Should we plan for 2nd CHILD🤰 ?? When my 1st child have AUTISM ??🧑‍🍼

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This is a series of videos, where we are sharing our learnings and experiences that we gained, while seeing our child "SAINYAM" recovering from the challenges that came along with Autism Spectrum.
In this video we are talking about the factors you can keep in mind while planning for your 2nd baby, while you know that your first child is on Autism Spectrum.
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Stay tuned and don't miss the upcoming videos. Some more useful tips are on your way...
For more information on autism do visit other videos at the channel.
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[@advayrashmikulkarni9192]

Ur presennce and speech is very soothing and calm...❤ Though I have first baby neurotypical and Second have autism..I have seen this video completely 😊

[@sainyam4autism]

Thanks Rashmi, Best wishes for your children.

[@ashokannamwar9939]

God bless ur child sis n bro Thank so so much for your guiding videos 🎉

[@navneetbajwa3661]

Thank you so much for sharing this experience of yours . I am sure it will help so many patents who are struggling like me to take a decision for the second child. Waiting for the next video.😊

[@sainyam4autism]

Thanks for watching Navneet

[@pallavisharma6663]

You both are very calm n wonderful human beings.... please tell me that how did you select school for Sainyam? Has he studied in a regular school? How did he make friends in school and how did he attend classes? In P.T and sports class, is he able to follow instructions?

[@fionaw2103]

Thank you for sharing your journey! Very helpful.

[@sainyam4autism]

You are so welcome!

[@user-mh8ti3sj2x]

You are really great parents❤ .. Thank you so much for your speech

[@sainyam4autism]

Thanks for the love and support.🫂❤️

[@samalaadvait5808]

Hi madam you both are wonderful thank you so much for sharing.... Lots of love from south kore

[@herguide3883]

Nemecheck protocol k baary me kuch btayen gay ? Please is it helpful ?

[@soumilimondal1884]

Sir vertual atisum k bare Mei kuch bataye . Kiya vertual atisum such Mei hota hai??

[@shwetasukumar]

I really needed to hear this today, thank you! 🙂

[@sainyam4autism]

Thanks for watching Shweta...Best wishes and lots of love ❤️🌸

[@besmatb9299]

Hi , m'y son Is asperger how do you manage stress and anxiety ?

[@urwashahid9210]

Hi i recently started watching your videos and wanted to congratulate you for being very amazing successful parents to a beautiful autistic child. My first born was diagnosed with Autism last year at age 2.5 but i couldnt do much for him since that i was being highly abused by my husband and my own mother. I was not mentally availabke to give my son what he needed. My husband treated me badly in front of my child which traumatised him even more. He made me pregnant the second time and i got anbeutfil daughter who is 2 months old now. Finally i was able to separate from my toxic husband so i can finally focus on my son. He is 3.5 and non verbal and has been through immense amount of trauma. Hope i can give him the best. My mom is still a part of my life and wants control over it. I just hope i can follow your advise and get my son the best therapies at home with a positive frame of mind. Change is still possible, God willing. Another challenge is that I also have my little vulnerable daughter. My son is hyperactive and loves jumping around. Any tips on keeping the little baby safe would also help. Thanks for your great work and coordination as parents. Sainyam is very lucky to have been born in an amazing household. Unfortunately, my son was not lucky enough to be born in a functional family.

[@anushrivastava7201]

Be patient....god is with you

[@sweetandthebest2654]

Ma'am aapki saari video dekhti... Aap bht aache video banate h autism me milk dete h koi bolta h dena chaiye koi nai bht confusion rehta h mera 1st baby mild autism h 2nd baby👶 k soch rahe h aapk ish video se thoda help mile

[@dhanashrikhalipe8265]

Thanks for sharing such wonderful experiences . My son is of 1 year old and and he diagnosed with mild pvl and due to it we foun d that he's not responding his name and not proper eye contact and our neurologists advised for nuro development therapy and since one month we started it and now he's responding his name and eye contact is also increased. We have decided to plan second baby after six months because im 37 now.... just for our first baby and We have doubt about autism... what we do? Please share your valuable experience... will our second child be normal?..... Please tell

[@foodie047]

mam apke bete ki speech kab aayi kis age mai aayi plz bataa den my 1st one son is also not speak a single word 4 years ka hone wala h ?

[@mariakafil982]

Hello.. Wanna knw about Sainyam's early years story.. Beacause mre bache ko v Bronchitis hua tha when he was 1..oxygen level bht kam ho gya tha brain me.. Abhi aapke video dkhkr pta lga about ki sainyam ke sth v same issues the..

[@sachinwandhare5341]

Sharing experience of 26 yr old autistic son. As mentioned in video do therapeutic sessions and accept the child and be patience. Make environment/community supportive system by maintaining best relationship in society. Don't argue or judgmental with other in society, communicate with them, they will support you. With growing age child behaviour will improve.

[@sainyam4autism]

God bless you and your son..🌹❤️🙏

[@agamjotsingh5820]

​@Mp-wc2chplease tell the name of medicine. My son is autistic.

[@shiwalichaudhary610]

❤

[@muppidianusha]

Hello please answer me i have a 5 year old autistic son and i have 3 month 15 days baby girl she is hitting her milestones according to her age but my only concern is when she lays down she gives perfect eye contact n engages with us in her own language but when we pick her up she dont look at us us is it something that i should concern about

[@ketakihingwe362]

Hi there, I would like to talk to you? also would like to know which city are you located ?

[@autismautism609]

Hello My child has very restrictive behaviour,when we try to do any puzzles with him and remove any piece he gets upset Any suggestions how to work on this restrictive behaviour?

[@naushinsayyed469]

Thank u so much parents u raised my hope as my daughter also caused with autism she is 4 year old.and iam also thinking about second baby.u helped a lot thank u so much

[@sainyam4autism]

Wishing you good luck, 🌟

[@naushinsayyed469]

@@sainyam4autism thank u mam☺️

[@shilpagodbole5104]

Saiyam kitine year ka hone bad apne second baby planning kiya sir. Nd mam

[@cezarascantei3663]

I did not understand very well. Has the second son the same problem ?

[@sowbhagyalokanath1567]

My first son is autistic this august he turns five we are doing his therapy. And even though I didn't plan for second baby i always wanted sibling for him n i had baby now he is 8months old. I pray God everthing goes well with my second son and as far as now his milestone are good. Also my first son likes him cuddles, laughs with him n my baby boy also likes his brother and responds to him ❤️

[@mounikagottumukkala1261]

Mam I am using homeo treatment for my boy he is 4 now , for other child doctor suggested don't give vaccination for next baby

[@sowbhagyalokanath1567]

@@mounikagottumukkala1261 u can't avoid vaccination for babies. Now i have another baby who is ten months old we are giving all vaccination and he's perfectly alright milestones are perfect he started to walk now.

[@mounikagottumukkala1261]

@@sowbhagyalokanath1567 okay mam thank you

[@ABC4402]

Hi. How's your second child now.. He is around 18 months old now..

[@saritapareek]

Maam meri ek 11 years ki normal girl child h ,bhot pyari h ,or mera 6 years ka autistic boy h,kya muje ek or baby krna chahiye ,pls bataiye agr meri jgh ap hote to kya ap 3rd baby plan krte,pls give yr opinion. Tgt

[@nanditac9225]

Ye bhi to koi assure nhi kar sakta ki 2nd baby bade hoke apne 1st child ko whole life k liye responsibility lega. 2nd child ki apni zindagi hai,apni career , aspirations hogi usme wo humesha 1st one k liye available hona possible na bhi ho sakta hai. Aajkal career, promotion, aspirations fulfill karne me bht logo ko apne aged weak parents se dur Jana padta hai aur muskil k time me bhi woha aa nhi pate. To siblings k liye bhi wo available ho paye iski guarantee kaun dega! Main parvarish ki dosh nhi deti nahi 2nd child ko selfish bol rhi hu but uski zindagi uski plans uski dreams me apna dependent sibling kahi na kahi ek burden ho jayega. Baad me 2nd child ki jo spouse banega wo bhi to agree na kar sakte hai . Tab to dono sibling ki zindagi kharab ho jayegi. Ab sab ka nuclear family hai man power, financial freedom aur family support enough level milna bht mushkil hai.

[@avneeshsharma9060]

Tu tk yr bht hi negative admi hai ye video tere liye nahi hai

[@nanditac9225]

@@avneeshsharma9060 Thanks for your language. Maine reality bola hai. Sab kuch soch samajh kar Kam karna chahiye. Aapko Jo sahi Lage wo dusre ki opinion match na bhi kar sakta hai. Comment section open hai har koi apna bichar rakh sakta hai. Main ek special bacche ki Maa hu aur acche se sab kuch dekh ke hi likha hai yeha pe, naki AAPKO likha hai.

[@QuirkyKristy]

​@@nanditac9225agar bade hone ke baad 2nd child responsibility na le toh koi baat nahi. Kam se kam Bachpan mein ek saath khelenge or time spend karenge to Acha hoga 1st child ke liye

[@Musicrolup]

Guarantee ye duniya me kisi chiz ka nhi bus umeed ek aisa chiz hai jispe Puri duniya tikki hai..

[@sonamnayan491]

Ye sahi hai ki guarantee nahi hai kisi baat ki .Lekin koi maa baap jindagi bhar uske sath nahi rhega.aur har parants ke mn me ye dar hota hai ki hamare baad esko Koon dekhega.km se km apna bhai behen hoga to 50 percent umeed to hoga ki wo dekhega.fir hum khud ke bachhe pe bharosa nahi kr skte aur dusare pr kr skte hai ki wo mere bachhe ko dekhege humare baad.

[@swatisingh9309]

Thank ma'am &sir apka video mujhe bht acha lagta hai

[@lizalipsabehera2948]

Mam mere beta ko 8yr hai aur autism hai kya bo thik ho sakta hai

[@soumilimondal1884]

Sir mild atisum or highfuncting atisum Kiya same hai plz reply sir

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Simmi, Not necessarily, in High functioning Autism the child shows brilliance in one or more areas like he/ she may have exceptional memory, maths or music skills, Whereas Mild autism means that the child has minimal traits of ASD.

[@fiqhejafariya61]

Plzzz ye bataiye ke kya apko saiyam ko bulawana padta tha ya wo khud bolne lga tha.

[@rashmiyadav6767]

I want to adopt second child

[@nanditac9225]

Sainyam abhi kya kar rha hai? Schooling?

[@dia6976]

I am happy with my special gift... Bcos he needs me I am his friend mom whatever.

[@sainyam4autism]

God Bless you Dia..Have a great life

[@987shazia]

Thank you so much for this video ❤ Even though I conceived my second baby before knowing about my elder daughter 's diagnosis ...I was working with my daughter even in the last days of pregnancy. In all those times I was regretting on why did I have another child. I will not be able to give time to my elder daughter. But today when I see both my babies playing and loving each other ❤ I cherish every moment of it. And Thanks to Allah that he blessed me with both of them.

[@tejswinikhawas2843]

Same case is mine

[@mounikagottumukkala1261]

I too

[@gaurisah8553]

Mera baby 5 yrs ka hone wala hai aur main 1 month pregnant hu unplanned baby hai aur dar lag raha hai deliver karu ya kya bahut confuse hu plz suggest me😢😢😢😢😢

[@vkgupta]

My doubt- Aapka Beta Sainyam kitna age pe sab kuchh bolne aur understand krne lga?

[@Anbudan_withme]

Please do detox everyday, there will be positive changes to the child with spectrum

[@GauravSingh-so1sc]

Hello sir I would know from where we can get certificate of autism for schools admission please. Help me

[@nanditac9225]

You have to go to Govt hospital for a thorough DQ,IQ & autism assessment report. They will give the report & certificate.

[@PriyankaGawde-pk7jd]

Mam i want to talk with u , my 2.5 year baby girl autistic

[@reshutripathi1541]

I am a mother of 10 year autistic son.....and we also tried to pland 2nd baby..but unfortunately faced back to back 2 miscarriages....now just focusing on my kid but it really upset me because I always feel that he needs sibling.

[@Krishivbossbaby]

Hi Reshu, My baby is 6month old and I want to know that didi you noticed any symptoms in your baby when he was 6months old?

[@rashmi99648]

Madam my Frist daughter also mild autism but speech dealy and doctor advice when I am pregnant genetic test due 1 St daughter and 3 months pregnancy then same do 2 nd baby don't any genetic problem u continue the pregnancy

[@samalaadvait5808]

Madam I have a query does your second kid have autism....?

[@leninhervin3345]

Pls do more videos in english ..Thank u

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Lenin, Thanks, we have just added English subtitles, please feel free to watch now. Within next 3 days, we are adding English subtitles to every video on the channel.

[@leninhervin3345]

@@sainyam4autism thanks a lot

[@fatimaareesha8002]

When your child spoke out tell me please

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Fatima, our child started to speak around 4.5 yr of age.

[@rockey464]

Ma'am what test you did before or during pregnancy. Genetic testing

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi, there was not that much of awareness about genetic tests, we just relied on God and didnot go for any tests🙏

[@swatibharti4695]

7:27

[@bhupeshsharma6140]

Donon bacchon ka age gap kitna hai sir

[@mianadeel1235]

Kiya saim ab Bolta h mean to say thk hogya h aor kitny arsay me thek howa plz guide me

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Adeel, yes Sainyam regular school main padtha hai , and fully independent hai. See the other videos and aap Sainyam ko dekh payenge

[@shalinyparveen1040]

@@sainyam4autism mam ap apna number de sakti h kya

[@annusankla]

I am a mother of a 10 year old son. But i think my son needs sister ya brother. But i think that 2 kids k bich age gap jyada ho jayega?

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Anisha, thanks for sharing, but this is a very personal call and would require many factors to be considered, i think your doctor will be the right person to guide you regarding this... Wishes

[@neenaaman7221]

Please share your knowledge about virtual autism,

[@sainyam4autism]

Pl check our video on virtual autism kzbin.info/www/bejne/onq7dahvZ7CZhc0si=ioe7XZk0Bz2Fsdcn

[@sainyam4autism]

Pl check our video on virtual autism kzbin.info/www/bejne/onq7dahvZ7CZhc0si=ioe7XZk0Bz2Fsdcn

[@shrutijoshi1539]

What is the age gap between your kids?

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Shruti, 5 years gap, elder one is 15 yrs and younger one is 10 now ❤️

[@myweightlossjourney2773]

Mai sabhi parents se request karungi before conceived a child do garbhadhan sansakar

[@vaishalithe8055]

Agar aapko pata chale ki aap 2 month pragent hai

[@nehatiwari1099]

Saiyam me sencery issue the kya ?

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Neha, yes Sainyam had sensory issues which slowly got resolved with therapies...he was over sensitive to sounds and had tectile issues..

[@nehatiwari1099]

​@@sainyam4autism thanku mere daughter 2.6 year ki hai visual sencery problem hai use

[@Subhashkumar-oh1dx]

Sir I have written something about my son who is 2.5 years old already showed to Dr and taking therapies but need your valuable suggestions.🙏🙏🙏😊

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Subhash, pls re- forward the mail to us and watch all the other videos too, we are sure you will get answers to a lot of questions. If there is anything else, please feel free to share. 🌸

[@Subhashkumar-oh1dx]

@@sainyam4autism done sir kindly check 🙏

[@maryamhussain5442]

@@sainyam4autism hellow sir how to mail you?i have concern about my 2year old son nd mene dekha hai ap sb parents ko rep karte hain help kanre ki koshish karte hain maine bohat chenals p bohat parents help mangi hai lakin video sbhi chahte k hamari dekhe log but ans koi kisi bat ka nahi deta

[@Subhashkumar-oh1dx]

@@rajisuji30 i have .can I talk to you

[@Subhashkumar-oh1dx]

@@rajisuji30 my child symptoms,want to know your's son improvement as well

[@pranalikamble8367]

I am pregnant...my first child is 3.5 year he had autism...my question is double marker test se autism hai ya nahi kaise pata kare.. please answer me

[@swaitlanamishra4950]

No kisi bhi test se ye nahi pata kiya ja sakta hai

[@jattikaur1214]

App nai speech min kisi km kya?

[@fiqhejafariya61]

Or uske ander verbal stimming ai thi

[@ajaybais1286]

Mam at what age you plan for second baby

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Ajay, i was 30 year old, when we planned our second baby.

[@vandanapatel1224]

@@sainyam4autism I want to try once my austistic kid will be 5 yrs, but plz suggest can at try at 41,coz I will be 41 once he will be 5,or it's very risky at this age of defects in baby

[@sujaandhakane487]

​@Vandana Patel noppp..there is high risk

[@sainyam4autism]

@@vandanapatel1224 Hi Vandana, our views in video are our personal views, we knew the risk and yet went for it, and were prepare to face whatever is the outcome, without regret. We would suggest not to get influenced by anyone else, and take this call after considering all factors, if you wish to go for 2nd baby. 1st consult your doctor.

[@nehasoni8169]

Second child aagar girl hui to uski bhi bade hokar all aapni life hoga. Wo uska family nai help karne diya bhai ka ya sister ka to or bhi difficult go jata hai autistic child ke liye.

[@sainyam4autism]

Aapke concerns genuine hain Neha, but future ka kisko pata ..👶...humne bus vo Kiya Jo humain us waqt sahi laga as young parents...and aaj sach main Sainyam apne chote bhai ko padhai main help karta hai...wo khud chote bhai ke liye support structure hai....💕

[@reshmashaikh739]

Mam aap ka beta mild autism h

[@kalpeshparmar8570]

Mere bete ko vertual autism he.... To kya dusra child ko autism hoga???

[@neenaaman7221]

May I know how he is treated for that

[@poojashukla5985]

Kuch word hi nikalta h 6 year ka hone wala h

[@sainyam4autism]

Start the speech therapy asap and combine it with audiovisual learnings immediately Pooja..we still have time left for speech development. What is the assesment result, degree of autism ?

[@pallavisharma6663]

If possible consult a good homeopathic doctor where you live, some homeopathic medicines such as Causticam 200, Natrum Mur 30x make the child social n stimulate speech.

[@goldythakur4635]

Mam...sanyam ko bhi videos main.... involve Kiya kro....

[@sainyam4autism]

Sure. Sainyam is there in few of our videos. However, He is right now busy with his 10th class exams...will include him more in videos in coming times.

[@goldythakur4635]

@@sainyam4autism thanks...ji

[@goldythakur4635]

Becoz sanyam ko dekh kr hme bhut motivation milta h....ji

[@rashmi99648]

Madam know your 2 kids also autism ?

[@sainyam4autism]

Ma'am- By grace of God our second child is absolutely normal.

[@rashmi99648]

@@sainyam4autism thanku madam my 2nd baby also normal 1 St baby having mild dealy that's 1 baby check genetic test same when consive 3 months pregnant that time Dr told 2 nd baby check check it's normal no genetic problem continue pregnancy

[@JamesandHarry]

@@rashmi99648 is that a specific test? Cause I don’t remember been tested for autism when I was pregnant in 2015

[@poojashukla5985]

Sir mere bete ki speech pr mai kise work karu

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Pooja, speech therapy will help and saath main aap audio visual learning shuru karo. It multiplies the results of speech therapy. Visit www.learning2life.com and get start your child's learning asap, without wasting any day.

[@tamii2260]

Kia second bache ko autisam tha?

[@sainyam4autism]

Hi Tami, no the second child is not on ASD

[@tamii2260]

@sainyam4autism mashallah. Pray for me. I am also planning for second child My first child son autisam. But now he is mashallah recoverd and improved.

[@sainyam4autism]

@@tamii2260 good luck 🌸 Best wishes

[@parthametay]

Maff karna, mujhe ek baat samajh nehi aya aaplogo ka dono bachhe autistic hai ya ek

[@sainyam4autism]

Koi baat nahin, Only Sainyam got diagnosed, Ansh is neurotypical.