I’m so glad you commented on the invisible disability/disease issue. I am legally blind, and this is an issue I’ve dealt with every day of my life. Most of the time I can “pass” as someone who is fully “able”, albeit a little quirky, but there are moments when I can’t blend in and those moments are hard, unsettling, and leave me feeling vulnerable. One of those moments happened a few months ago and a stranger did comment on it. This is uncommon but it does happen, and it is so hurtful. It was just a passing comment to that stranger, but for me it was a lifetime of struggle and missunderstanding trigged. I think that if we all reach into our memories, we can find a time when our appearance or behaviors left us open to misunderstanding and judgment. All of us has an opportunity to develop empathy, or at least sympathy for others with short-term or long-term disabilities or illnesses. I include myself in that statement because having a disability does not mean I don’t fall into this trap from time to time. I really appreciate you talking about your own experience with this issue. It’s affirming to hear someone else expressing the same thoughts and fears, and it helps raise awareness and encourage people to think twice before jumping to negative conclusions. Thanks for lending your voice on this one. Also, I bought my first Zimmermann linen pants as a birthday gift to self because of you and Josie….so thanks for that too!
@lunarfaerie85522 жыл бұрын
The friendship you have with Carrie is just so effortless and genuine. It’s so important that you have someone in your life to just be silly with, no matter what your age 😊 Never stop being silly 🙃 x
@SB-dk1ty2 жыл бұрын
It really reminds me of a big sister little sister relationship 😽
@NadyaSivkova2 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you for those ridiculously long videos. I watch them for three days straight, so I actually have content for every day! You are such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for inspiring.
@chloemclean1012 жыл бұрын
Carrie’s hair looks incredible!! Still can’t get over the difference after she had it done. As a blonde I am SO envious! Finding a good colourist is so, so hard.
@poprockstar772 жыл бұрын
I have such a soft spot for Carrie, I loved the clip with the meeting : she's such a boss
@janineregan16772 жыл бұрын
Carrie is so beautiful! And what a musical laugh. She definitely needs her own channel ❤️❤️
@judyannkiwi2 жыл бұрын
She has a full-time job already. I believe she does all the editing so she really sorts out what she believes works!
@cin-dmarie2 жыл бұрын
Hey Lydia, remember the recent book you read about the donkey, father and son and how they kept adjusting to what people were thinking/saying? Don’t worry what people think/assume. Love seeing you so happy! Hugs!
@rebeccaa96912 жыл бұрын
I was thinking of that illustration too when she mentioned the suitcase :)
@cin-dmarie2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccaa9691 :)
@siobhan61522 жыл бұрын
I totally get you on the invisible illness and other people's perceptions. My Mam often carries my bags if we're out and I'm conscious that it looks awful and that I should be the one carrying the bags, but it shows that if anyone is judging, they're narrow minded. You never know what is going on in a person's life. You seem so much happier since your operation. I'm delighted that all went well and you're recovering well x
@starkersk2 жыл бұрын
Friendships that deeply understand each other create confidence and safety. Go Carrie xxx
@emilyiddings14492 жыл бұрын
As long as you don’t wear a fruit headdress the Zimmerman orange ombre dress is awesome. Love the white dress!!!
@nakitabeauty68862 жыл бұрын
I’d actually watch Carrie if she made a KZbin channel! 🥰
@0oYCRo02 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha🤣 That eyeliner joke will be on my mind whenever I see a blunt pencil. Thanks Lydia!! Btw, I absolutely love watching you and Carrie together. It's just so adorable!
@tina968952 жыл бұрын
Lying in bed with a hot water bottle and bad PMS, so your vlog and positive radiance is just what I needed. Thank you ✨
@sarahboukhris-escandon6062 жыл бұрын
Glad you are healing well, Lydia!!
@Soph-AC2 жыл бұрын
Gosh I really wish I could share your wardrobe... All the sleeves on EVERYTHING you buy and wear give me life 😍 That white dress is just beautiful. I'm glad you wore it the next day in the sunshine. I can relate whenever you explain why you're wearing lovely dresses - I'm the one in the family who always goes 'over the top' but life's too short not to wear the dress!
@nickybarrington40292 жыл бұрын
Hi I have such an invisible illnesses Fibromyalgia and I’m not sure what’s worse the Illness or the judgmental people I have to deal with ! Don’t know how many times I’m told you don’t look sick or your not old enough to know pain in your body ! But I have your channel to escape to and it brings me so much joy so thank you 😇😇😇
@skyart272 жыл бұрын
No lydia, that glow you have is not from any product it is from within…you are literally radiating that glow from within ♥️♥️
@donnahiggins35002 жыл бұрын
Please don’t do too much before you are really healed; take it easy for a little while longer. I know it is hard to rest when you feel good! You look beautiful!🥰
@jenwhitelife24642 жыл бұрын
I love the relationship between you and Carrie. That reminds me so much of my dearest friend growing up. We used to walk arm-in-arm at boarding school. If we didn't have boyfriends I'm sure people would think that we were a bit 2 friendly. I was at a Christian boarding school. It was so many good memories. Really beautiful people from all over the world. God bless you and yours. Love, jenwhite
@julie55362 жыл бұрын
You are so especially glowy and stunning in first clips of this! I just started the video. The color of your outfit makes your eyes, skin, makeup and hair look incredible! Gorrrrgeous! Just had to tell you! ❤️
@pattybarnes49442 жыл бұрын
You are Carrie together..love your humor! You are so comfortable together and never offended..great friendship 💛 Wonderful vlog!!!!
@starkersk2 жыл бұрын
I think your transparency re you enhancement removals is fabulous. People feel shame humiliation etc about this stuff . Like they deserve the pain etc. this is about confidence body image and honesty. It’s real life maybe a westerners story but very important. Thankyou. Thousands of women will go on this journey xxxx
@jellmcewen68542 жыл бұрын
The episodes with Carrie are my absolute favorite! It’s so nice to see you fun energetic and giggly. I love this video!!
@soo60872 жыл бұрын
Your puppy dogs give me so much pleasure on your vlogs. Loving the tablescapes this spring time 🌹. As regards the copper rings, bear in mind that slugs climb wood and can climb onto leaves that are growing up and bushing over the rings so worth making sure away from edge of oak sleepers xx
@callan02ish2 жыл бұрын
You outfit, the floral two-piece is one of my favourite outfits that you’ve ever worn.
@tooktoomuch1162 жыл бұрын
Omg you doing Carrie’s makeup is total unintentional asmr! So calming, even with your jokes ha
@kittiemui2 жыл бұрын
Love your content Lydia, I simply love the end where you narrate your lovely little sausages! We need an entire vlog on these boys!
@SnowyLynn2252 жыл бұрын
I am absolutely cracking up at Flamboyant Artiste Lydia doing Carrie’s make-up - the disgust on her face at the blunt eyeliner 😂
@actuaryaltair62802 жыл бұрын
your chit chat with Carrie and the floppy willy analogy is everything hahaha, love the chemistry you two have!
@geyj12 жыл бұрын
You are happy and it comes across which is great. You are a different person. I have had 15 abdominal surgeries and have a mesh in my stomach, I also suffer from RA and you know what I have asked passing strangers to put my suitcase in the back of my car so many times. People are nice and understand. Do not pick anything heavy, just don't. Give your body time to heal properly. Thanks ever so for this fun vlog and that blue colour is your colour. :)
@nikkimclay54742 жыл бұрын
ive had 29 abdo surgeries & do the same ! you soon learn not to be too proud eh !
@geyj12 жыл бұрын
@@nikkimclay5474 woooow!! They do say and I believe in that there is always someone worst than you. Yes darling you do learn not to be too proud. I understand you and send you lots of love
@lucyspicer2 жыл бұрын
Hi Lydia, I am day 5 post operation with Mr Mallucci, so right there with you on the recovery! Your vlogs have helped me so much pre and post surgery and knowing you're going through the same as me. You're glowing and have such a wonderful energy around you. Keep healing well, Lucy xx
@HiZee2 жыл бұрын
I love watching the beautiful friendship you have with Carrie, I miss having that. You're both glowing x
@mandyreardon21772 жыл бұрын
Oh Lydia: this vlog took me from ear to ear smiling, to full on laughing out loud! 😂 It's so wonderful to witness the amazing friendship you and Carrie share, and also see you living your best life, with your best friend, right along side of you! 🥰 I hope you know that I will never be able to apply my eye liner now, without thinking about floppy willie's!!! 🤣Thank you for your acknowledgement of invisible illnesses; I suffer from two chronic conditions and I have often felt judged - even from people who I thought were my close friends! I loved your commentary from the greenhouse: I think you should film and narrate, a KZbin documentary about the grey and white, Spotted Sausageosaurus, and the Lesser Spotted, Black Sausageosaurus!!!🤣🥰😍👌🏻
@catherinemarston52722 жыл бұрын
When Lydia looked into the camera while doing Carrie’s makeup, I laughed out loud at the gym and looked like the biggest weirdo ahahah
@alisonkovacs98712 жыл бұрын
Oh lydia babe I'm so glad you had a lovely staycation in london thanks for sharing you lovely vlog and thanks so much for showing lovely lumi bless her
@lilibethbeltran30452 жыл бұрын
Carrie is beautiful with or without make up
@stephanietoms2 жыл бұрын
LMAO here I am putting in lip liner with a blunt pencil and now all I can think of is floppy willys 😂 cheers hun
@lydiamillen2 жыл бұрын
Every time you sharpen that pencil you will thank me 😂
@DunDunnDuunnn2 жыл бұрын
Carrie’s hair looks amazing!💖🦄💕
@lindahayden92022 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness she “corrected” it!
@joanheney18552 жыл бұрын
Omg Lydia, I so love your vlogs as they are so entertaining and informative. I always look to see how long is left to watch. I think you’re the only one who can just slip an ad in without making it sound or look like an ad, if you know what I mean. So keep up the good work as your an inspiration to us all 🌈☘️
@kellyelliot71592 жыл бұрын
It cannot just be me that thinks Lydia is looking bloody fabulous 😍 this lady is just utter perfection. The surgery has definitely given you your sparkle back ✨ 💛
@janetleader70482 жыл бұрын
Lydia you truly are a breath of fresh air. You and Carrie are so funny together 😍
@carleehenderson2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video start to finish but the end with the documentary style video capture of the pups in the yard lmaooooo I had a very good laugh. Love from Colorado, USA! 😊
@wandalast66182 жыл бұрын
Carrie …… love that you wear tenni shoes . I where them EVERYWHERE even with great dresses . You girls always have so much fun . 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@caralum2 жыл бұрын
Loved the part where you helped Carrie with her makeup ☺️ I must ask, what foundation/powder were you using on her - you were both saying it’s great? 💛
@MarnieN11-112 жыл бұрын
LOL the sausage in his natural environment, Lydia you are too funny. We love a good Carrie spot light! xx
@dewimaya2 жыл бұрын
Your hair beautiful as always ♥️ I’m a fashion designer in the US, I love your channel and your every day style always inspire me.
@skywriter93592 жыл бұрын
You did such a good job on Carrie’s make up. She looked so sophisticated.
@victoriatanner-tremaine9282 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for mentioning and speaking a bit about invisible illnesses. It brought tears to my eyes, because yes, it is so hard sometimes to live with one. x Plus, loved your homage to our National Treasure, Sir David Attenborough 😆
@MissDLinx2 жыл бұрын
I can't remember if you said you're taking arnica or not. But, arnica cream or gell will help with the itching and the scaring, and you can use it on top of taking an internal dose of arnica.
@meganbaker6092 жыл бұрын
The commentary in the green house about the dogs 🤣 love it
@dianasamp49372 жыл бұрын
The best Amazon hair wand is the Conair Infiniti Pro Titanium curling wand 1 1/4”. No clamp and doesn’t pull your hair.
@cmbenke2 жыл бұрын
I love Carrie&Lydia time! It’s always my favorite!! You know when you’re like talking to your bestie and you’re like omg we’re so funny other people would think so too - you two are actually living it and letting people in and I’m here for it!! Love bestie moments 💕
@cristinamac-kay71752 жыл бұрын
Lydia loving how happy you really are. Love you all!!! Lydia and Carrie best friendship ever!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@marlatyler48942 жыл бұрын
You are so much lighter and happier now and thank you for sharing your daily routines and trips with us - we enjoy you, your outfits and trips 👍❤️🍷
@karenharris51412 жыл бұрын
You can still buy compote. It’s usually beside/above the tinned fruit in the supermarkets. Bon Maman do compotes as well as jams.
@KS-jy1pu2 жыл бұрын
Oh I just love your videos 🥰 You and Carrie make me laugh so much 😂 Thanks a lot and have a wonderful evening ❤️
@yvette5762 жыл бұрын
Carrie you look so pretty! Lovely job on her makeup Lydia!
@callan02ish2 жыл бұрын
You and Carrie together are so hilarious! But truthfully, you make me laugh all the time!
@LeanneLjk2 жыл бұрын
Lydia can pull off any colour. That orange dress looked amazing.
@anitaoconnor80292 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely vlog. Loved seeing you back to your bubbly self. Absolutely enjoying life, work, family and your gorgeous gardening. 😍
@zombinimbuli28952 жыл бұрын
You are spoiling us with these back to back blogs😍🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️🙆🏽♀️
@jammahluvah2 жыл бұрын
lol!! your commentary at the end of Berkley & Porter was absolutely hilarious! hahaha glad to see you recovering well and love that you came back online so fast.
@lmcalo2 жыл бұрын
Happy Monday, YT Millen family! God bless you all & have a beautiful day or evening. 🌸🥰🌺
@jamlisa46962 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Wishing you a beautiful evening as well☺️
@mrss61872 жыл бұрын
I'm in bed poorly with pneumonia & this has really cheered me up, especially the end 🌾🌭🐕🌱
@katrinaryan17392 жыл бұрын
That awful I do hope you feel better soon💜
@wadzanaimusvazvi90072 жыл бұрын
Get well soon
@TKopra2 жыл бұрын
I have noro virus, hope you feel better already! ❤️
@mrss61872 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too 💗
@kathleenthiel49732 жыл бұрын
So Lydia I watched your whole video and you said you'd show us your bag and something else, I waited but only saw you garden. Sure wish I was into gardening as much as you, and that is a compliment. You of course have the beautiful boxes and the green house. Wonderful! So when do we get to see the new purchases..... hope your feeling better. Surgery is not fun and healing is even worse. You look great though. 👍
@LikeLollaBanny2 жыл бұрын
i’m kidding you not. but i thought floral co-ord would be perfect for the event end here you are😍✨such a gorgeous look
@lydiamillen2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeey! So on the same wavelength x
@edelconroy60472 жыл бұрын
Omg, Carrie's makeup was stunning Lydia, watch out Alex 🤣🥰🤗🥂
@theresanoble46872 жыл бұрын
Sodium will cause swelling. If you still have pain in calfs...could be dehydration or deep vein thrombosis. Just take care of yourself. Happy healing🙏🙏🙏
@elainemcgran88282 жыл бұрын
Lydia just tap the makeup brush no blowing on it. U two with the makeup, its exactly like my daughter doing my makeup and giving out to me about my makeup . Me saying how long it's taken and why do I need this and that. I had an operation in December my scar is 9 inches long, and my Doctor suggested bio oil for the scar , best thing no inching. my after care nurse suggested it as well. Also I was told after the normal swelling from the operation goes down, if I swell that's a sign I'm over doing it. My operation wasn't same as yours, but recovering from a operation the same.
@HarajukuGirl2812 жыл бұрын
Always a joy into my day to watch your videos! I love the mix of content and seeing your beautiful friendship between you and Carrie! Your garden is looking AMAZING! I can't wait to start working in mine, still too cold here in Ontario, Canada! Much love!
@tiffanysepiphanies2 жыл бұрын
It’s so lovely to see you so happy ☺️💗
@holochar56622 жыл бұрын
Carrie’s hair does look absolutely gorgeous ♥️
@sandyhossman77712 жыл бұрын
Agree, the best I have seen it, she looks fabulous
@chlo4102 жыл бұрын
The moment when Carrie is like oops maybe I have had more wine 😂🥲
@dionnevoller29032 жыл бұрын
Love seeing the boys in the garden. What happened to showing us the dress and the handbag?
@hayleypowers10172 жыл бұрын
Oh my god! ‘Putting your eyeliner on with a blunt pencil is like trying to have sex with a floppy willy’ Lydia you’re killing me 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@lotuspetal51432 жыл бұрын
I'm still laughing at the two sausages having the run of the house 🤩 Beautiful outfit choice!
@MeditationParadiseASMR2 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up Always yes you’re glowing Lydia and I love all your dresses!💕The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness 💖
@heatherashworth71802 жыл бұрын
The comments that you made about wanting to have a banner to say “I just had surgery” and empathizing with people with illnesses that people can’t readily identify really made me feel seen for a moment. Having fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis and a few other diagnoses that people wouldn’t know about unless i told them, that just really limits the things I can and can’t do. I am constantly in my head wondering what people must think of me. Thank you for even your moment of empathy. As always I love your videos and truly think you are such a lovely person. 💕
@gembets2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHA Carrie mimicking the floppy W I couldn’t deal 😂
@heidic16172 жыл бұрын
I’m dying laughing lmao an unsharpened eye pencil is most definitely like a floppy willy bahahhaa
@jackiebeans26892 жыл бұрын
You’ve given me such great smiles and wonderful feelings!! Love your “Sausages captured in their natural habitat!!😁🥰💕😺😺😺💖
@ttvclaper4redmaster1372 жыл бұрын
Lydia, I have seen you and Kerry a number of times but the make up session between the two of you was hilarious! I love your back and forth, I can see how the two of you are BFFs. The floppy willy is unforgettable! x
@lesleyanderson31222 жыл бұрын
Omg…I’ll never look at my blunt eye pencil again in the same way….love you guys . Thanks for being so uplifting X
@kathydoran61762 жыл бұрын
Aww you make my Monday, a happy day, especially the news reporting on the sausages spotted in their natural habitat☺
@Poppyy20212 жыл бұрын
That table runner reminds me of the paper doctors have on there treatment beds in there rooms , the big paper rolls ha
@KE123522 жыл бұрын
You are just exuding joy and confidence since your surgery. So nice to see!
@debbiestott36512 жыл бұрын
Loved watching, you cram so much in and the greenhouse is amazing. Love those wild doggies.
@zanablueivzv60472 жыл бұрын
Blunt eye pencils and lip pencils will never be the same! 😄 Aw love you! 😄❤️
@rosiebuddles2 жыл бұрын
Your thermomix will make an amazing compote and so easy!! I often make a compote for pancakes and things in my thermo 😊
@karonfrench10122 жыл бұрын
Lovely vlog Lydia, I loved the makeup you did for Carrie. Your outfit was one of my favourites yet, absolutely stunning. I wish I could afford it. You looked amazing. 🥰🥰🥰
@lauradukes68282 жыл бұрын
Yay vid time 😁😘 looking beautiful Lydia! ♥️
@MrVikingsandra2 жыл бұрын
You know what I just randomly thought of? Those mary jane shoes you bought a while ago and you weren't too sure about that style. Have you been able to wear them yet? I'm curious but it might have been too cold to wear them 😅
@kimdeutsch78802 жыл бұрын
Carrie , I love your hair …. So nice and soft , it looks great ! 😍. And Lydia you are beautiful too ! ❤️ and you two are darling playmates😁
@lorrainemckenna53272 жыл бұрын
Your laugh is so infectious ❤ people are judgemental unfortunately only unhappy people hate
@JoannaBojarska2 жыл бұрын
Hello...just to say Carrie's hair...OMG it looks so beautiful! Thank you for another vlog ❤
@jennifer68332 жыл бұрын
Your happiness is exuding through the screen Garden 🪴 Goddess, glowing is an understatement!!! Seeing you so happy is wonderful Lydia. I adore your beautiful friendship with Carrie. Sharpen your eye pencils, otherwise it’ll remind you of a floppy Willy, lol 😂. Thé pub in the middle of all of those buildings reminds me of Boston, Massachusetts. xoxo 💖💖💖👸
@lydiamillen2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jennifer! X
@jennifer68332 жыл бұрын
@@lydiamillen , 💖
@jjksiwz2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you back! You are so strong! 😍! Stay blessed!
@ashleygorrie46982 жыл бұрын
I think you should do a vlog 'a day in the life of Carrie'. So we can see all that she does in her role as manager! I love your friendship. It reminds me of my relationship with my bestie. ,💋💋💋
@magdalenakuffel32132 жыл бұрын
the last minute of this vlog is everything ;D
@agnieszkapiwarska30892 жыл бұрын
Your boys sound like my little Pom puppy. We have two cats and she's OBSESSED with the cat food. She's on the mission to break free and eat it all 😂