Should You Meet Women in Bars and Clubs?

www.thesocialge... | Bars and clubs are great for some guys to meet women, but can be a complete nightmare for others. Do you know which type you are?
Bars and clubs... that's where all the "hot" women are, right?
Wrong. The women you see in bars and clubs are the same women you see when you're out in public going about your day. You may just not be integrating your lifestyle fully enough to see it.
It's Friday night, 11pm, you're done with your workweek and you've made the hot club in town. You're at a time and place where a lot of women (and men) gather to show themselves off, party down, and make sure they're lookin' good.
For some of us, this environment can be great. For others, feeling pressured to achieve social success, being confused about how to make small talk, and striving to appear "more confident than that other guy" all become barriers that prevent us from meeting great women, even if there are a ton of women right in front of you to choose from.
If you're serious about meeting someone--whether for a real connection or just a hookup--sometimes bars and clubs are just not a good fit your lifestyle. And there's nothing wrong with that: more than anything else, creating a great lifestyle will lead you to where you TRULY want to be.
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[@blackrack2008]

That feel when you're in the middle between introvert and extrovert and fit everywhere but not really anywhere.

[@Rex1987]

this is just such a resonable way of looking at being social - i really like it. And the last thing you mentioned is something which i often think about when i am out partying. The others are also thinking about how they look to others - just as i am.

[@JokingAbraham]

Very well put. Stressing to perform is not healthy at all.

[@einarsigurdsson3701]

I love how different you are compared to these pick up artists.

[@mcawesome4150]

well, maybe because he is not a pua

[@GoldJacketLuke]

Great vid. I really like the driving shot :)

[@shogogarcia]

Good cameraman

[@wladimirhuber267]

very interesting video. it´s absolutely right and actually I personally made the experience that it is much easier and more fun to meet women in other places, like a salsa course, a organized meetup or in a park. anyway, great video.

[@shogogarcia]

Wladimir Huber Thanks for sharing. I agree--there's nothing wrong with enjoying bars, but much more important I think is to take care of ourselves, appreciate ourselves, and lead a balanced lifestyle that we can be proud of. What else is more attractive than that?

[@Scarletjazhandsome]

Haven't really thought of it like that. Interesting video. Makes me think where I go wrong.

[@lowtech5530]

Best girlfriend I ever had I met in a bar 30 years ago and we're still friends today. I should've married her an I regret I didn't. The girl I did marry I met at a church function. She was unfaithful and is now on her 7th marriage. I was her 2nd. Location doesn't mean shit. I have more respect for a hooker than I do my ex.

[@Zachpoteet380]

Great point, although in my experience as an introvert (mostly), and better looking than most of the guys (even players) in most of the bars/clubs I've been too, bars and clubs I've had basically the worst luck with women other than online, oh, and church never worked (I grew up catholic), church and work are the only non online places worse than a bar/club to meet women, even for casual sex, and even during times where I was not being a shy guy or an introvert...and I don't care what church it is, basically all the girls are hoes every day but Sunday, "well, at least there's confession!" Hell, the GYM is better, and so are coffee shops

[@tearoftaste4183]

I thing I noticed in bars and I'm not sure about other parts of the country but here in Florida men out number women 10 to 1 in bars and night clubs. He's right meet women anywhere and everywhere except bars.

[@nickmanning4prez]

Great perspective

[@ArmorKingEmir]

can meet women everywhere except for clubs, even tho I am a DJ. hate clubs but love music

[@MegaLochgelly]

All the best looking women are at the tram; train; bus station etc...But keep your eyes on the road Shogo.

[@BrynLFilms]

It's like this video was made specifically for me...

[@NoFapKing]

Oh hi mawk

[@j.d.2896]

Sounds like common sense to me.

[@pfzht]

No.