her ex-girlfriends has been _insane_ , like, damn. There's some psychos out there, regardless of gender lemme tell ya.

[@mrdee2454]

Great she upgraded to a hetro relationship and be able to build a family

[@akumu9301]

@@mrdee2454 woldn't say upgrade lmfao, but yeah

[@AaronSoul725]

You know I'm curious to know how crazy, from a perspective point

[@Western.war_edits]

Me: Yeah, I like men and women. Conservatives: Oh you're Bisexual huh?!?! I DONT believe that is POssIBLE. Tell me *every* single fact about bisexuals on the WikEIpedio"😌

[@Vicarious2000]

Saturn ascends and Maynard wants your shins

[@JPkilla8116]

I'm bi, the hate I received for coming out as bi, WHILE DATING A GUY AND I'M A GUY, to the "community" was absolutely horrible. I literally never looked back and just do my thing as an individual, never going back to pride and I'm not helping anymore.

[@seekervaltriz9447]

People are just shitty in every facet of humanity's existence. You're always valid, no matter if you date a man, or woman, or enby.

[@EmperorNero]

Same I'm a bi dude and never will go to any of that.

[@equidistanthoneyjoy7600]

I feel like the lack of a bi slur, *is* the slur. Everyone denies that we exist, so it only makes sense that the best way to insult us is to use someone else's slur.

[@juliendacoolien3454]

So for progress, we need to make slurs for ourselves! :D

[@saltdad5263]

the f slur targets bi people too. ive had that slur used against me for being bi many times before unfortunately :(

[@awesomegamer7]

@@saltdad5263 Right, but its origin is for gay people, which proves the point. You don't get one, you just get called gay (which you're not) in a mean way

[@Tiny_Koi]

@@awesomegamer7 bisexuals aren't gay now???

[@saltdad5263]

@@awesomegamer7 bigots dont care what specific label i use, all theyre going off of is the fact that im attracted to any gender including my own, and thats gay enough to them. so no, this slur isnt just for 100% homosexual people. im pretty sick and tired of the harassment ive had to endure being seen as invalid just because im not "gay enough". what people like you dont seem to understand is that we get shit from both sides, so a lot of us dont even feel safe or understood in lgbtq spaces. im allowed to be hurt by the slurs people throw at me for existing.

[@marcusmcglarcus1557]

From Wikipedia: - Gillette Blade - a 1950s era term for bisexual women, whose sexuality "cuts both ways" - Switch hitter Others are "fence-sitter" "gay-lite" "diet-gay"

[@Dewt0x]

Would like to add Coin-flipper

[@テーイル]

I want a t-shirt that says "I'm diet gay"

[@MrFreakHeavy]

@@Dewt0x This sounds cool, yo... wtf?

[@Nina-cd2eh]

These don't sound like slurs they sound like badass netrunner handles lmao

[@roaringthunder115]

@@Dewt0x amazing

[@tobiashagstrom4168]

"Everyone is bisexual. Everyone. Sexuality exists on the Kinsey Scale." But the Kinsey scale literally includes the state of being completely straight or completely gay though.

[@MediumRareOpinions]

They're banking on people not knowing that and just believing their assertion without scrutiny.

[@billr3053]

Ooof!! Too much truth and logic. Please go sit in the corner, you sexual spectrum phobe. Someone will be with you shortly to collect all your clothes that have a color that's in the rainbow.

[@IjwPetersen]

yea these people literally didn't even look on wikipedia, let alone watch the movie or read the book

[@doratheace]

It is outdated because it doesn't include asexuals.

[@HurricaneGabby]

That's okay, they don't recognize that the ends exist on the gender spectrum either, so at least they're being consistent about not understanding scales.

[@richardstephens7833]

"Some men are okay, not all men are your father." I wheezed so hard I'm seeing stars

[@canadiangaming5139]

that quote is fucking goated

[@westhunder_0]

Greatest words of of wisdom to ever be spoken

[@hankhill9173]

As a white bisexual woman, yes I do love my boyfriend

[@coleslaw3808]

Hank?

[@yoshimina4551]

Thank you Hank Hill

[@skyofthelivingdead]

That was not the insult they thought it was lmao. In a loving and happy relationship? How sickening and invalid.

[@maroonkennedy6213]

Thanks Hank

[@RG-zt4ox]

I tell you whwat

[@GalaxyGeassS2]

"sexuality isn't a choice, we're born this way" "omfg bi people need to make a choice" OKAAAAAAY, talk about destroying your own fundamentals.

[@Eking-su3tr]

They literally hv 2 options, But yh it was always a choice lets be real here

[@Eking-su3tr]

@Gangsta Rock u know what bi means right? Its means binary, more than one option equals to a choice being made

[@GalaxyGeassS2]

@@Eking-su3tr The word is indicative of being sexually inclined towards 2 sexes, not just 1, it does not mean people make a choice whether they are gay or straight lol

[@Semilamist]

Inconsistency is the bread and butter of lgbt people

[@Eking-su3tr]

@@GalaxyGeassS2 yes it literally does, u get to pick. God yall really love this label huh. Its a choice that's what binary means. Cope

[@fionna_cool_girl]

"all women are naturally gay" no...just...no. I remember in highschool I thought I was bicurious because I thought a girl was pretty but then I thought to myself "do I think she's attractive and pretty because I'm sexually or romantically attracted to her or is it just because she's a pretty human being?" And that's how I knew for sure I was straight. You can think someone is attractive and good looking without wanting to be in a relationship with them. What tf are these people on??

[@JohnA...]

Its natural for anyone in a species that has sexual competition to be able to pick out others who are competition, additionally for us being able to appreciate things outside of ourselves such as art, effort, and yes natural beauty that we can look at another person and understand they are are an attractive member of that sex even if we aren't attracted to them. Though I'll say this is mostly just that drive for competition and those who say "everyone is beautiful" typically fall under the same type that refuses to put in effort themselves to be competitive.

[@blitzdactyl]

@@JohnA... Yeah, some people are naturally pretty while some are not. Likewise, some are talented in a certain given field while others fall behind. Anyone can recognize when other people are doing well in an area of life, even those who rule that said area. You won't see great musicians downplaying other musicians just because the great musician is looked upon as the "greatest". That becomes a matter of ego rather than human nature.

[@JohnA...]

@@blitzdactyl When it comes to talent you don't typically see the best putting down others, that could be because they don't see competition in them and therefor they aren't a challenge to their "rule" of whatever they are the best at. It seems even more that this is the case for those who might have some talent but did have to work hard to get where they are, people who work really hard tend to see hard work in others as well and respect it. But the contrary is also true that many of them also don't look at those who refuse to put in any effort as doing their part to be something, maybe not fully out of malice but because they think that others could do something if they put in that effort. But you do see "powerful" people do this, people who don't have actual talent or didn't get their power in a way that they had to better themselves for, those types see competition in everything, they see that there are others who have talent who would easily outdo them so they have to keep putting others down and holding people back in any way possible so they can keep power. Anything that takes away the attention and privilege they have is a negative to them and needs to be stopped.

[@cooleyzz]

I'm a dude and I am straight. But I can tell when a dude is hot and attractive. Doesn't mean I wanna slob his knob.

[@TheGreyKami]

Me looking at Geralt from Witcher 3.... Man is hot, no lie.

[@bennyboy776]

Weird how when it comes to bi people, leftoid bigotry almost exactly mirrors reactionary rightoid bigotry.

[@magdajabonska537]

Nah most leftists don't hate bi people, these are just the most ridiculous ones picked from all over the internet. At least over here in Europe no leftist/liberal ever was mean about it to me

[@jay.u]

Because leftoid bigotry has always been reactionary. These people ruin the left and allow the right wind to portray all of the left as “woke”

[@KonglomeratYT]

@@magdajabonska537 Because all Europeans are homogenous... Also, "Most leftists". *Googles world populations*. So you're telling me the Chinese are inclusive of this? They can't even receive a basketball team without forming rallies to shout slurs. I doubt they're more accepting of "western" variances of sexuality.

[@landonkam6727]

U theory. The extreme left and extreme right are the ends of the U, closer to each other than they think.

[@stacycarlton2056]

​​@@magdajabonska537Man wish that was true politically here (America) yeah the left tends to be more accepting but in other parts of life ppl who claim to be on the left act alot of the same way as the right when confronted with the idea of dating or being around one of us especially if we don't identify or selfs immediately some see it as a form of deception

[@jerryrocketandthegogogirls3517]

I matched with a “lesbian” on a dating site once and only realized once I saw her profile and I asked about it. She said “I guess I’m technically bi but its pretty rare I find a guy I like, it’s easier just to put lesbian” and I respected that because I am a normal ass person and you can like what you want. Some people only like men, some people only like women, some like men and women and some like them to different degrees. A bisexual who mostly likes men but also likes some girls or vice versa is still 100% valid. I also have no idea why anyone, especially all these LGBT people hate on bisexuals. Who cares?

[@amiablebee7318]

I identified as a lesbian for years despite a slight attraction to men. I found a man (also bisexual) who really understands me, more than any woman I've dated. I never thought I'd spend my life with a man but here we are, on our first anniversary of being together (today!).

[@hatman4818]

I'm a bi dude, and similar. I'm probably about as sexually attracted to guys as women, and frankly, most of my sexual experiences are with guys. But overall, it's extremely hard to find a guy I'd want to go the distance with romantically. So it's easier if I just put straight on dating apps. Otherwise, I get inundated with guy profiles, and matches with guys and nothing else, like the algorithm starts pigeonholing me as super gay because it's easier to get me matches that way. Like, if dating apps could stick to a balance, I'd be fine, but they dont. You start matching a bunch of guys, and not a lot of women (in part because straight women are generally way pickier who they match with), it basically teaches the algorithm youre straight up gay.

[@hatman4818]

Also, if you wanna know why LGBTs pick on Bis... It's because THEY care... Way more than they should... On the same level of religious people caring way too much what others do in the bedroom, a massive hipocrisy. They've been raised on identity politics, and so, for many, their entire personality revolves around sexual and gender identity... As if any of those things can ever make up for a crap personality. Getting treated like dirt by other LGBTs is the main reason I dont consider myself liberal anymore, but rather a moderate. I've seen the direction the left goes, eating eachother over concepts of intersectionality rather than teaming up and solving the few big systemic problems still left in our country. I'm f@#$ing done, lol

[@hugehappygrin]

It's all about attention.

[@jeremysears4263]

@@hugehappygrin And control. Ive found a lot seem to be as authoritative as religious zealots. Some get so worked up they put hands on people.

[@davidpereira9058]

"A few more sexualities here and we got a gay confederate flag" - O-M-G, that ... DESTROYED me... so funny!

[@Scarecrowwx]

2nd Civil war: oops! All gay! Sry that was a dumb comment pls dont cancel

[@Maniacman2030]

The current one is already offensive to my eyes. It's so fugly and the color scheming is absolute dogshit. There's a reason the main flag is a f-cking rainbow, because a rainbow already HAS every color in it. The people who wanted to add Black and Brown... it makes no f-cking sense. They sound like entitled children who didn't see the thing THEY wanted, so they had to play a victim card game, gaslight people and get them added, so now it looks ugly as sin.

[@vor6126]

THAT SHIT WAS HILARIOUS

[@andrewdau1299]

I'm pretty sure I did see an actual Confederate Pride flag online once.

[@msbumbleb4407]

Saying bisexual women who have never been with a woman are fake hurts so much. I had just accepted that I was bi 6 years into a relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Just because I'm not going to leave him to go have experiences with a woman doesn't mean I'm any less bi. God these kinds of people are infuriating

[@coleslaw3808]

I know it makes me wanna punch something. Then I remember these people are just gatekeeping morons who have no idea what they're talking about lol

[@samuelchau9745]

I have the same problems but I'm a bi guy with a gf

[@superjlk_9538]

I am straight and women are repulsed by me. It doesn’t make me less heterosexual

[@TheWastedAccount12]

Same here !! I'm in very similar circumstances and it took a lot of courage claiming my biness. You're valid, and only how you feel inside dictates who you are, not your circumstances nor the experiences you had. We choose a person, not a 'side'

[@th3_l1nk14]

Saying that you arent bi for not having experiences with women is like saying straight people with no bitches aint straight

[@Mark-ci6ln]

Why are these people fighting against themselves, it’s like watching someone cutting off their arm because they hate their hand

[@arghpee]

it's amazing how they divide themselves

[@Mr.Finklebottom]

@@arghpee how they “bi”-sect themselves

[@terrified057t4]

Wait until you see the Bi people ingesting this hate and being toxic to pan or omni folk XD

[@walter253]

they have so much hatred in them this is just sad

[@terrified057t4]

@@walter253 not hatred, it's hubris. They took "pride" too literally and cannot accept a reality that which is not their own fabrication.

[@h9901-y6y]

As a straight man who has been in a monogamous relationship with my bisexual wife for almost eight years I appreciate shoe drawing attention to this. The fact that anyone would ever try to argue for the validity of "MAPs" and in the same breath claim that bisexuality is invalid just shows exactly how delusional and warped people are now. Edit: just to clarify my bisexual wife married me (a man) and she is still bisexual, the fact that we plan on spending our lives committed to solely each other does not change her sexuality nor does it mean I magically "turned her straight". I love how the narrative was to accept everyone and the more we lean into that as a country the more bigotry surfaces from the ones trumpeting acceptance the loudest.

[@Edwin-iw8gb]

They're blind to their own hypocrisy or they just don't care

[@h9901-y6y]

@@OceanAce precisely, it both astonishes and sickens me that we have somehow reached a point as a society where there is any group of people who is more protected than children.

[@h9901-y6y]

@@Edwin-iw8gb I personally believe the latter is the case. In my experience most people are opportunistic and predatory by nature. The issue is that the people who embrace that nature rather than fight it are the ones who tend to be charge however small their particular group may be.

[@Jaydavid25.]

I don't think the label of her sexuality matters.. It's almost like it's being used to seek validation or something.. She's in a committed relationship with you.. That's all that should matter..

[@Lucien86]

@@h9901-y6y Children's lives are more protected today than they ever have through the whole of human history. Often protected to the point of suffocation - where they grow up to adulthood broken and deformed. Teenage suicide and kids shooting kids are not symptoms of a healthy upbringing.

[@tsgtajirisilvergaming90]

First of all I have to give you so much props, I have heard this s*** so much growing up with my mom. I grew up in the gay community and it was so frustrating to hear them say how they're being attacked constantly but would turn face and attack you if your bi... I would always say "wait so you're a lesbian which is good but if they're bi, it's bad".... I hated seeing this s*** and dealing with it growing up. I love the fact we've come a long way with gay rights being more mainstream getting more attention and having better progress, but the infighting is absolute horseshit. Let people be people stop telling them they need to pick a side. Some of these takes with your reaction had me laughing so excellent call out on these people. 😅

[@froggacuda1605]

"Why can't the LGBT community all just get along. We're all going to hell anyway." Common ground at last!

[@burninsherman1037]

I'll see y'all fuckers there!

[@Wolf_3125]

Nah, destroy each other 🤣🤣🤣 It's too entertaining to the rest of us

[@demonlordomegaacepilot7090]

@@Wolf_3125 agreed the more they self the destruct the more "us straight" can enjoy their life style fall apart. Bahahahhaha

[@HatredInTheFlesh]

Your hell is made up lmao, as is your imaginary friend god.

[@lakethefrog]

Ikr we shall take over the world before going to hell

[@Bobby-wn5yr]

It’s sadly true. One of my best friends in the world is bi. She’s had periods she thought she was straight and periods she thought she was gay, and it took a lot of figuring out for her. Sadly whilst I’ve seen her get a heap of support from either camp she mostly just got distrust and dismissed when she finally came out as bi. Like ‘oh so it was a gay phase’ kind of thing, or she’s had guys freak out when they found out she’s previously slept with women either because they fear she’s a closet gay, or because they feel like they won’t be as good in the bedroom (newsflash every woman in America has a vibrator and they still have sex with their partners). Fortunately she’s been with her current partner for years now and they’re fully committed so people don’t sweat it anymore but yeah shit was crazy, it would really upset her sometimes. I remember when she had her first boyfriend in forever and they were living together everyone just totally dismissed her as ‘straight again’ - in her own words ‘when all the porn you watch is boobs, and you have boobs, you’re not straight.’

[@blackdeath4eternity]

" ‘when all the porn you watch is boobs, and you have boobs, you’re not straight.’" hahaha, i like that. to-bad as a guy ill likely never have a chance to use it but its a good one. glad to hear your friends doing well... & i'm honestly a little surprised she got that much distrust from straights as well. all the best to the both of ya.

[@seekervaltriz9447]

@@blackdeath4eternity I meaaaaaan....there's OTHER body parts you can put in.

[@blackdeath4eternity]

@@seekervaltriz9447 and your point is?

[@seekervaltriz9447]

@@blackdeath4eternity Use your creativity, darling.

[@blackdeath4eternity]

@@seekervaltriz9447 do you tell gay guys there are Vs?

[@bean835]

This is what happens when your sexuality is your whole identity

[@harsha6937]

Based

[@strvmpet]

idk i think youre sexuality being a large part of your identity isnt a bad thing but it's just when you start insulting people for their sexuality in some kind of "mine is the best"

[@harsha6937]

@@strvmpet Sexuality is not large part Character Deeds Skills Intelligence And so on.... Play even major roles Sexuality just makes you likes people sexually, nothing huge accomplished by this

[@strvmpet]

@@harsha6937 i'd disagree, their is a massive gay culture and when people refer to making your sexuality your whole identity it mainly refers to people who are more involved with that culture

[@harsha6937]

@@strvmpet Get the hell out of that culture then There is no necessity of that culture If you think you will have good life for every choice you take Then that is not the case, life is not always petals, thorns are also present Just get out of Gay culture and follow normal culture if you are so hurt about it No ones cares about your gender Probably you as a person do But even if you choose one, no big difference will occur And you are already born with either male or female sex Then go with the norm You can't fucking get both and live life as you want to While ignoring objective truth

[@mrreiter9807]

I remember when I came out in college and I was open and proud. I went on a couple dates with men, some with women. But none of the people I dated (except one guy, but he wanted to have a poly relationship, which I’m not into) wanted to continue to date, they didn’t know I was bisexual until after the first date. I was so depressed I went back in the closet. I started dating my current wife and about a month in i sheepishly told her I was bisexual. She openly accepted and loved me. I hate being told that I picked a side, or I ended up straight. She chose me, and she’s the only person I’ll ever want. I’m still bisexual, she’s straight, and we have a beautiful marriage. I didn’t pick a side. The sides didn’t even pick me, one person did. And I couldn’t be happier she did. Thanks for helping Shoe. As a guy who is mostly in the closet I feel comfortable coming here ❤️

[@AWSMcube]

W

[@joshuabreurken2424]

W

[@AisforAtheist]

This is so sweet. ❤ I'm glad your wife chose and accepted you.

[@DepreNox]

🥺💜

[@ThatBunniBoi]

Beautifully told. I’m so happy for you. 🥺

[@slayeroffurries1115]

Man, those "you can't trust bi folk to not cheat on you" really give off the "trans people are liars and deceiving" vibes

[@michaelt.5672]

Wouldn't surprise me if TERFs also hated bi people, so probably there's some overlap.

[@handicapcat]

bisexual struggles and trans struggles will never be on the same level so dont even imply it lol

[@dicorockhimself]

@@handicapcat I'm guessing its more of that the person is relating the same stereotyping hate is made by things they cant change and are trying their hardest

[@seviikun]

@@handicapcat found one

[@handicapcat]

@@seviikun found what lol... im not saying bi people dont go through anything but its not comparable to transgender women getting beat on the street just for living

[@salinora0]

alphabet people enabled friendly fire

[@epoilca]

Lol does you think that saying this will be taken as fine?

[@BURNERACCOUNTFORRYTNRS]

​@@epoilca yup. we dont care.

[@epoilca]

@@BURNERACCOUNTFORRYTNRS braindead

[@BlooMonkiMan]

​@@BURNERACCOUNTFORRYTNRS wdym we? Nintendo Wii?

[@tiberiuscodius5828]

As a member of the Bionicle community, I need to protest the use of our word

[@Supermynci9000]

What term do you prefer?

[@tiberiuscodius5828]

@@Supermynci9000 person inclined toward Bionicle

[@turnage_michael]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DovaDude]

​@@Supermynci9000constractionist

[@mikey92362]

It's unhealthy to hold on to those feelings. Sometimes you just gotta Lego.

[@nicodemusrahl]

Yep, I worked at a gay bar being a bi male. I started telling people they had to tip me every time they told me I was just gay/straight. People don’t get that I love the person and not their genitalia. Hats off the Bisexual in the world, keep the eye roll strong.

[@ellibean5937]

Same but I also love everybody's genitals tbh

[@BlooMonkiMan]

>I love the person and not their genitalia Isn't that just pansexuality?

[@dreayth]

Yeah, as a Bisexual male, I catch "You like dudes, just say you're gay already" pretty damn often... and frankly it's really upsetting. I'm just grateful to have a friend group that actually believes that I know who I am because apparently all the folks on Twitter know me better than I do.

[@lyrebird712]

It's not sexuality, but I've always responded to "Do you like Star Wars or Star Trek?" with "Why does someone only get to pick one?". The idea that everything has to be 100% one way or the other is kind of infuriating.

[@dreayth]

@@MaskedMammal I'm speaking from personal experience. It's happened to me quite a lot.

[@bloxxer_boy]

@@MaskedMammal People's experiences differ from your own, just cuz it hasn't happened to you, doesn't mean it can't happen to someone else

[@dreayth]

@@bloxxer_boy Thank you.

[@bgoodnow]

I’m pan/bi either works, and sh** gets real sometimes, but I know us bi gals don’t take half the sh** bi dudes take! You guys put up with a lot! I just wanted to show some solidarity, and say you’re awesome!!

[@dhunter1133]

"Why can't we all just get along?" Because the Oppression Olympics is competitive and the Romanian judge is known to take bribes.

[@RockySamson]

When my brother came out as gay, he cried while my parents showed him love, support and acceptance. When my parents discovered I was bi through my MySpace page (yeah) they sat me down for a serious discussion and explained why I had to pick a side.

[@saintcitron]

Bruh wtf

[@bannedmann4469]

Sheesh...

[@Pico2199]

Well, which side did you pick? j/k

[@FACTBOT_5000]

The problem sounds like a misunderstanding of different perspectives. If you view sexual attraction as utilitarian, then being bi sounds like self gratification is taking president over function. It's like thinking a stripper is hot, while knowing the girl at church would make a better mother for your children. It's how you make that decision. At least from what it sounds like the parents perspective is here. This is very common. You can disagree, but it's easier to take when you understand how the perspective it's coming from is different from yours. Everybody has their own perspectives, and that's ok. Understanding and accepting other perspectives, even when we disagree, is the way.

[@EmmsReality]

@@FACTBOT_5000 would have to find a way to agree with genocide if they lived in certain cultures. This is the way of fascism.

[@kaecampbell8642]

As a lesbian, I'm totally okay with bi women sitting on my fence.

[@ghostdog9921]

Same (I'm a men)

[@petipeti1235]

​@@ghostdog9921im a men too!

[@quinteastwood8752]

Read this like three times before I realized you wrote fence

[@CS_Mango]

Ah. I see. A woman of culture. Edit: nevermind it reads fence....

[@Andre-mv9hm]

What kind of fence do you have? Wood or metal ?

[@lissssa7098]

I'm a bisexual girl and the only 'relationship' I've been in was with a girl. I was 14 and I honestly don't even know if you can really call it a relationship but I remember going through the city, holding my gfs hand and suddenly an old guy drove by us on a bike, spit at us, and called us dykes. My then gf is a lesbian, why is she allowed to 'take back' the slur and I'm not? I don't get the logic... My mom always told us that she didn't care if we brought a boy or a girl back home, as long as they are a decent human being. When I told her I was bi she started telling me that it's only a phase and that I'll make up my mind one day... And last weird thing I got for being bi, is that the moment someone knows your prefrence, they start to over analyse it. I prefer men and as soon as my lgbt friends foud that out they immidiatly wanted to know exact numbers and shit. When I told them I found a girl attractive they asked me if that number changed etc. Why is it so important to other people? (Hope I don't have to many typos and stuff, I'm not a native speaker and it's like 1am.)

[@dappidy3763]

Because we are a voyeuristic species, darling. > My mom always told us that she didn't care if we brought a boy or a girl back home, as long as they are a decent human being Same here, except it's crazy hard to find sane LGBT who similarly won't microanalyse me for any perceived signs of "homophobia" or whatever.

[@tarrker]

I feel you on the thing where people try to validate you. I legit thought I was gay until I met my wife. I just had never met a good woman before, let alone the right, good woman. It was like we were married from day one. Both of us are still super gay. She still loves girls and I still love boys. She's still the ONLY woman I've ever been with. But, every gay anything that either one of us tries to be apart of involves people constantly asking us about our sex lives. We basically gave up ages ago on all of it. We've been very effectively excluded.

[@Masterofcreat]

@@tarrker just a random thing I thought about when reading your comment: I recently heard someone make the point, that sure, gay people can marry, as long as it is a man and a woman. He was making the point on the 'what is a woman' debate from a history study/abrahamic texts standpoint, while it resonated with me as a biologist. Humans are as a species 'programmed' to propagate, regardless of our preference of partner, 'outliers' fill the empty spots. Marriage as a mating pair for the sole purpose to raise children seems to be the most stable way to live life. So sure, you can be gay, but also be human and feel connected to the opposite sex. Have a nice day.

[@caliginousmoira8565]

that's when you just say... I AM ME(I)... not a label or a preference, just me...

[@charmicarmicat2981]

As a bi man I’ve dealt with this exact same thing. I feel your pain homie

[@genderaxio7433]

As a trans person I can only say bisexuals are a godsent. No matter how feminine or masculine I look, they're still attracted to me. This is a lot of comforting stability to me

[@tylersrailfanningandgaming8168]

Valid statement

[@thekidontheinternet6178]

bisexualaliy is dating someone before, during and after their transition

[@captaine-niscookie3406]

@@thekidontheinternet6178 based

[@nickchristian1590]

As you are trans person, it's super affirming to know your "real" identity is baser off others' attraction to you. Loser. Happy loser month🎉

[@zzodysseuszz]

You aren’t trans. Socially made up term that doesn’t exist in reality.

[@ToonamiT0M]

It's about time someone stood up for the most oppressed sexuality... BIONICLE!

[@Th0rn5555]

Everyone is a Bionicle already since we're wearing masks to go outside

[@brendanb2982]

HOLY GADUNKA

[@thedeepfriar745]

Praise Pohatu

[@cameronroy2129]

They're more of a religion if you've heard of the dream

[@SenbonKaguya]

Love isn't canon

[@michaeldavis9190]

As a gay man, watching these people try to claim that bisexuality isn't real or that people ending up with the opposite sex is bad or just something as a result of conditioning really feels like a lot of the things I've heard and been told about my own sexuality. They've become what they swore to destroy.

[@nt78stonewobble]

I just think people worry way too much about other people's sexuality, when it's none of their business.

[@eggrollorsoup6052]

I agree. As a straight man, I find it a bit ironic that I am more accepting/tolerant of non heterosexual orientations than some people with non heterosexual orientations.

[@NeuroD369]

I made the same comment earlier but on further review, I’m not altogether sure that they are the same ones that started the fight.

[@GreatRottweiler]

I am bi, and although I haven't come across that, I've been told that I'm a bad person for daring to be interested in regular gals or guys only, and are condescending while talking to me as if they know me better than I know myself, yeah, they are becoming what they claim to hate.

[@GreatRottweiler]

@@juliankohler5086 Sorry to hear. And if I'm being honest, I never subscribed to any community, not even when it was the LGBT before the identities madness took over and all of that. I see no pride nor shame, I just am what I am, never saw anything of value subscribing to the "movement" at all. But yeah, I get what you mean, by engaging in purity tests they are becoming what they hate, I've been told that I'm no better than a straight guy for not being interested in dating anyone who isn't a regular guy or gal, but I don't care, nor should you.

[@emperornapoleon6204]

“A few more sexualities and we’ve got a gay confederate flag!” The comedic timing and sharp wit are spot on, Shoe!

[@roscoejones374]

They have a gay Nazi flag which is fitting.

[@upsidedownpyramid7617]

I haven’t seen a take that made my jaw drop in so long but the one about MAPs had me suffering

[@austinwyss]

Humans love tribalism so much they just can't help but keep creating more and more versions of it. Great video! You had me with that pan caressing. Good luck with your move!

[@laraking804]

I don’t get this need to be part of a group. I really, really don’t get it. I think it’s just a sign of social anxiety and insecurity. Get help. Work on yourself.

[@voodoodolll]

@@laraking804 There's a video on KZbin called "Tribalism CC". Made by a doctor, he goes into the origins of tribalism. It's very eye opening.

[@sirrys]

I would say it’s in the very nature of humans to be longing for a place in a group but idk just my opinion🤷

[@MrOraas]

​@@sirrys ain't that a fact?

[@hornbeam7131]

I remember when LGBT+ activists were fighting for the right for people to love who they wanted and not be told by others who it was ok for them to love or be sexually attracted to. Seems a lot in the community have forgotten this basic principle.

[@JohnA...]

It stopped being about sexuality or "right to love" when it went beyond the first 3 letters. After that in the mainstream it was attention, constantly adding more because others saw what attention they could demand with it, as well as normalizing their own situations. And of course it was going to get to fighting, not only are the new kids constantly taking away the attention but they don't all believe the same thing because it isn't about "right to love" anymore its about "what can I be today that will get people to notice me with no effort" or how can I demand people accept my disorder/mentality as "normal".

[@maxmercurythemm827]

​@@JohnA... You nailed it. No matter how many of them they say there are, the LGBTANDTHEREST community is that, a minority community. Except now, they are not fighting for their right to do what they want (for the most part, they already have that), but whining "boo hoo oppression"; because, even with all those letters and sub-communities added, it's still a minority community and not "the norm" (Not even counting the "if you don't date me you're Xphobic" types). Adding to that is that a vocal chunk of the group is boiling with hatred for the "patriarchy" or the "cis white men". I won't get started about how transgenderism is a completely separate issue from the rest and how sex isn't a sexuality, so the community started getting mainstream and bastardizing itself at the same time.

[@Destroyer2150]

As a former LGBTQ+ activist and bisexual male, it breaks my heart that there are people out there who thinks this way. I raised my voice and the flag to guarantee that no one would be treated as a 2nd class citizen. And idiots like these come saying we're not part of the club anymore. Twitter and other social medias have become echo chambers for these people.

[@RogueDemon1199]

Chin up you took on the good fight when it still stood for something,

[@jesperengelbredt]

The revolution is eating its own children, like all revolutions before it. Thats what many revolutionaries dont understand: Its NEVER the people who start the revolution that get to see the results they wanted. It ALWAYS ends up somewhere entirely different as the revolution gets hi-jacked again and again, until the original revolutionaries end up being the enemy.

[@Mo_3n1]

Saying bisexual men who don’t date men aren’t bi is hilarious because that’s like saying that a straight guy who hasn’t dated a girl isn’t straight 🤦‍♂️

[@ridori7376]

Yeah, I thought we didn't want to treat straight as the default and yet here we are.

[@scottbreon9448]

No, it just means you’re an incel. LOL

[@dagsneve7896]

Then hes not straight, hes an incel 😁

[@That0Fit0Guy]

The only appropriate bisexual response to these people: "I'm not just like the rest of you. I'm stronger, I'm smarter. I'm better! I AM BETTER!"

[@Mirekluk]

Just because you don't like chocolate doesn't mean I can't enjoy chocolate apple ;) seriously, this mindset is dumb.

[@lexa7250]

Homelander reference

[@Buzzkilljoy1248]

"Jack-of-all-trades, master of none. Often better than a master of one~"

[@AmaraTheBarbarian]

Was in a straight relationship as a bi, GF thinks I'm gonna cheat on her with a dude because trust issues and thinks I'm just gay, entire hetero relationship to the contrary but w/e. She cheats on me with a "real man" who doesn't also like dick... Just saying some of these people might be projecting a little

[@HExtraordinaire]

People worried about that shit are the real sussy bakas

[@Jess-iq1bw]

She doesn't deserve you anyway. You dodge the bullet there. And I hope you're doing alright now.

[@e-man3664]

Damn thats fcked up. People who are concerned with that stuff are just really insecure.

[@nemanjastevanov9980]

Fellow heterosexuals, she's onto us! She found us in her audience! Run for your lives!!!

[@Bleep0Bloop]

lawd Halp Us..

[@monsoon5524]

Oh no, they're pointing out that femboys are technically 2.19% gay!

[@jamiebowler4693]

Nah we’re clearly just gay society has brainwashed us

[@tulkasastaldo4114]

Nah brah, I just learned at 4:09 that apparently the B stands for Bionicle, so I'm also part of the LGBT community now.

[@Lunar1us]

I am staying, I wanna see the spectacle that happens

[@Freddy_Guy]

As a bi dude I've heard my fair share of "you're just gay" which is ironic since I've only been in one relationship and that was with a woman, people can't seem to fathom i like both parties, I'm glad I've had cool friends who haven't judged me for being myself. Now my family on the other hand

[@dlm5505]

As a fellow bi man dating a woman I feel this

[@Drghost1235]

Hey, I'm a bi guy myself, dated both sides but even I see that you're still bi and valid, much like Dlm.

[@loganbaileysfunwithtrains606]

People are bi and that’s whatever, but two dudes having sex is gay tho, why is there denial about it

[@pokaay3163]

Huh this is giving me hope as a bi girl that I might find a bi guy to befriend, because tbh id prefer a bi dude over a straight one is that weird lol

[@iBloodxHunter]

The word they're looking for is "desperate."

[@mikicerise6250]

That text crawl is hilarious. Hilarious in a 'yikes' kind of way. 😅 Reminds me when I was looking for university housing and they said women and men would be housed separately to prevent sexual distractions and I asked if that meant I would get my own private room.

[@112granty]

I don't think we need to come up with a slur for bi you already hit the nail on the head with bionicle 😆

[@Madeleine_des_Esseintes]

I always assumed it was bigot(t) :D

[@sampfrost]

oi lego did enough to bionicle you don’t need to make it worse

[@flyingfish64]

@@sampfrost I wanna go back to the days where they weren't dying in the backrooms of Legos warehouse

[@MoustachioFurioso83]

Isn't a slur supposed to sound bad and unappealing, though? I'd almost want to be called a Bionicle.

[@flyingfish64]

@@MoustachioFurioso83 I mean "you ain't no Toa, you bum ass Matoran" still sounds pretty harsh

[@badplayer9695]

"Ah yes let me gatekeep the community of diversity and acceptance while sitting on my gay little pedestal over here. It has a rainbow flag so you know Im the real deal." Im heterosexual and these people make it look incredibly daunting to try and find a community to belong to for queer people. Its neat how they went from "All are welcome" to highschool drama within a decade, along with slandering anyone and everyone who points out the holes in their ship. Also, you looked freaking GORGEOUS in that ad with the dress and how you did your hair!

[@Intercaust]

Yes she did.

[@thespider7898]

Communities are cancerous, and will try to speak for you in ways you won't like. It's also weird to make what you're attracted to into your whole identity, when straight people do that we all see them as cringy af.

[@Maniacman2030]

The current LGBT already wants to be worshiped, as if they're something special to be looked up to. Sorry, but I don't see anything special about genetic dead ends. No offense to y'all(in general), that's kinda what you are. Some people have just given up being part of the community, because it has become a toxic storm of purity testing and things(such as messing with kids) that most people already detest. There's also the whining at not getting their way and attempting to destroy others that don't align with them. So yeah, that's why there's a lot of LGBT people that AREN'T part of the "Community", which as you said, became a High School Clique. (Not to mention the current Ideology within it, but that's a completely separate argument.)

[@HeavyHebi]

Twitter does that to people

[@mrjesuschrist2u]

Intersectionality only leads to what the founding fathers knew the smallest minority is the individual

[@vinciryan]

As a bisexual man I have gotten such comments as "Oh you're only like 20% gay", "So you're just playing with gay men", "I never flirted with you because you're not into girls", "OMG you're my GAY best friend" and my favorite "Hey you're bi-lingual right?" I'm with Shoe, yes let's just remove the B from the acronym altogether. Everyone tries to act like we don't exist or it's some kind of conspiracy so fuck it! Just yeet the whole term! "What's your sexuality?" "YES"

[@XionRulez]

"yes" is actually the word i use for my bi/pan ocs on their bio pages "no" for aces

[@DavidSmith-bh6ez]

"What's your sexuality?" "Like who do I have with?" "Yes...?" "Your mo

[@DavidSmith-bh6ez]

"What's your sexuality?" "Like who do I have with?" "Yes...?" "Your mo

[@Nehu_22]

Just because someone idiots are "against" bisexuality, doesn't mean we all are, I'm gay and I hate when people try to invalidate bisexuals or asexuals, or anyone in those cases (except ped0phile5, of course)

[@charliekahn4205]

@@XionRulez Demisexual people are "maybe"

[@1993httphil]

I'm sapiosexual... all these people are safe from me.

[@CJCroen1393]

As a bi dude, I have to say, I clicked this faster than a peregrine falcon diving after a pigeon. Glad you’re covering this topic, it never gets talked about enough.

[@rapterslayer]

I agree but also feel that everyone has a preference if that makes sense would you say that accurate

[@CJCroen1393]

Having preferences doesn’t make a bisexual person less bisexual

[@foxtonthefreakshowhound832]

I remember that despite making it known that I was bisexual, I was called heteronormative because I said kids shouldn't be seeing people in bdsm gear at pride and kinks shouldn't be present at a public event where all ages are allowed to be in it. if you guessed that this was on Twitter then you guessed right. Icing on the cake is that they were also a furry

[@fbidumbbee]

as a furry we do not claim

[@akumu9301]

Well hello there!

[@foxtonthefreakshowhound832]

@@akumu9301 general bigot lol

[@foxtonthefreakshowhound832]

@@fbidumbbee you and me both man

[@akumu9301]

@@foxtonthefreakshowhound832 LMFAO

[@Office_Zombie]

I am 100% straight. The thought of being in a room with another naked man terrifies me. This is due to being raped as a kid. 100% straight people exist. My wife is bi despite only ever having sex with me. It isn't that she is straight because she hasn't slept with another woman, it is that she hasn't had a chance to sleep with another woman because she believes in the "do on to others" rule and doesn't like cheaters. My brother is gay despite never sleeping with anyone. Just because you haven't sleep with someone doesn't mean your sexual preference changes. If that would be the case, all Christians before marriage should be considered asexual.

[@Office_Zombie]

@@ConsciousApostle999 I LOL'd then sighed at this one. Sexual identity is identified by the individual, not the ones grinding against them.

[@PoeticInsanity]

@@ConsciousApostle999 Yeah bro gettin raped by a man totally takes away from your straightness, like jus say no and kick his ass like a real straight man 🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@xxminecraftlegendarxx6804]

@@ConsciousApostle999 wtf

[@jeremyvolland8508]

Here is one of the great questions, what defines sexuality? Is it attraction or action? Many of the terrible comments read by Shoe stem from the basic idea that sexuality is primarily defined by action. And yes, if these people were consistant, then they should believe that everyone is asexual untill they actually have sex.

[@samuelramos4504]

Christians before marriage should be considered as "closeth straight" ppl

[@someguy3861]

"French" - the slur for bi people

[@Mark-ci6ln]

That’s a bit too insulting

[@krkngd-wn6xj]

It is very dehumanizing to compare any person to the Fr*nch

[@magicsteve5523]

*Baguette intensifies*

[@BlooMonkiMan]

I don't get it

[@alkazarjkdghjd]

@@BlooMonkiMan They most certainly dont get it either.

[@HolyApplebutter]

As someone who's bi myself, I actually find it a bit funny when the LGBT community hates on bi people. Like, bruh, what do you think the B stands for? Bussy?

[@kiarara7014]

LMAFO

[@christianloper9483]

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@icursemystarsinbittergrief]

Maybe bigot? 🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@sarminder4357]

Bisexual bussy

[@GrayWoIf]

Biden

[@Unknown-no3cu]

"Bisexual people get straight privileged" As an open femine bisexual man who just graduated from a christian school, *No, no we do not*

[@bioshazard]

What is the opposite of "femine"?

[@spacebunsarah]

@@bioshazard …masculine…?

[@Unknown-no3cu]

@@bioshazard masculine

[@p0rkst34k]

@@bioshazard mascune

[@bioshazard]

@@Unknown-no3cu thanks I figured "feminine" was different from "femine" and was curious if there was a word I didn't know

[@stevenmiller2820]

I’m married to a bisexual woman. I’m straight, you can cry for me. This video was good and truthful. Thanks for sharing.

[@JerkingtheGerk]

9:24 did this person really just essentially say “eww cooties”? Man do I love getting the perspective of these modern day intellectuals.

[@BlackWind-rx5il]

As a straight guy I've always thought the meaning of the LGBTQI+ community was to show solidarity to each other, you know, "we're marginalized, oppressed, isolated, let's band together to support each other and fight for our rights to live a normal life". Basically a temporary solution to eventually obtain "normality" status in the eyes of the people that just can't let other people be what they are and don't consider them "normal". So the LGBTQI+ community was supposed to fight so that one day, they don't need to be a community any longer. But it's clear to me even them don't escape an awful human trace, of ganging together and and make it about "us vs them". And once that happens, then the fight for "exclusivity" begins internally. It's unfortunately that this is exactly what ruins communities born with a real goal. For the LGBTQI+ Community, now is "you're not gay enough". It's sad. Especially for those of them who don't fall for this crap. Must be frustrating to see the solution becoming part of the problem.

[@keetongu445]

yup im a gay guy who generally acts "straight." im not very feminine. ive been told im not gay enough fairly often. it's annoying. masculine gay guys exist lol

[@Dreams_Of_Lavender]

Yea, I feel that. That's what intersectionality is supposed to mean, we might not be part of the under-class for the same reasons, but we both are, so let's work together and bond over being the underdog. But most humans are greedy and tribalistic, and not everybody can keep that down to work together and get along for the greater good.

[@Vespyr_]

Well as we become less marginalized and less oppressed and less isolated we are going to start taking the characteristics of our oppressors.

[@ExeErdna]

This is basically what Dave Chapelle been stating in his specials. There's layers to LGBT+ and they're not friendly to each other when they assume "straights" aren't looking. Yet now more than ever their toxicity is spilling into the mainstream. Which reinforces what people say about them.

[@kingkitty026]

Actually now that I think about it how does being asexual or demisexual work out in the gay cult? Wait are they even considered as part of the cult i keep forgetting.

[@HiImMach]

Yesterday: Sexuality is not a choice! Today: We are who we choose to be... now choose!

[@GrndAdmiralThrawn]

I understood that reference

[@wrecklass]

I think it's more like "you are who WE choose you to be."

[@whitestoneandy797]

I am a straight, cis, man. I watch Shoeonhead. I am the silent minority. I am here. I am real. I am valid.

[@VORASTRA]

Please, verify you're not a robot.

[@NicolasClark7732]

Reminds me of how in my main friend groups throughout high school and the first couple years of college, we pretty much only had a couple of straights in the group and they were the minority.

[@caderidley2309]

Leave. Now.

[@Eking-su3tr]

Brave and stunning

[@lastson5014]

Powerful

[@bawdydog176]

Part of the problem may be everyone trying to use the term "community" where there clearly isn't one. People in a true community wouldn't treat each other like this. Imho

[@MelissaHogwood]

The only woman that's been interested in me was just wanting a rebound. All other girls I've liked were straight. I also wanted kids. So yes, as a bi woman, I am with a man. I understand how hard it is to try to date a woman though. I sympathize with lesbians.

[@iBloodxHunter]

Has nothing to do with repehensiblity.

[@bobby45825]

@@pshkdjdbd3950 I'm really curious about this. This kind of dynamic is rarely aired out in the public. Can you clarify what you mean by the younger girls being "toxic"?

[@dappidy3763]

@@pshkdjdbd3950 1) um, hi? fellow incel here? xD not the only one? 2) I feel ya. It's hard enough to find a girl. Even harder to find a sane one. Individualists, unite ??

[@dappidy3763]

@Hasan Piker then she'll have to date a masc.

[@anonsidious358]

" A few more sexualities and we have a gay confederate flag"~Shoe. Yes

[@nathangehman7018]

I'm a straight white male who has never been in a relationship. I'm glad to know that I can actually run in the oppression Olympics because apparently I'm not in fact straight, I'm asexual. I'm gonna go to Twitter now and start calling out other straight white men who are in relationships because they are actively hurting me and the rest of the LGBTQ community by perpetuating the need of a relationship, and that they need to just accept that because they were once not in a relationship, they are Asexual.

[@MrEshed123]

This is the first time I've wanted to use the clap emoji.

[@tschakatschada]

Good plan

[@KikiChan_007]

I'm crying laughing 😂

[@abadenoughdude300]

So basically, everyone that has had the "basement dwelling incel" thrown at him can now join the LGBTQ community as an asexual. The irony here is so thick you need a chainsaw to cut it.

[@nathangehman7018]

@@abadenoughdude300 You make a good point. This may be the most toxic way to solve the incel problem.

[@MoreImbaThanYou]

I am so glad not living in america. I recently started being open about being bi (not by making it my fucking identity, but being honest about it when asked or in the rare situation of LGBTQ and trans being topic of a conversation), and I almost never got any problems. Usually it's something among the lines of "Huh, didn't expect that." or "Nice that you are so open about it!". The only time I got a literal "Why don't bi people just choose?" was when my neighbor, a rather uneducated woman, was low-key annoyed by the best friend of her daughter having a "bi-phase". When I told her, I was bi too, she got seriously uncomfortable, trying to backpedal on that statement while stuttering like some embarassed anime character. She never talked to me again except of a fake-friendly "hello" when we met outside.

[@blackdeath4eternity]

i hope she just finds it awkward & was worried about her daughter... some do go through a "phase" rather than staying one way or another so i would understand their concern if there was any kind of social pressure involved at all.

[@MoreImbaThanYou]

@@blackdeath4eternity Finding it "awkward" is the problem though. Asking them to "choose" is the problem as well. Just accept it. What kind of genitalia your offspring is going to be interested in is not for the parent to decide, nor to judge. Thats exactly the kind of behaviour that constitutes the social pressure to begin with, and therefor a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[@TheWhiteDragon3]

What perfect timing, Shoe! I actually just asked my sister the other day if she had personally experienced biphobia from the LGBTQ+ community, and I was shocked hearing just how many instances she listed off *in real life too* . She ended by describing the LGBTQ+ community as "catty." Now I'm straight and a former conservative myself, so I have a _lot_ of trouble understanding it all, but you would think that the group of people who experience extremely similar prejudices would be more accepting of each other, right? And you would think that this community more than any other would be proponents of "you like what you like, man."

[@billr3053]

Former conservative? Time to turn back to the community who is less catty and, ironically, more welcoming in the long run. You've seen it yourself.

[@TheWhiteDragon3]

@@billr3053 I don't care about the community. I care about my own views and those alone.

[@billr3053]

​@@TheWhiteDragon3 You're right. Best way to be. They're all labels and divisive. I'm still learning and I'm in my 60s.

[@mylesfarmer7007]

Honestly it’s just a lot of young kinds with a lot of trauma. They form little cliques and think it’s a community. Generally they age out of it get help

[@eighth08]

There's that expression "shit rolls downhill" because all kinds of people are like this. Some people are so bad at processing trauma or conflict they just throw it at someone else.

[@My2Cents.iF7934]

Literally ALL of my rage as a bisexual dude in one video. Fucking thank you, woman.

[@Da-C0ry]

I just realized how stange it is to finish a sentence like that, tho not at all at the same time. I got used to saying "thanks, man" and things like that but like yeah It just sounds off now lmao I think it sounds off because of how often the word "woman" gets thrown around in a derogatory matter, whereas "man" or "dude" is cool and stuff. Huh.

[@sulaimankhuhro8717]

You and me both dude. Thank you shoe!

[@SenbonKaguya]

@@Da-C0ry I've seen people who say "don't call me dude" lol

[@wryrinoren5392]

Agreed

[@Rackatiakka]

Make another video, woman.

[@Tyhros]

I say "no homo" before every gay thing i do, and it protects me. So no im not gay.

[@PaganGamer729]

This is only your second video I have watched and I love it. Keep it going !!

[@DuoMaxwel]

Shoe says the things I wish I could say to people. Thank you for being you and o w o

[@8KururuSouchou8]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo ok, I won't.

[@Flump-Master]

@@8KururuSouchou8 good ending unlocked

[@DisasterEnby]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo k

[@Coonazz791]

I’d say stop giving a F and say what you want to say. You might lose some friends, but were they really that good of friends if that would dump you for speaking your mind?

[@Sheriden.]

As an Ace person, and on behalf of the ace community, I welcome the bi people. We will create a gang and It will be called “all or none”.

[@whiskey-biscuit9388]

based idk man i like to eat vegege and smoke pp idk why people are riled up

[@Sheriden.]

@@whiskey-biscuit9388 idk either my guy.

[@chubskii]

You gotta invite the pans into it too lad

[@Sheriden.]

@@chubskii I think you can fall under the “all” part of it. Welcome friend.

[@chubskii]

@@Sheriden. oh no I’m bi, just gotta watch out for our non stick brethren

[@koentje8415]

I love how communities that are all about loving people regardless of who they exclude people for loving people irrespective of their sex. I am so happy! Also, hating what normies regard as "normal" makes you sound like a toddler.

[@billr3053]

They're the most judgy and self-hating. Because they themselves are confused and constantly feel threatened by imagined enemies. They lash out and hate everybody else because that's easier than being honestly self reflective. They refuse to see the flaws in themselves and maybe try to work on those. All while they enjoy and revel in their victimhood status.

[@kuriko_]

one would think people who have suffered homophobia would have more empathy and acceptance of others regarding their sexuality, but hey i guess not!

[@iBloodxHunter]

@@kuriko_ That's not what "empathy" means. You and every other trash fake bleeding heart abuse that word for your own gain.

[@terrified057t4]

Same as "No hate like Christian love", no gatekeeping like Pride unity.

[@persephone6204]

As a bi dude that just moved from a rural area into a city. A large part of me wants to be very open with people about being bi but then I see shit like this all the time and know it's just gonna go terribly. I hear story after story of bi dudes avoiding the question or just not saying it because they've had a ton of bad experiences before. I always said I wasn't going to do that, that I'd just tell people straight (ha) up and whatever happens, happens, but I'm not that confident of a person. I want to be able to make friends without worrying they'll treat me differently if they know I'm bi. It's all just dumb as hell.

[@thac0twenty377]

Good friends won't give a dman. if they give you shit figure better to move on

[@OgeiDennepeL]

Man don’t worry about this bullshit,it’s just this new wave of LGBT+ people that know nothing about suffering and having to hide their orientation in order to avoid being curbed,they want to feel special and make up a gazillion different sexualities to put a unique label on themselves. These are the kind of people that follow “trends” and think it’s funny to make fun of other marginalized groups but wouldn’t dare say a word to them outside their little phones. On a side note,I think that not everyone should know your sexual orientation,meaning that it’s not necessary to say every person on the street you’re bi. Chances are the vast majority of people couldn’t care less and don’t HAVE to know that about yourself. Find a group of people you’re comfortable with and that appreciate you for who you are, then telling them you’re bisexual will be just another thing they know about you,not your entire personality in their eyes.

[@obi-juantacobi8552]

I was in the same boat. Eventually you find your true peeps who don't care. Granted there will always be some jerks out there, but the true peep support far outways that.

[@yabazyabacoffee]

for me i wont even bring up my sexuality unless it comes up naturally as a topic of discussion or if i feel like it needs to be said to provide context. Just saying something that could be seen as TMI to some people when getting to know people is just a way to not make friends for me.

[@beaukennedy4618]

This is like when I was growing up seeing the mixed race kids get called "half-cast" and "coconuts" by their own relatives people of all colours really out there being like if you ain't my shade I'm throwing you shade

[@sloth5677]

golden comment 💛

[@tjmcfadden5137]

Facts

[@renegadethinker]

Thanks for making this video, I recently became publicly open with my bisexuality. The amount of biphobia I've faced, from men and women alike, has been ridiculous. Content like this puts a smile back on my face and reminds me I'm not alone.

[@NobleS1236]

The first time I came out as bisexual, the person I told was gay, and he forced me back into the closet.

[@brandonburrage926]

God I am so very sorry. Alot of gay people have been hurt by BI people, so they will just say your confused. Hope everything is well. Sending love ❤️

[@MRPandoraHartDR]

I had a bad experience with a lesbian first time I came out as bi, (late nineties in college). Not long after she told everyone I'd tried to seduce her girlfriend at a sleepover. I'd never even met the girlfriend or even tried to seduce any girl at any sleepover, so being confronted on this by peers was news to me! Luckily my peers believed me and the girl later apologised. But as she'd been someone I'd considered a close friend and was herself gay, I felt so stabbed in the back at her using my coming out against me in this way that I never mentioned my sexuality in college again and I'm sure most of my peers even forgot I ever came out.

[@o0o-jd-o0o95]

did he lock the door?

[@NobleS1236]

@@o0o-jd-o0o95 nope. Now I'm out of the closet again.

[@voodoodolll]

@@MRPandoraHartDR Does anyone have any insight into why some women (especially over men) are like this? What's the urge here?

[@UsernameyMcUsernameFace]

As a bi dude, the amount of men and women who've been worried that I'll suddenly get bored and decide to switch to the other gender has honestly surprised me. For me at least, the whole point is that I don't particularly care what your gender is. As my grandmother used to say, "any hole's a goal"

[@drivethrupoet]

Your Grandma knows what's up, I truly LOLd

[@EXL714]

Yeah, but you have to admit that non-bi people don't have that problem. Nobody ever got bored in a relationship then moved on with someone of the same gender as the person they're bored by. That's just ridiculous.

[@Otakulifeforme]

I will say if someone thinks that then don’t realize why your in that relationship your in love with that person your in the relationship with regardless of their gender and the only bisexual men or women who leave a relationship to get with the same sex either pieces of shit or the relationship they left wasn’t a good relationship and or in the end I think lgbtq community needs to recognize that being bisexual means you are sexual attracted to both men and women but does not mean you have to fall in love with a men and date a men if your bisexual man nor do you have to fall in love with a women and date a women to be a bisexual women it’s all about what we are sexual attracted to not what we fall in love with and want to date

[@agmechanix]

@@EXL714 I guess people just forget that some are closeted or on the DL...

[@HExtraordinaire]

Based grandmother

[@melloweyyy4923]

Unironically had a teacher in a GSA tell me straight to my face that Biphobia doesn't exist when I was planning for Pride Month. I suggested that there should be a Biphobia awareness event since there clearly isn't one. As a Bisexual I have experienced actual Biphobia for not being either or by my friends who are LGBTQ+ and my family members who are straight. Which is what I told the teacher and he just didn't back down. That's the day I stopped associating with the LGBTQ+ Community. Best day of my life :D

[@laughingjackaso8163]

"it's like a cat walking across a keyboard" - hahaha, that's gold! ... hmm, maybe that could refer to much of the content you talk about in your vids ...

[@thatdudeghosty6817]

"I don't like labels, I f with what I f with" has always made sense to me Just cause 2 gay guys meet doesn't mean they are gonna be attracted to each other, same goes for straight couples and lesbian women.

[@realityshotgun]

"Why are you erasing our existence" -labeled people

[@DieWorm]

Just Cause 2, that brought me back

[@internetguy7319]

I don't think anyone is claiming that that is how attraction works lmao

[@WhoAmEye_WhoAreEwe]

I straight up read your comment as - "I don't like labias..." My bad!! :)

[@armorheadallan]

I really appreciate this video, as a bi man I am told these kind of things all the time, and it just leaves me incredibly frustrated. Even though I live somewhere where the big gay is accepted, I often find that I have to hide the fact I'm bisexual. I never tell a man or woman that I'm into that I'm bi, and found it to be much easier to just never truly reveal it until way later. If they know, they just assume that I flirt with and want to bang every person that has a pulse. Even maintaining friendships are a pain because some of them get the assumption that I want to bang them. The thing that bothers me the most is that people who know say something along the lines of "You're really masculine for a bi man", as if being bi or even full blown gay makes a man less masculine. It's annoying how both men and women will treat me like "manly man" or "bro" until they discover my sexuality. Then they don't know what to do. It just angers me to no end. No matter what I do or say, I'm either straight but wants attention, gay but not fully committing, or I refuse to pick a side.

[@cynicalgothbrit2352]

Keep calm and fuck people thankfully being goth most people think I'm too weird to even be approached so as a bi man I don't get this crap which is nice. Sometimes there's perks to living like a hermit.

[@JohnsonJJohnson33]

Sending you a virtual homie hug from a random internet Bi

[@CanadianWolverine]

@@JohnsonJJohnson33 I would like to send those vibes too. Bi describes how I see humanity, not what I will do to them without consent.

[@Foreseer117]

I know this exact feeling. I had some pride clothing on recently and got some very leering looks while out with my wife. I only wore it because I wanted something for myself a little marker of accepting who I am as a bi man. Some people thought it was me signaling I'm available. While flattering, it made me very uncomfortable. My friends, those I've told, have all been incredibly supportive and understand I only see them as friends. My friend of 21 years was super cool about it and honestly it was incredibly reassuring to know that nothing changed between us.

[@danailmarinov7299]

Man, reading this comment section makes me realize that bi people have it the worst among all sexualities. 😐 I feel for you man.

[@MjollTheLioness-o4y]

"People get on the internet and just say shit" has got to be one of the most on point things I've ever heard said about the internet.

[@BhBc8f8]

At least the crackheads are on the internet and not out endangering lives

[@St0rmTheGates]

"Not all men are your father."

[@KaziaGD]

as a bi man myself I'm really happy that you're discussing this issue. its really frustrating to be told to pick a side or whatever when I just wanna love femboys and tomboys equally no but seriously, I've been told by my ex girlfriend (who's pan) that I wasn't bi because I look too straight, which might be true but she literally saw me date a guy before dating her which is even weirder. so yeah biphobia can even come from pan people lmfao

[@KaziaGD]

@@LoveBritneySpearsxo exactly lmao

[@Alelip1000]

howdy, fellow based femboy/tomboy enjoyer

[@ameliasellers6396]

Dude I am so glad you're out of that relationship, she sounds toxic as hell.

[@KaziaGD]

@@ameliasellers6396 yeah she was really weird, she'd be super mean to me and when we broke up she started telling people how I wasn't actually bi and bc of that we should kick me out of the lgbtq organization at my school. luckily no one believed her bc she did similar shit before lmfaoooo

[@KaziaGD]

​​@@Alelip1000 hello fellow based femboy/tomboy enjoyer, hope you're day is going well

[@bloomchakralaka]

"It's like a cat walking across a keyboard" 😂 I'm bi and have received more judgement and accusations even though I've only ever been monogamous and never cheated. I don't want both. I loved the point you made about bisexuals still being bi even when they're in a relationship, I've said this many times and people still don't get it. People are just losing brain cells and supporting others in doing the same with no logic or basis to back it up. It's both hilarious and frustrating.

[@bloomchakralaka]

My ex gf slut shamed me because I dated a man one year after we broke up. Accused me of cheating several times. Ironically she's bi and has been with way more men than me. Logic. It's not there.

[@Foreseer117]

Monogamous bis for life! I'm the same way, took my wife a while to figure out that attraction doesn't mean insatiable desire lol. But I love het and only want to spend my life with her. So here's to the Monogamous Bis!

[@LMstan1989]

This is a good take when you need to (or not) respond to the people in video about trust... if a bi guy is with their woman and gonna stay with them (assuming they both are monogamous), that's the definition of trustworthy and reliable, right? Like idk what these people are thinking. I want to believe most are joking but it's so dumb

[@bslizardette4669]

It's so absurd. My ex had a friend couple who were completely fine with me until they heard from somewhere that I identified as bisexual. A week or two later they told my boyfriend (when I wasn't present) that they felt uncomfortable around me because they didn't know which one I was trying to get with. Neither. I was trying to flirt with neither; it was a party at my BOYFRIEND'S home.

[@trudyyy9395]

this type of biphobia is the reason i was so reluctant to label myself as bi for so long, especially because i have a preference for women anyway so i just felt it would be easier to call myself a lesbian. i felt like i wouldn't be accepted by my own community if i liked men. what has the world come to.

[@Turbip]

A community that wouldn't accept you as you are, even when you fit into what it was intended to cover originally, isn't one worth being a part of. Enjoy your life. Love who you want to love. I was in your same shoes before, and people have gotten mad that I'm now married to a man. No matter what you do someone is going to hate it.

[@GaMeRfReAkLIVE]

Maybe they just arent your community. Im bisexual and i despise "the community"

[@ouwebrood497]

Don't label yourself, enjoy life with whoever you like.

[@llIlIlllII]

I think people who are not bisexual get uncomfortable with it because we don't want to date someone who's attracted to the same sex. Shouldn't be an issue for anyone though; personally, I just won't date bisexual people. Problemo solvo

[@ver5284]

Don't look for community in chronically online social circles or toxic dating apps. My cousin and my friend is bi, and we all have a blast hanging out together with our other queer friends. Your community isn't every toxic or hateful person that's LGBT, it's those that are accepting and willing to be your friend. As much as the LGBT community promotes acceptance and love, hateful and ignorant people will always exist. Hell just look at the LGB (Anti-Trans Queer group) and TERFs, they all associate themselves with groups of acceptance but hold so much hate and ignorance to others. Biphobic people are just ignorant, have internalized biphobia, or are possessive and toxic people in parasocial or romantic relationships. They believe in all the terrible myths about Bi people or they have their own insecurities about their identity.

[@Pinkyorangegirl]

When people ask my sexuality I say "I am a straight lesbian" and just leave them confused😅

[@katjevanloon]

I came out 22 years ago as bi and it's really sad to see that literally nothing has improved for us. No, wait, that's wrong -- IME straight people have gotten better. The rainbow alphabet squad has gotten more toxic. It seems like the more letters get added to the soup the pissier they get at the B.

[@CordovanSplotchVT]

The more letters get added the pissier they all get at most if not all the other letters. L's are just pissy by default really.

[@sengroagers1111]

Nah dude that’s just the online L’s. irl L’s are the chillest people ever. Just gardening and making pottery and shit.

[@Blox117]

thats what happens when there is too much femininity

[@TheRealJohnSolo]

Thats because their territory and victim status on the lowerarchy is getting challenged kinda like how Feminists were all about destroying masculinity and feminizing boys until boys started becoming girls and entering their space.

[@ericmyrs]

I was about to say things have improved since the 80s. But that's unfortunately no longer 20 years ago.