Should Men Just Stay Away From Women

[@c05.63]

The only girl Ive ever loved ghosted me out of the blue, in christmas blocked me, im tall, told to be handsome by many girls, and yet, before dating again id rather die alone honestly.

[@d-8664]

I'd*

[@Invisitatus]

If this is happening to guys like you, what does that mean for the rest of us? Like when I hear this stuff i'm just astounded. Even when you meet the markers it still isn't enough.

[@jmj7543]

Exact same experience. Throughout my life till I turned 20 I barely had even crushes on girls but after turning g 20, I fell in love with a co-worker. That made me flip a switch in me to take care of myself and suddenly I found half of the girls I knew started being attracted to me and a few of them had boyfriends too which disgusted me and made me feel so bad for their boyfriends. After 10 months of being in love with this girl, I found out she was for the streets and stopped chasing her and when I say I stopped I mean I started to avoid/ignore her and not just stop chasing. After taking the love goggles out this girl started chasing me HARD but I already had realized she was exactly the same as the other girls that were for the streets. I'd rather die alone than go through the pain of dating women that I'm not 100% they are good and kind but the thing is it's so hard to know because I've had girls be obsessed with me and a few months later find out they are engaged.

[@c05.63]

​@@jmj7543I hear you man, Most women are really unwifeable nowadays, is really hard but you either marry a 304 or not at all.

[@c05.63]

​​@@InvisitatusWell many Guys play the game and struggle with it, the game is already fixed for you to loose, and if you dont check those boxes I guess you are not even allowed to play, ironic isnt it? Guys who cant play want too, those who can eventually stop doing it realising is not worth it, unless you are extremely lucky to meet one of the very few decent women left in the world you are damned either way, even rich folks are not exception, All the Wealthiest women in the world are so cause they divorced the richest guys in the world. Be a Chad athlete, Billionaire CEO, Famous actor, Singer or public figure, you can be above average guy in your local enviroment, you are not the exeption no matter how kind, Smart, rich, funny or fit you are, is a rigged game......

[@UltraDice64]

I have been single all my life im 27 now i dont care to date i only care to heal myself so i been playing guitar and working on my issues

[@frankducky6130]

What about your hormones?

[@UltraDice64]

@frankducky6130 i know im gonna get rejected so whats the point in trying?

[@frankducky6130]

@@UltraDice64 Have u tried lowering your sights? I know we all want a girl that looks Amanda but maybe if we tried a nice, solid dependable type who, while she won't win any beauty contests, will at least help us pay the bills and make dinner for us (not to mention letting us finally escape the humiliation of being a virgin). P.S. In 2025 my new years resolutions are to get my weight closer to 220 by adopting a strict walking regiment, hopefully finding a "meat and potatoes gal", and increase my upper body strength by upping the number of girl pushups i do to 50 per day. So next year, at this time of year, i will be toasting the new year with a new look and a new girl by my side. 🙏

[@devilsadvocacy]

Not worth the effort at this point

[@d-8664]

You still did not answer the question in your title.

[@georgetapia1010]

If i had a nickel for every time you said the word "traumatised", i'd be even richer.

[@d-8664]

I wish that I was a woman, my dating life would then be flourishing.

[@thomasg627]

No it wouldn't, you'd spend your 20s waiting for a rich prince to come along, having occasionally a short term casual thing with rich men who have another half dozen girlfriends in parallel and will dump you whenever a younger girl comes along. On average you'll find a man for a very short time once every 3-5 years simply because there are so few rich men and so many young girls wanting one and you won't enjoy any of it because the men you'll find are all so much older that they just aren't any fun. When you turn 30 you end up as single because nobody wants you anymore.

[@Morbutt]

you wish you were a woman so you could take a pounding, no doubt

[@onuraurelius]

0:44 - "What is it wrong with me?" The thing wrong with you is doing everything right. If a woman realizes she has you, you lose. No matter how strategically important, a conquered castle loses its former priority. If a man does not want to be ghosted by a woman, he should always keep her on the doormat and never let her in.

[@obadiahsims]

1. Improve yourself (do literally anything : mindset, more/better friends, physique, career, just do something!) 2. Talk to more women. You don't actually need to stop being in pain to do things. Just keep trying.

[@d-8664]

Getting rejected over and over again makes it impossible.

[@larryle8191]

@@d-8664unless you are old and rich that would be difference

[@obadiahsims]

@d-8664 the assumptions here are: that the more you get 'rejected' the more painful it gets That as you improve yourself the rate of rejection won't decrease That being rejected has to be a terrible experience That finding love isn't worth it In the end. Are all these things true?

[@deancreambetweens]

blah blah blah blah blah

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

So find a girlfriend, aye? So tell me this. Why? With everything you are saying that we will have to go through, why? Is it even worth it? Because going through Hell for a girlfriend seems like a lot. It seems like a lot of trouble for not much in return. I mean is a girlfriend really worth that much struggle? Because girlfriends don't actually enrich our lives enough to make it seem worth going through all that. I mean getting "Dante's inferno the home game" as our task but merely a girlfriend for all our troubles seems like a bit much. I mean, if getting a girlfriend was, say, less horrific as something like the multiple circles of Hell, then perhaps it would be worth it. I don't know. I'm just spitballing here but maybe if dating women is putting yourself through Hell, then women should be better people. I'm just saying.. I mean, dating me is pleasant. I'm a thoughtful, kind man and treat people well. There's no circles of Hell involved. Maybe if women were less awful, then it would be worth the bother. I think the way you describe dating makes me want to do so even less. I think I am fine playing video games and being alone if changing that is literally like going through Hell.

[@Hawkkaii-ih2ps]

Short answer. YES

[@ninjetti9898]

Props for staying consistent with the uploads throughout 2024 Amanda. Looking forward to hopefully seeing just as much of you in 2025

[@GirlfriendGuide4Guys]

Thank you!

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

Yes absolutey!!

[@Mikey-ge9pr]

At some stage in the future could you please do a video on why some women / girls find quiet guys a bit off or weird. I know some girls think like this. Speaking from observing personal real life experience . Back in spring of 2020 before covid and lockdowns hit most countries two new people started at work, one guy and one girl both early to mid 20s at the time. The guy upon from experience working with him he was quiet and socially awkward he would find it hard to hold conversations at times, he could of been autistic or had aspergers. But about a month after I remember the new girl saying to me, " I think there is something off with him " I remember saying to her " he is just quiet and not the best at social interactions with people " . But here is another thing I later found about her, as I live in a small town and its easy in small towns I find out about people, I later found out she has a older brother who stabbed his ex girlfriend and stabbed her new boyfriend to death, which he went to prison for. But to look at two aspects in context, she had a brother who stabbed his ex girlfriend and stabbed her new boyfriend to death, but yet she talked about a socially awkward guy at work behind his back saying " I think there is something off with him "

[@carlitosbrigante6889]

You know some girly like that love toxic man , the bad boys , they get cheated on and blame it in the rest she rejected in the past 🙄

[@criticalcentrist]

perfect vid to watch at 3am

[@AbhishekMazumder]

Everybody watch Garam Masala (2005) film.

[@rajmathew6220]

It takes a lot of patience and saying no to the wrong ones to get there.

[@d-8664]

There are no girls to say no to for me!

[@TM-pn3zk]

@@d-8664 lol yeah exactly. The only ones to say no to is ourselves in the mirror, or law enforcement after she reported us for saying hello.

[@rajmathew6220]

@@d-8664 You guys are hilarious lmao. But I have faith in you both.

[@Invisitatus]

Yes, most should at least. They're not interested in the vast majority of us and getting constantly rejected will just make you feel worse about yourself which is the last thing most guys need nowadays. Try to find purpose in other things I guess.

[@Asana25]

Many men are sub5s like me apparently (and I'm not even the normal ugly either X_X)

[@Invisitatus]

@Asana25 Do you have a deformity? I empathize. Im somewhat normal looking but im 5'5 so in a way i get it. I avoid people and focus on my hobbies.

[@Asana25]

​@@Invisitatus Thankfully no. But to describe, I look extremely similar to the Trump shooter from July but worse. My side profile looks exactly like his even

[@riccardocortiula7357]

I agree with the title.

[@TMMAAK]

Message from your future husband, fix your bed next time before recording🤣😂🤣. True success starts by fixing your bed everyday🛌.

[@lestercrowley666]

How much does this chik cost anyway?

[@Asana25]

The sub5s like myself yes.

[@ShivaKailashShambho]

Join me on my podcast

[@austriasdaughterssons3617]

no

[@TM-pn3zk]

when you heal the universe tells all the girls that you're chad and magical thinking better and better anything is possible ensues. Not really.

[@tombadil64]

You're a miserable and bitter person. That is not what is being said here at all.

[@FailedChadLite]

Don’t quit your day job 😂

[@MeditationsbyICEMAN]

yeesh

[@tt2k25]

oh man this is just additional hatefuel against women isn't it 🤣

[@tombadil64]

This is a juvenile mindset. Other people exist in the world with separate problems from your own. This fact should not invalidate your own problems, and the issues you care about.

[@PedroTRamos1]

Late Merry Christmas Amanda, i wish you didnt hate me.

[@GirlfriendGuide4Guys]

There is no hate here, merry Christmas!!

[@PedroTRamos1]

@@GirlfriendGuide4Guys Thanks im sorry for even saying that, i used to think people who craved attention were just lame, and yet here i am.

[@frankducky6130]

Hello Pedro, why do u think Amanda hates u?🤔

[@d-8664]

​@@frankducky6130bc she rejected him.

[@bumbleb97]

@@frankducky6130 I think it's a play off (a joke) of the idea that a lot of women hate a lot of men.

[@terrelldiggs9590]

Good job girlfriendguide4guys