Should Newly Wed Couples Live Away From Parents? TOP Divorce Lawyer Vandana Shah Explains

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@sara1012s 2 ай бұрын

We only talk abt boys parents, why we never talk about girls parents, they are also old they too need care. What will parents of single girl will do?? Why men feel shame to live in wifes house but they expect girl to leave her parents and take care of his parents.

@greenair57leaves 2 ай бұрын

Correct

@neetatoor5191 2 ай бұрын

True

@Optimistic_aspirant 2 ай бұрын

I have heard boys saying it's our tradition and shove the responsibilities off from their shoulders. Trust me. They never question such tradition or try to convince their family. Also some say stay single.

@minirsaha8163 Ай бұрын

Then it's better to stay single n take care of your parents, no more compulsions n sacrifices.......

@sara1012s Ай бұрын

@@minirsaha8163 Yes same for men also. If they want to take care of their parents pls take care youselves and dont bring a wife for your parents.

@reetarawat4968 2 ай бұрын

Its not lesser of two evils !! - Its about freedom to live and breathe . Girls these days are not ready to sacrifice their lives and career to dance at the tunes of in laws Life can be easy and fun if indians learn to respect space and privacy

@gurupratapsingh1809 2 ай бұрын

Freedom to boredom, privacy, space, breathing Zone, my time 😂😂😂😂😂 creatures like u aren't meant for marriage. Your type of "My Life" Breed can find and also having fun easily @ "OYO" 😂😂 husband, Saad-Sasur sab gaye Bhaad m, teri azaadi sabse pahle, sabse upar.😂😂

@komalshah417 2 ай бұрын

Very true

@PT_thehappycat 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯.

@kksivakumar6878 2 ай бұрын

Not a single married woman wants to live with in-laws with love and affection because they use to treat that newly married woman as a servant in initial stage of her life which she doesn't accept.

@AC-jg2dg 2 ай бұрын

Yes all couples should live away from both sides of families if they want to stay married.

@manjulainjeti6175 2 ай бұрын

Who will take care of the girl's parents? The couple should take care of both sets of parents. All parents go through the same hard way of bringing up the children, educating them etc. So, why only boy's parents to be specially looked after?

@jyotianand8028 Ай бұрын

Ek aur sach ...ladka khud chahe apne parents se baat na karna chahe ...ya look after na karna chahe...per wife se ye poori umeed hai ki wo sab kare....

@aishabavani8789 Ай бұрын

😂👏👏👏right

@aishabavani8789 Ай бұрын

Wife naam ka portfolio jisme vo apne pati k rin (karz) chukayegi. 😂uske (ladki k) khud k parents k prati rin ( karz) jaye tel lene. Kyuki india mai girls direct peda hoti hai khud badi hoti hai. Aur boys ko bohot pain 9 months k baad deliver phir palan poshan karna padta hai.

@jessaabraham 2 ай бұрын

First off 50 or 60 year olds are not old and helpless. 75 plus could be. Kids are not obligated to take care of the parents but they do when the parents are not toxic.

@aishabavani8789 Ай бұрын

Right

@saavi9122 2 ай бұрын

I am not against the arranged marriage but as a girl its so scary to even think to live with the people I don't know there's no guarantee that i will be happy or not. And its the biggest decision of your life. I feel like its just luck if you got a nice husband and family otherwise god knows what will happen.

@aishabavani8789 Ай бұрын

Luck by chance kisi ko achha mil jaye to vo ladkiya pura credit khud le kar jin ladkiyo ko achha nahi mila unke maze leti hai. Achha husband mil gaya phir to ladki ke tewar hi alag uski ma bhi baaki logo ko kehti hai meri beti bohot samajdar hai dekho uska ghar pakad k beth gayi. Halaki ese mamlo mai husband rich aur sexual libido high hota hai isliye vo rishta chalta hai. Chahe ladki achhi na bhi ho but kismat achhi hoti hai sometimes😂. Mene dekha hai esa arranged marriages mai. Arrogant girl vs 🆚 bhigi billi boy.

@madhuarya3136 Ай бұрын

Preferences money ko dia jaata h or umeed happiness ki hoti hai. चाहते सभी खुशी हैं और उसके लिए प्रयास कुछ भी नहीं. प्रयास केवल धन कमाने का.

@aditi21mehta Ай бұрын

Western culture is more developed and better than our.🤔

@madhugupta6016 2 ай бұрын

All boils down to financiaĺ situations It is not possible to find a house nearby bcoz delhi is over crowded Sometimes when both r working their daily needs r taken care of Nowa days children r getting married in thirties so parents r usually approaching 60 The more u stay with them the more difficult it bcomes to move out bcoz they r aging on the hand it is not fair to put so much responsibility on the girl It is a very tricky situation Thats why it is said health is wealth Discussion is endless responsibility is the word ppl r afraid thats why so many r not getting married

@cinnow 2 ай бұрын

Why can't the elderly live by themselves assuming they have the means?

@anitahcu 2 ай бұрын

after two three years couple need nany for their child so go parents house.This is the reality what people do not want to say that couple need some one to help them so they remember parents.

@aishabavani8789 Ай бұрын

in-laws bahu k aate hi maids se jagdne lagate hai in-laws ko bardaasht karne se achha hai bachha khud sambhal le😂. 20℅ in-laws hi bachhe ko sambhalne mai help karte hai baki to apni life jite hai mast.